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A30675 A help to holy walking, or, A guide to glory containing directions how to worship God, and to walk with him in the whole course of our lives / by Edward Bury. Bury, Edward, 1616-1700. 1675 (1675) Wing B6206; ESTC R23864 205,598 379

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Butter was to be had and commended the Widdows mite when she had no more I hope will receive this when he knows I have no better where but little is given of him less will be required The Subject I know is necessary if not spoiled in the handling though the Ring look dusk yet the Diamond will sparkle Multiplicity of contrary Studies and other Imployments as most that know me can Witness might perhaps have pleaded my Excuse for Writing as indeed it did satisfie me for several Years so I hope it will plead my Excuse for coming forth in so homely a dress When Paul beheld the Idolatry of the Athenians his Spirit was moved and when I beheld the formality of Professors no wonder if with Crassus dumb Son I spake when I saw my Father wronged Among all the Objection I could think of that might come in against this my well-meant Labour I found none that said it was impossible it should do good I am sure none can justly Object it was not intended for good those that really desire to lead a Holy life I hope will own it as for others those that have neither good word for God nor for his ways I cannot expect they should have any for me however my witness against them will be upon Record Madam if you have better at hand you may bestow this upon some wanting Soul for whose sake it was Written I have not further to add but desire of God in these declining Times when Atheism Prophaness Superstition and Debauchery are too much in Fashion that he will keep you and yours from the Temptations laid in your way that you may shine as Stars of the first Magnitude to enlighten this dark Hemisphere that you may grow in Grace as you grow in Years and may be presented blameless at the Coming of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ that your Interest in Christ and Title to Glory may be cleared up that when you come to dye you may have nothing to do but to dye and resign up your Soul into the Hands of Christ these are the desires and shall be the Prayers of him who is Madam Yours to his Power to Serve you Edw. Bury Eaton Nov. 2. 1674. THE EPISTLE TO THE READER CHristian Reader I think my self obliged to give thee some Account of this following Treatise for in the beginning of it thou wilt find mention made of a former Treatise which indeed is not yet Published containing the Doctrine of Holy Walking Now although this was first designed and first begun and in Order of Nature should have been the First born yet it fared with it as it did with Zarah Gen. 38.28 This Pharez hath made a breach and came out first and like Jacob supplanted his Brother and got the Birth-right yet haply the other may not be strangled in the Birth if this prove not too Chargable in the keeping Know then when I first set upon the Work I intended it to be Divided into five Parts all in the same Method the first containing 1. An Introduction to the whole 2. The Explication what Holy Walking implies 3. The Reasons why 't is necessary 4. The Objections against it Answered 5. Reproof to several sorts that Live otherwise 6. Some Considerations put to them 7. Some gross mistakes about Holiness 8. Marks of Holy Walking 9. Devices of Satan to keep Men in sin 10. The Priviledges of the Godly 11. Qualifications requisite to an Holy Life 12. Moving Considerations thereunto 13. Hinderances in the way to Heaven And Lastly Helps and Directions The Second Part is the present Book here presented of which I need give you no other Account The Third contains Directions 1. For the Thoughts 2. For the Words 3. For the Actions 4. For the Affections 5. For the Consciences 6. For Recreations 7. For Apparel 8. For Eating and Drinking 9. For Redeeming Time 10. For Buying and Selling. 11. For Company 12. For Solitariness 13. To bear Affliction well 14. In a particular Calling The Fourth contains a disswasive 1. From Sin in general 2. From Pride 3. Atheism 4. Covetousness 5. Drunkenness 6. Adultery 7. Swearing 8. Lying 9. Murder 10. Idleness 11. Apostacy 12. Idolatry 13. Hypocrisie 14. Stealing 15. Contention The 5. and last contains Relative Duties 1. Of the unmarried in reference to Marriage 2. The mutual Duties of the Husband and Wife 3. The Husbands peculiar Duties 4. The Wives Duties 5. Parents Duties 6. The Duties of Children 7. Of Masters 8. Of Servants 9. Of Magistrates 10. Of Subjects 11. Of Ministers 12. Of People Now only the second of these sees the Light the first and last are well near Finished and may ere long shew themselves and the rest in time if my Life and Health be Continued and I be not in the mean time convinc'd that t●ey will be useless I know the World is full of Books many that complain most read least but should we observe most mens Devotion and their Carriage in the World we may Imagine that Books that reduce Christianity into practice and teach us our Duties to God and Man are yet wanting that is not sufficiently taught that is not sufficiently learnt there are need of more Books that maintain the Vitals of Religion in an Age when almost all Religigion is turned into a matter of Formality and Ceremony and little of the power of Godliness appears I have not in this neither do I intend in the other brought you any new Lights but to direct you in the good Old way mentioned Jer. 6.16 which the Saints in former Ages have Walk'd in and which will be proved to be the only way to Heaven though of late there are many new attempts to find a better but if any but the way of Holiness end in Happiness let me be called a false Prophet Mens Brains were never better stufft nor their Tongues ever more busie but their Hearts are empty and their Hands are idle never more talking of the way and never less walking in it And if good words would save without good Hearts or good Works or good Duties never so many would go to Heaven as in our Age. Most mens knowledge floats in the Brain and little sinks or soaks down into the Heart or seasons the Life or Conversation hence like Children that have the Rickets by reason of some Obstructions the Head grows too big for the Body If a bare Profession of Religion would serve turn for Salvation but it will not Mat. 7.22 25.1,2,3 c. to the 14. many would be saved for they can Number their Prayers as the Papist doth his Beads but God doth not accept them by Number but by Weight He is a Spirit and will be Worshipped in Spirit and in Truth A little Grace I fear a little Profession makes a great shew in a Great man the power of Godliness is for the most part left to the Poor that are more willing to take pains and have little to lose But whether God
requires not or do it in a manner he regards not They are like the Son that said to his Father I go Sir but went not Mat. 21.30 But shall we take it for granted that thou wilt worship him but wilt thou do it in truth and sincerity otherwise God will not regard it I fear we may say of many as Joshua of Israel Josh 24.19 You cannot serve the Lord for he is an holy God but is it your Resolution as theirs was in the verses following Nay but we will serve the Lord and that you will choose the Lord to serve him consider what you do you must take him to be your God and be willing to have your Souls cleansed from all your sins and must be willing to take the Lord Jesus Christ as he is offered in the Gospel to be your Lord and Husband and be as willing to be ruled by him as saved by him and must resolve to obey his Laws and do his will and live in the performance of those spiritual duties he requires at at thy hand Yea thou must have a setled Resolution to cleave to Christ and obey him even in the most despised disgraceful dangerous difficult and costly part of duty Though it be to the loss of thy worldly enjoyments yea and life it self I know many would pick of choose their duties this they would do but that they would not they scum of the Fat and sweet of duty but leave that which is difficult or dangerous but God will have no such Servants obey him thou must though thy Father Mother and all thy Friends become thine Enemies upon the account yea in some cases thou must not only leave but hate Father and Mother c. yea thy own life for his sake yea though thou loose thy credit and esteem in the World and be made a scorn and a reproach for his sake though thou loose thy pleasure and never see merry day whilst thou livest though it endanger thy Estate and bring thee to Poverty though thou loose thy Liberty and be cast into a Prison yea though thou loose thy life and be brought to a Stake to suffer yea though thou seest few or none walk that same way with thee Noah must obey God though the whole World disobey him yea thou must obey him though his commands be never so contrary to thy carnal interest or never so opposite to flesh and blood and though they are never so hard or difficult or dangerous or costly before ever thou take upon thee the profession of Religion sit down first and reckon the charges lest like many thou begin to build and be unable to finish it and not like many put their hands to the Plow and then look back or like the stony ground when persecution ariseth presently are offended resolve to give him thy heart with thy hand or he will have none of thee he knows the heart and trie the reins and thou canst not deceive him with a dissembling shew when Nadab and Abihu offered strange fire he slew them When Ananias and Saphira played the Hypocrite he struck them dead Cleanse thy heart therefore if thou wilt serve him and serve him thou must or do worse Thou canst never err on that hand in serving him too well he deserves more and better than thou canst give him his wages will be beyond thy work now that I may prevail with thee to serve God take these following Motives 1. Motive We should worship and serve the Lord our God because he hath commanded us so to do and his command makes it our duty we are his Creatures and we owe our selves and all that we have to him for our Creation He made us and therefore hath most right to us He made us for his service and therefore 't is all the reason in the World that we should serve him for who is the Pot but the Potters and this is the service he requires of us to worship him according to his will and praise him for his benefits this is all he requires at our hands even this Tribute of praise and shall we be so ingrateful to our great Benefactour to deny him this Nay we are his also by right of Redemption for we had sold our selves unto slavery even to Sathan and were become Bond-slaves to this hellish Pharaoh who exercised more cruelty to our Souls than ever Pharaoh did to the Bodies of the Israelites and in the slavery had remained for ever had not God sent his own Son to ransome us with the loss of his life and the shedding of his pretious blood Satan was the strong man armed that kept his house in peace till Christ a stronger than he disarmed him and took away his weapons wherein he boasted And now being bought with a price we should glorifie God with our Bodies and with our Souls which are Gods The end he aimed at in our Redemption was his own glory as well as our liberty and this he expects from our hands is we being delivered from the fear of our Enemies might serve him without fear in Holiness and Righteousness before him all the days of our Lives Luk. 2.74,75 Nay we are also his by Covenant under our Hand and Seal in our Baptisme we were dedicated to his service which Covenant since we have often ratified at the Sacrament of the Supper and how can we deny our own act and deed He is our Lord and we should worship him Psal 45 1● Now that worship and service is required of us is evident Scripture and Reason speaks as much 2 Kings 17.36 You shall not fear other Gods nor bow your selves to them nor serve them nor sacrifice to them but the Lord who brought you out of the Land of Egypt with great power and a stretched out arm him shall ye fear ond him shall ye worship and to him you shall do sacrifice and his statutes and his ordinances ye shall observe Exod. 34.4 You shall worship no other God but him the like we have Exod. 20.50 1 Chron. 16.29 Give unto the Lord the glory due unto his Name bring an Offering and an Oblation before him worship him in the beauty of holiness Yea Christ himself preacheth this doctrine when the Divil tempted him to fall down and worship him he answered It is written thou shalt worship the Lord thy God and him only shalt thou serve Mat. 4.8 Yea he directs us with what worship to worship him John 4.23,24 The true worshippers worship him in Spirit and in Truth God is a Spirit and those that worship him must worship him in Spirit and of this spiritual worship we may also read Phil. 3.3 Or will you hear the counsel of an Angel from Heaven you have it Rev. 19.10 Worship God yea this is the practice of the Angels the work they do and the work that the Angels and gloryfied Saints shall do through all Eternity Heb. 1.6 But what are Testimonies in so plain a case few deny it though few
some Men and those of no small note for Religion to pick and chuse their Duties this they will do and this they will not do they scum off the Fat and sweet of Duty and leave the difficult dangerous costly part of Duty undone but this is not sufficient neither will it evidence any one to be a Christian indeed Many especially great ones run on with this mistake for a little Grace makes a great shew in a great Man yea oft-times the shew is taken for the Substance many will perform such Duties as are in Credit in the world and like to cost them but a little which yet refuse self-denying difficult or dangerous Duties They will hear and read and confer and perhaps pray in their Families and some other such like External parts of worship and if God will be pleased with these and Heaven will be had upon such terms they will have it but if he require self denyal duties or those which cross their own Interest if they must take up the Cross and follow him and deny themselves hate and forsake Father or Mother Wife or Children Lands or Livings Pleasure or Honour Liberty or Life for his sake they will not buy Heaven at so dear a rate But God is resolved he will abate nothing and they are resolved they will bid no more and so they part But hath not the same God Commanded the one as well as the other And hath he not wisdom enough to know which is the best and nearest way to Heaven Or would he willingly torment his Creatures and put his Servants to unnecessary Troubles Can these Men think to find out a nearer way to Heaven than God hath prescribed Or that they shall ever come there without his knowledge without the Qualifications he requires Surely they are much mistaken yet how ordinary is it even for Professors themselves to study Arguments for sin and against duty when the one suits with their Carnal Interest and the other crosses it But Christians that have taken Christ upon his own terms and are delivered from the power of sin and Satan think they can never do enough for Christ They are always questioning what shall I do for him that hath done so much for me What shall I render to the Lord for all his benefits Psal 118.12 'T is the very end why we are delivered from our Enemies to serve God in Holiness and Righteousness all the days of our Lives Luke 1.74,75 'T is the mark of those that Love God to keep his Commandments John 14.15 When others perform duties only in Subserviency to their own Carnal Interests and therefore only own that part and duty that suits with their designs as Jehu in his Reformation of Idolatry and set up their Staff and say hitherto will I go and no further then a godly Man that makes the enjoyment of God his ultimate end and aim will like Daniel to the Lyons Den or the three Children to the Fiery Furnace before they will either neglect known duties or commit known sins Others are forward in the cheap part but backward in the costly part of duty and the Devil might also buy their Profession it self out of their Hands many that will hear and read and pray because it costs them little yet will hardly be perswaded to be Charitable to the Poor and Liberal to Pious Uses because 't is costly or to forgive Injuries love Enemies make Restitution of ill gotten Goods venture their Estates Lives or Liberty when the Cause of God requires it then they cry out with Naaman the Lord be merciful to me in this thing but God will abate nothing of his price he will have Universal Obedience or he will own none at all 3. Direct Wouldst thou perform Duties in an acceptable manner Then hold on in a constant course of Duty 't is not enongh to begin well but thou must hold out well The same Reason that perswaded thee to enter into such a Course of Duty at the first may perswade thee to hold out to the end there is the same ground for the one as for the other If it be because storms arise Troubles and Persecutions look thee in the Face this might have been fore-seen thou shouldst have sate down first and reckoned the Charges Christ told thee before Through many Tribulations we must come to Heaven He that is now ashamed of Christ and his Cross of Service the time is coming Christ will be ashamed of him Thou must follow him through thick and thin through good Report and evil Report or thou art like to lose him yea though thou meet Death it self in the Face 'T is not he that sets out well but he that continues to run well is like to get the Prize 't is not he that gives the On-set but he that Fights well is like to get the Victory You did run w●ll saith the Apostle who hindred you Gal. 5.7 So run that you may obtain 1 Cor. 9.24 'T is not he that begins well but he that holds out to the end shall be saved Mark 13.13 'T is he that is Faithful to the Death that shall receive the Crown of Life Rev. 2.10 Many Promises are made to those that overcome Rev. 2.11.17.26 3.5.12.21 There are many that in a day of Gospel Prosperity cry Hosanna unto Christ but when storms are up then cry Crucifie him This Age gives too full a Testimony to this Truth But those that are Faithful to God will be constant in his Service what danger soever looks them in the Face Many are like to Weather-Cocks turn with every Wind or like a Ship without Ballast are tossed with every Storm But a sincere Christian is like a Ship in the Harbour that hath a sure and stedfast Rock to Anchor upon Many are like the Planet Mercury good in a good Conjunction and bad with the bad Or like Proteus that can turn themselves into any shape for Advantage but a true Christian gives this for his Motto Semper idem always the same the change of Times the change of Company the change of Religion makes no change in him he knows God changes not Poverty and Prosperity are God's trying Times wherein may be discovered what is in the Heart Hazael when a mean Man never thought so much evil had been in his Heart as appeared to be there when he was Advanced The stony ground did not at first appear to be so deceitful as indeed it proved But Holy Job was the same on the dung-hill as on the Throne in Adversity as in Prosperity he did not serve God for Riches nor will he forsake him in Poverty Hast thou been a Professor of Religion and hast thou hitherto performed the duties Commanded What madness now possesses thee that thou wilt leave his Service What canst thou object against him Is the Devil a better Master Or will he set thee about better work Or will he give thee better wages If Religion be not good why didst embrace
that the Ancient Hebrew Copy of Saint Matthew's Gospel gives favourable Light unto it by making use of the word there which is the Title unto David's Psalms We find also the Apostle Pen'd good part of the Second Psalm Acts 4.24 and why not Sing it And if Christ and his Apostles had had any other Hymns they would have been left upon Record as some of their Prayers are but no such thing is to be found Nay we read that the Angels themselves in their Coelestial Harmony conforming themselves to the words of David and allude unto the Song of Moses the Servant of the Lord and therefore doubtless 't is not unlawful for us to do thus 'T is true indeed we are Commanded to sing in the Spirit and so we may if we use a Form indited by the Spirit and Sing them with the Heart and Understanding We are Commanded to Pray by the Spirit and can any Imagine but so we may though we use the Form Christ hath bid us use But if we expect an immediate impulse of the Spirit dictating to us both sense and Meeter and putting words into our Mouths as we sing not one of a thousand if ever any at all will be found to have such a gift Indeed in the Apostles days when extraordinary gifts were given some such thing might be which now cannot be expected any more than the gift of Healing And seeing that David and Moses Men endued with the Spirit Pen their Songs for the Publick good let us be contented to see by their Light and not presume to compare with them much less to exceed them We may find special Psalms appointed upon special occasions as for the Sabbath day c. And the Book of Psalms is so perfect a Sentence that there needs no Addition and if it did doubtless God would have ditected some to have perfected the work 't is a great boldness for any man not indued with the Spirit of God to thrust upon the Church an Hymn of his own making and lay aside those indited by the Spirit If we must Sing it must be David's Psalms or worse I think no humble man will compare the beats of his own brain with the immediate impulses of the Spirit I know not what Warrant we have to leave the one to use the other 3. Direct Be satisfied also concerning the Persons obliged to perform this Duty for some that confess 't is a Christian Duty to be done in Gospel Times yet think not that all Christians are hereby engaged Some conceive 't is the Ministers Duty alone as he is the Mouth of the People to God in Prayer so should he also be in Singing and the rest should tacitely consent and joyn in Heart but should not vocally sing 'T is easily granted that a godly Man for his own solace may sing alone and thus David did his Night-Songs upon his Bed Psal 77.6 And 't is evident also in the Primitive Times when the gift of Tongues was in use and other extraordinary gifts which now are ceased One that had a Psalm given by Divine Inspiration might and did Sing alone and the rest joyned as afore-said and said Amen to it For it was impossible and improbable that all should sing together by such a Divine rapture But this gift failing and David's Psalms Lawful yea the best we have or can have The whole Church may joyn in these not only in Heart but in Voice I think this need not be controverted God that is the God of Order and never established or owned Confusion hath formerly owned this as I have shewed Where Priests and People Men and Women joyned together as in Moses Song Exod. 15.1,2 c. The whole Church of Coloss was exhorted hereunto Col. 3.16 And not the Pastours and Select Elders only And if God would have such Select Choristers for this Work in Gospel Times he would have given Instructions and Directions for their Qualification and Election as he hath done for other Officers besides some Ministers otherwise Godly and able are not fitted for this Duty neither have they such a Musical Faculty as to be fit to be the Mouth of the People in this Duty And God hath indued many of the People in this beyond their Minister and doubtless it is not given in vain Moses and the Children of Israel Sang together Ex. 15.1,2 c. Yea in Gospel Times Christ and his Disciples Mat. 26.30 The like we read of Paul and Silas and why should we doubt that have such Leaders I know not The Angels that were ten thousand times ten thousand yea thousands of thousands joyned together without Confusion Rev. 5.11,12 But you will say here is no Expression of Singing See then those hundred forty and four Thousand that followed the Lamb those sang a new Song which no other could Learn Rev. 14.1.3 And this shall be the Saints work for ever But some question whether Women may sing in the Church and think they have cause enough for their doubt because the Apostle doth peremptorily forbid a Woman to speak in the Church but she cannot sing but she must speak 1 Cor. 14 34. But this is grounded upon a mistake Indeed they ought not to speak by way of Office or Publick Teaching but must be under the Authority of her Husband Neither to make Questions there but at Home lest they transcend the bounds of Modesty but that they must not speak at all will not be proved Sapphira spake when Peter demanded her Answer Nay then they must not say Amen to the Prayers a Duty enjoyned to all in general We read of Miram and the Women they Sang and were not reproved Exod. 15.20,21 And that it was the practice in the Primitive Times for Men and Women to Sing together The Ecclesiastical History may inform you But some Men doubt whether Carnal Men and Women ought to Sing or whether Christians ought to joyn with them if they do and the reason is they think hereby they hold Fellowship with them But what Reason is there that a Man may pray in a mixt Congregation and not sing when as this is but a more deliberate sort of Prayer the Voice is Natural the Tune Artificial so far we may joyn and the Matter is common to both And for the Manner if they sing Spiritually then they are fit to be joyned with if not what Spiritual Communion have we with them No question but it is their Duty and why may we not joyn with a Man doing his Duty Moses Sang with a Rebellious People and God Commanded him to write his Song as a Witness against them Deut. 31.19 And there is no Psalm but every one in the Congregation may Learn some Instruction from it and make some good use of it 4. Direct Be well satisfied also in Singing David's Psalms as they are turned into English Meeter for this also in our Age is become a Scruple unto many For when they cannot deny this to be a Duty yet
things not Commanded as Meats Drinks Apparel c. and tend to perfection and by the keeping of them a man may attain to a higher perfection than in the Observation of Commanded Duties but what Scripture saith thus Their End which is to Merit by them spoyls all their Duties and makes them abominable in the sight of God The Vows we read of in Scriptures were made to other Ends and are all conducible to this great end viz. God's Glory Some have vowed thankfulness for Mercies received some Sacrifices Burnt Offerings Incense c. Psal 66.13,14 61.8 132.2 c. Some have made Conditional Vows if God would give them in such Mercies they would do thus and thus thus Jacob Dedicated himself to God for ever if he would make Provision for him in his Journey Gen. 28.20,21 And Hannah that if God would give her a Son she would Devote him unto God for ever 1 Sam. 1.11 Read Lev. 27. throughout Psal 116.12,13,14 What shall I render to the Lord for all his Benefits c. I will pay my Vows unto the Lord. And as God's Glory so our own and others benefit is to be regarded and may be regarded in a Vow 't is some stay and ground for our Faith and some confirmation for our assurance as we see in the fore-cited place 1 Sam. 1.11 c. when Hannah had made her Vow she looked no more sad Sometimes they are made of Thanksgiving for deliverance as the Mariners in Jonah's Ship Jonah 1.16 made vows to their gods Sometimes they are made to prevent Sin for the time to come as when we vow Sobriety and Moderation to prevent the sin of Drunkenness Gluttony Pride or Covetousness Thus some vowed against drinking Wine or strong Drink as the Rechabites Nazarites and others Some make vows to humble their Souls Numb 30.13 Every Vow and every binding Oath to afflict the Soul the Husband may Establish it or the Husband may make it void Sometimes for the mending of our Lives or the reforming what is amiss sometimes for the leaving of some Sin or the performance of some Duty c. These and the like are the Ends which we should look after when we enter upon a Religious Vow So likewise at the good of others as when we bind our selves to give Alms to Relieve the Poor to Redeem Captives or do works of Charity to our power these are good Ends if God's Glory and not our own Applause or thoughts of Merit interpose not as also to lay out something for Religious and Pious Uses the maintaining of Faithful able Ministers c. David vows he will not give Rest or sleep to his Eyes or come within his House till he had found out a place for the House of God Psal 132.2 c. But where do you read of any that vow and thought to Merit at God's Hands by so doing 7. Direct When thou hast made thy vows thy next Duty is to keep them to perform the word that is gone out of thy Mouth 'T is better not to vow than to vow and not perform but it must be supposed then that the vows be Lawful and allowed by God otherwise the performance is but adding Sin to Sin and increasing the guilt He that vows to commit Sin ought not to do it If thou Sin in thy Vow do not ratifie it by performing it as Herod who made a rash Vow but did increase his guilt by Cutting off John Baptists Head But supposing thy vow be Lawful thou canst not Lawfully break it nay though the performance tend to thy damage for if thou do thou committest a Sin as bad if not worse than Perjury When thou hast Vowed therefore deferr not to pay for God takes no pleasure in Fools pay that therefore which thou hast Vowed Eccl. 5.3,4,5,6 Deut. 23.23 When thou hast Vowed a Vow unto the Lord thy God deferr not to pay it for the Lord thy God will surely require it of thee and it will be sin to thee but if thou wilt forbear to Vow it shall not be sin to thee that which is gone out of thy Mouth thou shalt keep and perform a Free-will Offering according to what thou hast vowed unto the Lord thy God which thou hast promised with thy Mouth Psal 76.11 Vow and pay unto the Lord your God c. More places might be instanced in if these were not sufficient If thy vow be rash Repent of the rashness of it but if it be otherwise Lawful it must be performed if it prove to thy damage it is a reward of thy Folly But if it be unlawful repent of thy sin and Folly in making it but it must not be performed for a Vow must not be a bond of Iniquity Christ himself shews the wickedness of such a vow Mat. 15.5,6 where by their vow Corban they made null the Command of God concerning honouring Father and Mother and Relieving them It is not Lawful for us to Dedicate those things to Pious Uses yea to God himself which we owe to anotner David's rash vow 1 Sam. 2.5.12.39 was not performed he vowed the Destruction of Nabal and all his Family and Blessed God for keeping him from doing evil The wicked vow of Paul's Persecutors ought not to have been fulfilled had the power lain in their Hands Acts 23.21 Nor the rash and unadvised Vow of Saul which tended to hurt and not to good 1 Sam. 14.39 Nor such Superstitious vows as we read of Jer. 44.25 Thus saith the Lord of Hosts the God of Israel saying ye and your Wives have both spoken with your Mouths and fulfilled with your Hands saying we will surely perform our Vows that we have Vowed to burn Incense to the Queen of Heaven and to powre out Drink-Offerings unto her ye will surely accomplish your Vows c. God takes it ill in them and sorely threatneth them for it But if the Vow be Lawful he expects the fulfilling of it as we see in Jacob's Vow made Gen. 28.20 God minds him of it Gen. 31.13 I am the God of Bethel where thou anointedst the Pillar Numb 30.3 c. A Young womans vow if her Father contradict it not shall surely stand good See also Lev. 7.16 22.17 27.2 c. Psal 76.12 Yea the Lord threatens those that make not good their vows that vow a better and pay a worse Mal. 1.14 Cursed be the deceiver which hath in his Flock a Male and voweth and Sacrifices unto the Lord a Corrupt thing Yea we find he punished this Sin in Annanias and Sapphira who Devoted the price of a Possession to God and after kept back part of it and were both struck dead for it Acts 5.1,2 c. A Godly Man when he promiseth Reformation of Life the leaving of any known Sin the performance of any Religious duty the doing of any Pious or Charitable work c. will make good his Vow But how usual is it for wicked Men in their Sickness distress or danger to make vows