Selected quad for the lemma: duty_n

Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
duty_n	husband_n	let_v	wife_n	4,137	5	7.9298	4	true

Text snippets containing the quad

ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A41668	The young man's guide through the wilderness of this world to the heavenly Canaan shewing him how to carry himself Christian-like in the whole course of his life / by Tho. Gouge ...	Gouge, Thomas, 1605-1681.	1676 (1676)	Wing G1387; ESTC R32454	122,357	176

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conversion_n make_v present_a restitution_n luk._n 19_o 8._o know_v his_o repentance_n without_o it_o be_v but_o counterfeit_n and_o vain_a it_o be_v not_o sufficient_a to_o purpose_n and_o promise_v restitution_n but_o it_o must_v be_v present_o do_v for_o thou_o know_v not_o what_o a_o day_n may_v bring_v forth_o thou_o may_v either_o be_v take_v from_o thy_o riches_n or_o thy_o riches_n may_v be_v take_v from_o thou_o and_o thou_o thereby_o be_v altogether_o disenable_v to_o restore_v according_a to_o thy_o purpose_n though_o for_o the_o present_a thou_o may_v please_v thyself_o with_o thy_o ill-gotten_a good_n yet_o if_o ever_o thy_o conscience_n be_v enlighten_v and_o make_v sensible_a of_o the_o evil_a of_o sin_n thou_o will_v find_v no_o quiet_a therein_o till_o thou_o have_v make_v restitution_n ill-gotten_a good_n will_v be_v to_o thy_o conscience_n as_o the_o canaanite_n be_v to_o that_o good_a land_n it_o be_v say_v the_o land_n groan_v till_o it_o have_v spew_v they_o out_o so_o thy_o conscience_n will_v travel_v with_o grief_n till_o it_o be_v deliver_v of_o thy_o ill-gotten_a good_n seneca_n tell_v we_o of_o a_o philosopher_n at_o athens_n who_o have_v buy_v a_o pair_n of_o shoe_n upon_o trust_n and_o afterward_o hear_v that_o the_o shoemaker_n be_v dead_a flatter_v himself_o for_o a_o while_n with_o a_o conceit_n that_o the_o money_n due_a for_o the_o shoe_n be_v his_o own_o and_o that_o he_o shall_v never_o be_v call_v upon_o for_o the_o same_o but_o his_o conscience_n be_v afterward_o awaken_v he_o be_v so_o terrify_v with_o the_o thought_n of_o his_o injustice_n that_o as_o one_o affright_v he_o run_v with_o all_o speed_n to_o the_o man_n shop_n and_o find_v the_o door_n shut_v he_o fling_v the_o money_n in_o at_o the_o window_n say_v though_o the_o good_a man_n be_v dead_a yet_o the_o money_n be_v due_a from_o i_o if_o a_o heathen_a make_v such_o conscience_n of_o restore_v what_o be_v another_o and_o not_o his_o own_o how_o much_o more_o shall_v thou_o who_o be_v a_o christian_n make_v conscience_n of_o restore_v whatsoever_o thou_o have_v steal_v or_o fraudulent_o get_v from_o another_o and_o do_v not_o proper_o belong_v unto_o thou_o obj._n happy_o thou_o will_v say_v i_o be_o willing_a to_o make_v restitution_n but_o unwilling_a to_o have_v the_o thing_n know_v because_o thereby_o my_o credit_n and_o reputation_n will_v be_v exceed_o blast_v a._n for_o the_o preservation_n of_o thy_o reputation_n thou_o may_v make_v choice_n of_o some_o honest_a faithful_a friend_n who_o will_v deliver_v the_o money_n or_o good_n and_o conceal_v thy_o name_n be_v sure_a restitution_n be_v make_v one_o way_n or_o other_o of_o thy_o ill-gotten_a good_n 1._o because_o otherwise_o they_o will_v prove_v a_o moth_n to_o consume_v the_o rest_n of_o thy_o estate_n 2._o it_o be_v the_o only_a way_n and_o mean_n whereby_o thou_o can_v make_v recompense_n and_o satisfaction_n for_o the_o wrong_n thou_o have_v do_v unto_o thy_o neighbour_n 3._o common_a justice_n and_o equity_n require_v restitution_n so_o far_o as_o thou_o be_v able_a cicero_n and_o divers_z other_o among_o the_o heathen_n by_o the_o light_n of_o nature_n acknowledge_v as_o much_o what_o a_o shame_n than_o must_v it_o need_v be_v for_o christian_n who_o have_v the_o light_n of_o the_o gospel_n add_v to_o the_o light_n of_o nature_n not_o to_o acknowledge_v and_o practice_v this_o necessary_a duty_n 4._o this_o be_v the_o fruit_n worthy_a of_o repentance_n which_o we_o be_v command_v to_o bring_v forth_o mat._n 3._o 8._o and_o which_o will_v evidence_n the_o truth_n thereof_o hereby_o zacheus_n testify_v the_o truth_n of_o his_o repentance_n luk._n 19_o 8._o it_o be_v not_o thy_o confession_n unto_o god_n of_o the_o wrong_n do_v to_o thy_o neighbour_n nor_o thy_o mourning_n and_o sorrow_v for_o the_o same_o that_o will_v obtain_v the_o pardon_n of_o the_o sin_n without_o restitution_n so_o far_o as_o thou_o be_v able_a where_o that_o be_v want_v all_o thy_o sorrow_n and_o repentance_n will_v do_v thou_o little_a good_a this_o be_v the_o judgement_n of_o s._n austin_n confirm_v by_o all_o divine_n to_o this_o day_n that_o non_fw-la remittitur_fw-la peccatum_fw-la nisi_fw-la restituatur_fw-la oblatum_n no_o remission_n of_o sin_n without_o restitution_n of_o good_n or_o money_n so_o far_o as_o the_o party_n be_v able_a have_v thou_o therefore_o o_o young_a man_n in_o the_o time_n of_o thy_o apprenticeship_n be_v unfaithful_a to_o thy_o master_n and_o steal_v any_o thing_n from_o he_o or_o any_o other_o as_o thou_o expect_v to_o find_v mercy_n from_o god_n and_o to_o obtain_v the_o pardon_n of_o thy_o sin_n resolve_v forth_o with_o to_o restore_v the_o same_o otherwise_o it_o will_v prove_v not_o only_o a_o moth_n in_o thy_o estate_n but_o the_o ruin_n of_o thy_o soul_n if_o thou_o part_v not_o speedy_o with_o thy_o ill-gotten_a good_n thy_o soul_n be_v like_a to_o go_v for_o they_o and_o what_o will_v it_o profit_v thou_o to_o save_v thy_o good_n and_o lose_v thy_o soul_n chap._n xxx_o show_v the_o necessity_n of_o perform_v relative_n duty_n vii_o have_v special_a regard_n to_o the_o duty_n thou_o owe_v to_o thy_o relation_n wherein_o consist_v a_o great_a part_n of_o a_o christian_n work_n if_o god_n have_v bless_v thou_o with_o a_o family_n let_v thy_o care_n be_v that_o god_n may_v be_v honour_v therein_o by_o a_o constant_a conscionable_a performance_n of_o holy_a and_o religious_a duty_n relative_n duty_n do_v more_o demonstrate_v piety_n and_o true_a godliness_n than_o general_a duty_n the_o work_n of_o grace_n in_o man_n conversation_n do_v appear_v much_o in_o the_o duty_n of_o their_o relation_n if_o therefore_o thou_o profess_v godliness_n manifest_a the_o truth_n and_o power_n of_o it_o in_o perform_v the_o duty_n of_o thy_o relation_n whatsoever_o man_n may_v talk_v of_o godliness_n except_o it_o appear_v in_o a_o conscionable_a discharge_n of_o the_o duty_n of_o their_o relation_n all_o their_o talk_n and_o profession_n of_o religion_n be_v 〈◊〉_d no_o purpose_n except_o a_o servant_n be_v diligent_a and_o faithful_a to_o his_o master_n a_o child_n dutiful_a to_o his_o parent_n a_o wife_n love_v and_o obedient_a to_o her_o husband_n all_o their_o profession_n of_o religion_n be_v in_o vain_a so_o unless_o master_n parent_n and_o husband_n be_v careful_a and_o conscionable_a in_o the_o discharge_n of_o the_o duty_n of_o their_o relation_n all_o their_o talk_n of_o godliness_n be_v to_o no_o purpose_n therefore_o o_o young_a man_n have_v special_a regard_n to_o thy_o relative_n duty_n if_o thou_o be_v not_o good_a therein_o thou_o be_v not_o good_a at_o all_o what_o show_v of_o goodness_n soever_o thou_o make_v a_o good_a man_n but_o a_o careless_a master_n careless_a of_o the_o soul_n of_o his_o servant_n a_o good_a man_n but_o a_o harsh_a unkind_a husband_n these_o can_v well_o stand_v together_o man_n be_v real_o what_o they_o be_v relative_o except_o thou_o be_v relative_o good_a thou_o be_v not_o real_o good_a be_v therefore_o exact_o conscionable_a in_o the_o duty_n of_o thy_o relation_n if_o thou_o be_v a_o master_n a_o governor_n of_o a_o family_n be_v just_a and_o merciful_a to_o thy_o servant_n careful_a for_o the_o save_n of_o their_o soul_n if_o thou_o be_v a_o husband_n be_v kind_a and_o love_a to_o thy_o wife_n let_v all_o thy_o command_n be_v in_o love_n then_o will_v they_o be_v more_o cheerful_o obey_v if_o thou_o be_v a_o father_n be_v careful_a in_o the_o education_n of_o thy_o child_n bring_v they_o up_o in_o the_o nurture_n and_o admonition_n of_o the_o lord_n as_o god_n have_v make_v they_o thy_o child_n by_o natural_a generation_n do_v thou_o endeavour_v to_o make_v they_o his_o child_n by_o a_o religious_a education_n know_v that_o relative_a duty_n and_o grace_n do_v very_o much_o grace_n religion_n q._n what_o be_v those_o

special_a relative_a duty_n which_o be_v incumbent_a upon_o master_n and_o governor_n of_o family_n in_o reference_n to_o those_o under_o their_o charge_n a._n 1._o let_v your_o house_n be_v daily_o perfume_v by_o a_o morning_n and_o evening_n sacrifice_n of_o prayer_n and_o praise_n unto_o god_n both_o which_o be_v appoint_v under_o the_o law_n exod._n 29._o 38_o 39_o and_o this_o shadow_v what_o be_v to_o be_v perform_v under_o the_o gospel_n god_n renew_v his_o mercy_n to_o you_o every_o morning_n and_o protect_v you_o every_o night_n from_o manifold_a danger_n whereunto_o you_o be_v subject_a and_o can_v you_o be_v so_o ungrateful_a and_o unmindful_a of_o he_o who_o be_v every_o moment_n so_o mindful_a of_o you_o as_o not_o to_o offer_v up_o unto_o he_o a_o morning_n and_o a_o evening_n sacrifice_n 2._o let_v the_o word_n of_o god_n be_v frequent_o read_v in_o your_o family_n which_o be_v not_o only_o the_o foundation_n of_o faith_n and_o the_o wellspring_n of_o save_v wisdom_n but_o also_o the_o ground_n of_o godliness_n and_o the_o guide_n of_o practice_n able_a to_o make_v you_o wise_a unto_o salvation_n 2_o tim._n 3._o 15._o we_o cry_v out_o against_o the_o pope_n and_o popish_a clergy_n for_o lock_v up_o the_o scripture_n in_o a_o unknown_a tongue_n from_o the_o laity_n not_o suffer_v they_o to_o have_v a_o bible_n in_o their_o mother-tongue_n whereas_o many_o master_n among_o we_o deal_n much_o alike_o with_o those_o under_o their_o charge_n who_o if_o they_o do_v not_o lock_v up_o the_o scripture_n from_o they_o yet_o neither_o do_v they_o unlock_v they_o to_o they_o by_o cause_v they_o to_o be_v read_v among_o they_o certain_o do_v you_o serious_o consider_v the_o benefit_n that_o may_v redound_v to_o your_o servant_n by_o a_o frequent_a hear_v the_o word_n read_v you_o can_v not_o but_o be_v more_o frequent_a therein_o be_v any_o of_o they_o addict_v to_o drunkenness_n lie_v or_o swear_v who_o know_v but_o upon_o hear_v the_o threa●…nings_n in_o god_n word_n denounce_v against_o those_o sin_n they_o m●…y_v for_o the_o ●…ime_n to_o come_v abhor_v and_o avoid_v the_o same_o or_o be_v any_o of_o thy_o servant_n unprofitable_a and_o disobedient_a unto_o thou_o who_o know_v but_o upon_o hear_v the_o duty_n of_o servant_n read_v out_o of_o the_o word_n of_o god_n where_o they_o be_v command_v to_o be_v obedient_a to_o their_o master_n in_o all_o thing_n and_o to_o serve_v they_o not_o with_o eye-service_n as_o men-pleasers_a but_o as_o the_o servant_n of_o christ_n with_o singleness_n of_o heart_n as_o ephes._n 5._o 5_o 6._o they_o may_v become_v more_o obedient_a and_o profitable_a unto_o thou_o so_o that_o methinks_v for_o thy_o own_o good_a as_o well_o as_o they_o thou_o shall_v cause_v the_o word_n to_o be_v frequent_o read_v in_o thy_o family_n 3._o set_a some_o time_n apart_o in_o every_o week_n to_o catechise_v those_o under_o thy_o charge_n teach_v they_o the_o chief_a principle_n of_o religion_n than_o which_o there_o be_v no_o better_a mean_n to_o keep_v they_o from_o the_o error_n of_o the_o time_n if_o he_o be_v worse_o than_o a_o infidel_n who_o provide_v not_o for_o the_o body_n of_o those_o in_o his_o family_n what_o then_o be_v he_o who_o take_v no_o care_n of_o their_o soul_n neglect_v to_o instruct_v they_o in_o the_o principle_n of_o the_o oracle_n of_o god_n content_v not_o thyself_o with_o a_o dead_a distract_a manner_n of_o serve_v god_n but_o stir_v up_o thyself_o to_o a_o lively_a spiritual_a perform_v those_o holy_a duty_n thou_o take_v in_o hand_n to_o draw_v near_o unto_o god_n with_o our_o body_n and_o honour_v he_o with_o our_o lip_n when_o our_o heart_n and_o spirit_n be_v remove_v from_o he_o be_v no_o better_a than_o a_o mock_n of_o god_n which_o he_o abhor_v and_o detest_v v._o as_o a_o mean_n and_o help_n for_o the_o constant_a perform_v these_o family-duty_n have_v special_a care_n of_o the_o choice_n of_o thy_o yoke-sellow_a that_o thou_o marry_v a_o virtuous_a woman_n one_o who_o be_v relate_v to_o christ_n at_o least_o one_o that_o like_v and_o approve_v the_o best_a thing_n if_o thy_o wife_n be_v not_o a_o promoter_n of_o godliness_n in_o the_o family_n she_o will_v be_v a_o hinderer_n thereof_o the_o scripture_n in_o set_v forth_o the_o wickedness_n of_o jehoram_n render_v this_o as_o the_o reason_n thereof_o that_o he_o have_v the_o daughter_n of_o ahab_n to_o wife_n 2_o chron._n 21._o 6._o therefore_o o_o young_a man_n in_o seek_v after_o a_o wife_n it_o will_v be_v thy_o wisdom_n 1._o to_o look_v more_o after_o righteousness_n than_o after_o riches_n to_o inquire_v more_o after_o her_o piety_n than_o after_o her_o portion_n to_o know_v rather_o with_o what_o religion_n she_o be_v endue_v than_o with_o what_o estate_n she_o be_v endow_v alas_o what_o be_v the_o rich_a portion_n the_o most_o exquisite_a beauty_n and_o the_o rare_a part_n in_o comparison_n of_o a_o mind_n ennoble_v with_o grace_n and_o ver●…ue_v a_o wife_n as_o well_o as_o a_o husband_n be_v the_o great_a outward_a comfort_n or_o cross_v in_o the_o world_n so_o that_o to_o err_v once_o in_o the_o choice_n of_o a_o wife_n be_v in_o a_o manner_n to_o be_v undo_v for_o ever_o therefore_o o_o young_a man_n be_v sure_a thou_o seek_v unto_o god_n by_o prayer_n for_o his_o direction_n and_o assistance_n in_o this_o great_a work_n upon_o which_o much_o of_o thy_o future_a happiness_n or_o misery_n do_v depend_v 2._o next_o to_o piety_n prudence_n and_o discretion_n be_v to_o be_v look_v at_o in_o a_o wife_n for_o wisdom_n exceed_v solly_a as_o much_o as_o light_n exceed_v darkness_n eccles._n 2._o 13._o and_o indeed_o what_o be_v beauty_n without_o discretion_n but_o as_o a_o jewel_n of_o gold_n in_o a_o swine_n snout_n prov._n 11._o 22._o and_o solomon_n by_o way_n of_o commendation_n set_v forth_o a_o prudent_a wife_n to_o be_v a_o special_a gift_n and_o principal_a blessing_n of_o god_n such_o as_o excel_v all_o other_o temporal_a blessing_n whatsoever_o 3._o marriage-affection_n require_v some_o external_a amiableness_n that_o she_o be_v a_o please_a person_n in_o who_o thou_o may_v delight_v though_o as_o the_o wise_a man_n speak_v prov._n 31._o 30._o favour_n be_v deceitful_a and_o beauty_n vain_a because_o they_o be_v subject_a many_o way_n to_o decay_v and_o vanish_v away_o yet_o favour_n and_o beauty_n may_v serve_v for_o the_o root_n and_o settle_v of_o affection_n at_o the_o first_o 4._o in_o regard_v that_o marriage_n be_v the_o foundation_n of_o a_o family_n and_o posterity_n a_o portion_n be_v not_o to_o be_v contemn_v though_o not_o chief_o to_o be_v desire_v therefore_o in_o seek_v a_o wife_n let_v not_o wealth_n and_o riches_n be_v chief_o in_o thy_o eye_n as_o if_o thou_o be_v go_v about_o a_o purchase_n and_o be_v to_o wed_v not_o the_o woman_n but_o her_o wealth_n but_o look_v more_o to_o her_o inward_a goodness_n than_o to_o her_o worldly_a good_n last_o for_o a_o conclusion_n of_o the_o whole_a in_o the_o careful_a observation_n of_o all_o these_o direction_n give_v diligence_n to_o make_v thy_o call_v and_o election_n sure_a it_o will_v not_o suffice_v i_o to_o press_v thou_o to_o do_v something_o that_o so_o thou_o may_v have_v hope_n i_o will_v persuade_v thou_o to_o thy_o whole_a duty_n that_o so_o thou_o may_v have_v assurance_n that_o it_o shall_v be_v well_o with_o thou_o and_o less_o than_o i_o have_v here_o advise_v thou_o to_o will_v not_o suffice_v thou_o to_o make_v sure_a for_o everlasting_a he_o must_v be_v a_o universal_a christian_n that_o will_v be_v a_o assure_a christian_a there_o be_v as_o much_o require_v to_o assurance_n as_o be_v require_v in_o the_o whole_a scripture_n well_o what_o say_v thou_o will_v thou_o henceforth_o adventure_v thy_o soul_n on_o conjectural_a and_o deceitful_a hope_n or_o will_v thou_o set_v to_o it_o to_o make_v sure_a for_o heaven_n what_o shall_v i_o say_v more_o to_o persuade_v thou_o give_v i_o leave_v ere_o i_o dismiss_v thou_o to_o urge_v upon_o thou_o a_o argument_n or_o two_o whatever_o thou_o have_v to_o do_v here_o make_v sure_a for_o hereafter_o for._n 1._o nothing_o temporal_a can_v be_v make_v sure_o 2._o if_o thing_n eternal_a be_v make_v sure_a it_o be_v no_o great_a matter_n though_o thing_n temporal_a remain_v at_o the_o great_a uncertainty_n 1._o nothing_o temporal_a can_v be_v make_v sure_o this_o world_n be_v a_o world_n of_o uncertainty_n the_o riches_n of_o it_o be_v uncertain_a riches_n 2_o tim._n 6._o 17._o the_o pleasure_n of_o it_o be_v uncertain_a pleasure_n worldly_a friend_n be_v uncertain_a friend_n the_o wheel_n of_o providence_n be_v ever_o turn_v now_o one_o be_v at_o the_o top_n of_o the_o wheel_n and_o then_o another_o and_o another_o and_o he_o that_o be_v just_a now_o at_o the_o top_n by_z