Selected quad for the lemma: duty_n

Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
duty_n	command_v	servant_n	unprofitable_a	1,244	5	10.6349	5	true

Text snippets containing the quad

ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A43768	Conjugall counsell, or, Seasonable advice, both to unmarried, and married persons directing the first how to enter into marriage estate, and the other how to demeane themselves in the Christian discharge of all such duties as that estate of life blads them to, that God may have glory, the church edification, and themselves and families, present and future comfort, tending much (by the blessing of God) to a through reformation of all the enormities of these evil times / by T.H. ...	Hilder, Thomas.	1653 (1653)	Wing H1974; ESTC R20660	113,375	218

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yet_o this_o must_v be_v grant_v that_o a_o woman_n may_v speak_v to_o her_o husband_n in_o a_o way_n of_o intimate_a familiarity_n last_o when_o she_o take_v a_o fit_a time_n and_o place_n to_o fasten_v some_o christian_a reproof_n on_o he_o and_o then_o to_o do_v it_o with_o much_o meekness_n and_o tender_a love_n second_o a_o woman_n must_v reverence_v her_o husband_n in_o her_o word_n when_o she_o speak_v of_o he_o to_o other_o first_o by_z giving_z he_o on_o all_o occasion_n that_o be_v just_a due_a praise_n and_o commendation_n and_o second_o by_o be_v ready_a to_o vindicate_v his_o reputation_n against_o all_o unjust_a aspersion_n &_o calumniation_n that_o do_v impeach_v his_o credit_n and_o obstruct_v his_o well-deserved_n estimation_n in_o the_o heart_n of_o such_o as_o be_v wise_a and_o godly_a whereby_o she_o shall_v not_o only_o reverence_v he_o herself_o but_o cause_v other_o to_o do_v the_o same_o second_o the_o wife_n must_v reverence_v her_o husband_n in_o her_o 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unworthy_a and_o unbeseeming_a gesture_n and_o action_n towards_o they_o but_o let_v such_o woman_n know_v that_o as_o they_o be_v transgressor_n against_o the_o command_n of_o god_n relate_v to_o the_o wife_n duty_n of_o reverence_v her_o husband_n which_o be_v most_o of_o all_o so_o they_o be_v no_o gainer_n hereby_o it_o may_v be_v they_o make_v their_o husband_n good_a esteem_n fall_v to_o the_o ground_n among_o the_o base_a condition_a people_n but_o to_o be_v sure_a their_o own_o good_a name_n if_o ever_o they_o have_v any_o they_o make_v to_o stink_n in_o the_o nostril_n of_o all_o man_n who_o have_v but_o moral_a honesty_n and_o much_o more_o with_o those_o who_o be_v pious_a and_o godly_a indeed_o but_o i_o shall_v not_o prosecute_v this_o because_o i_o think_v it_o rare_o the_o sin_n of_o a_o godly_a woman_n and_o i_o despair_v of_o do_v good_a on_o other_o in_o the_o six_o place_n it_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o the_o wife_n to_o bear_v with_o her_o husband_n infirmity_n 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discretion_n so_o to_o do_v and_o hereby_o his_o passion_n of_o mind_n will_v waste_v the_o fast_o and_o he_o return_v to_o his_o usual_a temper_n the_o soon_o but_o if_o on_o the_o contrary_a the_o wife_n to_o his_o enkindle_a coal_n add_v fuel_n and_o combustible_a matter_n by_o bad_a word_n and_o a_o crosse-grained_a behaviour_n the_o whole_a house_n will_v not_o only_o be_v in_o a_o disturb_a smoke_n but_o in_o a_o burn_a flame_n grievous_a word_n stir_v up_o anger_n pro._n 15.1_o whereas_o on_o the_o contrary_a a_o soft_a answer_n turn_v away_o wrath_n it_o be_v the_o sin_n of_o zipporah_n who_o fail_v in_o her_o duty_n in_o not_o bear_v with_o her_o husband_n infirmity_n but_o as_o have_v be_v observe_v moses_n do_v well_o to_o bear_v with_o she_o exod._n 4.25_o bear_v you_o one_o another_o burden_n and_o so_o fulfil_v the_o law_n of_o christ_n say_v the_o apostle_n gal._n 6.2_o this_o duty_n concern_v all_o christian_n to_o practice_n in_o general_a but_o in_o the_o case_n we_o 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which_o duty_n you_o see_v be_v eight_o first_o matrimonial_a love_n second_o cohabitation_n three_o to_o be_v helpful_a to_o he_o in_o the_o best_a thing_n for_o the_o good_a of_o his_o soul_n four_o submission_n to_o he_o five_o to_o reverence_v he_o sixthly_a to_o labour_v to_o bear_v with_o his_o infirmity_n seven_o to_o yield_v he_o furtherance_n in_o his_o outward_a estate_n eighthly_a and_o last_o to_o labour_v to_o help_v and_o comfort_v he_o in_o time_n of_o illness_n and_o weakness_n of_o any_o kind_n we_o have_v endeavour_v hitherto_o to_o consider_v of_o the_o distinct_a duty_n of_o the_o husband_n to_o his_o wife_n and_o of_o the_o wife_n duty_n to_o her_o husband_n or_o which_o duty_n some_o that_o the_o husband_n do_v owe_v unto_o his_o wife_n