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A15527 Saints by calling: or Called to be saints A godly treatise of our holy calling to Christ, by the gospell. With the seuerall gifts proper vnto the called: and their counterfeits in the hypocrites which are not partakers of this effectuall calling. Written by Thomas Wilson, minister of Gods word, at S. Georges Church in Canterbury. Wilson, Thomas, 1563-1622. 1620 (1620) STC 25796; ESTC S103067 273,228 442

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a Christian how to carry himselfe seemly and as is meete for his profession in all parts of his duty teaching him to 〈◊〉 generall rules to particular occasions that he may 〈◊〉 and doe all things according to the 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 time and place and persons He is indeede an 〈◊〉 man whose heart is not onely wise vnto 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 faith in Christ but also in the duties of daily 〈◊〉 through the wisedome of the Word and surely such happy men are all godly men for as it is saide of Dauid in respect of his warring against the Philistines that he behaued himselfe wisely so it may be saide of euery true Christian in regard of their spirituall warfare that they wisely behaue themselues in it which cannot be saide of vnregenerate persons who haue many of them knowledge to see generally what ought to be done and not done but they lacke the wisdome which should gouerne them in their particular actions according to the due circumstances as they may please God in all their duties The children of this world excell the children of light in worldly wisedome but in wise walking before God the children of light excell the worldlings whereof not one hath this true godly wisedome howsoeuer cleare-sighted they be in matters of their owne credit and gaine Neither hath any worldly man the blessed gift of honesty albeit they may doe many things which be honest and be reputed honest by men of the world because they doe such ciuill workes as honest men doe yet they are destitute of Christian honesty which is a fruite of the Spirit a companion of godlinesse a quality of a sanctified heart disposed so to practise all duties towards their Neighbour for Gods sake as they be very carefull not to hurt them by doing any vncomely filthy or wicked thing in their presence or knowledge therefore the true Christian man hee is the onely honest man yea and he alone may be saide to haue an honest heart an heart firmely resolued to be that in truth which he seemeth to be Finally the gift of Vertue is proper to an elect man who be blest of God with a speciall valour courage and strength of mind whereby they can ouercome hard things and attempt great workes with good heart for the spirit of fortitude and vertue is in them so as they are not easily daunted and discouraged whereas vnregenerate persons be either too base or too bold and audacious being void of that vertue which Peter exhorts goods Christians to ioyne to their faith Neither doth any vnregenerate man partake in the gift of true zeale for howsoeuer many of them are zealous and seruent yet they are zealous amisse either they are earnest in defence of their owne opinions and of mens traditions as were the blind Iewes and Paul being yet a Pharisie or if their zeale be for good things cōmanded of God or against euill things forbid by him yet either it is not according to knowledge as in those which were seruent for the righteousnesse of the Law to set it vp and to pull downe the righteousnesse of Christ of whom the Apostle speaketh Rom. 10. I beare them witnesse they haue a zeale but not according to knowledge or if they doe know what they do yet their striuing for knowne good things and against knowne euill things is neither in a good manner nor to a good end as it is written of Iehu that he was zealous for the Lord of hosts but yet his heart was not aright hee sought not Gods glory neither was his heart touched with loue and compassion towards men And thus it is with the zeale of all naturall men it is both blind and bitter but it is otherwise with the zeale of regenerate persons which is tempered with charity and guided by knowledge The zeale of the righteous maketh them earnest against knowne euill things to hinder them and against knowne good things to further them according to their meanes and calling so setting before their eye onely the glory of God as the marke they aime at in all their zealous courses as they haue a charitable respect of their brethren to beare with their weakenesse to pity 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 and miseries to labour their conuersion neuer pleasing themselues in their zeale further then it may please God and profit man wherein yet this is to be considered that when respect and fauour to man is directly against the glory of God their true and god 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 is blind and will not see deafe and will not heare the extreamities of men as appeareth in the zeale of the Leuites putting to the Sword their brethren and 〈◊〉 at Gods commandement 〈◊〉 33 also in the zeale of 〈◊〉 and Elius putting them to death seuerely whom God would not haue to 〈◊〉 I Kings And touching Zeale I haue furthermore learned thus much that it ought to goe with and accompany euery good duty of our generall or especiall calling as we are commanded to repeat and be zealous 〈◊〉 3. and it is told vs Galathians 4. that it is a good thing to be earnest in euery good thing Our prayers must be with zeale also our thankesgiuing our hearing our preaching our giuing of almes our counsell our repentance and all other particular workes as in the Law no sacrifice was accepted without salt so is no duty pleasing vnto God without zeale coldnesse and luke-warmnesse are both odious to God as also fiery bitternesse without diferetion and loue but wise and charitable zeale is his delight Apollos Nay friend Aquila I thought of those foure graces but you haue bestowed them in a good place not onely because better late then neuer as we say but because amongst common duties they are somewhat more generall then the rest and therefore well singled out and set apart by themselues And now let vs consider of such graces as enable our elect and called Christian to discharge such duties as hee ought to doe by reason of his degree and particular calling wherein God hath set him for hitherto you haue dealt in such gifts as concerne the generall vocation of a Christian. Aquila Sir it is a thing commonly taught vs that euery Christian besides his calling of Christianity common to him with other hath also a particular person put vppon him yea sometime one Christian beareth many and sundry persons being both an inferiour as a child or seruant subiect hearer souldier wife maide or daughter and being also a superiour as Father Prince Magistrate Mistrisse or Mother Captaine or Counsellour or Iudge Now this charge lyeth vpon euery Christian and such grace is giuen them as that they labour to answer and in some good measure can both know and answer these duties expressing and exercising the power of all that godlinesse which they haue as Christians in that particular or in 〈◊〉 particular places wherein they are seated and setled of God and that with all diligence and sidelity vprightnesse and constancy The wife giues reuerence and submission
religious Beasts which out of narall instinct do loue their yong how do they fare what discontentment they shew when their yong are taken from them How doe Parents greeue and take on for the death or absence of their children whom they loue being well pleased and delighted when they enioy their presence and company In that humane loue which is amongst friends it fareth after the same manner Let the example of Ionathan and Dauid teach it 2 Sam. ch 1. What pleasure tooke they in each others presence and wel-fare And how bitter was it to Ionathans heart that it should go amisse with Dauid and to Dauids to misse Ionathan his friend whom he loued as a wife her husband This is also the nature of religious loue Such as loue God or Christ or his word or people they couet to be linked vnto them as neerely as may bee delighting themselues in the partaking with them being much troubled for the want of them as is to be seene in the example of the Church in the Canticles Cant. 5 6. when her beloued was for a time gone from her and euery faithfull soule findeth it to bee their griefe to be held a while from the word or from their presence or conference with God See Psal. 42. also Psa. 84 1 2 3. vpon all which I conclude That the loue of God is that affection which maketh the christian soule take comfort contentment in the communion with God desiring and delighting to be more and more streightly knit to him and more fully to participate in him and in his gracious blessings and loue tokens Sundry are the causes for which Gods people ought to loue him thus For they are his creatures he their maker they his seruants hee their Lord they his friends and which is more his children he their deere Father in Christ yea they his spouse hee their husband so as they are tyed and bound to him by all bonds of loue and duty God beeing vnto them in a most speciall manner all these things wee haue sayde Moreouer he loued them first before they loued him yea being his enemies hee loued vs when wee hated him and gaue vs a sufficient pawne of his loue euen his owne Sonne to be a man to bee a seruant yea to be a slaine sacrifice for vs. And withall hath by his holy Spirit which he hath giuen vs shed abroad this loue in our hearts Vnto all which if we will adde the consideration of all the good which he hath already done to vs in our bodies and mindes in earthly and heauenly things and the great things which we hope to haue heereafter and the straite commandement which it laide vpon vs to loue the Lord our God and that if we loue him the commodity is not to him but to our selues then will it easily appeare how diuerslie and greatly we are obliged to this God to render him this duty of loue where in that we may proceede well we are to know that as our measure of louing him must be to loue him aboue measure as he hath loued vs infinitely and is that most perfect goodnes and beauty worthy of perfect loue so our rule to guide our loue is to loue him not for his benefites and good things onely or cheefe but to loue all other things in God and for God and God for himselfe euen for his most sweete and gracious mercies and for his vnmeasurable holinesse and truth This is ingenuous and filiall loue such as becommeth children The other being that which ariseth from his blessings principally or solely is mercenary and meete for slaues or seruants For though the blessings of God bee such as deserue at our hands not onely thankfulnesse but encrease of loue and obedience yet wee may not loue him either onely or cheefely in regard of them but principally because he is that Soueraigne goodnesse worthy of all our loue though he should neuer do vs good as godly persons are loued of vs albeit we neither presently haue not hope for any benefit from them This pure loue and vnfeigned it is engendred from the sense of Gods loue towards vs whence ariseth in our hearts a loue towards him as it is written We loue him because he first loued vs 1 Iohn 4 ver 19. Thus it is saide of the woman Luke 7 47. that because many sins were forginen therefore she loued much Thus it is when the loue of God is manifested vnto vs in the forgiuenes of all our sins and so in our reconciliation with God by Christ this loue constraines vs to loue God ardently Because he hath so loued vs as to giue his Son for vs we are moued and that most iustly to loue this most louing and mercifull God And this is it which is written that Faith worketh by loue Galat. 5. 6. For after that once we beleeue the promise of grace and by faith haue laide hold on Gods mercies offered in Christ this faith sets on worke our loue to God-ward first and afterwards towards such as God would haue vs loue euen to our enemies And this is the proper effect of our loue towards God namely that it bringeth forth another loue wherewith we loue and be ready to do good to all men especially his Children it being so that we cannot loue him which begetteth but wee must needs loue them which are begotten 1 Iohn 5. 1. For as it must needs follow of Gods loue to vs that it stirre vs vp to loue him so it is necessary that our loue wherewith we loue him doe cause vs to loue all that beare his Image especially such as beare it by regeneration Insomuch that if any man say He loueth God and yet hateth his brother surely that man is a lyar and hath no truth in him 1 Iohn 4. And this loue of others is such a fruite and effect of our loue to God as it is a speciall token whereby to iudge of the truth and sincerity of it Whosoeuer then loueth other men namely such as are Gods Children in this respect as they belong vnto God and because he commandeth loue towards them I say whosoeuer vpon these grounds vnfeinedly loues his Neighbour friend or enemy this is an euidence of a man truly louing God for he that saide That hee cannot loue God whom he seeth not who loueth not his Neighbor whom he doth see 1 Iohn 4. 20. hath also saide If we loue one another his loue 〈◊〉 perfect in vs 1 Iohn 4. 12. That is herein we haue a testimony of our loue where with we loue God that it is not counterfeit but sincere because we doe by loue embrace one another for his sake euen to please him Aquila It is an easie and common thing to dissemble the loue of God insomuch as they which be furthest from louing him in truth are found most forward to protest it in words Therefore howsoeuer this which you say doe much auaile
to her husband in respect of his prehemmence in graces and authority Ephesians 5 verse last the husband loueth his wife as a daughter of Israel and member of Christ and out of this holy affection of loue careth for her I Peter 3. 7. beareth with her infirmities cherisheth instrusteth her and protecteth her Fathers are not bitter to their children but in mildnesse wisedome bring them vp in the instruction and nurture of the Lord Ephesians 6. 3. Children doe loue reuerence obey their Parents for the Lord Ephesians 6. 1. witnessing their honour towards their Parents especially in this that they make no choyce of their trades and matches without their priuity and counsell Seruants not out of feare with eye seruice but in singlenesse of heart study to please their bodily Masters Ephesians 6. 5. 6. and these againe are willing to doe that which is equall and iust both touching the bodies and soules of their seruants knowing that they also haue a Master in Heauen Calosians 3. verse last The Pastor feedes his flocke not for filthy luker nor by constraint 1 Peter 5. 2 3 4. but out of a willing minde shewing himselfe an example to the flocke The flocke and people on the other side acknowledge him and haue him in singular loue for his worke sake I 〈◊〉 5. The Magistrate kindly tendreth his inferiours as his children Iob 29. and mildly ruling with iustice giueth praise to such as doe well and punisheth those that doe euill 〈◊〉 13. 2 3 4 5. And finally inferiours and subiects obediently submit themselues vnto their Rulers as vnto Fathers doing with readnesse their iust commandements and with patience bearing euen their vniust punishments Thus haue I giuen you a certaine taste of these singular and speciall duties for neither time nor your infirmity wil permit vs more largely to discourse them onely this I thinke good to adde that it is the property of all sauing graces which wee haue named and of the others which we haue forgotten for who can remember all to waxe and encrease till they come to perfection as the young fruites groweth till they be ripe it pleasing God to follow his first graces with new supplies till he haue finished the worke which he hath begun 〈◊〉 1. 4. So it is not with the wicked whose gifts decrease and at last 〈◊〉 and fall away as leaues in winter fall from the trees they being as the chaffe and dust which hauing no stedfast firmenesse be therefore soone 〈◊〉 Psalme 1. 5. Whereas the godly which are as a tree planted by the Riuers side brings forth fruite in due season whose leaues are alwayes greene and look whatsoeuer they doe it prospereth Psalme 1. 3 4. And now good Sir if it please you we will shut vp this our conference with this short Prayer O eternall most wise mighty and mercifull God we giue thee thankes for all thine Elect whom thou hast according to thine eternall will called effectually by the Ministry of the Law and Gospell to thy Son opening their eyes to see him to be their Sauiour and their hearts to embrace him with affection being satisfied with him and so working in them that most worthy gift of faith whereby being vnited and incorporate into him they partake with his iustice both actiue and passiue for their perfect iustification before thee and with his Spirit for their vnperfect sanctification in this life hauing power giuen them both to abide the combate with remaining corruptions and vpon wounds and foyles receiued in that encounter to arise by repentance and also to be able to witnesse the truth of their repentance by the constant exercise of all good workes furnishing them with needfull graces of all sorts for the sincere seruice of thy Maiesty and of their brethren according to their seuerall estates and degrees good Father we blesse thy blessed name for these workes of thy grace in them all and pray thee heartily both for their continuance in grace vnto the end til they be perfectly glorified in heauen and that the rest of thine Elect who as yet are not gathered thou wouldst hasten their conuersion and calling to fulfill in them also the good worke of thy pleasure with power encreasing them in all goodnesse protecting them against all enemies and euils till the great glorious appearing of thy Son Iesus to whom with thee and thy holy Spirit be all praise honour and glory now henceforth and for euer Amen Finis laus Christo nescia finis Errata IN Page 6. Line 20. Reade capable p. 13. l. 6. r. seruice for shew it p. 16. l. 31. let the comma be after them p. 19. l. 3. r. desert l. 17 r. for a certaine time as they c. p. 21. l. 26. r. Sacrament p. 29. l. 15. r. calling p. 36. l. 13 after proceed r. and goe l. 19. r. it after vpon p. 37 l. 14. after keepe r. all p. 51 put comma out in l. 5 8. after mind and will p. 55. l. 8 r. as for is p. 59 l. last r. wrought p. 611 l. 9. r. belong p. 69 l. 6 r. matter p. 91 l. 27 r. effects worke p. 111 l. 5 r. against the first Table after sinne l. 24 after Christ r. because they are such p. 116 l. 8 r. vnexpressible p. 110 l. 27 r. onenesse l. 28 r. so is Christ p. 151 l. 13 r. premised p. 161 l. 10 r. hard for yours p. 162 l. 22 r. friend p. 179 l. 26 r. worke p. 188 l. 22 r. after then to be exalted p. 190 l. 11 r. falles p. 192 l. 32 r. comfort p. 201 l. 26 r. is after it p. 202 l. 6 r. of sinister death p. 223 l. 26 r. rich man for Diues p. 248 l. 16. r. halted l. 27 r. renewed p. 250 in the margin r. meetnesse p. 263 l. 10 r. that euill which is our owne afore being p. 287 l. 27. r. awefull p. 290 l. 7 r. gardian p. 303. l. 13 r. outward rest p. 307 l. 8. r. these p. 308 l. 2 r. as that after mind p. 328 l. 10 strike out the latter onely 2. workes of the Spirit proper to the elect Calling and Gifts A double calling 1. Outward common to all 2. Inward peculiar to some Difference between inward and outward calling Effectuall calling hath 3. inseparable cona panions first vnion with Christ 2. Iustification 3. Sanctification Effectuall calling what it is Inward means No name giuen c. Outward and inward Law Spirit of feare Gospell Spirit of adoption The time of Calling 1 Tim. 4. 6. 2 Tim. 3. 1. 2 Kings 22 1. Persons Who not 1. Pagans Creatures teach somewhat of God but nothing of Christ. 2. Proud Iusticiaries 3. Scorners 4. Impenitent or obdurate finners 5. Worldly wise 6 Worldlyrich Example in the Laodiceans Reuel 〈◊〉 7. Idiots Lunaticke 8. Borne deafe and dumbe Who