ecclesia_fw-la anglicana_n read_v pray_v the_o whole_a duty_n of_o man_n plain_o lay_v down_o for_o the_o use_n of_o the_o mean_a reader_n with_o prayer_n 〈…〉_z take_v heed_n and_o beware_v of_o false_a prophet_n matt._n 7._o the_o practice_n of_o christian_a grace_n or_o the_o whole_a duty_n of_o man_n lay_v down_o in_o a_o plain_a and_o familiar_a way_n for_o the_o use_v of_o all_o but_o especial_o the_o mean_a reader_n divide_v into_o xvii_o chapter_n one_o whereof_o be_v read_v every_o lord_n day_n the_o whole_a may_v be_v read_v over_o thrice_o in_o the_o year_n with_o private_a devotion_n for_o several_a occasion_n viz._n for_o morning_n evening_n sacrament_n the_o sick_a etc._n etc._n time_n of_o publius_n calamity_n london_n print_v by_o â—_o maxwell_n for_o t._n garthwait_n at_o the_o little_a north_n door_n of_o s._n paul_n 1658._o mr._n garthwait_v you_o need_v not_o any_o intercession_n to_o recommend_v this_o task_n to_o i_o which_o bring_v its_o invitation_n and_o 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sort_n of_o reader_n which_o shall_v bring_v with_o they_o a_o sincere_a desire_n of_o their_o own_o either_o present_a or_o future_a advantage_n the_o devotion_n part_n in_o the_o conclusion_n be_v no_o way_n inferior_a be_v a_o most_o seasonable_a aid_n to_o every_o man_n infirmity_n and_o have_v extend_v itself_o very_o particular_o to_o all_o our_o principal_a concernment_n the_o introduction_n have_v supply_v the_o place_n of_o a_o preface_n which_o you_o seem_v to_o desire_v from_o i_o and_o leave_v i_o no_o more_o to_o add_v but_o my_o prayer_n to_o god_n that_o the_o author_n which_o have_v take_v care_n to_o convey_v so_o liberal_a a_o alm_n to_o the_o corban_n so_o secret_o may_v not_o miss_v to_o be_v reward_v open_o in_o the_o visible_a power_n and_o benefit_n of_o this_o work_n on_o the_o heart_n of_o the_o whole_a nation_n which_o be_v never_o in_o more_o need_n of_o such_o supply_n as_o be_v here_o afford_v that_o his_o all-sufficient_a grace_n will_v bless_v the_o seed_n sow_v and_o give_v a_o abundant_a increase_n be_v the_o humble_a request_n of_o march_n 7._o 1657._o your_o assure_a friend_n h._n hammond_n a_o table_n of_o the_o content_n of_o the_o several_a chapter_n or_o partitioâ—s_n in_o this_o book_n which_o according_a to_o this_o division_n by_o read_v one_o of_o these_o chapter_n every_o lord_n day_n the_o whole_a may_v be_v read_v over_o thrice_o in_o the_o year_n partition_n 1._o of_o the_o duty_n of_o man_n by_o the_o light_n of_o nature_n by_o the_o light_n of_o scripture_n of_o faith_n the_o promise_n of_o hope_n of_o love_n etc._n etc._n page_n 1._o partition_n 2._o of_o humility_n of_o submission_n to_o god_n will_v in_o respect_n of_o obedience_n of_o patience_n in_o all_o sort_n of_o suffering_n and_o of_o honour_n due_a to_o god_n in_o several_a way_n in_o his_o house_n possession_n his_o day_n word_n sacrament_n etc._n etc._n page_n 34._o partition_n 3._o of_o the_o lord_n supper_n of_o preparation_n before_o receive_v of_o duty_n to_o be_v do_v at_o the_o receive_v and_o afterward_o etc._n etc._n page_n 67._o partition_n 4._o honour_n due_a to_o god_n name_n of_o sin_v against_o it_o blasphemy_n swear_v assertory_n oath_n promissory_a oath_n unlawful_a oath_n of_o perjury_n of_o vain_a oath_n and_o the_o sin_n of_o they_o etc._n etc._n page_n 98._o partition_n 5._o of_o worship_n due_a to_o god_n name_n of_o prayer_n and_o its_o several_a part_n of_o public_a prayer_n iâ—_n the_o church_n in_o the_o family_n of_o private_a prayâ—er_n of_o repentance_n etc._n etc._n of_o fâ—sting_v page_n 109_o partition_n 6._o of_o duty_n to_o our_o self_n of_o sobriety_n humility_n the_o great_a sin_n of_o pride_n the_o danger_n the_o folly_n of_o this_o sin_n of_o vainglory_n the_o danger_n folly_n mean_v to_o prevent_v it_o oâ—_n meekness_n the_o mean_n to_o obtain_v it_o etc._n etc._n page_n 136_o partition_n 7._o of_o contentedness_n and_o the_o contrary_n tâ—_n it_o murmur_a ambition_n covetousness_n envy_n help_v to_o contentedness_n of_o duty_n which_o concern_v our_o body_n of_o chastity_n helpâ—_n to_o it_o temperance_n rule_v of_o temperance_n iâ—_n eat_v etc._n etc._n page_n 158._o partition_n 8._o of_o temperance_n in_o drink_v false_a end_n oâ—_n drink_v viz._n good_a fellowship_n put_v away_o care_n etc._n etc._n page_n 177._o partition_n 9_o temperance_n in_o sleep_n the_o rule_n of_o it_o etc._n etc._n of_o recreation_n of_o apparel_n page_n 197_o partition_n 10._o of_o duty_n to_o our_o neighbour_n of_o justice_n negative_a and_o positive_a of_o the_o sin_n of_o murder_n of_o the_o heinousness_n of_o it_o the_o punishment_n of_o it_o and_o the_o strange_a discovery_n thereof_o of_o maim_v wound_n and_o stripe_n page_n 206._o partition_n 11._o of_o justice_n about_o the_o possession_n of_o our_o neighbour_n against_o injure_v he_o as_o concern_v his_o wife_n his_o good_n of_o malice_n covetousness_n oppression_n theft_n of_o pay_v debt_n etc._n etc._n page_n 226._o partition_n 12._o of_o theft_n steal_v the_o good_n of_o our_o neighbour_n of_o deceit_n in_o trust_n in_o traffic_n of_o restitution_n etc._n etc._n page_n 238._o partition_n 13._o of_o false_a report_n false_a witness_n slander_n whisper_n of_o despise_v and_o scoff_v for_o infirmity_n calamity_n sin_n etc._n etc._n of_o positive_a justice_n speak_v the_o truth_n of_o lie_v of_o humility_n and_o pride_n of_o envy_n detraction_n of_o gratitude_n etc._n etc._n page_n 251._o partition_n 14._o of_o duty_n to_o parent_n magistrate_n pastor_n etc._n etc._n of_o the_o duty_n of_o parent_n to_o child_n etc._n etc._n page_n 278._o partition_n 15._o of_o duty_n to_o our_o brethren_n and_o relation_n husband_n wife_n friend_n master_n servant_n page_n 305._o partition_n 16._o other_o branch_n of_o our_o duty_n to_o our_o neighbour_n of_o charity_n to_o man_n soul_n bodiesâ—_n good_n etc._n etc._n page_n 329._o partition_n 17._o of_o charity_n almsgiving_n etc._n etc._n of_o charity_n in_o respect_n of_o our_o neighbour_n credit_n of_o peacemaking_a of_o go_v to_o law_n of_o charity_n to_o our_o enemy_n etc._n etc._n christian_n duty_n both_o possible_a and_o pleasant_a page_n 358._o a_o table_n of_o the_o prayer_n prayer_n for_o morning_n 562_o prayer_n for_o night_n 570_o collect_v for_o several_a grace_n 577_o a_o paraphrase_n on_o the_o lord_n prayer_n 591_o pious_a ejaculation_n out_o of_o the_o book_n of_o psalm_n 594_o brief_a head_n of_o examination_n before_o the_o sacrament_n 598_o prayer_n before_o the_o sacrament_n 613_o ejaculation_n at_o the_o lord_n table_n &c_n &c_n 619_o prayer_n after_o the_o sacrament_n 621_o prayer_n for_o the_o sick_a 631_o ejaculation_n for_o the_o sick_a 63â—_n prayer_n for_o public_a calamity_n 644_o a_o preface_n to_o the_o ensue_a treatise_n show_v the_o necessity_n of_o care_v for_o the_o soul_n §_o 1._o the_o only_a intent_n of_o this_o ensue_a treatise_n be_v to_o be_v a_o short_a &_o plain_a direction_n to_o the_o very_o mean_a reader_n to_o behave_v themselves_o so_o in_o this_o world_n that_o they_o may_v be_v happy_a for_o ever_o in_o the_o next_o but_o because_o it_o be_v in_o vain_a to_o tell_v man_n their_o duty_n till_o they_o be_v persuade_v of_o the_o necessity_n of_o perform_v it_o i_o shall_v before_o i_o proceed_v to_o the_o particular_n require_v of_o every_o christian_a endeavour_v to_o win_v they_o to_o the_o practice_n of_o one_o general_a duty_n preparatory_a to_o all_o the_o rest_n and_o that_o be_v the_o consideration_n and_o care_n of_o their_o own_o soul_n without_o which_o they_o will_v never_o think_v themselves_o much_o concern_v in_o the_o other_o 2._o man_n we_o know_v be_v make_v up_o of_o two_o part_n a_o body_n and_o a_o soul_n the_o body_n only_o the_o husk_n or_o shell_n of_o the_o soul_n a_o lump_n of_o flesh_n subject_n to_o many_o disease_n and_o pain_n while_o it_o live_v and_o at_o last_o to_o death_n itself_o and_o
or_o fault_n of_o a_o servant_n towards_o themselves_o and_o yet_o can_v without_o trouble_n see_v they_o run_v into_o the_o great_a sin_n against_o god_n it_o be_v a_o sign_n they_o consider_v their_o own_o concernment_n too_o much_o and_o god_n glory_n and_o their_o servant_n soul_n too_o little_a this_o be_v too_o common_o the_o temper_n of_o master_n they_o be_v general_o careless_a how_o their_o servant_n behave_v themselves_o towards_o god_n how_o disorder_a and_o profane_a their_o family_n be_v and_o therefore_o never_o bestow_v any_o exhortation_n or_o admonition_n to_o persuade_v they_o to_o virtue_n or_o draw_v they_o from_o vice_n such_o master_n forget_v that_o they_o must_v one_o day_n give_v a_o account_n how_o they_o have_v govern_v their_o family_n it_o be_v certain_o the_o duty_n of_o every_o ruler_n to_o endeavour_v to_o advance_v piety_n and_o godliness_n among_o all_o those_o that_o be_v under_o his_o charge_n and_o that_o as_o well_o in_o this_o lesser_a dominion_n of_o a_o family_n as_o in_o the_o great_a of_o a_o realm_n or_o nation_n of_o this_o david_n be_v so_o careful_a that_o we_o see_v he_o profess_v psal._n 101._o 7._o that_o no_o deceitful_a person_n shall_v dwell_v in_o his_o house_n that_o he_o that_o tell_v lie_n shall_v not_o tarry_v in_o his_o sight_n so_o much_o he_o think_v himself_o bind_v to_o provide_v that_o his_o family_n may_v be_v a_o kind_n of_o church_n a_o assembly_n of_o godly_a upright_a person_n and_o if_o all_o master_n will_v endeavour_v to_o have_v they_o so_o they_o will_v beside_o the_o eternal_a reward_n of_o it_o hereafter_o find_v a_o present_a benefit_n by_o it_o there_o worldly_a business_n will_v thrive_v much_o the_o better_o for_o if_o their_o servant_n be_v bring_v to_o make_v conscience_n of_o their_o way_n they_o will_v then_o not_o dare_v either_o to_o be_v negligent_a or_o false_a 31._o but_o as_o it_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o master_n to_o admonish_v and_o reprove_v their_o servant_n so_o they_o must_v also_o look_v to_o do_v it_o in_o a_o due_a manner_n that_o be_v so_o as_o may_v be_v most_o likely_a to_o do_v good_a not_o in_o passion_n and_o rage_n which_o can_v never_o work_v the_o servant_n to_o any_o thing_n but_o the_o despise_n or_o hate_v he_o but_o with_o such_o sober_a and_o grave_a speech_n as_o may_v convince_v he_o of_o his_o fault_n and_o may_v also_o assure_v he_o that_o it_o be_v a_o kind_a desire_n of_o his_o amendment_n and_o not_o a_o willingness_n to_o wreck_v his_o own_o rage_n which_o make_v the_o master_n thus_o to_o rebuke_v he_o 32._o a_o three_o duty_n of_o the_o master_n be_v to_o set_v good_a example_n of_o honesty_n and_o godliness_n to_o his_o servant_n example_n without_o which_o it_o be_v not_o all_o the_o exhortation_n or_o reproof_n he_o can_v use_v will_v ever_o do_v good_a for_o else_o he_o pull_v down_o more_o with_o his_o example_n then_o it_o be_v possible_a for_o he_o to_o build_v with_o the_o other_o and_o it_o be_v madness_n for_o a_o drunken_a or_o profane_a master_n to_o expect_v a_o sober_a and_o godly_a family_n 33._o four_o instruction_n the_o master_n be_v to_o provide_v that_o his_o servant_n may_v not_o want_v mean_n of_o be_v instruct_v in_o their_o duty_n as_o also_o that_o they_o may_v daily_o have_v constant_a time_n of_o worship_v god_n public_o by_o have_v prayer_n in_o the_o family_n but_o of_o this_o i_o have_v speak_v before_o under_o the_o head_n of_o prayer_n and_o therefore_o shall_v here_o say_v no_o more_o of_o it_o 34._o five_o the_o master_n in_o all_o affair_n of_o his_o own_o commandâ—_n be_v to_o give_v reasonable_a and_o moderate_a command_n not_o say_v great_a burden_n on_o his_o servant_n then_o they_o be_v able_a to_o bear_v particular_o not_o require_v so_o much_o work_n that_o they_o shall_v have_v no_o time_n to_o bestow_v on_o their_o soul_n as_o on_o the_o other_o side_n he_o be_v not_o to_o permit_v they_o to_o live_v so_o idle_o as_o may_v make_v they_o either_o useless_a to_o he_o or_o may_v betray_v themselves_o to_o any_o ill_a 35._o six_o the_o master_n be_v to_o give_v his_o servant_n encouragement_n in_o well_o do_v well-doing_n by_o use_v they_o with_o that_o bounty_n and_o kindness_n which_o their_o faithfulness_n and_o diligence_n and_o piety_n deserve_v and_o final_o in_o all_o his_o deal_n with_o they_o he_o be_v to_o remember_v that_o himself_o have_v as_o the_o apostle_n say_v eph._n 6._o 9_o a_o master_n in_o heaven_n to_o who_o he_o must_v give_v account_n of_o the_o usage_n of_o his_o mean_a servant_n on_o earth_n thus_o have_v i_o brief_o run_v through_o those_o several_a relation_n to_o which_o we_o owe_v a_o particular_a duty_n and_o so_o have_v do_v with_o that_o first_o branch_n of_o duty_n to_o our_o neighbour_n that_o of_o justice_n partition_n xvi_o other_o branch_n of_o our_o duty_n to_o our_o neighbour_n of_o charity_n to_o man_n sâ—uls_n body_n goods_n etc._n etc._n the_o second_o branch_n of_o duty_n to_o our_o neighbour_n be_v charity_n or_o love_n charity_n this_o be_v the_o great_a gospel-duty_n so_o often_o enjoin_v we_o by_o christ_n the_o new_a commandment_n as_o himself_o call_v it_o jo._n 13_o 34._o that_o you_o love_v one_o another_o &_o this_o be_v again_o repeat_v twice_o in_o one_o chapter_n john_n 15_o 12._o 17._o and_o the_o first_o epistle_n of_o st._n john_n be_v almost_o whole_o spend_v in_o the_o persuasion_n to_o this_o one_o duty_n by_o which_o we_o may_v see_v it_o be_v no_o matter_n of_o indifference_n but_o most_o strict_o require_v of_o all_o that_o profess_v christ._n indeed_o himself_o have_v give_v it_o as_o the_o badge_n and_o livery_n of_o his_o disciple_n john_n 13._o 35._o by_o this_o shall_v all_o man_n know_v that_o you_o be_v my_o disciple_n if_o you_o have_v love_v one_o to_o another_o this_o charity_n may_v be_v consider_v two_o way_n affection_n first_o in_o respect_n of_o the_o affection_n second_o of_o the_o action_n charity_n in_o the_o affection_n be_v a_o sincere_a kindness_n which_o dispose_v we_o to_o wish_v all_o good_a to_o other_o and_o that_o in_o all_o their_o capacity_n in_o the_o same_o manner_n that_o justice_n oblige_v we_o to_o wish_v no_o hurt_n to_o any_o man_n in_o respect_n either_o of_o his_o soul_n his_o body_n his_o good_n or_o his_o credit_n so_o this_o first_o part_n of_o charity_n bind_v we_o to_o wish_v all_o good_a to_o they_o in_o all_o these_o and_o first_o for_o the_o soul_n if_o we_o have_v any_o the_o least_o spark_n of_o charity_n soul_n we_o can_v but_o wish_v all_o good_a to_o man_n soul_n those_o precious_a thing_n which_o christ_n think_v worth_a the_o ransome_v with_o his_o own_o blood_n may_v sure_o well_o challenge_v our_o kindness_n and_o good_a wish_n and_o therefore_o if_o we_o do_v not_o thus_o love_v one_o another_o we_o be_v far_o from_o obey_v that_o command_n of_o love_a as_o he_o have_v love_v for_o it_o be_v the_o soul_n of_o man_n which_o he_o love_v so_o tender_o and_o both_o do_v and_o 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