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ofâ—â—ium_fw-la a_o 〈…〉_z dâ—sâ—endir_n dâ—sâ—endir_n 1._o pet_n 3.7_o 3.7_o nulla_fw-la est_fw-la maior_fw-la ad_fw-la amorem_fw-la inuâ—tatio_fw-la quam_fw-la prevenire_fw-it amando_fw-la nimos_fw-la qâ—e_fw-la aurus_fw-la est_fw-la animus_n qui_fw-la dilectionem_fw-la si_fw-la nolebat_fw-la impendere_fw-la nolit_fw-la &_o rependere_fw-la aug_n de_fw-fr catech_n rud_z cap._n 4._o 4._o gen._n 13.8_o 13.8_o gen._n 11.31_o 11.31_o 1._o cor._n 7_o 14._o 14._o eph._n 5.22_o 1._o tim._n 2.11_o 1._o cor._n 14.34_o 14.34_o 1._o pet._n 3.1_o 5._o 5._o 1._o cor._n 14.33_o 14.33_o 1._o cor._n 14.40_o 14.40_o 1._o tim._n 2.13_o 2.13_o ins_n primogâ—uitura_fw-la primogâ—uitura_fw-la gen._n 3_o 16._o 16._o gen._n 4_o 7._o 7._o 1._o cor._n 11.8_o 11.8_o quatuor_fw-la generationis_fw-la moâ—li_fw-la de_fw-fr lâ—mo_fw-la terrae_fw-la de_fw-la câ—sta_fw-la viri_fw-la de_fw-la carne_fw-la faminae_fw-la de_fw-fr semme_fw-fr utriusqae_fw-la hieron_n hieron_n gen._n 2.22_o 2.22_o 1._o cor._n 11_o â—_o 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of_o child_n and_o parent_n in_o the_o second_o place_n and_o 9_o of_o servant_n and_o master_n in_o the_o three_o place_n first_o 2.22_o because_o this_o society_n it_o be_v the_o first_o that_o ever_o be_v in_o the_o world_n and_o therefore_o as_o it_o be_v nupt_a the_o first_o in_o nature_n so_o it_o be_v the_o first_o here_o in_o order_n the_o apostle_n begin_v first_o with_o that_o which_o in_o course_n of_o nature_n be_v first_o second_o because_o this_o be_v 127.3_o the_o fountain_n from_o whence_o the_o rest_n flow_v and_o the_o stream_n can_v not_o flow_v pure_a and_o clear_a unless_o the_o fountain_n be_v first_o cleanse_v and_o keep_v clean_o the_o apostle_n therefore_o wise_o begin_v at_o the_o head-spring_n that_o a_o good_a course_n be_v settle_v in_o this_o principal_a society_n it_o may_v be_v
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