Selected quad for the lemma: duty_n

Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
duty_n	husband_n	subjection_n	wife_n	4,236	5	8.3965	4	true

Text snippets containing the quad

ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A17419	The light of faith: and, way of holinesse Shewing what to belieue, and for what to striue together, earnestly contend, and suffer for in this contending age. And how to liue in all estates, conditions, and degrees of relation, according to this faith. In both, deliuering (as neere as might be, in the life of Scripture phrase:) only things necessary, as we meane to be saued, and auoiding vtterly things arbitrary, that distract, rather then direct a Christian. Collected out of holy Scripture by an vnworthy labourer in Gods vineyard, Richard Bifield pastor in Long-Ditton, in Surrey.	Byfield, Richard, 1598?-1664.	1630 (1630)	STC 4239; ESTC S107158	133,233	536

cor._n 7._o 3._o 4._o 5._o 3_o the_o particular_a duty_n particular_a 3_o particular_a and_o so_o the_o duty_n of_o the_o husband_n first_o be_v these_o 1_o cohabitation_n dwell_v duty_n the_o husband_n duty_n with_o she_o as_o a_o man_n of_o knowledge_n dwell_v with_o she_o not_o dwell_v with_o drunkard_n whore_n spendthrift_n gamester_n not_o spend_v thy_o day_n in_o tipple_a house_n and_o tavern_n no_o nor_o ever_o or_o most_v a_o end_n in_o thy_o neighbour_n house_n and_o dwell_v with_o she_o as_o a_o man_n of_o knowledge_n for_o prudence_n beseem_v he_o to_o who_o dominion_n and_o rule_n be_v give_v neither_o be_v it_o permit_v to_o they_o but_o on_o condition_n that_o they_o wise_o govern_v they_o for_o see_v thou_o a_o man_n not_o able_a to_o rule_v himself_o how_o shall_v he_o rule_v his_o wife_n where_o shall_v knowledge_n reside_v but_o in_o the_o head_n else_o may_v we_o say_v with_o the_o wolf_n in_o the_o fable_n brain_n fable_n o_o what_o a_o head_n without_o brain_n 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the_o family_n and_o her_o relation_n to_o thou_o respect_v she_o as_o the_o lord_n give_v she_o to_o be_v thy_o help_n thy_o like_a thy_o companion_n in_o life_n 1_o cor._n 11._o 7._o 2_o by_o cover_v her_o infirmity_n in_o give_v soft_a answer_n in_o her_o waiwardnesse_n and_o show_v she_o her_o fault_n afterward_o forbear_v to_o speak_v to_o her_o disgrace_n before_o other_o 3_o by_o please_v she_o in_o what_o ever_o may_v be_v to_o her_o edification_n i_o cor._n 7._o 33._o 4_o by_o suffer_v thyself_o to_o be_v entreat_v admonish_v and_o advise_v by_o she_o in_o case_n reasonable_a and_o good_a gen._n 21._o 12._o who_o advice_n will_v be_v good_a for_o god_n have_v frame_v her_o fearful_a and_o thou_o stout_a and_o resolute_a her_o suspect_v all_o danger_n and_o thou_o look_v to_o thy_o attempt_n not_o to_o light_v objection_n which_o sometime_o not_o regard_v be_v the_o great_a over_o throw_n to_o weighty_a undertake_n 5_o by_o entrust_v she_o with_o such_o thing_n as_o be_v meet_v and_o her_o gift_n be_v fit_a for_o in_o the_o family_n and_o in_o thy_o estate_n not_o commit_v they_o to_o servant_n or_o other_o before_o she_o pro._n 31._o 11._o 6_o by_o yield_v she_o free_o all_o due_a praise_n pro._n 31._o 28._o 29._o and_o that_o both_o these_o may_v be_v perform_v hear_v a_o three_o duty_n 3_o love_n the_o character_n of_o a_o good_a husband_n chief_o require_v wherein_o the_o man_n be_v ready_a soon_a to_o err_v that_o which_o make_v his_o authority_n sweet_a and_o amiable_a and_o best_a frame_v the_o wife_n to_o a_o cheerful_a yield_v of_o her_o reverend_a subjection_n to_o her_o husband_n herein_o fashion_n thy_o heart_n to_o all_o affectionatenesse_n err_v thou_o in_o her_o love_n continual_o say_v solomon_n pro._n 5._o 19_o rejoice_v with_o she_o all_o the_o day_n of_o thy_o vain_a life_n eccles_n 9_o 9_o be_v not_o bitter_a to_o she_o in_o word_n quarrellous_a testy_a passionate_a reproachful_a for_o her_o infirmity_n or_o deformity_n nor_o in_o deed_n in_o discourteous_a usage_n unjust_a restraint_n and_o blow_n col._n 3._o 19_o but_o nourish_v and_o cherish_v she_o as_o thy_o own_o flesh_n and_o tender_v her_o soul_n good_a by_o counsel_n and_o comfort_n 4_o providence_n in_o two_o thing_n uxoria_fw-la 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d uxoria_fw-la 1_o in_o marital_a protection_n ruth_n 3._o 9_o 2_o in_o procure_v necessary_n for_o the_o wi●e_n esa_n 28._o 3._o according_a to_o ability_n so_o labour_v in_o his_o call_n that_o he_o may_v provide_v for_o she_o while_o he_o live_v and_o leave_v she_o somewhat_o when_o he_o die_v 5_o piety_n go_v before_o she_o in_o all_o holiness_n and_o godliness_n chief_o in_o prayer_n in_o the_o family_n 1_o tim._n 2._o 8._o by_o which_o our_o meat_n and_o labour_n be_v sanctify_v and_o without_o which_o the_o family_n be_v in_o danger_n of_o god_n high_a displeasure_n jer._n 10._o 25._o and_o he_o himself_o bear_v the_o brand_n of_o a_o profane_a a_o theist_n psal_n 14._o 4._o of_o the_o let_v and_o hindrance_n of_o this_o duty_n he_o must_v especial_o beware_v 1_o pet._n 3._o 7._o in_o family_n instruction_n gen._n 18._o 19_o psal_n 78._o 2._o 3._o 4._o deut._n 66._o yet_o not_o intrude_a into_o the_o minister_n office_n as_o take_v upon_o he_o to_o expound_v further_o than_o the_o recital_n of_o what_o he_o have_v learn_v and_o the_o application_n of_o plain_a text_n to_o the_o necessity_n of_o the_o family_n the_o place_n before_o allege_v tell_v wherein_o this_o duty_n lie_v these_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o the_o husband_n more_o especial_o the_o duty_n of_o the_o wife_n be_v these_o 1_o obedience_n in_o all_o thing_n subjection_n to_o her_o own_o husband_n i_o duty_n the_o wife_n duty_n pet._n 3._o 1._o tit._n 2._o 5._o ephe._n 5._o 22._o this_o be_v the_o character_n of_o a_o good_a wife_n to_o be_v wise_a prudent_a chaste_a rich_a beautiful_a love_a yea_o religious_a without_o obedience_n be_v not_o please_v to_o god_n nor_o agreeable_a to_o nature_n this_o subjection_n be_v due_a to_o he_o be_v he_o poor_a or_o rich_a if_o she_o be_v a_o lady_n &_o he_o a_o husbandman_n vashti_n the_o empress_n be_v not_o exempt_v in_o this_o point_n hest_n 1._o 12._o 20._o she_o must_v submit_v to_o his_o direction_n 2_o king_n 4._o 22._o ephes_n 5_o 23._o and_o to_o his_o restraint_n about_o diet_n apparel_n and_o company_n gen._n 3._o 19_o so_o subject_a that_o she_o desire_v to_o please_v he_o 1_o cor._n 7._o 34._o 2_o honour_n as_o to_o her_o superior_a and_o head_n 1_o cor._n 11._o 3._o in_o give_v reverend_a title_n 1_o pet._n 3._o 6._o in_o be_v his_o image_n or_o his_o glory_n bear_v forth_o the_o amiable_a and_o praiseworthy_a quality_n that_o be_v in_o he_o and_o bear_v herself_o according_a to_o his_o degree_n and_o place_n at_o home_n &_o abroad_o 1_o cor._n 11._o 7._o and_o represent_v his_o authority_n in_o the_o family_n in_o his_o absence_n in_o live_v without_o suspicion_n make_v the_o best_a construction_n of_o his_o doubtful_a action_n michal_n offend_v in_o misinter_n plete_v david_n dance_v before_o the_o ark_n in_o leave_v to_o he_o the_o secret_n of_o his_o public_a employment_n keep_v she_o to_o her_o own_o measure_n for_o domestic_a affair_n especial_o if_o he_o be_v a_o magistrate_n or_o minister_n 3_o fear_n let_v the_o wife_n see_v that_o she_o fear_v her_o husband_n ephes_n 5._o ult._n this_o be_v show_v by_o reverend_a behaviour_n before_o he_o not_o rude_a bold_a and_o audacious_a by_o avoid_v what_o may_v provoke_v he_o to_o anger_n dislike_n and_o grief_n by_o give_v soft_a answer_n when_o he_o be_v angry_a pro._n 15._o 1._o by_o forbear_v brawl_a passion_n or_o frowardness_n even_o with_o other_o in_o his_o sight_n by_o make_v he_o her_o cover_v when_o they_o be_v abroad_o many_o woman_n be_v intemperate_a and_o wilful_a pro._n 27._o 15._o 16._o and_o like_a oil_n in_o the_o fist_n 4_o a_o chaste_a conversation_n couple_v with_o the_o former_a fear_n 2_o pet._n 3._o 1._o rare_a be_v the_o severity_n of_o ancient_a time_n when_o a_o heathen_a can_v by_o isaac_n sport_v with_o rebecca_n 9_o gen._n 26._o 8._o 9_o know_v they_o be_v marry_v 5_o modesty_n and_o sobriety_n in_o 199._o quae_fw-la ad_fw-la inanem_fw-la pompam_fw-la vel_fw-la ad_fw-la i●lecebram_fw-la fermè_fw-la haberi_fw-la solent_fw-la meritò_fw-la reprehensa_fw-la sunt_fw-la aug._n tom._n 2_o ep._n 199._o apparel_n 1_o pet._n 3._o 2._o 1_o tim._n 2._o 9_o and_o here_o whatever_o make_v for_o vain_a pomp_n or_o for_o enticement_n be_v worthy_o reproove_v 6_o a_o meek_a and_o quiet_a spirit_n 1_o pet._n 3._o 7_o that_o she_o be_v a_o help_n to_o he_o she_o must_v do_v he_o good_a and_o not_o evil_a all_o the_o day_n of_o her_o life_n pro._n 31._o 12._o gen._n 2._o 18._o and_o so_o 1_o

lip_n proceed_v from_o the_o unfeigned_a love_n thou_o bear_v to_o pureness_n of_o heart_n these_o be_v the_o delight_n of_o king_n these_o draw_v the_o love_n of_o king_n pro._n 16._o 13._o &_o 22._o 11._o 3_o diligence_n in_o thy_o business_n will_v make_v room_n for_o thou_o in_o the_o king_n presence_n pro._n 22._o 29._o 4_o if_o thou_o have_v by_o ignorance_n or_o against_o thy_o will_n offend_v thy_o lord_n and_o master_n rush_v not_o heady_o to_o what_o may_v enrage_v he_o lest_o thou_o sin_v against_o thy_o own_o soul_n but_o by_o long_a forbearance_n and_o soft_a answer_n show_v thy_o patience_n this_o have_v eloquence_n to_o persuade_v and_o a_o secret_a force_n to_o break_v the_o bone_n pro._n 20._o 2._o &_o 25._o 15._o beware_v how_o thou_o stand_v in_o a_o evil_a thing_n for_o he_o do_v whatsoever_o please_v he_o eccles_n 8._o 3._o 5_o improve_v thy_o power_n though_o to_o hazard_v of_o place_n and_o life_n if_o the_o matter_n so_o require_v for_o the_o good_a of_o god_n church_n and_o religion_n after_o the_o famous_a example_n of_o hoster_n chap._n 4._o 16._o and_o nehemiah_n chap._n 1._o 11._o &_o 2._o 1._o 2._o 3_o 4._o 5._o ambassador_n the_o ambassador_n if_o thou_o be_v a_o ambassador_n there_o be_v requisite_a 1_o wisdom_n and_o prudence_n to_o know_v thy_o place_n and_o employment_n and_o how_o to_o apply_v it_o to_o the_o occasion_n and_o this_o wisdom_n guide_v by_o piety_n he_o that_o send_v a_o message_n by_o the_o hand_n of_o a_o fool_n cut_v off_o the_o foot_n and_z drinketh_z damage_n pro._n 26_o 6._o eleazar_n abraham_n servant_n may_v be_v the_o pattern_n for_o they_o in_o this_o point_n and_o those_o that_o follow_v gen._n 24._o 2_o faithfulness_n in_o the_o business_n commit_v to_o he_o it_o be_v health_n &_o refresh_v to_o the_o soul_n of_o he_o that_o send_v he_o pro._n 25._o 13._o &_o 13_o 17._o 3_o expedition_z and_o speed_n when_o the_o desire_n come_v it_o be_v a_o tree_n of_o life_n but_o hope_v defer_v make_v the_o heart_n sick_a pro._n 13._o 12_o as_o vinegar_n to_o the_o tooth_n and_o as_o smoke_v to_o the_o eye_n so_o be_v the_o sluggard_n to_o they_o that_o send_v he_o pro._n 10._o 26._o i●_n a_o counsellor_n of_o state_n these_o state_n the_o councelcellor_n of_o state_n special_a direction_n 1_o let_v piety_n be_v at_o the_o right_a hand_n of_o policy_n never_o give_v advice_n to_o strengthen_v the_o hand_n of_o thy_o sovereign_n by_o enterprize_v any_o evil_a action_n as_o do_v curse_v achitophel_n 2_o sam._n 16._o 21._o 22._o neither_o advise_v thou_o against_o the_o public_a good_a of_o the_o people_n as_o if_o a_o king_n be_v not_o absolute_a that_o tender_v their_o grievance_n as_o do_v rehoboam_n greene-headed_n statesman_n 2_o king_n 12._o 10._o 11._o 2_o see_v thou_o give_v a_o right_a answer_n and_o seasonable_a every_o one_o than_o will_v kiss_v thy_o lip_n and_o thy_o word_n fit_o speak_v will_v be_v like_o apple_n of_o gold_n with_o picture_n of_o silver_n pro._n 24._o 26._o &_o 25._o 11._o 3_o be_v acquaint_v well_o with_o the_o history_n of_o the_o old_a testament_n and_o the_o menace_n of_o the_o prophet_n which_o threaten_v nationall_n plague●_n against_o nationall_n sin_n that_o those_o sin_n and_o their_o spreading_n may_v be_v wise_o discern_v and_o prevent_v and_o account_v it_o the_o chief_a part_n of_o thy_o wisdom_n not_o proud_o or_o scornful_o to_o observe_v those_o threaten_n write_v in_o scripture_n or_o press_v by_o god_n minister_n solomon_n say_v scornful_a man_n bring_v a_o city_n into_o a_o snare_n but_o wise_a man_n turn_v away_o wrath_n pro._n 29._o 8._o sure_o it_o be_v the_o lord_n never_o bring_v a_o sweep_a judgement_n on_o a_o people_n that_o once_o he_o have_v take_v for_o his_o own_o by_o covenant_n but_o the_o same_o may_v have_v be_v foresee_v in_o the_o warring_n of_o conscionable_a minister_n that_o ambitious_o seek_v not_o themselves_o if_o their_o admonition_n have_v be_v observe_v 4_o seek_v the_o good_a of_o the_o oppressed_a 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the_o family_n wife_n the_o duty_n of_o the_o husband_n and_o wife_n in_o order_n of_o nature_n and_o in_o the_o erection_n of_o a_o family_n be_v the_o husband_n and_o wife_n where_o duty_n of_o sour_a sort_n concur_v to_o their_o well-being_n fundamental_a officia_fw-la fundamentalia_fw-la mu●ua_fw-la particularia_fw-la resultantia_n which_o be_v 1_o fundamental_a fundamental_a mutual_a in_o which_o both_o stand_v equal_o charge_v particular_a which_o both_o owe_v a_o part_n such_o as_o arise_v of_o these_o 1_o the_o fundamental_a duty_n concern_v their_o holy_a come_n together_o which_o ought_v primary_o to_o be_v heed_v for_o match_v together_o according_a to_o god_n ordinance_n we_o may_v depend_v upon_o he_o for_o a_o blessing_n on_o his_o own_o ordinance_n whereas_o a_o godless_a entrance_n bring_v necesary_o unless_o god_n by_o a_o high_a hand_n direct_v it_o misery_n and_o m●n●fold_a inconvenience_n together_o with_o the_o wrath_n of_o god_n what_o then_o be_v these_o duty_n 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