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it_o say_v king_n solomon_n prov._n 15.23_o and_o prov._n 25.11_o a_o word_n fit_o speak_v be_v like_a apple_n of_o gold_n in_o picture_n of_o silver_n and_o the_o kingly_a preacher_n tell_v we_o there_o be_v a_o time_n for_o all_o thing_n eccles_n 3.1_o for_o that_o which_o be_v speak_v may_v be_v well_o take_v at_o one_o time_n which_o will_v not_o be_v so_o well_o resent_v at_o another_o time_n for_o example_n example_n example_n when_o churlish_a covetous_a nabal_n have_v use_v david_n young_a man_n unkind_o and_o bring_v himself_o and_o family_n in_o great_a danger_n we_o see_v abigail_n meet_v david_n with_o a_o present_a and_o pacifi_v david_n and_o prevent_v his_o shed_n of_o blood_n as_o you_o may_v read_v 1_o sam._n 25.26_o and_o return_v home_o she_o find_v her_o husband_n keep_v a_o feast_n like_o a_o king_n and_o merry_a with_o wine_n for_o he_o be_v very_o drunken_a verse_n 36._o wherefore_o she_o tell_v he_o nothing_o less_o or_o more_o until_o the_o morning_n but_o it_o come_v to_o pass_v in_o the_o morning_n when_o the_o wine_n be_v go_v out_o of_o nabal_n than_o she_o tell_v he_o these_o thing_n and_o then_o he_o be_v sensible_a of_o his_o folly_n to_o the_o full_a 1_o sam._n 25.37_o 25.37_o 1_o sam._n 25.37_o thus_o when_o a_o husband_n or_o wife_n be_v in_o any_o distemper_n drunken_a with_o wine_n or_o strong_a drink_n or_o with_o any_o passion_n or_o discontent_n it_o be_v wisdom_n to_o forbear_v speak_v and_o to_o observe_v a_o sit_v time_n and_o in_o a_o love_a manner_n to_o declare_v mild_o and_o peaceable_o what_o be_v a_o fail_v on_o either_o part_n and_o that_o with_o meekness_n of_o spirit_n for_o a_o soft_a answer_n turn_v away_o wrath_n but_o grievous_a word_n stir_v up_o anger_n as_o we_o note_v before_o prov._n 15.10_o the_o apostle_n st._n james_n his_o direction_n be_v good_a james_n 1.19_o 20._o be_v swift_a to_o hear_v slow_a to_o speak_v slow_a to_o wrath_n for_o the_o wrath_n of_o man_n work_v not_o the_o righteousness_n of_o 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careful_a both_o husband_n and_o wife_n to_o please_v one_o another_o in_o all_o thing_n lawful_a and_o convenient_a in_o the_o lord_n for_o rom._n 15.1_o 2_o 3._o he_o give_v this_o rule_n for_o christian_n in_o general_a that_o the_o strong_a aught_o to_o bear_v the_o infirmity_n of_o the_o weak_a and_o not_o to_o please_v ourselves_o but_o let_v every_o one_o please_v his_o neighbour_n to_o edification_n now_o if_o this_o be_v the_o duty_n of_o all_o christian_n to_o please_v one_o another_o for_o their_o good_a then_o much_o more_o of_o husband_n and_o wife_n to_o be_v well-pleasing_a to_o each_o other_o not_o to_o be_v contentious_a or_o quarrelsome_a or_o cross_v for_o trifle_n or_o small_a matter_n but_o to_o be_v wise_a and_o seek_v to_o please_v and_o give_v content_a to_o each_o other_o according_a to_o their_o duty_n and_o place_n this_o be_v heavenly_a wisdom_n say_v st._n james_n which_o be_v from_o above_o and_o be_v first_o pure_a then_o peaceable_a gentle_a and_o easy_a to_o be_v entreat_v full_a of_o mercy_n and_o good_a fruit_n without_o partiality_n and_o without_o hypocrisy_n james_n 3.17_o 18._o and_o this_o wisdom_n ought_v to_o be_v between_o husband_n and_o wife_n to_o be_v peaceable_a not_o troublesome_a to_o each_o other_o for_o as_o the_o wise_a man_n speak_v he_o that_o trouble_v his_o own_o house_n shall_v inherit_v the_o wind_n and_o the_o fool_n shall_v be_v servant_n to_o the_o wise_a in_o heart_n prov._n 11.29_o and_o prov._n 19.13_o 11._o a_o foolish_a son_n be_v the_o calamity_n of_o his_o father_n and_o the_o contention_n of_o a_o wife_n be_v a_o continual_a drop_n it_o will_v rot_v a_o house_n in_o time_n and_o again_o house_n and_o riches_n be_v the_o inheritance_n of_o father_n but_o a_o prudent_a wife_n be_v from_o the_o lord_n prov._n 19.14_o
golden_a rule_n 7.12_o mat._n 7.12_o to_o do_v to_o each_o other_o as_o they_o will_v be_v do_v by_o and_o if_o any_o unkindness_n have_v be_v not_o to_o rest_v quiet_o until_o there_o be_v a_o reconciliation_n sleep_v not_o until_o they_o can_v sleep_v in_o love_n and_o love_a embracement_n of_o each_o other_o say_v in_o any_o neglect_n of_o love_n or_o in_o any_o occasion_n of_o breach_n will_v i_o have_v christ_n my_o lord_n and_o spiritual_a husband_n so_o unkind_a to_o i_o as_o i_o be_o to_o my_o wife_n and_o may_v the_o wife_n say_v will_v i_o have_v christ_n so_o unkind_a to_o i_o to_o forsake_v my_o soul_n or_o withdraw_v his_o love_n from_o i_o as_o i_o have_v do_v from_o my_o husband_n and_o so_o may_v the_o husband_n say_v in_o respect_n of_o his_o wife_n this_o mutual_a care_n of_o kindness_n be_v a_o precious_a gold_n link_v of_o love_n to_o bind_v love_n fast_o during_o life_n love_n a_o ten_o direction_n or_o gold-link_a of_o love_n the_o ten_o direction_n or_o gold_n link_v of_o love_n husband_n and_o wife_n must_v take_v heed_n their_o love_n be_v right_o qualify_v first_o let_v love_n be_v without_o dissimulation_n this_o be_v that_o rule_n of_o the_o holy_a ghost_n record_v by_o the_o apostle_n st._n paul_n rom._n 10.9_o second_o let_v love_n be_v without_o bitterness_n so_o the_o same_o apostle_n coloss_n 3.19_o husband_n love_v your_o wife_n and_o be_v not_o bitter_a against_o they_o nor_o ought_v wife_n to_o be_v such_o to_o their_o husband_n love_n and_o bitterness_n conne_n agree_v well_o together_o 64.3_o psal_n 64.3_o this_o be_v contrary_a to_o love_v to_o shoot_v out_o arrow_n even_o bitterness_n or_o bitter_a action_n instead_o of_o pleasant_a and_o lovely_a sinilitude_n sinilitude_n this_o be_v to_o mingle_v gall_n with_o honey_n or_o sour_a sharp_a vinegar_n with_o sweet_a wine_n it_o will_v make_v all_o distasteful_a a_o husband_n must_v not_o be_v like_a unto_o a_o crab_n orange_n or_o lemon_n fair_a on_o the_o outside_n to_o the_o show_n and_o sour_a and_o bitter_a within_o please_v with_o sugar_a word_n abroad_o sweetheart_n before_o company_n and_o of_o a_o froward_a and_o perverse_a disposition_n at_o home_n or_o in_o private_a nor_o must_v the_o wife_n be_v so_o to_o the_o husband_n 2._o eph._n 5.1_o 2._o but_o both_o walk_n in_o true_a love_n as_o christ_n have_v love_v we_o the_o eleven_o direction_n love_n the_o eleven_o direction_n or_o gold_n link_v of_o love_n or_o gold_n link_v of_o love_n to_o preserve_v mutual_a love_n between_o husband_n and_o wife_n be_v mutual_o fidelity_n and_o faithfulness_n each_o to_o other_o according_a to_o the_o marriage_n covenant_n they_o ought_v to_o forsake_v all_o other_o and_o keep_v mutual_o only_a to_o themselves_o so_o long_o as_o they_o both_o shall_v live_v yea_o they_o ought_v to_o be_v very_o careful_a to_o avoid_v all_o occasion_n of_o jealousy_n of_o or_o against_o each_o other_o and_o to_o hate_v jealousy_n as_o a_o most_o dangerous_a enemy_n except_o there_o be_v evident_a and_o sure_a ground_n of_o each_o other_o disloyalty_n and_o sinful_a breach_n of_o the_o marriage_n covenant_n the_o jew_n be_v a_o very_a jealous_a people_n jealous_a of_o their_o wife_n upon_o slight_a occasion_n and_o often_o put_v their_o wife_n away_o with_o a_o bill_n of_o divorce_n for_o slight_a occasion_n and_o cause_n which_o do_v not_o break_v the_o band_n of_o matrimony_n against_o which_o our_o saviour_n speak_v mat._n 5.31_o 32._o mat._n 19.3_o 4_o 5_o etc._n etc._n the_o jew_n be_v so_o jealous_a that_o upon_o small_a suspicion_n they_o will_v forbid_v their_o wife_n to_o keep_v any_o company_n in_o secret_a with_o any_o of_o who_o they_o be_v jealous_a and_o if_o after_o the_o wife_n be_v thus_o forbid_v before_o two_o witness_n as_o the_o jewish_a doctor_n declare_v if_o she_o be_v prove_v to_o be_v in_o secret_a with_o such_o a_o 5._o maymony_n in_o misn_a come_v 2._o see_v mr._n ainsworth_n in_o numb_a 5._o one_o the_o husband_n bring_v she_o before_o the_o magistrate_n and_o she_o be_v to_o be_v put_v to_o the_o trial_n of_o seu_fw-la honesti_fw-la by_o the_o bitter_a water_n of_o jealousy_n which_o if_o she_o be_v guilty_a will_v cause_v her_o belly_n to_o swell_v and_o her_o thigh_n to_o rot_v as_o you_o may_v read_v in_o that_o law_n for_o trial_n of_o jealousy_n numb_a 5.11.12_o to_o the_o end_n and_o ver_fw-la the_o thirty_o the_o text_n say_v that_o when_o the_o man_n be_v free_a from_o iniquity_n 8._o mâ—ymoâ—y_o in_o jotaâ—_n cap._n 2._o sect_n 8._o the_o woman_n guilty_a bear_v her_o iniquity_n therefore_o among_o the_o israelite_n it_o be_v say_v 5.30_o see_v mr._n ainsworth_n in_o num._n 5.30_o that_o no_o man_n which_o have_v himself_o be_v guilty_a that_o way_n can_v bring_v his_o wife_n to_o this_o trial_n 2.1_o the_o guilty_a man_n can_v not_o bring_v his_o wife_n to_o this_o trial_n of_o bitter_a water_n rom._n 2.1_o that_o be_v by_o this_o bitter_a water_n according_a to_o the_o law_n of_o jealousy_n afore_o but_o it_o be_v most_o certain_a that_o it_o be_v the_o duty_n both_o of_o the_o husband_n and_o wife_n to_o be_v careful_a by_o power_n from_o christ_n to_o avoid_v all_o occasion_n of_o jealousy_n in_o both_o according_a to_o that_o rule_n of_o god_n word_n and_o direction_n of_o the_o holy_a ghost_n by_o the_o apostle_n st._n paul_n to_o abstain_v from_o all_o appearance_n of_o evil_n 2_o thess_n 5.22_o and_o that_o ancient_a law_n of_o god_n levit._n 19.14_o thou_o shall_v not_o put_v a_o stumble_a block_n before_o the_o blind_a but_o thou_o shall_v fear_v thy_o god_n i_o be_o the_o lord_n and_o press_v again_o by_o the_o bless_a apostle_n rom._n 14.13_o let_v we_o not_o judge_v one_o another_o any_o more_o but_o judge_v thus_o rather_o that_o no_o man_n put_v a_o stumble_a block_n or_o a_o occasion_n to_o fall_v in_o his_o brother_n way_n i_o must_v avoid_v occasion_n of_o sin_n myself_o and_o i_o must_v not_o give_v occasion_n of_o sin_n to_o another_o nor_o of_o this_o sin_n of_o unjust_a jealousy_n to_o my_o husband_n or_o to_o my_o wife_n for_o many_o be_v the_o misery_n may_v follow_v to_o husband_n or_o wife_n jealousy_n be_v the_o rage_n of_o a_o man_n therefore_o he_o will_v not_o spare_v in_o the_o day_n of_o vengeance_n he_o will_v not_o regard_v any_o ransom_n neither_o will_v he_o rest_v content_a though_o thou_o give_v many_o gift_n witness_v king_n solomon_n pro._n 6.34_o 35._o and_o jealousy_n be_v cruel_a as_o the_o grave_a the_o coal_n thereof_o be_v coal_n of_o fire_n which_o have_v a_o most_o vehement_a flame_n witness_v the_o spirit_n of_o god_n can._n 8.6_o this_o take_a care_n to_o avoid_v all_o occasion_n of_o jealousy_n be_v a_o powerful_a mean_n to_o preserve_v conjugal_a love_n between_o husband_n and_o wife_n but_o much_o more_o the_o grace_n of_o fidelity_n and_o constant_a care_n of_o faithfulness_n each_o to_o other_o according_a to_o that_o sacred_a bond_n of_o marriage_n the_o husband_n ought_v to_o be_v careful_a to_o be_v faithful_a to_o his_o wife_n forsake_v all_o other_o witness_v the_o spirit_n of_o god_n prov._n 5.18_o 19_o let_v thy_o fountain_n be_v bless_v and_o rejoice_v with_o the_o wife_n of_o thy_o youth_n let_v she_o be_v as_o the_o love_a hind_n and_o pleasant_a roe_n let_v her_o breast_n satisfy_v thou_o at_o all_o time_n and_o be_v thou_o ravish_v always_o with_o her_o love_n and_o the_o same_o spirit_n of_o god_n speak_v the_o same_o again_o prov._n 6.23.24_o 25_o etc._n etc._n the_o commandment_n be_v a_o lamp_n and_o the_o law_n a_o light_n and_o reproof_n of_o instruction_n be_v the_o way_n of_o life_n to_o keep_v thou_o from_o the_o evil_a woman_n which_o flatter_v with_o her_o tongue_n and_o from_o the_o flattery_n of_o the_o tongue_n of_o the_o strange_a woman_n lust_n not_o after_o her_o beauty_n in_o thy_o heart_n neither_o let_v she_o take_v thou_o with_o her_o eyelid_n for_o by_o mean_n of_o a_o whorish_a woman_n a_o man_n be_v bring_v to_o a_o piece_n of_o bread_n and_o the_o adulteress_n will_v haunt_v for_o the_o precious_a life_n can_v a_o man_n take_v fire_n in_o his_o bosom_n and_o his_o clothes_n not_o be_v burn_v can_v one_o go_v upon_o hot_a coal_n and_o his_o foot_n not_o be_v burn_v so_o he_o that_o go_v into_o his_o neighbour_n wife_n whosoever_o touch_v she_o shall_v not_o be_v innocent_a this_o sin_n of_o adultery_n or_o fornication_n break_v the_o command_n of_o the_o great_a god_n who_o be_v a_o consume_a fire_n heb._n 12.29_o the_o law_n of_o that_o all-seeing_a every_n where_o present_a god_n 24._o jer._n 23_o 23_o 24._o before_o who_o eye_n 4.13_o prov._n 5.21_o heb._n 4.13_o mat._n 12.36_o amos_n 4.13_o all_o thing_n be_v open_a and_o naked_a whatsoever_o we_o can_v speak_v do_v or_o think_v the_o command_n of_o this_o
come_v unto_o thou_o o_o heavenly_a father_n most_o humble_o beseech_v thou_o to_o embrace_v we_o in_o the_o everlasting_a arm_n of_o thy_o mercy_n 33.27_o deut._n 33.27_o and_o to_o take_v we_o with_o all_o we_o and_o all_o thou_o into_o thy_o holy_a protection_n this_o night_n give_v we_o that_o comfortable_a sleep_n and_o quiet_a rest_n in_o our_o bed_n 4.8_o psalm_n 4.8_o that_o we_o be_v refresh_v by_o thy_o goodness_n may_v be_v better_o enable_v to_o do_v thou_o faithful_a service_n in_o our_o several_a place_n vocation_n and_o calling_n if_o it_o please_v thou_o to_o continue_v and_o preserve_v our_o life_n and_o health_n the_o next_o day_n to_o our_o comfort_n and_o the_o glory_n of_o thy_o name_n o_o our_o most_o bless_a god_n we_o beseech_v thou_o preserve_v with_o we_o thy_o catholic_n church_n all_o over_o the_o world_n especial_o that_o part_n of_o thy_o church_n in_o these_o nation_n keep_v from_o all_o danger_n we_o humble_a pray_v thou_o our_o most_o gracious_a king_n 6.10_o ezra_n 6.10_o give_v he_o a_o long_a life_n to_o thy_o glory_n bless_v his_o royal_a queen_n and_o the_o whole_a royal_a family_n and_o preserve_v we_o beseech_v thou_o all_o the_o honourable_a nobility_n the_o reverend_n and_o faithful_a ministry_n in_o their_o several_a place_n the_o righteous_a judge_n and_o magistrate_n with_o all_o the_o gentry_n and_o commons_o of_o the_o land_n give_v all_o wisdom_n and_o power_n to_o honour_v thy_o majesty_n in_o their_o place_n and_o order_n in_o which_o thou_o have_v set_v they_o to_o do_v thou_o service_n bless_v we_o pray_v thou_o the_o several_a city_n town_n and_o country_n in_o the_o kingdom_n keep_v they_o and_o we_o out_o of_o the_o hand_n of_o all_o our_o enemy_n that_o under_o his_o sacred_a majesty_n we_o may_v lead_v a_o quiet_a and_o peaceable_a life_n in_o all_o godliness_n and_o honesty_n 2._o 1_o tim._n 2.1_o 2._o be_v gracious_a unto_o all_o thy_o faithful_a servant_n under_o any_o manner_n of_o affliction_n by_o sea_n or_o by_o land_n at_o liberty_n or_o in_o restraint_n in_o poverty_n or_o in_o riches_n in_o sickness_n or_o in_o health_n especial_o any_o that_o be_v know_v to_o we_o or_o who_o have_v desire_v our_o prayer_n 19_o eph._n 6_o 18_o 19_o sanctify_v thy_o afflict_a hand_n unto_o they_o that_o they_o may_v receive_v the_o peaceable_a fruit_n of_o righteousness_n when_o they_o be_v sufficient_o exercise_v thereby_o 12.11_o heb._n 12.11_o and_o in_o every_o temptation_n strengthen_v they_o to_o bear_v 10.13_o 1_o cor._n 10.13_o and_o in_o due_a time_n make_v a_o way_n for_o they_o to_o escape_v prepare_v we_o all_o for_o those_o eternal_a habitation_n those_o bless_a mansion_n which_o christ_n our_o saviour_n have_v prepare_v for_o we_o in_o heaven_n 14.12_o john_n 14.12_o grant_v o_o lord_n of_o glory_n 1.17_o eph._n 1.17_o that_o we_o may_v be_v so_o prepare_v like_o wise_a virgin_n etc._n mat._n 25.1_o 2_o etc._n etc._n with_o oil_n in_o our_o lamp_n that_o whensoever_o the_o lord_n jesus_n our_o heavenly_a bridegroom_n with_o his_o glorious_a angel_n shall_v come_v to_o judgement_n at_o midnight_n 25.6_o mat._n 25.6_o at_o cock-crowing_a or_o in_o the_o dawn_v we_o may_v be_v admit_v to_o enter_v in_o with_o he_o in_o to_o that_o bless_a heavenly_a kingdom_n of_o eternal_a happiness_n thus_o by_o prayer_n and_o supplication_n with_o thanksgiving_n we_o have_v make_v our_o request_n know_v unto_o thou_o our_o heavenly_a and_o most_o gracious_a father_n o_o let_v the_o peace_n of_o god_n 7._o phil._n 4.6_o 7._o which_o pass_v all_o understanding_n keep_v our_o heart_n and_o mind_n in_o the_o knowledge_n and_o love_n of_o god_n through_o our_o lord_n and_o saviour_n jesus_n christ_n to_o who_o with_o thy_o heavenly_a majesty_n and_o thy_o bless_a spirit_n be_v ascribe_v all_o glory_n and_o honour_n may_v sovereignty_n and_o dominion_n victory_n and_o salvation_n this_o night_n and_o for_o evermore_o amen_n prov._n 19.14_o house_n and_o riches_n be_v the_o inheritance_n of_o father_n but_o a_o prudent_a wife_n be_v from_o the_o lord_n therefore_o i_o desire_v the_o husband_n that_o he_o will_v pray_v to_o the_o lord_n to_o bestow_v among_o other_o grace_n this_o grace_n of_o heavenly_a prudence_n upon_o his_o wife_n and_o increase_v it_o in_o they_o both_o that_o they_o may_v be_v happy_a again_o i_o desire_v that_o both_o husband_n and_o wife_n will_v be_v careful_a to_o remember_v and_o practice_n by_o the_o grace_n of_o christ_n that_o counsel_n of_o that_o great_a apostle_n st._n peter_n 1_o pet._n 3.7_o husband_n dwell_v with_o your_o wife_n according_a to_o knowledge_n give_v honour_n to_o the_o wife_n as_o unto_o the_o weak_a vessel_n and_o as_o be_v heir_n together_o of_o the_o grace_n of_o life_n that_o your_o prayer_n be_v not_o hinder_v your_o mutual_a prayer_n one_o for_o another_o for_o a_o virtuous_a wife_n will_v be_v a_o helper_n to_o her_o husband_n gen._n 2.18_o and_o will_v do_v he_o good_a by_o her_o prayer_n as_o well_o as_o otherwise_o and_o not_o evil_a all_o the_o day_n of_o her_o life_n as_o wise_a king_n solomon_n witness_v pro._n 31.12_o a_o special_a closet_n or_o secret_a prayer_n of_o a_o husband_n for_o himself_o and_o his_o wife_n and_o child_n and_o family_n that_o god_n will_v be_v please_v to_o enable_v they_o to_o perform_v their_o mutual_a duty_n to_o each_o other_o in_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n and_o by_o god_n blessing_n live_v love_o together_o during_o their_o life_n to_o be_v pray_v together_o or_o asunder_o o_o most_o bless_a and_o gracious_a good_a god_n 1.11_o 1_o tim._n 1.11_o my_o most_o merciful_a and_o love_a father_n in_o christ_n jesus_n 16._o 1_o tim._n 6.14_o 15_o 16._o 2._o gen._n 1.1_o 2._o who_o in_o thy_o appoint_a time_n do_v make_v the_o heaven_n and_o earth_n 6._o psal_n 136.5_o 6._o and_o creature_n in_o the_o world_n and_o in_o a_o special_a manner_n create_v our_o first_o parent_n adam_n and_o eve_n after_o thy_o own_o likeness_n in_o righteousness_n and_o true_a holiness_n 1.27_o gen._n 1.27_o and_o in_o the_o time_n of_o their_o innocency_n do_v marry_v they_o together_o 24._o gen._n 2.20_o 21_o 22_o 23_o 24._o and_o institute_v the_o holy_a estate_n of_o marriage_n which_o be_v a_o mystical_a representation_n of_o that_o spiritual_a marriage_n and_o union_n between_o christ_n and_o his_o church_n 20._o hosea_n 2.19_o 20._o 5.32_o eph._n 5.32_o thou_o o_o our_o heavenly_a father_n in_o thy_o divine_a wisdom_n and_o gracious_a providence_n have_v be_v please_v to_o bring_v i_o thy_o unworthy_a servant_n and_o my_o belove_a wife_n into_o this_o high_a and_o honourable_a estate_n i_o confess_v o_o lord_n i_o be_o now_o full_o inform_v that_o there_o be_v many_o duty_n require_v by_o thy_o holy_a word_n incumbent_a upon_o i_o at_o a_o husband_n â—_o john_n 15._o â—_o and_o upon_o she_o as_o a_o wife_n which_o by_o our_o own_o strength_n we_o be_v not_o able_a to_o perform_v as_o we_o ought_v 3.5_o 2_o cor._n 3.5_o that_o thy_o divine_a majesty_n may_v have_v the_o glory_n and_o we_o thy_o unworthy_a servant_n may_v have_v the_o joy_n and_o comfort_n in_o our_o marry_a estate_n and_o although_o we_o be_v teach_v out_o of_o thy_o word_n that_o in_o christ_n our_o bless_a saviour_n there_o be_v both_o wisdom_n and_o strength_n and_o grace_n 4.13_o col._n 2.3_o phil._n 4.13_o to_o be_v communicate_v to_o thy_o servant_n for_o the_o performance_n of_o every_o duty_n in_o any_o condition_n and_o that_o christ_n our_o redeemer_n have_v promise_v that_o if_o we_o seek_v we_o shall_v find_v if_o we_o knock_v it_o shall_v be_v open_v unto_o we_o 16.23_o james_n 1.5_o 6._o james_n 5.16_o john_n 16.23_o if_o we_o pray_v with_o faith_n and_o fervency_n and_o in_o his_o name_n our_o petition_n shall_v be_v grant_v yet_o i_o thy_o humble_a servant_n confess_v for_o my_o part_n that_o i_o have_v not_o knock_v at_o heaven_n door_n for_o wisdom_n and_o strength_n for_o myself_o and_o my_o wife_n that_o we_o may_v be_v enable_v right_o and_o in_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n and_o in_o true_a love_n to_o perform_v our_o mutual_a duty_n to_o each_o other_o as_o become_v thy_o child_n and_o i_o fear_v my_o dear_a wife_n have_v fail_v in_o like_a manner_n 10._o isaiah_n 63.15_o 16._o isaiah_n 64.5_o 6_o 7_o 8_o 9_o 10._o at_o least_o that_o we_o have_v not_o seek_v this_o grace_n of_o thou_o o_o heavenly_a father_n with_o that_o sight_n and_o sense_n of_o our_o own_o weakness_n and_o of_o that_o need_n of_o this_o wisdom_n and_o power_n and_o so_o not_o with_o that_o earnestness_n or_o with_o those_o fervent_a groan_n and_o sigh_n 27._o rom._n 8.26_o 27._o or_o tear_n in_o our_o prayer_n nor_o with_o that_o wrestle_a like_o jacob_n with_o god_n in_o christ_n for_o this_o mercy_n as_o we_o shall_v have_v do_v 1.15_o gen._n 32.24_o 25_o 26._o hosea_n 12.3_o