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A69104 A necessary doctrine and erudition for any Christen man set furthe by the kynges maiestye of Englande &c.; Institution of a Christen man. Henry VIII, King of England, 1491-1547.; Church of England. 1543 (1543) STC 5168.7; ESTC S110763 117,759 234

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asshes on ashwednesday doth put vs in remembrance that euery christen manne shulde considre that he is but ashes and earth and thervnto he shall retourne Bearyng of palmes on palme sonday dothe put vs in remembrance of the receiuynge of Christe in to Hierusalem a lyttell before his deathe and that we must haue the same desyre to receyue him in our hartes Crepynge to the crosse on good friday there offeryng vnto Christ before the same and kyssynge of it declareth our humble submission and thankes giuynge to Christ for our redemption whiche he hath wroughte for vs vpon the crosse And so finally the settyng vp of the sepulchre of Christe whose body after his death was buried And al other like laudable customes rites and ceremonies do put vs in remembrance of some spiritual thyng And therfore they be not to be contemned and caste away but obediently to be vsed and continued as thynges good and laudable for the purposes abouesaid The exposition of the .v. commaundement of god Honour thy father and thy mother IN this commandement / by these wordes Father and mother is vnderstande not onely the naturall father and mother whiche dyd carnally begette vs and broughte vs vp but also princes and all other gouernours rulers and pastours vnder whom we be nourished and brought vp ordred guiged And by this worde Honour in this commandement is not onely ment a reuerence and lowlines in wordes and outwarde gesture whyche chyldren and inferiours ought to exhibite vnto their parentes and superiours but also a prompt and a redy obedience to theyr lawfull commandementes a regarde to theyr wordes a forbearyng and sufferinge of them an inward loue and veneration towardes them a reuerence feare and lothenes to dysplease or offende them and a good wyll or gladnes to assiste them ayde them succour them and helpe them with theyr counsayle with their goodes and substance and by all other meanes to theyr power as hereafter is declared This is the very honour and duetie whiche not onely the chyldren do owe vnto theyr parentes but also all subiectes inferiours to theyr heades and rulers And that children owe this duetye to theyr fathers it appereth in many places of scripture in the prouerbes it is written Prou i. Obey my sonne the chastisement of thy father be not negligent in thy mothers commandementes Deu xxvi In the boke of Deutronomie it is also written Accursed be he that doth not honour his father and his mother And in the boke of Leuiticus it is sayde Leuit. xix Let euery man stande in awe of his father mother 〈◊〉 xxi And yf any man haue a stubburne and a disobedient sonne whiche wyll not heare the voyce of his father and mother and for correction wyll not amende and folowe them Than shall his father and mother take him and brynge hym to the iudge of the citie and saye This our sonne is stubburne disobedient and dispiseth our admonitiōs and is a riotour and a drunkerde Than shal al the people stone him to death and thou shalt put away the euill from the that all Israell may here therof and be afrayde Exod. xxi And in the boke of Exody it is also writtē He that striketh his father or mother he shall be put to deathe And lykewise be that curseth his father or mother shall be put to death And in the boke of prouerbes Prouer. xxviii the wise man also saith He that stealeth any thyng frō his father or mother is to be taken as a murtherer And although these great punysshementes of disobedient children by death be not now in the newe lawe in force strength but lefte to the ordre of princes gouernours and their lawes yet it euidently appereth how sore god is agreued dipleased with such disobediēce of children towardes their parentes for as moche as in the olde lawe he did appointe thervnto so greuouse punishementes And as almyghty god doth threaten these punishementes vnto those children whiche do breake this commandement so he doth promise great rewardes to them that kepe it For he that honoureth his father saythe the wyseman Eccle. iii. his synnes shall be forgyuen hym And he that honoureth his mother is as one that gathereth treasures who so euer honoureth his father shall haue ioy in his owne children and whan he maketh his prayer vnto god he is herde He that honoureth his father shall haue a long and a prosperous lyfe And as the chyldren by this commaundement be bounde to honour and obey theyr parentes accordinge as is afore expressed so it is implied in the same precepte that the parentes shulde nourysshe and godly brynge vp their chyldren that is to say that they muste not onely fynde them meate and drinke in youth and also set them forwarde in learnynge labour and some other good exercise that they maye eschue idlenes and haue some crafte or occupation or some other lauful meane to get their lyuynge but also they muste learne them to beleue and truste in god to loue him to feare him to loue their neighbours to hate no man to hurte no man to wisshe well to euery man so moch as they may do good to euery man not to curse not to sweare not to be riotous but to be sobre and temperate in al thinges not to be worldly but to set their mindes vpon the loue of god heauēly thinges more than vpon tēporall thinges of the worlde And generally to do all that is good to eschue all that is euill and this the parentes ought to do not by cruell entreatinge of theyr children wherby they might discourage them and prouoke them to hate theyr parentes but by charitable rebuking threatning and charitable chastising and correcting of them whan they do euyll and cherishynge mainteyninge and commending them whan they do well This office and duetie of the parentes towardes theyr chyldren is witnessed in many places of scripture First saint Paule writeth thus Ep●e vi Fathers prouoke not your children vnto angre but bringe them vp in the correction and doctrine of god Deut. vi And in Deutronomy al myghty god saythe Pro. xxix Teache my lawes and commandementes to thy children And the wise man saith The rod of correction giueth wisedome The chylde that is left to his owne will Prou. xiii shal be confusion to his mother And in an other place he saith He that spareth the rod hateth his sonne and he that loueth hym will se hym corrected Pro. xxiii And in an other place he saythe Se thou withdrawe not from thy childe discipline and chastysynge if thou strike hym with the rodde he shall not die thou shalte strike him with a rodde and shalt therby deliuer his soule from hell 〈…〉 And on the other syde it is written The sonne vntaught and vnchastised is the confusion of his father And for this cause we fynde in the boke of the kinges how that our
in the man doing his duetie lykewyse as is required of the woman Fynally it is to be considered how in matrimony be cōmēded specially thre good thinges al which they that contracte matrimony ought to remembre and regarde Fyrst of al the thing it selfe whiche is signified therby whiche as is sayde before is the hygh the myghty and incomprensible worke of god in the coniunction of Christe and the churche together wrought by hym to our singular benefite and euerlastynge saluation And that therfore the man wyfe ought to liue together in perfite vnitie and concorde to loue eche other as their owne bodies and to vse the same in all cleannesse puritie and honour Ephe. v. euen as Christe him selfe loued his espouse the churche and suffered all afflictions and peynes to make her glorious and voyde from all maner of spotte or wrinkle of vncleannesse Whiche matter saint Paule moste godly declareth in his epistle to the Thessaloniās where he wryteth in this maner ●… T●e iiii I pray you brethern and instantely desyre you for our lorde Iesu Christis sake that like as ye haue herde heretofore of vs howe and in what maner you shuld go forward please god so ye do procede in the same and that after suche sorte and maner that you may contynually profitte and encreace therin You remembre I doubte not what preceptes and commandementes I haue giuen vnto you in tymes past in the name of our lord IESV CHRIST And now in lyke maner in his name also I say agayne vnto you that the wylle and cōmaundement of god is that you shoulde sanctify your selues that is to saye that you shulde absteyn from all maner of fornication and that euery one of you shulde vse and keepe the vesselle of his bodye in holynesse and honour and not in desyre of carnall concupiscence lyke as the Gentyles doo whiche know not god and that no man shuld craftyly compas and circumuent his brother to obtein his flesshely lustes For almighty god taketh vengeance vpon all suche people as do committe any of those thinges Knowe you also that god hath not called vs to vncleannes and fylthynes of lyfe but vnto holines and santimonie And therfore I do exhorte you all and in the name of god commaunde you to eschue all fornication and adultery all vncleannesse and carnall concupiscence all fylthynes and vnpure lyuynge in flesshely lustes of the body And I saye further that who so euer despyseth and breaketh these my commandementes doth not despise me but despiseth god For they be his commaundementes whose spirite ye haue receyued The second good thyng which ought to be remembred in the said sacrament is the faith and mutuall promyse made betwene the husbande and the wyfe conioyned in lawful matrimony wherby and by the vertue of the sayde sacrament the persons so laufully conioyned be bound esche one to kepe promyse with the other according to such trust and cōfydence as eche had in the other and expressed by wordes in the same contracte whiche promise god did assiste and ratifie and is now partie thervnto so that the breach of that promyse and faith is now a high and displeasant offence vnto almighty god lyke as the obseruation and keping therof is in the syght of god pleasant acceptable and meritorious and the knotte also and bonde of matrimony contracted betwene the sayde persons is made therby to be indissoluble Trouthe it is that if in any mariage it may appere and be duly proued that there is suche insufficient impediment by the lawes of god or by the lawes of the realme that the same matrymony was at the beginning vnlauful of none effect in that case the church may and ought to diuorce the same persons so vnlaufully contracted declare that suche matrimony is vnlauful and the bonde therof to be of no strengthe or efficacie bycause is was neuer good from the beginninge Notwithstandyng in mariages laufully made and accordyng to the ordinance of matrimonye prescribed by god and the lawes of euery realm the bond therof can not be dissolued durynge the liues of the parties betwene whom such matrimony is made The thirde good thyng to be consydered and obserued in matrimony is the child that cometh of maryage and the good and vertuous education and bringynge vp of the same Whervnto all married men women ought to haue a speciall regard and to folowe therin the example of Thoby Tobi. iiii which taught his sonne from his infancie to loue dread god to flee absteine from all maner of sinne for goddis sake For surely if the fathers and mothers be negligent in good bringing vp of their children in their youth and suffer them to fal in to folies and synne in defaut of due correction and chastisement of them for the same no doubte they shal aunswere vnto god for it as it appereth by the greate stroke and punyshement of god i. Reg. ii iiii whan he dyd sodaynly strike Ely vnto death bicause that he knowinge his children to do amisse dyd not punishe them therfore And therfore let all parentes emply theyr diligence and busy cure to educate and instructe their children by al meanes in vertue goodnes to restrain them from vices by cōuenient discipline and castigation according to the saying of the wise mā Withdraw not thy iust discipline frō thy child for if thou do so he wyll fall into sundry inconueniences Pro. xx● and so finally shal be lost vndone Wherfore spare not to chastise thy childe with the rodde and so doing thou shalt delyuer his soule from hell And cōcerninge the childes duetie towardes the father it shal be declared hereafter in the commandementes The sacrament of Orders AS concerning the sacrament of Orders tt is to be vnderstād that order is a gift or grace of mynistration in Christis church giuen of god to christen men by the consecration imposition of the bishops handes vpon them and this sacrament was conferred and gyuen at the begynnyng by the apostles as it appereth in the epistle of saint Paule to Timothe whom he had ordered and consecrate prieste where he saythe thus ii Tim. i. I do exhorte the that thou do styrre vp the grace of god the whiche is gyuen the by the imposition of my handes And in an other place he doth monish the same Timothe and put hym in remēbrance of the rome ministery that he was called vnto in these wordes Do not neglect the grace i. Tim. iiii whiche thou hast in the and the whiche is gyuen the through prophecy and with imposition of handes by the authoritie of priesthode Wherby it appereth that saint Paul did consecrate and order priestes and bishops by the imposition of his handes And as the apostles them selues in the beginninge of the churche dyd order priestes and byshops So they appointed and wylled the other byshops after them to do the lyke as saynt Paule
bounde to loue theyr wyues euen as they loue theyr owne selfe and theyr owne bodies and euen as Christe loueth the churche his espouse He bringeth in the first institution of matrimonye as it was ordeyned by god in Paradise and alledgeth the wordes of god as they be before rehersed vpon whiche wordes the apostle inferreth and saythe This coniunction of man and woman togither in mariage wherby they are knytted vnited and made al one fleshe and one body Is the sacrament that is to saye a mystery and signification of that great and meruaylous coniunction whiche is betwene Christe and his churche For lyke as by vertue and efficacy of the fyrst institution of matrimony the husbande and the wyfe be made to be but one body wherof the husbād is hed Euen so Christ doth knytte and vnite conglutinate and make his churche to be one body with hym wherof he is the very head By the whiche wordes of saint Paule it appereth not onely what is the vertue and efficacy of matrimony in the vnitinge and incorporatynge of two bodies in one but also that it dothe signifye this other coniūction which is betwene Christ and his churche And that this coniunction betweene Christ and the churche is the very selfe thing whiche is signified and represented by the other coniunction of man and woman in mariage For thoughe saynt Paule vsed in this place other argumentes persuasions taken of the lawe of nature to enduce maried ꝑsons the one to loue the other saying that men naturally do loue and nourishe their owne bodies and their owne flesshe Yet he vseth this as a reason of great efficacye to persuade his purpose that is to say that all husbandes and wiues ought so to vse them selues the one to the other that their matrimony and all their workes and affections in the same myght and shuld corresponde and be cōformable and like vnto that moste holy thyng whiche is signified and represented thereby that is to say vnto that spirituall coniunction whiche is betwene Christ and his espouse the churche And that therefore especially the man ought and is bound to loue his wife and the wyfe to loue and obeye her husbande in all thinges lest by doinge the contrary they shuld make their matrimony vnlike to the thing that is signified therby And thus was matrimony not onely instituted by god sanctified by his word and dignified by his lawes euen from the beginning of the world But also Christ him selfe did accept approue and allow the same in the newe testament aswel by his worde as also by his sundry workes and dedes testifienge the same In so moch that he being inuited to a certain mariage made in Cana a towne of Galile Ioan i● did vouchesafe not onely to come thyther there to honour the said mariage with his corporall presence and with the presēce also of his blessed mother and his holy apostles but there he began also by tournyng of water in to wyne first to worke myracles to manyfeste his glory vnto the worlde Matt. xix And afterwarde in one other place whan the pharisees came vnto hym demanded whether a man might laufully be diuorced from his wife for euery cause Christ puttyng the said pharisees in remēbrance of the first institution of matrimony sayd vnto them Haue you not red how that god whiche created all thynges in the beginning did also forme and create man and woman said these wordes Therfore the man shal leaue his father and mother and shal adhere and cleaue vnto his wyfe they shal be two in one fleshe one body Wherfore vnderstand you saith he that sith man woman conioyned in matrimony be by goddis ordinance but one fleshe and one body they shuld not afterward be separated or diuorced one from the other And vnderstande you also that it is not laufull for any man to separate and diuide those persons a sunder whiche by goddis worde and his wyl and power be conioyned togither And whan the pharisees replying thervnto sayde Why than dyd Moyses commande vs to make a lybell of diuorce and so to departe and separate our selues from our wyues Christe answered them and sayd Moises consydering the hardenes and obstynacy of your hartes dyd permyt and suffre you so to do Howe be it I say vnto you that it was not so at the beginnynge that is to say it is cleane contrary to the godly institution and naturall order of the lawes of matrimony as it was instituted by god at the beginning that any mā married shulde be diuorced from his lawfull wyfe and be set at libertie to marry And therfore I say again vnto you that who so euer doth forsake his laufull wyfe onles it be for adultery commytted by her and mary an other I say he commytteth adulterye in so doinge And lykewise what woman soo euer doth forsake her laufull husbande and marrieth an other she also committeth adultery and the man also that marrieth her offendeth in like maner These wordes of Christe euydently declare his sentence in the approbation of the instytution of matrimony made at the beginning of the worlde and that it is Christes wyll and commaundement that the people of god shulde folowe and conforme theyr doinges vnto the lawes of matrimonye than made shuld obserue the same in such purity santimony as it was fyrst ordeyned without separatiō or diuorce that vnder the peyne of damnation And here also is one thing specially to be noted that in these wordes of Christe That whiche god hath conioined man may not separate is declared the infinite benignitie and goodnes of god towardes vs in that he hathe not onely conioyned our fyrste progenitours Adam and Eue togyther in maryage wherby he gaue vnto vs the originall beginnynge of our procreation but that he dothe also euer syth that tyme continually assiste man and woman and worketh with them in this cōiunction of mariage and is the very authour of all matrimonies which be laufully made betwene man and woman And therfore saint Paule saith Hebr. xiii Honorabile coniugium in omnibus thorus immaculatus that is to say Matrimony is honourable in all and the bedde vndefiled An other thyng also is to be noted that not only the act and procreation whiche els of it self were vnlawfull is by this sacrament made lawfull but also that the good bryngyng vp of chyldren borne in matrimony is so wel accepted of god that vnto it as vnto other good workes doone in faythe by grace is promysed life euerlasting accordynge to the wordes of saint Paule where he saith i. Tim. ii The woman was seduced and blynded by the serpent and soo synned dayly but she shal be saued by procreation and bringing forthe of children if the same doo perseuere and continue in faith and loue towardes god and in holynes and temperance in their actes and dedes And as this is spoken of the woman so it is also veryfied