Selected quad for the lemma: duty_n

Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
duty_n	husband_n	love_n	wife_n	8,272	5	8.0646	4	true

Text snippets containing the quad

ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A75929	A Christian family builded by God, directing all governours of families how to act. 1. Gods timber and framing. 2. Gods foundation and upper building. 3. Gods finishing. 4. Gods furnishing. The sum whereof is shewed after the epistle. By Robert Abbott, Pastour of the Church of God at Austines, near Pauls gate in Watling-street in London.	Abbot, Robert, 1588?-1662?	1653 (1653)	Wing A68; Thomason E1233_2; ESTC R6379	56,335	120

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his_o wife_n vashti_n at_o belteshazzar_n carrouse_v and_o blasphemy_n at_o herod_n wanton_a dance_n and_o cut_v off_o of_o john_n baptist_n head_n ●_z as_o elah_n be_v smite_v and_o kill_v while_o he_o be_v drink_v benhadad_o be_v surprise_v israel_n while_o meat_n be_v in_o their_o mouth_n feel_v wrath_n and_o job_n child_n be_v stifle_v therefore_o wary_o consider_v what_o you_o do_v at_o wedding_n and_o what_o you_o shall_v do_v you_o do_v rejoice_v indeed_o but_o it_o be_v with_o wanton_a dance_n bawdy_a jest_n and_o hellish_a carrowsing_n but_o what_o shall_v you_o do_v you_o shall_v be_v careful_a to_o prevent_v excess_n as_o christ_n say_v take_v heed_n 21._o luke_n 21._o that_o your_o heart_n be_v not_o oppress_v with_o surfeit_v and_o drunkenness_n lest_o that_o day_n come_v upon_o you_o at_o unaware_o you_o shall_v bring_v god_n into_o all_o your_o thought_n that_o you_o feed_v not_o without_o fear_n you_o 4_o jude._n philip._n 4_o shall_v do_v nothing_o which_o be_v 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do_v it_o sol._n nay_o say_v god_n thy_o desire_n shall_v be_v subject_a to_o thy_o husband_n and_o he_o shall_v rule_v over_o thou_o 16._o gen._n 3._o 16._o quest_n will_v any_o good_a woman_n ask_v i_o what_o it_o be_v to_o submit_v that_o she_o may_v conscionable_o do_v it_o answ_n it_o be_v to_o put_v herself_o willing_o under_o the_o government_n of_o her_o husband_n quest_n will_v she_o further_o ask_v i_o how_o she_o must_v submit_v answ_n sure_o not_o by_o way_n of_o bondage_n but_o free_a service_n for_o herself_o because_o she_o and_o her_o husband_n do_v make_v but_o one_o quest_n will_v she_o further_o ask_v wherein_o she_o must_v submit_v answ_n paul_n say_v in_o all_o thing_n that_o be_v lawful_a and_o honest_a 22._o eph._n 5._o 22._o in_o general_n she_o must_v submit_v to_o her_o husband_n honour_n sarah_n honour_v her_o husband_n and_o call_v he_o lord_n the_o good_a wife_n call_v her_o husband_n 19_o 1_o pet._n 3._o 6._o hos_fw-la 2._o prov._n 7._o 19_o ishi_n my_o 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object_n say_v a_o four_o i_o have_v no_o great_a matter_n from_o my_o parent_n sol._n for_o shame_n say_v not_o so_o they_o be_v a_o cause_n of_o thy_o be_v by_o generation_n of_o thy_o live_n by_o education_n and_o of_o thy_o learning_n by_o information_n by_o themselves_o or_o by_o other_o say_v no_o more_o but_o child_n up_o and_o be_v do_v or_o else_o remember_v absalon_n who_o be_v unnatural_a to_o his_o parent_n be_v hang_v betwixt_o heaven_n and_o earth_n as_o unworthy_a of_o either_o or_o both_o if_o this_o or_o the_o like_a shall_v be_v thy_o case_n farewell_o life_n farewell_o heaven_n sect_n 14._o next_o i_o come_v to_o parent_n and_o they_o must_v not_o 4._o eph._n 6._o 4._o provoke_v their_o child_n to_o wrath_n but_o bring_v they_o up_o in_o the_o nurture_n and_o admonition_n of_o the_o lord_n first_o they_o must_v not_o provoke_v they_o to_o wrath_n sure_o this_o be_v not_o by_o suffer_v they_o to_o have_v their_o will_n for_o a_o child_n set_v at_o liberty_n 15_o 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