Selected quad for the lemma: duty_n

Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
duty_n	husband_n	marriage_n	wife_n	3,594	5	7.6210	4	true

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ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A02339	Two guides to a good life The genealogy of vertue and the nathomy of sinne. Liuely displaying the worth of one, and the vanity of the other.; Anathomie of sinne.	Hall, Joseph, 1574-1656, attributed name.; Humfrey, Richard, attributed name.	1604 (1604)	STC 12466; ESTC S118647	67,276	265

affection of the hearte that imbraceth a man more for his own sake then for any commodity may be expected from him mercinary loue which is likewise of two sorts the first in respect of him that receiueth a benefit louing the person for the profite that comes from him and the second in respect of him that bestoweth a benifit when he doth it more for reward and recompence then for the loue of him to whome he doth it The difference betweene the loue of vertue which is called true-loue and loue of Concupiscence THe loue of virtue is without yrkesomnesse or intermission the loue of Concupiscence is momentarie and oftentimes breedeth a loathing in the minde The loue of vertue is without feare or care the loue of Concupiscence is accompanied with griefe vexation and labour The loue of vertue wisheth a like affection in all others as is in it selfe but the loue of Concupiscence harboureth euill Iealousie Iealousie what Iealousie is a feare which a man hath least another whome hee would not should enioy something which he striueth to keepe peculiar to himselfe and this may be good or bad according to the obiect whereon our fancie or desire is fixte Desire what DEsire is the delay which is made between our liking conceiued of some good thinge and the fruition of the same The effect of Loue. The effect of Loue is of manie to make one as chiefly appeares bv marriage whereof there are foure kindes Marriage of honour mariage of loue mariage of labor mariage of griefe Mariage of Honor. MAriage of honour hath three degrees the highest between good and mans nature the middle most betweene God and the soule of man vnited by grace and the fruition of glory the lowest betweene God and his Church when they are both made one mysticall bodye and these three kindes of marriage are supernaturall and appointed of god after an vnspeakable manner Marriage of loue MAriage of Loue is a faithfull contract betweene a good man and a vertuous Woman or the coniunction vnitie and society of religious and zealous people grounded vppon Grace peace and Concord Mariage of Labour MAriage of labour is when any mā or woman marrieth more for couetousnesse and lust than for Vertue chastitie or good report or where two are matched together betwixte whom there is no equality of age birth or manners Marriage of griefe MAriage of griefe is the coniunction and familiaritie betweene the Wicked and reprobate whereof still ensueth wretchednesse and miserie The preseruation of mariage THe preseruation of mariage consisteth in the dutie of the Husband to the Wife and of the wife to the husband The dutie of a Husband THe duty of a Husband towarde his wife must bee confirmed by these nine circumstances First in louing hir aboue other women Secondly in gouerning her graciously Thirdly in perswading her more by reason than authoritie Fourthlye in not vsing her roughlie or iniuriouslye before others Fiftly in admonishing her often Sixtly in reprehending her seldome Seauenthly in striking her neuer Eightly in prouidnig for her carefullye lastlye in louingly deuiding of his authority with her especially in matters that concerne her sex The duty of a wife The dutie of a wife toward her husband standeth in these obseruations following First she must loue him and none other but him Secondly she must not depend too much vpon her wealth beauty or nobilitie of birth but haue her chiefest care bent vpon those things that sitte nearest to her husbands hart as the integrity of manners and mildnesse of behauiour and conuersation Thirdly as the Persians when their enemies came rushing vpon them receiued them with silence and contrariwise if they were set vppon with silence made head againste them with open mouth euen so a discreet Woman must hold her peace when hir husband exclaimes with choller and contrariwise if hee vtter not a worde she must labour to cheere him with comfortable speeches Fourthly she must not discouer her husbands imperfections Fiftly she must not vpon any displesure forsake her husbands bed Sixtly she must be free from all suspicion of incontinencie Seuenthlys she must be no gadder abroad Eightly she must be modeh in attire Ninthly shee must be secret as touching houshold wants and affaires Tenthly she must be ashamed to vtter anye dishonest speeches floutes or iestes or to giue eare vnto them 11. She must be patient and wink at many things done by her husband 12. She must be carefull to bring vp her children 13. She must be faire spoken and curteous to her neighbours 14. She must apply her hands to good huswiferie and her mind to the knowledge vnderstanding of gods word Lastly she must not forsake her husband either for sicknesse pouerty or any other casuall affliction How to detest luxury COnsider that the obiect whereto it tendeth which is the corporall fruition of vnchast persons is thogh candied with a faire outside inwardly the receptacle of vile and corruptible basenesse That lust is neuer satisfied but alwais poore euen in plenty That the pleasure thereof is momentary but the punishment eternall That it defileth the temple of the holy ghost which is mans bodye consecreated vnto Christe by his precious bloud That it is no sooner enioyed but it breeds annoy that it weakens the powers of the soule and filles the body with many diseases that it shortens the life and shadowes a good report That there is not so riche a treasurie but Luxurie will draw it dry that it is a fire whose substance is Gluttonye whose flame is pride whose sparcles are corrupt speeches whose smoke infamy whose ashes filthinesse whose end is hell Remember the iudgementes of God executed vpon lustfull persons as the sudden death of Onan the plagues sent vpon Abimeleck king of Egipt thogh but in thought he pretended lewdnes toward Sara Abrams wife the sworde of dissention that neuer departed from the house of Dauid for taking the wife of Vriah the violent death so Ammon by his owne brother and many other examples which may terrify bring vs in detestation of his sinne How to auoide Luxurie The best remedy againste Luxurie is Chastity which is of foure sorts eyther of Nature as of such as are borne Chast or by Artes of such as are made chast by men or by praier and industry as of such as haue made themselus chast for the kingdome of Heauen or by marriage as of such as liue chastly in Wedlock Mat. 19.12 Chastity what CHastitie is the brideling of lust vnder the yoke of reason or a cleere disposition of the bodye without the filth of concupiscence it is the beauty of the soule the ioy of heauen and the best Iewell on earth To preserue which Iewell without flawe or blemish is to auoid the causes wherewith it is foild as first to cast out of the minde all wicked and vnchaste thoughts Secondly to auoide filthy communication Thirdly not to frequent the company of lewd and lasciuious persons