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to_o procure_v wherewithal_o to_o pay_v her_o redemption_n she_o perish_v there_o and_o be_v never_o hear_v of_o more_o which_o leave_v the_o generous_a tartar_n in_o peaceable_a possession_n of_o her_o husband_n and_o in_o perfect_a unity_n with_o he_o the_o rest_n of_o her_o day_n 17._o behold_v the_o effect_n of_o true_a love_n behold_v the_o effect_n of_o honest_a and_o lawful_a jealousy_n that_o incline_v and_o inspire_v such_o generous_a lover_n to_o deprive_v themselves_o of_o their_o dear_a enjoyment_n and_o right_n to_o please_v their_o husband_n to_o employ_v all_o their_o strength_n and_o power_n to_o free_v they_o from_o enemy_n from_o exile_n from_o prison_n from_o torment_n yeâ—_n from_o death_n and_o die_v themselves_o foâ—_n they_o it_o be_v on_o this_o manner_n that_o jealousy_n iâ—_n a_o excess_n of_o love_n and_o especial_o iâ—_n this_o jealousy_n retain_v itself_o within_o the_o bound_n which_o the_o religion_n we_o profess_v prescribe_v to_o it_o and_o which_o 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this_o reverend_a father_n 4._o pretend_v a_o equal_a right_n in_o marriage_n since_o she_o be_v under_o a_o head_n and_o let_v not_o the_o husband_n despise_v his_o wife_n because_o she_o be_v subject_a to_o he_o since_o she_o be_v his_o body_n let_v the_o woman_n therefore_o always_o look_v upon_o her_o husband_n as_o her_o superior_a and_o let_v the_o husband_n love_v his_o wife_n as_o his_o own_o body_n and_o they_o shall_v live_v in_o peace_n finis_fw-la some_o book_n print_v for_o and_o sell_v by_o w._n freeman_n over_o against_o the_o devil_n tavern_n by_o temple-bar_n in_o fleetstreet_n the_o penitent_n pardon_v or_o a_o discourse_n of_o the_o nature_n of_o sin_n and_o the_o efficacy_n of_o repentance_n under_o the_o parable_n of_o the_o prodigal_a son_n by_o j._n goodman_n d._n d._n rectour_n of_o hadham_n and_o one_o of_o his_o majesty_n chaplain_n in_o ordinary_a the_o second_o edition_n correct_v and_o enlarge_v cuarto_fw-la the_o funeral_n rite_n and_o ceremony_n of_o 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utâ—â—rumqueâ—nim_fw-la etremorâ—â—st_fw-la 〈…〉_z ultimâ—m_fw-la ariâ—â—â—ttle_a anim_fw-la cap._n 9_o the_o animal_n spirit_n how_o sensation_n be_v make_v where_o and_o how_o the_o passion_n be_v form_v form_v biben_fw-ge dum_fw-la est_fw-la mihi_fw-la dictat_fw-la cupiditas_fw-la hoc_fw-la autem_fw-la esse_fw-la poâ—ulâ—â—_n tum_fw-la sensus_fw-la vel_fw-la phantasia_fw-la vel_fw-la mens_fw-la affirmat_fw-la confestim_fw-la bibitur_fw-la arist_n de_fw-fr animi_fw-la mot_fw-fr c._n 7._o 7._o phantasia_n distincta_fw-la a_o sensibus_fw-la quia_fw-la vel_fw-la ipsis_fw-la quies_fw-la centibus_fw-la ad_fw-la est_fw-la ut_fw-la in_o â—omno_fw-la arist_n de_fw-fr any_fw-la â—_o 3._o cap._n 4._o 4._o cogitatio_fw-la &_o imaginatio_fw-la agentes_fw-la adducunt_fw-la affectiones_fw-la nam_fw-la agentium_fw-la species_n reproesentant_fw-la arist_n de_fw-fr anim_fw-la moâ—_n c._n 11._o that_o the_o body_n act_n and_o move_v itself_o by_o the_o conformation_n of_o its_o member_n without_o the_o help_n of_o the_o soul_n soul_n that_o blood_n be_v the_o soul_n of_o beast_n deut._n 12._o 23._o 23._o joh._n 13._o that_o beast_n have_v not_o passion_n but_o
ibid._n what_o true_a love_n be_v 47_o that_o sensual_a jealousy_n can_v have_v no_o place_n in_o true_a marriage_n 48_o it_o be_v sensual_a love_n that_o create_v jealousy_n 49_o what_o sensual_a love_n be_v ibid._n person_n of_o understanding_n reckon_v it_o not_o honourable_a to_o be_v jealous_a 51_o chap._n iu_o of_o the_o marriage_n of_o christian_n according_a to_o the_o primary_n institution_n thereof_o by_o god_n himself_o and_o its_o re-establishment_n by_o christ_n 53_o that_o jealousy_n break_v off_o the_o society_n which_o god_n himself_o have_v establish_v ib._n why_o god_n establish_v marriage_n 54_o how_o strong_a the_o union_n of_o marriage_n be_v ib._n that_o jealousy_n be_v inconsistent_a with_o the_o marriage_n of_o christian_n 56_o contract_n of_o marriage_n according_a to_o st._n paul_n 57_o husband_n must_v love_v their_o wife_n ib._n wife_n must_v be_v submissive_a to_o their_o husband_n 58_o reciprocal_a duty_n of_o man_n and_o wife_n 59_o the_o love_n of_o husband_n to_o their_o wife_n according_a to_o st._n paul_n 61_o why_o marriage_n be_v a_o sacrament_n ib._n what_o kind_n of_o submission_n the_o wife_n must_v yield_v 62_o law_n of_o marriage_n according_a to_o the_o cannon_n and_o the_o father_n 63_o that_o jealousy_n be_v inconsistent_a with_o these_o principle_n 66_o chap._n v._o of_o jealousy_n of_o husband_n and_o the_o remedy_n thereof_o 69_o that_o jealousy_n be_v cruel_a ib._n the_o more_o virtuous_a the_o wife_n be_v the_o more_o jealous_a a_o sensual_a man_n be_v ibid._n the_o more_o understand_v a_o sensual_a man_n have_v the_o more_o jealous_a he_o be_v 70_o the_o jealousy_n of_o mithridates_n ib._n the_o jealousy_n of_o herod_n 71_o that_o this_o jealousy_n be_v incurable_a ib._n jealousy_n of_o weakness_n and_o its_o remedy_n 72_o formal_a and_o violent_a jealousy_n 76_o the_o remedy_n thereof_o 76_o the_o pernicious_a effect_n of_o adultery_n 77_o that_o domestic_a peace_n be_v a_o inestimable_a good_a 79_o the_o dangerous_a effect_n of_o lie_v 81_o the_o bad_a consequence_n of_o pride_n 83_o the_o advantageous_a consequence_n of_o patience_n 86_o 〈…〉_z n_o the_o last_o place_n to_o have_v recourse_n to_o god_n 87_o chap._n vi_o the_o jealousy_n of_o woman_n and_o the_o remedy_n thereof_o 88_o the_o jealousy_n of_o woman_n be_v more_o dangerous_a than_o that_o of_o men._n ib._n the_o abuse_n of_o the_o reason_n allege_v for_o the_o jealousy_n of_o woman_n 89_o 1._o whether_o submission_n be_v reciprocal_a or_o not_o since_o the_o bond_n be_v equal_o indissoluble_a on_o both_o part_n and_o the_o sex_n be_v equal_a as_o they_o say_v ibid._n that_o submission_n regard_v only_o the_o woman_n 92_o 2._o whether_o the_o power_n of_o the_o woman_n over_o her_o husband_n body_n make_v she_o equal_a with_o he_o in_o all_o other_o thing_n or_o not_o 113_o 3._o whether_o or_o no_o a_o woman_n may_v be_v jealous_a because_o adultery_n be_v equal_o criminal_a on_o either_o part._n 115_o that_o it_o be_v not_o permit_v she_o because_o she_o be_v his_o inferior_a 115_o 4._o whether_o or_o no_o jealousy_n be_v a_o crime_n to_o cause_n divorce_n since_o the_o scripture_n have_v not_o express_v it_o nor_o speak_v against_o it_o 117_o 5._o whether_o or_o no_o a_o woman_n that_o be_v honest_a and_o faithful_a may_v be_v jealous_a 122_o that_o the_o honesty_n of_o a_o wife_n give_v she_o no_o privilege_n to_o be_v jealous_a 123_o remedy_n against_o the_o jealousy_n of_o woman_n 125_o the_o woman_n must_v not_o in_o any_o case_n be_v jealous_a and_o so_o she_o cut_v off_o all_o occasion_n to_o the_o husband_n 127_o woman_n must_v speak_v only_o with_o their_o good_a action_n ibid._n she_o must_v use_v all_o the_o virtue_n opposite_a to_o the_o vice_n of_o her_o husband_n 128_o the_o sincerity_n of_o the_o heart_n 129_o mildness_n in_o discourse_n 130_o submissive_a love_n ibid._n agreeableness_n of_o humour_n 132_o sincere_a virtue_n only_o beget_v love_n 136_o the_o certain_a effect_n of_o these_o counsel_n 137_o chap._n vii_o that_o it_o be_v true_a and_o reasonable_a love_n that_o produce_v peace_n in_o marriage_n 139_o that_o jealousy_n cause_v hatred_n instead_o of_o love_n 139_o that_o it_o return_v back_o upon_o themselves_o that_o be_v jealous_a 140_o that_o it_o be_v contagious_a and_o communicative_a and_o in_o the_o end_n cause_v separation_n 141_o from_o whence_o come_v reciprocal_a jealousy_n 142_o the_o true_a and_o real_a love_n of_o a_o husband_n 143_o a_o example_n of_o the_o real_a love_n of_o a_o arabian_a 144_o a_o example_n of_o the_o love_n of_o joseph_n to_o his_o virgin_n 146_o the_o mean_n for_o woman_n to_o preserve_v peace_n 147_o bad_a education_n a_o cause_n of_o division_n in_o marriage_n ibid._n the_o abuse_n of_o matchmaker_n 148_o that_o meekness_n in_o a_o woman_n be_v a_o excellent_a quality_n 150_o the_o woman_n mnst_a conform_v herself_o to_o her_o husband_n 151_o example_n of_o the_o love_n of_o several_a woman_n 152_o example_n of_o the_o love_n of_o a_o tartar_n woman_n 153_o the_o praise_n of_o a_o good_a and_o honest_a wife_n 156_o the_o conclusion_n and_o abridgement_n of_o the_o whole_a work_n 158_o a_o treatise_n of_o jealousy_n or_o mean_v to_o preserve_v peace_n in_o marriage_n chap._n i._o of_o the_o subject_a of_o the_o ensue_a treatise_n the_o error_n into_o which_o the_o great_a jealousy_n part_n of_o the_o world_n be_v apt_a to_o fall_v believe_v that_o jealousy_n be_v not_o only_o a_o ordinary_a effect_n of_o 〈…〉_z ve_fw-la but_o even_o the_o strong_a and_o most_o 〈…〉_z nvince_a proof_n of_o its_o ardure_n have_v gi_z 〈…〉_z n_o occasion_n to_o the_o transmit_v this_o 〈…〉_z eatise_n abroad_o jealousy_n say_v they_o in_o speak_v proper_o a_o excess_n of_o love_n which_o because_o of_o excess_n may_v proper_o be_v lead_v a_o sickly_a love_n viz._n a_o love_n that_o flame_n with_o the_o fire_n or_o great_a heat_n of_o a_o lever_n and_o by_o consequence_n be_v the_o strong_a ardure_n that_o true_a love_n be_v capable_a of_o so_o that_o a_o person_n presume_v to_o himself_o honour_n and_o to_o render_v his_o love_n very_o commendable_a when_o he_o express_v a_o exceed_a jealousy_n since_o jealousy_n in_o this_o excess_n be_v the_o high_a degree_n that_o love_n can_v reach_v to_o it_o be_v this_o error_n which_o be_v design_v in_o this_o treatise_n to_o encounter_n with_o all_o it_o be_v this_o jealousy_n unbounded_a that_o introduce_v these_o civil-broâ—ls_a into_o family_n that_o kindle_v the_o fire_n of_o discord_n between_o man_n and_o wife_n and_o that_o break_v their_o matrimonial-band_n which_o we_o shall_v in_o this_o treatise_n endeavour_v to_o destroy_v and_o the_o rather_o since_o erroneous_a abuse_n will_v authorize_v it_o though_o in_o itself_o so_o pernicious_a that_o it_o may_v be_v the_o better_o know_v it_o be_v people_n requisite_a in_o the_o first_o place_n to_o distinguish_v it_o from_o certain_a other_o jealousy_n which_o indeed_o do_v retain_v its_o name_n but_o not_o at_o all_o its_o quality_n some_o do_v excite_v in_o themselves_o as_o we_o have_v have_v the_o experience_n certain_a feign_v and_o counterfeit_a jealousy_n which_o they_o use_v to_o amuse_v or_o posse_fw-la 〈…〉_z some_o simple_a or_o stupid_a genius_n withal_o as_o for_o example_n some_o husband_n pretend_v 〈…〉_z o_o 〈…〉_z be_v jealous_a of_o their_o wife_n to_o persuade_v they_o of_o the_o entireness_n of_o their_o love_n according_a to_o these_o false_a principle_n we_o now_o endeavour_v to_o refute_v and_o to_o give_v way_n to_o this_o sort_n of_o reason_v my_o husband_n be_v jealous_a of_o i_o therefore_o â—e_n must_v have_v a_o most_o aâ—dâ—nt_a love_n for_o i_o on_o the_o other_o hand_n there_o be_v certain_a female_n which_o neither_o be_v ignorant_a of_o this_o popular_a maxim_n fail_v not_o to_o make_v 〈…〉_z t_o a_o vei_fw-la 〈…〉_z o_o cover_v other_o design_n they_o 〈…〉_z re_fw-mi themselves_o to_o death_n with_o weary_v their_o husband_n by_o affect_a jealousy_n yea_o and_o often_o succeed_v so_o happy_o that_o the_o most_o part_n instead_o of_o wary_o avoid_v the_o pallacie_n give_v place_n for_o advantage_n by_o their_o transport_v flatter_v themselves_o that_o their_o own_o merit_n be_v the_o motive_n of_o these_o passion_n and_o at_o the_o same_o time_n languish_v with_o tender_a resentment_n of_o such_o their_o extraordinary_a testimony_n of_o their_o love_n which_o notwithstanding_o be_v no_o more_o than_o trick_n of_o nimble_a wiâ—â—_n they_o will_v not_o dare_v to_o open_v their_o mouth_n to_o complain_v of_o any_o thing_n amiss_o they_o number_v their_o very_o 〈…〉_z ces_fw-fr they_o constrain_v themselves_o in_o every_o thing_n and_o abstain_v from_o any_o thing_n aâ—g_v 〈…〉_z give_v offence_n 〈…〉_z east_n say_v they_o we_o shall_v cast_v these_o poor_a woman_n into_o despair_n but_o we_o shall_v not_o at_o all_o meddle_v with_o these_o personate_a comedy_n intend_v to_o treat_v only_o of_o real_a evil_n
natural_a right_n the_o empire_n into_o the_o hand_n of_o the_o man_n because_o of_o the_o nobility_n of_o his_o sex_n and_o impose_v upon_o the_o woman_n because_o of_o the_o weakness_n of_o she_o a_o indespensable_a necessity_n to_o respect_n and_o obey_v her_o husband_n 1._o and_o this_o be_v a_o prerogative_n give_v by_o the_o sex_n not_o only_o to_o man_n but_o also_o to_o all_o sort_n of_o animal_n that_o the_o female_a shall_v be_v subject_a and_o under_o the_o power_n of_o the_o male_a as_o we_o may_v see_v by_o experience_n in_o every_o particular_a species_n where_o we_o may_v observe_v that_o the_o male_n be_v largly_a endow_v with_o what_o respect_v the_o province_n of_o command_v than_o the_o female_a and_o particular_o in_o man_n who_o have_v in_o speak_v general_o a_o more_o large_a and_o penetrate_a wit_n more_o prudence_n a_o great_a grandeur_n and_o elevation_n of_o the_o mind_n more_o courage_n and_o more_o strength_n than_o woman_n mar_v so_o the_o family_n of_o a_o man_n be_v compare_v to_o a_o monarchy_n where_o there_o be_v but_o one_o alone_a that_o command_v 1._o the_o subordination_n therefore_o be_v husband_n so_o essential_a to_o marriage_n that_o all_o nation_n of_o the_o world_n yea_o these_o that_o have_v have_v no_o other_o light_n than_o that_o of_o nature_n have_v at_o all_o time_n agree_v to_o make_v the_o man_n master_n yea_o and_o sovereign_a judge_n of_o the_o woman_n germ._n these_o people_n be_v persuade_v that_o the_o man_n ought_v to_o be_v govern_v by_o the_o public_a law_n but_o the_o woman_n by_o the_o law_n of_o their_o husband_n insomuch_o that_o the_o woman_n can_v not_o be_v equal_o privilege_v with_o her_o husband_n in_o the_o use_n of_o any_o of_o the_o advantage_n of_o this_o society_n but_o only_o by_o this_o due_a submission_n 8._o aristotle_n say_v that_o a_o respect_n or_o proportion_n ought_v to_o be_v observe_v in_o friendship_n where_o the_o one_o be_v more_o excellent_a than_o the_o other_o for_o since_o there_o be_v no_o real_a or_o equal_a friendship_n but_o between_o person_n that_o be_v equal_a it_o be_v requisite_a then_o that_o a_o person_n inferior_a prosecute_v his_o amity_n with_o respect_n to_o the_o end_n that_o this_o respect_n join_v with_o his_o amity_n may_v correspond_v to_o the_o superiority_n of_o the_o amity_n of_o the_o other_o and_o so_o make_v up_o that_o equality_n which_o be_v the_o property_n of_o friendship_n the_o wife_n that_o with_o submission_n to_o her_o husband_n bow_n thereby_n his_o equal_a sextus_n laurel_n crown_v her_o brow_n say_v martial_a the_o husband_n then_o must_v be_v the_o sole_a master_n of_o the_o family_n and_o all_o his_o command_n without_o appeal_n yea_o his_o power_n over_o his_o family_n be_v in_o some_o respect_n great_a than_o the_o power_n of_o a_o king_n over_o his_o estate_n and_o though_o the_o woman_n govern_v the_o house_n yet_o it_o be_v under_o the_o authority_n of_o her_o husband_n mar._n neither_o do_v this_o subordination_n tend_v to_o the_o discouragement_n or_o shame_n of_o the_o woman_n from_o which_o it_o be_v so_o far_o that_o on_o the_o contrary_a nothing_o contribute_v so_o much_o to_o her_o honour_n as_o this_o due_a respect_n compliance_n and_o obedience_n for_o it_o be_v the_o only_a virtue_n and_o character_n of_o a_o honest_a wife_n whereby_o she_o gain_v more_o praise_n than_o by_o all_o other_o advantage_n she_o can_v have_v other_o way_n when_o she_o acquit_v herself_o due_o of_o this_o duty_n without_o any_o repugnancy_n wife_n say_v plutarch_n deserve_v praise_n when_o they_o submit_v to_o their_o husband_n but_o on_o the_o contrary_a when_o they_o act_n the_o mistress_n they_o wound_v decency_n and_o so_o much_o the_o more_o that_o their_o hnsband_n suffer_v they_o to_o command_v so_o if_o any_o demand_v what_o ought_v natural_o marry_v to_o be_v the_o true_a rule_n of_o conduct_n to_o marry_a person_n between_o themselves_o as_o well_o as_o of_o all_o other_o sort_n of_o friendship_n it_o be_v no_o other_o thing_n than_o to_o observe_v the_o right_n that_o each_o one_o have_v in_o this_o society_n 14._o to_o the_o end_n that_o retain_v themselves_o within_o the_o bound_n that_o be_v thereby_o prescribe_v to_o they_o they_o may_v preserve_v between_o themselves_o that_o harmony_n and_o agreement_n which_o cause_v the_o union_n of_o divers_a person_n to_o subsist_v and_o which_o be_v the_o ground_n of_o amity_n in_o marriage_n in_o sum_n love_n or_o amity_n be_v the_o bond_n marriage_n of_o this_o society_n for_o it_o can_v be_v no_o more_o a_o society_n without_o union_n and_o there_o can_v be_v no_o union_n without_o love_n for_o which_o reason_n the_o submission_n of_o the_o wife_n as_o well_o as_o the_o command_n of_o the_o husband_n must_v be_v unmovable_o ground_v upon_o love_n that_o pleasure_n advantage_n and_o peace_n may_v reign_v which_o nature_n look_v upon_o as_o the_o chief_a end_n of_o this_o to_o be_v admire_v conjunction_n the_o husband_n must_v be_v master_n of_o his_o wife_n not_o as_o a_o man_n be_v master_n of_o a_o thing_n in_o which_o he_o have_v a_o property_n and_o may_v dispose_v of_o at_o his_o pleasure_n but_o as_o the_o soul_n be_v master_n of_o the_o body_n who_o sensation_n be_v all_o common_a to_o it_o and_o to_o who_o it_o be_v join_v in_o a_o strait_a unity_n so_o that_o the_o soul_n have_v a_o care_n of_o the_o body_n without_o nevertheless_o condescend_v to_o all_o its_o enormity_n or_o disorder_n of_o passion_n even_o so_o the_o government_n of_o the_o husband_n ought_v to_o be_v a_o government_n of_o joy_n consolation_n and_o amity_n a_o the_o ancient_n be_v prax._n wont_n to_o place_n mercury_n near_o to_o venus_n to_o show_v that_o the_o pleasure_n of_o marriage_n consist_v particular_o in_o the_o consolation_n of_o convers_n whereof_o mercury_n be_v a_o symbol_n they_o give_v she_o likewise_o for_o companion_n the_o goddess_n of_o persuasion_n and_o the_o grace_n intimate_v thereby_o that_o husband_n shall_v command_v with_o persuasion_n and_o not_o with_o threat_n now_o love_n be_v a_o act_n of_o the_o soul_n in_o be_v prosecution_n of_o a_o judgement_n already_o make_v whereby_o it_o will_v to_o be_v join_v with_o the_o thing_n it_o esteem_v good_a that_o be_v to_o say_v to_o pass_v of_o itself_o into_o the_o object_n beloved_n and_o by_o this_o conjunction_n of_o the_o will_n to_o make_v up_o no_o more_o than_o one_o entire_a of_o which_o as_o we_o may_v apprehend_v the_o lover_n constitutes_n one_o part_n and_o the_o thing_n love_v another_o pass_n my_o soul_n be_v transplant_v to_o another_o place_n i_o be_o not_o at_o all_o where_o i_o do_v seem_v to_o be_v where_o none_o ere_o do_v or_o ere_o shall_v see_v my_o face_n my_o love_n there_o fix_v both_o my_o soul_n and_o i_o say_v plautus_n so_o love_n cause_v we_o as_o it_o be_v to_o put_v on_o or_o assume_v entire_o the_o person_n love_v that_o if_o it_o may_v be_v so_o say_v we_o have_v no_o more_o soul_n to_o animate_v we_o withal_o of_o our_o own_o but_o use_v that_o of_o the_o person_n we_o love_v instead_o of_o our_o own_o that_o be_v to_o say_v we_o relinquish_v all_o the_o thought_n desire_n and_o action_n of_o our_o own_o soul_n to_o conform_v they_o to_o these_o of_o the_o person_n love_v so_o that_o all_o the_o action_n and_o thought_n of_o his_o soul_n be_v we_o or_o the_o same_o that_o our_o soul_n act_n or_o think_v we_o desire_v what_o he_o shall_v inspire_v we_o to_o desire_v we_o hate_v whatsoever_o we_o see_v he_o hate_n we_o fear_v 2._o what_o he_o fear_n in_o short_a we_o dispute_v nothing_o but_o with_o his_o thought_n and_o upon_o his_o principle_n nor_o do_v we_o will_v any_o thing_n but_o by_o his_o will_n sallust_n that_o be_v we_o desire_v nothing_o but_o what_o he_o will_v and_o to_o abridge_v the_o description_n in_o one_o word_n with_o aristotle_n the_o person_n who_o we_o love_v be_v our_o other_o self_n 9_o it_o be_v this_o love_n that_o be_v altogether_o 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the_o word_n of_o the_o same_o apostle_n st._n paul_n let_v not_o the_o wife_n depart_v from_o her_o husband_n but_o and_o if_o she_o depart_v let_v she_o remain_v un-married_n or_o be_v reconcile_v to_o her_o husband_n but_o it_o be_v not_o at_o aâ—â—_n true_a that_o she_o ought_v to_o prevent_v this_o evil_a with_o rebuke_n or_o angry_a speech_n for_o what_o belong_v to_o correction_n appertain_v to_o a_o high_a authority_n now_o woman_n in_o marriage_n and_o even_o before_o marriage_n according_a to_o both_o natural_a and_o divine_a precept_n be_v subordinate_a to_o their_o husband_n it_o follow_v from_o hence_o that_o as_o it_o be_v impossible_a that_o which_o be_v subject_a can_v be_v superior_a so_o likewise_o it_o can_v be_v that_o she_o that_o be_v subject_a can_v have_v right_o of_o correction_n since_o correction_n depend_v essential_o on_o superiority_n the_o wife_n indeed_o on_o this_o occasion_n may_v well_o give_v some_o advice_n with_o mildness_n to_o her_o husband_n concern_v his_o conduct_n since_o this_o advice_n be_v a_o office_n of_o charity_n but_o to_o put_v herself_o in_o a_o passion_n against_o he_o to_o give_v he_o angry_a or_o sharp_a rebuke_n and_o check_n be_v whole_o to_o lay_v aside_o the_o duty_n and_o submission_n she_o owe_v he_o we_o may_v plain_o see_v subordination_n even_o on_o this_o occasion_n to_o be_v denote_v by_o the_o term_n of_o separation_n although_o the_o condition_n of_o the_o man_n and_o woman_n be_v thereby_o make_v equal_a for_o if_o the_o woman_n violate_v her_o faith_n it_o be_v say_v the_o husband_n may_v put_v she_o away_o but_o if_o the_o husband_n be_v unfaithful_a it_o be_v not_o say_v the_o wife_n shall_v put_v â—im_a away_o but_o only_o that_o she_o may_v leave_v â—im_a 1._o to_o show_v the_o superiority_n and_o authority_n of_o the_o husband_n and_o the_o submission_n and_o silence_n the_o wife_n ought_v to_o observe_v and_o indeed_o the_o husband_n beâ—â—g_v her_o master_n her_o superior_a yea_o her_o â—ing_n must_v she_o take_v upon_o she_o to_o set_v â—im_a his_o lesson_n or_o what_o be_v more_o dare_z â—e_z reprove_v or_o despite_v he_o dare_v she_o say_v if_o she_o be_v a_o christian_n since_o she_o â—ught_v to_o look_v upon_o her_o husband_n as_o represent_v the_o person_n of_o jesus_n christ_n â—s_v we_o say_v before_o in_o the_o four_o place_n women_z object_n it_o â—hat_n if_o it_o be_v so_o great_a a_o crime_n to_o declare_v their_o resentment_n to_o their_o â—_z when_o they_o suspect_v they_o to_o divide_v their_o bed_n the_o holy_a scripture_n â—ould_v have_v contain_v some_o ordinance_n â—o_o provide_v against_o it_o and_o let_v they_o know_v â—hat_n the_o wife_n therein_o commit_v a_o offence_n which_o may_v violate_v marriage_n â—nd_v cause_n their_o separation_n instead_o â—hereof_o it_o only_o signalise_v the_o breach_n â—f_fw-fr faith_n
reason_n of_o which_o be_v because_o the_o man_n be_v oblige_v both_o by_o the_o rule_n of_o scripture_n and_o by_o the_o dignity_n and_o rank_n which_o he_o occupies_n in_o thâ—_n matrimonial_a fellowship_n to_o rule_v hâ—â—_n wife_n and_o all_o his_o family_n in_o right_a discipline_n and_o in_o their_o duty_n take_v heeâ—_n say_v the_o preacher_n that_o you_o make_v nâ—_n the_o least_o passage_n for_o the_o water_n that_o be_v tâ—_n say_v that_o you_o open_v not_o the_o gate_n of_o libertâ—_n to_o a_o perverse_a woman_n 34._o and_o in_o another_o place_n he_o say_v do_v not_o make_v the_o wifâ—_n mistress_n of_o your_o secret_n lest_o she_o takâ—_n upon_o her_o the_o authority_n that_o belong_v to_o theâ—_n and_o thou_o fall_v into_o shame_n 2._o foâ—_n which_o cause_n a_o husband_n say_v a_o learned_a man_n ought_v to_o remember_v himself_o that_o he_o be_v not_o bear_v for_o the_o woman_n buâ—_n the_o woman_n be_v bear_v for_o he_o and_o thaâ—_n he_o ought_v to_o accustom_v she_o 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his_o wife_n when_o he_o violate_v his_o faith_n to_o her_o nuptial_a bed_n yet_o notwithstanding_o â—t_a be_v a_o injury_n the_o condition_n of_o the_o wife_n will_v not_o allow_v she_o any_o privilege_n to_o contend_v with_o or_o reprove_v her_o husband_n for_o it_o be_v receive_v into_o the_o house_n of_o her_o husband_n in_o the_o quality_n of_o a_o suppliant_a as_o aristotle_n say_v fam_fw-la now_o you_o see_v the_o objection_n that_o jealousy_n produce_v for_o its_o self_n together_o with_o their_o answer_n deduce_v from_o scripture_n and_o the_o canonical_a law_n but_o the_o good_a and_o reasonable_a wife_n woman_n will_v reply_v what_o must_v be_v do_v then_o to_o retrieve_v and_o correct_v a_o licentious_a husband_n and_o upon_o the_o same_o ground_n we_o answer_v that_o she_o must_v do_v the_o same_o thing_n she_o shall_v do_v to_o correct_v a_o husband_n that_o be_v jealous_a so_o in_o like_a manner_n as_o we_o have_v do_v in_o the_o jealousy_n of_o husband_n we_o must_v 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which_o none_o can_v be_v blame_v beside_o herself_o she_o must_v put_v out_o of_o her_o mind_n all_o imagination_n that_o tend_v that_o way_n and_o apply_v her_o thought_n to_o some_o other_o thing_n that_o be_v good_a in_o themselves_o and_o particular_o to_o what_o may_v be_v necessary_a in_o the_o conduct_n of_o her_o family_n and_o to_o work_v with_o she_o own_o hand_n for_o it_o be_v very_o certain_a than_o a_o idle_a and_o unexercised_a life_n which_o beget_v as_o we_o intimate_v before_o these_o careful_a unsettle_a and_o vagrant_a cogitation_n will_v of_o itself_o alone_o be_v sufficient_a to_o keep_v jealousy_n a_o foot_n yea_o although_o the_o mind_n have_v natural_o no_o inclination_n thereto_o but_o if_o she_o be_v jealous_a with_o some_o good_a husband_n reason_n or_o ground_n and_o be_v convince_v by_o manifest_a proof_n for_o as_o we_o say_v just_a now_o she_o must_v not_o herein_o trust_v herself_o than_o she_o must_v do_v and_o what_o even_o the_o very_a same_o 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be_v a_o man_n task_n without_o have_v a_o super_n add_v respect_n to_o the_o humour_n of_o those_o for_o who_o his_o work_n be_v intend_v we_o have_v take_v care_n to_o dispose_v the_o work_n so_o that_o those_o that_o have_v already_o gain_v a_o sufficient_a knowledge_n of_o or_o those_o that_o be_v not_o curious_a or_o care_v not_o for_o the_o study_n of_o the_o passion_n may_v omit_v the_o second_o chapter_n in_o which_o it_o be_v almost_o only_o treat_v of_o they_o and_o pass_v direct_o from_o the_o first_o to_o the_o three_o without_o break_v the_o series_n of_o the_o discourse_n this_o be_v only_o a_o diverticulum_n or_o a_o necessary_a adjunct_n a_o table_n chap._n i._n the_o subject_n of_o the_o ensue_a treatise_n fol._n 1_o feign_a jealousy_n of_o marry_a people_n 2_o feign_a jealousy_n of_o lover_n 4_o correction_n from_o a_o husband_n be_v no_o effect_n of_o jealousy_n 5_o jealousy_n in_o its_o self_n be_v innocent_a ibid._n what_o real_a or_o naughty_a jealousy_n be_v 6_o that_o christian_a religion_n must_v be_v the_o rule_n of_o passion_n 8_o chap._n ii_o the_o original_a of_o jealousy_n and_o what_o it_o be_v 9_o that_o passion_n be_v good_a and_o the_o principle_n of_o our_o action_n ibid._n the_o structure_n of_o the_o body_n 10_o the_o external_n organ_n 11_o the_o internal_a organ_n ibid._n the_o use_n of_o the_o internal_a organ_n ibid._n the_o animal_n spirit_n 13_o how_o sensation_n be_v make_v 14_o where_o and_o how_o the_o passion_n be_v form_v 17_o that_o the_o blood_n be_v the_o soul_n of_o beast_n 22_o that_o beast_n have_v not_o passion_n but_o only_o certain_a impulse_n resembr_v they_o ibid._n the_o excellency_n of_o the_o soul_n of_o man._n 24_o the_o faculty_n of_o the_o soul_n 25_o the_o memory_n ib._n the_o imagination_n ib._n the_o judgement_n and_o discourse_n 26_o the_o principal_a seat_n of_o the_o soul_n ib._n the_o power_n of_o passion_n over_o the_o soul_n 27_o the_o warfare_n between_o the_o spirit_n and_o flesh_n 28_o the_o empire_n of_o the_o soul_n over_o the_o body_n 30_o the_o mutual_a correspondency_n between_o the_o soul_n and_o the_o body_n 32_o what_o it_o be_v we_o call_v passion_n of_o the_o soul_n 33_o of_o the_o number_n of_o the_o passion_n of_o the_o soul_n 34_o how_o the_o passion_n be_v produce_v 35_o what_o fear_n be_v ib._n what_o jealousy_n be_v 36_o chap._n iii_o of_o marriage_n according_a to_o the_o law_n of_o nature_n 37_o jealousy_n be_v only_o between_o marry_a people_n ib._n that_o man_n do_v natural_o desire_v society_n and_o why_o 38_o from_o whence_o love_n proceed_v 39_o what_o marriage_n be_v 40_o that_o marriage_n as_o all_o other_o society_n subsist_v by_o the_o subordination_n of_o its_o part_n 41_o all_o nation_n give_v the_o pre-eminence_n to_o the_o husband_n 43_o rule_n for_o person_n that_o be_v marry_v 45_o that_o love_n be_v the_o foundation_n of_o marriage_n
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since_o this_o tend_v to_o the_o take_v away_o of_o the_o honour_n of_o the_o wife_n which_o be_v in_o some_o case_n equal_a to_o life_n itself_o and_o since_o the_o husband_n be_v the_o only_a â—udge_n therein_o it_o behoous_a he_o to_o have_v â—he_v same_o circumspection_n and_o precaution_n as_o if_o he_o shall_v go_v upon_o her_o life_n otherwise_o he_o commit_v injustice_n now_o if_o any_o appearance_n of_o truth_n or_o some_o dissolute_a carriage_n give_v occasion_n to_o the_o husband_n to_o fear_v a_o real_a evil_n he_o â—ought_v in_o this_o case_n to_o call_v to_o mind_v the_o principle_n that_o we_o have_v establish_v and_o to_o consider_v with_o himself_o that_o not_o only_a jealousy_n itself_o but_o also_o even_o his_o duty_n oblige_v he_o on_o all_o occasion_n to_o watch_v and_o observe_v the_o conduct_n of_o his_o wife_n and_o to_o wean_v and_o reform_v her_o inclination_n from_o what_o be_v not_o good_a by_o seasonable_a and_o apt_a counsel_n and_o to_o let_v she_o see_v 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est_fw-la anima_fw-la arist_n de_fw-fr a_fw-fr l._n 1._o c._n 5._o of_o the_o number_n of_o the_o passion_n of_o the_o soul_n how_o the_o passion_n be_v produce_v what_o fear_n be_v what_o jealousy_n be_v jealousy_n be_v only_o between_o marry_a people_n that_o man_n do_v natural_o desire_v society_n and_o why_o why_o grot._n de_fw-fr jur._n bell_n &_o pac_n proleg_n 6._o homo_fw-la civil_a animal_n est_fw-la &_o ad_fw-la societatem_fw-la aquavitae_fw-la aptum_fw-la naturâ_fw-la arist_n nicom_o l._n 9_o c._n 9_o from_o whence_o love_n come_v come_v arist_n nicom_o mach_v l._n 8._o c._n 14._o 14._o naturalis_fw-la societas_fw-la maximè_fw-la est_fw-la inter_fw-la marem_fw-la &_o foeminam_fw-la arist_n de_fw-fr cur_n rei_fw-la fam_fw-la l._n 1._o c._n 3._o vid._n plato_n leg_n 1._o ecclesiast_n c._n 13._o 13._o ipsa_fw-la natura_fw-la hoc_fw-la circuitu_fw-la complete_a perpetuitatem_fw-la aquavitae_fw-la specie_fw-la nimirum_fw-la cum_fw-la nequeat_fw-la numero_fw-la arist_n de_fw-fr cur_n rei_fw-la fam_fw-la l._n 1._o c._n 3._o des._n cart._n tr._n the_o pass_n what_o marriage_n be_v be_v arist_n nicomach_n l._n 8._o c._n 4._o that_o marriage_n as_o all_o other_o society_n subsist_v by_o the_o subordination_n of_o its_o part_n part_n grot._n de_fw-fr jur_fw-fr be_v &_o pac_n l._n 2._o c._n 5._o §._o 8_o 12._o 12._o prodignitate_fw-la enim_fw-la vir_fw-la imperat_fw-la in_o quibus_fw-la opportet_fw-la virum_fw-la imperare_fw-la &_o quae_fw-la mulieri_fw-la conveniunt_fw-la ea_fw-la permittit_fw-la arist_n nicom_o l._n 8._o c._n 12._o 12._o vxor_fw-la marito_fw-la in_fw-la honestis_fw-la scilicet_fw-la obtemperabit_fw-la non_fw-la aliter_fw-la quam_fw-la si_fw-la illiusdomum_fw-la venisset_fw-la empta_fw-la ancilla_fw-la arist_n de_fw-fr cur_n rei_fw-la fam_fw-la l._n 1._o 1._o vives_n de_z off_z mar_v mar_v domestica_fw-la principatum_fw-la habet_fw-la unius_fw-la arist_n de_fw-fr cur_n rei_fw-la fam_fw-la l._n 1._o c._n 1._o all_o nation_n give_v the_o preeminence_n to_o the_o husband_n husband_n lege_fw-la romuli_n vxor_fw-la ita_fw-la fuit_fw-la in_o manu_fw-la viri_fw-la ut_fw-la de_fw-la crimine_fw-la ejus_fw-la omni_fw-la cum_fw-la propinquis_fw-la cognosceret_fw-la statueretque_fw-la tacit._n ann._n 2._o paucissima_fw-la in_o tam_fw-la numerosa_fw-la germanica_n gente_fw-la ad_fw-la ulteria_fw-la quorum_fw-la poena_fw-la praesens_fw-la &_o marito_fw-la permissa_fw-la accissis_fw-la crinibus_fw-la nudatam_fw-la coram_fw-la propinquis_fw-la expellit_fw-la domo_fw-la maritus_fw-la ac_fw-la per_fw-la omnem_fw-la vicum_fw-la verbere_fw-la agit_fw-fr tacit._n de_fw-fr mor._n germ._n germ._n nicom_o l._n 8._o c._n 8._o 8._o viu._n the_o off_o mar._n rule_n for_o person_n that_o be_v marry_v marry_v viro_fw-la cum_fw-la uxore_fw-la &_o omnino_fw-la amico_fw-la cum_fw-la amico_fw-la quomodo_fw-la sit_fw-la vivendum_fw-la si_fw-la quaeratur_fw-la nihil_fw-la aliud_fw-la est_fw-la quam_fw-la quaerere_fw-la quid_fw-la inter_fw-la eos_fw-la juris_fw-la intercedat_fw-la ar._n nic_z l._n 8._o c._n 14._o that_o love_n be_v the_o foundation_n of_o marriage_n plut._n conjug_n prax._n what_o true_a love_n be_v be_v des_fw-mi cart._n tr._n de_fw-fr pass_n pass_n laert._n l._n 8._o c._n 2._o 2._o idem_fw-la velle_fw-la atque_fw-la idem_fw-la nolle_fw-la ea_fw-la demum_fw-la firma_fw-la amacitia_fw-la sallust_n sallust_n amicus_fw-la alter_fw-la idem_fw-la nicom_o l._n 9_o c._n 9_o sensual_a jealousy_n can_v have_v no_o place_n in_o true_a marriage_n it_o be_v sensual_a love_n that_o create_v jealousy_n where_o sensual_a love_n be_v be_v pausa_fw-la l._n in_o symp._n psaâ—_n des_fw-mi cart_n tr_fw-la de_fw-fr pass_n pass_n sunt_fw-la qui_fw-la utilitates_fw-la in_o amicitiis_fw-la spectant_fw-la ut_fw-la epicurei_fw-la despicabiles_fw-la &_o sordidi_fw-la homines_fw-la &_o amore_fw-la indigni_fw-la ut_fw-la qui_fw-la amicum_fw-la non_fw-fr amant_fw-fr sed_fw-la seipsos_fw-la viu._n the_o off_o mat_n person_n of_o understanding_n reckon_v it_o not_o honourable_a to_o be_v jealous_a jealousy_n break_v off_o the_o society_n which_o god_n himself_o have_v estblish_v why_o god_n establish_v marriage_n of_o the_o force_n of_o the_o vinion_n of_o marriage_n marriage_n mat._n 19_o 4._o 4._o jausen_n in_o concord_n evang_v c._n 11._o 11._o viu._n the_o off_o mar_v mar_v mat._n 32._o â—â—at_a jealousy_n be_v in_o 〈…〉_z sistant_fw-la with_o the_o marriage_n of_o christians_n contract_n of_o marriage_n occord_v to_o st._n paul_n husband_n must_v love_v their_o wife_n wife_n ephes_n 5._o 25._o 25._o ephes_n 5._o 28._o 28._o estius_n in_o epist_n ad_fw-la eph._n c._n 5._o v._n 22._o 22._o viu._n de_fw-fr â—ff_n mar_v that_o wife_n must_v submit_v to_o their_o husband_n husband_n eph._n 5._o 22._o reciprocal_a duty_n of_o man_n and_o wife_n wife_n qui_fw-fr 〈◊〉_d ligit_fw-la uxâ—rem_fw-la suâ—_n corpus_fw-la suum_fw-la diligit_fw-la &_o pro_fw-la inde_fw-la seipsum_fw-la â—i_fw-la quantum_fw-la caput_fw-la &_o corpus_fw-la unim_fw-la quid_fw-la constitum_fw-la estius_fw-la in_o epis_fw-la 1_o ad_fw-la cor_fw-la 7._o 4._o 4._o 1_o epist_n to_o tit._n 2._o 4._o 4._o habet_fw-la viri_fw-la amor_fw-la presen_v continuo_fw-la suum_fw-la praemium_fw-la &_o in_o pectus_fw-la uxoris_fw-la transit_fw-la ea_fw-la flamma_fw-la ut_fw-la ea_fw-la quoque_fw-la flagrantissime_fw-la amet_fw-la viv_fw-la de_fw-mi off_o mar_v the_o love_n of_o husband_n to_o their_o wife_n according_a to_o st._n paul_n why_o marriage_n be_v a_o sacrament_n note_v this_o be_v a_o tenet_n of_o the_o romish_a doctrine_n which_o it_o seem_v the_o aut._n profess_v and_o though_o our_o religion_n do_v not_o allow_v it_o to_o be_v a_o sacrament_n because_o not_o institute_v by_o god_n as_o a_o mystical_a seal_n of_o a_o covenant_n between_o he_o and_o we_o yet_o that_o ought_v not_o to_o abrogate_v or_o lessen_v our_o esteem_n of_o it_o be_v a_o thing_n so_o sacred_a and_o necessary_a as_o the_o author_n well_o prove_v in_o who_o conclusion_n we_o may_v acquiess_v he_o not_o have_v a_o great_a veneration_n for_o it_o under_o the_o mistake_n of_o a_o sacrament_n than_o we_o ought_v to_o have_v for_o it_o as_o a_o law_n institute_v by_o god_n and_o so_o indispensable_o command_v by_o nature_n what_o kind_n of_o submission_n the_o wife_n must_v yield_v law_n of_o marriage_n according_a to_o the_o canon_n and_o the_o father_n vxor_fw-la domina_fw-la est_fw-la &_o sociare_fw-la rerum_fw-la mariti_fw-la ipsius_fw-la sed_fw-la domina_fw-la dicitur_fw-la quia_fw-la non_fw-la potest_fw-la agi_fw-la furtum_fw-la licet_fw-la furtum_fw-la committat_fw-la gloss_n gratian._n 27._o q._n 2._o cap._n 17._o gen._n 3._o 16._o he_o shall_v rule_v over_o thou_o jealousy_n be_v inconsistent_a with_o these_o principle_n principle_n see_v the_o note_n at_o p._n 61_o &_o 62._o jealousy_n be_v cruel_a the_o more_o virtuous_a a_o wife_n be_v the_o more_o jealous_a a_o unreasonable_a man_n be_v the_o more_o understand_v a_o sensual_a man_n have_v the_o more_o jealous_a he_o be_v the_o jealousy_n of_o mithridates_n the_o jealousy_n of_o herod_n herod_n josephus_n lib._n 15._o cap._n 4._o this_o jealousy_n be_v incurable_a jealousy_n of_o weakness_n and_o its_o remedy_n b_o virea_n eliget_fw-la quibus_fw-la sibi_fw-la animum_fw-la uxorâ—s_fw-la conciliat_fw-la illam_fw-la que_fw-la totam_fw-la devinciat_fw-la propriam_fw-la que_fw-la possideat_fw-la arist_n de_fw-fr cur_n rei_fw-la fam_fw-la fam_fw-la exemplo_fw-la continentiae_fw-la docenda_fw-la est_fw-la uxor_fw-la ut_fw-la se_fw-la castè_fw-fr gerat_fw-la iniquum_fw-la â—st_fw-la enim_fw-la ut_fw-la id_fw-la exigas_fw-la quod_fw-la ipse_fw-la praestare_fw-la