Selected quad for the lemma: duty_n

Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
duty_n	husband_n	particular_a	wife_n	3,246	5	7.4684	4	true

Text snippets containing the quad

ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A51047	Christian advice both to old and young, rich and poor which may serve as a directory at hand, ready to direct all persons almost in every state and condition. Under XXVII general useful heads.	Mocket, Thomas, 1602-1670?; Cross, Thomas, fl. 1632-1682, engraver.	1671 (1671)	Wing M2303A; ESTC R217853	68,834	211

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duty_n general_o neglect_v by_o most_o husband_n &_o wife_n &_o sometime_o much_o hinder_v by_o the_o other_o yoke-fellow_n but_o very_o sad_a will_v be_v the_o account_n such_o hinderer_n and_o neglecter_n must_v make_v ere_o long_o to_o god_n for_o neglect_v much_o more_o for_o hinder_v their_o yoke-fellow_n salvation_n neglect_v their_o own_o duty_n and_o do_v the_o devil_n work_n for_o so_o it_o be_v see_v act._n 13.9_o 10_o 11._o in_o discourage_v or_o hinder_v any_o that_o do_v mind_n and_o seek_v the_o good_a of_o their_o own_o or_o other_o soul_n the_o faithful_a discharge_n of_o these_o common_a duty_n be_v the_o way_n to_o have_v marriage_n a_o merry_a age_n a_o blessing_n indeed_o and_o a_o great_a comfort_n and_o help_v one_o to_o another_o the_o neglect_n bring_v many_o a_o cross_n trouble_n and_o often_o a_o curse_n and_o prove_v the_o most_o grievous_a yoke_n each_o to_o other_o which_o they_o can_v be_v free_v from_o as_o long_o as_o they_o live_v the_o husband_n particular_a duty_n be_v these_o and_o such_o like_a 1._o to_o dwell_v with_o his_o wife_n according_a to_o knowledge_n as_o be_v command_v 1_o pet._n 3.7_o that_o be_v to_o be_v able_a and_o ready_a to_o govern_v she_o wise_o go_v before_o she_o instruct_v inform_v and_o counsel_v she_o as_o he_o be_v her_o head_n and_o governor_n it_o be_v to_o be_v lament_v that_o many_o marry_v before_o they_o know_v or_o can_v govern_v themselves_o and_o many_o husband_n be_v much_o more_o fit_a to_o be_v teach_v and_o govern_v themselves_o than_o to_o govern_v other_o such_o must_v bewail_v their_o ignorance_n and_o give_v all_o diligence_n to_o be_v enable_v to_o discharge_v their_o duty_n and_o then_o to_o do_v it_o in_o love_n not_o rigorous_o and_o imperious_o sic_fw-la volo_fw-la ste_v jubeo_fw-la i_o will_v and_o command_v you_o such_o language_n rather_o become_v absolute_a lord_n over_o slave_n not_o husband_n to_o their_o wife_n col._n 3_o 19_o husband_n love_v your_o wife_n and_o be_v 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conscience_n or_o that_o be_v above_o her_o ability_n or_o unfit_a and_o unseemly_a for_o she_o to_o do_v unless_o in_o case_n of_o necessity_n nor_o forbid_v she_o any_o thing_n but_o what_o be_v evil_a and_o unlawful_a unseemly_a or_o that_o will_v be_v of_o ill_a consequence_n or_o have_v some_o evil_a effect_n if_o her_o conscience_n be_v erroneous_a he_o must_v meek_o inform_v she_o of_o her_o error_n out_o of_o the_o word_n of_o god_n 1_o pet._n 3.7_o 4._o to_o bear_v with_o her_o infirmity_n as_o the_o weak_a vessel_n 1._o pet._n 3.7_o 5._o to_o provide_v for_o she_o all_o thing_n needful_a and_o convenient_a to_o be_v liberal_a to_o she_o to_o maintain_v she_o according_a to_o his_o degree_n and_o ability_n ready_o and_o cheerful_o not_o niggardly_o penurious_o and_o grutch_o but_o liberal_o that_o she_o may_v if_o need_v require_v show_v particular_a favour_n to_o win_v and_o encourage_v other_o under_o and_o about_o she_o she_o be_v his_o second_o self_n and_o her_o credit_n and_o comfort_n be_v he_o 6._o to_o honour_v she_o by_o give_v all_o due_a respect_n to_o she_o especial_o before_o other_o child_n and_o servant_n 1_o pet._n 3.7_o 7._o to_o allow_v her_o liberty_n be_v discreet_a and_o careful_a to_o dispose_v of_o good_n and_o order_n matter_n of_o the_o house_n as_o she_o think_v meet_v as_o elkanah_n do_v to_o hannah_n 1_o sam._n 1.23_o for_o wife_n be_v command_v to_o guide_v the_o house_n 1_o tim._n 5.14_o whereby_o it_o appear_v that_o the_o business_n of_o the_o house_n do_v belong_v and_o be_v most_o proper_a to_o the_o wife_n as_o to_o order_v the_o keep_n trim_v of_o the_o house_n dispose_v the_o provision_n of_o the_o family_n govern_v the_o young_a child_n and_o maidservant_n in_o which_o respect_n she_o be_v call_v the_o housewife_n mater-familias_a 8._o in_o case_n there_o be_v just_a cause_n of_o blame_n and_o reproof_n in_o a_o wife_n which_o may_v not_o without_o neglect_n of_o love_n care_n and_o good_a conscience_n be_v whole_o wink_v at_o and_o pass_v by_o in_o silence_n then_o to_o reprove_v she_o private_o alone_o in_o love_n and_o meekness_n convince_a she_o by_o scripture_n and_o good_a reason_n that_o so_o she_o may_v see_v her_o error_n and_o his_o love_n and_o tender_a respect_n to_o she_o gal._n 6.1_o 9_o to_o countenance_n and_o encourage_v she_o in_o all_o well-doing_n commend_v and_o praise_v she_o as_o the_o husband_n of_o the_o good_a wife_n in_o the_o proverb_n trust_v in_o she_o prov._n 31.11_o 28._o but_o above_o all_o to_o encourage_v she_o and_o be_v a_o helper_n to_o she_o for_o her_o soul_n good_a pray_v daily_o with_o she_o and_o for_o she_o mind_v she_o of_o the_o concern_v of_o her_o soul_n instruct_v counsel_v comfort_v and_o allow_v her_o sufficient_a and_o fit_a time_n for_o private_a and_o public_a duty_n of_o religion_n it_o be_v a_o wicked_a thing_n to_o discourage_v and_o hinder_v honest_a heart_n that_o desire_v to_o serve_v god_n true_o and_o faithful_o when_o reason_n and_o religion_n call_v on_o they_o the_o wife_n particular_a duty_n be_v these_o 1._o to_o be_v subject_a to_o her_o husband_n in_o all_o thing_n lawful_a and_o honest_a so_o far_o as_o may_v stand_v with_o her_o obedience_n to_o god_n and_o the_o peace_n of_o a_o good_a conscience_n ephes_n 5.22_o 23_o 24._o wife_n submit_v yourselves_o to_o your_o own_o husband_n as_o to_o the_o lord_n for_o the_o husband_n be_v head_n of_o the_o wife_n as_o christ_n be_v head_n of_o the_o church_n and_o saviour_n of_o the_o body_n there_o be_v a_o double_a reason_n to_o move_v the_o wife_n so_o to_o do_v the_o authority_n her_o husband_n have_v over_o she_o as_o her_o head_n &_o the_o con_v for_o it_o she_o have_v by_o he_o as_o a_o saviour_n of_o the_o body_n to_o protect_v and_o defend_v she_o and_o provide_v all_o thing_n needful_a for_o she_o and_o the_o manner_n of_o her_o subjection_n and_o obedience_n to_o he_o be_v lay_v down_o in_o the_o word_n as_o to_o the_o lord_n that_o be_v willing_o ready_o cheerful_o to_o obey_v he_o by_o do_v what_o he_o require_v and_o forbear_v what_o he_o forbid_v come_v at_o his_o call_n etc._n etc._n so_o far_o as_o he_o require_v nothing_o contrary_a to_o the_o will_n of_o god_n see_v 1_o sam._n 20.31_o etc._n etc._n 2._o to_o reverence_v her_o husband_n as_o her_o head_n and_o saviour_n in_o some_o respect_n as_o christ_n be_v to_o the_o church_n eph._n 5.32_o 33._o and_o the_o wife_n see_v that_o she_o reverence_v her_o husband_n by_o her_o inward_a esteem_n of_o he_o as_o worthy_a of_o honour_n on_o her_o part_n as_o her_o head_n under_o christ_n yea_o though_o before_o and_o otherwise_o in_o himself_o her_o inferior_a much_o and_o unworthy_a have_v before_o god_n and_o man_n give_v he_o by_o her_o matrimonial_a covenant_n

and_o condition_n to_o be_v always_o good_a and_o useful_a as_o david_n who_o serve_v his_o generation_n act._n 13_o 36._o and_o so_o fulfil_v 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d all_o the_o will_n of_o god_n ver_fw-la 22._o 20._o use_v recreation_n when_o nature_n require_v in_o conventent_a place_n fit_a company_n and_o at_o convenient_a time_n and_o season_n not_o in_o time_n of_o mourning_n fast_a or_o public_a calamity_n never_o on_o the_o lord_n day_n which_o be_v to_o be_v employ_v in_o holy_a exercise_n read_v and_o consider_v isa_n 22.12_o 13._o exod._n 20.8_o and_o use_v they_o lawful_o as_o recreation_n not_o as_o a_o trade_n or_o call_n to_o refresh_v and_o make_v you_o more_o fit_a for_o the_o duty_n of_o your_o call_n civil_a and_o religious_a not_o like_o he_o that_o be_v all_o day_n or_o a_o great_a part_n of_o it_o whet_v he_o since_o but_o cut_v down_o nothing_o or_o little_o but_o always_o let_v your_o recreation_n be_v only_o such_o as_o be_v lawful_a honest_a harmless_a 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in_o this_o world_n to_o have_v immediate_a and_o full_a communion_n with_o god_n the_o father_n jesus_n christ_n the_o holy_a spirit_n and_o all_o the_o holy_a angel_n patriarch_n prophet_n apostle_n martyr_n and_o all_o other_o saint_n depart_v in_o the_o faith_n and_o though_o you_o must_v part_v with_o many_o thing_n desirable_a in_o this_o world_n and_o lovely_a as_o friend_n relation_n and_o some_o with_o riches_n honour_n and_o greatness_n in_o the_o world_n yet_o remember_v it_o be_v but_o for_o a_o time_n and_o to_o enjoy_v a_o far_o better_a estate_n incomparable_o better_o far_o better_a friend_n the_o most_o bless_a and_o glorious_a lord_n god_n the_o heavenly_a father_n jesus_n christ_n your_o husband_n head_n redeemer_n justifier_n elder_a brother_n the_o bless_a spirit_n your_o sanctifier_n and_o comforter_n godly_a relation_n and_o all_o the_o spirit_n of_o just_a man_n make_v perfect_a in_o heaven_n and_o free_a from_o all_o the_o infirmity_n and_o corruption_n they_o 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another_o with_o these_o thing_n and_o in_o a_o holy_a humble_a manner_n triumph_v over_o death_n and_o all_o worldly_a evil_n as_o the_o apostle_n do_v 1_o corinth_n 15.54_o etc._n etc._n 22._o marry_a person_n husband_n and_o wife_n you_o know_v you_o be_v one_o flesh_n gen._n 2.24_o and_o therefore_o your_o duty_n in_o common_a be_v 1._o to_o dwell_v together_o that_o you_o may_v be_v mutual_a helper_n one_o to_o another_o and_o to_o live_v chaste_o keep_v each_o to_o other_o only_o keep_v your_o body_n undefiled_a adultery_n be_v a_o great_a sin_n to_o be_v punish_v with_o death_n levit._n 20.10_o 16._o whoremonger_n and_o adulterer_n god_n will_v judge_v heb._n 13.4_o consider_v prov._n 5.15_o 16_o 17_o 18_o 20_o 21._o drink_v water_n out_o of_o thy_o own_o cistern_n etc._n etc._n 2._o in_o a_o special_a manner_n to_o love_v one_o another_o above_o all_o other_o person_n in_o the_o world_n and_o delight_v one_o in_o another_o above_o all_o other_o in_o respect_n of_o god_n 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