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A64139 XXV sermons preached at Golden-Grove being for the vvinter half-year, beginning on Advent-Sunday, untill Whit-Sunday / by Jeremy Taylor ...; Sermons. Selections Taylor, Jeremy, 1613-1667. 1653 (1653) Wing T408; ESTC R17859 330,119 342

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not_o sinner_n but_o if_o any_o man_n be_v a_o worshipper_n of_o god_n and_o do_v his_o will_n he_o he_o hear_v sermon_n 7._o 8._o 9_o of_o godly_a fear_n etc._n etc._n fol._n 83._o 95._o 114._o heb._n 12._o part_n of_o the_o 28_o &_o 29_o vers_fw-la let_v we_o have_v grace_n whereby_o we_o may_v serve_v god_n with_o reverence_n and_o godly_a fear_n for_o our_o god_n be_v a_o consume_a fire_n sermon_n 10._o 11._o the_o flesh_n and_o the_o spirit_n fol._n 125._o 139._o matt._n 26._o 41._o latter_a part_n the_o spirit_n indeed_o be_v willing_a but_o the_o flesh_n be_v weak_a sermon_n 12._o 13._o 14._o of_o lukewarmnesse_n and_o zeal_n or_o spiritual_a terror_n fol._n 152._o 164._o 179._o jer._n 48._o 10._o first_o part_n curse_a be_v he_o that_o do_v the_o work_n of_o the_o lord_n deceitful_o sermon_n 15._o 16._o the_o house_n of_o feast_v or_o the_o epicure_n measure_n fol._n 191._o 204._o 1_o cor._n 15._o 32._o last_o part_n let_v we_o eat_v and_o drink_v for_o to_o morrow_n we_o die_v sermon_n 17._o 18._o the_o marriage_n ring_n or_o the_o mysteriousnesse_n and_o duty_n of_o marriage_n fol._n 219._o 232._o ephes._n 5._o 32_o 33._o this_o be_v a_o great_a mystery_n but_o i_o speak_v concern_v christ_n and_o the_o church_n nevertheless_o let_v every_o one_o of_o you_o in_o particular_a so_o love_v his_o wife_n even_o as_o himself_o and_o the_o wife_n see_v that_o she_o reverence_v her_o husband_n sermon_n 19_o 20._o 21._o apple_n of_o sodom_n or_o the_o fruit_n of_o sin_n fol._n 245._o 260._o 273._o rom._n 6._o 21._o what_o fruit_n have_v you_o then_o in_o those_o thing_n whereof_o you_o be_v now_o ashamed_a for_o the_o end_n of_o those_o thing_n be_v death_n sermon_n 22._o 23._o 24._o 25._o the_o good_a and_o evil_a tongue_n of_o slander_n and_o flattery_n the_o duty_n of_o the_o tongue_n fol._n 286._o 298._o 311._o 323._o ephes._n 4._o 25._o let_v no_o corrupt_a communication_n proceed_v out_o of_o your_o mouth_n but_o that_o which_o be_v good_a to_o the_o use_n 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manner_n how_o they_o be_v to_o be_v treat_v fol._n 197._o 210._o judas_n epist._n ver_fw-la 22_o 23._o and_o of_o some_o have_v compassion_n make_v a_o difference_n *_o and_o other_o save_v with_o fear_n pull_v they_o out_o of_o the_o fire_n sermon_n 18_o 19_o the_o foolish_a exchange_n fol._n 224._o 237._o matth._n 16._o ver_fw-la 26._o for_o what_o be_v a_o man_n profit_v if_o he_o shall_v gain_v the_o whole_a world_n and_o lose_v his_o own_o soul_n or_o what_o shall_v a_o man_n give_v in_o exchange_n for_o his_o soul_n sermon_n 20_o 21_o 22._o the_o serpent_n and_o the_o dove_n or_o a_o discourse_n of_o christian_a prudence_n fol._n 251._o 263._o 274._o matth._n 10._o latter_a part_n of_o ver_fw-la 16._o be_v you_o therefore_o wise_a as_o serpent_n and_o harmless_a as_o dove_n sermon_n 23_o 24._o of_o christian_a simplicity_n 289._o 301._o matth_n 10._o latter_a part_n of_o verse_n 16._o and_o harmless_a as_o dove_n sermon_n 25_o 26_o 27._o the_o miracle_n of_o the_o divine_a 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too_o for_o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d it_o be_v a_o sad_a calamity_n for_o a_o woman_n to_o be_v join_v to_o a_o fool_n or_o a_o weak_a person_n it_o be_v like_o a_o guard_n of_o goose_n to_o keep_v the_o capitol_n or_o as_o if_o a_o flock_n of_o sheep_n shall_v read_v grave_a lecture_n to_o their_o shepherd_n and_o give_v he_o order_n where_o he_o shall_v conduct_v they_o to_o pasture_n o_o verè_fw-la phyrgiae_fw-la neque_fw-la enim_fw-la phryges_n it_o be_v a_o curse_n that_o god_n thereatn_v sin_v person_n devoratum_n est_fw-la robur_fw-la eorum_fw-la facti_fw-la sunt_fw-la quasi_fw-la mulieres_fw-la 4._o effeminati_fw-la dominabuntur_fw-la eye_n to_o be_v rule_v by_o weak_a people_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d to_o have_v a_o fool_n to_o one_o master_n be_v the_o fate_n of_o miserable_a and_o unblessed_a people_n and_o the_o wife_n can_v be_v no_o way_n happy_a unless_o she_o be_v govern_v by_o a_o prudent_a lord_n who_o command_n be_v sober_a counsel_n who_o authority_n be_v paternal_a who_o order_n be_v provision_n and_o who_o sentence_n be_v charity_n but_o now_o concern_v the_o measure_n and_o limit_n of_o this_o obedience_n we_o can_v best_o take_v account_n from_o scripture_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d say_v the_o apostle_n in_o all_o thing_n ut_fw-la domino_fw-la as_o unto_o the_o lord_n and_o that_o be_v large_a enough_o 24._o as_o unto_o a_o lord_n ut_fw-la ancilla_fw-la domino_fw-la so_o st._n hierom_n understand_v it_o who_o neither_o be_v a_o friend_n to_o the_o sex_n nor_o to_o marriage_n but_o his_o mistake_n be_v soon_o confute_v by_o the_o text_n it_o be_v not_o ut_fw-la dominis_n be_v subject_a to_o your_o husband_n as_o unto_o lord_n but_o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d that_o be_v in_o all_o religion_n in_o reverence_n and_o in_o love_n in_o duty_n and_o
zeal_n in_o faith_n and_o knowledge_n or_o else_o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d may_v signify_v wife_n be_v so_o subject_a to_o your_o husband_n but_o yet_o so_o that_o at_o the_o same_o time_n you_o be_v subject_a to_o the_o lord_n for_o that_o be_v the_o measure_n of_o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d in_o all_o thing_n and_o it_o be_v more_o plain_a in_o the_o parallel_a place_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d as_o it_o be_v fit_a in_o the_o lord_n religion_n 18._o must_v be_v the_o measure_n of_o your_o obedience_n and_o subjection_n intra_fw-la limit_n disciplinae_fw-la so_o tertullian_n express_v it_o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 7._o so_o clemens_n alex._n in_o all_o thing_n let_v the_o wise_a be_v subject_a to_o the_o husband_n so_o as_o to_o do_v nothing_o against_o his_o will_n those_o only_a thing_n except_v in_o which_o he_o be_v impious_a or_o refractory_a in_o thing_n pertain_v to_o wisdom_n and_o piety_n but_o in_o this_o also_o there_o be_v some_o peculiar_a caution_n for_o 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complain_v if_o she_o be_v no_o better_o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d his_o precept_n and_o wise_a counsel_n can_v draw_v she_o off_o from_o vanity_n and_o as_o he_o say_v of_o geometry_n that_o if_o she_o be_v skilled_a in_o that_o she_o will_v not_o easy_o be_v a_o gamester_n or_o a_o dancer_n may_v perfect_o be_v say_v of_o religion_n if_o she_o suffer_v herself_o to_o be_v guide_v by_o his_o counsel_n and_o efform_v by_o his_o religion_n either_o he_o be_v a_o ill_a master_n in_o his_o religion_n or_o he_o may_v secure_v in_o she_o and_o for_o his_o advantage_n a_o excellent_a virtue_n and_o although_o in_o matter_n of_o religion_n the_o husband_n have_v no_o empire_n and_o command_n yet_o if_o there_o be_v a_o place_n leave_v to_o persuade_v and_o entreat_v and_o induce_v by_o argument_n there_o be_v not_o in_o a_o family_n a_o great_a endearment_n of_o affection_n than_o the_o unity_n of_o religion_n and_o ancient_o it_o be_v not_o permit_v to_o a_o woman_n to_o have_v a_o 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warrant_v she_o though_o she_o shall_v be_v mispersuade_v in_o a_o matter_n less_o necessary_a yet_o nothing_o can_v warrant_v she_o in_o her_o separate_a rite_n and_o manner_n of_o worshipping_n but_o a_o invincible_a necessity_n of_o conscience_n and_o a_o curious_a infallible_a truth_n and_o if_o she_o be_v deceive_v alone_o she_o have_v no_o excuse_n if_o with_o he_o she_o have_v much_o pity_n and_o some_o degree_n of_o warranty_n under_o the_o protection_n of_o humility_n and_o duty_n and_o dear_a affection_n and_o she_o will_v find_v that_o it_o be_v part_n of_o her_o privilege_n and_o right_a to_o partake_v of_o the_o mystery_n and_o blessing_n of_o her_o husband_n religion_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d say_v romulus_n a_o woman_n by_o the_o holy_a law_n have_v right_a to_o partake_v of_o her_o husband_n good_n and_o her_o husband_n sacrifice_n and_o holy_a thing_n where_o there_o be_v a_o schism_n in_o one_o bed_n there_o be_v a_o nursery_n of_o temptation_n and_o 6._o love_n be_v persecute_v and_o in_o perpetual_a danger_n to_o be_v destroy_v there_o dwell_v jealousy_n and_o divide_v interest_n and_o differ_v opinion_n and_o continual_a dispute_n and_o we_o can_v love_v they_o so_o well_o who_o we_o believe_v to_o be_v less_o belove_v of_o god_n and_o it_o be_v ill_a unite_n with_o a_o person_n concern_v who_o my_o persuasion_n tell_v i_o that_o he_o be_v like_a to_o live_v in_o hell_n to_o eternal_a age_n 2._o the_o next_o line_n of_o the_o woman_n duty_n be_v compliance_n which_o s._n peter_n call_v the_o hide_a man_n of_o the_o heart_n the_o ornament_n of_o a_o meek_a and_o 4._o a_o quiet_a spirit_n and_o to_o it_o he_o oppose_v the_o outward_a and_o pompous_a ornament_n of_o the_o body_n concern_v which_o as_o there_o can_v be_v no_o particular_a measure_n set_v down_o to_o all_o person_n but_o the_o proposition_n be_v to_o be_v measure_v by_o the_o custom_n of_o wise_a people_n the_o quality_n of_o the_o woman_n and_o the_o desire_n of_o the_o man_n yet_o it_o be_v to_o be_v limit_v by_o christian_a modesty_n and_o the_o usage_n of_o the_o more_o excellent_a and_o severe_a matron_n menander_n in_o the_o comedy_n bring_v in_o a_o man_n turn_v his_o wife_n from_o his_o house_n because_o she_o stain_v her_o hair_n yellow_a which_o be_v then_o the_o beauty_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d a_o wise_a woman_n shall_v not_o paint_v a_o studious_a gallantry_n in_o clothes_n can_v make_v a_o wise_a man_n love_v his_o wife_n the_o better_a 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d say_v the_o comedy_n such_o gaiety_n be_v fit_a for_o tragedy_n but_o not_o for_o the_o use_n of_o life_n decor_fw-la occultus_fw-la &_o tecta_fw-la venustas_fw-la that_o be_v the_o christian_a woman_n fineness_n the_o hide_a man_n of_o the_o heart_n sweetness_n of_o manner_n humble_a comportment_n fair_a interpretation_n of_o all_o address_n ready_a 6._o compliance_n high_a opinion_n of_o he_o and_o mean_v of_o herself_o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d to_o partake_v 1._o secret_o and_o in_o her_o heart_n of_o all_o his_o joy_n and_o sorrow_n to_o believe_v he_o comely_a and_o fair_a though_o the_o sun_n have_v draw_v a_o cypress_n over_o he_o for_o as_o marriage_n be_v not_o to_o be_v contract_v by_o the_o hand_n and_o eye_n but_o 〈◊〉_d with_o reason_n and_o the_o heart_n so_o be_v these_o judgement_n to_o be_v make_v by_o the_o mind_n not_o by_o the_o sight_n and_o diamond_n can_v make_v the_o woman_n virtuous_a nor_o he_o to_o value_v she_o who_o see_v she_o put_v they_o off_o then_o when_o charity_n and_o modesty_n be_v her_o brght_a ornament_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d etc._n etc._n and_o indeed_o those_o husband_n that_o be_v please_v with_o undecent_a gaiety_n of_o their_o wife_n be_v like_o fish_n take_v with_o ointment_n and_o intoxicate_a bait_n apt_a and_o easy_a for_o sport_n and_o mockery_n but_o useless_a for_o food_n and_o when_o circe_n have_v turn_v ulysses_n companion_n into_o hog_n and_o monkey_n by_o pleasure_n and_o the_o enchantment_n of_o her_o bravery_n and_o luxury_n they_o be_v no_o long_o useful_a to_o she_o she_o know_v not_o what_o to_o do_v with_o they_o but_o on_o wise_a ulysses_n she_o be_v continual_o enamour_a indeed_o the_o outward_a ornament_n be_v fit_a to_o take_v fool_n but_o they_o be_v not_o worth_a the_o take_n but_o she_o that_o have_v a_o wise_a husband_n must_v entice_v he_o to_o a_o eternal_a dearness_n by_o the_o vail_n of_o modesty_n and_o the_o grave_a robe_n of_o chastity_n the_o ornament_n of_o meekness_n and_o the_o jewel_n of_o faith_n and_o charity_n she_o must_v have_v no_o fucus_n but_o blush_n her_o brightness_n must_v be_v purity_n and_o she_o must_v shine_v round_o about_o with_o sweetness_n and_o friendship_n and_o she_o