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it_o be_v compare_v here_o unto_o that_o sweet_a and_o natural_a power_n which_o the_o head_n exercise_v over_o the_o body_n and_o christ_n over_o his_o church_n who_o make_v his_o people_n willing_a in_o the_o day_n of_o his_o power_n and_o it_o ought_v to_o be_v employ_v whole_o for_o the_o good_a and_o safety_n of_o his_o wife_n as_o christ_n be_v the_o saviour_n of_o the_o body_n vers._n 24._o therefore_o as_o the_o church_n be_v subject_a unto_o christ_n so_o let_v the_o wife_n be_v to_o their_o own_o husband_n in_o every_o thing_n the_o apostle_n second_o repeat_v the_o exhortation_n as_o a_o conclusion_n from_o the_o former_a argument_n that_o wife_n shall_v subject_v themselves_o unto_o their_o own_o husband_n and_o add_v two_o thing_n 1._o the_o manner_n of_o this_o subjection_n to_o wit_n such_o as_o it_o may_v resemble_v the_o subjection_n of_o the_o church_n unto_o christ_n which_o be_v to_o be_v understand_v not_o in_o all_o thing_n for_o wife_n be_v not_o to_o subject_v their_o soul_n and_o conscience_n to_o their_o husband_n as_o believer_n do_v to_o christ_n trust_v in_o he_o for_o life_n and_o salvation_n but_o in_o some_o thing_n only_o to_o wit_n so_o as_o they_o may_v subject_v themselves_o willing_o cheerful_o love_o chaste_o and_o dutiful_o unto_o their_o husband_n for_o so_o do_v the_o church_n subject_n herself_o unto_o christ._n he_o add_v second_o the_o extent_n of_o this_o subjection_n and_o obedience_n even_o to_o all_o thing_n which_o be_v not_o to_o be_v understand_v of_o all_o thing_n absolute_o and_o without_o exception_n act_v 5._o 29_o but_o all_o thing_n lawful_a godly_a honest_a and_o which_o be_v not_o forbid_v in_o the_o word_n of_o god_n even_o though_o they_o cross_v the_o humour_n of_o the_o wife_n and_o argue_v little_a discretion_n in_o the_o husband_n who_o command_v they_o numb_a 5._o 14_o 15._o etc._n etc._n for_o nothing_o be_v except_v here_o but_o what_o be_v contrary_a to_o that_o subjection_n which_o be_v due_a to_o he_o who_o have_v command_v this_o subjection_n of_o wife_n to_o their_o husband_n as_o paul_n comment_v upon_o a_o expression_n like_v to_o this_o 1_o cor._n 15._o 27._o doct._n 1._o as_o subjection_n in_o wife_n unto_o their_o husband_n be_v a_o most_o necessary_a duty_n so_o consider_v the_o inbred_a pride_n arrogance_n and_o self-willednesse_a which_o be_v in_o all_o the_o son_n and_o daughter_n of_o adam_n by_o nature_n it_o be_v a_o work_n of_o no_o small_a difficulty_n to_o get_v wife_n peswade_v to_o give_v that_o hearty_a cheerful_a love_a and_o dutiful_a respect_n and_o obedience_n unto_o their_o husband_n which_o both_o the_o law_n of_o nature_n and_o the_o write_a word_n of_o god_n do_v require_v from_o they_o for_o to_o what_o purpose_n else_o do_v he_o reiterate_v this_o exhortation_n and_o enforce_v it_o by_o so_o strong_a and_o convince_a argument_n therefore_o as_o the_o church_n be_v subject_a unto_o christ_n so_o let_v the_o wife_n be_v unto_o their_o own_o husband_n 2._o though_o there_o be_v much_o unmortified_a corruption_n in_o the_o church_n of_o true_a believer_n and_o a_o law_n in_o their_o member_n rebel_a against_o the_o law_n of_o their_o mind_n rom._n 7._o 23._o yet_o god_n do_v look_v upon_o they_o as_o true_a and_o loyal_a subject_n to_o christ_n in_o so_o far_o as_o with_o the_o spirit_n and_o better_a part_n according_a to_o which_o god_n do_v reckon_v with_o they_o they_o serve_v the_o law_n of_o god_n rom._n 7._o 25._o and_o do_v groan_v after_o and_o long_o for_o the_o time_n when_o they_o shall_v be_v full_o free_v from_o the_o body_n of_o death_n and_o thorough_o subject_v unto_o the_o will_n of_o god_n phil._n 1._o 23._o for_o while_o he_o say_v as_o the_o church_n be_v subject_a unto_o christ_n it_o be_v suppon_v that_o the_o church_n be_v subject_a unto_o he_o and_o look_v upon_o by_o god_n as_o such_o 3._o the_o servant_n of_o christ_n in_o press_v duty_n ought_v main_o to_o guard_v against_o that_o extremity_n which_o people_n natural_o be_v most_o prone_a to_o fall_v into_o especial_o see_v all_o the_o guard_n which_o can_v be_v use_v will_v have_v sufficient_a work_n to_o keep_v the_o heart_n from_o break_v over_o upon_o that_o hand_n for_o though_o there_o be_v some_o thing_n except_v from_o come_v under_o that_o obedience_n which_o wife_n do_v owe_v to_o their_o husband_n as_o be_v clear_v in_o the_o exposition_n yet_o because_o wife_n be_v more_o incline_v to_o multiply_v exception_n in_o this_o purpose_n than_o to_o diminish_v they_o therefore_o he_o extend_v this_o obedience_n express_o to_o all_o thing_n leave_v they_o only_o to_o gather_v from_o the_o circumstance_n of_o the_o text_n and_o other_o place_n of_o scripture_n those_o few_o thing_n which_o be_v except_v that_o thereby_o he_o may_v with_o one_o word_n cut_v off_o all_o unscriptural_a exception_n limitation_n and_o restriction_n which_o imperious_a aspire_a spirit_n impatient_a of_o the_o yoke_n be_v ready_a to_o bind_v and_o straiten_v this_o submission_n and_o obedience_n by_o let_v they_o be_v subject_a in_o every_o thing_n say_v he_o vers._n 25._o husband_n love_v your_o wife_n even_o as_o christ_n also_o love_v the_o church_n and_o give_v himself_o for_o it_o the_o apostle_n do_v now_o exhort_v husband_n to_o their_o duty_n which_o he_o first_o propon_v summary_o under_o the_o name_n of_o love_n to_o their_o wife_n whereby_o the_o heart_n and_o inmost_a affection_n of_o the_o husband_n ought_v to_o be_v so_o incline_v and_o dispose_v towards_o his_o wife_n as_o that_o not_o only_o he_o do_v wish_v her_o good_a but_o also_o endeavour_v unto_o his_o utmost_a to_o bring_v it_o about_o which_o be_v not_o to_o be_v so_o understand_v as_o if_o the_o wife_n be_v not_o bind_v to_o love_v her_o husband_n also_o tit._n 2._o 4._o but_o he_o press_v love_n upon_o the_o husband_n in_o particular_a because_o he_o be_v most_o ready_a to_o fail_v in_o this_o duty_n of_o love_n and_o to_o abuse_v that_o superiority_n which_o god_n have_v give_v he_o over_o his_o wife_n by_o prove_v rigorous_a and_o bitter_a against_o she_o col._n 3._o 19_o now_o this_o love_n enjoin_v to_o husband_n be_v not_o that_o common_a christian_a love_n which_o be_v extend_v unto_o all_o christian_n of_o both_o sex_n as_o unto_o brethren_n and_o sister_n in_o christ_n joh._n 13._o 34._o but_o a_o special_a and_o conjugal_a love_n which_o ought_v to_o be_v extend_v unto_o none_o but_o unto_o a_o man_n own_o wife_n and_o it_o include_v cohabitation_n with_o his_o wife_n and_o contentation_n with_o her_o love_n only_o prov._n 5._o 18_o 19_o a_o patient_a bear_n with_o her_o infirmity_n and_o frailty_n 1_o pet._n 3._o 7._o with_o a_o fatherly_a care_n to_o defend_v she_o 1_o sam._n 30._o 5_o etc._n etc._n to_o provide_v for_o she_o in_o all_o thing_n according_a to_o his_o power_n which_o either_o her_o necessity_n or_o dignity_n of_o her_o rank_n do_v require_v 1_o tim._n 5._o 8._o love_o to_o govern_v direct_v and_o instruct_v she_o 1_o cor._n 14._o 35._o yea_o and_o to_o cherish_v she_o ver_fw-la 29._o next_o he_o enforce_v this_o duty_n by_o two_o argument_n the_o first_o whereof_o be_v propon_v in_o this_o verse_n to_o wit_n christ_n example_n who_o love_v his_o church_n and_o from_o love_n give_v himself_o for_o it_o see_v upon_o ver_fw-la 2._o which_o example_n of_o christ_n love_n do_v not_o only_o enforce_v the_o duty_n as_o a_o argument_n but_o also_o point_n forth_o the_o right_a manner_n of_o the_o duty_n as_o a_o pattern_n in_o so_o far_o as_o the_o husband_n love_n ought_v to_o resemble_v christ_n to_o wit_n in_o the_o chastity_n of_o his_o love_n who_o love_v none_o to_o his_o church_n joh._n 17._o 9_o the_o sincerity_n of_o his_o love_n who_o love_v the_o church_n not_o for_o his_o but_o
for_o her_o advantage_n prov._n 8._o 30._o with_o gal._n 2._o 20._o not_o for_o what_o be_v she_o but_o for_o herself_o hos._n 14._o 4_o and_o not_o in_o word_n only_o but_o in_o deed_n also_o testify_v his_o love_n by_o the_o effect_n joh._n 15._o 13._o and_o in_o the_o constancy_n of_o his_o love_n who_o love_v who_o he_o love_v unto_o the_o end_n joh._n 13._o 1._o even_o notwithstanding_o of_o their_o infirmity_n psal._n 89._o 30_o 33._o such_o aught_o the_o husband_n love_n to_o be_v doct._n 1._o though_o husband_n be_v not_o to_o suffer_v their_o wife_n to_o exercise_v dominion_n and_o authority_n over_o they_o that_o be_v contrary_a to_o the_o ordinance_n of_o god_n and_o the_o good_a both_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n ver_fw-la 22._o 23._o yet_o see_v the_o nature_n of_o man_n and_o of_o husband_n in_o particular_a with_o relation_n to_o their_o wife_n be_v sufficient_o bend_v of_o their_o own_o accord_n to_o exercise_v any_o power_n and_o authority_n they_o have_v and_o 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towards_o she_o and_o in_o all_o those_o other_o duty_n which_o he_o owe_v to_o she_o this_o be_v that_o one_o thing_n in_o the_o husband_n which_o sweeten_v the_o yoke_n of_o subjection_n lay_v upon_o the_o wife_n give_v her_o courage_n under_o it_o and_o make_v she_o willing_o submit_v unto_o it_o when_o it_o receive_v such_o a_o sweet_a return_n from_o her_o husband_n for_o paul_n do_v hold_v forth_o this_o as_o the_o husband_n great_a lesson_n and_o the_o sum_n of_o all_o his_o other_o duty_n husband_n love_v your_o wife_n 3._o there_o be_v no_o husband_n whatever_o he_o be_v for_o birth_n part_n authority_n or_o power_n who_o be_v not_o tie_v to_o love_v his_o wife_n and_o to_o evidence_n his_o love_n to_o she_o in_o all_o those_o duty_n mention_v in_o open_v up_o the_o text_n for_o he_o speak_v indefinite_o unto_o all_o husband_n love_v your_o wife_n 4._o neither_o be_v there_o any_o wife_n to_o who_o all_o those_o duty_n flow_v from_o the_o fountain_n of_o love_n be_v not_o due_a by_o her_o husband_n no_o meanness_n of_o birth_n esther_n 2._o 17._o no_o personal_a infirmity_n 1_o sam._n 1._o 5._o adultery_n be_v except_v matth._n 19_o 9_o nor_o frowardness_n of_o nature_n joh._n 19_o 17._o do_v prejudge_v she_o of_o they_o for_o he_o speak_v indefinite_o also_o of_o the_o wife_n husband_n love_v your_o wife_n 5._o though_o it_o concern_v husband_n and_o wife_n and_o other_o also_o who_o be_v tie_v together_o by_o mutual_a relation_n as_o master_n and_o servant_n parent_n and_o child_n to_o take_v some_o sort_n of_o inspection_n one_o of_o another_o lest_o any_o of_o their_o relation_n come_v short_a of_o their_o duty_n 2_o king_n 5._o 13._o yet_o it_o concern_v every_o one_o most_o to_o make_v conscience_n of_o his_o own_o duty_n not_o only_o to_o god_n but_o also_o to_o his_o relation_n and_o that_o as_o for_o other_o reason_n so_o for_o this_o there_o can_v be_v no_o great_a encouragement_n to_o stir_v up_o his_o relation_n to_o make_v conscience_n of_o their_o duty_n to_o he_o for_o he_o command_v every_o one_o to_o mind_v their_o own_o duty_n most_o the_o wife_n to_o submit_v themselves_o the_o husband_n to_o love_v their_o wife_n and_o so_o in_o the_o rest_n 6._o as_o jesus_n christ_n have_v deign_v himself_o to_o undergo_v the_o relation_n of_o a_o husband_n to_o his_o church_n so_o this_o and_o those_o other_o relation_n take_v on_o by_o he_o be_v not_o empty_a title_n he_o do_v the_o duty_n which_o all_o such_o relation_n do_v bind_v to_o even_o to_o the_o utmost_a and_o particular_o he_o be_v such_o a_o husband_n that_o for_o love_n to_o his_o church_n and_o all_o other_o duty_n flow_v from_o love_n he_o be_v exemplary_a unto_o all_o other_o husband_n see_v great_a love_n have_v no_o man_n than_o this_o that_o a_o man_n lie_v down_o his_o life_n for_o his_o friend_n joh._n 14._o 13._o for_o as_o paul_n imply_v here_o and_o in_o the_o verse_n follow_v that_o christ_n be_v the_o church_n husband_n so_o he_o hold_v forth_o his_o love_n as_o a_o pattern_n to_o be_v imitate_v by_o all_o husband_n love_v your_o wife_n even_o as_o christ_n also_o love_v the_o church_n 7._o the_o love_n which_o a_o husband_n carry_v to_o his_o wife_n aught_o to_o be_v found_v not_o upon_o beauty_n riches_n health_n or_o any_o such_o thing_n only_o which_o be_v subject_a unto_o decay_n but_o also_o and_o principal_o upon_o that_o unchangeable_a foundation_n of_o the_o love_n of_o christ_n unto_o his_o church_n which_o be_v here_o hold_v forth_o not_o only_o as_o a_o pattern_n but_o as_o a_o argument_n also_o and_o the_o reason_n wherefore_o husband_n ought_v to_o love_v their_o wife_n even_o as_o christ_n also_o love_v the_o church_n 8._o as_o those_o who_o christ_n do_v love_n with_o a_o special_a love_n be_v only_o he_o that_o be_v real_a believer_n who_o be_v subject_a to_o he_o ver_fw-la 24._o so_o jesus_n christ_n do_v give_v himself_o to_o death_n not_o for_o all_o and_o every_o one_o joh._n 17._o 9_o but_o only_a for_o his_o 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that_o whole_a complex_fw-la business_n of_o translate_n the_o elect_n from_o the_o state_n of_o sin_n and_o death_n to_o the_o state_n of_o grace_n and_o life_n even_o our_o regeneration_n justification_n and_o the_o gracious_a change_n of_o our_o disposition_n or_o sanctification_n strict_o so_o call_v as_o joh._n 17._o 17._o which_o he_o call_v a_o cleanse_n of_o we_o express_v the_o manner_n how_o christ_n do_v sanctify_v his_o church_n even_o by_o do_v away_o the_o guilt_n of_o sin_n or_o obligation_n to_o wrath_n because_o of_o sin_n in_o justification_n rom._n 8._o 1._o and_o the_o filth_n power_n and_o activity_n of_o sin_n in_o the_o renovation_n of_o our_o nature_n after_o his_o own_o image_n rom._n 6._o 14._o which_o cleanse_v work_n be_v here_o describe_v from_o the_o external_a mean_n and_o instrument_n by_o which_o christ_n do_v cleanse_v his_o church_n and_o make_v application_n of_o the_o virtue_n and_o power_n of_o his_o death_n and_o suffering_n in_o order_n to_o that_o end_n and_o those_o be_v 1._o the_o sacrament_n of_o baptism_n call_v the_o wash_n of_o water_n because_o of_o the_o external_a rite_n and_o element_n use_v in_o that_o sacrament_n and_o cleanse_v be_v ascribe_v to_o this_o wash_n not_o as_o if_o there_o be_v any_o virtue_n bestow_v upon_o the_o water_n by_o god_n whereby_o grace_n be_v confer_v and_o real_o wrought_v 1_o pet._n 3._o 21._o but_o because_o though_o it_o be_v god_n alone_o who_o whole_o and_o effectual_o do_v sanctify_v and_o cleanse_v we_o 1_o cor._n 3._o 7._o yet_o this_o sacrament_n as_o also_o the_o other_o be_v make_v use_n of_o by_o he_o not_o only_o to_o represent_v christ_n and_o those_o gracious_a save_a work_n of_o his_o 1_o corinth_n
the_o most_o rigid_a critic_n or_o momus_n himself_o shall_v not_o find_v any_o inlack_a or_o defect_n in_o either_o as_o the_o word_n render_v without_o blemish_n will_v bear_v doct._n 1._o all_o those_o who_o be_v justify_v and_o sanctify_v here_o and_o none_o but_o they_o shall_v be_v glorify_v hereafter_o for_o christ_n must_v see_v the_o travel_n of_o his_o soul_n isa._n 53._o 11._o which_o be_v not_o only_o to_o sanctify_v those_o for_o who_o he_o give_v himself_o ver_fw-la 26._o but_o also_o to_o glorify_v they_o and_o to_o bring_v they_o to_o glory_n by_o the_o way_n of_o holiness_n that_o he_o may_v present_v it_o to_o himself_o a_o glorious_a church_n 2._o christ_n have_v purchase_v by_o his_o death_n not_o only_a sanctification_n to_o his_o church_n but_o also_o heaven_n itself_o and_o therefore_o our_o glory_n in_o heaven_n be_v not_o merit_v by_o our_o holiness_n but_o be_v purchase_v by_o christ_n be_v free_o gift_v to_o we_o rom._n 6._o 23._o he_o give_v himself_o for_o it_o that_o he_o may_v present_v it_o to_o himself_o a_o glorious_a church_n say_v he_o 3._o though_o beliver_v even_o while_o they_o be_v here_o be_v bring_v near_o to_o god_n in_o christ_n by_o faith_n eph._n 2._o 13._o and_o have_v fellowship_n with_o the_o father_n and_o with_o his_o son_n jesus_n christ_n 1_o joh._n 1._o 3._o yet_o all_o that_o fellowship_n and_o nearness_n be_v but_o a_o distance_n and_o kind_n of_o estrangement_n be_v compare_v with_o that_o most_o perfect_a presence_n and_o intimate_a fellowship_n which_o shall_v be_v enjoy_v hereafter_o the_o former_a be_v but_o mediate_v through_o the_o glaste_n of_o ordinance_n 1_o cor._n 13._o 12._o frequent_o interrupt_v psal._n 30._o 7._o and_o no_o way_n full_a 1_o cor._n 13._o 12._o but_o the_o latter_a shall_v be_v immediate_a 1_o cor._n 13._o 12._o constant_a 1_o thess._n 4._o 17._o and_o so_o full_a that_o they_o who_o enjoy_v the_o mean_a degree_n shall_v find_v no_o inlack_a psal._n 17._o 15._o for_o he_o speak_v of_o christ_n present_n his_o church_n to_o himself_o in_o glory_n at_o the_o great_a day_n as_o if_o there_o be_v nothing_o but_o uncouthnesse_n and_o distance_n betwixt_o he_o and_o the_o church_n until_o then_o that_o he_o may_v present_v it_o to_o himself_o a_o glorious_a church_n say_v he_o 4._o though_o every_o believe_a soul_n be_v when_o the_o father_n draw_v it_o to_o christ_n contract_v and_o handfa_v with_o he_o hos._n 2._o 19_o 20._o yet_o for_o good_a and_o wise_a reason_n it_o please_v the_o lord_n christ_n to_o delay_v the_o take_n of_o we_o home_o to_o himself_o and_o the_o accomplishment_n and_o consummation_n of_o the_o begin_v marriage_n until_o all_o the_o elect_n be_v effectual_o call_v shall_v be_v present_v to_o he_o at_o once_o and_o so_o this_o spiritual_a marriage_n shall_v be_v full_o accomplish_v betwixt_o jesus_n christ_n and_o the_o bride_n the_o lamb_n wife_n rev._n 19_o 7._o even_o as_o in_o earthly_a marriage_n there_o be_v first_o a_o contract_n or_o espousal_n and_o then_o for_o just_a and_o honest_a reason_n some_o space_n of_o time_n ought_v to_o intervene_v betwixt_o that_o and_o the_o full_a accomplishment_n of_o the_o marriage_n deut._n 20._o 7._o matth._n 1._o 18._o for_o paul_n show_v that_o then_o at_o the_o great_a day_n the_o whole_a church_n of_o real_a believer_n shall_v be_v present_v to_o christ_n as_o the_o bride_n be_v to_o the_o bridegroom_n for_o the_o solemn_a consummation_n of_o the_o marriage_n that_o he_o may_v present_v it_o to_o himself_o a_o glorious_a church_n 5._o as_o believe_v soul_n even_o after_o their_o be_v contract_v with_o christ_n by_o faith_n and_o after_o they_o be_v renew_v and_o cleanse_v in_o part_n do_v not_o get_v all_o their_o filthy_a garment_n put_v off_o there_o be_v a_o body_n of_o sin_n and_o death_n which_o cleave_v unto_o the_o best_a so_o at_o the_o final_a solemnisation_n of_o the_o marriage_n in_o the_o great_a day_n the_o church_n of_o believer_n the_o bride_n and_o lamb_n wife_n shall_v be_v clad_v in_o garment_n of_o glory_n be_v full_o free_v from_o the_o small_a remnant_n of_o sin_n and_o misery_n and_o make_v whole_o glorious_a both_o in_o soul_n matth._n 22._o 30._o and_o body_n phil._n 3._o 21._o for_o he_o say_v that_o he_o may_v present_v it_o unto_o himself_o a_o glorious_a church_n not_o have_v spot_n or_o wrinkle_n etc._n etc._n 6._o those_o garment_n of_o glory_n and_o needlework_n wherewith_o the_o church_n the_o lamb_n wife_n shall_v be_v array_v in_o the_o marriage-day_n be_v dear_o purchase_v and_o free_o bestow_v upon_o she_o by_o christ_n her_o bridegroom_n and_o head_n for_o paul_n say_v christ_n give_v himself_o for_o the_o church_n that_o he_o may_v present_v it_o to_o himself_o a_o glorious_a church_n not_o have_v spot_n or_o wrinkle_n &c_n &c_n 7._o this_o perfect_a glorious_a state_n wherein_o the_o church_n shall_v be_v for_o ever_o with_o christ_n her_o lord_n her_o head_n her_o husband_n be_v such_o as_o none_o can_v positive_o declare_v what_o it_o be_v yea_o neither_o can_v the_o heart_n of_o man_n comprehend_v it_o and_o all_o the_o knowledge_n which_o can_v be_v here_o in_o our_o state_n of_o imperfection_n attain_v of_o it_o be_v not_o so_o much_o positive_a or_o a_o know_v what_o it_o be_v as_o negative_a or_o a_o know_v what_o it_o be_v not_o by_o remove_v all_o those_o thing_n from_o it_o which_o imply_v the_o least_o degree_n of_o sin_n and_o misery_n for_o therefore_o do_v paul_n set_v it_o out_o here_o by_o four_o negative_n not_o have_v spot_n or_o wrinkle_n or_o any_o such_o thing_n and_o without_o blemish_n and_o by_o one_o affirmative_a only_a that_o it_o shall_v be_v holy_a vers._n 28._o so_o ought_v man_n to_o love_v their_o wife_n as_o their_o own_o body_n he_o that_o love_v his_o wife_n love_v himself_o follow_v the_o second_o argument_n to_o enforce_v this_o duty_n of_o love_n upon_o husband_n towards_o their_o wife_n take_v from_o the_o near_a conjunction_n betwixt_o husband_n and_o wife_n which_o he_o do_v propound_v in_o this_o verse_n by_o show_v that_o the_o wife_n be_v the_o husband_n body_n in_o so_o far_o as_o by_o the_o law_n of_o marriage_n which_o shall_v be_v explain_v ver_fw-la 30._o they_o two_o become_v one_o flesh_n so_o that_o in_o love_v she_o he_o do_v love_v himself_o to_o wit_n not_o so_o much_o because_o his_o so_o do_v tend_v to_o his_o own_o good_a and_o peace_n though_o that_o be_v also_o truth_n prov._n 5._o 17_o 18_o 19_o as_o that_o she_o be_v his_o own_o body_n a_o piece_n of_o himself_o yea_o and_o his_o whole_a self_n or_o a_o second_o self_n they_o two_o be_v one_o flesh_n and_o therefore_o he_o ought_v to_o love_v she_o yea_o and_o to_o love_v she_o with_o the_o same_o sincerity_n and_o ardency_n of_o affection_n kthe_v in_o the_o same_o or_o like_a effect_n wherewith_o he_o love_v his_o own_o body_n yea_o both_o his_o soul_n and_o body_n which_o be_v himself_o for_o the_o word_n as_o their_o own_o body_n be_v both_o a_o argument_n to_o enforce_v upon_o they_o the_o duty_n and_o a_o rule_n to_o direct_v they_o in_o the_o right_a manner_n of_o practise_v the_o duty_n doct._n 1._o as_o love_v in_o husband_n towards_o their_o wife_n after_o the_o pattern_n of_o christ_n love_n unto_o his_o church_n be_v a_o most_o necessary_a duty_n so_o consider_v the_o many_o quench-coal_n of_o love_n which_o the_o mutual_a infirmity_n both_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n do_v frequent_o furnish_v together_o with_o that_o natural_a proneness_n which_o be_v in_o corrupt_a man_n be_v advance_v and_o prefer_v above_o other_o to_o abuse_v his_o authority_n to_o domineer_v with_o a_o kind_n of_o tyranny_n over_o such_o as_o be_v under_o he_o it_o will_v be_v find_v a_o task_n not_o so_o easy_a as_o at_o the_o first_o it_o will_v appear_v for_o husband_n to_o keep_v this_o affection_n and_o love_n flow_v from_o the_o right_a fountain_n and_o manifest_v itself_o in_o all_o its_o necessary_a effect_n towards_o their_o wife_n for_o to_o what_o purpose_n else_o do_v he_o reiterate_v this_o exhortation_n and_o enforce_v it_o by_o so_o strong_a and_o convince_a argument_n so_o ought_v man_n to_o love_v their_o wife_n as_o their_o own_o body_n 2._o that_o place_n of_o honour_n and_o superiority_n which_o god_n have_v give_v the_o man_n over_o the_o wife_n as_o appoint_v he_o to_o be_v her_o head_n do_v tie_v he_o unto_o answerable_a duty_n so_o that_o the_o great_a his_o honour_n be_v the_o great_a be_v his_o burden_n and_o in_o particular_a it_o bind_v he_o to_o love_v she_o and_o from_o love_n to_o govern_v instruct_v cherish_v she_o and_o provide_v for_o she_o and_o to_o all_o other_o thing_n by_o proportion_n which_o the_o head_n do_v for_o the_o body_n for_o from_o what_o he_o say_v ver_fw-la
23._o that_o the_o husband_n be_v the_o head_n of_o the_o wife_n he_o infer_v here_o so_o ought_v man_n to_o love_v their_o wife_n as_o their_o own_o body_n 3._o though_o there_o be_v a_o sinful_a love_n to_o a_o man_n self_n whereby_o a_o man_n prefer_v himself_o and_o the_o fulfil_n of_o his_o inordinate_a desire_n to_o god_n glory_n and_o the_o good_a of_o his_o neighbour_n philip._n 2._o 21._o which_o by_o all_o mean_n be_v to_o be_v eschew_v and_o mortify_v luke_n 9_o 23._o yet_o there_o be_v a_o orderly_a lawful_a and_o allow_v love_n to_o self_n whereby_o a_o man_n do_v seek_v his_o own_o preservation_n both_o in_o soul_n and_o body_n by_o just_a and_o lawful_a mean_n with_o due_a subordination_n to_o god_n glory_n and_o without_o any_o opposition_n to_o or_o set_v himself_o against_o his_o neighbour_n good_a for_o paul_n suppon_v this_o love_n ought_v to_o be_v in_o every_o man_n towards_o himself_o and_o do_v urge_v it_o as_o the_o reason_n and_o rule_v of_o the_o love_n which_o the_o husband_n owe_v to_o his_o wife_n while_o he_o say_v man_n ought_v to_o love_v their_o wife_n as_o their_o own_o body_n he_o that_o love_v his_o wife_n love_v himself_o 4._o the_o love_n which_o husband_n do_v carry_v to_o their_o wife_n ought_v not_o to_o have_v its_o rise_n from_o any_o such_o extrinsical_a consideration_n as_o love_v to_o their_o own_o peace_n and_o ease_n fear_v of_o shame_n and_o disgrace_n if_o through_o want_n of_o love_n secret_a discontent_n break_v out_o to_o public_a strife_n or_o from_o any_o satisfaction_n which_o they_o find_v to_o their_o carnal_a affection_n but_o from_o respect_n to_o god_n holy_a ordinance_n whereby_o their_o wife_n be_v make_v a_o piece_n of_o themselves_o hence_o their_o love_n shall_v be_v most_o native_a operative_a yea_o and_o insuperable_a by_o any_o provocation_n or_o infirmity_n when_o they_o shall_v look_v upon_o their_o wife_n as_o themselves_o and_o consequent_o upon_o their_o infirmity_n shame_n hurt_n as_o their_o own_o for_o paul_n will_v have_v their_o love_n to_o flow_v from_o this_o fountain_n while_o he_o say_v man_n ought_v to_o love_v their_o wife_n as_o their_o own_o body_n etc._n etc._n 5._o that_o husband_n may_v carry_v themselves_o aright_o towards_o their_o wife_n which_o hold_v of_o all_o superior_n with_o relation_n to_o their_o inferior_n they_o will_v serious_o consider_v not_o so_o much_o what_o be_v in_o the_o power_n of_o their_o hand_n and_o what_o they_o be_v able_a to_o do_v or_o may_v be_v for_o their_o profit_n and_o advantage_n or_o tend_v to_o get_v themselves_o obey_v fear_v and_o respect_v to_o the_o utmost_a as_o what_o they_o ought_v and_o be_v incumbent_n for_o they_o to_o do_v and_o what_o the_o law_n of_o god_n and_o the_o state_n they_o be_v in_o do_v require_v from_o they_o as_o their_o duty_n for_o the_o apostle_n repeat_v the_o former_a exhortation_n hold_v forth_o ver_fw-la 25._o with_o the_o addition_n of_o one_o word_n to_o wit_n aught_o whereby_o he_o mind_v husband_n that_o the_o thing_n press_v be_v their_o duty_n and_o therefore_o they_o be_v to_o mind_v it_o so_o ought_v man_n to_o love_v their_o wife_n say_v he_o vers._n 29._o for_o no_o man_n ever_o yet_o hate_v his_o own_o flesh_n but_o nourish_v and_o cherish_v it_o even_o as_o the_o lord_n the_o church_n he_o prove_v the_o consequence_n of_o the_o former_a argument_n to_o wit_n that_o husband_n be_v to_o love_v their_o wife_n because_o they_o be_v their_o own_o body_n by_o three_o reason_n the_o first_o be_v take_v from_o the_o universal_a custom_n of_o all_o man_n to_o wit_n who_o be_v in_o their_o right_a wit_n not_o dement_v and_o woeful_o delude_v by_o the_o devil_n which_o be_v set_v down_o first_o negative_o no_o man_n do_v ever_o hate_v his_o own_o flesh_n or_o from_o hatred_n do_v any_o damage_n to_o it_o and_o next_o positive_o every_o such_o man_n do_v to_o his_o utmost_a provide_v for_o and_o allow_v upon_o his_o own_o flesh_n all_o thing_n necessary_a both_o for_o nourish_v or_o feed_v it_o and_o for_o cherish_v and_o keep_v it_o warm_a with_o such_o a_o sort_n of_o care_n and_o tenderness_n as_o hen_n have_v towards_o their_o young_a one_o while_n by_o cast_v their_o wing_n over_o they_o they_o do_v with_o their_o own_o natural_a heat_n keep_v the_o young_a one_o warm_v for_o the_o word_n render_v cherish_v be_v a_o mephor_n take_v from_o the_o practice_n of_o those_o tender_a and_o love_a creature_n by_o all_o which_o he_o not_o only_o prove_v that_o husband_n shall_v love_v their_o wife_n as_o be_v their_o own_o body_n but_o also_o hint_v at_o some_o of_o those_o effect_n wherein_o their_o love_n shall_v be_v make_v manifest_a whereof_o particular_a mention_n shall_v be_v make_v among_o the_o observation_n second_o he_o prove_v the_o same_o consequence_n and_o also_o further_o clear_v with_o what_o care_n and_o tenderness_n the_o husband_n shall_v carry_v himself_o unto_o his_o wife_n as_o to_o his_o own_o body_n from_o christ_n example_n who_o nourish_v and_o cherish_v the_o church_n his_o body_n by_o provide_v for_o she_o and_o allow_v on_o her_o all_o thing_n necessary_a for_o soul_n and_o body_n doct._n 1._o it_o be_v no_o less_o monstruous_a and_o unnatural_a for_o a_o man_n to_o hate_v and_o from_o hatred_n to_o carry_v himself_o austere_o saucy_o and_o undutiful_o to_o his_o wife_n than_o if_o in_o a_o fit_a of_o frenzy_n he_o shall_v hate_v and_o from_o hatred_n refuse_v to_o do_v all_o duty_n to_o himself_o but_o in_o stead_n thereof_o to_o be_v cruel_a against_o himself_o for_o the_o apostle_n mention_v this_o no_o man_n not_o dement_v do_v never_o hate_v his_o own_o flesh_n to_o show_v that_o therefore_o husband_n ought_v as_o much_o to_o abhor_v and_o abstain_v from_o hate_v their_o wife_n for_o no_o man_n ever_o yet_o hate_v his_o own_o flesh_n 2._o it_o be_v not_o sufficient_a that_o husband_n do_v not_o carry_v any_o hatred_n to_o their_o wife_n but_o they_o must_v also_o love_v they_o and_o evidence_n their_o love_n to_o they_o not_o in_o empty_a word_n and_o flatter_a insinuation_n but_o in_o provide_v all_o thing_n necessary_a for_o they_o both_o in_o food_n and_o raiment_n for_o he_o hold_v forth_o indirect_o the_o husband_n duty_n to_o his_o wife_n in_o that_o allow_a care_n which_o every_o man_n have_v or_o aught_o to_o have_v of_o his_o own_o flesh_n no_o man_n ever_o yet_o bate_v his_o own_o flesh_n but_o nourish_v and_o cherish_v it_o 3._o it_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o a_o husband_n to_o provide_v thing_n necessary_a unto_o his_o wife_n not_o grudge_o or_o too_o spare_o as_o to_o a_o stranger_n or_o to_o his_o child_n or_o servant_n but_o liberal_o according_a to_o her_o rank_n and_o station_n as_o be_v his_o equal_a and_o confident_o without_o crave_v a_o exact_a account_n from_o she_o of_o every_o thing_n which_o she_o receive_v as_o have_v a_o common_a right_n and_o interest_n with_o he_o in_o all_o thing_n that_o be_v he_o and_o cheerful_o by_o testify_v such_o 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permit_v and_o that_o tender_a care_n which_o be_v take_v by_o he_o in_o nourish_v and_o cherish_v himself_o for_o this_o be_v here_o hold_v forth_o as_o his_o rule_n but_o nourish_v and_o cherish_v it_o to_o wit_n his_o own_o flesh_n 5._o though_o there_o be_v a_o excessive_a pamper_n of_o the_o flesh_n which_o be_v sinful_a and_o forbid_a when_o provision_n be_v make_v for_o it_o to_o fulfil_v the_o lust_n thereof_o rom._n 13._o 14._o yet_o there_o be_v a_o lawful_a and_o necessary_a care_n of_o the_o flesh_n or_o of_o a_o man_n own_o body_n whereby_o thing_n necessary_a for_o food_n and_o raiment_n be_v bestow_v upon_o it_o in_o so_o far_o that_o health_n and_o strength_n be_v not_o inlack_v for_o discharge_v the_o duty_n of_o our_o call_n for_o
paul_n do_v not_o condemn_v but_o approve_v this_o custom_n among_o man_n that_o no_o man_n ever_o hate_v his_o own_o flesh_n but_o nourish_v and_o cherish_v it_o 6._o as_o christ_n example_n in_o his_o deal_n towards_o the_o church_n be_v a_o most_o excellent_a copy_n to_o be_v eye_v and_o imitate_v by_o husband_n in_o their_o carriage_n towards_o their_o wife_n and_o that_o not_o only_o in_o their_o love_n but_o in_o all_o those_o other_o duty_n flow_v from_o love_n which_o they_o owe_v unto_o they_o so_o it_o do_v concern_v both_o husband_n and_o wife_n to_o eye_n this_o pattern_n much_o and_o to_o draw_v their_o motive_n and_o encouragement_n unto_o their_o mutual_a duty_n from_o it_o as_o that_o which_o will_v much_o conduce_v to_o keep_v their_o heart_n in_o a_o spiritual_a frame_n even_o in_o those_o performance_n and_o to_o prevent_v that_o carnal_a worldly_a disposition_n which_o the_o misguide_a care_n of_o perform_v such_o duty_n as_o the_o married-state_n of_o life_n call_v for_o do_v usual_o contract_n for_o as_o he_o propound_v christ_n example_n for_o a_o motive_n to_o and_o pattern_n of_o the_o duty_n of_o love_n ver_fw-la 25._o so_o of_o those_o duty_n also_o of_o nourish_v and_o cherish_v which_o flow_v from_o it_o in_o this_o verse_n even_o as_o the_o lord_n the_o church_n 7._o a_o husband_n care_n ought_v to_o extend_v itself_o not_o only_o to_o nourish_v and_o cherish_v his_o wife_n in_o thing_n temporal_a and_o which_o concern_v her_o body_n only_o but_o also_o in_o thing_n spiritual_a and_o which_o concern_v her_o soul_n and_o therefore_o he_o will_v be_v circumspect_a lest_o under_o pretence_n of_o eschew_v all_o suspicion_n of_o displeasure_n with_o she_o and_o of_o give_v necessary_a token_n and_o evidence_n of_o his_o love_n and_o kindness_n to_o she_o in_o order_n to_o his_o outward_a cherish_v she_o he_o do_v neither_o willing_o neglect_v the_o care_n of_o her_o salvation_n or_o by_o fondness_n or_o lightness_n incapacitate_v himself_o to_o do_v she_o any_o good_a in_o that_o respect_n for_o christ_n do_v nourish_v and_o cherish_v his_o church_n by_o take_v care_n of_o and_o provide_v main_o for_o the_o soul_n and_o eternal_a state_n of_o his_o people_n and_o husband_n be_v command_v here_o to_o make_v he_o their_o pattern_n even_o as_o the_o lord_n the_o church_n say_v he_o vers._n 30._o for_o we_o be_v member_n of_o his_o body_n of_o his_o flesh_n and_o of_o his_o bone_n he_o give_v here_o a_o reason_n why_o christ_n do_v so_o cherish_v his_o church_n where_o in_o stead_n of_o name_v the_o church_n express_o which_o the_o sequel_n of_o his_o discourse_n do_v require_v he_o mention_v himself_o and_o other_o true_a believer_n among_o the_o ephesian_n under_o the_o pronoun_n we_o the_o church_n here_o speak_v of_o for_o who_o christ_n do_v give_v himself_o be_v only_o make_v up_o of_o such_o and_o the_o reason_n be_v take_v from_o that_o near_a and_o strict_a union_n or_o that_o spiritual_a marriage_n which_o be_v betwixt_o christ_n and_o believer_n whereof_o that_o ancient_a marriage_n betwixt_o adam_n and_o eva_n be_v a_o kind_n of_o type_n and_o shadow_n as_o appear_v from_o the_o word_n here_o use_v which_o be_v take_v from_o gen._n 2._o 23._o and_o be_v utter_v at_o first_o by_o adam_n concern_v himself_o and_o his_o wife_n but_o be_v here_o by_o allusion_n to_o that_o marriage_n of_o they_o make_v use_v of_o to_o set_v forth_o the_o spiritual_a marriage_n betwixt_o christ_n and_o his_o church_n the_o tie_n and_o bond_n whereof_o be_v so_o near_a and_o strict_a that_o as_o the_o apostle_n show_v all_o believer_n be_v member_n of_o his_o body_n yea_o not_o only_o of_o one_o nature_n with_o he_o which_o be_v common_a to_o they_o with_o all_o mankind_n but_o also_o as_o they_o be_v new_a creature_n they_o have_v their_o original_n and_o nourishment_n from_o he_o even_o from_o his_o flesh_n and_o bone_n in_o so_o far_o as_o they_o owe_v the_o beginning_n progress_n and_o accomplishment_n of_o their_o spiritual_a life_n to_o christ_n his_o take_v on_o of_o flash_n and_o his_o suffering_n in_o the_o flesh_n and_o by_o the_o virtue_n of_o those_o his_o suffering_n they_o be_v quicken_v and_o feed_v and_o so_o be_v of_o his_o flesh_n and_o of_o his_o bone_n doct._n 1._o then_o do_v we_o speak_v and_o hear_v to_o our_o comfort_n and_o edification_n these_o truth_n which_o express_v the_o tender_a and_o warm_a care_n of_o christ_n unto_o his_o church_n when_o we_o make_v application_n of_o they_o to_o ourselves_o and_o by_o a_o lively_a faith_n do_v enter_v ourselves_o among_o these_o for_o who_o he_o do_v so_o care_n for_o the_o apostle_n have_v in_o the_o precede_a verse_n speak_v of_o christ_n nourish_v and_o cherish_v of_o his_o church_n apply_v that_o to_o himself_o and_o other_o true_a believer_n among_o the_o ephesian_n while_o he_o say_v for_o we_o be_v member_n of_o his_o body_n 2._o then_o may_v we_o upon_o good_a ground_n apply_v these_o general_a truth_n unto_o ourselves_o when_o as_o member_n of_o christ_n mystical_a body_n we_o draw_v our_o spiritual_a life_n and_o nourishment_n from_o that_o virtue_n and_o influence_n which_o christ_n have_v purchase_v by_o his_o suffering_n in_o the_o flesh_n for_o upon_o this_o ground_n paul_n do_v substitute_n himself_o and_o other_o true_a believer_n in_o stead_n of_o the_o church_n and_o claim_v interest_n in_o christ_n tender_a and_o warm_a care_n whereby_o he_o do_v nourish_v and_o cherish_v his_o church_n while_o he_o say_v we_o be_v member_n of_o his_o body_n of_o his_o flesh_n and_o of_o his_o bone_n 3._o there_o be_v no_o relation_n which_o christ_n have_v take_v on_o towards_o his_o church_n but_o it_o bind_v he_o to_o and_o according_o he_o will_v perform_v all_o those_o answerable_a duty_n which_o man_n under_o these_o relation_n be_v bind_v to_o perform_v towards_o those_o to_o who_o they_o have_v they_o for_o he_o give_v a_o reason_n why_o he_o do_v nourish_v and_o cherish_v his_o church_n as_o a_o man_n do_v his_o body_n and_o a_o husband_n ought_v to_o cherish_v his_o wife_n because_o he_o have_v take_v on_o the_o relation_n of_o a_o head_n and_o husband_n to_o his_o church_n while_o he_o say_v we_o be_v member_n of_o his_o body_n of_o his_o flesh_n and_o of_o his_o bone_n 4._o as_o true_a believer_n have_v a_o twofold_a be_v one_o natural_a and_o another_o spiritual_a so_o they_o have_v a_o twofold_a original_n answerable_a to_o each_o of_o these_o in_o their_o natural_a be_v they_o owe_v their_o original_n under_o god_n unto_o their_o parent_n as_o be_v bone_n of_o their_o bone_n and_o flesh_n of_o their_o flesh_n as_o eva_n the_o first_o woman_n do_v owe_v it_o to_o her_o husband_n but_o as_o they_o be_v renew_v and_o bear_v over_o again_o they_o owe_v their_o spiritual_a be_v not_o to_o the_o will_n of_o the_o flesh_n or_o the_o will_n of_o man_n joh._n 1._o 13._o but_o to_o the_o virtue_n of_o christ_n obedience_n and_o suffering_n in_o his_o flesh_n 1_o joh._n 4._o 9_o for_o he_o say_v not_o they_o be_v bone_n of_o his_o bone_n and_o flesh_n of_o his_o flesh_n as_o adam_n say_v of_o his_o wife_n gen._n 2._o 23._o to_o point_n that_o she_o do_v owe_v her_o natural_a be_v unto_o he_o as_o be_v come_v and_o make_v of_o he_o but_o that_o they_o be_v of_o his_o bone_n and_o flesh_n to_o wit_n in_o their_o spiritual_a be_v as_o they_o be_v renew_v and_o member_n of_o his_o body_n for_o we_o be_v member_n of_o his_o body_n of_o his_o bone_n and_o of_o his_o flesh_n vers._n 31._o for_o this_o cause_n shall_v a_o man_n leave_v his_o father_n and_o mother_n and_o shall_v be_v join_v unto_o his_o wife_n and_o they_o two_o shall_v be_v one_o flesh_n this_o verse_n in_o the_o literal_a plain_a and_o historical_a sense_n of_o the_o word_n hold_v forth_o the_o law_n of_o marriage_n bind_v all_o marry_a party_n in_o all_o time_n which_o be_v pronounce_v by_o adam_n gen._n 2._o 24._o and_o approve_v by_o god_n himself_o matth._n 19_o 5._o and_o the_o word_n take_v in_o this_o sense_n contain_v the_o three_o reason_n to_o prove_v the_o former_a consequence_n ver_fw-la 28._o that_o see_v wife_n be_v the_o body_n of_o their_o husband_n therefore_o they_o shall_v be_v love_v the_o argument_n be_v take_v from_o that_o law_n of_o marriage_n express_o declare_v that_o for_o this_o cause_n to_o wit_n because_o the_o wife_n be_v bone_n of_o his_o bone_n and_o flesh_n of_o his_o flesh_n as_o the_o cause_n be_v express_v gen._n 2._o 23_o 24._o which_o be_v the_o same_o in_o effect_n with_o the_o cause_n give_v ver_fw-la 28._o even_o because_o she_o be_v the_o body_n of_o the_o husband_n to_o which_o this_o verse_n literal_o take_v do_v relate_v or_o to_o the_o thirty_o verse_n immediate_o precede_v in_o
which_o be_v betwixt_o christ_n and_o his_o church_n for_o what_o be_v speak_v historical_o of_o marriage_n be_v here_o apply_v mystical_o to_o christ_n for_o this_o cause_n shall_v a_o man_n leave_v etc._n etc._n 3._o as_o the_o church_n of_o true_a believer_n be_v the_o bride_n the_o lamb_n wife_n espouse_v already_o to_o christ_n so_o never_o any_o man_n do_v more_o to_o purchase_v a_o bride_n to_o himself_o than_o christ_n have_v do_v for_o his._n he_o lay_v aside_o the_o glory_n which_o he_o have_v with_o the_o father_n and_o become_v of_o no_o reputation_n as_o be_v mystical_o foretell_v in_o this_o history_n of_o the_o first_o marriage_n a_o man_n shall_v leave_v his_o father_n and_o mother_n 4._o the_o great_a travel_n and_o trouble_v which_o christ_n be_v put_v to_o for_o purchase_v a_o bride_n unto_o himself_o do_v not_o make_v he_o regard_v she_o the_o less_o now_o when_o he_o have_v she_o for_o he_o do_v inseparable_o cleave_v unto_o she_o with_o most_o ardent_a and_o exemplary_a affection_n as_o be_v also_o mystical_o foretell_v and_o shall_v be_v join_v to_o his_o wife_n vers._n 32._o this_o be_v a_o great_a mystery_n but_o i_o speak_v concern_v christ_n and_o the_o church_n the_o apostle_n conclude_v this_o purpose_n concern_v the_o spiritual_a conjunction_n of_o christ_n and_o his_o church_n here_o make_v use_v of_o to_o illustrate_v that_o near_a conjunction_n betwixt_o husband_n and_o wife_n with_o a_o observable_a acclamation_n that_o it_o be_v a_o great_a mystery_n which_o word_n as_o it_o be_v usual_o take_v in_o scripture_n do_v signify_v a_o thing_n secret_a not_o obvious_a to_o every_o understanding_n and_o hide_v either_o in_o itself_o or_o in_o its_o cause_n and_o reason_n whether_o it_o be_v hold_v out_o in_o plain_a term_n or_o under_o the_o vail_n of_o some_o external_a sign_n or_o figure_n to_o represent_v it_o see_v 1_o tim._n 3._o 16._o eph._n 3._o 3._o 1_o cor._n 15._o 51._o rom._n 11._o 25._o 2_o thess._n 2._o 7._o and_o lest_o by_o reason_n of_o his_o speak_v all_o along_v of_o the_o bodily_a marriage_n betwixt_o husband_n and_o wife_n any_o have_v so_o far_o mistake_v he_o as_o to_o think_v he_o call_v that_o a_o mystery_n therefore_o he_o explain_v himself_o by_o show_v he_o be_v to_o be_v understand_v not_o of_o the_o bodily_a marriage_n but_o of_o the_o spiritual_a or_o that_o strict_a union_n or_o conjunction_n which_o be_v betwixt_o christ_n and_o his_o church_n now_o he_o call_v this_o union_n a_o great_a mystery_n because_o it_o be_v a_o thing_n hide_v in_o itself_o before_o it_o be_v reveal_v 1_o cor._n 2._o 7_o 8._o yea_o and_o after_o it_o remain_v unsearchable_a by_o the_o light_n of_o reason_n how_o christ_n now_o glorify_v in_o heaven_n can_v be_v one_o with_o we_o on_o earth_n and_o can_v only_o be_v acknowledge_v by_o faith_n heb._n 11._o 1._o beside_o the_o bond_n of_o this_o bless_a union_n and_o conjunction_n be_v not_o natural_a or_o bodily_a but_o spiritual_a even_o the_o spirit_n of_o christ_n eph._n 2._o 18._o and_o the_o grace_n of_o faith_n eph._n 3._o 17._o and_o therefore_o though_o the_o conjunction_n follow_v upon_o these_o bond_n be_v real_a joh._n 17._o 21._o operative_a joh._n 15._o 5._o and_o indissoluble_a joh._n 10._o 28_o 29._o yet_o the_o way_n of_o it_o be_v whole_o spiritual_a and_o heavenly_a and_o consequent_o not_o so_o much_o to_o be_v search_v into_o by_o reason_n what_o or_o how_o it_o be_v as_o to_o be_v believe_v that_o it_o be_v and_o improve_v for_o attain_v and_o find_v in_o ourselves_o those_o bless_a effect_n which_o do_v attend_v it_o where_o it_o be_v doct._n 1._o that_o papist_n have_v not_o ground_n from_o this_o place_n to_o make_v marriage_n a_o sacrament_n proper_o so_o call_v be_v clear_a from_o the_o apostle_n own_o commentary_n whereby_o he_o show_v by_o the_o mystery_n here_o speak_v of_o he_o do_v not_o understand_v the_o bodily_a marriage_n but_o the_o spiritual_a beside_o that_o the_o word_n mystery_n as_o we_o show_v in_o the_o use_n of_o scripture_n do_v signify_v a_o sacred_a secret_n not_o obvious_a to_o ordinary_a capacity_n and_o therefore_o every_o mystery_n be_v not_o a_o sacrament_n see_v 2_o thess._n 2._o 7._o rom._n 11._o 25._o this_o be_v a_o great_a mystery_n but_o i_o speak_v concern_v christ_n and_o the_o church_n 2._o the_o more_o a_o man_n do_v attain_v to_o know_v of_o this_o mystery_n of_o the_o mystical_a union_n and_o conjunction_n which_o be_v betwixt_o christ_n and_o his_o church_n the_o more_o he_o will_v be_v ravish_v with_o admiration_n at_o the_o unsearchable_a deepness_n and_o profundity_n of_o it_o so_o far_o will_v he_o be_v from_o think_v himself_o able_a sufficient_o to_o comprehend_v it_o for_o even_o paul_n who_o see_v as_o far_o in_o this_o mystery_n as_o any_o other_o eph._n 3._o 4._o do_v stand_v admire_v and_o cry_v this_o be_v a_o great_a mystery_n 3._o as_o minister_n be_v bind_v to_o set_v forth_o to_o the_o lord_n people_n that_o most_o near_o and_o bless_a 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guard_v against_o all_o such_o mistake_n while_o he_o do_v clear_a the_o right_n and_o genuine_a sense_n of_o a_o doubt_n some_o and_o dark_a scripture_n by_o scripture_n itself_o either_o in_o the_o same_o place_n or_o another_o for_o so_o do_v paul_n here_o while_n to_o obviate_v a_o possible_a mistake_n he_o say_v but_o i_o speak_v concern_v christ_n and_o the_o church_n vers._n 33._o nevertheless_o let_v every_o one_o of_o you_o in_o particular_a so_o love_v his_o wife_n even_o as_o himself_o and_o the_o wife_n see_v that_o she_o reverence_v her_o husband_n he_o do_v here_o by_o way_n of_o diversion_n from_o dip_v further_o at_o this_o time_n in_o that_o spiritual_a conjunction_n of_o christ_n and_o his_o church_n exhort_v both_o husband_n and_o wife_n to_o learn_v from_o that_o forementioned_a law_n of_o marriage_n a_o short_a sum_n of_o their_o respective_a duty_n and_o first_o that_o every_o husband_n without_o exception_n or_o admit_v any_o excuse_n will_v love_v his_o wife_n as_o himself_o that_o be_v see_v she_o be_v a_o piece_n of_o himself_o as_o ver_fw-la 28._o otherwise_o if_o the_o particle_n as_o be_v only_o a_o note_n of_o similitude_n compare_v different_a thing_n and_o make_v a_o man_n love_n unto_o himself_o the_o rule_n of_o his_o love_n unto_o his_o wife_n then_o every_o man_n neighbour_n shall_v be_v equal_o love_v with_o his_o wife_n for_o every_o man_n be_v to_o love_v his_o neighbour_n as_o himself_o in_o that_o sense_n gal._n 5._o 14._o and_o second_o he_o enjoin_v the_o wife_n that_o she_o reverence_n or_o as_o the_o word_n signify_v from_o love_n do_v fear_v her_o husband_n the_o meaning_n whereof_o be_v that_o she_o inward_o acknowledge_v that_o degree_n of_o honour_n which_o god_n have_v put_v upon_o he_o 1_o cor._n 11._o 3._o and_o give_v evident_a testimony_n of_o her_o inward_a esteem_n in_o word_n 1_o pet._n 3._o 6._o action_n and_o whole_a carriage_n and_o especial_o in_o her_o loathnesse_n to_o offend_v he_o 1_o pet._n 3._o 2._o doct._n 1._o though_o there_o be_v some_o latent_fw-la mystery_n intend_v by_o the_o spirit_n of_o god_n to_o be_v set_v forth_o by_o some_o plain_a history_n record_v in_o scripture_n beside_o their_o historical_a and_o literal_a sense_n yet_o we_o be_v not_o upon_o that_o pretence_n to_o turn_v the_o whole_a scripture_n into_o a_o allegory_n as_o if_o no_o more_o be_v intend_v in_o those_o scripture_n by_o the_o spirit_n of_o god_n but_o only_o to_o set_v forth_o the_o spiritual_a mystery_n we_o ought_v to_o look_v upon_o the_o historical_a and_o literal_a sense_n of_o they_o also_o and_o main_o and_o make_v such_o use_n of_o they_o as_o be_v so_o take_v they_o will_v afford_v for_o paul_n have_v show_v the_o mystical_a and_o allegorical_a use_n of_o adam_n word_n do_v divert_v from_o that_o
consideration_n of_o they_o and_o point_v forth_o what_o the_o plain_a history_n do_v teach_v concern_v the_o duty_n of_o husband_n and_o wife_n nevertheless_o say_v he_o let_v every_o one_o of_o you_o in_o particular_a so_o love_v his_o wife_n 2._o it_o be_v not_o unprofitable_a for_o people_n that_o minister_n do_v wind_n up_o their_o large_a exhortation_n in_o a_o short_a and_o pithy_a sum_n of_o what_o they_o have_v speak_v at_o great_a length_n whereby_o the_o memory_n of_o people_n may_v be_v somewhat_o help_v and_o their_o affection_n also_o may_v be_v more_o forcible_o wrought_v upon_o when_o the_o strength_n of_o a_o large_a discourse_n be_v contract_v in_o two_o or_o three_o word_n and_o present_v both_o to_o the_o understanding_n and_o affection_n of_o people_n at_o once_o for_o so_o do_v paul_n in_o the_o conclusion_n sum_v up_o what_o he_o have_v speak_v at_o large_a from_o ver_fw-la 22._o of_o the_o duty_n both_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n in_o two_o succinct_a sentence_n let_v every_o one_o of_o you_o so_o love_v his_o wife_n etc._n etc._n 3._o then_o do_v people_n receive_v and_o hear_v with_o profit_n these_o exhortation_n which_o be_v speak_v unto_o all_o in_o general_a when_o they_o make_v application_n of_o they_o to_o themselves_o as_o if_o they_o be_v deliver_v unto_o they_o in_o peculiar_a and_o by_o name_n for_o what_o the_o apostle_n speak_v indefinite_o unto_o all_o ver_fw-la 25._o he_o do_v here_o make_v particular_a application_n of_o it_o unto_o every_o one_o nevertheless_o let_v every_o one_o of_o you_o in_o particular_a so_o love_v his_o wife_n 4._o as_o marry_a party_n be_v ready_a to_o forget_v their_o mutual_a duty_n yea_o and_o to_o sport_n at_o such_o doctrine_n which_o do_v press_v and_o enjoin_v those_o duty_n so_o the_o minister_n of_o christ_n will_v not_o only_o inculcate_v they_o the_o more_o frequent_o but_o also_o deliver_v their_o exhortation_n of_o that_o kind_n with_o great_a weight_n and_o authority_n for_o the_o apostle_n not_o only_o repeat_v but_o in_o a_o authoritative_a command_a way_n bind_v this_o exhortation_n on_o they_o let_v every_o one_o love_v his_o wife_n and_o the_o wife_n see_v that_o she_o reverence_n 5._o as_o we_o will_v labour_v to_o infix_v in_o our_o memory_n a_o short_a sum_n of_o our_o most_o necessary_a duty_n so_o also_o of_o the_o most_o move_a and_o take_v argument_n to_o enforce_v the_o practice_n of_o these_o duty_n otherwise_o the_o naked_a knowledge_n of_o our_o duty_n will_v prove_v but_o ineffectual_a to_o lead_v we_o captive_a to_o walk_v in_o it_o for_o paul_n sum_v up_o both_o the_o husband_n duty_n and_o the_o strong_a argument_n to_o enforce_v the_o duty_n take_v from_o that_o near_a union_n between_o he_o and_o his_o wife_n let_v every_o one_o of_o you_o so_o love_v his_o wife_n as_o himself_z 6._o then_o and_o only_o then_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o subjection_n and_o obedience_n of_o inferior_n towards_o their_o superior_n sincere_o and_o hearty_o discharge_v and_o accept_v of_o by_o god_n when_o it_o flow_v from_o inward_a reverence_n and_o hearty_a esteem_n in_o the_o former_a towards_o the_o place_n and_o dignity_n confer_v by_o god_n upon_o the_o latter_a for_o he_o here_o command_v wife_n to_o give_v reverence_n to_o their_o husband_n thereby_o point_v at_o the_o right_a fountain_n of_o that_o subjection_n which_o he_o have_v former_o press_v upon_o they_o ver_fw-la 22_o 24._o even_a fear_n flow_v from_o love_n and_o the_o wife_n see_v that_o she_o reverence_v her_o husband_n chap._n vi_o in_o the_o first_o part_n of_o this_o chapter_n the_o apostle_n insist_v further_a upon_o those_o duty_n which_o be_v incumbent_a to_o christian_n as_o they_o be_v member_n of_o family_n and_o first_o he_o press_v upon_o child_n obedience_n to_o their_o parent_n 1._o from_o the_o equity_n of_o it_o ver_fw-la 1._o which_o he_o clear_v from_o the_o five_o command_n ver_fw-la 2._o second_o from_o the_o advantage_n which_o shall_v redound_v to_o they_o by_o it_o ver_fw-la 3._o next_o he_o press_v upon_o parent_n to_o hold_v off_o the_o two_o extremity_n of_o rigidity_n and_o indulgence_n towards_o their_o child_n ver_fw-la 4._o three_o he_o press_v upon_o servant_n obedience_n to_o their_o master_n which_o be_v set_v forth_o by_o several_a of_o its_o necessary_a qualification_n and_o property_n ver_fw-la 5_o 6_o 7._o and_o enforce_v from_o the_o great_a advantage_n which_o they_o shall_v reap_v by_o it_o ver_fw-la 8._o four_o he_o press_v upon_o master_n their_o duty_n which_o be_v to_o be_v accompany_v with_o the_o like_a qualification_n fear_v and_o tremble_a only_o be_v except_v ver_fw-la 9_o in_o the_o second_o part_n he_o press_v one_o duty_n which_o belong_v unto_o all_o christian_n in_o general_a even_o to_o prepare_v for_o a_o christian_a warfare_n and_o 1._o more_o general_o that_o they_o will_v take_v unto_o they_o spirit_n by_o make_v use_n of_o the_o strength_n which_o they_o have_v without_o themselves_o in_o the_o lord_n christ_n ver_fw-la 10._o and_o of_o the_o save_a grace_n of_o god_n spirit_n inherent_a in_o themselves_o ver_fw-la 11._o which_o he_o enforce_v from_o the_o nature_n of_o the_o warfare_n and_o terror_n of_o the_o adversary_n ver_fw-la 12_o 13._o next_o he_o exhort_v they_o more_o particular_o to_o put_v on_o and_o make_v use_n of_o six_o several_a piece_n of_o the_o christian_a armour_n 1._o the_o grace_n of_o sincerity_n 2._o the_o inherent_a righteousness_n of_o a_o holy_a conversation_n ver_fw-la 14._o 3._o a_o resolute_a frame_n of_o heart_n to_o charge_n through_o all_o difficulty_n ver_fw-la 15._o 4._o the_o grace_n of_o faith_n commend_v from_o its_o excellency_n and_o usefulness_n ver_fw-la 16._o 5._o the_o well-grounded_n hope_v of_o salvation_n 6._o acquaintance_n with_o the_o lord_n write_v word_n ver_fw-la 17._o three_o he_o press_v the_o exercise_n of_o prayer_n as_o necessary_a for_o the_o obtain_n and_o right_a usemaking_a of_o all_o those_o ver_fw-la 18._o exhort_v they_o to_o pray_v for_o utterance_n and_o boldness_n to_o himself_o in_o particular_a ver_fw-la 19_o because_o of_o his_o office_n and_o bond_n ver_fw-la 20._o in_o the_o three_o part_n of_o the_o chapter_n he_o conclude_v the_o epistle_n 1._o by_o show_v he_o have_v send_v tychicus_n who_o he_o high_o commend_v to_o inform_v they_o of_o his_o own_o particular_a affair_n ver_fw-la 21._o and_o to_o comfort_v they_o ver_fw-la 22._o next_o by_o his_o usual_a fare-well-wish_a for_o they_o in_o particular_a ver_fw-la 23._o and_o for_o all_o the_o lover_n of_o christ_n in_o general_a ver_fw-la 24._o vers._n 1._o child_n obey_v your_o parent_n in_o the_o lord_n for_o this_o be_v right_n the_o apostle_n do_v now_o fall_v upon_o the_o duty_n of_o parent_n and_o child_n and_o first_o begin_v with_o child_n the_o word_n render_v child_n signify_v these_o who_o be_v beget_v even_o though_o now_o come_v to_o perfect_a age_n see_v upon_o col._n 3._o ver_fw-la 20._o doct_n 2._o these_o he_o enjoin_v to_o obey_v their_o parent_n where_o by_o parent_n be_v mean_v not_o only_o the_o immediate_a but_o also_o the_o mediate_a parent_n as_o grandfather_n etc._n etc._n gen._n 50._o 23._o yea_o and_o those_o also_o who_o be_v in_o the_o place_n of_o parent_n luk._n 2._o 48_o 51._o now_o the_o obedience_n here_o enjoin_v be_v as_o comprehensive_a as_o that_o honour_n enjoin_v to_o be_v give_v unto_o parent_n by_o child_n in_o the_o five_o command_n which_o be_v cite_v ver_fw-la 2._o to_o enforce_v the_o obedience_n here_o speak_v of_o and_o it_o imply_v first_o inward_a reverence_n or_o acknowledgement_n of_o that_o eminency_n in_o which_o god_n have_v place_v parent_n above_o their_o child_n join_v with_o fear_n leu._n 19_o 3._o and_o love_n 1_o tim._n 5._o 4_o to_o be_v testify_v as_o by_o other_o outward_a sign_n so_o by_o reverend_a speak_n of_o they_o and_o to_o they_o prov._n 30._o 17._o 2._o obedience_n more_o strict_o take_v so_o as_o that_o child_n receive_v the_o instruction_n of_o their_o parent_n prov._n 1._o 8._o execute_v their_o lawful_a command_n and_o direction_n even_o though_o they_o be_v burdensome_a and_o hazardous_a gen._n 37._o 13._o 1_o sam._n 17._o 20._o and_o accept_v with_o patience_n their_o reproof_n and_o correction_n prov._n 15._o 5._o even_o though_o their_o parent_n be_v in_o some_o respect_v faulty_a therein_o heb._n 12._o 9_o 10._o and_o three_o gratitude_n and_o thankfulness_n so_o as_o that_o they_o help_v parent_n when_o their_o necessity_n require_v 1_o tim._n 5._o 4._o and_o bear_v with_o and_o cover_v their_o infirmity_n gen._n 9_o 22_o 23._o prov._n 23._o 22._o now_o this_o duty_n of_o obedience_n in_o child_n be_v first_o explain_v from_o the_o manner_n motive_n and_o rule_v of_o it_o while_o he_o say_v in_o the_o lord_n see_v this_o phrase_n explain_v upon_o chap._n 5._o ver_fw-la 22._o second_o it_o be_v urge_v by_o two_o
good_a and_o advantage_n and_o because_o it_o must_v be_v do_v with_o condescendency_n of_o spirit_n and_o stoop_a see_v our_o proud_a and_o lofty_a spirit_n do_v look_v upon_o every_o duty_n towards_o our_o neighbour_n as_o below_o they_o and_o he_o add_v in_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n which_o contain_v 1._o a_o motive_n to_o the_o duty_n this_o mutual_a submission_n and_o stoop_v unto_o all_o those_o duty_n which_o we_o owe_v one_o to_o another_o be_v a_o evidence_n of_o a_o man_n fear_v god_n gen._n 42._o 18._o and_o 2._o the_o right_a fountain_n from_o whence_o this_o submission_n shall_v flow_v for_o then_o do_v we_o our_o duty_n towards_o other_o acceptable_o and_o as_o we_o ought_v when_o our_o so_o do_v flow_v from_o the_o fear_n and_o awe_n of_o god_n col._n 3._o 22_o and_o 3._o the_o rule_n and_o measure_n of_o this_o submission_n there_o be_v none_o bind_v to_o submit_v himself_o to_o please_v his_o neighbour_n further_o than_o be_v consist_v with_o that_o subjection_n and_o obedience_n which_o he_o owe_v unto_o god_n act._n 5._o 29._o doct._n 1._o we_o be_v not_o under_o pretence_n of_o go_v about_o the_o duty_n of_o god_n immediate_a worship_n to_o neglect_v those_o other_o duty_n of_o our_o particular_a calling_n and_o which_o we_o owe_v to_o man_n in_o our_o several_a station_n god_n allow_v time_n for_o both_o we_o be_v to_o take_v time_n for_o both_o and_o conscientious_a regard_n of_o the_o one_o and_o of_o the_o other_o be_v most_o consistent_a for_o the_o apostle_n enjoin_v both_o the_o former_a and_o latter_a sort_n of_o duty_n as_o it_o be_v with_o one_o breath_n which_o be_v clear_a from_o the_o grammatical_a construction_n of_o the_o word_n give_v thanks_o always_o submit_v your_o selvet_n one_o to_o another_o yea_o second_o the_o conscientious_a discharge_n of_o those_o duty_n which_o we_o owe_v to_o our_o neighbour_n in_o our_o several_a station_n in_o a_o way_n acceptable_a to_o god_n do_v call_v for_o and_o argue_v a_o copious_a measure_n of_o the_o save_a work_n of_o god_n spirit_n in_o the_o heart_n no_o less_o than_o those_o other_o duty_n of_o god_n worship_n and_o service_n for_o this_o verse_n depend_v upon_o and_o be_v construct_v with_o ver_fw-la 18._o be_v fill_v with_o the_o spirit_n submit_v yourselves_o 3._o there_o be_v none_o live_v who_o god_n allow_v to_o live_v only_o to_o themselves_o but_o all_o be_v bind_v to_o lay_v out_o themselves_o in_o their_o respective_a employment_n for_o the_o good_a and_o behoof_n of_o other_o even_o superior_n for_o the_o good_a of_o inferior_n for_o this_o command_n be_v give_v to_o all_o without_o exception_n submit_v yourselves_o one_o to_o another_o 4._o as_o god_n have_v tie_v we_o not_o to_o live_v to_o ourselves_o only_o but_o also_o to_o other_o who_o good_a we_o be_v to_o aim_v at_o in_o our_o place_n and_o station_n so_o for_o a_o recompense_n and_o that_o there_o may_v be_v a_o kind_n of_o equality_n he_o have_v tie_v those_o other_o to_o live_v also_o unto_o we_o and_o one_o way_n or_o other_o to_o be_v forthcoming_a for_o our_o good_a and_o advantage_n for_o the_o command_n and_o obligation_n found_v upon_o it_o be_v reciprocal_a submit_v yourselves_o one_o to_o another_o 5._o where_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n be_v root_v in_o the_o heart_n it_o will_v make_v a_o man_n conscientious_o careful_a and_o tender_a of_o his_o duty_n towards_o man_n so_o that_o he_o will_v not_o only_o do_v his_o duty_n but_o also_o do_v it_o from_o a_o right_a principle_n and_o motive_n and_o so_o do_v as_o he_o will_v not_o overdo_v by_o displease_v god_n while_o he_o go_v about_o to_o please_v man_n for_o he_o hold_v forth_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n as_o the_o fountain_n motive_n and_o rule_n of_o that_o submission_n which_o be_v here_o enjoin_v submit_v one_o to_o another_o in_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n vers._n 22._o wife_n submit_v yourselves_o unto_o your_o own_o husband_n as_o unto_o the_o lord_n the_o apostle_n come_v now_o to_o press_v those_o particular_a 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the_o labour_n of_o christ_n minister_n be_v attend_v with_o little_a success_n and_o but_o very_o few_o be_v convert_v by_o their_o pain_n and_o this_o even_o sometime_o when_o outward_a mean_n be_v such_o as_o may_v be_v most_o promise_v of_o fruitfulness_n the_o lord_n hereby_o inculcate_v this_o necessary_a lesson_n that_o the_o great_a work_n of_o convert_v soul_n depend_v not_o upon_o most_o promise_a mean_n 1_o cor._n 3._o 6._o for_o the_o prophet_n have_v a_o eye_n main_o as_o we_o show_v in_o the_o exposition_n to_o the_o first_o beginning_n of_o the_o christian_a church_n when_o christ_n himself_o be_v a_o preacher_n rom._n 15._o 8._o call_v she_o by_o the_o name_n of_o barren_a that_o bear_v not_o that_o travel_v not_o 3._o the_o lord_n will_v sometime_o for_o good_a and_o necessary_a reason_n express_v chap._n 1._o ver_fw-la 13._o doct_n 6._o give_v his_o church_n and_o people_n so_o far_o over_o to_o the_o rage_n of_o persecuter_n and_o own_v they_o as_o little_a under_o 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7._o the_o enlargement_n of_o christ_n kingdom_n and_o gain_v of_o many_o sinner_n to_o god_n together_o with_o the_o weaken_n of_o satan_n interest_n in_o the_o world_n aught_o to_o be_v entertain_v with_o much_o joy_n for_o say_v he_o rejoice_v break_v forth_o and_o cry_v for_o the_o desolate_a have_v many_o more_o child_n than_o she_o that_o have_v a_o husband_n 8._o so_o many_o be_v the_o discouragement_n of_o the_o godly_a and_o so_o many_o cause_n of_o grief_n which_o be_v as_o heavy_a weight_n and_o strong_a bar_n to_o bear_v down_o and_o keep_v in_o their_o joy_n that_o this_o duty_n of_o rejoice_v be_v not_o easy_o come_v at_o even_o when_o god_n in_o his_o gracious_a providence_n give_v reason_n for_o it_o hence_o the_o command_n be_v inculcate_v in_o several_a word_n rejoice_v cry_v and_o break_v forth_o which_o last_o suppose_v that_o many_o restraint_n from_o this_o duty_n be_v lying-on_a which_o must_v be_v broken-through_a before_o the_o heart_n can_v attain_v to_o it_o vers._n 28._o now_o we_o brethren_n as_o isaac_n be_v be_v the_o child_n of_o promise_n the_o apostle_n in_o the_o last_o place_n apply_v this_o typical_a history_n and_o the_o scriptural_a confirmation_n of_o the_o mystery_n prefigure_v by_o it_o and_o first_o by_o assert_v what_o himself_o real_o be_v and_o what_o in_o charity_n he_o yet_o conceive_v many_o of_o they_o at_o least_o to_o be_v he_o show_v the_o only_a way_n of_o attain_v the_o heavenly_a inheritance_n as_o child_n to_o be_v by_o virtue_n of_o the_o covenant-promise_n in_o resemblance_n of_o isaac_n who_o be_v so_o beget_v ver_fw-la 23._o and_o tacit_o imply_v that_o it_o be_v not_o attain_v by_o virtue_n of_o our_o own_o natural_a endeavour_n or_o fleshly_a privilege_n whereof_o the_o jewish_a synagogue_n and_o her_o follower_n do_v boast_v chap._n 6._o ver_fw-la 12_o and_o wherein_o they_o be_v represent_v by_o the_o child_n of_o the_o bondwoman_n ishmael_n ver_fw-la 23_o doct._n 1._o a_o minister_n ought_v to_o prosecute_v general_a doctrine_n so_o far_o until_o it_o be_v bring_v home_o to_o the_o particular_a state_n and_o case_n of_o his_o hearer_n by_o pertinent_a and_o close_a application_n as_o that_o wherein_o the_o life_n and_o power_n of_o preach_v do_v main_o consist_v 1_o tim._n 5._o 20._o for_o paul_n rest_v not_o until_o he_o make_v application_n of_o the_o doctrine_n in_o hand_n now_o we_o brethren_n as_o isaac_n be_v etc._n etc._n 2._o the_o humour_n of_o people_n be_v sometime_o so_o ticklish_a that_o a_o minister_n have_v need_n to_o proceed_v to_o the_o work_n of_o apply_v general_a truth_n unto_o they_o with_o that_o wariness_n and_o circumspection_n as_o to_o point_v out_o their_o duty_n and_o what_o he_o will_v have_v they_o to_o be_v rather_o by_o show_v his_o charitable_a thought_n of_o they_o that_o they_o be_v so_o already_o than_o by_o any_o direct_a up-stirring_a of_o they_o to_o it_o for_o so_o do_v paul_n here_o point_n at_o their_o duty_n of_o quit_v confidence_n in_o the_o flesh_n and_o of_o betake_v themselves_o to_o faith_n in_o the_o promise_n by_o show_v he_o do_v in_o charity_n judge_v of_o they_o as_o those_o who_o have_v do_v so_o already_o now_o we_o brethren_n be_v child_n of_o the_o promise_n 3._o that_o any_o of_o adam_n lose_a seed_n who_o be_v by_o nature_n child_n of_o wrath_n do_v become_v the_o child_n of_o god_n and_o heir_n of_o eternal_a life_n be_v only_o by_o virtue_n of_o the_o gracious_a promise_n of_o the_o covenant_n of_o grace_n in_o so_o far_o as_o first_o they_o be_v beget_v into_o a_o new_a and_o spiritual_a life_n not_o from_o any_o principle_n of_o natural_a strength_n and_o vigour_n rom._n 9_o 16._o but_o by_o the_o force_n of_o those_o promise_n enliven_v by_o the_o spirit_n of_o god_n 2_o cor._n 10._o 4._o and_o second_o their_o right_n to_o heaven_n arise_v not_o from_o any_o work_n which_o they_o do_v tit._n 3._o 5_o but_o from_o faith_n in_o the_o promise_n joh._n 3._o 16._o for_o in_o this_o sense_n we_o be_v call_v child_n of_o the_o promise_n vers._n 29._o but_o as_o then_o he_o that_o be_v bear_v after_o the_o flesh_n persecute_v he_o that_o be_v bear_v after_o the_o spirit_n even_o so_o it_o be_v now_o he_o apply_v the_o present_a purpose_n in_o the_o second_o place_n for_o consolation_n to_o the_o true_a member_n of_o the_o christian_a church_n against_o those_o persecution_n which_o they_o sustain_v from_o the_o false_a apostle_n and_o such_o other_o as_o adhered_a to_o the_o jewish_a synagogue_n and_o to_o the_o doctrine_n of_o justification_n by_o work_n first_o by_o show_v that_o the_o like_a persecution_n do_v befall_v isaac_n and_o be_v prefigure_v by_o those_o bitter_a mock_n which_o isaac_n who_o be_v beget_v by_o the_o power_n of_o god_n spirit_n according_a to_o the_o tenor_n of_o the_o promise_n do_v suffer_v from_o ishmael_n who_o be_v beget_v by_o the_o ordinary_a strength_n of_o nature_n and_o boast_v in_o his_o carnal_a outward_a privilege_n see_v gen._n 21._o 9_o as_o it_o be_v then_o so_o it_o be_v now_o say_v he_o doct._n 1._o it_o have_v be_v and_o yet_o be_v the_o ordinary_a lot_n of_o god_n child_n to_o suffer_v hard_a thing_n from_o the_o man_n of_o this_o world_n the_o lord_n have_v see_v it_o most_o fit_v that_o by_o the_o cross_n they_o come_v to_o their_o crown_n and_o through_o many_o tribulation_n enter_v into_o the_o kingdom_n of_o heaven_n act._n 14._o 22._o for_o paul_n speak_v of_o persecution_n as_o a_o thing_n common_a to_o the_o church_n in_o all_o age_n but_o as_o then_o even_o so_o it_o be_v now_o say_v he_o 2._o the_o sore_a persecution_n and_o trouble_n which_o the_o godly_a endure_v do_v frequent_o come_v from_o those_o who_o be_v otherwise_o tie_v unto_o they_o by_o most_o strict_a and_o near_a relation_n of_o kindred_n
a_o right_n unto_o he_o job_n 3._o 36._o with_o 1_o joh._n 5._o 11_o 12._o and_o to_o all_o those_o excellent_a save_a privilege_n which_o be_v purchase_v by_o he_o job_n 1._o 12._o so_o whoever_o will_v receive_v this_o gift_n aright_o must_v receive_v he_o as_o their_o head_n to_o quicken_v they_o to_o rule_v they_o and_o to_o be_v reverence_v by_o they_o for_o he_o give_v he_o to_o be_v head_n to_o the_o church_n 2._o the_o power_n and_o superiority_n which_o christ_n have_v over_o his_o church_n chief_o the_o invisible_a church_n of_o real_a believer_n as_o head_n be_v of_o another_o kind_n than_o that_o which_o he_o have_v over_o all_o other_o creature_n beside_o as_o be_v more_o intimate_a amiable_a and_o in_o a_o manner_n more_o native_a and_o natural_a and_o accompany_v with_o willing_a subjection_n in_o his_o church_n psal._n 110._o 3_o even_o as_o the_o superiority_n which_o the_o king_n head_n have_v over_o his_o own_o body_n or_o his_o royal_a consort_n be_v compare_v with_o that_o which_o he_o have_v over_o his_o subject_n or_o rather_o his_o subdue_a enemy_n for_o he_o give_v he_o to_o be_v head_n over_o all_o to_o the_o church_n over_o all_o that_o be_v in_o a_o singular_a and_o eminent_a manner_n above_o the_o domination_n which_o he_o have_v over_o all_o other_o creature_n 3._o none_o in_o any_o sense_n can_v be_v a_o head_n to_o the_o church_n unto_o who_o the_o church_n in_o that_o same_o sense_n be_v not_o a_o body_n so_o that_o if_o the_o church_n be_v not_o the_o pope_n body_n the_o pope_n can_v be_v the_o church_n head_n for_o there_o be_v a_o reciprocation_n betwixt_o the_o head_n and_o body_n in_o this_o purpose_n as_o christ_n be_v the_o church_n head_n so_o the_o church_n be_v his_o body_n he_o give_v he_o to_o be_v head_n to_o the_o church_n which_o be_v his_o body_n 4._o none_o can_v draw_v comfort_n from_o those_o sweet_a relation_n of_o head_n husband_n king_n etc._n etc._n which_o christ_n have_v take_v upon_o he_o towards_o his_o church_n but_o they_o who_o stand_v under_o a_o correspondent_a relation_n towards_o he_o as_o be_v his_o body_n spouse_n and_o subject_n and_o who_o make_v conscience_n of_o such_o duty_n as_o each_o of_o these_o relation_n do_v bind_v unto_o for_o as_o christ_n be_v a_o head_n to_o the_o church_n so_o the_o church_n be_v his_o body_n which_o be_v his_o body_n say_v he_o 5._o as_o christ_n by_o take_v upon_o himself_o those_o relation_n towards_o his_o church_n which_o be_v find_v among_o man_n do_v stand_v oblige_v unto_o those_o duty_n which_o man_n be_v bind_v to_o by_o virtue_n of_o such_o relation_n psal._n 23._o 1_o etc._n etc._n so_o the_o lord_n people_n be_v allow_v and_o command_v to_o search_v unto_o the_o duty_n and_o privilege_n follow_v upon_o such_o relation_n among_o man_n and_o from_o thence_o to_o learn_v what_o to_o expect_v from_o christ_n by_o virtue_n of_o that_o relation_n and_o what_o honour_n and_o privilege_n they_o do_v enjoy_v by_o stand_v under_o that_o relation_n to_o christ_n for_o from_o this_o that_o christ_n and_o the_o church_n stand_v under_o the_o relation_n of_o head_n and_o body_n the_o apostle_n infer_v that_o the_o church_n have_v this_o privilege_n of_o be_v christ_n fullness_n even_o as_o the_o shoulder_n arm_n breast_n belly_n leg_n and_o thigh_n be_v the_o fullness_n of_o the_o natural_a body_n so_o that_o mystical_a christ_n make_v up_o of_o head_n and_o member_n be_v not_o complete_a and_o full_a without_o the_o church_n or_o the_o least_o believer_n in_o the_o church_n which_o be_v his_o body_n the_o fullness_n of_o he_o say_v he_o 6._o in_o search_v forth_o the_o ground_n of_o these_o similitude_n or_o relation_n take_v from_o among_o man_n whereby_o christ_n set_v forth_o to_o our_o capacity_n what_o he_o himself_o be_v to_o his_o people_n we_o will_v careful_o guard_v lest_o by_o press_v they_o too_o far_o we_o ascribe_v any_o thing_n to_o christ_n which_o be_v not_o according_a to_o the_o analogy_n of_o faith_n or_o in_o any_o measure_n dishonourable_a to_o he_o for_o paul_n have_v stretched-forth_a that_o similitude_n of_o the_o head_n and_o body_n so_o far_o as_o to_o infer_v thence_o that_o the_o church_n be_v the_o fullness_n of_o mystical_a christ_n he_o careful_o guard_v against_o a_o mistake_n whereby_o people_n may_v think_v that_o then_o some_o perfection_n be_v want_v in_o christ_n to_o be_v supply_v by_o his_o church_n while_o he_o say_v that_o christ_n fill_v all_o in_o all_o 7._o as_o even_o believer_n in_o themselves_o be_v empty_a creature_n till_o they_o be_v fill_v be_v destitute_a of_o all_o good_a which_o they_o may_v call_v their_o own_o rom._n 7._o 18._o and_o unable_a to_o help_v themselves_o if_o it_o be_v but_o with_o one_o right_a thought_n 2_o cor._n 3._o 5._o so_o there_o be_v a_o supply_n to_o the_o full_a of_o all_o their_o emptiness_n in_o christ_n who_o be_v make_v of_o god_n unto_o they_o wisdom_n righteousness_n sanctification_n and_o redemption_n 1_o cor_n 1._o 30._o and_o communicate_v large_o and_o to_o the_o full_a of_o his_o own_o fullness_n unto_o such_o as_o be_v sensible_a of_o their_o own_o emptiness_n joh._n 1._o 16._o psal._n 81._o 10._o for_o he_o fill_v all_o in_o all_o 8._o before_o that_o christ_n do_v thus_o supply_v our_o emptiness_n out_o of_o his_o own_o fullness_n he_o must_v first_o be_v in_o we_o and_o unite_v to_o we_o by_o faith_n eph._n 3._o 17._o for_o he_o be_v in_o all_o who_o he_o fill_v he_o fill_v all_o in_o all_o chap._n ii_o in_o the_o first_o part_n of_o this_o chapter_n the_o apostle_n do_v commend_v the_o doctrine_n of_o salvation_n by_o freegrace_n first_o from_o the_o consideration_n of_o that_o misery_n under_o which_o not_o only_o the_o ephesian_n and_o other_o gentile_n be_v before_o conversion_n as_o be_v spiritual_o dead_a ver_fw-la 1_o follow_v the_o corrupt_a custom_n of_o the_o world_n and_o satan_n suggestion_n v_o 2._o but_o even_o the_o jew_n also_o as_o be_v enslave_v to_o their_o own_o corrupt_a lust_n v_o 3._o second_o from_o the_o consideration_n of_o that_o delivery_n from_o sin_n and_o misery_n which_o be_v common_a to_o they_o both_o and_o first_o he_o mention_v the_o first_o fountain_n and_o internal_a impulsive_a cause_n of_o that_o delivery_n to_o wit_n god_n freegrace_n ver_fw-la 4._o second_o the_o several_a branch_n of_o it_o as_o their_o quicken_n in_o the_o way_n of_o grace_n ver_fw-la 5._o the_o resurrection_n of_o their_o body_n and_o their_o glorification_n in_o heaven_n ver_fw-la 6._o three_o the_o final_a cause_n of_o this_o delivery_n to_o wit_n the_o manifest_v of_o god_n rich_a grace_n ver_fw-la 7._o and_o four_a he_o clear_v and_o prove_v they_o be_v save_v only_o by_o grace_n by_o remove_v all_o other_o thing_n inconsistent_a with_o grace_n from_o have_v influence_n upon_o our_o salvation_n and_o that_o first_o general_o ver_fw-la 8._o and_o then_o particular_o their_o good_a work_n because_o first_o otherwise_o they_o shall_v have_v have_v matter_n of_o gloriation_n in_o themselves_o as_o to_o this_o purpose_n the_o contrary_a whereof_o be_v intend_v by_o god_n ver_fw-la 9_o second_o power_n to_o do_v good_a work_n be_v give_v they_o in_o regeneration_n so_o that_o though_o they_o be_v necessary_a yet_o they_o be_v not_o meritorious_a ver_fw-la 10._o in_o the_o second_o part_n of_o the_o chapter_n he_o make_v a_o more_o particular_a application_n of_o the_o former_a purpose_n unto_o the_o ephesian_n and_o in_o they_o to_o all_o the_o gentile_n and_o first_o he_o lay_v forth_o that_o misery_n which_o be_v in_o a_o great_a part_n peculiar_a unto_o they_o as_o they_o be_v gentile_n and_o this_o both_o more_o general_o ver_fw-la 11._o and_o more_o particular_o in_o five_o several_a branch_n ver_fw-la 12._o second_o he_o declare_v their_o present_a happy_a estate_n of_o nearness_n to_o god_n and_o his_o church_n through_o christ_n brief_o ver_fw-la 13._o and_o explain_v more_o full_o that_o christ_n be_v the_o peacemaker_n and_o in_o order_n to_o his_o make_a peace_n have_v abolish_v the_o ceremonial_a law_n ver_fw-la 14_o 15_o and_o show_v a_o twofold_a necessity_n of_o christ_n so_o do_v both_o for_o unite_n of_o jew_n and_o gentile_n in_o one_o church_n ver_fw-la 15._o and_o for_o reconcile_a both_o of_o they_o to_o god_n ver_fw-la 16._o three_o he_o show_v that_o this_o benefit_n of_o nearness_n be_v publish_v and_o actual_o communicate_v unto_o they_o by_o the_o preach_n of_o the_o gospel_n ver_fw-la 17_o which_o he_o prove_v from_o the_o access_n which_o both_o jew_n and_o gentile_n have_v to_o god_n ver_fw-la 18._o and_o last_o he_o conclude_v from_o what_o be_v say_v that_o the_o ephesian_n be_v now_o in_o a_o bless_a state_n compare_v the_o whole_a church_n to_o a_o city_n a_o family_n ver_fw-la 19_o and_o