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A70591 The doctrine and discipline of divorce restor'd to the good of both sexes from the bondage of canon law and other mistakes to Christian freedom, guided by the rule of charity : wherein also many places of Scripture have recover'd their long-lost meaning : seasonable to be now thought on in the reformation intended. Milton, John, 1608-1674. 1643 (1643) Wing M2108; ESTC R12932 44,446 52

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