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A12473 Essex doue, presenting the vvorld vvith a fevv of her oliue branches: or, A taste of the workes of that reuerend, faithfull, iudicious, learned, and holy minister of the Word, Mr. Iohn Smith, late preacher of the Word at Clauering in Essex Deliuered in three seuerall treatises, viz. 1 His grounds of religion. 2 An exposition on the Lords Prayer. 3 A treatise of repentance. Smith, John, 1563-1616.; Hart, John, D.D. 1629 (1629) STC 22798; ESTC S117569 350,088 544

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use_n of_o it_o ibid._n life_n how_o a_o good_a life_n be_v needful_a to_o salvation_n t._n 1._o p._n 23._o where_n to_o begin_v a_o godly_a life_n ibid._n furtherance_n thereto_o t._n 1._o p._n 24._o of_o the_o well-ordering_a of_o our_o life_n t._n 1._o p._n 29._o help_n to_o a_o holy_a life_n t._n 1._o p._n 66_o 67_o 68_o of_o our_o daily_a practice_n in_o our_o life_n t._n 1._o p._n 70_o 71._o of_o everlasting_a life_n t._n 1._o p._n 106._o etc._n etc._n love_n how_o we_o must_v bring_v our_o our_o heart_n in_o love_n with_o god_n t._n 1._o p._n 27._o how_o love_n shall_v be_v show_v t._n 1._o p._n 34._o the_o point_n of_o inward_o love_v ibid._n etc._n etc._n how_o our_o love_n in_o word_n shall_v be_v show_v t._n 1._o p._n 35._o how_o in_o deed_n ibid._n how_o we_o must_v love_v man_n in_o their_o soul_n t._n 1._o p._n 36._o how_o in_o their_o good_n t._n 1._o p._n 38._o who_o offend_v herein_o ibid._n how_o to_o show_v our_o love_n to_o god_n t._n 1._o p._n 43._o love_n must_v be_v have_v in_o prayer_n t._n 2._o p._n 22._o m._n man_n why_o make_v t._n 1._o p._n 1._o marriage_n whether_o it_o be_v lawful_a for_o a_o christian_n to_o marry_v with_o a_o jew_n t._n 1._o p._n 57_o master_n their_o duty_n t._n 1._o p._n 59_o 60_o mean_n of_o desire_v to_o obtain_v the_o end_n without_o the_o use_n of_o the_o mean_n t._n 2._o p._n 39_o mean_v to_o grow_v in_o grace_n t._n 3._o
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give_v honour_n unto_o she_o as_o unto_o the_o weak_a vessel_n q._n what_o be_v mean_v by_o this_o a._n he_o must_v have_v she_o in_o good_a reckon_n and_o in_o good_a regard_n not_o despise_v she_o for_o the_o infirmity_n of_o her_o sex_n but_o account_v well_o of_o she_o for_o the_o grace_n whatsoever_o that_o be_v in_o she_o esteem_v she_o as_o a_o vessel_n as_o one_o needful_a and_o necessary_a in_o the_o house_n second_o he_o must_v provide_v for_o she_o the_o best_a he_o can_v he_o must_v not_o set_v over_o she_o the_o whole_a care_n of_o his_o provision_n but_o as_o she_o be_v the_o weak_a vessel_n so_o he_o must_v think_v in_o the_o maintenance_n of_o the_o family_n to_o be_v assist_v more_o weak_o by_o she_o q._n what_o be_v the_o wife_n duty_n to_o her_o husband_n wife_n a._n she_o must_v be_v subject_a to_o her_o husband_n humble_v herself_o to_o the_o yoke_n of_o government_n which_o god_n have_v lay_v upon_o she_o for_o god_n have_v make_v the_o man_n the_o head_n of_o the_o woman_n and_o therefore_o this_o must_v abate_v all_o pride_n and_o self-love_n and_o work_v true_a honour_n in_o her_o heart_n towards_o he_o who_o god_n have_v make_v the_o chief_a in_o the_o house_n 1._o pet._n 3._o 1._o qu._n how_o it_o this_o further_o declare_v a._n that_o the_o husband_n be_v god_n deputy_n and_o god_n lieutenant_n in_o the_o house_n as_o christ_n be_v in_o the_o church_n and_o therefore_o to_o despise_v the_o husband_n be_v to_o despise_v god_n to_o disobey_v the_o husband_n in_o lawful_a thing_n be_v to_o disobey_v god_n because_o they_o lift_v up_o themselves_o against_o the_o power_n which_o god_n have_v place_v in_o his_o own_o steed_n and_o room_n ephes._n 5._o 22._o q._n why_o do_v the_o scripture_n beat_v so_o much_o upon_o this_o duty_n a._n because_o there_o be_v a_o secret_a swell_n in_o the_o heart_n which_o will_v hardly_o brook_v the_o government_n of_o the_o man_n especial_o if_o in_o any_o good_a quality_n they_o go_v beyond_o he_o q._n how_o must_v this_o subjection_n be_v declare_v a._n both_o by_o reverend_a speech_n and_o all_o humble_a behaviour_n to_o her_o husband_n some_o take_v it_o to_o be_v their_o grace_n to_o speak_v rude_o and_o blunt_o to_o he_o but_o it_o be_v sarahs_n honour_n that_o she_o obey_v abraham_n and_o call_v he_o lord_n 1._o pet._n 3._o 5._o q._n what_o be_v the_o reason_n hereof_o a._n a_o man_n be_v bind_v to_o love_v his_o wife_n though_o there_o be_v nothing_o in_o she_o that_o deserve_v love_n but_o because_o a_o man_n be_v not_o easy_o bring_v to_o this_o love_n where_o there_o be_v not_o some_o cause_n of_o love_n therefore_o the_o lord_n will_v have_v the_o wife_n by_o gentle_a and_o sweet_a behaviour_n deserve_v and_o win_v love_n at_o her_o husband_n hand_n q._n what_o be_v the_o second_o duty_n of_o the_o wife_n a_o she_o must_v be_v of_o pure_a conversation_n no_o havocker_n no_o waster_n of_o her_o husband_n good_n no_o enticer_n of_o he_o to_o dishonest_a thing_n like_o job_n wife_n that_o be_v job_n tempter_n not_o idle_a not_o sluggish_a no_o babbler_n abroad_o of_o her_o husband_n fault_n prou._n 31._o 10._o 11._o q._n what_o be_v the_o three_o duty_n a._n she_o must_v fear_v her_o husband_n and_o she_o must_v be_v loath_a to_o displease_v he_o such_o a_o tender_a care_n she_o must_v have_v of_o his_o comfort_n and_o of_o his_o peace_n that_o she_o must_v not_o do_v willing_o the_o least_o thing_n that_o may_v displease_v he_o ephes._n 5._o 23._o cue_n what_o be_v the_o four_o duty_n a._n she_o must_v not_o be_v proud_a and_o costly_a in_o her_o attire_n stretch_v out_o herself_o to_o all_o that_o she_o may_v but_o keep_v under_o her_o husband_n ability_n rather_o than_o any_o whit_n above_o it_o 1._o pet._n 3._o 3_o q._n what_o be_v the_o five_o duty_n a._n she_o must_v entertain_v no_o secret_a dislike_n of_o her_o husband_n but_o rest_v her_o mind_n with_o all_o contentment_n in_o he_o ever_o please_v herself_o in_o her_o husband_n face_n cant._n 5._o 9_o 10._o q._n what_o be_v the_o last_o duty_n a._n she_o must_v be_v of_o a_o meek_a and_o a_o humble_a spirit_n nor_o give_v to_o curse_v brawl_a fret_a and_o fume_v with_o he_o but_o by_o meekness_n and_o love_n support_v he_o in_o his_o hastiness_n rashness_n and_o other_o infirmity_n which_o he_o have_v 1._o pet._n 3._o 3_o q._n what_o be_v the_o parent_n duty_n to_o their_o child_n parent_n a._n they_o must_v bring_v they_o up_o in_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n they_o must_v seek_v to_o place_n religion_n and_o true_a godliness_n in_o their_o heart_n they_o must_v not_o only_o train_v they_o up_o to_o live_v civil_o &_o honest_o in_o the_o world_n but_o their_o chief_a care_n must_v be_v to_o acquaint_v they_o in_o their_o tender_a year_n with_o the_o way_n of_o god_n eph._n 6._o 4._o qu._n what_o be_v the_o second_o duty_n a._n they_o must_v not_o be_v churlish_a and_o bitter_a to_o they_o mope_v they_o too_o much_o but_o live_v with_o some_o cheerfulness_n among_o they_o col._n 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