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as_o sauce_n to_o your_o meat_n to_o sharpen_v your_o appetite_n unto_o the_o duty_n of_o your_o call_v and_o not_o to_o glut_v yourselves_o with_o they_o so_o as_o to_o make_v yourselves_o the_o more_o unfit_a both_o for_o the_o duty_n of_o your_o calling_n and_o of_o god_n service_n you_o must_v know_v that_o the_o main_a and_o principal_a end_n of_o god_n send_v you_o into_o the_o world_n be_v not_o to_o follow_v your_o pleasure_n but_o that_o you_o shall_v spend_v your_o time_n and_o strength_n in_o the_o duty_n of_o god_n service_n and_o in_o the_o mean_n whereby_o you_o may_v be_v fit_v thereunto_o 2_o when_o your_o recreation_n be_v make_v a_o trade_n of_o merchandise_n as_o when_o man_n play_v mere_o to_o get_v money_n that_o which_o a_o man_n gain_v by_o this_o traywick_n he_o can_v with_o a_o good_a conscience_n possess_v and_o enjoy_v it_o be_v not_o by_o god_n give_v he_o 4_o because_o he_o come_v not_o to_o it_o by_o lawful_a mean_n but_o be_v rather_o as_o steal_v good_n 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in_o the_o original_a proper_o signify_v 5_o to_o reprove_v and_o rebuke_v such_o as_o be_v scandalous_a and_o offensive_a in_o their_o way_n thus_o john_n reprove_v herod_n for_o herodias_n his_o brother_n philip_n wife_n 19_o and_o for_o many_o other_o evil_n 6_o to_o resolve_v the_o doubtful_a 7_o to_o strengthen_v and_o establish_v such_o as_o be_v weak_a in_o grace_n these_o indeed_o in_o one_o respect_n may_v be_v call_v work_n of_o piety_n namely_o as_o they_o be_v instruction_n direction_n and_o consolation_n gather_v out_o of_o the_o holy_a scripture_n but_o in_o another_o respect_n they_o be_v work_n of_o mercy_n namely_o as_o they_o tend_v to_o the_o good_a of_o your_o neighbour_n soul_n in_o which_o the_o poor_a that_o be_v may_v be_v rich_a in_o good_a work_n ii_o the_o work_n of_o mercy_n which_o concern_v the_o body_n of_o our_o neighbour_n be_v these_o and_o such_o like_a 1_o relieve_v such_o as_o be_v in_o want_n the_o apostle_n enjoin_v the_o corinthian_n to_o lay_v 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be_v see_v to_o carry_v he_o away_o but_o herein_o two_o extreme_n be_v careful_o to_o be_v avoid_v viz._n lenity_n and_o severity_n as_o parent_n ought_v not_o to_o be_v too_o indulgent_a towards_o their_o child_n which_o be_v elies_n fault_n for_o which_o sore_a judgement_n befall_v both_o he_o and_o his_o child_n 4._o so_o neither_o shall_v they_o be_v too_o severe_a in_o correct_v their_o child_n 21._o as_o some_o be_v have_v no_o respect_n either_o to_o the_o fault_n 71._o age_n or_o disposition_n of_o their_o child_n therefore_o the_o apostle_n give_v this_o dehortation_n unto_o parent_n not_o to_o provoke_v their_o child_n unto_o wrath_n vi_o another_o duty_n be_v to_o bring_v up_o their_o child_n in_o some_o honest_a call_v it_o be_v the_o ordinary_a mean_n as_o to_o prevent_v idleness_n which_o be_v the_o bane_n of_o youth_n so_o to_o enable_v they_o to_o live_v in_o the_o world_n and_o to_o be_v serviceable_a to_o the_o kingdom_n wherein_o they_o live_v in_o the_o choice_n of_o a_o call_v respect_n shall_v be_v have_v as_o to_o the_o child_n ability_n and_o fitness_n so_o to_o their_o disposition_n and_o inclination_n careful_o observe_v to_o what_o calling_n they_o be_v most_o dispose_v vii_o to_o provide_v fit_a match_n and_o marriage_n for_o their_o child_n it_o be_v the_o mean_v the_o lord_n have_v sanctify_v for_o the_o keep_v their_o body_n chaste_a and_o undefiled_a this_o the_o lord_n give_v in_o commandment_n to_o his_o people_n of_o old_a by_o his_o prophet_n jeremy_n 6._o say_v take_v wife_n to_o your_o son_n and_o give_v your_o daughter_n to_o husband_n in_o the_o choice_n of_o a_o husband_n or_o wife_n the_o parent_n ought_v to_o have_v great_a respect_n to_o piety_n and_o prudence_n thâ—n_v to_o wealth_n and_o riches_n for_o thereby_o shall_v they_o procure_v much_o happiness_n to_o their_o child_n in_o their_o marriage_n chap._n xxvii_o of_o child_n duty_n have_v show_v the_o duty_n of_o parent_n towards_o their_o child_n i_o come_v now_o to_o show_v the_o duty_n of_o child_n in_o reference_n to_o their_o parent_n which_o may_v be_v bring_v to_o three_o head_n viz._n 1_o obedience_n 2_o honour_n 3_o gratitude_n i._o obedience_n this_o be_v often_o press_v in_o scripture_n as_o the_o main_a and_o principal_a duty_n of_o child_n in_o reference_n towards_o their_o parent_n their_o obedience_n ought_v to_o be_v express_v 1_o by_o a_o cheerful_a yield_v to_o their_o precept_n and_o command_n ready_o do_v what_o they_o require_v of_o they_o and_o that_o for_o conscience_n sake_n even_o to_o the_o command_n of_o god_n who_o require_v this_o duty_n at_o their_o hand_n for_o say_v the_o apostle_n child_n obey_v your_o parent_n in_o all_o thing_n 20._o for_o this_o be_v well-pleasing_a to_o the_o lord_n and_o again_o child_n obey_v your_o parent_n in_o the_o lord_n 1._o for_o this_o be_v right_n in_o the_o former_a place_n 〈◊〉_d it_o be_v in_o all_o thing_n in_o the_o latter_a it_o be_v in_o the_o lord_n whereby_o be_v imply_v that_o child_n obedience_n must_v be_v in_o all_o thing_n honest_a and_o lawful_a agreeable_a to_o the_o word_n of_o god_n so_o that_o if_o their_o parent_n shall_v command_v they_o to_o do_v any_o thing_n contrary_a to_o the_o word_n of_o god_n they_o must_v therein_o obey_v god_n and_o not_o their_o parent_n for_o child_n be_v no_o further_o bind_v to_o obey_v their_o earthly_a parent_n than_o may_v stand_v with_o obedience_n to_o god_n their_o heavenly_a father_n 2_o child_n ought_v to_o express_v their_o obedience_n to_o their_o parent_n in_o harken_v to_o their_o good_a instruction_n it_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o parent_n to_o instruct_v their_o child_n it_o must_v needs_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o child_n to_o hearken_v unto_o and_o to_o obey_v their_o good_a instruction_n which_o solomon_n much_o press_v upon_o child_n 8._o my_o son_n say_v he_o hear_v the_o instruction_n of_o thy_o father_n and_o forsake_v not_o the_o law_n of_o thy_o mother_n where_o he_o do_v not_o only_o command_v child_n to_o obey_v the_o wholesome_a instruction_n of_o their_o father_n but_o do_v likewise_o infinuate_v that_o they_o shall_v not_o sleight_n and_o reject_v the_o advice_n of_o a_o mother_n because_o of_o the_o weakness_n of_o her_o sex_n as_o child_n ought_v to_o hearken_v to_o the_o good_a instruction_n of_o their_o parent_n in_o all_o thing_n so_o more_o especial_o in_o two_o thing_n 1_o in_o the_o choice_n of_o their_o calling_n 2_o in_o the_o choice_n of_o their_o match_n 1_o the_o former_a be_v commend_v in_o the_o scripture_n by_o the_o approve_a practice_n of_o godly_a child_n 2._o as_o of_o jacob_n samuel_n david_n and_o other_o and_o true_o 28._o in_o regard_n that_o parent_n be_v the_o mean_n of_o bring_v up_o their_o child_n in_o the_o world_n 15._o till_o they_o be_v fit_a for_o calling_n and_o that_o not_o without_o much_o care_n and_o cost_n be_v it_o not_o most_o meet_a and_o just_a that_o their_o counsel_n and_o advice_n shall_v be_v take_v in_o the_o 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which_o they_o shall_v show_v by_o uncover_v their_o head_n bow_v their_o body_n stand_v up_o before_o they_o with_o the_o like_a joseph_n though_o high_o advance_v yet_o when_o he_o appear_v before_o his_o father_n with_o his_o two_o son_n 12._o the_o text_n say_v he_o bow_v himself_o with_o his_o face_n to_o the_o earth_n yea_o though_o his_o father_n be_v blind_a through_o age_n and_o therefore_o can_v not_o see_v what_o respect_n his_o son_n show_v to_o he_o yet_o notwithstanding_o he_o bow_v to_o the_o very_a ground_n and_o when_o solomon_n hear_v of_o the_o approach_n of_o his_o mother_n the_o text_n say_v 19_o he_o rise_v from_o the_o throne_n to_o meet_v she_o and_o bow_v himself_o unto_o she_o and_o set_v she_o at_o his_o right_a hand_n and_o all_o this_o in_o token_n of_o his_o reverence_n and_o to_o give_v good_a example_n unto_o other_o iii_o another_o duty_n which_o child_n owe_v to_o their_o parent_n be_v gratitude_n a_o thankful_a requital_n of_o their_o love_n and_o 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