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A75929 A Christian family builded by God, directing all governours of families how to act. 1. Gods timber and framing. 2. Gods foundation and upper building. 3. Gods finishing. 4. Gods furnishing. The sum whereof is shewed after the epistle. By Robert Abbott, Pastour of the Church of God at Austines, near Pauls gate in Watling-street in London. Abbot, Robert, 1588?-1662? 1653 (1653) Wing A68; Thomason E1233_2; ESTC R6379 56,335 120

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