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wife_n may_v draw_v forth_o the_o love_n and_o kindness_n of_o a_o husband_n and_o a_o husband_n may_v extract_v the_o helpfulness_n and_o comfort_n of_o a_o wife_n by_o the_o religious_a do_v of_o their_o duty_n the_o one_o to_o the_o other_o for_o man_n or_o woman_n to_o expect_v the_o comfort_n of_o a_o relation_n and_o to_o neglect_v the_o duty_n thereof_o be_v to_o tempt_v god_n 25.24_o math._n 25.24_o and_o to_o act_v the_o part_n of_o a_o hard_a man_n who_o look_v to_o reap_v where_o he_o have_v not_o sow_v and_o to_o gather_v where_o he_o have_v not_o strew_v 3._o covenant_n 3_o the_o marriage_n covenant_n motive_n the_o solemn_a league_n and_o covenant_n you_o enter_v into_o mutual_o at_o marriage_n whereof_o god_n himself_o be_v a_o witness_n malac._n 2.14_o both_o of_o your_o make_n it_o
she_o own_o but_o her_o husband_n or_o better_a than_o her_o husband_n or_o shall_v a_o man_n love_v other_o man_n wife_n or_o a_o woman_n love_v other_o woman_n husband_n better_a then_o their_o own_o peculiarity_n of_o interest_n be_v a_o ground_n of_o speciality_n of_o love_n 3._o union_n 3_o union_n ground_n of_o special_a love_n between_o they_o be_v union_n the_o conjunction_n husband_n and_o wise_n have_v one_o with_o another_o they_o two_o be_v in_o many_o respect_n as_o one_o person_n and_o so_o one_o together_o as_o they_o be_v not_o or_o shall_v not_o be_v with_o any_o one_o beside_o in_o all_o the_o world_n to_o wit_v one_o flesh_n gen._n 2.24_o as_o it_o be_v incarnate_v one_o to_o another_o adam_n acknowledge_v this_o when_o god_n have_v make_v the_o woman_n for_o he_o and_o bring_v or_o marry_v her_o to_z he_o he_o say_v this_o be_v now_o bone_n of_o my_o bone_n and_o flesh_n of_o my_o flesh_n to_o show_v his_o thankfulness_n to_o god_n and_o love_n to_o his_o wife_n 2.23_o gen._n 2.23_o as_o wonder_v at_o god_n goodness_n to_o he_o therein_o marriage_n be_v a_o moral_a conjunction_n of_o two_o person_n so_o as_o man_n and_o wife_n be_v in_o law_n one_o flesh_n by_o god_n ordinance_n it_o be_v the_o strict_a bond_n of_o any_o relation_n and_o therefore_o a_o fellowship_n of_o the_o dear_a amity_n near_o than_o that_o between_o parent_n and_o child_n though_o child_n have_v their_o flesh_n and_o bone_n from_o their_o parent_n yet_o they_o be_v not_o one_o flesh_n with_o their_o parent_n therefore_o shall_v a_o man_n leave_v his_o father_n and_o mother_n and_o shall_v cleave_v unto_o his_o wise_n this_o 2.24_o gen._n 2.24_o be_v the_o sanction_n of_o marriage_n all_o society_n must_v be_v leave_v that_o this_o between_o man_n and_o wife_n may_v be_v keep_v this_o be_v paul_n rule_n let_v not_o the_o wise_a depart_n from_o her_o husband_n 16._o 1_o cor._n 7.0.11_o â—â—â—ach_n 2_o 16._o and_o let_v not_o the_o husband_n put_v away_o his_o wife_n for_o god_n hate_v put_v away_o the_o wife_n must_v be_v a_o individual_a companion_n of_o life_n the_o say_n of_o the_o philosopher_n that_o perfect_a friendship_n be_v only_o between_o two_o be_v most_o true_a in_o this_o case_n between_o man_n and_o wife_n because_o they_o two_o be_v by_o marriage_n make_v one_o necessity_n 4_o necessity_n the_o 4_o ground_n of_o spiritual_a love_n between_o they_o be_v necessity_n of_o the_o one_o for_o the_o other_o even_o for_o their_o be_v as_o well_o as_o for_o their_o walk_n in_o both_o these_o respect_n we_o may_v understand_v that_o of_o the_o apostle_n 11.11_o 1_o cor._n 11.11_o neither_o be_v the_o man_n without_o the_o woman_n neither_o be_v the_o woman_n without_o the_o man_n in_o the_o lord_n the_o man_n be_v not_o without_o the_o woman_n nor_o can_v be_v because_o man_n now_o be_v conceive_v and_o bear_v of_o a_o woman_n the_o woman_n be_v not_o without_o the_o man_n 14.1_o job_n 14.1_o because_o she_o be_v now_o beget_v of_o man_n so_o that_o they_o be_v mutual_a cause_n the_o one_o of_o the_o other_o the_o woman_n have_v her_o generation_n from_o the_o man_n the_o man_n have_v his_o conception_n and_o birth_n from_o the_o woman_n they_o can_v be_v much_o less_o be_v well_o the_o one_o without_o the_o other_o the_o husband_n shall_v look_v at_o his_o wife_n as_o causa_fw-la sine_fw-la qua_fw-la non_fw-la a_o help_n he_o can_v well_o be_v without_o for_o god_n say_v it_o be_v not_o good_a that_o man_n shall_v be_v alone_o and_o the_o woman_n shall_v look_v at_o her_o husband_n under_o the_o same_o notion_n it_o be_v not_o good_a for_o the_o woman_n to_o be_v alone_o therefore_o the_o husband_n shall_v not_o insult_v over_o his_o wife_n because_o oâ—_n his_o superiority_n over_o she_o nor_o the_o wife_n be_v discourage_v because_o of_o her_o inferiority_n or_o subjection_n to_o he_o because_o they_o have_v need_v the_o one_o of_o the_o other_o as_o fellow_n to_o bear_v and_o draw_v in_o one_o yoke_n together_o now_o mutual_a necessity_n shall_v breed_v mutual_a love_n between_o they_o what_o be_v so_o dear_a unto_o the_o wife_n as_o the_o child_n of_o her_o womb_n isa_n 49_o 15._o yet_o the_o husband_n shall_v be_v dear_a to_o she_o as_o eâ—kanah_n say_v to_o hannah_n 1.8_o 1_o sam._n 1.8_o be_o not_o i_o better_o to_o thou_o then_o ten_o son_n 3_o communion_n 3_o common_a duâ—â—_n be_v communion_n common_a duty_n between_o husband_n and_o wife_n be_v communion_n which_o flow_v from_o the_o union_n of_o their_o person_n by_o marriage_n for_o union_n be_v the_o ground_n of_o communion_n or_o communication_n of_o their_o body_n soul_n good_n and_o respect_n 1._o body_n 1_o of_o body_n of_o their_o body_n by_o mutual_a benevolence_n perform_v by_o the_o one_o to_o the_o other_o 1._o gor._n 7.3.4_o 2_o by_o cohabitation_n 1_o pet._n 3.7_o or_o dwell_v together_o unless_o it_o be_v for_o a_o time_n and_o upon_o necessary_a occasion_n 3._o by_o conjugal_a fidelity_n reserve_v themselves_o entire_o and_o peculiar_o proper_a the_o one_o for_o the_o other_o as_o christ_n and_o his_o church_n do_v hosea_n 3.3_o 2_o soul_n 2_o of_o soul_n of_o their_o soul_n for_o the_o spiritual_a good_a of_o both_o the_o heart_n as_o well_o as_o the_o body_n shall_v be_v common_a between_o husband_n and_o wife_n one_o say_v that_o both_o the_o body_n and_o the_o soul_n be_v unite_v together_o in_o marriage_n conjugal_a love_n will_v make_v heart_n advance_v together_o as_o well_o as_o body_n as_o amical_a love_n do_v friend_n the_o soul_n of_o jonathan_n be_v knit_v with_o the_o soul_n of_o david_n and_o jonathan_n love_v he_o as_o his_o own_o soul_n 1_o sam._n 18.1_o as_o lustful_a love_n make_v the_o soul_n of_o unclean_a person_n to_o cleave_v together_o as_o well_o as_o their_o body_n as_o shechems_n soul_n cleave_v to_o dinah_n jacob_n daughter_n who_o he_o defile_v gen._n 34.3_o 11.3_o 1_o king_n 11.3_o and_o solomon_n cleave_v unto_o many_o strange_a woman_n in_o love_n but_o i_o shall_v speak_v more_o of_o this_o soul_n communion_n between_o marry_a person_n in_o the_o four_o common_a duty_n 3_o go_n 3._o of_o go_n of_o their_o good_n and_o estate_n labour_n and_o endeavour_n a_o joint_a fruition_n thereof_o for_o mutual_a benefit_n and_o comfort_n 4_o kindred_n 4._o of_o respect_n to_o their_o kindred_n also_o there_o shall_v be_v a_o communion_n of_o due_a respect_n and_o love_a kindness_n to_o the_o kindred_n and_o friend_n that_o pertain_v to_o either_o party_n the_o husband_n and_o wife_n lie_v as_o corner-stone_n in_o the_o wall_n to_o join_v several_a alliance_n and_o kindred_n together_o and_o aught_o to_o carry_v very_o respectful_o to_o their_o affinity_n contract_v by_o marriage_n esau_n wife_n offend_v great_o in_o grieve_v the_o heart_n of_o their_o husband_n parent_n gen._n 26.35_o 4._o another_o 4._o furtherance_n of_o the_o salvation_n one_o of_o another_o common_a duty_n be_v to_o further_a the_o salvation_n and_o soul_n good_a one_o of_o another_o as_o give_v of_o god_n to_o that_o end_n husband_n and_o wife_n shall_v labour_v to_o gain_v one_o another_o to_o christ_n and_o help_v one_o another_o to_o heaven_n what_o know_v thou_o o_o wife_n say_v paul_n but_o thou_o may_v be_v a_o mean_n to_o save_v thy_o husband_n and_o whâ—t_o know_v thou_o o_o man_n but_o thou_o may_v save_v thy_o wife_n however_o this_o aught_o to_o be_v the_o serious_a endeavour_n of_o both_o if_o thou_o know_v not_o whether_o thou_o shall_v yet_o try_v whether_o thou_o can_v to_o this_o end_n extend_v your_o desire_n and_o labour_n in_o three_o particular_n 1_o to_o heal_v infirmity_n the_o one_o see_v in_o the_o other_o as_o pride_n passion_n discontent_n folly_n vanity_n excess_n or_o the_o like_a take_v the_o fit_a time_n when_o the_o party_n may_v best_o be_v wrought_v upon_o it_o be_v apt_a to_o take_v impression_n or_o be_v in_o a_o tractable_a ductile_a frame_n and_o choose_v the_o best_a manner_n to_o do_v it_o in_o a_o take_v efficacious_a way_n beg_v wisdom_n of_o god_n for_o it_o right_o to_o observe_v what_o be_v amiss_o in_o a_o yoke-fellow_n to_o heal_v it_o or_o to_o cover_v it_o happy_a be_v that_o couple_n who_o god_n make_v heaven_n of_o spiritual_a infirmity_n or_o spiritual_a physician_n one_o to_o another_o the_o wife_n shall_v be_v a_o second_o conscience_n to_o her_o husband_n a_o bosom_n monitor_n to_o tell_v he_o private_o of_o his_o fault_n to_o amend_v they_o 2_o to_o increase_v grace_n mutual_o and_o to_o encourage_v one_o another_o to_o the_o exercise_n of_o they_o as_o of_o faith_n love_n patience_n of_o prudence_n piety_n charity_n sobriety_n and_o the_o like_a 3_o to_o excite_v and_o encourage_v unto_o duty_n and_o to_o provoke_v one_o another_o unto_o good_a work_n and_o to_o quicken_v and_o sharpen_v or_o edge_n
ourselves_o as_o betroth_v to_o he_o in_o righteousness_n and_o love_a kindness_n mercy_n and_o faithfulness_n 2_o he_o 2_o to_o expect_v the_o love_n of_o a_o husband_n from_o he_o to_o expect_v all_o that_o love_n kindness_n tenderness_n comfort_n nourishing_n and_o cherishing_n from_o christ_n spiritual_o eph._n 5.29_o which_o the_o wife_n look_v to_o receive_v from_o her_o husband_n corporal_o as_o the_o spouse_n do_v in_o the_o canticle_n the_o kiss_n of_o his_o mouth_n cant._n 1.2_o the_o embrace_n of_o his_o arm_n cap._n 2.6_o the_o refreshment_n of_o his_o presence_n to_o sit_v under_o his_o shadow_n with_o great_a delight_n 3._o cant._n 2_o 3._o cordial_n and_o refocillation_n to_o support_v and_o comfort_v the_o soul_n in_o his_o absence_n this_o be_v to_o be_v stay_v with_o flagon_n and_o comfort_v with_o apple_n verse_n 5._o also_o the_o discovery_n of_o christ_n to_o the_o soul_n for_o he_o have_v promise_v i_o will_v manifest_v myself_o to_o you_o john_n 14.21_o will_v not_o the_o husband_n let_v his_o wife_n behold_v his_o face_n and_o the_o sense_n of_o his_o love_n shed_v abroad_o in_o the_o heart_n rom._n 5.5_o oh_o that_o be_v better_a than_o wine_n cant._n 1.2_o the_o communication_n of_o the_o seed_n of_o grace_n this_o be_v the_o benevolence_n which_o christ_n as_o a_o husband_n render_v to_o our_o soul_n 7.3_o 1_o cor._n 7.3_o to_o make_v they_o fruitful_a in_o good_a work_n we_o be_v marry_v unto_o jesus_n christ_n say_v paul_n that_o we_o shall_v bring_v forth_o fruit_n unto_o god_n hence_o the_o spouse_n say_v 1.10_o rom._n 7.4_o cant._n 1.16_o col._n 1.10_o our_o bed_n be_v green_a this_o denote_v the_o fruitfulness_n and_o flourish_a of_o the_o soul_n in_o every_o good_a work_n by_o the_o spiritual_a communion_n or_o heavenly_a conjunction_n of_o christ_n with_o the_o soul_n 3._o he_o 3._o to_o perform_v our_o duty_n to_o he_o to_o express_v and_o perform_v all_o that_o duty_n spiritual_o to_o christ_n which_o the_o wife_n do_v corporal_o to_o her_o husband_n as_o subjection_n obedience_n love_n loyalty_n chastity_n serviceableness_n to_o reserve_v our_o heart_n whole_o sole_o entire_o for_o he_o as_o his_o bed_n to_o lie_v in_o his_o throne_n to_o rule_v in_o now_o the_o husband_n bed_n and_o the_o king_n throne_n admit_v no_o corrival_n to_o be_v for_o he_o and_o not_o for_o another_o hosea_n 3.3_o to_o tarry_v many_o day_n for_o his_o gracious_a return_n and_o manifestation_n of_o himself_o to_o our_o soul_n after_o his_o departure_n and_o occultation_n of_o himself_o in_o our_o apprehension_n from_o we_o to_o embrace_v and_o imbosom_v christ_n and_o lay_v he_o between_o our_o breast_n 13._o micah_n 7_o 19_o cant._n 1_o 13._o as_o a_o bundle_n of_o myrrh_n or_o perfume_a bag_n to_o subject_v our_o desire_n to_o he_o and_o submit_v our_o will_n to_o he_o that_o his_o will_n may_v be_v we_o and_o there_o may_v be_v but_o one_o will_v between_o christ_n and_o our_o soul_n to_o refer_v ourselves_o whole_o to_o be_v at_o his_o command_n and_o dispose_v to_o open_v our_o heart_n unto_o he_o invite_v and_o entreat_v he_o earnest_o to_o come_v in_o and_o not_o only_o to_o sup_v and_o lodge_v in_o they_o but_o to_o make_v his_o abode_n in_o and_o with_o our_o soul_n i_o open_v to_o my_o belove_a say_v the_o spouse_n cant._n 5.5_o to_o be_v sick_a of_o love_n for_o christ_n as_o the_o spouse_n be_v cant._n 5.8_o sick_a with_o grief_n for_o his_o absence_n and_o with_o desire_n of_o his_o presence_n and_o to_o seek_v he_o up_o and_o down_o as_o the_o spouse_n do_v cant._n 3.1_o 2_o 3._o by_o night_n on_o our_o bed_n in_o private_a inquiry_n breathe_n and_o restless_a desire_n and_o pursuit_n after_o he_o and_o in_o the_o street_n and_o broad_a way_n of_o the_o ordinance_n and_o communion_n of_o saint_n and_o not_o to_o give_v over_o till_o we_o find_v he_o and_o have_v find_v he_o to_o hold_v he_o fast_o and_o not_o let_v he_o go_v to_o join_v ourselves_o 1._o christ_n by_o faith_n and_o love_n to_o be_v one_o spirit_n with_o he_o he_o that_o be_v join_v to_o the_o lord_n be_v one_o spirit_n say_v paul_n 1_o cor._n 6_o 17_o as_o husband_n and_o wife_n be_v one_o flesh_n to_o leave_v father_n and_o mother_n yea_o wife_n and_o child_n house_n good_n land_n all_o we_o have_v whatsoever_o be_v near_o or_o dear_a to_o we_o for_o christ_n sake_n to_o follow_v christ_n and_o to_o go_v to_o christ_n which_o be_v best_a of_o all_o for_o we_o 1.23_o phil._n 1.23_o this_o be_v the_o law_n of_o the_o church_n marriage_n with_o christ_n 45.10_o psal_n 45.10_o harken_v o_o daughter_n forget_v thy_o own_o people_n and_o thy_o father_n house_n he_o that_o love_v father_n or_o mother_n son_n or_o daughter_n etc._n etc._n more_o than_o i_o say_v christ_n be_v not_o worthy_a of_o i_o math_n 10.37_o to_o have_v i_o to_o be_v the_o husband_n of_o his_o soul_n 14.26_o luk._n 14.26_o christ_n require_v we_o shall_v leave_v all_o to_o cleave_v to_o he_o the_o apostle_n in_o ephes_n 5._o describe_v the_o union_n and_o amity_n of_o christ_n and_o the_o spouse_n by_o the_o sameness_n of_o flesh_n which_o marriage_n cause_v between_o husband_n and_o wife_n and_o reach_v marry_v person_n their_o duty_n by_o the_o communion_n of_o christ_n and_o the_o church_n and_o the_o soul_n duty_n to_o christ_n by_o the_o wife_n duty_n to_o her_o husband_n this_o be_v to_o spiritualise_v marriage_n and_o to_o improve_v it_o to_o a_o high_a holy_a and_o heavenly_a use_n the_o benefit_n whereof_o wâ—â—l_v extend_v to_o the_o day_n of_o eternity_n what_o expression_n of_o conjugal_a love_n be_v there_o between_o man_n and_o wife_n which_o carry_v not_o a_o resemblance_n of_o some_o spiritual_a intercourse_n between_o christ_n and_o the_o soul_n 2._o benefit_n of_o marriage_n be_v domestical_a the_o build_n of_o family_n and_o kindred_n 4.11_o 2_o domestical_a benefit_n of_o marriage_n ruth_n 4.11_o and_o the_o multiplication_n of_o they_o woman_n be_v builder_n hereof_o as_o well_o as_o man_n 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