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A57346	The cursed family; or, A short tract, shewing the pernicious influence of wicked prayer-less houses, upon this church and kingdom Humbly tender'd by way of subserviency to His Majesties Royal Proclamations, and Acts of Parliament, for preventing and punishing immorality and prophaness. By THomas Risley Master of Arts, and sometime fellow of Pembrook-Colledge in Oxford. With a prefatory epistle by the reverend Mr. John Howe.	Risley, Thomas, 1630-1716.; Howe, John, 1630-1705.	1700 (1700)	Wing R1539; ESTC R218001	38,264	98

we have cause to lament the weakness of it by reason the wickedness thereof It is most He is no good Church-man who is not good Christian at Home evident from Scripture that such Professors are not True Members of Gods Church which are not Living Members of Christ. He is not a Jew which is one outwardly neither is that Circumcision which is outward in the Flesh But he is a Jew which is one inwardly and Circumcision is that of the Heart in the Spirit and not in the Letter whose Praise is not of Men but of God Rom. 2. two last verses He is not a sound Christian that is Baptized except he be inwardly renewed and sanctified by the Holy Ghost The real Christian Is a New Creature Old things are past away behold all things are become New 2 Cor. 5. 17. And the New Creature hath put off his former Conversation the old Man which is corrupt according to the Deceitful Lusts And is renewed in the Spirit of his mind And hath put on the New Man which after God is Created in Righteousness and true Holiness Eph. 4. 22 23 24. It is for want of Religious Government in The mischief of irreligious families Households that the Lords Day is not better observed that few profit under the Word and that there are so few prepared Communicants at the Lords Table It is from hence That Ministers have slender Congregations and that Taverns Ale-houses Walks Fields Gardens Tatlinghouses in the Neighbourhood are more resorted to then the places of Gods Worship Oh! All you Careless Ignorant Worldly and loose Heads of Families let not this Aggravating Consideration Namely That your Family-wickedness overthrows Churches pass out of your thoughts till it please God to change you and reform your Families Are you Friends to the Church Set up the Practise of Piety in your Families which are the Nurseries of the Church This Duty is of Great weight and Importance to the Interest of Reformed Religion and of the Church of England If professing Christians live in their Si ita Singuli id faciant quod pietatis est totum corpus facil● Sanabitur c. Synop. Bodini de Repub. lib. 1. c. 1. que 24. Houses in due Conformity to their Covenant in Baptism this through Gods Mercy will render our Church Beautiful as the Garden of the Lord And our Land as the smell of a Field which the Lord hath Blessed The Romans were as Careful to maintain their Vestal Fire as to preserve the Palladium as Pledges of Felicity to the Empire Signifying to us Christians that If Religion and Vertue Piety and Policy be Countenanc'd and defended and their Contraries Profaneness and Immorallity supprest and punished then the Lord will Build us and not Pull us down Plant us and not Root us up If we entertain the Life and Power of Christianity and Honesty in our Families Upon all the Glory shall be a Defence Isa. 4. 5. Quest. What think you of Errours and Heresies tending to the subverting of Christianity A. Quest. And what may we think of Parties and Sectaries Are they not greater Enemies to the Church then profane Families Answ. 1. Here is not intended a Comparative Answer Enquiry whether Damnable Errours and Heresies do more mischief in our Church then wicked Families but the main Business in hand is to shew that Profane and Wicked Families are Pernicious Enemies to both Church and Sate Sabbath-breaking Swearing Drunkenness Filthiness Coveteousness Oppression Pride Treachery Perjury Cursing Cheating Killing Stealing Lying and such like black infernal Sins in Families will without Reformation Ruin Kingdoms and Churches 2. Profane Scandalous Livers are Practical Atheists and Hereticks They profess that they know God but in good works they deny him being abominable and disobedient and to every good work reprobate Tit. 1. Last 3. Moral Evils of Sin and Intellectual are Conjunct A foul Stomach hath an aking Head and corrupt Streams come from a corrupt Fountain St. Paul In Titus 3. 10. And 1 Cor. 5. 11. Joyns together Hereticks and Sensualists or Scandalous Persons in Families and Parishes as Fatal and Capital Enemies to the Church and equally obnoxious to Ecclesiastical and Civil Punishments 4. We have sad experience what Mischief Parties and Sectaries Rents and Schismatical Causes and Instruments have wrought among Christians even to oppose That Great Article of our Faith The Communion of Saints 5. He is no better then a Wicked Man that hatcheth Divisions and Covets to make separations and will not admit of healing Such were the Donatists whose Tumults were supprest by the Magistrate O that all Scandalous Profane Families in Parishes would sit down and set themselves as in Gods presence seriously considering that they are no more Living Members of Gods Church then the Dead Bodies in the Church Yard are Living Members of that Family whence they came to be Interr'd 3. Consider That Profane Families are 3. Aggravation of Family Impiety It rendereth the Ministry of Gods Word unprofitable great Enemies to the Ministry If Heads of Families would perform their Duties according to Gods command that is to set up Religion in Families Prayer reading the Word of God Catechizing shewing good Examples in the Week Day and upon the Lords Day causing their Families to keep it Holy both publickly and privately I say were their Families thus Governed the word Preach'd would take better effect upon them Is it likely that Preachers should do any good when Parents by open Profaneness pull down what they set up As if they were resolved to live as they do let the Minister say what he will Is it likely that the Ministry should prosper in a Congregation when most Families will do nothing towards it themselves by keeping Holy the Lords Day and serving and worshipping him in the Week Day Would Masters of Families take hold with the Minister Religion would enter into Families through Gods Blessing But O what little is done to help forward the salvation of Souls by Good Parents They ought to prepare and break up the fallow ground of their Families they ought to Root out the Weeds of Vice and pluck up corrupt Principles out of this little spot of ground that it may be fit to receive the Seed of the word with profit Jer. 4. 3 Hos. 10. 12. Governours of Families ought to make their Families Nurseries for the Church i. e. well Husbanded well disciplined and well taught In their own Houses Parents are both Magistrates and Ministers in a Subordinate way to the training up an hopeful Generation for Church and Kingdom Why do Ignorant Loose Worldly Careless Prayerless Families cast off their Duty upon sureties for the Christian Education of their Children Whereas they themselves stand Bound as they are Believers not only to Dedicate them to the Lord by Baptism but as their Childrens Sponsors To bring them up in the Nurture and Admonition of the Lord Eph. 6. 4. 4. The Barrenness of the ground upon

the Air and Fish of the Sea some obscure Resemblances of Government greater and lesser Societies Kingdoms Cities and Families the great Searchers into Philosophy have discovered By God's Ordination at first they keep their Places observe their Times do their Work Build Furnish make Dens Caves Burrows Nests set up House break up House breed up their Young help and dispose of them abroad for Common Good True it is these Patterns are but imperfectly drawn in these Creatures yet they point at Excellent Education Laws and Virtues and Teach the Wisest Sobriety Fidelity Chastity Amity Gratitude Vigilancy Diligence and unwearied care of themselves and those belonging to their Charge After the Almighty had finisht his Work The foundation of Families God's Institution created Adam and Placed him in Paradise he was pleased to say It is not good that Man should be alone I will make him an help Meet for him Although the Word Family strictly How the Word Family is taken here taken signifieth that Order of Mankind which is United in Marriage signifying the Terms of Husband and Wife Parents Children Master Servant yet here it doth include Housholds made of kind Friends living together for their mutual Benefit as Men and Christians And also it doth Include the Superior Societies of Academical Discipline and the Inferior of Countrey Schooles Both which as they be of great use for Magistracy and Ministry so they ought to be of Special Influence to Maintain Religion and Christian Government in Church and State That Famous Orator whose Name is The Formal and final causes of Families turned into a Sir-Name of Eloquence as Quintilian hath it speaking of the Union of Families hath Written that there is a more Noble Principle of Human Societies then Sense to wit the Attractive Power of Reason which by Counsels Precepts Converse Decisions and Judgments Cements and Strengtheneth Societies But God's Word speaking hereof strikes an higher Note no less a Union for Marriage then In the Lord with the exclusive Particle Tantum in Domino Only in the Lord. If this Union were observed How much more Happy would Families Relations Parishes Magistrates Ministers Kingdoms and Churches be It is a most Dangerous Design to think of Multiplying Vice and Impiety by gathering into Societies as if the Lesser Sins of Single Life Married into Company might take Liberty to swel into a Flood Gen. 6. 25. We may not think that Families and Societies were Constituted for Natural and Secular Ends but for Political and Ecclesiastical Ends the Good of Countrey and the Church of God Therefore that was an Excellent Plut. Conv. Answer made to one admiring a Fair House to wit Thou lookest upon the Glorious Outside of the Building and callest that an House not looking within how well Children are Governed and Educated Marriage Honoured the Family and all belonging to it prudently managed He saith the Author that hath such an House liveth in a Palace though in a Pismires Hill From what hath been said it is evident how much good or hurt may proceed from Families For although this Capacity must not Danger of great States from Wicked Families contend with greater Societies for Precedency of Honour yet for Priority of Nature and Eldership of Time it carrieth it from all Societies on Earth It being without Dispute that of Families Towns and Cities great States are Embodied Therefore as in Natural Bodies if the first Concoction be Imperfect it is hardly Corrected in the latter So in Civil Bodies if Families and Villages through want of Good Government abound in Vitious Manners the Malignancy presently infects Kingdoms and Churches to which they do belong It may be at the first that the Narrowness of Private Walls and Housholds send Evil Manners into the World with some kind of Pusillanimous Dulness which coming into Places of Publick Concourse grow Impudent and refuse to be ashamed Hence it is that Swearing Swilling Debauchery and Immorality Contempt of Religion and Sobriety become in a while Popular and all in Fashion If Parents give not Check to Family Sins in their Children at Home when they go forth they meet with Temptations and Patrons which turn their Youthful Exorbitances into Immoveable Habit. It is easy to observe that the want of Family-Religion is the Cause of the Visible Decay of the Wellfare of Church and State CHAP. II. Concerning the Church of God THE word Church is vulgarly taken The Significations of the word Church And how it is taken here for the Material place where the People Assemble to Worship God sometimes for the Juridical Power of Church-Officers and sometimes for the Church-Revenues But here it is taken for The Visible Church of Christ Militant upon the Earth as it Comprehends Believers of All Places and Times from first to last And as it is made up of Particular Churches or Societies of Believers And these made up of Believing Families A Christian Family should be the Epitome and Nursery of the Church But alas it is far otherwise at this day A Minister may go into divers Families in the Parish and Chappelry and not a Word of Scripture Read nor a Prayer made in the Family all the Week long as if Religion were An Enemy not A Friend to their House or That Religion were a Duty Onely on the Sabbath-Day and not on the Week day The Church of God at the first was Domestical not National till the Holy Line grew Strong and Populous from Good Families As from Adam Seth Enoch Noah Shem who lived till Isaac was 50 years old Abraham the Father of the Faithful by Promise c. And so it came to pass in After-times that as Posterity in Families Degenerated so the Church Degenerated as in Cain Ham Ishmael Esau. The Cause of the Churches Decay in our days Thus it is in our Days Ungodly Families are the Decay of God's Church they make Thin Congregations they bring a VVast upon the Solemn Assemblies What an Odious Thing is it to Loiter away the Lord's Day What an Absurdity to Indulge the Flesh upon the Lord's Day and give the Flesh no Rest upon the Week Day What a piece of Wickedness is it to go forth all the Week to Serve the World and Refuse to go forth on the Lord's Day to Serve him Who would think that Sabbath-Profanation were so shameless in Families called Christian Why should a poor excuse hinder Men and Women from the Church which must not from the Market How many Halts do some Make when they should Goe to the Church to Sanctify the Lord's-Day in their Conscionable Attendance upon God's Ordinances What an Unseemly Thing is it to Skulk at Home or at a Neighbours House to Chatt and Talk away to Feast away Sleep away Surfeit away Bibb and Fiddle Smoak and Pipe for Carnal Pleasure to Visit away and for Profit to Travel away the Lord's-Day when they should be waiting at the Gates of VVisdom O what pitty is it that obscure

brings me to the next Particular viz. 3. And Lastly Wicked Men provoke 3. The value of Riches God to Curse them for the Value they make of Riches God placed Man over those Sublunary things and now sinful contemptible Man will stoop as low as Hell for them How strangely are Men Infatuated to Dote upon Dirt and Dross Who would think that a Reasonable Creature placed his Happiness on Thick Clay on Wind on that which is not Habb 2. 6. Eccl. 5. 16. Prov. 23. 5. Yet so we find it Luke 12. 19. Soul Soul take thine ease c. To place God and the Creature in the same Rank and Order and to Worship the Creature joyntly with the Creator is no less sin then Idolatry but to set the Creature above the Creator i● Atheism If this were not so the Worlds Trinity would not have so many Votaries and Sacrifices of Souls and Bodies How can such Men and Women as these be in God's Favour Can that Man or Family have the Blessing of God upon them and theirs which bow down to the Gods of Silver and Gold Ah What is Man without Divine Grace How sensual how Sad Effects of over valuing this World base how brutish in choice and affection This Rate which Carual and Forthly Men set on Temporal Things openeth a wide door to all manner of sin Bribery Oppression Dissembling Lying Perjury Flattery Oppressive Tyrannical Law-Suits Temporizing and Unhappy Disposing of Children to Services to Trades to Preferments and to Marriages But is this all No worse is behind 2. Wicked Men and their Houses lyable to God's Curse in Spiritual Things for Wicked Men and their Families are subject to God's Curse not onely in Temporal Things but in Spiritual Things that is when they perform the Outward Duties of Religion As Prayer Hearing the Word coming to the Sacrament Reading God's Word Reading Good Books and Conference about matters of Religion 1. When Wicked Men Pray Their Prayers are an Abomination He that turneth In respect of Prayer away his Ear from hearing the Law even his Prayer shall be an Abomination Prov. 28. 9. The Sacrifice of the wicked is abomination to the Lord but the Prayer of the upright is his delight Prov. 15. 8. That the Actions of Wicked Men whether Natural Civil or Religious are obnoxious to God's Curse hath been mention'd before Under another Head namely The Vocation or Employments of Wicked Men. Now as to the Matter in hand concerning outward Religious Works of Unregenerate Men whether publick upon the Lord's Day or private in the Family take notice of these following Particulars to prevent mistakes least any harden their hearts in Omission of outward Duties 1. That those Persons sin more who Pray not at all in their Houses then such as make Prayer It is better to do that which is Materially Good then that which is both Materially and Formally Evil. It is better to have a Form of Worship and Religion then Atheistical Prophaneness It is better to have Leaves of Profession then nothing but the Cursed Fruits of a Corrupt Tree It is more Eligible ex natura rei to exercise Common Gifts and Operations of the Spirit and some Feeling in the Conscience than to be Barren of All Gifts and Dead to all outward Duties of Religion Isa. 43. 23. Amos 5. 25. Thou hast not brought me the small Cattel of thy burnt-offerings c. Have ye offered unto me sacrifiee and offerings c 2. That God is pleased to Reward with Temporal Blessings such as Pray and Humble themselves for their sins though they be not true Believers and sincere therein God is pleased to Encourage all sort of sinners to observe and set up Outward Duties of Religion and they shall fare the Better It is not without Reward to perform some Formalities of Worship though done in Hypocrisy 1 Kings 21. 29. Seest thou how Ahab humbleth himself before me c. Here is a Great Temporal Mercy given to Ahab during his Life I will not bring the evil in his days 3. Consider That none be hardened in their Omission of the Externals of Religion I say let them know That sin is in the Person before it Infect the Performance In the Subject before it corrupt the Action Therefore let the blame be laid where it ought not upon Religion nor the Duties thereof but upon the Professor and his bad Life 4. Seeing the condition of Unregenerate and Wicked Men is so contagious that it pollutes all their Outward Religious Actions let them make hast to get out by the use of all means of God's appointment in order to their Conversion As by Prayer Hearing the Word Reading the Word Reading Good Books and by Good Company as before-mentioned For although the Prayers of the Wicked and Unregenerate be unpleasing to God yea an abomination yet it is their Duty to Pray that they may be turned from their Wicked ways that so their Persons and Performances may find acceptance through Christ. O let all sorts of Prayer-less Families Pray that they may Pray in Faith and that they may become sincere and down-right Christians If you have any Bowels of Compassion for your own Souls and the Souls of your Children get out of the Cursed Condition of Wicked Men. Who would lead a Wicked Life if he were sensible of his Misery and the Curse of God upon the House of the Wicked 2. Wicked Men are subject to Gods Curse In hearing the Word They are the bad 2. In respect of Hearing the Word ground which receiveth seed among Thorns and Briers Such Earth as beareth Thorns and Briers is rejected and nigh unto Cursing whose end is to be burned Heb. 6. 8. As they come unprepared to hear so they depart without profit The fault is not in the Seed but in the ground which receiveth it The life of the Wicked is compared to untilled rough thorny fallow ground Jer. 4. 3. What Fruit can be expected from it How can the Seed of the word and a wicked heart agree Who would live in the condition of a wicked Man Who trembleth not to be under Gods Ordinances without a blessing what heart dreads not to be subject to Gods Curse Who would not be afraid to hear the blessing pronounc'd and have no share in it Come then to the word for Grace to make thee a New-man to reform thy wicked course of Life Come to Bethesda there is hope of thy cure of thy conversion though thou hast a long time been in this case If thou art willing to be made whole if thou art willing to become a New Creature the work will be done Jo. 5. 6. Let nothing hinder or discourage thee because of thy wickedness or being Obnoxious to Gods Curse in hearing the word but let it much more perswade and quicken thee to a constant and conscionable attendance upon the word There is hope of Grace in the use of means of Grace but by refusing the means

THE CURSED FAMILY OR A Short Tract Shewing the Pernicious Influence of Wicked Prayer-less Houses upon this Church and Kingdom Humbly Tender'd By way of Subserviency to His Majesties Royal Proclamations and Acts of Parliament for Preventing and Punishing Immorality and Prophaness The Curse of the Lord is in the House of the Wicked But he Blesseth the Habitation of the Just Prov. 3. 33. Pour out thy Fury upon the Heatben that know thee not and upon the Families that call not on thy Name for they have Eaten up Jacob and devoured him and consumed him and have made his Habitation Desolate Jer. 10. last 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Ign. Ep. ad Eph. Pietas est cognoscere Deum cujus cognitionis haec summa est ut eum colas Nec tantum hoc in Templo putes tibi else faciendum sed domi in ipso etiam cubili tuo Lact. By Thomas Risley Master of Arts and sometime Fellow of Pembrook-Colledge in Oxford With a Prefatory Epistle by the Reverend Mr. John Howe London Printed for John Lawrence at the Angel in the Poultry 1700. A PREFACE TO THE Reader THE Author of this Discourse Christian Reader is a Person tho' of real Value who yet hath so very Low an Esteem of himself as to think my Recommendation may give some advantage to this his Performance They are indeed very Accidental Circumstances that make this difference very often between some and others in the Eye of the World Otherwise that might well be said which was in that great Instance I have need to come to thee and comest thou to me It is evident to those who know him that the many years heretofore wherein he drew Academick Breath and liv'd an Ornament to the Society whereof he was long a Member were not trifled away There he past his time as a Recluse more acquainted with his Study than the Theater He closely pursu'd his design more to acquire solid useful Knowledge and Learning than Fame And since in his long Rural Recess his design hath been the same and his way of Living hath little differ'd in a Chosen Obscurity contented rather to Shine to Himself than the World Yet the Urgency of Conscience and a desire to do good to the Soules of Men hath wrung from him this short TREATISE An Off-spring that hath much of the Parents Image appearing with no Ostentation of Learning But wherein may be seen a Pious Mind tinctur'd by much Study and Converse with Books an Acquaintance with the Literate World which begot an habit that is rather by his Speech unwarily bewray'd than designedly shewn The Scope and Drift of the Discourse shews him a Man of Thought and Prospect discovers thoughts intent upon the present Age but not confin'd to it making from it an Estimate of the sad Tendency of things and their gloomy Aspect upon the future While Christian Families Baptiz'd in so great and venerable Names and that should if any be Seminaries of Religion and Vertue are so commonly the Seed-plots of all Impiety and Wickedness and the Numerous Fountains whence Miseries and Curses are diffused among a Christian People My little leasure allow'd me not throughly to peruse it But its scope and the Spirit wherewith by glances I perceive it is Writ makes me hope Reader it may be of much use Thine in our common Saviour John Howe THE AUTHOR'S Epistle To all Heads of Families from the Father of Mercies through Jesus Christ in whom all the FAMILIES of the Earth are blessed Holiness here and Happiness hereafter My Brethren Hearers Neighbours and Relations CHrist hath taught us who is our Mediator how far to extend our Prayers not onely to our Fiends but to our Enemies and Persecutors And will Christ who also is ordain'd Judge of the World take it well at the Great Day That Parents make not continual Prayers Morning and Evening for and with their Children and the rest of their Families Are not Children the divided pieces of your selves Will not that same 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 or Natural Affection a tye spun out of your own Bowels move you to take care of their Souls as well as their Bodies You are not onely Parents Natural but Christian and have Promised in the Presence of God and his Church that your Children should be Vertuously brought up to lead a Godly and Christian Life O remember your Promise made at their Baptism and do not Unchristen them by your Breach of Covenant O Pray That God would make you instrumental for their Spiritual well-being as he hath for their Natural being Beware of Poysoning the Soules of your Children whose Bodies you have nurst at your breasts and fed at your Tables How can such Parents answer it at the great day of Appearance who by wicked Examples teach their Children to Curse and Swear Lye Cheat Break the Sabbath and to make no reckoning of Religion Be not deceived for if you be not Christians in your own Houses whatever profession you make in the House of God your Christianity is unsound Assure your selves that if Christianity were possest of your Hearts it would be Practised in your Houses Is not Sin the Plague of the Heart Is it not of an active infecting prevailing nature Is not Sin allways with us and diffuseth it self into all places where we live Doubtless Sin follows Men whithersoever they goe to Church Market and home again What would you have Religion to be What is Christianity Must Religion be a Stranger or some soft Guest who comes but seldom to see you whose company after a while becomes fastidious What would you make of true Piety What would you have Christianity to be A despised Inferiour to stand or fall to come or goe at your pleasure taken in cast out used a little and then laid aside It cannot be such a Thing But true Religion and Christianity is That Thing which breaths Heavenly Regenerating Renewing Recreating Influences It is That same Ancient Sacred Awsom Thing which pierceth the Soul the Heart Conscience and by the Power of God changeth the whole Man-Lastly O all you Heads of Families be not deceived if you and your Housholds be Religious and Christians Indeed that Religion will Bear the Image of Holiness and Righteonsness making not onely your Houses but your Soules and Bodies Temples for the Holy Ghost to dwell in If what is here written in this Short Tract By Way of Motive prevail with any One Family in a Parish or any one Member of a Family so Precious is the Soules Salvation to become Practisers of Piety in their Houses I shall rejoyce that I have not Run in vain nor Laboured in vain through Jesus Christ or Saviour to whom be Glory for ever Amen T. R. THE Cursed Family CHAP. 1. The General Nature of Families and of Christian Families Relatively consider'd as Members of the Church AMong the very Beasts of the Field Natural Instinct of the Dumb Creature teacheth Moral Duties in Families Fowls of