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justice_n and_o judgement_n etc._n etc._n which_o also_o he_o practise_v gen._n 14.14_o where_o we_o hear_v of_o his_o train_a or_o instruct_v catechise_v servant_n and_o gen._n 17.23_o be_v enter_v into_o covenant_n himself_o and_o circumcise_v he_o circumcise_v the_o same_o day_n ishmael_n his_o son_n and_o all_o that_o be_v bear_v in_o his_o house_n family_n gen._n 35.2_o jacob_n purge_v his_o family_n and_o buy_v with_o money_n this_o family_n religion_n or_o reformation_n be_v gracious_o and_o courageous_o resolve_v on_o by_o david_n psal_n 101.2_o etc._n etc._n i_o will_v behave_v myself_o wise_o in_o a_o perfect_a way_n i_o will_v walk_v within_o my_o house_n with_o a_o perfect_a heart_n etc._n etc._n and_o mark_v his_o wisdom_n both_o in_o the_o constitution_n and_o order_v of_o his_o family_n ver_fw-la 3._o i_o will_v set_v no_o wicked_a thing_n a_o thing_n of_o belial_n the_o description_n of_o a_o wicked_a person_n before_o my_o eye_n i_o hate_v the_o work_n of_o they_o that_o turn_v aside_o etc._n etc._n i_o will_v not_o know_v a_o wicked_a person_n ver_fw-la 4._o as_o if_o say_v none_o such_o shall_v come_v into_o my_o house_n he_o that_o work_v deceit_n shall_v not_o dwell_v in_o my_o house_n or_o if_o he_o do_v unaware_o come_v in_o he_o that_o tell_v lie_n shall_v not_o tarry_v in_o my_o sight_n ver_fw-la 7._o who_o then_o shall_v serve_v he_o he_o that_o will_v serve_v god_n with_o he_o my_o eye_n shall_v be_v upon_o the_o faithful_a of_o the_o land_n that_o they_o may_v dwell_v with_o i_o he_o that_o walk_v in_o a_o perfect_a way_n as_o i_o resolve_v to_o do_v ver_fw-la 2._o he_o shall_v serve_v i_o hence_o it_o be_v observable_a in_o the_o new_a testament_n that_o as_o a_o proper_a consequence_n of_o the_o householder_n conversion_n when_o any_o such_o believe_v his_o family_n believe_v with_o he_o joh._n 4.53_o it_o be_v say_v of_o that_o nobleman_n himself_o believe_v and_o his_o whole_a house_n so_o act_v 16.15_o lydia_n be_v convert_v baptize_v and_o her_o household_n and_o ver_fw-la 33._o the_o jailor_n be_v baptize_v he_o and_o all_o he_o as_o if_o they_o have_v learn_v joshuahs_n resolution_n as_o for_o i_o and_o my_o house_n we_o will_v serve_v the_o lord_n this_o for_o the_o general_a respect_n 2_o special_o in_o two_o respect_n 2._o we_o shall_v look_v more_o special_o and_o particular_o at_o those_o duty_n which_o concern_v the_o good_a housholder_n to_o perform_v and_o practice_n and_o that_o with_o respect_n either_o to_o his_o relation_n or_o to_o the_o particular_a service_n require_v in_o the_o family_n as_o 1_o to_o the_o several_a relation_n in_o the_o family_n as_o 1._o in_o respect_n to_o his_o several_a relation_n in_o the_o family_n which_o oftentimes_o if_o not_o always_o be_v of_o three_o sort_n 1._o as_o anâ—_n husband_n to_o a_o wife_n 2._o as_o a_o parent_n to_o child_n 3._o as_o a_o master_n to_o servant_n the_o same_o person_n may_v stand_v in_o this_o threefold_a relation_n and_o in_o all_o these_o the_o duty_n lie_v upon_o he_o to_o see_v that_o all_o under_o his_o charge_n do_v serve_v the_o lord_n see_v the_o particular_n 1._o as_o a_o husband_n to_o a_o wife_n wife_n 1_o as_o a_o husband_n to_o a_o wife_n and_o the_o apostle_n have_v instruct_v he_o in_o that_o 1_o pet._n 3.7_o likewise_o you_o husband_n dwell_v with_o they_o your_o wife_n according_a to_o knowledge_n etc._n etc._n that_o be_v be_v able_a and_o ready_a to_o instruct_v and_o guide_v they_o in_o the_o service_n and_o way_n of_o god_n this_o be_v imply_v also_o 1_o cor._n 14.35_o if_o wife_n will_v learn_v any_o thing_n let_v they_o ask_v their_o husband_n at_o home_n and_o ver_fw-la 34._o they_o be_v command_v obedience_n as_o also_o say_v the_o law_n which_o imply_v he_o have_v power_n to_o command_v they_o
for_o one_o another_o but_o joint_o with_o one_o another_o or_o together_o q._n what_o must_v they_o pray_v for_o together_o a._n 1._o that_o they_o may_v be_v one_o spirit_n as_o one_o flesh_n 2._o that_o this_o ordiance_n may_v be_v sanctify_v to_o they_o 3._o that_o if_o god_n please_v they_o may_v have_v child_n comely_a wise_a gracious_a and_o heir_n of_o salvation_n 4._o a_o competency_n to_o bring_v they_o up_o 5._o for_o grace_n want_v or_o weak_a in_o themselves_o q._n what_o good_a must_v they_o promote_v in_o each_o other_o a._n 1._o of_o their_o soul_n 1_o cor._n 7.16_o 1_o pet._n 3.1_o 7_o both_o for_o conversion_n and_o edification_n and_o if_o fall_v restore_v one_o another_o 1_o thes_n 5.11_o levit._fw-la 19.17_o 2._o of_o their_o body_n in_o health_n and_o in_o sickness_n as_o mutual_a helper_n gen._n 27.14_o 3._o of_o their_o good_a name_n matth._n 1.19_o prov._n 22.1_o both_o preserve_v it_o and_o prevent_v ill_a report_n 4._o of_o their_o good_n or_o estate_n prov_n 31_o 12._o q._n what_o common_a duty_n concern_v they_o in_o regard_n of_o other_o a._n they_o respect_v the_o family_n or_o other_o q._n what_o concern_v they_o joint_o to_o the_o family_n a._n a_o joint_a government_n of_o it_o each_o to_o be_v helpful_a in_o overseeing_a the_o child_n servant_n and_o affair_n thereof_o the_o husband_n chief_o without_o door_n the_o wife_n within_o 1_o tim._n 5.14_o prov._n 31.11_o etc._n etc._n q._n what_o duty_n respect_v both_o in_o regard_n of_o stranger_n a._n 1._o a_o hospitable_a entertainment_n gen._n 18.6_o 7._o etc._n etc._n 2._o relieve_v the_o poor_a nehem._n 8.10_o prov._n 31.20_o thus_o far_o the_o duty_n common_a to_o both_o the_o particular_a duty_n of_o each_o party_n follow_v chapter_n 6._o the_o duty_n of_o wife_n to_o their_o husband_n col._n 3.18_o wife_n submit_v yourselves_o unto_o your_o own_o husband_n as_o it_o be_v fit_a in_o the_o lord_n q._n what_o be_v the_o part_n of_o this_o text_n a._n three_o 1._o their_o subjection_n command_v wife_n submit_v yourselves_o to_o your_o husband_n 2._o the_o motive_n or_o reason_n of_o it_o as_o it_o be_v fit_a 3_o the_o rule_n or_o direction_n in_o the_o lord_n q._n why_o do_v the_o apostle_n begin_v first_o with_o husband_n and_o wife_n a._n 1_o bâ—cause_fw-mi man_n and_o wife_n be_v the_o first_o couple_n in_o the_o world_n before_o there_o be_v parent_n and_o child_n or_o master_n and_o servant_n 2_o because_o they_o be_v the_o chief_a of_o the_o family_n and_o rule_v of_o all_o the_o rest_n if_o they_o be_v not_o good_a husband_n and_o wife_n they_o will_v never_o be_v good_a parent_n nor_o good_a master_n 3_o because_o if_o they_o neglect_v their_o duty_n to_o each_o other_o nothing_o go_v well_o in_o the_o family_n the_o rest_n will_v be_v naught_o by_o their_o example_n q._n why_o do_v the_o apostle_n in_o every_o relation_n begin_v first_o with_o the_o inferior_a a._n 1._o because_o inferior_n be_v most_o unwilling_a to_o undergo_v their_o burden_n 2._o to_o obey_v well_o be_v the_o best_a way_n to_o learn_v to_o rule_v well_o they_o prove_v best_o superior_n that_o be_v best_o inferior_n 3._o it_o be_v most_o for_o their_o own_o ease_n because_o as_o they_o be_v weak_a so_o like_a to_o feel_v the_o smart_n of_o it_o due_a obedience_n will_v move_v superior_n to_o be_v kind_a to_o they_o q._n why_o amongst_a inferior_n do_v he_o first_o begin_v with_o wife_n a._n 1._o to_o show_v the_o wife_n inferiority_n to_o her_o husband_n as_o child_n to_o parent_n etc._n etc._n 2._o wife_n be_v the_o first_o on_o who_o subjection_n waâ—_n lay_v as_o instrumental_a to_o sin_n 3._o the_o wife_n example_n if_o good_a be_v very_o prevolent_a to_o the_o rest_n to_o do_v their_o duty_n 4._o they_o most_o unwilling_a to_o yield_v subjection_n by_o reason_n of_o the_o little_a distance_n from_o and_o near_a union_n with_o their_o husband_n q._n what_o be_v the_o main_a duty_n of_o the_o wife_n a._n subjection_n or_o submission_n to_o her_o husband_n gen._n 3.16_o q._n wherein_o do_v that_o subjection_n consist_v a._n in_o these_o two_o thing_n 1._o a_o acknowledgement_n of_o his_o superiority_n over_o she_o 2._o in_o her_o respect_n to_o he_o as_o her_o superior_a q._n how_o do_v it_o appear_v that_o her_o husband_n be_v her_o superior_a a._n 1._o god_n have_v give_v it_o to_o he_o gen._n 3.16_o 2._o nature_n teach_v it_o in_o the_o weakness_n of_o all_o female_n vessel_n 1_o pet._n 3.7_o the_o weak_a vessel_n and_o so_o inferior_a to_o the_o male_n 3._o his_o title_n imply_v superiority_n as_o lord_n 1_o pet._n 3.6_o guide_n prov._n 2.17_o head_n 1_o cor._n 11.3_o 4._o he_o represent_v christ_n she_o the_o church_n eph._n 5.23_o 5._o woman_n be_v make_v for_o the_o man_n not_o the_o man_n for_o the_o woman_n gen._n 2.18_o 1_o cor._n 11.8_o 9_o q._n what_o reason_n be_v there_o of_o this_o acknowledgement_n a._n because_o this_o be_v the_o ground_n of_o all_o true_a subjection_n and_o obedience_n as_o to_o the_o ordinance_n of_o god_n q._n wherein_o stand_v her_o respect_n to_o he_o a._n in_o two_o thing_n reverence_n and_o obedience_n q._n what_o be_v her_o reverence_n to_o he_o a._n inward_a or_o outward_a q._n what_o be_v her_o inward_a reverence_n a._n a_o high_a esteem_n of_o he_o for_o his_o place_n sake_n as_o her_o lord_n and_o head_n by_o the_o ordinance_n of_o god_n which_o be_v call_v fear_n 1_o pet._n 3.2_o and_o reverence_n eph._n 5._o last_o a_o reverential_a fear_n q._n whereby_o be_v that_o fear_v manifest_v a._n 1_o by_o her_o care_n to_o please_v he_o 1_o cor._n 7.34_o 2_o by_o her_o joy_n in_o please_v he_o pro._n 31.12_o 3_o by_o her_o grief_n in_o offend_v he_o q._n whereby_o be_v her_o outward_a fear_n or_o reverence_n discover_v a._n by_o her_o behaviour_n and_o speech_n q._n what_o must_v her_o behaviour_n to_o he_o be_v a._n 1_o with_o gravity_n in_o a_o sober_a carriage_n 1_o tim._n 3.11_o 2_o meekness_n or_o mildness_n in_o a_o clear_a and_o amiable_a countenance_n 3_o courtesy_n on_o all_o occasion_n 4._o modesty_n in_o apparel_n fit_v for_o his_o estate_n and_o place_n q._n how_o must_v she_o order_v her_o speech_n a._n she_o must_v order_v it_o aright_o both_o in_o his_o presence_n and_o absence_n how_o in_o his_o presence_n a._n 1._o her_o word_n must_v be_v few_o 7.19_o contrary_a pro._n 7.19_o rather_o with_o silence_n than_o much_o talk_n 1_o tim._n 2.12_o 2._o reverent_a give_v he_o his_o due_a title_n of_o lord_n or_o husband_n 1_o pet._n 3.6_o 3._o meek_n from_o a_o quiet_a spirit_n 1_o pet._n 3.4_o 2_o kin._n 4.10_o 22._o q._n how_o in_o his_o absence_n a._n speak_v of_o he_o with_o all_o due_a respect_n as_o her_o superior_a gen._n 18_o 1â—_n q._n wherein_o consist_v her_o obedience_n a._n it_o be_v either_o passive_a or_o active_a q._n whereby_o be_v her_o passive_a obedience_n manifest_v a._n in_o forbear_v to_o dispose_v of_o the_o affair_n of_o the_o family_n against_o his_o mind_n or_o without_o his_o consent_n gen._n 16.5_o 6._o and_o 21.10_o and_o 2_o kin._n 4.10_o 22._o q._n may_v the_o wife_n do_v nothing_o without_o his_o consent_n a._n yes_o in_o three_o case_n 1._o in_o case_n of_o impotency_n as_o when_o he_o be_v sick_a or_o distract_v etc._n etc._n 2._o of_o impossibility_n when_o far_o absent_a 3._o of_o allowance_n manifest_v two_o way_n 1._o general_o by_o resignation_n of_o all_o to_o she_o prov._n 31.10_o 11._o 2._o particular_o in_o some_o thing_n express_o or_o by_o silence_n and_o connivance_n q._n how_o do_v this_o appear_v her_o duty_n a._n 1_o by_o that_o law_n gen._n 3.16_o 2_o by_o example_n of_o the_o good_a shunamite_n 2_o king_n 4.9_o 3_o from_o a_o husband_n power_n to_o make_v void_a her_o vow_n num._n 30.7_o 13._o q._n wherein_o consist_v her_o active_a obedience_n a._n in_o obey_v his_o command_n and_o bear_v his_o reproof_n q._n wherein_o appear_v her_o obedience_n to_o his_o command_n a._n 1_o in_o cohabitation_n follow_v he_o whether_o god_n by_o his_o providence_n call_v he_o gen._n 31.16_o 1_o cor._n 4.5_o 1_o pet._n 3.7_o 2_o come_v to_o he_o when_o send_v for_o as_o jacob_n wife_n do_v gen._n 31.4_o contra_fw-la esth_n 1.17_o 3_o do_v what_o be_v require_v of_o she_o as_o sarah_n gen._n 18.6_o and_o jeroboam'_v wife_n 1_o king_n 14_o 2._o q._n how_o must_v she_o bear_v his_o reproof_n a._n 1_o if_o unjust_a yet_o with_o patience_n 2_o if_o just_a though_o sharp_a with_o meekness_n gen._n 33.1_o 3_o with_o readiness_n to_o amend_v what_o be_v do_v amiss_o gen._n 35.2_o 4._o q._n what_o reason_n give_v the_o apostle_n to_o enforce_v these_o duty_n a._n because_o it_o be_v fit_a to_o do_v so_o q_o what_o mean_v that_o fitness_n a._n 1_o decency_n or_o comeliness_n so_o it_o be_v
be_v fit_v to_o make_v good_a master_n 3._o and_o prove_v themselves_o good_a servant_n to_o god_n and_o true_o gracious_a tit._n 2.10_o 11._o and_o adorn_v the_o gospel_n and_o religion_n chapter_n 4._o the_o duty_n of_o master_n to_o their_o servant_n eph._n 6.9_o master_n do_v you_o the_o same_o thing_n to_o they_o forbear_v threaten_a know_v that_o your_o master_n also_o be_v in_o heaven_n col._n 4.1_o master_n give_v unto_o your_o servant_n that_o which_o be_v just_a and_o equal_a know_v that_o you_o also_o have_v a_o master_n in_o heaven_n q._n what_o be_v the_o part_n of_o these_o text_n a._n two_n 1._o the_o duty_n in_o general_a justice_n and_o equity_n 2._o the_o reason_n know_v that_o you_o have_v a_o master_n in_o heaven_n q._n what_o duty_n concern_v master_n a._n 1._o care_v in_o choose_v good_a servant_n as_o psal_n 101._o at_o large_a especial_o godly_a and_o religious_a 2._o conscience_n in_o use_v they_o well_o q._n wherein_o do_v this_o last_o consist_v a._n 1._o in_o a_o wise_a maintain_v their_o authority_n as_o the_o authority_n of_o god_n 2._o in_o a_o right_a manage_n of_o it_o q._n how_o may_v they_o maintain_v wise_o their_o authority_n a._n 1._o by_o a_o good_a example_n and_o worthy_a carriage_n josh_n 24.15_o psalm_n 101.1_o 2._o 2._o by_o a_o awful_a carriage_n that_o servant_n may_v stand_v in_o fear_n of_o they_o 3._o by_o keep_v a_o distance_n from_o they_o lest_o familiarity_n breed_v contempt_n prov._n 30.22_o &_o 29.21_o q._n what_o be_v the_o extent_n of_o their_o authority_n a._n 1._o in_o their_o command_n restrain_v to_o the_o law_n of_o god_n and_o exercise_v in_o execution_n of_o god_n command_n as_o abraham_n gen._n 19_o 25.43_o levit._fw-la 25.43_o 2._o in_o their_o correction_n which_o must_v be_v moderate_a and_o discreet_a in_o consideration_n of_o the_o age_n sex_n fault_n of_o the_o person_n etc._n etc._n q._n how_o may_v they_o manage_v right_o their_o authority_n a._n by_o justice_n and_o equity_n as_o the_o text._n q._n what_o do_v justice_n respect_n a._n 1._o the_o soul_n of_o their_o servant_n in_o their_o edification_n and_o salvation_n josh_n 24.15_o to_o serve_v the_o lord_n by_o teach_v they_o principle_n of_o religion_n bring_v to_o public_a worship_n call_v they_o to_o account_v and_o pray_v with_o they_o and_o for_o they_o jer._n 10.25_o 2._o their_o body_n cherish_v they_o with_o wholesome_a food_n fit_a apparel_n 5.14_o pro._n 31.21_o deut._n 5.14_o moderate_a labour_n convenient_a rest_n vale_n and_o in_o sickness_n physic_n needful_a matth._n 8_o 6._o 3._o their_o estate_n that_o they_o may_v have_v a_o calling_n and_o that_o they_o may_v live_v of_o themselves_o gen._n 30.30_o q._n what_o do_v equity_n require_v of_o they_o a._n 1._o a_o good_a esteem_n of_o they_o not_o as_o slave_n but_o as_o child_n rather_o 2_o kin._n 5.13_o 1_o cor._n 7.22_o 2._o take_v notice_n of_o their_o goodness_n with_o approbation_n and_o kind_a acceptance_n 13.3_o matth._n 25.21_o rom._n 13.3_o well_o do_v good_a servant_n 3._o reward_v the_o good_a when_o go_v away_o as_o deut._n 15.13_o q._n what_o motive_n be_v there_o to_o enforce_v these_o duty_n upon_o they_o a._n 1._o they_o have_v a_o master_n over_o they_o and_o this_o will_v be_v a_o spure_a to_o incite_v they_o to_o their_o duty_n and_o a_o curb_n to_o do_v no_o wrong_n to_o they_o because_o he_o take_v notice_n of_o both_o 2._o their_o equality_n in_o regard_n of_o god_n you_o also_o have_v a_o master_n and_o so_o fellow-servant_n math._n 24_o 49._o 3._o in_o heaven_n servant_n be_v admit_v there_o no_o respect_n of_o person_n with_o god_n and_o yet_o there_o be_v far_o great_a distance_n between_o god_n and_o they_o than_o between_o they_o and_o their_o servant_n chapter_n 5._o of_o marriage_n in_o general_n heb._n 13.4_o marriage_n be_v honourable_a among_o all_o etc._n etc._n q._n wherein_o appear_v the_o honour_n of_o marriage_n a._n 1._o in_o the_o author_n god_n himself_o 2._o in_o the_o place_n paradise_n etc._n gen._n 2.18_o 21._o etc._n etc._n 3._o in_o the_o time_n in_o innocency_n 4._o in_o the_o person_n the_o first_o parent_n of_o all_o 5._o in_o the_o manner_n consultation_n etc._n etc._n q._n what_o be_v require_v to_o marriage_n a._n 1._o a_o right_a conjunction_n of_o man_n and_o woman_n 2._o the_o common_a and_o mutual_a duty_n which_o concern_v they_o both_o alike_o 3._o the_o particular_a duty_n of_o each_o party_n q._n who_o be_v account_v husband_n and_o wife_n a._n they_o who_o be_v right_o join_v together_o in_o marriage_n and_o of_o two_o make_v one_o flesh_n q._n who_o be_v party_n fit_a to_o marry_v a._n they_o who_o have_v ripnesse_n of_o year_n and_o wisdom_n to_o choose_v no_o way_n make_v impotent_a to_o marriage_n duty_n 1_o cor._n 7.36_o q._n who_o be_v to_o be_v account_v impotent_a a._n bear_v or_o make_v eunuch_n by_o any_o occasion_n mat._n 19.12_o or_o dangerous_o disease_v q._n may_v all_o sort_n of_o person_n but_o such_o marry_o a._n yes_o all_o heb._n 13.4_o 1_o tim._n 4.1_o 3._o as_o the_o disease_n of_o concupiscence_n be_v common_a to_o all_o 1_o cor._n 7.2_o 9_o q._n in_o choice_n of_o a_o person_n what_o be_v require_v a._n choice_n of_o a_o fit_a helper_n gen._n 2.18_o q._n what_o make_v a_o fit_a helper_n a._n 1._o one_o not_o within_o the_o degree_n of_o consanguinity_n or_o affinity_n prohibit_v 2._o equality_n in_o age_n condition_n estate_n and_o piety_n luk._n 1.6_o q._n how_o may_v a_o godly_a person_n be_v know_v a._n 1._o by_o their_o religious_a education_n and_o their_o answerable_a walk_n 2._o by_o the_o report_n and_o fame_n with_o the_o good_a 3._o by_o the_o look_n if_o modest_a and_o chaste_a etc._n etc._n 4._o by_o the_o speech_n if_o spare_v and_o humble_a 5._o by_o the_o apparel_n 1_o pet._n 3._o 6._o by_o the_o companion_n like_o will_n to_o like_v q._n after_o what_o manner_n be_v fit_a person_n to_o be_v join_v together_o a._n 1._o by_o a_o mutual_a like_n of_o each_o other_o gen_n 24.58_o 2._o by_o a_o actual_a contract_n gen._n 19.14_o 18._o luk._n 1.27_o a_o promise_n of_o marriage_n in_o due_a time_n 3._o by_o a_o public_a solemnisation_n of_o the_o marriage_n q._n what_o be_v the_o end_n of_o marriage_n a._n 1._o to_o be_v fit_a helper_n one_o of_o another_o 2._o propagation_n of_o a_o holy_a posterity_n 3._o to_o avoid_v fornication_n 1_o cor._n 7.2_o q._n what_o be_v those_o mutual_a and_o commâ—n_a duty_n concern_v both_o party_n alike_o a._n 1._o such_o as_o concern_v they_o between_o themselves_o 2._o joint_o with_o respect_n to_o other_o q._n what_o be_v the_o duty_n that_o concern_v they_o between_o themselves_o a._n 1._o such_o as_o respect_v the_o very_a be_v of_o marriage_n 2._o or_o such_o as_o respect_v the_o well_o be_v of_o it_o q._n what_o be_v those_o mutual_a duty_n to_o one_o another_o which_o respect_v the_o be_v of_o marriage_n a._n 1._o matrimonial_a unity_n account_v one_o another_o to_o be_v one_o flâ—sh_n and_o that_o without_o desertion_n of_o one_o another_o except_o in_o case_n of_o death_n or_o adultery_n math._n 1._o cor._n 7.10_o 11._o etc._n etc._n 2._o matrimonial_a chastity_n or_o faithfulness_n in_o the_o covenant_n of_o marriage_n mal._n 2.14_o 15._o tit._n 2.5_o q._n what_o reason_n be_v there_o for_o this_o chastity_n a._n 1_o it_o be_v one_o end_n of_o marriage_n 1_o cor._n 7.2_o 2_o it_o preserve_v a_o holy_a posterity_n mal._n 2.15_o 3_o it_o be_v the_o honour_n of_o marriage_n heb._n 13.4_o q._n what_o be_v the_o best_a remedy_n against_o unchastity_n a._n the_o render_v mutual_o to_o each_o other_o due_a benevolence_n 1_o cor._n 7.3_o 4_o etc._n etc._n q._n what_o be_v those_o mutual_a duty_n which_o tend_v to_o the_o well_o be_v of_o marriage_n a._n 1_o mutual_a love_n or_o entire_a affection_n one_o towards_o another_o epp._n 5._o last_o tit._n 2.4_o 1_o cor._n 16.14_o this_o be_v the_o ground_n of_o all_o their_o duty_n 2_o mutual_a concord_n and._n peace_n by_o unity_n of_o mind_n eph._n 4.3_o avoid_v contention_n pro._n 21.9_o q._n what_o be_v the_o best_a mean_n to_o preserve_v love_n and_o peace_n between_o they_o a._n 1._o all_o offence_n must_v be_v carefu_o prevent_v 2._o if_o give_v by_o one_o not_o take_v by_o the_o other_o forbearing_z one_o another_z eph._n 4.2_o and_o forgive_a v._o 32._o 3._o beware_v of_o jealousy_n or_o occasion_n of_o it_o 4._o study_v to_o please_v one_o another_o 1_o cor._n 7.33_o 34._o q._n what_o other_o common_a duty_n concern_v both_o a._n in_o general_a a_o provident_a care_n for_o one_o another_o good_a q._n what_o be_v the_o mean_n to_o promote_v that_o care_n a._n 1._o cohabitation_n or_o dwell_v together_o forsake_v all_o other_o psal_n 45.10_o 1_o cor._n 7.12_o 1_o pet._n 3.7_o 2._o prayer_n not_o only_o single_o
her_o honour_n 2._o equity_n as_o agreeable_a to_o the_o law_n of_o god_n of_o nature_n and_o to_o the_o gospel_n q._n what_o mean_v those_o word_n in_o the_o lord_n a._n it_o imply_v 1._o a_o limitation_n 2._o a_o direction_n and_o 3._o a_o motive_n q._n what_o be_v the_o limitation_n a._n a_o wife_n must_v submit_v and_o obey_v but_o in_o the_o lord_n that_o be_v in_o lawful_a thing_n q._n what_o be_v the_o direction_n a._n to_o do_v all_o her_o duty_n to_o her_o husband_n with_o a_o eye_n to_o the_o lord_n as_o unto_o christ_n eph._n 5.22_o q._n how_o be_v it_o a_o motive_n a._n 1._o in_o do_v her_o duty_n to_o her_o husband_n she_o do_v it_o to_o christ_n and_o he_o take_v it_o so_o 2._o in_o refuse_v or_o neglect_v it_o to_o he_o she_o do_v the_o same_o to_o christ_n chapter_n 7._o the_o duty_n of_o husband_n to_o their_o wife_n col._n 3.19_o husband_n love_v your_o wife_n and_o be_v not_o bitter_a against_o they_o q._n what_o be_v the_o part_n of_o this_o text_n a._n two_n 1._o the_o duty_n of_o a_o husband_n to_o love_v his_o wife_n 2._o the_o manner_n of_o performance_n with_o mildness_n express_v by_o forbid_v the_o contrary_a and_o be_v not_o bitter_a to_o they_o q._n why_o do_v the_o apostle_n comprehend_v the_o whole_a duty_n of_o the_o husband_n in_o love_n 33._o eph._n 5.25_o 28_o 33._o a._n 1._o otherwise_o no_o duty_n can_v be_v well_o perform_v from_o one_o to_o another_o 1_o cor._n 16.14_o 2_o the_o wife_n be_v the_o chief_a object_n of_o love_n above_o friend_n child_n parent_n must_v leave_v all_o for_o she_o as_o she_o all_o for_o he_o therefore_o must_v love_v her_o most_o deut._n 13.6_o wife_n or_o his_o bosom_n 3_o lest_o his_o superiority_n and_o authority_n over_o she_o shall_v degenerate_v into_o tyranny_n 4_o she_z the_o weak_a sex_n and_o apt_a to_o offend_v but_o love_n will_v cover_v all_o 5_o to_o provoke_v she_o to_o love_v he_o because_o he_o first_o love_v she_o as_o christ_n the_o church_n q._n what_o particular_a duty_n of_o the_o husband_n do_v proceed_v from_o love_n knowledge_n 1_o pet._n 3.7_o according_a to_o knowledge_n a._n two_n 1._o a_o wife_n maintain_v of_o his_o authority_n 2._o a_o right_a manage_n of_o the_o same_o q._n why_o must_v a_o husband_n maintain_v his_o authority_n a._n 1._o this_o maintain_v god_n and_o christ_n authority_n who_o entrust_v he_o with_o it_o 2._o this_o most_o promote_v the_o good_a of_o his_o wife_n and_o the_o whole_a family_n q._n how_o may_v he_o maintain_v his_o authority_n a._n by_o be_v a_o example_n to_o they_o in_o love_n gravity_n piety_n honesty_n which_o cause_n a_o reverend_a respect_n in_o wife_n and_o family_n 1_o tim._n 4.2_o q._n how_o be_v this_o authority_n to_o be_v manage_v a._n 1._o by_o a_o tender_a respect_n of_o she_o 2._o by_o a_o provident_a care_n for_o she_o q._n what_o be_v that_o tender_a respect_n of_o she_o a._n it_o be_v either_o inward_a or_o outward_a q._n wherein_o consist_v his_o inward_a respect_n a._n 1._o in_o regard_n of_o his_o opinion_n of_o she_o 2._o in_o regard_n of_o his_o affection_n to_o she_o q._n what_o opinion_n must_v he_o have_v of_o she_o a._n 1._o in_o regard_n of_o her_o place_n she_o 1_o pet._n 3.7_o give_v honour_n to_o she_o he_o must_v esteem_v she_o not_o as_o a_o servant_n but_o as_o his_o yoke-fellow_n and_o companion_n a_o little_a low_o than_o himself_o as_o near_o to_o equality_n 2._o in_o regard_n of_o her_o person_n so_o he_o must_v esteem_v his_o own_o wife_n fit_a and_o best_a for_o he_o as_o provide_v by_o god_n prov._n 19.14_o and_o 18.22_o q._n what_o affection_n must_v he_o bear_v to_o she_o a._n it_o must_v be_v with_o the_o great_a delight_n in_o she_o as_o the_o delight_n of_o his_o eye_n as_o ezek._n 24.19_o ravish_v modest_o with_o her_o love_n prov._n 5.18_o 19_o q._n wherein_o appear_v his_o outward_a respect_n a._n 1._o in_o avoid_v offence_n to_o she_o 2._o in_o wise_o order_v her_o offence_n to_o he_o q._n how_o may_v he_o avoid_v offence_n to_o she_o a._n 1._o in_o take_v her_o duty_n tender_v to_o he_o 2._o in_o tender_v his_o own_o to_o she_o q._n what_o be_v to_o be_v do_v in_o take_v she_o a._n 1._o a_o kind_a acceptation_n of_o it_o as_o abraham_n do_v sarahs_n gen._n 21.8_o 1_o sam._n 1.23_o 2._o commend_v and_o reward_v she_o for_o it_o as_o prov._n 31.28_o 31._o esth_n 5.3_o 1_o kin._n 1.28_o etc._n etc._n q._n how_o must_v he_o tender_v his_o duty_n to_o she_o to_o avoid_v offence_n a._n in_o mildness_n a_o special_a fruit_n of_o love_n which_o the_o apostle_n intend_v in_o these_o word_n be_v not_o bitter_a to_o they_o which_o be_v express_v 1_o in_o his_o speech_n whether_o give_v her_o title_n as_o wife_n love_n etc._n etc._n or_o instrution_n command_n or_o reproof_n all_o with_o meekness_n gal._n 6.1_o prov._n 25.15_o 2_o in_o his_o countenance_n which_o must_v be_v amiable_a and_o please_a 3_o in_o his_o gesture_n with_o a_o kind_n of_o modest_a familiarity_n as_o isaac_n to_o rebecca_n gen._n 26.8_o 4_o in_o his_o action_n by_o favour_n and_o gift_n as_o 1_o sam._n 1.4_o 5._o elkanah_n do_v to_o his_o q._n what_o be_v require_v in_o order_v her_o offence_n to_o he_o a._n to_o passâ—_n they_o by_o with_o meekness_n and_o patient_o to_o bear_v with_o her_o weakness_n pâ—ov_n 19.11_o 1_o pet._n 3_o 7._o q._n wherein_o appear_v his_o provident_a care_n for_o she_o a._n 1._o in_o provide_v thing_n needful_a for_o she_o as_o her_o head_n 2.19_o 1_o sam._n 1.3_o 4_o 7._o and_o 2.19_o both_o for_o her_o soul_n in_o private_a and_o public_a mean_n of_o her_o edification_n and_o also_o for_o her_o body_n both_o in_o health_n and_o sickness_n especial_o in_o the_o time_n of_o childbearing_n and_o this_o not_o only_o in_o his_o life_n time_n but_o after_o death_n 1.21_o 1_o kin._n 1.21_o settle_v a_o comfortable_a and_o suitable_a maintenance_n on_o she_o 2._o in_o protect_v she_o from_o danger_n in_o her_o person_n and_o name_n 1_o sam._n 27.3_o and_o 30.18_o q._n what_o motive_n have_v husband_n to_o love_v their_o wife_n and_o do_v all_o these_o duty_n to_o they_o a._n beside_o the_o command_n of_o god_n these_o two_o 1._o the_o example_n of_o christ_n in_o love_v his_o church_n and_o therein_o themselves_o if_o godly_a eph._n 5.25_o now_o christ_n love_v first_o 1_o joh._n 4.19_o indeed_o and_o in_o truth_n give_v himself_o for_o it_o eph._n 5.26_o free_o deut._n 7.7_o 8._o pure_o to_o sanctify_v it_o v._o 27._o constant_o joh._n 13.1_o hos_fw-la 2.19_o so_o may_v they_o 2._o the_o example_n of_o one_o self_n eph._n 5.28_o 29_o a_o wife_n be_v himself_o they_o be_v one_o flesh_n finis_fw-la
but_o will_v much_o more_o extend_v to_o child_n and_o servant_n there_o be_v a_o kind_n of_o civil_a judicature_n erect_v in_o the_o family_n a_o power_n to_o examine_v try_v censure_n punish_v and_o eject_v offender_n gen._n 21.10_o cast_v out_o the_o bondwoman_n with_o her_o son_n and_o this_o household_n discipline_n david_n resolve_v to_o exercise_v in_o his_o house_n psal_n 101._o either_o to_o keep_v out_o or_o cast_v out_o such_o as_o be_v wicked_a and_o incorrigible_a this_o of_o the_o second_o reason_n 3._o every_o chief_a householder_n have_v curam_fw-la animarum_fw-la soul_n 3._o he_o have_v the_o cure_n of_o soul_n the_o charge_n of_o the_o soul_n of_o his_o family_n not_o proper_o pastoral_a but_o very_o like_v it_o he_o must_v give_v a_o account_n of_o the_o soul_n of_o his_o wife_n child_n servant_n as_o well_o as_o the_o magistrate_n of_o the_o soul_n of_o his_o subject_n ezek._n 34.10_o or_o the_o minister_n of_o the_o soul_n of_o his_o people_n ezek._n 2.18_o it_o 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offender_n as_o david_n profess_v he_o will_v deal_v with_o wicked_a proud_a deceitful_a lie_v servant_n psal_n 101._o if_o by_o instruction_n admonition_n correction_n he_o can_v not_o reclaim_v they_o he_o will_v excommunicate_v &_o cast_v they_o out_o of_o the_o church_n in_o his_o house_n this_o may_v suffice_v for_o confirmation_n of_o the_o point_n apply_v 2_o apply_v we_o now_o come_v to_o the_o application_n of_o all_o by_o uses_n and_o inference_n therefrom_o people_n 1_o to_o check_v the_o rashness_n of_o young_a people_n 1._o to_o consider_v and_o bewail_v the_o rashness_n of_o many_o young_a one_o who_o rush_n upon_o family_n relation_n and_o never_o know_v or_o weigh_v how_o fit_a or_o unfit_a they_o be_v to_o discharge_v the_o duty_n of_o those_o relation_n they_o must_v be_v marry_v forsooth_o in_o all_o the_o haste_n there_o be_v one_o relation_n then_o come_v child_n perhaps_o before_o the_o lawful_a time_n there_o be_v another_o and_o then_o servant_n must_v be_v 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check_v and_o cool_v the_o heat_n and_o heady_a rashness_n of_o young_a people_n toleration_n 2_o it_o show_v the_o iniquity_n of_o toleration_n 2._o this_o may_v serve_v to_o discover_v the_o iniquity_n of_o that_o so_o much_o call_v for_o curse_a toleration_n of_o all_o religion_n false_o call_v liberty_n of_o conscience_n the_o mischief_n of_o it_o be_v so_o many_o and_o so_o great_a that_o they_o can_v be_v aforehand_o imagine_v beside_o the_o public_a disturbance_n of_o the_o peace_n by_o different_a fraction_n and_o faction_n etc._n etc._n the_o natural_a or_o unnatural_a consequence_n of_o such_o a_o toleration_n the_o division_n in_o family_n will_v be_v as_o many_o almost_o as_o there_o be_v person_n and_o the_o wise_a housholder_n can_v possible_o redress_v it_o but_o the_o main_n be_v this_o that_o it_o will_v prove_v impossible_a for_o the_o most_o pious_a housholder_n to_o do_v his_o duty_n in_o make_v his_o family_n religious_a and_o to_o serve_v god_n with_o he_o in_o all_o his_o relation_n when_o as_o he_o have_v no_o coercive_a power_n to_o resolve_v with_o joshua_n i_o and_o my_o house_n will_v serve_v the_o lord_n suppose_v which_o experience_n daily_o confirm_v to_o be_v true_a the_o housholder_n be_v a_o godly_a zealous_a protestant_n his_o wife_n a_o independent_a the_o child_n anabaptist_n some_o one_o or_o more_o of_o the_o servant_n papist_n etc._n etc._n how_o be_v it_o possible_a the_o superior_a shall_v unite_v all_o these_o into_o a_o church_n in_o his_o house_n to_o serve_v god_n if_o a_o toleration_n for_o all_o religion_n be_v grant_v some_o will_v pretend_v they_o go_v to_o serve_v god_n in_o their_o own_o way_n and_o assembly_n and_o perhaps_o go_v to_o serve_v the_o devil_n in_o the_o stew_n or_o tavern_n how_o shall_v the_o housholder_n join_v with_o his_o family_n wife_n child_n servant_n in_o prayer_n read_v hear_v sacrament_n &_o sanctification_n of_o the_o sabbath_n by_o all_o together_o which_o be_v charge_v upon_o he_o in_o the_o four_o commandment_n when_o they_o not_o only_o detest_v his_o way_n of_o serve_v god_n but_o his_o prayer_n read_v sabbath_n etc._n etc._n and_o perhaps_o himself_o different_a affection_n common_o arise_v from_o differ_v opinion_n and_o judgement_n let_v the_o wise_a consider_v it_o householder_n 3_o complaint_n of_o many_o householder_n 3._o here_o be_v matter_n of_o just_a complaint_n of_o many_o of_o most_o householder_n who_o be_v discover_v to_o be_v little_o religious_a themselves_o by_o the_o profaneness_n and_o looseness_n of_o their_o family_n wife_n child_n servant_n in_o that_o place_n afore_o cite_v deut._n 6.6_o 7._o be_v make_v a_o sign_n of_o a_o man_n that_o be_v godly_a and_o religious_a that_o have_v god_n word_n in_o his_o heart_n that_o he_o endeavour_v to_o make_v his_o family_n such_o these_o word_n that_o i_o command_v thou_o shall_v be_v in_o thy_o heart_n and_o thou_o shall_v teach_v they_o to_o thy_o child_n etc._n etc._n contrary_o ignorance_n of_o god_n and_o irreligion_n in_o their_o family_n be_v join_v together_o jer._n 10.25_o and_o both_o of_o they_o character_n of_o a_o nation_n or_o family_n lie_v under_o the_o wrath_n of_o god_n and_o subject_a to_o his_o curse_n and_o destruction_n pour_v out_o thy_o fury_n upon_o the_o heathen_a that_o know_v thou_o not_o and_o upon_o the_o family_n that_o call_v not_o on_o thy_o name_n much_o complain_v there_o be_v every_o where_o of_o the_o badness_n of_o servant_n child_n wife_n as_o if_o they_o be_v corrupt_v abroad_o when_o the_o truth_n be_v they_o be_v either_o corrupt_v or_o neglect_v at_o home_n for_o want_v of_o instruction_n or_o household_n discipline_n or_o good_a example_n of_o the_o chief_a and_o head_n of_o the_o family_n this_o may_v be_v exemplify_v in_o all_o the_o relation_n of_o the_o family_n and_o in_o all_o the_o service_n of_o god_n
health_n math._n 7.9_o 19_o gen._n 37.3_o zech._n 8.5_o joh._n 4.47_o 2._o nurture_v they_o with_o good_a manner_n prov._n 22.6_o levit._fw-la 19.32_o prov._n 25.6_o luk._n 14.8_o and_o in_o some_o honest_a call_v gan._n 4.2_o and_o 37.12_o exod._n 2.16_o etc._n etc._n 2._o at_o their_o spiritual_a good_a in_o admonition_n of_o the_o lord_n deut._n 4.9_o gen._n 18.19_o prov._n 4.4_o 2_o tim._n 1.5_o in_o read_v the_o word_n 2_o tim._n 3.15_o catechise_v deut._n 6.7_o and_o by_o a_o exemplary_a life_n josh_n 22.15_o q._n what_o be_v the_o mean_n of_o nurture_n a._n 1._o frequent_a admonition_n to_o fasten_v their_o instruction_n deut._n 6.7_o whete_a they_o 2._o correction_n both_o in_o word_n of_o reproof_n prov._n 6._o 23._o and_o 15.32_o and_o in_o stripe_n if_o needful_a prov._n 22.15_o and_o 23.13_o 14._o q._n what_o duty_n do_v parent_n owe_v to_o child_n at_o ripe_a age_n past_a childhood_n a._n 1._o provision_n of_o fit_a calling_n as_o afore_o 2._o provision_n of_o fit_a match_n in_o marriage_n as_o abraham_n and_o isacc_n do_v for_o they_o both_o which_o require_v preparation_n of_o a_o stock_n and_o portion_n q._n what_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o parent_n at_o the_o time_n of_o their_o death_n a._n 1._o good_a counsel_n precept_n direction_n as_o isaac_n and_o jacob_n do_v 2._o faithful_n prayer_n and_o blessing_n of_o they_o commend_v they_o into_o the_o hand_n of_o god_n 3._o commend_v they_o to_o some_o faithful_a friend_n to_o oversee_v they_o and_o supply_v their_o loss_n esth_n 2.15_o 4._o to_o settle_v their_o estate_n by_o will_n to_o prevent_v division_n among_o child_n 38.1_o isa_n 38.1_o q._n be_v there_o not_o some_o beside_o natural_a parent_n that_o owe_v duty_n to_o child_n a._n yes_o those_o that_o be_v in_o stead_n of_o parent_n which_o be_v as_o afore_o father_v or_o mother_n in_o law_n guardian_n and_o tutor_n or_o scoolmaster_n q._n what_o duty_n do_v father_n and_o mother_n in_o law_n owe_v to_o child_n a._n the_o same_o for_o the_o most_o part_n that_o natural_a parent_n owe_v to_o they_o luk._n 2.48_o exod._n 18.1_o ruth_n 3.1_o q._n what_o reason_n be_v there_o for_o this_o a._n 1._o marriage_n make_v man_n and_o wife_n one_o flesh_n they_o ought_v to_o love_v each_o other_o child_n as_o part_v of_o themselves_o 2._o it_o be_v a_o sign_n of_o entire_a love_n to_o each_o other_o love_v i_o and_o love_v my_o child_n etc._n etc._n 3._o it_o be_v a_o special_a mean_n to_o preserve_v love_n betwixt_o they_o q._n what_o duty_n do_v guardian_n owe_v to_o the_o child_n entrust_v with_o they_o a._n the_o same_o some_o few_o except_v that_o natural_a parent_n owe_v they_o esth_n 2_o 7_o 11_o 20_o 22._o and_o 4.13_o 1_o tim._n 5.8_o q._n what_o be_v the_o special_a duty_n a._n 1._o to_o look_v careful_o to_o their_o education_n 2._o to_o preserve_v their_o patrimony_n etc._n etc._n q._n what_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o tutor_n &_o c_o a._n 1._o to_o instruct_v they_o well_o in_o piety_n or_o religion_n 2._o in_o learning_n 3._o in_o good_a manner_n chapter_n 3._o the_o duty_n of_o servant_n to_o their_o master_n eph._n 6.5_o col._n 3.22_o servant_n obey_v in_o all_o thing_n your_o master_n according_a to_o the_o flesh_n not_o with_o eye-service_n &c_n &c_n q._n what_o be_v the_o particular_n of_o these_o text_n a._n four_n 1._o the_o kind_n of_o their_o duty_n 2._o the_o manner_n 3._o the_o extent_n 4._o the_o motive_n q._n what_o be_v the_o kind_n of_o servant_n duty_n a._n two_n inward_a and_o outward_a q._n what_o be_v the_o inward_a a._n 1._o in_o judgement_n to_o he_o persuade_v of_o their_o master_n superiority_n over_o they_o 2._o in_o a_o special_a affection_n of_o fear_n not_o a_o slavish_a but_o reverential_a fear_n count_v they_o worthy_a of_o all_o honour_n mal._n 1.6_o eph._n 6.5_o 1_o pet._n 2.18_o q._n what_o be_v their_o outward_a duty_n a._n two_n reverence_n and_o obedience_n q._n wherein_o appear_v their_o reverence_n a._n 1._o in_o speech_n 2._o in_o their_o carriage_n q._n how_o in_o their_o speech_n a._n 1._o in_o forbear_v to_o speak_v in_o their_o presence_n attend_v to_o what_o they_o say_v 2._o in_o order_v their_o speech_n aright_o when_o they_o do_v speak_v where_o their_o word_n must_v be_v 1._o reverent_a give_v their_o title_n lord_n master_n etc._n etc._n 2._o few_o 3._o meek_n and_o humble_a 4._o seasonable_a mark_v 4.10_o 5_o ready_a to_o answer_v job_n 19.16_o 6_o true_a without_o lie_v 7._o good_a of_o they_o in_o absence_n as_o contrary_o ziba_n of_o his_o master_n 2_o sam._n 16.3_o q_o how_o in_o their_o carriage_n a._n 1._o by_o obeisance_n 2._o stand_v before_o they_o 3._o head_n uncover_v 4._o sober_a and_o modest_a countenance_n 5._o modesty_n of_o apparel_n suitable_a to_o their_o estate_n and_o place_n q._n what_o be_v the_o part_n of_o their_o obedience_n a._n 1._o negative_a or_o passive_a to_o forbear_v what_o be_v forbid_v or_o deny_v they_o as_o 1._o not_o to_o go_v when_o and_o whether_o they_o listen_v 2._o nor_o do_v their_o own_o but_o their_o master_n business_n 3._o nor_o dispose_v of_o their_o good_n without_o leave_n prov._n 31.15_o 21.4_o exod._n 21.4_o 4._o nor_o marry_v without_o their_o consent_n 5._o nor_o go_v away_o before_o their_o time_n expire_v 2._o affirmative_a or_o active_a and_o that_o express_v 1._o in_o do_v their_o command_n luke_n 17.7_o 8._o 2._o in_o harken_v to_o their_o instruction_n both_o religious_a and_o civil_a 3_o by_o patient_a bear_v their_o reproof_n or_o correction_n 1_o pet._n 2.18_o though_o unjust_a tit._n 2.9_o with_o speedy_a amendment_n prov_n 27.22_o q._n in_o what_o manner_n must_v all_o their_o duty_n be_v perform_v a._n 1._o in_o singleness_n of_o heart_n col._n 3.22_o and_o hearty_o v._o 23._o or_o from_o the_o heart_n not_o with_o eye-service_n or_o as_o men-pleasers_a as_o geheri_n etc._n etc._n 2._o in_o conscience_n as_o fear_v god_n as_o unto_o christ_n as_o serve_v the_o lord_n christ_n eph._n 6._o 3._o with_o good_a will_n which_o imply_v four_o thing_n 1._o cheerfulness_n 2._o quickness_n or_o readiness_n 3._o diligence_n and_o activeness_n in_o it_o 4._o faithfulness_n 1_o cor._n 4.1_o tit._n 2.10_o in_o respect_n of_o 1._o their_o master_n good_n both_o in_o keep_v they_o as_o jacob_n and_o increase_v they_o as_o they_o that_o have_v the_o talent_n contra_fw-la tit._n 2.20_o 2._o their_o business_n dispatch_v they_o well_o as_o gen._n 24.2_o 12_o 26_o 33.56_o 3._o their_o secret_n especial_o their_o infirmity_n by_o conceal_v they_o jerem._n 38.27_o 4._o good_a example_n to_o their_o fellow_n to_o make_v they_o faithful_a diligent_a etc._n etc._n contra_fw-la math._n 24.48_o 49._o 5._o love_v and_o careful_a of_o their_o child_n to_o procure_v their_o good_a of_o soul_n and_o body_n q._n what_o be_v the_o extent_n of_o their_o obedience_n a._n in_o all_o thing_n that_o be_v in_o all_o lawful_a thing_n in_o the_o lord_n to_o bring_v their_o judgement_n to_o their_o master_n in_o all_o indifferent_a thing_n for_o which_o end_n let_v 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