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A09377 Christian oeconomie: or, A short survey of the right manner of erecting and ordering a familie according to the scriptures. First written in Latine by the author M. W. Perkins, and now set forth in the vulgar tongue, for more common vse and benefit, by Tho. Pickering Bachelar of Diuinitie. Perkins, William, 1558-1602.; Pickering, Thomas, d. 1625. aut 1609 (1609) STC 19677; ESTC S102572 68,188 208

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hundred and eighteene that were borne and brought vp in his house Gen. 14. 14. It was in likelihood y e course of Salomon which he had learned of his father Dauid and giuen for a rule to al masters of families Prou. 4. 1. Heare O children the instruction of a father and giue eare to learne vnderstanding For I was my fathers sonne deare and tender in the sight of my mother when he taught me and said vnto me Let thine heart hold fast my words The company of the Disciples were the household of Christ and he himselfe did administer all parts of the seruice of God with them and among them Luk. 22. 15. To this purpose Augustine saith That the master of the familie doth after a sort and in his measure performe the dutie of a Churchman or Bishop within his house II. To bring his familie to y e Church or Congregation on the Sabbath day to looke that they do religiously there behaue themselues after the publike exercises ended the Congregation is dismissed to take account of that which they haue heard that they may profit in knowledge and obedience Act. 10. 24. The day after they entred into Caesarea Now Cornelius waited for them had called together his kinsmen special friends vers 33. Now therefore saith Cornelius to Peter are we all heere present before God to heare all things that are commanded thee of God Iob 1. 5. And when the daies of their banqueting were gone about Iob sent and sanctified them rose vp early in the morning offred burnt offerings c. 2. King 4. 23. And he said wherefore wilt thou go to him to day It is neither new moone nor Sabbath For this very cause the fourth Cōmandement is giuen first of all principally to the master of the familie that he might see the Sabbath kept and be a principal doer in all parts of Gods worship therein Exod. 20. 10. In it thou shalt not do any worke thou nor thy son nor thy daughter thy man-seruant nor thy maid nor thy cattel nor thy stranger that is within thy gates Neither is this his care tied only to the Sabbath but vpon other daies besides it he ought to cause them of his houshold as much as in him lieth to repaire to places where the word of God is preached Commendable was the practise of Marie the sister of Martha in this case who when Christ came to her house is said to sit at his feete and attend vnto his preaching Luk 10. 39. III. To prouide for his family meat drinke and clothing and that they may liue a quiet peaceable life 1. Tim. 5. 8. Pro. 27. 26. The lambs are for thy clothing and the goats for the price of thy field v. 27. And let the milke of thy goats be sufficient for thy food for the food of thy familie and for the sustenance of thy maids 1. Cor. 9. 9. Thou shalt not muzzle the mouth of the oxe that treadeth out the corne doth God care for oxen either saith he it not altogether for our sakes Matth. 13. 52. Euery scribe which is taught vnto the kingdome of heauen is like vnto an housholder that brings forth out of his treasurie things both new and old IV. To keepe order and to exercise discipline in his house and that in this manner In case of offence when a capitall crime is committed which incurreth publike censure he is not to punish it himselfe but to bring the offender to the ciuill Magistrate to informe of his fault that he may haue his desert It was a course established by the Iudicial law which God gaue vnto Moses for his direction in causes criminall among the Israelites Deut. 21. 18. 19. 20. If any man hath a son that is stubborne disobedient which wil not hearken vnto the voice of his father nor the voice of his mother and they haue chastened him then shal his father and his mother take him and bring him out vnto the Elders of his citie and vnto the gate of the place where he dwelleth and shall say vnto the Elders of his citie This our son is stubborne and disobedient and he will not obey our admonition hee is a rioter and a drunkard Againe Deut. 13. 6. If thy brother the son of thy mother or thine own son or thy daughter or the wife that lieth in thy bosome or thy friend which is as thine owne soul entise thee secretly saying Let vs go and serue other gods which thou hast not known thou I say nor thy fathers thou shalt not consent vnto him nor heare neither shal thine eye pitie nor shew mercie nor keepe him secret Zach. 13. 3. And when any shall yet prophesie his father and his mother that begate him shall say vnto him Thou shalt not liue for thou speakest lies in the name of the Lord and his father and his mother that begate him shall thrust him thorough when he prophesieth If the fault be of an inferiour nature and lesser in comparison the master of the familie ought to proceed by priuate censure vpon the delinquent partie sometimes by admonitiō otherwhiles by correction and chastisement according to the quality of the offence the condition state of the person Leuit. 19. 17. Thou shalt plainly rebuke thy neighbour and not suffer him to sin Mat. 1● 15. If thy brother sinne against thee go and tell him his fault betweene him and thee alone If he heare thee not take yet with thee one or two Prou. 29. 17. Correct thy sonne and he will giue thee rest and will giue pleasures to thy soule When admonitions and corrections will not preuaile the partie must bee brought before the Ministers and Gouernours of the Church that they may censure him Matth. 18. 17. If he will not heare them tell it vnto the Church And the Apostle Iames giueth order that the Ministers of the Church should come to those that are sicke and pray for them Iames 5. 14. which if they doe in case of infirmitie then they are also to be sought vnto in case of errour and offence committed for redresse But when none of all these meanes will do good if the partie be a seruant his master may and ought to remoue him Psal. 101. 7. There shall no deceitfull person dwell within mine house he that telleth lies shall not remaine in my sight Ioh. 8. 35. The seruant abideth not in the house for euer V. To giue intertainment to those that are strangers not of the familie if they be Christians and Belieuers but specially to the Ministers of the Word Rom. 12. 13. Giuing your selues to hospitalitie Hebr. 13. 2. Be not forgetfull to lodge strangers for hereby some haue receiued Angels into their houses vnawares This duty the woman of Shunem her husband performed vnto the Prophet Elisha 2. King 4. 10. Let vs make him a little chāber I pray thee with walles and let vs set him a bed there and
●hey keepe the way of the Lord to doe righ●●eousnesse and iudgement that the Lord may bring vpon Abraham that which he hath spoken to him ●en 18. 19. To the same purpose speaketh Ioshua If it seeme euill vnto you to serue the Lord chuse this day whom yee will serue whether the gods whom your Fathers serued that were beyond the floud or the gods of the Amorites in whose land ye dwell But I and my house will serue the Lord Iosh. 24. 15. And Cornelius is reported to haue been a deuout man and one that feared God with all his household Act. 10. 2. Thirdly common reason and equitie sheweth it to be a necessarie dutie for the happie and prosperous estate of the familie which consisteth in the mutuall loue and agreement of the Man and Wife in the dutifull obedience of children to their parents and in the faithfull seruice of seruants to their Masters wholly dependeth vpon the grace and blessing of God and this blessing is annexed to his worship for 1. Tim. 4. 8. Godlinesse hath the promises of this life and the life to come Psalm 127. 1. Except the Lord builde the house they labour in vaine that builde except the Lord keepe the Citie the keeper watcheth in vaine Vers. 2. It is in vaine for you to rise early and to lie downe late and eate the bread of sorrow but he will surely giue rest to his beloued Vers. 3. Beholde children are the inheritance of Iehouah and the fruite of the wombe his rewarde Psalm 128. 1. Blessed is euery one that feareth the Lord and walketh in his waies Vers. 2. When thou eatest the labours of thy hands thou shalt be blessed and it shall bee well with thee Vers. 3. Thy wife shall be as the fruitefull vine vpon the sides of thy house and thy children like Oliue plants round about thy table Vers. 6. Yea thou shalt see thy childrens children and peace vpon Israel 1. Sam. 1. 27. I prayed saith Hannah for this childe and the Lord hath giuen mee my desire which I asked of him The household seruice of God hath two parts the first is a conference vpon the word of God for the edification of all the members thereof to eternall life The second is Inuocation of the name of God with giuing of thankes for his benefits both these are commended in the Scriptures Deut. 6. 6. These words which I command thee this day shall be in thy heart Vers. 7. And thou shalt whet them vpon thy children talke of thē whē thou tariest in thine house as thou walkest by the way and when thou liest downe and when thou risest vp Vers. 20. When thy sonne shall aske thee in time to come saying what meane these testimonies and ordinances and lawes which the Lord our God hath commanded you Vers. 21. Then thou shalt say vnto thy son we were Pharaohs bondmē in Egypt but the Lord brought vs out of Egypt with a mightie hand Vers. 24. Therefore the Lord hath commanded vs to do all these ordināces to fear the Lord our God Psal. 14. 1. The foole hath said in his heart There is no God v. 4. They cal not vpō God The times of this seruice are these The morning in which the familie comming together in one place is to call vpon the name of the Lord before they begin the workes of their callings The euening also is another time to be vsed in prayer because the familie hath seene the blessing of God vpon their labours the day before and now the time or rest draweth on in which euery one is to commend his body and soule into the protection of the Lord for no man knoweth what shall befall him before he rise again neither knoweth any whether euer he shal rise againe or not it is therefore a desperate boldnesse without praying to go to rest Besides this there be other times also wherein to performe this dutie as before and after meales For meats and drinkes are blessed to the receiuers by the word and prayer 1. Tim. 4. 4. Whatsoeuer God hath created is good neither is any thing to be refused if it be taken with thankesgiuing for it is sanctified by the word of God and prayer Now these times the word of God approueth Deut. 6. 6. Thou shalt talke of them when thou liest downe aud when thou risest vp Psalm 55. 18. Euening and morning and at noone I will pray and make a noise and he wil heare my voice Psa. 127. 1. It is in vaine to rise earely and to lie downe late and eate the bread of sorrow except the Lord vouchsafe a blessing who will surely giue rest to his beloued To these may sometimes be added the exercise of fasting which is as occasiō serueth to be vsed both publikely priuately especially when they of the familie be therunto called by some present or imminent calamitie Hest. 4. 16. Go and assemble all the Iewes that are found in Shusan and fast yee for mee and eate not nor drinke in three daies day nor night I also and my maids will fast likewise and so will I go in to the King which is not according to the law and if I perish I perish Zachar. 12. 11. And in that day shall there be a great mourning in Ierusalem and the land shall bewaile euery familie apart the family of the house of Dauid apart and their wiues apart the family of the house of Nathan apart and their wiues apart c. Wherefore those families wherein this seruice of God is performed are as it were little Churches yea euen a kind of paradise vpon earth And for this purpose S. Paul writing to Philemon greeteth the Church that is in his house Philem. 1. 2. And in like manner he sendeth salutations to the Church of Corinth from Aquila and Priscilla and the Church which was in their house 1. Cor. 16. 19. On the otherside where this dutie of Gods seruice is not vsed but either for the most part or altogether neglected a man may tearme those families no better then companies of prophane and gracelesse Atheists who as they deny God in their harts so they are knowne by this note that they doe not call vpon the name of the Lord Psalm 14. 4. Yea such families are fitly compared to an heard of swine which are alwaies feeding vpon the maste with greedinesse but neuer looke vp to the hand that beateth it downe nor to the tree from whence it falleth The other dutie concerning the house it selfe is That euery member in the familie according to their abilitie employ themselues in some honest and profitable businesse to maintaine the temporall estate and life of the whole Gen. 3. 19. In the sweat of thy face shalt thou eat bread till thou returne to the earth for out of it wast thou taken for dust thou art and to dust shalt thou returne 1. Cor. 7. 20. Let euery man abide in the same vocation wherein he was called Now
only the vse but the bond and couenant of mariage Matth. 19. 9. I say therefore vnto you that whosoeuer shall put away his wife except it be for whoredome and marrie another committeth adulterie c. And yet the same bond may be continued and grow vp againe by the good will and consent of the partie innocent and consequently they may be reconciled and dwell together still 1. Sam. 25. 44. Now Saul had giuen Michal his daughter Dauids wife to Phalti the sonne of Laish which was of Gallim 2. Sam. 3. 14. Then Dauid sent messengers to Ishbosheth Sauls sonne saying Deliuer me my wife Michal which I married for an hundred foreskins of the Philistims The same course may be taken in like cases by the innocent specially vpon the repentance of the guiltie person But yet euery man must be left to his owne conscience and none is to bee compelled to take another from whom hee may iustly bee separated against his will Now in requiring of a diuorce there is an equall right and power in both parties so as the woman may require it as well as the man and he as wel as she The reason is because they are equally bound each to other and haue also the same interest in one anothers bodie prouided alwaies that the man is to maintaine his superioritie and the woman to obserue that modestie which beseemeth her towards the man After the diuorcement made it shal be lawful for the harmelesse partie not hauing the gift of continencie vpon leaue obtained of the Church and the Christian Magistrate to marrie againe But what then shall become of the partie offending Answ. If vpon the hazard of his Conscience in want of the remedie any libertie of second mariage bee to bee granted vnto him by the Church or Ciuill Magistrate as indeed here in England there is not diuers restraints in this Case must be obserued First no such libertie is to be granted so long as the matter remaines vncertaine whether they may be reconciled specially while the partie innocent liueth in single life Secondly it must euidently appeare that the said offending partie hath earnestly rpented him of his sin before he can either be receiued into the Church or admitted to a second mariage Thirdly this liberty is not to be granted him either presently or vnaduisedly but vpon frequent and serious admonition rather to giue himselfe to mourning and lamentation and still to remaine alone then to desire againe to enioy the benefit of that state which he hath alreadie so shamefully abused So much of the first way of performance of due beneuolence The second way is by cherishing one another Ephes. 5. 29. No man euer hated his owne flesh but nourisheth and cherisheth it as Christ also doth the Church This cherishing is the performing of any duties that tend to the preseruing of the liues one of another Wherefore they are freely to cōmunicate their goods their coūsel their labors each to other for the good of themselues and theirs The third way is by an holy kind of reioicing and solacing themselues each with other in a mutuall declaration of the signes and tokens of loue and kindnesse Prou. 5. 18. Reioyce with the wife of thy youth vers 19. Let her be as the louing Hind and pleasant wild goat let her breasts satisfie thee at all times and delight in her loue continually Cantic 1. 1. Let him kisse me with the kisses of his mouth for thy loue is better them wine Gen. 26. 8. So after he had bin there a long time Abimelek King of the Philistims looked out at a window and loe hee saw Isaak sporting with Rebekah his wife Then Abimelek called Isaak and said Loe shee is of a suretie thy wife Esay 62. 7. As a yong man marrieth a virgin so shall thy sonnes marrie thee and as a Bridegroome is glad of the Bride so shall thy God reioyce ouer thee This reioycing and delight is more permitted to the man then to the woman and to them both more in their yong yeares then in their old age CHAP. 11. Of the Husband MArried folkes are either husbād or wife The husband is he which hath authoritie ouer the wife hereupon in Scripture he is called the guide of her youth Prou. 2. 17. and they twaine being but one flesh he is also the head ouer his wife The duties of the husband towards the wife are these I. To loue her as himselfe Eph. 5. 33. Let euery one loue his wife euen as himselfe Gen. 24. 67. Afterward Isaak brought her vnto the tent of Sarah his mother and hee tooke Rebekah and she was his wife and he loued her so Isaak left mourning for his mother Note how the loue of the husband to the wife mitigates sorrow for the death of the mother He is to shew this loue in two things First in protecting her from danger Gen. 20. 16. And vnto Sarah he said behold I haue giuen 1000. shekels of siluer vnto thy brother behold he is the couering of thine eies amongst all that are with thee Let it be knowne amongst all be thou instructed 1. Sam. 30. 5. Dauids two wiues were taken prisoners also Ahinoam the Izreelite and Abigail the wife of Nabal the Carmelite v. 8. Then Dauid asked counsell of the Lord saying Shall I follow after this companie shall I ouertake them And hee answered him Follow for thou shalt surely ouertake them and recouer all Secondly in regarding her estate as his owne and prouiding maintenance for her both for his life time and as much as he may for time to come after his death Ephes. 5. 28. So ought men to loue their wiues as their owne bodies he that loueth his wife loueth himselfe vers 29. For no man yet hated his owne flesh but nourisheth it c. Exod. 21. 10. If he take him another wife he shall not diminish her food her rayment and recompence of her virginitie Ruth 3. 9. Vnto whom he said who art thou which said I am Ruth thine handmaid spread therefore the wing of thy garment ouer thine handmaid for thou art the kinsman II. To honor his wife 1. Pet. 3. 7. Giuing honor to the woman This honor stands in three things First in making account of her as his companion or yoke-fellow For this cause the woman when she was created was not takē out of the mans head because she was not made to rule ouer him nor out of his feet because God did not make her subiect to him as a seruant but out of his side to the end that man should take her as his mate Secōdly in a wise patiēt bearing or couering of her infirmities as anger waywardnes and such like in respect of the weaknes of her sexe 1. Pet. 3. 7. Giuing honor to the woman as vnto the weaker vessell seeing yee are heires together of the grace of life that your prayers bee not hindred Thirdly by suffering himselfe sometimes to be admonished or aduised by