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and_o therefore_o though_o her_o beauty_n be_v decay_v her_o portion_n spend_v her_o weakness_n great_a and_o her_o vsefulness_n small_a yet_o she_o be_v a_o piece_n of_o myself_o and_o here_o the_o wise_a god_n have_v determine_v my_o affection_n and_o when_o all_o be_v say_v this_o be_v the_o only_a sure_a foundation_n and_o hold_v perpetual_o 2._o this_o love_n must_v be_v right_a for_o the_o extent_n of_o it_o i_o mean_v it_o reach_v the_o whole_a person_n both_o soul_n and_o body_n every_o man_n shall_v choose_v such_o a_o one_o who_o outward_a feature_n and_o proportion_n he_o can_v high_o esteem_v and_o affect_v and_o it_o speak_v the_o admirable_a wisdom_n of_o god_n to_o frame_v such_o variety_n of_o fancy_n to_o answer_v the_o variety_n of_o person_n and_o there_o be_v such_o choice_n it_o be_v sottish_a folly_n to_o choose_v where_o a_o man_n can_v love_v and_o the_o great_a injury_n possible_a to_o the_o wife_n to_o ensnare_v her_o heart_n and_o bound_v she_o to_o one_o that_o shall_v afterward_o say_v he_o can_v love_v she_o but_o beside_o this_o true_a conjugal_a love_n to_o a_o wife_n reach_v her_o soul_n so_o as_o to_o see_v a_o amiableness_n in_o her_o mind_n and_o disposition_n so_o as_o to_o study_v how_o to_o polish_v her_o soul_n more_o and_o more_o with_o wisdom_n and_o piety_n and_o to_o endeavour_v that_o her_o soul_n may_v prosper_v as_o her_o body_n prosper_v 3._o right_o for_o the_o degree_n of_o it_o it_o must_v be_v transcendent_a above_o your_o love_n to_o parent_n for_o this_o cause_n shall_v a_o man_n leave_v his_o father_n and_o his_o mother_n and_o shall_v cleave_v to_o his_o wife_n gen._n 2.24_o the_o husband_n must_v honour_v his_o parent_n but_o he_o must_v love_v his_o wife_n as_o himself_o and_o must_v yet_o with_o all_o prudence_n prefer_v she_o in_o his_o respect_n when_o ever_o they_o come_v in_o competition_n and_o those_o parent_n have_v forget_v the_o relation_n and_o duty_n of_o a_o husband_n that_o expect_v other_o 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yea_o as_o he_o have_v experience_n of_o her_o virtue_n and_o sweetness_n his_o love_n shall_v daily_o mar_v daily_o vbi_fw-la uxo_fw-la â—m_n magis_fw-la fueris_fw-la expertus_fw-la teneriùs_fw-la est_fw-la amauda_fw-la illud_fw-la verò_fw-la ubi_fw-la uxore_fw-la ad_fw-la satietatem_fw-la fueris_fw-la potitu_fw-la refrigescere_fw-la amorem_fw-la quem_fw-la arder_n ut_fw-la videtur_fw-la libidivis_fw-la accenderat_fw-la hominum_fw-la est_fw-la spurcorum_fw-la &_o abjâ—ctissimorum_fw-la imò_fw-la verò_fw-la non_fw-la hominum_fw-la sed_fw-la belluarum_fw-la lud._n vives_z the_o off_o mar_v increase_v as_o you_o know_v we_o love_v any_o creature_n the_o more_o by_o how_o much_o the_o long_o we_o have_v have_v they_o and_o nothing_o more_o betray_v the_o baseness_n of_o a_o man_n spirit_n then_o to_o neglect_v his_o wife_n when_o his_o sensual_a appetite_n be_v once_o cloy_v for_o you_o have_v have_v her_o beauty_n and_o strength_n why_o shall_v you_o not_o also_o have_v her_o wrinkle_n 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church_n he_o must_v nourish_v and_o cherish_v she_o even_o as_o the_o lord_n the_o church_n ver_fw-la 29._o now_o these_o text_n direct_v we_o to_o the_o quality_n of_o our_o love_n though_o we_o can_v reach_v to_o a_o equality_n with_o christ_n herein_o how_o then_o do_v jesus_n christ_n love_v his_o church_n i_o shall_v search_v no_o far_o into_o this_o depth_n than_o so_o far_o as_o it_o be_v propose_v in_o this_o context_n for_o a_o pattern_n sure_o to_o all_o husband_n in_o their_o love_n and_o this_o his_o love_n be_v represent_v here_o to_o be_v 1._o hearty_n without_o dissimulation_n ver._n 25._o he_o love_v the_o church_n and_o give_v himself_o for_o it_o his_o love_n be_v real_a for_o he_o die_v of_o it_o the_o husband_n must_v write_v after_o this_o copy_n not_o to_o love_v his_o wife_n in_o word_n and_o tongue_n only_o but_o in_o deed_n and_o in_o truth_n that_o if_o his_o heart_n be_v open_v her_o name_n may_v be_v find_v write_v there_o some_o vain_a complemental_a 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potion_n too_o hot_a the_o operation_n be_v hinder_v and_o his_o labour_n worse_o than_o lose_v admirable_a be_v the_o carriage_n of_o job_n job_n 2.10_o when_o his_o wife_n have_v high_o offend_v he_o with_o her_o word_n yet_o hear_v how_o mild_o he_o rebuke_n she_o not_o thou_o wicked_a caitiff_n but_o thou_o speak_v like_o one_o of_o the_o foolish_a woman_n soon_o or_o late_a if_o she_o be_v not_o brutish_a she_o will_v be_v thankful_a and_o amend_v 3._o the_o husband_n love_n must_v be_v demonstrate_v by_o ready_a encouragement_n of_o his_o wife_n when_o she_o do_v well_o prov._n 31.28_o her_o husband_n also_o he_o praise_v she_o he_o that_o be_v discreet_a and_o faithful_a herein_o perhaps_o take_v the_o ready_a way_n to_o do_v her_o good_a for_o such_o be_v the_o weakness_n of_o many_o that_o they_o ever_o think_v that_o reproof_n proceed_v either_o from_o a_o ill_a opinion_n or_o want_n of_o affection_n in_o the_o husband_n but_o when_o they_o shall_v find_v that_o he_o be_v as_o ready_a to_o encourage_v they_o when_o they_o do_v well_o they_o be_v convince_v and_o reform_v 4._o the_o husband_n love_n be_v see_v by_o seasonable_a comfort_v his_o wife_n in_o affliction_n whether_o it_o be_v in_o mind_n or_o body_n so_o do_v elkanah_n 1_o sam._n 1.8_o hannah_n why_o weep_v thou_o and_o why_o eat_v thou_o not_o and_o why_o be_v thy_o heart_n grieve_v be_o i_o not_o better_o to_o thou_o then_o ten_o son_n and_o this_o bring_v she_o to_o her_o meat_n as_o you_o may_v see_v in_o the_o next_o verse_n and_o general_o a_o kind_a word_n from_o a_o husband_n mouth_n do_v good_a like_o a_o medicine_n and_o that_o husband_n be_v worse_a than_o a_o tiger_n that_o support_v not_o his_o poor_a wife_n at_o such_o a_o time_n in_o her_o trouble_n of_o mind_n he_o must_v be_v her_o casuist_n in_o weakness_n of_o body_n he_o must_v be_v her_o comforter_n 2._o the_o effect_n of_o a_o husband_n love_n to_o his_o wife_n must_v be_v in_o deed_n also_o and_o that_o 1._o by_o make_v 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all_o thing_n 1_o cor._n 13.4_o 6._o it_o be_v here_o as_o it_o be_v in_o love_n to_o god_n which_o you_o know_v do_v both_o instruct_v and_o thrust_v a_o man_n on_o to_o the_o utmost_a of_o his_o duty_n exclude_v those_o wary_a fear_n wherewith_o hypocrite_n abound_v lest_o they_o shall_v do_v too_o much_o even_o so_o love_n to_o a_o man_n wife_n suggest_v all_o fit_a expression_n thereof_o and_o carry_v a_o man_n to_o perform_v the_o high_a effect_n of_o it_o when_o as_o the_o want_n of_o this_o cause_v he_o to_o dispute_v every_o inch_n of_o god_n command_n and_o to_o be_v jealous_a of_o every_o prescription_n i_o shall_v trace_v this_o comprehensive_a grace_n or_o duty_n 1._o in_o its_o nature_n and_o property_n 2._o in_o its_o pattern_n 3._o in_o its_o effect_n which_o do_v you_o will_v see_v that_o the_o great_a part_n if_o not_o all_o the_o husband_n duty_n be_v contain_v in_o love_v his_o wife_n as_o himself_o 1._o for_o the_o first_o the_o nature_n and_o property_n of_o this_o love_n it_o be_v conjugal_a true_a ae_v genuine_a such_o as_o be_v peculiar_a to_o this_o relation_n not_o that_o fondness_n which_o be_v proper_a in_o child_n nor_o the_o brutish_a lust_n which_o be_v peculiar_a to_o beast_n but_o that_o which_o be_v right_a and_o true_a 1._o for_o the_o ground_n of_o it_o which_o be_v the_o near_a relation_n which_o god_n ordinance_n have_v now_o bring_v he_o into_o and_o his_o will_n reveal_v in_o his_o word_n such_o be_v the_o love_n of_o isaac_n to_o rebeka_n gen._n 24.67_o she_o become_v his_o wife_n and_o he_o love_v she_o the_o ordinance_n of_o god_n have_v make_v she_o 200._o she_o not_o only_o by_o original_a creation_n so_o she_o be_v part_n of_o his_o flesh_n but_o by_o nuptial_a conjunction_n so_o she_o be_v one_o flesh_n gatak_n serm._n p._n 200._o one_o flesh_n with_o i_o and_o the_o law_n of_o nature_n oblige_v i_o to_o love_v my_o own_o flesh_n
manner_n of_o her_o subjection_n speak_v her_o reverence_n and_o that_o be_v free_a willing_a cheerful_a thus_o the_o church_n yield_v up_o herself_o to_o the_o will_n of_o her_o husband_n insomuch_o as_o it_o be_v make_v a_o kind_n of_o proverbial_a pattern_n eph._n 6.7_o with_o good_a will_n do_v service_n as_o to_o the_o lord_n imply_v that_o the_o subjection_n and_o service_n that_o we_o perform_v to_o the_o lord_n be_v with_o a_o good_a will_n and_o such_o aught_o to_o be_v the_o subjection_n of_o the_o wife_n most_o free_a and_o willing_a so_o as_o if_o there_o be_v but_o 678._o but_o nam_fw-la quae_fw-la ita_fw-la vivit_fw-la ut_fw-la se_fw-la ac_fw-la maritum_fw-la rem_fw-la prorsus_fw-la unam_fw-la esse_fw-la arbitretur_fw-la haec_fw-la absolvit_fw-la numeros_fw-la omnes_fw-la sanctae_fw-la uxoris_fw-la lu._n vives_z the_o chr._n foem_n pag._n 678._o one_o will_n in_o two_o breast_n thus_o leah_n and_o rachel_n gen._n 31.16_o follow_v jacob_n like_o his_o shadow_n when_o he_o make_v a_o motion_n they_o consent_v if_o he_o will_v go_v they_o will_v follow_v he_o and_o be_v not_o sarah_n reverence_n 198._o reverence_n this_o submission_n must_v not_o be_v for_o worldly_a respect_n or_o for_o fear_n of_o wrath_n but_o religious_a and_o for_o conscience_n sake_n gatak_n serm._n p._n 198._o cordial_a when_o within_o herself_o in_o her_o heart_n she_o call_v her_o husband_n lord_n gen._n 18.12_o and_o therefore_o a_o contradict_a or_o grudge_v spirit_n be_v very_o unsuitable_a to_o the_o religious_a wife_n and_o ever_o leave_v a_o sting_n in_o his_o heart_n and_o guilt_n in_o she_o for_o usual_o it_o be_v a_o sign_n of_o unmortified_a pride_n and_o self-conceit_n and_o entail_v the_o curse_n of_o unquietness_n upon_o the_o family_n and_o write_v a_o dangerous_a example_n to_o inferior_n if_o the_o husband_n government_n be_v too_o heavy_a yet_o it_o be_v better_a for_o you_o to_o leave_v he_o to_o answer_v for_o his_o severity_n than_o for_o you_o to_o answer_v for_o your_o 199._o your_o she_o owe_v her_o duty_n not_o only_o or_o principal_o to_o her_o husband_n but_o to_o the_o lord_n so_o that_o his_o neglect_n will_v not_o excuse_v she_o id._n p._n 199._o contempt_n 2._o the_o wife_n ought_v to_o reverence_n her_o husband_n as_o the_o member_n do_v the_o head_n so_o vers_fw-la 23._o for_o the_o husband_n be_v the_o head_n of_o the_o wife_n he_o be_v a_o head_n for_o influence_n and_o sympathy_n that_o be_v her_o privilege_n he_o be_v a_o head_n for_o eminence_n and_o rule_n that_o be_v he_o and_o how_o shall_v she_o expect_v benefit_n from_o her_o head_n if_o she_o do_v not_o honour_v her_o head_n to_o 11.4_o to_o 1_o cor._n 11.4_o dishonour_v a_o man_n head_n be_v always_o rank_v among_o unnatural_a sin_n all_o the_o member_n be_v sensible_a of_o what_o use_v the_o head_n be_v for_o their_o good_a there_o be_v continual_a care_n and_o project_n for_o the_o sustenance_n and_o comfort_n of_o the_o body_n and_o therefore_o they_o be_v willing_a to_o give_v the_o head_n its_o due_a honour_n the_o hand_n will_v submit_v to_o a_o wound_n to_o save_v the_o head_n if_o the_o head_n resolve_v to_o rise_v up_o to_o work_n or_o pray_v the_o whole_a body_n be_v up_o present_o if_o the_o head_n design_v a_o journey_n never_o so_o long_o never_o so_o dangerous_a the_o body_n say_v not_o nay_o but_o obey_v as_o long_o as_o possible_o it_o can_v why_o so_o shall_v the_o wife_n show_v honour_n to_o her_o head_n she_o ought_v to_o honour_v he_o next_o unto_o her_o maker_n she_o must_v be_v afraid_a by_o her_o frowardness_n or_o sullenness_n to_o break_v she_o own_o head_n she_o must_v not_o cross_v the_o purpose_n of_o her_o head_n it_o be_v preposterous_a for_o the_o supra_fw-la the_o non_fw-la secus_fw-la ac_fw-la mile_n svo_fw-la imperato_fw-la ri_fw-la imperare_fw-la si_fw-la postulet_fw-la aut_fw-la luna_fw-la soli_fw-la praeesse_fw-la aut_fw-la brachium_fw-la capiti_fw-la l._n vives_z ubi_fw-la supra_fw-la head_n to_o go_v one_o way_n and_o the_o rib_n another_o she_o must_v ready_o follow_v the_o direction_n and_o counsel_n of_o her_o head_n for_o the_o member_n must_v not_o teach_v the_o head_n which_o way_n to_o go_v they_o support_v it_o but_o they_o do_v not_o direct_v it_o indeed_o it_o be_v say_v that_o the_o virtuous_a woman_n be_v the_o crown_n of_o her_o husband_n but_o yet_o there_o be_v more_o justinian_n more_o vxor_fw-la coruscat_fw-la radiis_fw-la mariti_fw-la justinian_n worth_n in_o the_o head_n than_o in_o the_o crown_n so_o that_o still_o except_o always_o case_n wherein_o the_o head_n be_v luther_n be_v the_o man_n have_v government_n in_o the_o house_n except_o he_o be_v verbum_fw-la anomalum_fw-la i._n e._n a_o fool_n luther_n craz_n d_o or_o notorious_o distemper_v it_o will_v be_v the_o wisdom_n and_o duty_n of_o the_o wife_n to_o be_v subject_a to_o the_o husband_n as_o unto_o she_o head_n and_o this_o have_v bring_v we_o to_o the_o three_o thing_n by_o which_o the_o reverence_n of_o the_o wife_n be_v describe_v and_o that_o be_v by_o the_o effect_n thereof_o and_o they_o also_o be_v either_o 1._o in_o word_n or_o 2._o in_o deed_n 1._o in_o word_n for_o out_o of_o the_o abundance_n of_o the_o heart_n the_o mouth_n speak_v and_o if_o there_o be_v that_o inward_a fear_n and_o respect_n in_o the_o heart_n which_o god_n require_v it_o will_v be_v legible_a in_o the_o word_n of_o their_o mouth_n the_o same_o law_n that_o bind_v the_o heart_n in_o this_o case_n do_v also_o govern_v the_o tongue_n in_o her_o tongue_n be_v the_o law_n of_o kindness_n prov._n 31.26_o and_o here_o certain_o a_o wholesome_a tongue_n be_v a_o tree_n of_o life_n whereas_o perverseness_n therein_o be_v a_o breach_n in_o the_o spirit_n prov._n 15.4_o now_o this_o reverence_n in_o the_o wife_n be_v show_v 1._o in_o her_o word_n of_o her_o husband_n which_o shall_v always_o be_v compose_v of_o respect_n and_o honour_n thus_o sarah_n be_v bring_v in_o by_o the_o apostle_n 1_o pet._n 3.6_o even_o as_o sarah_n obey_v abraham_n call_v he_o lord_n who_o daughter_n you_o be_v as_o long_o as_o you_o do_v well_o and_o this_o be_v the_o language_n of_o her_o heart_n as_o you_o hear_v before_o out_o of_o gen._n 18.12_o and_o no_o wife_n be_v too_o great_a or_o good_a to_o imitate_v her_o example_n in_o the_o main_a by_o give_v respectful_a title_n and_o expression_n of_o her_o husband_n whereas_o on_o the_o contrary_a it_o be_v observe_v of_o the_o naughty_a woman_n prov._n 7.19_o she_o only_o afford_v her_o husband_n in_o his_o absence_n the_o man_n for_o so_o it_o be_v in_o the_o hebrew_n be_v not_o at_o home_n and_o it_o be_v well_o if_o this_o be_v the_o worst_a title_n and_o character_n which_o many_o wife_n do_v give_v their_o husband_n behind_o their_o back_n whereas_o all_o the_o reproach_n and_o ignominy_n that_o they_o pour_v out_o on_o their_o husband_n do_v infallible_o redound_v to_o their_o own_o shame_n their_o supâ—a_fw-la their_o no_o &_o vir_fw-la uxoris_fw-la majestatem_fw-la amere_fw-la &_o benevolentia_fw-la tuetur_fw-la &_o wulier_fw-la viri_fw-la cultu_fw-la &_o obedientia_fw-la nihil_fw-la genus_fw-la nihil_fw-la opes_fw-la nihil_fw-la fortuna_fw-la proderunt_fw-la honore_fw-la carebis_fw-la si_fw-la caruerit_fw-la vir_fw-la lu._n vives_z ubi_fw-la supâ—a_fw-la honour_n and_o respect_n stand_v and_o fall_v together_o 2._o the_o word_n of_o the_o wife_n to_o her_o husband_n ought_v to_o be_v full_a of_o reverence_n and_o therefore_o she_o shall_v beware_v 1._o of_o a_o excess_n in_o the_o quantity_n not_o preposterous_o interrupt_v her_o husband_n while_o he_o be_v speak_v nor_o answer_v ten_o word_n for_o one_o for_o ibid._n for_o vxorium_fw-la est_fw-la ornamâ—ntum_fw-la aut_fw-la cum_fw-la mari_fw-fr o_fw-fr aut_fw-la per_fw-la maritum_fw-la loqui_fw-la id._n ibid._n silence_n do_v more_o commend_v the_o wisdom_n of_o a_o woman_n than_o speech_n and_o she_o that_o be_v wise_a spare_v her_o word_n and_o though_o she_o seem_v to_o be_v religious_a yet_o if_o she_o do_v not_o bridle_v her_o tongue_n her_o religion_n be_v vain_a and_o 2._o she_o must_v beware_v of_o a_o defect_n in_o the_o quality_n of_o they_o viz._n of_o meekness_n and_o respect_n for_o the_o great_a study_n of_o the_o wife_n shall_v be_v to_o get_v a_o meek_a and_o quiet_a spirit_n which_o in_o the_o sight_n of_o god_n yea_o and_o of_o man_n too_o be_v of_o great_a price_n 1_o pet._n 3.4_o when_o the_o heart_n be_v once_o meeken_v by_o the_o grace_n of_o god_n then_o her_o word_n will_v savour_v of_o it_o and_o not_o till_o then_o and_o though_o they_o may_v think_v that_o this_o will_v invite_v and_o further_o the_o insolency_n of_o a_o unkind_a husband_n yet_o they_o may_v rest_v assure_v that_o that_o which_o be_v most_o please_a to_o god_n shall_v not_o tend_v to_o their_o prejudice_n any_o way_n for_o have_v not_o god_n say_v that_o a_o soft_a tongue_n break_v the_o
bone_n which_o be_v more_o than_o any_o virulent_a tongue_n can_v do_v prov._n 25.15_o let_v every_o godly_a woman_n therefore_o so_o frame_v the_o matter_n and_o manner_n of_o their_o word_n to_o their_o husband_n as_o know_v that_o god_n stand_v by_o to_o who_o they_o must_v give_v account_n of_o every_o idle_a word_n much_o more_o of_o every_o irreverent_a and_o contemptuous_a word_n at_o the_o day_n of_o judgement_n mat._n 12.36_o it_o will_v be_v a_o unspeakable_a comfort_n at_o death_n and_o judgement_n to_o reflect_v upon_o the_o victory_n which_o their_o patience_n have_v get_v and_o how_o oft_o their_o quiet_a silence_n and_o mild_a answer_n have_v keep_v the_o peace_n in_o conjugal_a contest_v though_o each_o shall_v be_v slow_a to_o passion_n and_o swift_a to_o peace_n yet_o where_o k_n one_o must_v yield_v it_o be_v most_o reasonable_o to_o be_v expect_v from_o the_o 709._o the_o sin_n caeperit_n excandescere_fw-la noli_fw-la contra_fw-la niti_fw-la &_o ex_fw-la uno_fw-la insano_fw-la dvos_fw-la facere_fw-la te_fw-la &_o illum_fw-la l._n vives_z the_o chr._n f._n p._n 709._o 188._o 709._o the_o wife_n be_v bind_v rather_o to_o seek_v reconcilement_n as_o be_v imply_v in_o that_o 1_o cor._n 7.11_o let_v she_o be_v reconcile_v to_o her_o husband_n gatak_n serm._n p._n 188._o inferior_a no_o woman_n get_v honour_n by_o the_o last_o word_n some_o will_v say_v their_o tongue_n be_v their_o only_a weapon_n but_o the_o wise_a do_v know_v that_o their_o tongue_n be_v not_o their_o own_o that_o when_o they_o 3.6_o they_o jam_fw-la 3.6_o be_v set_v on_o fire_n of_o hell_n they_o set_v on_o fire_n the_o course_n of_o nature_n and_o that_o by_o one_o very_a word_n they_o may_v be_v condemn_v look_v into_o the_o scripture_n and_o dress_v yourselves_o by_o that_o glass_n what_o do_v rachel_n get_v by_o her_o passionate_a term_n gen._n 30.1_o give_v i_o child_n or_o else_o i_o die_v and_o as_o soon_o as_o ever_o she_o have_v child_n lo_o she_o die_v chap._n 34.19_o whereas_o on_o the_o contrary_a the_o discreet_a and_o mild_a behaviour_n of_o abigail_n to_o her_o husband_n though_o he_o be_v a_o churl_n gain_v she_o both_o quiet_a comfort_n and_o honour_n this_o be_v certain_a if_o meekness_n and_o respect_n will_v not_o prevail_v 3.18_o prevail_v as_o the_o captain_n of_o cyrus_n command_v their_o soldier_n to_o receive_v their_o shout_a enemy_n with_o silence_n and_o when_o they_o have_v end_v then_o to_o set_v up_o a_o shout_n so_o husband_n and_o wife_n must_v agree_v not_o to_o shout_v together_o plutarch_n col._n 3.18_o anger_n and_o passion_n never_o can_v if_o duty_n work_n not_o our_o quiet_n how_o shall_v sin_n 2._o the_o effect_n of_o a_o wife_n reverence_n to_o her_o husband_n must_v be_v in_o deed_n also_o and_o that_o 1._o by_o obedience_n to_o his_o direction_n and_o restraint_n if_o he_o be_v to_o rule_v over_o she_o gen._n 3.19_o than_o she_o be_v to_o obey_v and_o the_o apostle_n 1_o pet._n 3.6_o tell_v we_o that_o sarah_n obey_v abraham_n he_o bid_v she_o gen._n 18.6_o make_v ready_a quick_o three_o measure_n of_o meal_n etc._n etc._n and_o it_o be_v do_v present_o though_o she_o know_v not_o what_o guest_n her_o husband_n have_v bring_v and_o the_o apostle_n paul_n say_v it_o must_v be_v in_o every_o thing_n eph._n 5.24_o which_o he_o both_o urge_v and_o explain_v by_o this_o as_o it_o be_v fit_a in_o the_o lord_n so_o that_o the_o wife_n be_v bind_v in_o conscience_n to_o obey_v her_o husband_n in_o every_o thing_n that_o be_v not_o contrary_a to_o the_o will_n of_o god_n indeed_o if_o he_o command_v she_o to_o do_v any_o thing_n that_o be_v sinful_a by_o the_o law_n of_o god_n as_o if_o he_o shall_v bid_v she_o tell_v a_o lie_n bear_v false_a witness_n or_o the_o like_a she_o must_v modest_o and_o resolve_o refuse_v it_o if_o he_o forbid_v she_o to_o do_v any_o thing_n that_o be_v by_o god_n command_n make_v a_o undispensable_a gregor_n undispensable_a sic_fw-la placeat_fw-la uxor_fw-la voluntati_fw-la conjugis_fw-la ut_fw-la non_fw-la displiceat_fw-la voluntati_fw-la conditoris_fw-la daven_n ex_fw-la gregor_n duty_n unto_o she_o as_o if_o he_o shall_v absolute_o forbid_v she_o to_o pray_v to_o read_v the_o scripture_n to_o sanctify_v the_o lord_n day_n or_o the_o like_a then_o she_o must_v rather_o obey_v god_n than_o man._n but_o in_o all_o other_o case_n though_o she_o may_v respectful_o persuade_v with_o he_o yet_o if_o he_o insist_v upon_o it_o her_o obedience_n will_v be_v her_o best_a sacrifice_n and_o her_o compliance_n will_v be_v the_o mean_n to_o make_v her_o yoke_n the_o more_o easy_a if_o the_o husband_n will_v have_v she_o to_o stay_v at_o home_n she_o must_v not_o run_v abroad_o without_o his_o consent_n but_o as_o that_o good_a shunamite_n 2_o king_n 4.22_o she_o call_v to_o her_o husband_n and_o say_v send_v i_o i_o pray_v thou_o one_o of_o the_o young_a man_n and_o one_o of_o the_o ass_n that_o i_o may_v run_v to_o the_o man_n of_o god_n and_o come_v again_o and_o indeed_o the_o house_n be_v her_o proper_a place_n for_o she_o be_v the_o domus_fw-la the_o she_o that_o tarry_v at_o home_n psal_n 68.8_o hebr._n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d decus_fw-la domus_fw-la beauty_n of_o the_o house_n there_o her_o business_n lie_v there_o she_o be_v safe_a the_o ancient_n paint_v they_o with_o a_o snail_n under_o their_o foot_n and_o the_o egyptian_n deny_v their_o woman_n conjug_n woman_n egyptiae_fw-la mulieres_fw-la majorum_fw-la instituto_fw-la calceis_fw-la non_fw-la uâ—ebantur_fw-la ut_fw-la domi_fw-la meminissent_fw-la tempus_fw-la exigendum_fw-la plutarch_n precept_n conjug_n shoe_n and_o the_o scythian_n burn_v the_o bride_n chariot_n axletree_n at_o her_o door_n when_o she_o be_v bring_v to_o her_o husband_n house_n and_o the_o angel_n ask_v abraham_n where_o sarah_n be_v though_o he_o know_v well_o enough_o that_o it_o may_v be_v observe_v 180._o observe_v ante_fw-la tabernaculum_fw-la vir_fw-la hospitum_fw-la explorat_fw-la adventus_fw-la intra_fw-la talernaculum_fw-la sara_n tuetur_fw-la foeminae_fw-la verecundiam_fw-la &_o opera_fw-la muliebria_fw-la tuto_fw-la exercet_fw-la pudore_fw-la foris_fw-la maritus_fw-la invitat_fw-la intus_fw-la sara_n convivium_fw-la adornat_fw-la ambros_n tom_fw-mi 4._o p._n 180._o she_o be_v in_o the_o tent_n gen._n 18.9_o do_v all_o intimate_v that_o by_o the_o law_n of_o nature_n and_o by_o the_o rule_n of_o religion_n the_o wife_n ought_v to_o keep_v at_o 195._o at_o the_o apostle_n tit._n 2.5_o join_v chastity_n and_o home-keeping_a together_o gatak_n serm._n p._n 195._o home_n unless_o urgent_a necessity_n do_v call_v she_o abroad_o when_o sun_n and_o moon_n both_o disappear_v the_o sky_n be_v dark_a and_o when_o both_o husband_n and_o wife_n be_v abroad_o many_o disorder_n breed_v at_o home_n and_o you_o know_v who_o character_n it_o be_v prov._n 7.11_o she_o be_v loud_a and_o stubborn_a her_o foot_n abide_v not_o in_o her_o house_n etc._n etc._n so_o also_o where_o the_o husband_n judge_v most_o convenient_a to_o dwell_v there_o the_o wife_n must_v cheerful_o consent_v to_o dwell_v with_o he_o though_o it_o may_v be_v either_o in_o respect_n of_o her_o friend_n or_o of_o his_o more_o uncomfortable_a to_o she_o thus_o when_o jacob_n be_v resolve_v to_o carry_v his_o wife_n from_o their_o friend_n to_o his_o country_n they_o ready_o yield_v gen._n 31.16_o thus_o when_o ahasuerus_n send_v for_o vasthi_n though_o his_o command_n seem_v inconvenient_a yet_o she_o have_v be_v true_a to_o her_o duty_n as_o well_o as_o to_o her_o interest_n have_v she_o come_v to_o he_o for_o the_o husband_n be_v the_o head_n of_o his_o wife_n and_o she_o must_v obey_v he_o he_o that_o appoint_v they_o to_o love_v their_o husband_n tit._n 2.4_o do_v in_o the_o next_o verse_n enjoin_v they_o to_o be_v discreet_a chaste_a keeper_n at_o home_n good_a obedient_a to_o their_o own_o husband_n that_o the_o word_n of_o god_n be_v not_o blaspheme_v for_o though_o even_o good_a woman_n be_v put_v to_o silence_n yet_o good_a work_n never_o can_v 2._o her_o real_a reverence_n be_v require_v and_o show_v in_o ask_v and_o harken_v to_o his_o counsel_n and_o reproof_n the_o husband_n have_v be_v teach_v wisdom_n in_o his_o counsel_n and_o mildness_n in_o his_o reproof_n and_o the_o wife_n must_v be_v teach_v to_o express_v her_o reverence_n in_o 538._o in_o aequum_fw-la autem_fw-la ut_fw-la deinceps_fw-la uxor_fw-la auscultet_fw-la marito_fw-la quia_fw-la maritus_fw-la periit_fw-la auscultando_fw-la uxori_fw-la daven_n in_o col._n p._n 538._o harken_v to_o they_o in_o the_o disposal_n of_o child_n rebecca_n will_v not_o send_v jacob_n to_o her_o brother_n laban_n without_o consult_v isaac_n gen._n 27.46_o so_o hannah_n in_o the_o case_n of_o samuel_n 1_o sam._n 1.11_o in_o the_o disposal_n of_o a_o servant_n sarah_n will_v not_o discard_v hagar_n without_o consult_v abraham_n gen._n 21.10_o in_o entertain_v stranger_n the_o shunamite_n will_v not_o
receive_v a_o prophet_n into_o the_o house_n without_o advise_v with_o her_o husband_n 2_o king_n 4.10_o in_o dispose_v of_o her_o husband_n good_n we_o find_v still_o the_o man_n hand_n in_o it_o the_o propriety_n be_v in_o he_o and_o the_o use_n be_v to_o she_o so_o that_o unless_o there_o be_v a_o notorious_a impotency_n in_o he_o or_o some_o tacite_fw-la or_o general_a consent_n or_o some_o case_n of_o present_a and_o absolute_a necessity_n as_o in_o the_o case_n of_o abagail_n she_o ought_v not_o to_o dispose_v her_o husband_n good_n indeed_o he_o ought_v according_o to_o the_o general_a obligation_n of_o their_o relation_n and_o according_a to_o the_o particular_a discretion_n of_o his_o wife_n intrust_v she_o in_o the_o ordinary_a affair_n of_o her_o sphere_n and_o by_o his_o bounty_n enable_v she_o to_o do_v good_a where_o there_o be_v need_n and_o not_o to_o put_v she_o by_o his_o penuriousness_n upon_o the_o temptation_n of_o purloin_v from_o he_o but_o if_o he_o do_v forget_v his_o duty_n let_v not_o she_o forget_v she_o which_o be_v to_o do_v he_o good_a and_o not_o evil_a all_o the_o day_n of_o her_o life_n prov._n 31.12_o but_o her_o hard_a task_n be_v in_o the_o love_a and_o thankful_a bear_n of_o reproof_n which_o be_v a_o bitter_a pill_n to_o flesh_n and_o blood_n especial_o when_o there_o be_v a_o proud_a and_o contentious_a spirit_n but_o herein_o she_o ought_v to_o consider_v that_o she_o be_v not_o without_o infirmity_n which_o as_o none_o have_v so_o much_o opportunity_n to_o see_v so_o none_o be_v so_o much_o oblige_v to_o represent_v unto_o she_o as_o her_o husband_n and_o to_o answer_v he_o with_o a_o froward_a tongue_n or_o a_o cloudy_a brow_n or_o a_o careless_a negligence_n be_v the_o great_a ingratitude_n and_o discouragement_n in_o the_o world_n but_o if_o her_o heart_n be_v full_a of_o reverence_n to_o he_o and_o especial_o if_o she_o believe_v his_o heart_n to_o be_v full_a of_o love_n to_o she_o this_o pill_n will_v be_v 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