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rather_o hinder_v then_o further_o he_o and_o not_o be_v a_o ornament_n to_o he_o i_o commend_v prov._n 31._o from_o 10._o to_o the_o end_n as_o a_o glass_n for_o all_o that_o will_v be_v good_a wife_n to_o look_v and_o dress_v themselves_o in_o or_o as_o a_o pattern_n to_o imitate_v or_o rule_v to_o walk_v by_o every_o day_n a_o virtuous_a woman_n will_v do_v her_o husband_n good_a and_o not_o evil_a all_o the_o day_n of_o her_o life_n etc._n etc._n approve_v herself_o faithful_a to_o he_o in_o every_o thing_n that_o his_o heart_n may_v trust_v safe_o in_o she_o 12._o pro._n 31.11_o 12._o for_o marriage_n be_v conjugium_fw-la the_o fellowship_n of_o a_o yoke_n wherein_o the_o wife_n must_v bear_v one_o end_n and_o draw_v equal_o with_o her_o husband_n 4._o 2.5_o 4._o chastity_n tit._n 2.5_o duty_n be_v chastity_n of_o conversation_n which_o follow_v from_o chastity_n of_o affection_n and_o disposition_n in_o the_o heart_n wife_n must_v abstain_v not_o only_o from_o all_o act_n but_o from_o all_o appearance_n of_o lightness_n wantonness_n dalliance_n or_o unfaithfulness_n that_o their_o husband_n who_o cast_v off_o ordinance_n and_o holy_a duty_n may_v by_o the_o holy_a and_o chaste_a conversation_n of_o their_o wife_n be_v gain_v to_o the_o lord_n to_o have_v a_o like_n and_o good_a opinion_n of_o the_o gospel_n and_o the_o way_n of_o christ_n in_o which_o they_o walk_v 1_o pet._n 3.1_o 2._o this_o shall_v be_v the_o wife_n design_n upon_o her_o husband_n 5._o fear_n 5._o fear_n duty_n be_v conjugal_a fear_n of_o offend_v or_o displease_v her_o husband_n she_o that_o be_v marry_v say_v paul_n care_v for_o the_o thing_n of_o the_o world_n how_o she_o may_v please_v her_o husband_n 1_o cor._n 7.34_o wife_n shall_v couple_v chastity_n with_o fear_n in_o their_o carriage_n to_o their_o husband_n not_o to_o cross_v or_o vex_v or_o grieve_v they_o 6._o modesty_n 6_o modesty_n duty_n of_o a_o wife_n be_v modesty_n of_o apparel_n and_o of_o behaviour_n 1_o of_o apparel_n apparel_n 1_o of_o apparel_n not_o to_o affect_v costly_a gaudy_a attire_n new_a fangle_a fashion_n or_o to_o go_v above_o her_o rank_n or_o to_o give_v way_n to_o pride_n vanity_n excess_n therein_o or_o to_o account_v outward_a adorn_v as_o plait_v of_o the_o hair_n or_o wear_v of_o gold_n etc._n etc._n or_o deck_v of_o the_o body_n her_o chief_a ornament_n but_o 1._o a_o meek_a and_o quiet_a spirit_n the_o frame_n of_o the_o hide_a man_n of_o the_o heart_n which_o be_v incorruptible_a which_o be_v of_o great_a price_n in_o the_o sight_n of_o god_n 1._o pet._n 3.3_o 4._o and_o a_o great_a ornament_n in_o the_o sight_n of_o man_n for_o after_o this_o manner_n in_o the_o
old_a time_n the_o holy_a woman_n who_o trust_v in_o god_n and_o be_v in_o subjection_n to_o their_o own_o husband_n adorn_v themselves_o vers_fw-la 5._o 2._o 10._o 1_o tim._n 2.8_o 9_o 10._o and_o good_a work_n i_o will_v say_v paul_n that_o woman_n adorn_v themselves_o in_o modest_a apparel_n with_o shamefacedness_n and_o sobriety_n not_o with_o broider_a hair_n or_o gold_n pearls_z or_o costly_a array_n but_o which_o become_v woman_n profess_v godliness_n with_o good_a work_n both_o paul_n and_o peter_n be_v to_o be_v understand_v in_o a_o comparative_a sense_n that_o woman_n adorn_v shall_v be_v not_o so_o much_o in_o outward_a attire_n as_o in_o inward_a virtue_n or_o rather_o in_o the_o latter_a then_o in_o the_o former_a even_o godly_a woman_n may_v wear_v gold_n and_o jewel_n and_o precious_a thing_n and_o good_a attire_n as_o rebekah_n do_v the_o earring_n and_o bracelet_n which_o abraham_n servant_n put_v upon_o she_o 47._o gen._n 24.30_o 47._o with_o these_o limitation_n 1._o that_o these_o be_v suitable_a to_o their_o rank_n place_n and_o state_n and_o not_o costly_a above_o their_o ability_n and_o as_o the_o most_o wise_a godly_a grave_a woman_n be_v habit_v 2_o that_o they_o be_v without_o wantonness_n wastfulness_n or_o curious_a nicery_n or_o new_a fangledness_n for_o fashion_n god_n visiâ—eth_v for_o strange_a apparel_n zeph._n 1.8_o 3_o without_o pride_n vanity_n or_o excess_n or_o think_v better_a of_o themselves_o for_o they_o 4_o so_o that_o they_o place_v their_o chief_a fineness_n in_o their_o inward_a adorn_n rather_o then_o outward_a more_o in_o their_o grace_n and_o good_a work_n then_o in_o their_o garment_n and_o endeavour_v by_o the_o outward_a ornament_n of_o their_o body_n to_o set_v forth_o the_o inward_a beauty_n of_o their_o soul_n 2_o 3._o 2_o of_o behaviour_n tit_n 2_o 3._o also_o modesty_n of_o behaviour_n to_o express_v the_o inward_a holiness_n of_o their_o heart_n in_o sober_a deportment_n in_o countenance_n gesture_n and_o speech_n to_o open_v their_o mouth_n with_o discretion_n prov._n 31.26_o 9.13_o prov._n 7.11_o 12_o and_o 9.13_o and_o bridle_v their_o tongue_n and_o not_o be_v as_o the_o harlot_n babble_v and_o clamorous_a who_o be_v as_o extravagant_a in_o her_o tongue_n as_o in_o her_o foot_n good_a wife_n shall_v account_v meekness_n of_o spirit_n their_o chief_a ornament_n and_o take_v heed_n they_o be_v not_o either_o 1_o proud_a or_o imperious_a in_o their_o spirit_n speech_n look_n carriage_n 2_o or_o unquiet_a turbulent_a impatient_a always_o brawl_v or_o chide_v such_o wife_n be_v neither_o credit_n nor_o comfort_n to_o their_o husband_n but_o a_o continual_a vexation_n thorn_n in_o their_o side_n and_o prick_v in_o their_o eye_n the_o contention_n of_o a_o wife_n be_v a_o continual_a drop_n 19_o prov._n 13._o and_o 27.15_o like_a rain_n that_o fall_v into_o all_o the_o room_n of_o a_o house_n which_o be_v very_o tedious_a and_o irksome_a 21.9.25.21_o prov._n 21.9.25.21_o it_o be_v better_a to_o awâ—â—â—_n in_o the_o corner_n of_o a_o housetop_n then_o with_o a_o â—rawling_a woman_n in_o a_o wide_a house_n thus_o much_o concern_v the_o particular_a duty_n of_o husband_n to_o wife_n and_o of_o the_o wife_n to_o her_o husband_n 7._o 2._o duty_n common_a to_o both_o 7._o 2._o now_o follow_v the_o duty_n common_a to_o both_o husband_n and_o wife_n and_o to_o be_v perform_v by_o both_o or_o exercise_v to_o or_o with_o or_o for_o both_o which_o be_v equal_o reciprocal_a and_o of_o like_a obligation_n these_o be_v seven_o prayer_n 1_o prayer_n 1._o prayer_n to_o god_n frequent_a and_o fervent_a both_o joint_o and_o several_o for_o all_o marriage_n grace_n and_o marriage_n comfort_n especial_o 1._o for_o suitableness_n of_o disposition_n that_o god_n will_v fashion_v your_o heart_n alike_o 2._o for_o wisdom_n to_o carry_v with_o most_o beauty_n amiableness_n and_o swâ—â—tness_n for_o the_o benefit_n and_o advantage_n comfort_n and_o encouragement_n one_o of_o another_o 3_o for_o god_n presence_n with_o you_o in_o it_o and_o for_o god_n blessing_n upon_o it_o and_o that_o god_n will_v build_v you_o a_o house_n psalm_n 127._o by_o give_v you_o hopeful_a child_n faithful_a servant_n bless_a good_n let_v husband_n and_o wife_n interest_n god_n much_o in_o their_o marriage_n by_o prayer_n reas_n 1_o because_o a_o conjugal_a condition_n can_v be_v no_o more_o comfortable_a or_o satisfactory_a to_o we_o than_o god_n make_v it_o it_o will_v be_v a_o empty_a thing_n if_o god_n do_v not_o fill_v it_o and_o bitter_a if_o god_n do_v not_o sweeten_v it_o it_o be_v not_o the_o have_v of_o a_o husband_n or_o a_o wife_n but_o of_o god_n in_o they_o or_o with_o they_o that_o give_v content_a comfort_n and_o satisfaction_n we_o ought_v in_o all_o our_o way_n to_o acknowledge_v god_n especial_o in_o marriage_n which_o be_v one_o of_o the_o chief_a of_o our_o way_n and_o a_o great_a turn_v of_o our_o life_n which_o concern_v the_o future_a comfort_n thereof_o 2_o because_o mercy_n get_v with_o prayer_n be_v get_v with_o a_o blessing_n and_o prove_v the_o sweet_a mercy_n of_o all_o prayer_n sanctify_v marriage_n 1_o tim_n 4.3_o 4._o and_o make_v the_o act_n of_o it_o holy_a in_o manner_n and_o happy_a in_o end_n 2._o 2.4_o 2_o love_n tit._n 2.4_o common_a duty_n be_v conjugal_a love_n which_o be_v not_o proper_a to_o the_o husband_n alone_o but_o shall_v be_v mutual_a and_o reciprocal_a between_o they_o both_o to_o this_o end_n husband_n and_o wife_n ought_v to_o love_v one_o another_o 1_o chief_o for_o the_o grace_n of_o god_n the_o one_o see_v in_o the_o other_o that_o be_v unchangeable_a their_o love_n will_v be_v constant_a when_o religion_n ti_v the_o knot_n of_o affection_n between_o they_o it_o hold_v fast_o till_o death_n but_o when_o they_o love_v one_o another_o chief_o for_o other_o respect_n as_o beauty_n wealth_n or_o fulfil_v the_o desire_n of_o the_o flesh_n etc._n etc._n when_o these_o be_v satisfy_v or_o fail_v love_n will_v cool_v 2._o real_o at_o their_o heart_n or_o in_o sincerity_n for_o to_o dissemble_v affection_n and_o counterfeit_n love_n and_o kindness_n will_v deprive_v they_o of_o the_o comfort_n and_o sweetness_n of_o marriage_n and_o make_v it_o in_o time_n a_o burden_n and_o bitterness_n to_o they_o sincere_a love_n knit_v their_o heart_n as_o mâ—n_z join_v their_o hand_n together_o else_o they_o will_v not_o cleave_v but_o sit_v loose_a and_o be_v ready_a to_o leave_v one_o another_o love_n 4._o ground_n of_o mutual_a love_n but_o there_o be_v four_o special_a ground_n of_o mutual_a love_n and_o deareness_n between_o husband_n and_o wife_n scil_n donation_n propriety_n union_n and_o necessity_n 1._o donation_n they_o be_v special_a gift_n bestow_v by_o god_n the_o one_o upon_o the_o other_o 19.14_o 1_o donation_n prov._n 18.22_o and_o 19.14_o which_o shall_v be_v a_o precious_a endearment_n of_o one_o to_o other_o thus_o they_o shall_v look_v at_o themselves_o this_o be_v the_o woman_n god_n have_v give_v to_o i_o to_o be_v a_o meet_a help_n for_o i_o above_o all_o the_o woman_n in_o the_o world_n so_o this_o be_v that_o man_n god_n have_v fit_v for_o i_o and_o give_v to_o i_o for_o a_o head_n and_o guide_n above_o all_o other_o man_n in_o the_o world_n 2._o propriety_n 2_o propriety_n propriety_n or_o the_o mutual_a interest_n they_o have_v by_o matrimony_n one_o in_o another_o they_o be_v one_o another_o own_o proper_o and_o peculiar_o so_o as_o they_o be_v no_o body_n else_o and_o so_o as_o no_o person_n or_o thing_n in_o the_o world_n be_v their_o own_o for_o they_o be_v marry_v one_o to_o another_o so_o be_v they_o to_o no_o body_n to_o nothing_o beside_o the_o apostle_n assert_v this_o matrimonial_a interest_n in_o the_o 1._o of_o cor._n 7.2_o let_v every_o man_n have_v his_o own_o wife_n and_o every_o woman_n have_v she_o own_o husband_n the_o wise_a have_v not_o power_n of_o she_o own_o body_n but_o her_o husband_n nor_o the_o husband_n have_v power_n of_o his_o own_o body_n but_o the_o wife_n so_o as_o not_o to_o account_v their_o own_o body_n to_o be_v at_o their_o own_o disposal_n the_o wife_n be_v the_o husband_n only_o one_o and_o he_o be_v she_o they_o shall_v be_v mutual_a darling_n one_o to_o another_o because_o they_o be_v mutual_a proprietor_n one_o of_o another_o by_o self_n resignation_n of_o each_o to_o other_o they_o give_v themselves_o mutual_a power_n one_o over_o another_o now_o every_o one_o love_v his_o own_o best_a non_fw-la quia_fw-la pulchrum_fw-la sed_fw-la quia_fw-la suum_fw-la his_o own_o child_n his_o own_o good_n his_o own_o house_n etc._n etc._n for_o propriety_n more_o than_o for_o beauty_n because_o they_o be_v his_o own_o shall_v a_o man_n love_v any_o thing_n that_o be_v his_o own_o but_o his_o wife_n or_o better_a than_o his_o wife_n or_o shall_v a_o wife_n love_v any_o thing_n that_o be_v
she_o own_o but_o her_o husband_n or_o better_a than_o her_o husband_n or_o shall_v a_o man_n love_v other_o man_n wife_n or_o a_o woman_n love_v other_o woman_n husband_n better_a then_o their_o own_o peculiarity_n of_o interest_n be_v a_o ground_n of_o speciality_n of_o love_n 3._o union_n 3_o union_n ground_n of_o special_a love_n between_o they_o be_v union_n the_o conjunction_n husband_n and_o wise_n have_v one_o with_o another_o they_o two_o be_v in_o many_o respect_n as_o one_o person_n and_o so_o one_o together_o as_o they_o be_v not_o or_o shall_v not_o be_v with_o any_o one_o beside_o in_o all_o the_o world_n to_o wit_v one_o flesh_n gen._n 2.24_o as_o it_o be_v incarnate_v one_o to_o another_o adam_n acknowledge_v this_o when_o god_n have_v make_v the_o woman_n for_o he_o and_o bring_v or_o marry_v her_o to_z he_o he_o say_v this_o be_v now_o bone_n of_o my_o bone_n and_o flesh_n of_o my_o flesh_n to_o show_v his_o thankfulness_n to_o god_n and_o love_n to_o his_o wife_n 2.23_o gen._n 2.23_o as_o wonder_v at_o god_n goodness_n to_o he_o therein_o marriage_n be_v a_o moral_a conjunction_n of_o two_o person_n so_o as_o man_n and_o wife_n be_v in_o law_n one_o flesh_n by_o god_n ordinance_n it_o be_v the_o strict_a bond_n of_o any_o relation_n and_o therefore_o a_o fellowship_n of_o the_o dear_a amity_n near_o than_o that_o between_o parent_n and_o child_n though_o child_n have_v their_o flesh_n and_o bone_n from_o their_o parent_n yet_o they_o be_v not_o one_o flesh_n with_o their_o parent_n therefore_o shall_v a_o man_n leave_v his_o father_n and_o mother_n and_o shall_v cleave_v unto_o his_o wise_n this_o 2.24_o gen._n 2.24_o be_v the_o sanction_n of_o marriage_n all_o society_n must_v be_v leave_v that_o this_o between_o man_n and_o wife_n may_v be_v keep_v this_o be_v paul_n rule_n let_v not_o the_o wise_a depart_n from_o her_o husband_n 16._o 1_o cor._n 7.0.11_o â—â—â—ach_n 2_o 16._o and_o let_v not_o the_o husband_n put_v away_o his_o wife_n for_o god_n hate_v put_v away_o the_o wife_n must_v be_v a_o individual_a companion_n of_o life_n the_o say_n of_o the_o philosopher_n that_o perfect_a friendship_n be_v only_o between_o two_o be_v most_o true_a in_o this_o case_n between_o man_n and_o wife_n because_o they_o two_o be_v by_o marriage_n make_v one_o necessity_n 4_o necessity_n the_o 4_o ground_n of_o spiritual_a love_n between_o they_o be_v necessity_n of_o the_o one_o for_o the_o other_o even_o for_o their_o be_v as_o well_o as_o for_o their_o walk_n in_o both_o these_o respect_n we_o may_v understand_v that_o of_o the_o apostle_n 11.11_o 1_o cor._n 11.11_o neither_o be_v the_o man_n without_o the_o woman_n neither_o be_v the_o woman_n without_o the_o man_n in_o the_o lord_n the_o man_n be_v not_o without_o the_o woman_n nor_o can_v be_v because_o man_n now_o be_v conceive_v and_o bear_v of_o a_o woman_n the_o woman_n be_v not_o without_o the_o man_n 14.1_o job_n 14.1_o because_o she_o be_v now_o beget_v of_o man_n so_o that_o they_o be_v mutual_a cause_n the_o one_o of_o the_o other_o the_o woman_n have_v her_o generation_n from_o the_o man_n the_o man_n have_v his_o conception_n and_o birth_n from_o the_o woman_n they_o can_v be_v much_o less_o be_v well_o the_o one_o without_o the_o other_o the_o husband_n shall_v look_v at_o his_o wife_n as_o causa_fw-la sine_fw-la qua_fw-la non_fw-la a_o help_n he_o can_v well_o be_v without_o for_o god_n say_v it_o be_v not_o good_a that_o man_n shall_v be_v alone_o and_o the_o woman_n shall_v look_v at_o her_o husband_n under_o the_o same_o notion_n it_o be_v not_o good_a for_o the_o woman_n to_o be_v alone_o therefore_o the_o husband_n shall_v not_o insult_v over_o his_o wife_n because_o oâ—_n his_o superiority_n over_o she_o nor_o the_o wife_n be_v discourage_v because_o of_o her_o inferiority_n or_o subjection_n to_o he_o because_o they_o have_v need_v the_o one_o of_o the_o other_o as_o fellow_n to_o bear_v and_o draw_v in_o one_o yoke_n together_o now_o mutual_a necessity_n shall_v breed_v mutual_a love_n between_o they_o what_o be_v so_o dear_a unto_o the_o wife_n as_o the_o child_n of_o her_o womb_n isa_n 49_o 15._o yet_o the_o husband_n shall_v be_v dear_a to_o she_o as_o eâ—kanah_n say_v to_o hannah_n 1.8_o 1_o sam._n 1.8_o be_o not_o i_o better_o to_o thou_o then_o ten_o son_n 3_o communion_n 3_o common_a duâ—â—_n be_v communion_n common_a duty_n between_o husband_n and_o wife_n be_v communion_n which_o flow_v from_o the_o union_n of_o their_o person_n by_o marriage_n for_o union_n be_v the_o ground_n of_o communion_n or_o communication_n of_o their_o body_n soul_n good_n and_o respect_n 1._o body_n 1_o of_o body_n of_o their_o body_n by_o mutual_a benevolence_n perform_v by_o the_o one_o to_o the_o other_o 1._o gor._n 7.3.4_o 2_o by_o cohabitation_n 1_o pet._n 3.7_o or_o dwell_v together_o unless_o it_o be_v for_o a_o time_n and_o upon_o necessary_a occasion_n 3._o by_o conjugal_a fidelity_n reserve_v themselves_o entire_o and_o peculiar_o proper_a the_o one_o for_o the_o other_o as_o christ_n and_o his_o church_n do_v hosea_n 3.3_o 2_o soul_n 2_o of_o soul_n of_o their_o soul_n for_o the_o spiritual_a good_a of_o both_o the_o heart_n as_o well_o as_o the_o body_n shall_v be_v common_a between_o husband_n and_o wife_n one_o say_v that_o both_o the_o body_n and_o the_o soul_n be_v unite_v together_o in_o marriage_n conjugal_a love_n will_v make_v heart_n advance_v together_o as_o well_o as_o body_n as_o amical_a love_n do_v friend_n the_o soul_n of_o jonathan_n be_v knit_v with_o the_o soul_n of_o david_n and_o jonathan_n love_v he_o as_o his_o own_o soul_n 1_o sam._n 18.1_o as_o lustful_a love_n make_v the_o soul_n of_o unclean_a person_n to_o cleave_v together_o as_o well_o as_o their_o body_n as_o shechems_n soul_n cleave_v to_o dinah_n jacob_n daughter_n who_o he_o defile_v gen._n 34.3_o 11.3_o 1_o king_n 11.3_o and_o solomon_n cleave_v unto_o many_o strange_a woman_n in_o love_n but_o i_o shall_v speak_v more_o of_o this_o soul_n communion_n between_o marry_a person_n in_o the_o four_o common_a duty_n 3_o go_n 3._o of_o go_n of_o their_o good_n and_o estate_n labour_n and_o endeavour_n a_o joint_a fruition_n thereof_o for_o mutual_a benefit_n and_o comfort_n 4_o kindred_n 4._o of_o respect_n to_o their_o kindred_n also_o there_o shall_v be_v a_o communion_n of_o due_a respect_n and_o love_a kindness_n to_o the_o kindred_n and_o friend_n that_o pertain_v to_o either_o party_n the_o husband_n and_o wife_n lie_v as_o corner-stone_n in_o the_o wall_n to_o join_v several_a alliance_n and_o kindred_n together_o and_o aught_o to_o carry_v very_o respectful_o to_o their_o affinity_n contract_v by_o marriage_n esau_n wife_n offend_v great_o in_o grieve_v the_o heart_n of_o their_o husband_n parent_n gen._n 26.35_o 4._o another_o 4._o furtherance_n of_o the_o salvation_n one_o of_o another_o common_a duty_n be_v to_o further_a the_o salvation_n and_o soul_n good_a one_o of_o another_o as_o give_v of_o god_n to_o that_o end_n husband_n and_o wife_n shall_v labour_v to_o gain_v one_o another_o to_o christ_n and_o help_v one_o another_o to_o heaven_n what_o know_v thou_o o_o wife_n say_v paul_n but_o thou_o may_v be_v a_o mean_n to_o save_v thy_o husband_n and_o whâ—t_o know_v thou_o o_o man_n but_o thou_o may_v save_v thy_o wife_n however_o this_o aught_o to_o be_v the_o serious_a endeavour_n of_o both_o if_o thou_o know_v not_o whether_o thou_o shall_v yet_o try_v whether_o thou_o can_v to_o this_o end_n extend_v your_o desire_n and_o labour_n in_o three_o particular_n 1_o to_o heal_v infirmity_n the_o one_o see_v in_o the_o other_o as_o pride_n passion_n discontent_n folly_n vanity_n excess_n or_o the_o like_a take_v the_o fit_a time_n when_o the_o party_n may_v best_o be_v wrought_v upon_o it_o be_v apt_a to_o take_v impression_n or_o be_v in_o a_o tractable_a ductile_a frame_n and_o choose_v the_o best_a manner_n to_o do_v it_o in_o a_o take_v efficacious_a way_n beg_v 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judgement_n let_v they_o pray_v with_o their_o family_n in_o the_o morning_n because_o some_o of_o they_o may_v fall_v sick_a and_o die_v before_o night_n and_o pray_v in_o the_o evening_n also_o to_o commit_v themselves_o and_o their_o house_n to_o god_n safe_a keep_n from_o all_o peril_n and_o danger_n for_o they_o know_v not_o what_o a_o night_n may_v bring_v forth_o or_o day_n either_o and_o if_o evil_n befall_v they_o their_o heart_n will_v smite_v they_o for_o neglect_n of_o this_o necessary_a duty_n of_o prayer_n in_o their_o family_n also_o to_o catechise_v repeat_v sermon_n and_o teach_v all_o in_o their_o house_n their_o duty_n and_o to_o seek_v the_o soul_n good_a of_o their_o servant_n as_o well_o as_o of_o their_o child_n and_o as_o well_o as_o to_o expect_v the_o service_n of_o their_o body_n and_o to_o charge_v they_o all_o to_o walk_v in_o god_n way_n as_o abraham_n do_v his_o child_n and_o househould_v after_o he_o gen_n 18.19_o 28.9_o prov._n 4.1_o to_o 5._o 1._o 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be_v give_v over_o by_o god_n to_o the_o devil_n temptation_n so_o far_o that_o she_o thrust_v a_o knife_n into_o the_o pit_n of_o her_o stomach_n and_o kill_v herself_o yet_o before_o she_o die_v she_o confess_v thus_o much_o to_o that_o minister_n and_o crave_v god_n pardon_v as_o well_o as_o she_o can_v have_v it_o not_o be_v better_o that_o she_o have_v bear_v her_o husband_n company_n in_o holy_a duty_n and_o so_o go_v hand_n in_o hand_n to_o heaven_n together_o further_o set_v up_o god_n word_n to_o be_v the_o law_n of_o your_o house_n to_o order_v your_o family_n and_o all_o the_o affair_n of_o it_o according_a to_o the_o rule_n of_o it_o for_o god_n word_n mould_n and_o shape_n every_o person_n in_o it_o for_o his_o employment_n and_o direct_v and_o keep_v they_o in_o their_o several_a rank_n place_n and_o duty_n this_o be_v the_o way_n to_o have_v a_o church_n in_o your_o house_n 16.5_o rom._n 16.5_o as_o aquila_n and_o priscilla_n have_v 2._o servant_n 2_o choose_v good_a 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that_o your_o tabernacle_n shall_v be_v in_o peace_n 24_o chap._n â—_o 24_o god_n will_v keep_v house_n for_o you_o when_o you_o be_v from_o home_n as_o bildad_o 8.6_o job_n 8.6_o if_o you_o be_v pure_a and_o upright_a god_n will_v make_v the_o habitation_n of_o your_o righteousness_n prosperous_a let_v it_o be_v your_o care_n to_o make_v it_o righteous_a and_o god_n will_v make_v it_o prosperous_a 4_o look_v well_o to_o the_o way_n of_o your_o household_n family_n 4_o oversee_v the_o family_n to_o prevent_v or_o supress_v sin_n and_o to_o stop_v the_o beginning_n thereof_o to_o cherish_v &_o encourage_v good_a in_o all_o that_o live_v with_o you_o to_o reduce_v those_o that_o go_v astray_o in_o opinion_n or_o in_o conversation_n this_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o the_o wife_n as_o well_o as_o of_o the_o husband_n 14._o prov._n 31.27_o 1_o sam._n 3.13_o 14._o the_o virtuous_a woman_n look_v well_o to_o the_o way_n of_o her_o household_n because_o elies_n son_n make_v themselves_o vile_a and_o he_o restrain_v they_o not_o god_n judge_v his_o house_n for_o ever_o 5._o sabbath_n 5._o to_o sanctify_v the_o sabbath_n to_o keep_v holy_a the_o sabbath_n day_n not_o only_o you_o but_o all_o within_o your_o house_n the_o charge_v whereof_o lie_v main_o on_o the_o master_n of_o the_o house_n and_o next_o upon_o the_o mistress_n exod._n 20.9_o 10._o this_o godly_a covenant_n of_o your_o household_n will_v draw_v down_o god_n protection_n and_o blessing_n upon_o your_o habitation_n relation_n and_o upon_o all_o your_o affair_n the_o use_n hereof_o be_v to_o exhort_v all_o marry_v and_o marry_v person_n 1_o to_o learn_v these_o marriage_n duty_n both_o special_a and_o common_a duty_n use_v 1_o learn_v these_o marriage_n duty_n for_o any_o to_o marry_v before_o they_o know_v their_o duty_n or_o how_o to_o carry_v therein_o be_v like_o set_v up_o before_o one_o have_v learn_v the_o trade_n or_o like_o answer_v a_o matter_n before_o one_o hear_v it_o which_o be_v folly_n and_o 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wife_n may_v draw_v forth_o the_o love_n and_o kindness_n of_o a_o husband_n and_o a_o husband_n may_v extract_v the_o helpfulness_n and_o comfort_n of_o a_o wife_n by_o the_o religious_a do_v of_o their_o duty_n the_o one_o to_o the_o other_o for_o man_n or_o woman_n to_o expect_v the_o comfort_n of_o a_o relation_n and_o to_o neglect_v the_o duty_n thereof_o be_v to_o tempt_v god_n 25.24_o math._n 25.24_o and_o to_o act_v the_o part_n of_o a_o hard_a man_n who_o look_v to_o reap_v where_o he_o have_v not_o sow_v and_o to_o gather_v where_o he_o have_v not_o strew_v 3._o covenant_n 3_o the_o marriage_n covenant_n motive_n the_o solemn_a league_n and_o covenant_n you_o enter_v into_o mutual_o at_o marriage_n whereof_o god_n himself_o be_v a_o witness_n malac._n 2.14_o both_o of_o your_o make_n it_o
ourselves_o as_o betroth_v to_o he_o in_o righteousness_n and_o love_a kindness_n mercy_n and_o faithfulness_n 2_o he_o 2_o to_o expect_v the_o love_n of_o a_o husband_n from_o he_o to_o expect_v all_o that_o love_n kindness_n tenderness_n comfort_n nourishing_n and_o cherishing_n from_o christ_n spiritual_o eph._n 5.29_o which_o the_o wife_n look_v to_o receive_v from_o her_o husband_n corporal_o as_o the_o spouse_n do_v in_o the_o canticle_n the_o kiss_n of_o his_o mouth_n cant._n 1.2_o the_o embrace_n of_o his_o arm_n cap._n 2.6_o the_o refreshment_n of_o his_o presence_n to_o sit_v under_o his_o shadow_n with_o great_a delight_n 3._o cant._n 2_o 3._o cordial_n and_o refocillation_n to_o support_v and_o comfort_v the_o soul_n in_o his_o absence_n this_o be_v to_o be_v stay_v with_o flagon_n and_o comfort_v with_o apple_n verse_n 5._o also_o the_o discovery_n of_o christ_n to_o the_o soul_n for_o he_o have_v promise_v i_o will_v manifest_v myself_o to_o you_o john_n 14.21_o will_v 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be_v at_o his_o command_n and_o dispose_v to_o open_v our_o heart_n unto_o he_o invite_v and_o entreat_v he_o earnest_o to_o come_v in_o and_o not_o only_o to_o sup_v and_o lodge_v in_o they_o but_o to_o make_v his_o abode_n in_o and_o with_o our_o soul_n i_o open_v to_o my_o belove_a say_v the_o spouse_n cant._n 5.5_o to_o be_v sick_a of_o love_n for_o christ_n as_o the_o spouse_n be_v cant._n 5.8_o sick_a with_o grief_n for_o his_o absence_n and_o with_o desire_n of_o his_o presence_n and_o to_o seek_v he_o up_o and_o down_o as_o the_o spouse_n do_v cant._n 3.1_o 2_o 3._o by_o night_n on_o our_o bed_n in_o private_a inquiry_n breathe_n and_o restless_a desire_n and_o pursuit_n after_o he_o and_o in_o the_o street_n and_o broad_a way_n of_o the_o ordinance_n and_o communion_n of_o saint_n and_o not_o to_o give_v over_o till_o we_o find_v he_o and_o have_v find_v he_o to_o hold_v he_o fast_o and_o not_o let_v he_o go_v to_o join_v ourselves_o 1._o christ_n by_o faith_n and_o love_n 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now_o bone_n of_o my_o bone_n and_o flesh_n of_o my_o flesh_n say_v adam_n of_o his_o wife_n gen._n 2_o 23._o we_o be_v member_n of_o his_o that_o be_v christ_n body_n of_o his_o flesh_n and_o of_o his_o bone_n say_v paul_n of_o saint_n and_o beleiver_n ephes_n 5.30_o and_o of_o conjugal_a communion_n between_o they_o therefore_o paul_n conclude_v verse_n 32._o this_o be_v a_o great_a mystery_n but_o i_o speak_v concern_v christ_n and_o the_o church_n as_o if_o he_o have_v say_v all_o i_o have_v write_v concern_v husband_n and_o wife_n set_v forth_o the_o matrimonial_a relation_n and_o fellowship_n between_o christ_n and_o his_o church_n his_o expression_n of_o love_n to_o she_o and_o interchangeable_o her_o duty_n
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then_o eve_n though_o it_o be_v say_v in_o gen._n 1.27_o that_o god_n create_v they_o that_o be_v adam_n and_o eve_n male_a and_o female_a yet_o not_o together_o this_o be_v a_o anticipation_n the_o 27_o 28._o verse_n of_o gen._n 1._o chap._n be_v to_o be_v make_v up_o with_o the_o 17_o 18_o 19_o verse_n of_o the_o 2._o chapter_n together_o into_o one_o relation_n this_o be_v the_o cause_n of_o the_o creation_n of_o the_o woman_n because_o adam_n be_v alone_o god_n see_v adam_n solitary_n and_o defective_a till_o he_o have_v a_o wife_n i_o will_v make_v he_o say_v god_n a_o help_n commodious_a for_o he_o god_n create_v the_o woman_n by_o deliberate_a council_n as_o before_o he_o have_v do_v the_o man_n gen._n 1.26_o 27._o let_v we_o make_v man_n in_o our_o image_n the_o creation_n of_o the_o woman_n be_v the_o work_n of_o the_o trinity_n as_o well_o as_o of_o the_o man_n when_o adam_n see_v no_o other_o fit_a help_n for_o he_o among_o all_o the_o creature_n it_o may_v make_v he_o the_o 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