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stone_n of_o all_o his_o other_o duty_n it_o be_v as_o the_o chief_a wheel_n in_o the_o clock_n which_o give_v a_o dexterous_a motion_n to_o all_o the_o other_o wheel_n thy_o cordial_a love_n to_o thy_o wife_n will_v sweeten_v her_o condition_n in_o this_o life_n in_o her_o worst_a outward_a cross_n in_o want_n of_o health_n wealth_n the_o society_n of_o good_a neighbour_n pleasure_n and_o what_o not_o nay_o let_v her_o life_n be_v fill_v with_o the_o affluence_n and_o confluence_n of_o all_o the_o comfort_n under_o the_o sun_n yet_o the_o bare_a want_n of_o the_o apprehension_n of_o her_o husband_n affection_n towards_o she_o will_v make_v she_o dip_v all_o her_o morsel_n in_o vinegar_n and_o gall_n and_o make_v she_o complain_v that_o she_o do_v not_o see_v one_o good_a day_n now_o that_o it_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o the_o husband_n to_o love_v his_o wife_n appear_v eph._n 5.25_o husband_n say_v the_o apostle_n love_v your_o wife_n as_o christ_n love_v his_o church_n that_o be_v for_o kind_n not_o for_o measure_n for_o the_o measure_n of_o the_o love_n of_o christ_n to_o his_o church_n no_o dimension_n can_v demonstrate_v for_o to_o know_v the_o love_n of_o christ_n the_o apostle_n say_v it_o pass_v knowledge_n eph._n 2.19_o and_o in_o col._n 3.19_o the_o apostle_n bid_v husband_n to_o love_v their_o wife_n and_o not_o be_v bitter_a unto_o they_o the_o woman_n be_v make_v of_o a_o rib_n take_v out_o of_o the_o side_n of_o man_n and_o therefore_o adam_n say_v she_o be_v bone_n of_o his_o bone_n and_o flesh_n of_o his_o flesh_n gen._n 2.23_o nay_o by_o god_n ordinance_n they_o be_v no_o more_o twain_o but_o one_o flesh_n and_o from_o hence_o paul_n take_v a_o argument_n to_o persuade_v the_o husband_n to_o love_v his_o wife_n because_o no_o man_n yet_o do_v ever_o hate_v his_o own_o flesh_n eph._n 5.28_o 29._o you_o may_v remember_v that_o upon_o another_o occasion_n we_o do_v observe_v that_o jacob_n esteem_v rachel_n his_o wife_n as_o his_o right_a hand_n he_o call_v his_o son_n name_n of_o who_o she_o die_v benjamin_n or_o the_o son_n of_o his_o right_a hand_n gen._n 35.18_o god_n call_v the_o wife_n of_o ezekiel_n the_o desire_n of_o his_o eye_n son_n of_o man_n i_o take_v from_o thou_o the_o desire_n of_o thy_o eye_n with_o a_o stroke_n ezek._n 24.16_o 18._o the_o prophet_n nathan_n tell_v david_n in_o a_o parable_n that_o bathsheba_n the_o wife_n of_o uriah_n lie_v in_o his_o bosom_n that_o be_v in_o the_o bosom_n of_o her_o husband_n affection_n 2_o sam._n 12.3_o you_o plain_o see_v then_o that_o it_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o the_o husband_n to_o love_v his_o wife_n now_o that_o there_o be_v scripture_n incitation_n for_o it_o and_o scripture_n precedent_n for_o it_o too_o you_o must_v know_v you_o sin_n against_o god_n if_o you_o perform_v it_o not_o and_o if_o you_o do_v it_o not_o then_o as_o you_o have_v hear_v you_o bring_v affliction_n and_o grief_n on_o your_o wife_n so_o likewise_o you_o bring_v much_o prejudice_n on_o your_o 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of_o thy_o future_a tranquillity_n glory_n and_o bliss_n at_o the_o right_a hand_n of_o thy_o dear_a saviour_n in_o heaven_n to_o all_o eternity_n hereafter_o in_o the_o six_o place_n wife_n the_o six_o duty_n of_o the_o husband_n to_o his_o wife_n it_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o the_o husband_n to_o his_o wife_n to_o bear_v with_o her_o infirmity_n we_o that_o be_v strong_a ought_v say_v the_o apostle_n to_o bear_v the_o infirmity_n of_o the_o weak_a rom._n 15.1_o and_o peter_n in_o 1_o pet._n 3.7_o say_v the_o woman_n be_v the_o weak_a vessel_n ergo_fw-la a_o man_n ought_v to_o bear_v with_o the_o infirmity_n of_o his_o wife_n but_o the_o question_n be_v what_o fault_n may_v be_v say_v to_o be_v infirmity_n to_o be_v bear_v with_o in_o any_o in_o general_a and_o in_o the_o woman_n in_o particular_a i_o answer_v these_o and_o such_o like_a as_o forgetfulness_n of_o some_o material_a business_n some_o unusual_a neglect_n of_o duty_n to_o the_o husband_n child_n or_o servant_n some_o 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conceive_v then_o be_v elevate_v in_o herself_o and_o cast_v off_o due_a honour_n from_o her_o mistress_n which_o she_o discern_v be_v present_o full_a of_o passion_n and_o vent_v it_o very_o uncivil_o into_o the_o bosom_n of_o her_o husband_n and_o speak_v thus_o that_o be_v my_o wrong_n be_v upon_o thou_o i_o give_v thou_o my_o maid_n into_o thy_o bosom_n and_o when_o she_o see_v that_o she_o have_v conceive_v i_o be_v despise_v in_o her_o eye_n thâ—_n lord_n judge_n between_o i_o and_o thou_o well_o saraâ—_n what_o be_v the_o matter_n here_o be_v a_o great_a complaint_n out_o who_o have_v do_v thou_o the_o wrong_n what_o abram_n no_o he_o poor_a man_n be_v innocent_a in_o comparison_n of_o thyself_o what_o a_o false_a charge_n iâ—_n here_o draw_v up_o against_o abram_n what_o clamour_n upon_o it_o what_o appeal_v to_o god_n about_o it_o but_o how_o do_v abram_n demean_v himself_o in_o the_o condition_n true_o singular_o well_o he_o beat_v wiâ—_n this_o infirmity_n in_o his_o wife_n he_o know_v this_o wâ—_n not_o the_o frame_n and_o temper_n of_o her_o spirit_n anâ—_n therefore_o answer_v very_o mild_o and_o say_v to_o be_v behold_v thy_o maid_n be_v in_o thy_o hand_n do_v to_o she_o at_o please_v thou_o the_o second_o sad_a precedent_n as_o beforesaid_a be_v that_o of_o the_o carraige_a of_o zipporah_n to_o her_o husband_n moses_n ex._n 4.19_o 20_o 21_o 25_o 26_o moses_n be_v command_v by_o god_n to_o leave_v the_o land_n of_o midian_a and_o to_o return_v into_o egypt_n about_o the_o deliver_n of_o the_o child_n of_o israel_n out_o of_o bondage_n he_o take_v his_o wife_n and_o son_n and_o the_o rod_n of_o god_n in_o his_o hand_n and_o begin_v his_o journey_n but_o be_v have_v neglect_v the_o observation_n of_o a_o special_a ordinance_n of_o god_n viz._n the_o circumcise_n of_o his_o son_n god_n say_v the_o text_n meet_v he_o in_o the_o inn_n and_o seek_v to_o kill_v he_o where_o note_n by_o the_o way_n that_o it_o be_v a_o dangerous_a thing_n for_o a_o man_n to_o 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with_o must_v not_o be_v public_a nor_o give_v scandal_n and_o offence_n to_o other_o nay_o whatever_o they_o be_v he_o must_v take_v a_o fit_a opportunity_n to_o give_v she_o a_o sweet_a reproof_n for_o such_o a_o husband_n as_o be_v in_o a_o passion_n for_o his_o wife_n infirmity_n will_v make_v such_o a_o smoke_n in_o his_o house_n as_o shall_v disturb_v all_o in_o or_o near_o it_o the_o discretion_n of_o a_o man_n defer_v his_o anger_n and_o it_o be_v his_o glory_n to_o pass_v by_o a_o transgression_n prov._n 19.11_o wife_n the_o seven_o duty_n of_o the_o husband_n to_o his_o wife_n the_o seven_o duty_n the_o husband_n do_v owe_v unto_o his_o wife_n be_v due_a maintenance_n in_o all_o thing_n both_o inward_a and_o outward_a for_o her_o comfortable_a bodily_a subsistence_n here_o both_o in_o life_n and_o livelihood_n for_o supportation_n of_o health_n while_o it_o be_v enjoy_v and_o for_o restoration_n of_o it_o when_o decay_a and_o this_o to_o be_v perform_v with_o as_o much_o 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observe_v this_o he_o play_v the_o close_a hypocrite_n and_o bid_v as_o fair_a to_o maintain_v the_o name_n and_o form_n of_o a_o christian_a as_o other_o do_v but_o he_o detain_v a_o part_n of_o the_o money_n in_o a_o private_a way_n for_o to_o maintain_v he_o and_o his_o wife_n yet_o pretend_v and_o affirm_v the_o contrary_a his_o wife_n saphira_n follow_v his_o example_n of_o hypocrisy_n join_v with_o he_o in_o false_a affirmation_n and_o so_o both_o perish_v together_o act_n 5.1_o to_o the_o end_n of_o ver_fw-la 10._o belove_a thou_o that_o be_v a_o husband_n as_o chief_o in_o relation_n to_o god_n and_o thy_o own_o soul_n have_v need_v to_o walk_v accurate_o with_o all_o circumspection_n in_o the_o whole_a course_n of_o thy_o life_n to_o beware_v of_o any_o scandalous_a way_n out_o of_o pity_n to_o thy_o poor_a yokefellow_n that_o by_o thy_o example_n thou_o lead_v she_o not_o into_o the_o way_n of_o sin_n and_o so_o to_o hell_n for_o ever_o without_o the_o infinite_a and_o 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husband_n have_v these_o grace_n these_o qualification_n and_o divine_a operation_n o_o how_o will_v a_o gracious_a wife_n heave_v and_o strive_v pant_v after_o and_o gasp_n for_o spiritual_a vigour_n in_o the_o strength_n of_o god_n to_o imitate_v the_o same_o in_o her_o sweet_a precious_a heavenly_a and_o angelical_a husband_n ah_o dear_a heart_n let_v i_o beg_v of_o thou_o and_o beseech_v thou_o with_o all_o the_o obsecration_n in_o the_o world_n that_o thou_o will_v give_v thy_o wife_n no_o worse_o example_n than_o those_o for_o hereby_o thou_o shall_v glorify_v god_n edify_v and_o build_v up_o thy_o wife_n in_o grace_n discharge_v a_o grand_a matrimonial_a duty_n and_o gain_v demonstration_n of_o thy_o present_a gracious_a condition_n here_o and_o
save_v faith_n temperance_n patience_n godliness_n repentance_n unto_o life_n strength_n against_o corruption_n that_o he_o may_v abound_v in_o every_o good_a work_n that_o he_o may_v be_v a_o instrument_n of_o god_n glory_n here_o and_o a_o vessel_n of_o mercy_n hereafter_o and_o in_o thy_o draw_v forth_o and_o improve_n thy_o part_n thus_o for_o thy_o husband_n spiritual_a advantage_n man_n and_o angel_n shall_v witness_v for_o thou_o that_o thou_o have_v labour_v to_o answer_v one_o end_n of_o god_n create_v of_o thou_o that_o be_v to_o be_v a_o meet_a helper_n to_o thy_o husband_n nay_o the_o spirit_n of_o god_n shall_v attest_v the_o same_o to_o thy_o own_o soul_n to_o thy_o comfort_n here_o and_o permanent_a happiness_n hereafter_o four_o the_o duty_n of_o a_o wife_n to_o her_o husband_n husband_n the_o four_o duty_n of_o the_o wife_n to_o the_o husband_n be_v a_o comely_a and_o christian-like_a subjection_n to_o he_o she_o must_v not_o contend_v for_o equality_n with_o he_o 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joh._n 13.17_o the_o second_o duty_n that_o both_o man_n and_o wife_n do_v owe_v unto_o their_o child_n and_o servant_n be_v to_o pray_v with_o they_o and_o for_o they_o you_o have_v see_v but_o now_o that_o parent_n must_v take_v pain_n to_o teach_v and_o instruct_v their_o child_n and_o servant_n in_o the_o knowledge_n of_o god_n but_o what_o success_n can_v there_o be_v expect_v as_o the_o bless_a fruit_n of_o such_o a_o duty_n without_o prayer_n with_o and_o for_o they_o paul_n may_v plant_v and_o apollo_n may_v water_v but_o god_n give_v the_o increase_n 1_o cor._n 3.6_o but_o this_o increase_n must_v be_v humble_o seek_v of_o god_n by_o prayer_n there_o be_v a_o spirit_n of_o indotionablenesse_n in_o all_o by_o nature_n but_o it_o do_v abound_v many_o time_n in_o some_o child_n and_o servant_n i_o will_v instruct_v and_o teach_v thou_o say_v david_n in_o the_o way_n thou_o shall_v go_v i_o will_v guide_v thou_o with_o my_o eye_n psal_n 32.8_o then_o instant_o add_v in_o the_o 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religious_a way_n and_o to_o be_v very_o circumspect_a herein_o we_o have_v take_v some_o notice_n that_o it_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o such_o governor_n to_o teach_v those_o that_o be_v under_o their_o government_n the_o knowledge_n of_o god_n and_o to_o inform_v they_o in_o the_o way_n of_o his_o fear_n now_o if_o this_o be_v do_v only_o by_o precept_n and_o not_o by_o example_n there_o be_v small_a hope_n of_o do_v they_o any_o good_a for_o a_o man_n may_v teach_v his_o child_n or_o servant_n the_o way_n to_o heaven_n by_o precept_n and_o the_o way_n to_o hell_n by_o bad_a example_n the_o leader_n of_o this_o people_n cause_v they_o to_o â—erre_v and_o they_o that_o be_v lead_v of_o they_o be_v destroy_v say_v the_o prophet_n isa_n
their_o exorbitant_a lust_n to_o make_v they_o more_o sit_v to_o glorify_v god_n and_o perform_v service_n unto_o man_n these_o and_o such_o like_a aught_o to_o be_v pure_o your_o aim_n and_o last_o you_o must_v administer_v this_o ordinance_n in_o a_o a_o right_a manner_n that_o be_v with_o lift_v up_o your_o heart_n to_o god_n desire_v he_o with_o the_o correction_n to_o vouchsafe_v to_o they_o instruction_n to_o sanctify_v it_o to_o they_o so_o that_o it_o may_v prove_v effectual_a for_o their_o reformation_n to_o make_v they_o obedient_a to_o god_n in_o word_n and_o deed_n and_o faithtull_n in_o the_o discharge_n of_o all_o the_o duty_n they_o owe_v unto_o you_o now_o when_o your_o carriage_n be_v true_o thus_o in_o your_o correct_a child_n or_o servant_n you_o may_v by_o the_o blessing_n of_o god_n expect_v some_o gracious_a effect_n of_o it_o except_o the_o lord_n have_v a_o controversy_n with_o and_o against_o they_o to_o harden_v their_o heart_n by_o this_o and_o other_o mean_n 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do_v you_o matth._n 5.47_o for_o so_o it_o be_v render_v in_o the_o old_a translation_n what_o be_v the_o theory_n of_o religion_n if_o the_o practic_a part_n be_v want_v now_o as_o you_o will_v approve_v yourselves_o to_o be_v the_o child_n of_o god_n you_o must_v obey_v he_o in_o all_o thing_n for_o his_o servant_n you_o be_v who_o you_o obey_v rom._n 6.16_o the_o second_o reason_n infore_v from_o you_o the_o reas_n 2_o performance_n of_o these_o duty_n before_o mention_v for_o the_o good_a of_o your_o child_n and_o servant_n be_v take_v from_o those_o bowel_n of_o compassion_n that_o shall_v be_v in_o you_o relate_v to_o the_o good_a of_o their_o soul_n for_o by_o thy_o neglect_n of_o teach_v they_o the_o knowledge_n of_o god_n and_o pray_v for_o they_o and_o with_o they_o and_o walk_v before_o they_o in_o good_a example_n and_o labour_v to_o reclaim_v they_o from_o sin_n they_o may_v perish_v in_o hell_n for_o evermore_o he_o say_v james_n that_o convert_v a_o sinner_n from_o the_o 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as_o for_o thy_o poor_a child_n thy_o own_o loin_n have_v be_v the_o conduit-pipe_n to_o convey_v into_o their_o heart_n and_o soul_n from_o adam_n the_o fountain_n all_o that_o corruption_n of_o nature_n which_o be_v in_o they_o and_o all_o that_o propensity_n to_o sin_n which_o be_v in_o their_o will_n true_o it_o be_v not_o only_o against_o a_o gracious_a principle_n but_o against_o a_o humane_a and_o moral_a one_o too_o that_o thou_o shall_v thrust_v thy_o poor_a child_n into_o a_o dangerous_a quagmire_n and_o then_o deny_v he_o thy_o hand_n to_o help_v pluck_v he_o back_o again_o and_o that_o thou_o shall_v give_v he_o many_o a_o deadly_a and_o mortal_a wound_n and_o refuse_v to_o apply_v a_o plaster_n for_o his_o cure_n these_o similitude_n be_v infinite_o too_o short_a to_o set_v forth_o this_o case_n full_o now_o when_o thou_o do_v neglect_v these_o mean_n beforesaid_a thou_o do_v show_v thyself_o to_o be_v a_o cruel_a and_o bloody_a man_n a_o most_o savage_a beast_n there_o 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god_n call_v thou_o to_o be_v the_o governor_n of_o a_o family_n he_o have_v make_v thou_o a_o watchman_n over_o their_o soul_n and_o consider_v thou_o that_o place_n for_o the_o purpose_n in_o hand_n in_o ezek._n 33.8_o eli_n the_o priest_n be_v by_o reason_n of_o his_o indulgence_n to_o his_o child_n a_o very_a defective_a man_n this_o way_n yet_o many_o thousand_o million_o of_o man_n be_v more_o he_o seek_v to_o reclaim_v his_o son_n from_o their_o wickedness_n only_o by_o admonish_v they_o of_o it_o and_o of_o the_o judgement_n of_o god_n for_o the_o same_o which_o be_v more_o perhaps_o than_o thou_o do_v ever_o do_v but_o there_o unreasonable_o come_v to_o a_o period_n god_n punish_v this_o sin_n of_o he_o first_o upon_o those_o his_o wicked_a and_o degenerate_a son_n then_o on_o his_o own_o person_n and_o last_o on_o his_o whole_a house_n his_o son_n be_v slay_v both_o in_o one_o day_n himself_o break_v his_o neck_n and_o his_o house_n lose_v the_o priest_n office_n 1_o sam._n 2.22_o 23_o 24_o 34_o 35_o 36._o chap._n 4.11_o 18._o read_v the_o story_n and_o lay_v it_o sad_o to_o thy_o heart_n but_o the_o learned_a do_v conceive_v that_o the_o personal_a punishment_n of_o eli_n be_v but_o temporal_a because_o he_o be_v gracious_a though_o in_o the_o case_n beforementioned_a a_o grievous_a offender_n i_o say_v read_z and_z and_o consider_v and_o as_o thou_o like_v the_o punishment_n so_o practise_v the_o sin_n it_o be_v true_a god_n be_v patient_a but_o this_o his_o patience_n if_o further_o abuse_v by_o thou_o will_v not_o prove_v thy_o privilege_n but_o thy_o infinite_a disadvantage_n for_o thou_o shall_v when_o it_o be_v too_o late_a find_v thou_o be_v rather_o reserve_v for_o hell_n than_o
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fill_v their_o pouch_n mar._n 7.11_o 12_o 13._o which_o practice_n of_o they_o as_o well_o as_o their_o doctrine_n our_o saviour_n there_o condemn_v we_o may_v learn_v a_o better_a example_n from_o the_o practice_n of_o joseph_n when_o he_o be_v in_o prosperity_n and_o his_o father_n house_n in_o want_n gen._n 47.11_o 12._o for_o he_o nourish_v his_o father_n and_o his_o whole_a family_n in_o ramase_n which_o be_v the_o most_o fertile_a place_n of_o all_o egypt_n when_o naomi_n return_v very_o poor_a out_o of_o the_o land_n of_o moab_n into_o the_o land_n of_o israel_n ruth_n 1.21_o than_o her_o daughter_n in_o law_n wrought_v hard_o and_o take_v great_a pain_n to_o gain_v provision_n for_o her_o maintenance_n god_n condemn_v the_o formal_a fast_n of_o the_o child_n of_o israel_n as_o for_o other_o thing_n so_o for_o this_o that_o they_o do_v hide_v themselves_o from_o their_o own_o flesh_n isa_n 58.6_o 7._o now_o parent_n may_v be_v more_o true_o say_v to_o be_v our_o own_o flesh_n than_o other_o in_o common_a can_v be_v say_v to_o be_v our_o saviour_n in_o that_o place_n of_o mark_n make_v it_o one_o kind_n of_o honour_v parent_n to_o relieve_v they_o in_o their_o want_n and_o to_o honour_v our_o parent_n you_o have_v it_o prove_v before_o to_o be_v a_o duty_n from_o child_n there_o be_v other_o duty_n which_o child_n owe_v unto_o their_o parent_n but_o they_o may_v be_v include_v in_o these_o if_o these_o be_v conscientious_o perform_v they_o will_v be_v all_o discharge_v the_o duty_n then_o which_o child_n owe_v unto_o their_o parent_n which_o be_v obvious_a to_o your_o eye_n be_v first_o to_o reverence_v they_o second_o to_o obey_v they_o three_o to_o labour_v to_o preserve_v they_o from_o danger_n and_o to_o maintain_v they_o in_o their_o want_n in_o the_o last_o place_n we_o be_v to_o proceed_v to_o discuss_v the_o duty_n which_o servant_n owe_v unto_o their_o master_n etc._n etc._n and_o then_o we_o shall_v draw_v to_o a_o conclusion_n of_o this_o poor_a 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such_o as_o be_v offender_n in_o this_o kind_n and_o such_o be_v all_o servant_n that_o discharge_v not_o the_o duty_n here_o mention_v now_o if_o servant_n will_v know_v how_o and_o in_o what_o way_n this_o duty_n shall_v be_v perform_v for_o their_o help_n therein_o i_o refer_v they_o to_o those_o mean_n brief_o nominate_v for_o direction_n to_o child_n in_o the_o performance_n of_o this_o very_a duty_n to_o their_o parent_n and_o by_o the_o way_n it_o be_v worth_a observe_n that_o in_o a_o real_a and_o true_a sense_n it_o may_v be_v say_v and_o prove_v that_o master_n etc._n etc._n be_v parent_n to_o then_o servant_n as_o well_o as_o to_o their_o child_n yet_o with_o a_o great_a deal_n of_o difference_n in_o the_o second_o place_n it_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o servant_n to_o be_v obedient_a unto_o their_o manner_n etc._n etc._n this_o duty_n have_v some_o affinity_n with_o the_o former_a for_o if_o servant_n do_v not_o ready_o obey_v their_o master_n they_o can_v honour_v they_o they_o rather_o vilify_v they_o and_o expose_v they_o to_o contempt_n and_o disgrace_n there_o be_v many_o scripture_n text_n that_o offer_v themselves_o to_o confirm_v this_o truth_n servant_n be_v obedient_a to_o your_o master_n according_a to_o the_o flesh_n eph._n 6.5_o servant_n obey_v in_o all_o thing_n your_o master_n according_a to_o the_o flesh_n col_n 3.22_o exhort_v servant_n say_v paul_n to_o be_v obedient_a to_o their_o master_n in_o all_o thing_n not_o answer_v again_o tit._n 2.9_o the_o apostle_n peter_n do_v further_o press_v this_o duty_n servant_n say_v he_o be_v subject_a to_o your_o master_n with_o all_o fear_n not_o only_o to_o the_o good_a and_o gentle_a but_o also_o to_o the_o froward_a 1_o pet._n 2.18_o from_o all_o these_o place_n you_o may_v see_v this_o duty_n have_v the_o word_n of_o god_n for_o its_o foundation_n the_o centurion_n which_o we_o read_v of_o in_o the_o gospel_n have_v choice_a servant_n for_o their_o readiness_n to_o obey_v he_o for_o he_o 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be_v but_o many_o servant_n in_o our_o time_n will_v go_v and_o come_v at_o their_o own_o pleasure_n and_o do_v what_o be_v good_a in_o their_o own_o eye_n their_o master_n must_v be_v subject_a to_o they_o and_o not_o they_o to_o their_o master_n but_o such_o servant_n will_v be_v the_o great_a loser_n at_o last_o mark_v what_o the_o apostle_n say_v obey_v they_o that_o have_v the_o rule_n over_o you_o and_o submit_v yourselves_o for_o they_o watch_v for_o your_o soul_n as_o they_o that_o must_v give_v a_o account_n that_o they_o may_v do_v it_o with_o joy_n and_o not_o with_o grief_n for_o that_o be_v unprofitable_a to_o you_o heb._n 13.17_o which_o be_v a_o exhortation_n in_o general_a yet_o it_o concern_v servant_n in_o special_a servant_n must_v not_o do_v any_o thing_n contrary_a to_o their_o master_n mind_n though_o they_o give_v no_o particular_a command_n to_o the_o contrary_n elisha_n do_v not_o command_v his_o servant_n gehazi_n not_o to_o go_v after_o naaman_n to_o 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servant_n to_o their_o master_n to_o show_v all_o diligence_n fidelity_n and_o faithfulness_n in_o the_o discharge_n their_o business_n and_o answer_v the_o trust_n commit_v to_o they_o and_o that_o as_o in_o the_o presence_n of_o god_n when_o the_o apostle_n in_o that_o place_n of_o eph._n 7.5_o 9_o which_o we_o make_v use_v of_o before_o have_v exhort_v servant_n to_o be_v obedient_a to_o their_o master_n according_a to_o the_o flesh_n with_o fear_n and_o tremble_a in_o singleness_n of_o heart_n as_o to_o christ_n he_o add_v not_o with_o eye-service_n as_o man_n pleaser_n but_o as_o the_o servant_n of_o christ_n do_v the_o will_n of_o god_n from_o the_o heart_n the_o very_a same_o you_o find_v in_o col._n 3.22_o in_o tit._n 2.9_o 10._o exhort_v servant_n say_v the_o apostle_n to_o be_v obedient_a to_o their_o master_n not_o purloin_v but_o show_v all_o good_a fidelity_n that_o they_o may_v adorn_v the_o doctrine_n of_o god_n when_o servant_n serve_v their_o master_n not_o with_o 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