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A36343 A door opening into Christian religion, or, A brief account by way of question and answer of some of the principal heads of the great mystery of Christian religion wherein is shewed by the way that the great doctrines here asserted are no wayes repugnant, but sweetly consonant unto the light of nature and principles of sound reason / by a cordiall well-wisher to that unity and peace which are no conspiratours against the truth. Cordiall well-wisher to that unity and peace which are no conspiratours against the truth.; Cordiall well-wisher to that unity and peace which are no conspiratours against the truth. Of the sacraments. 1662 (1662) Wing D1909; ESTC R26732 293,130 633

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command them to refrain all such occasions waies and doings which are like to awaken strengthen and actuate such evill propensions in them Quest 22. What is the Sixth Rule Answ Where any one vertuous act or duty or worthy course of Life is commanded under this and together with it all other actions and practises of affinity with it and of a like consequence and concernment are commanded likewise Where Parents Fathers and Mothers are commanded to be honored by us we are here commanded even for their sakes to behave our selves soberly discreetly and commendably in the sight of all men keeping our selves free from scandal from all just reproach and reproof from men and so to be observant of their counsells obedient unto their commands ready to vindicate and maintain their reputations as farr as with a good conscience we may upon all occasions willing to relieve them and stand by them with our substance in case they be in want and God hath given unto us wherewith to do it c. The reason of this Rule is of the same consideration for the Affirmative with that of the third Rule in the Negative Quest 23. What is the Seventh Rule Answ Where any sin is prohibited all signes or appearances of this sin as all gestures actions and words naturally or customarily proceeding from it are prohibited also 1 Thes 5. ●2 Thus where Pride is forbidden Walking with stretched out necks minsing with the feet Esa 3.16 Strange and costly Apparrel 1 Pet. 3.3 1 Tim. 2.9 Zeph. 1.8 Haughty eyes or looks Prov. 6.17 30.13 Contention or contesting Prov. 13.10 Threatning or disdainful speaking Prov. 14.3 with sundry the like are forbidden likewise The reason of this Rule is All fruits signs or appearances of any sinful disposition in men are against the honour of God in his Government of the World being apt to offend or grieve persons that are good on the one hand and to provoke and incourage those that are evil unto the like misdemeanours on the other hand In this respect God judgeth it meet to restrain them and this to convenience his Law with all the brevity that well may be in the same Commandement with the capital and known sin from whence they proceed Quest 24. What is the Eighth Rule Answ Where any holy or worthy disposition or habit is required here all the genuine and proper fruits actings or expressions of this disposition are enjoyned with it Thus where the love of God and so where the love of men are commanded with the former our maintaining of the Truth of God upon all occasions as we are able our shewing forth of his excellencies and perfections our depending upon him for relief and deliverance in streights and exigencies our honouring him with our substance in being liberal and open-handed towards the poor and needy towards the promoting of every good work whereby he may be glorified with many the like are commanded with the latter our forgiving men their trespasses against us covering their infirmities as far as with a good Conscience we can bearing with their weaknesses judging well of them when we have no sufficient ground to judge otherwise lending unto them what they want giving unto them if they be poor counselling them when they are in doubt admonishing them seasonably and tenderly yet effectually when they sin with many other things of like import The reason of this Rule is because as a fruit-bearing-tree is desired for the fruits sake which it naturally beareth so are vertuous habits and dispositions required in men by God that they may perform and do those things which such Principles are proper to produce Quest 25. What is your Ninth Rule Answ Where a sin is forbidden all accessorinesse to the perpetration of this sin by whomsoever it be committed intended or designed is forbidden likewise unto every man Thus where Stealing is forbidden all strengthening of the hand of such a man to the practise of this sin whom we know or justly suspect to be addicted unto it as by pleading the excusablenesse or by extenuating the demerit and crime of this sin in his hearing the furnishing him with weapons instruments or engins for the practise of it the accommodating him with means of secresie or safety when and whilst he is about it with many the like is forbidden likewise The reason of this Rule is because the real intent of the Law-giver being to prevent and hinder the commission of the sins prohibited by him it cannot reasonably be conceived but that together with the prohibition of the sins themselves he should prohibit likewise all compliance with the practisers of these sins and whatsoever might incourage them or strengthen their hand to the perpetration of them at any time Quest 26. What is a Tenth Rule Answ Where any duty or vertuous action or course of life is commanded the use of all good means to promote and further the practise not only in our selves but in others also as we have opportunity is therein and therewith commanded also Thus where the Honouring of Parents whether naturally and properly such or such by analogie and similitude as Magistrates Teachers Guardians Tutors Masters c. is commanded we are commanded also to promote the Interest of the said Command by exhorting and perswading as occasion is offered and when it shall be seasonable all persons both young and old to the practice of it by countenancing commending and shewing respects unto those that are conscientious in the practise of it and again by admonishing reproving discountenancing those that are dispisers and transgressours of it There is the same consideration of all other duties in their respective commands The reason of this Rule proceeds upon the same account with the reason of the former God the Law-giver intending subjection by men unto all his Laws and the diligent practise of every good work or duty commanded by him must in reason be conceived to require of men that they promote and further this subjection as well in others as in themselves by all good wayes and means upon all occasions Quest 27. What is the Eleventh Rule Answ Where the duty of an Inferiour towards his Superiour in one particular kind of relation is required the like duty for the nature and kind of it is required of all Inferiours towards all such their Superiours who stand related unto them in any such relation which holds proportion unto and is of alike consideration with that other Thus the relation of those that are under the Government inspection and care of the Civil Magistrate Spiritual Pastour Guardian Tutour Master c. wherein they stand related unto these their respective Superiours is of like nature and consideration at least in some respects with the relation of Children to their natural Parents Father and Mother and consequently where God requireth of Children towards their Parents that which he judgeth meet they should exhibit by way of duty unto them there doth he require the same of those
give a better account the best way and most agreeable to the intimation of the words of the Commandement as was lately noted to compute the beginning and the end of the Christian Sabbath is to estimate them by the time when labouring men in the climate or country where we live do ordinarily begin and end their daily work or labour Quest 71. What is the surname of the fifth Commandement Answ That every person of mankind capable of the knowledge of the Law behave himself towards all others whether Superiours inferiours or equals according to the natural proper and due exigency of these relations in their severall kinds and degrees respectively unto them and consequently that they be diligent and careful to inform themselves of what is due from them unto men by vertue of and right of claim from these relations as also to prepare inable and fit themselves for the performance of all things accordingly Quest 72. What are the duties or some of the chief of them which inferiours owe unto their superiours Answ Superiours are of different kinds as either natural civill or ecclesiastique If then you ask concerning the duties which are due in common unto all these from their respective inferiours they are these and the like To pray for them to honour and reverence them Not to neglect or despise them for wants or weaknesses incident unto men but to cast a covering of love over them not to envie or grudg them the preheminence which God hath given them but to stand up and plead their cause as farre as with truth and a good conscience they may against those that shall disparage them or speak evill of them c. If you desire to know the duties which are more particularly due unto the several kinds of superiours mentioned from their Inferiors respectively it were better to propound distinct Questions concerning them Quest 73. What are then the duties which the superiour which you terme Natural may justly and his due expect from his inferiours Answ Under the three generall heads or kinds of Superiours mentioned there are several distinct and more particular species of superiours comprehended and according to the difference of those contained under every of the said heads some difference there may be in the duties due from their Inferiours unto them which difference of duties may be sufficiently apprehended partly by the light of nature and partly by the written word of God Of that kind of superiour whom nature and the law thereof makes such concerning which you now require natural Parents Fathers and Mothers by whom we received our lives and being in the world are the chief Some of the principal duties which their Inferiours their Children owe unto them are these and the like being specialities of those generall duties which as was even now declared belong in common to all the kinds of superiours to be content with such provisions or allowances in outward things as meat drink apparel lodging liberty for recreation company placing out to trades or callings c. as they their Parents are either able or judg meet to make for them to accept of chastisement from them for their misdoings not muttering repining or waxing sullen but giving them reverence to be ready and cheerful to do what they command them in things that are lawful not to grieve or discontent them by any unduebehaviour as by giving them froward or cross answers by stubbornesse idlenesse wastfulnesse keeping vain company neglecting what they entrust them with or the like so also to ponder and treasure up their wholsome counsells and instructions and to practise them as occasion shall be to imitate their vertues not to seem to take notice of their infirmities unlesse it be to cover them not to despise them for their Age Poverty or Sufferings but to be so much the more respectful of them and helpful unto them not to dispose of themselves in marriage without their consent not to disclose their secrets not to hold familiarity with their known Adversaries c. Quest 74. Is there any other species or under-kind of that sort or kind of Superiour which you call naturall Answ He that is aged is a kind of Superiour and such by nature unto him whose years are but few comparatively The Superiority of the husband in respect of the wife is best referred to this kind also He that excelleth in spiritual guifts and abilities for edification is a kind of superiour likewise in respect of those who are beneath him in such endowments That of Masters in respect of their servants more properly belongeth to the second which we called politique Quest 75. What are the duties which younger persons owe unto those that are ancient Answ To rise up before them to give them precedency of place and liberty to speak first or before them to submit themselves unto them c. But these are to be reputed duties belonging to the younger in reference to the aged only in ordinary cases and when either both the one and the other are private persons or at least when the younger is such For otherwise if the younger be either in respect of some political or ecclesiastical office superiour to him that is ancient and a private man which is a case that frequently occurrs the order of nature in this Case is to give place to the order as well of Civill as of Ecclesiastical or Church-constitution and the duties mentioned to enterchange givers and receivers Quest 76. What are the duties wherein the wife stands bound unto the Husband To submit her self and to be subjet unto him in every thing as unto the Lord. Eph. 5.22.24 to reverence and honour him to be helpful and faithful unto him to delight in his presence to please him in all things that are honest and comely not to provoke or grieve him in any thing as by froward or crosse answers by sharp or loud speaking by repeating matters of former discontent by sullennesse by sowrenesse or lowringnesse of countenance by aptnesse to take offence at his words or actions by neglecting his counsells or desires his kinred or friends by wastfulnesse of his estate by slothfulnesse or carelesnesse in those houshold affairs which appertain to her inspection and care by impatience or discontentednesse under such troubles or crosses which are daily incident unto the best families by an unseemly fiercenesse or sharpnesse of carriage towards children or servant by affecting over-costly or garish attire by any leight wanton or suspicious behaviour by frequenting places or company which he disliketh by any expressions of a prophane or ungracious spirit by not giving her best assistance unto him that God may be daily and duely worshipped in the family with other the like Quest 77. What is required of those that inferior in guifts or abilities for edification as in wisdome knowledge utterance tongues c. by way of duty towards those whom God in such endowments hath made superiour to them Answ They ought to honour and
respect them as persons raised up by God amongst their Brethren for their furtherance and help upon occasion in the things both of their present comfort and eternall peace so again to give testimony unto and vindicate the good guifts of God in them against those that shall any waies vilifie or disparage them to pray for them that God will please to increase their store and make them more fruitful and keep them humble under the greatest increase that shall be given them not to judg them or take offence at them in case they take liberty in some things which their consciences will not suffer them to take c. Quest 78. What are the duties which inferiours are in this Commandement charged with towards those that are their superiours in a Politique or civill consideration as Magistrates or rulers in the civill state and masters over servants Answ The Lawes of magistrates being clearly consistent with the Lawes of God whether written in the Scriptures or dictated by the light of Nature ought carefully and conscientiously to be observed by them Such laws of theirs unto which they cannot without sin or a doubting conscience yield a practicall obedience they ought to subject themselves unto passively that is patiently and with a meek spirit accept of that punishment which they impose upon the non-observers of them The persons of their Magistrates yea though they be none of the best they ought to reverence and honour as being set over them by the providence of God under him to rule and govern them for their good and so to defend them with their estates bodies lives when necessity requireth to pay them tribute and custome willingly to pray for them and this more particularly then for other men to vindicate the justnesse of their authority their honour and reputations as farre as with truth and a good conscience we can when occasion requireth and however not to reproach revile or speak evil of them c. Quest 79. What is here required of servants as due from them unto their Masters Answ To count them worthy of all honour to obey them in all things that are lawful to please them well in all things to shew all good fidelity towards them to be subject unto them with all fear not only if they be good and gentle but even though they be froward not answering again not pu●loining from them Tit. 2 9 10. 1 Tim. 6.1 Coloss 3.22 Eph. 6.5 6. 1 Pet. 2.18 compared Quest 80. What are the duties wherein we stand obliged towards our Superiours in a spiritual or Church-consideration as Pastors and Teachers and such as are over us in the Lord Answ To esteem them very highly in Love for their work sake 1 Thes 5.13 To obey and submit our selves unto them Heb. 13.17 To attend upon their ministrie to receive their doctrine being found upon tryall agreeable to the Scriptures with gladnesse of heart to give up our selves unto it to imitate and follow them in their Christian and exemplary walkings to assert their innocency against the revilings and slanderous tongues of men to give a free and full testimony upon occasion unto their Christian worth and those good things of God that are in them to stand by them countenance and encourage them under the injurious dealings and practises of wicked men against them to make them partakers with us in all our temporal good things Gal. 6.6 to pray earnestly for them not to grieve or offend them by a loose and unworthy conversation or by any unseemly action c. Quest 81. You have declared the duties which God in this fifth Commandement requireth of inferiours to perform unto their superiours of all the three orders or kinds Natural Political and Spiritual Now inasmuch as you taught us formerly that where the duties of Inferiours towards their Superiours are commanded there the Superiours are likewise charged with reciprocall deportments in the nature of duties towards their Inferiours Will you please further to declare what God here injoyneth Superiours according to the respective kinds of superiority mentioned to perform unto their Inferiours Only by the way giving us an account if you be able why God might please to signifie and expresse superiours of all kinds by the names of naturall Parents Father and Mother as also why the Commandement plainly and in termes imposeth upon children and in them upon all other inferiours likewise their duties towards their Superiours leaving these to understand or take notice of their charge by way of consequence only or from the admonitions or demands of their consciences being diligently informed by the Scriptures concerning it But first I pray you your answer to the former of these Answ Superiours in every kind may be commended by God unto us by the names of Fathers and Mothers yea and be so stiled by way of Irem unto themselves because these are sweet and pleasant names and very probably intended by God both to signifie what affections ought to be in all superiours towards their inferiours and what reciprocally should be in these towards them as that all superiours should be as loving tender and careful over those that are under them as Fathers and Mothers are over their children and again that inferiours should be as ready willing and cheerful to obey their superiours as children are their natural Parents Quest 82. Have you any thing for an answer to the latter of the two Questions lately proposed Answ Inferiours and more particularly Children who are first intended in the Commandement and as significatours of all the rest are not so apt or inclined to enquire after their duty towards their superiours nor yet ordinarily so apprehensive or capable of it otherwise no no● yet so forward or willing to exhibite o● perform it being known as superiours in general and more especially natural Parents Fathers and Mothers are of their duties towards them It is a saying not more common then true some few exceptions there may be as to all or most general rules there are that love descendeth but ascendeth not the meaning is that comparatively or in a like proportion it seldome ascendeth One reason whereof may be because the interest of propriety which the superiour hath in the inferiour is greater and more properly such then that which the Inferiour hath in his Superiours Children are more the Parents then Parents are the Childrens that is the Parents have more to do with and more right to imploy dispose and make use of their Children to their mind and contentment which answers the notion of propriety then the Children have in respect of their Parents In like manner Subjects are more the Prince's-his or his to whom they owe Subjection then he is their's Now as it is naturall for men to love their own in what respect or degree soever they be their own whether they be things or persons so it is naturall also for them to love those things or persons more coeteris paribus as we use to
say which are more their own and wherein their propriety is larger and more compleat then those in either kind which are lesse their own So then Parents and there is a like consideration of other superiours in reference to their inferiors respectively being naturally more inclined to act the parts of Parents towards their Children and to do that which becommeth them in reference unto them then Children are to perform their duties towards their Parents this may be somwhat of the reason why God in this Commandement so expresly chargeth Children with their duty towards their Parents and Parents implicitly only and consequentially with theirs towards their Children Quest 83. Now if you please declare with what brevity you can the duties which God in this Commandement requireth of superiours in all the three kinds you mentioned towards their inferiours respectively beginning with the duties of those who are by nature such and so proceeding unto the others And first what are the duties of Parents Fathers and Mothers towards their Children Answ To be affectionately inclined towards them and to manifest and manage such their affections by a conscientious and constant ingagement of themselves in the use of all good and likely means both to make their condition good and prosperous in this world and happy and blessed also in that which is to come as by a timely consecrating them unto the service of God by Baptism by frequent and fervent prayer unto God for them by bringing them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord by a Christian honest and discreet behaviour of themselves before them by keeping them under government and in subjection with love wisdome and gravity not provoking or discouraging them by training them up to some honest course of life or calling by correcting them for their misdoings seasonably and with moderation not with anger or fiercenesse but with compassion by allowing them convenient food raiment and liberty by a timely providing for them fitting consorts in marriage if need be by reserving and laying up somewhat if they be able to leave unto them c. It lyeth upon Mothers by way of duty to become nurses if they be able to their own Children after the example of Sarah who in her old age performed that service unto her son Isaac making none other account as it seems but that it was a duty as it were of course for her so to do Gen. 21.7 Quest 84. What doth God require of those by way of duty towards the younger whom the priviledge of age hath made their Superiours as hath been said Answ That they be ready to assist them with their counsell when desired or when they see occasion otherwise that they countenance and incourage them in and unto all well doing that they admonish them with wisdome love and tendernesse when they doe amisse that they walk before them as ensamples of sobriety gravity temperance faith love patience c. that they despise them not because of their youth or set light by them because of some weaknesses incident to their years c. Quest 85. What are the duties of Husbands towards their Wives Answ To love them dearly as their own bodies and as Christ loved his Church giving himself for it Ephe. 5.25.28 To dwell with them according to knowledge that is as the knowledge of the will of God concerning their behaviour towards them in all things as it is made known in the Scriptures directeth them and requireth of them not according to humour passion lightnesse of Spirit or the like to give honour unto them as unto the weaker vessels that is as persons serviceable unto God and used by him as well as themselves although not made for such services which require the like strength either of body or of mind with those for which men are made to bear with their infirmities to take special notice of all their good services their loialty their subjection and all expressions of affection towards them from time to time and to return the same or better measure unto them both in words and in deeds discreetly and in great love and tendernesse to admonish them to instruct them in things appertaining unto God and salvation not to be bitter fierce or sharp unto them at any time but to delight in their presence to give them none occasion of jealousie to provide for them things necessary according to their state and calling to allow them convenient maintenance and liberty to stand by them in the exercise of that authority in the familie as over children and servants which belongeth unto them to protect them from affronts and injuries c. Quest 86. What is required of Superiours in guifts towards weaker Christians Answ That they bear their infirmities that is that they depise them not nor estrange themselves from them because of them this being to constrain them to bear them themselves Rom. 15.1 that they use not their liberty to their offence nor to the enboldening of them to do that which otherwise they scruple or know no sufficient ground on which to judge it lawful that they be of a condescending spirit unto them willing and ready upon all occasions to instruct and teach them as they are able to bear not giving them strong meat to eat when they are able to digest milk only c. Quest 77. What is required of the Politique superiour whether magistrate or master in reference unto those that are under them and subject unto them r spectively Answ First God imposeth this for a Law upon all magistrates zealously to desire and accordingly to endeavour by a faithful and diligent exercise of the authority and power committed unto them the wellfare and prosperity of the people under them as by procuring as much as lyeth in them wholesome necessary and just laws and such as these only to be made for the government of them by seeing justice duely executed without partiality or respect of persons by punishing those who being entrusted with the administration of justice either for reward favour ill-will or the like abuse the trust committed unto them and pervert judgment by taking an effectual course for the suppressing of evill doers and all such who contrary to the good Laws under which they live injure or molest any the members of their community by encouraging and protecting those that do well and are diligent and active in due order to promote the honour safety and wellfare of the publique by procuring all former laws to be repealed which by experience are found to be either un-necessary or ensnaring or burthensome unto the people by an honourable frugality and moderation in their expences that so they may have no occasion or temptation upon them to grind their people by hard impositions or levies of money or by any other dishonourable and un-princely courses by taking such into their nearest acquaintance and counsells who are men of wisdome and vvorth of approved integrity and publique Spirits by being vigilant and
have place in the Decalogue before those which prohibit Murther and Adultery it being commonly supposed that the sins committed against the former Commandements are greater then those against the latter Answ The meaning of the common supposal you speak of is not that all kinds or degrees of sins against the former Commandements are greater then any sin that can be committed against any latter Command but only this that the highest degree of sinning against a former Command is more sinful then the highest degree of sinning against a latter And I make little question but that there may be greater sins committed by Children against Parents and so against other Superiours by those that are under them if not by Parents also against their Children and by Superiours against those that are subject unto them then the sins of murther or adultery considered simply as such and as transgressions of those Commandements only wherein they are expresly forbidden no circumstances of aggravation from the violation of some other Commandement one or more heightning the guilt or demerit of them Yet there may I take it be this reason further why this fifth should be the frontier or leading Commandement of the second Table viz. because a conscientious and due observation of it by children and inferiours in honouring their Parents and Superiours and by these in a due deportment of themselves according to their places towards them and by a regular deportment between equalls mutually for the duties of these also are comprehended in this Commandement as was formerly noted must needs prepare the way for a constant obedience unto all the following commands or for the preventing the transgression of them Quest 92. You have declared the duties of inferiours and Superiours in all kinds mutually will you please to declare likewise in a very few words how equals stand charged one towards another by God in this Commandement Answ Equalls are to regard and own the dignity and worth each of other to demean themselves modestly peaceably and friendly one towards another and in giving honour to go one before another Rom. 12.10 Quest 93. What is the summe or scope of the sixth Commandement Answ That we seriously desire and faithfully endeavour by all means lawful proper and within our power to preserve both our own lives and persons and the lives and persons of others and that on the other hand we be conscientiously careful neither to do nor to suffer any thing to be done as farre as we have means and opportunities to prevent it that is like to endanger either Quest 94. What are the duties more particularly required in this Commandement or some of them Answ The duties here required are either such wherein we stand bound in reference unto our selves for our own preservations or such wherein we stand obliged unto others for theirs In respect of our selves we are here charged to maintain and keep up the vigour and activenesse of our minds and spirits together with the strength and good habit of our bodies that in both we may be serviceable both unto God and Men and in order unto these ends to converse with the grounds of Christian cheerfulnesse and to resist all suggestions motions and inclinations which tend to an unprofitable sadnesse and lumpishness of soul to be provident without distracting feares or cares to allow unto our selves convenient meat drink apparel lodging with seasonable recreation and physick not to weary or waste our bodies which immoderate labour nor to soak them in excessivenesse of sleep not to oppresse or injure them with inordinate eating or drinking not to expose our selves unto violence or danger either from men or in any other kind but upon very warrantable and weighty occasions and vvhen we have good reason to judge our selves called by God hereunto to prevent or qualifie the fiercenesse and bitternesse of mens Spirits against us by giving them soft words gentle answers and shevving them kindnesse upon occasion to avoid the company of cholerique quarrelsome and angry men to defend our selves with courage and with weapons if we be assaulted to use the benefit of the law if this be likely at any time to secure us in the possession of our lives or of the necessary means of them and there be no other probable course to effect it to commend the safe-guard of our lives unto God by Prayer both by night and by day and more especially when upon his account we shall expose them unto any imminent perill c. In reference unto others God in this Commandement requireth of us that we be seriously and unfeignedly desirous of their safety well-fare and peace and that we endeavour our selves accordingly upon all occasions to promote and maintain them that we rejoice at the goodnesse of God towards them in their preservation and health that we be compassionate over them when they are either sick or in trouble or in want or in danger c. and that we be cheerful and free in ministring unto them according to ability and opportunity that we exercise patience towards them in beating wrongs and hard measure from them in forgiving the injuries they do us in not despising them or withdrawing our selves our love or respects from them because of some weaknesses or wants in their words or actions that salving a good conscience we avoid all occasions of offending grieving troubling or discontenting them as by taking either their sayings or their doings in an ill sense when they are capable of a good by refusing to hear or to admit of such a purgation or defence of themselves especially if they be our inferiours being accused or suspected which is in any degree reasonable and fair by denying them any ordinary or mean courtesie when they desire it by speaking churlishly or unfriendlily to them by shewing any sign of a neglect of them by reproving them either unseasonably or over-sharply by not yielding unto them in matters of lesse consequence when they are confident that their demands are just and right with many the like In case we be molested with suits at Lave not to omit any duty or service of love towards those that are thus injurious and vex atious in this kind unto us that we stand by the poor and helplesse when he is unjustly questioned for his life or otherwise wronged and to deliver him if we able Briefly that we be really careful that no man whatsoever receive any harm from us or ours in his person by one means or other but that we make conscience both by our selves and ours as farre as we are able to prevail with them to render the lives of all men not only safe but comfortable also as farre as we have means and opportunity considering that a life which is uncomfortable is even in Scripture notion and account a kind of death yea and may very possibly have more evill in it then that which is commonly and properly called Death Therefore to do any thing willingly and without a
the sense declared will sufficiently appear and be acknowledged The Jewish Doctors out of the curiosity of their observations have as they affirm found in the books of Moses the two affirmative Commandements in the Law the fourth and the fifth for all the rest are negative multiplyed in their explication into 248. according to the number of joints in a mans body which they call commanding precepts and the eight negative Command into 365 negative commands according to the number of the daies in a year which they term precepts forbidding Both numbers added together make 613. which it seems is the just number of the Letters in the Ten Commandements The observations if true or near unto truth are not altogether uselesse Quest 17. What are the Rules or Directions you speak of which are of such use for the better and more perfect understanding of the Law and of the several precepts of it Answ The principal and most useful are 20. in number the first of them may be this The proper End of every Commandement is to lead and govern the sense and interpretation of that Commandement So that as on the one hand whatsoever directly contributeth towards this end being not repugnant to the end of another as great or greater then it is to be looked upon as commanded therein so on the other hand whatsoever is contrary to this end and of a direct tendency to hinder it is to be reckoned amongst the things forbidden in this Commandement Now the end I mean the appropriate end of every Commandement respectively is not hard to be found out A little consideration will discover it unto us Quest 18. What is a Second Rule Answ Every affirmative precept includeth his negative as on the other hand every negative his affirmative This rule is but rational and the reason of it near at hand For if God commandeth such or such a thing to be done it is plain that he forbiddeth the doing of that which is contrary to it Again when he restraineth or forbiddeth any thing it is as plain that his will and meaning is to have that done which is opposite to it If he commandeth Children to honour their Parents or inferiours their superiours he doth by the vertue and import of this Command forbid them to neglect despise or dishonour them So when he forbiddeth men to murder he doth hereby enjoyn them to be careful for the preservation of the lives of men and to use all due means when occasion requireth for the maintaining and safe guarding of them This Rule gives light to the sense and mind of God in all the Commandements Quest 19. What is the Third Rule Answ Where one sin or vice is expresly forbidden all things homogeneal hereunto that is of like nature kind or consequence are forbidden likewise It being requisite in the tenour and frame of all Laws and observed accordingly in all as well humane as divine that they be as concise and compendious in words as well may be their sense and interpretation had need be directed by some such rule as that now mentioned because otherwise their restrictive authority will not reach unto the one half of things intended to be restrained by them But to give a little light to the meaning of the rule by an instance or two Where Murther is expresly forbidden as in the 7th Commandement all assaulting of men by force all intended affrighting them all wounding or maiming their bodies the doing of any thing without just Cause that is like to cause grief or sadnesse of heart unto any the withholding the wages or hires of poor labouring men the detaining of their pledge if they have occasion to use it for their Livelyhood the refusing to pay monies when they are due unto such persons who live and subsist they with their Families by the employment of their monies in any Trade or course of life all these with many others being related in affinity unto Murther and having a direct tendency to the wasting and destroying of the lives of men are prohibited by God under the title or name of Murther In like manner in the prohibition of stealing are intended and included all such actions which directly tend to the impairing or ruining a mans outward estate yea and inward also as the setting of his house on fire the putting of Cattel into his Corn-fields the setting or leaving open gates or breaking his fence by means whereof Cattel are like to endamage him all deceit in dealings circumventing or over-reaching in bargains c. These with many others of like consideration being of the same consequence with stealings to the diminishing of a mans estate are restrained in the same Commandement with it Quest 20. What is a Fourth Rule Answ Where any duty is commanded as there is one or more in every Commandement as appears by the second Rule lately given there the u e of all regular and lawful means which are necessary or proper for the qualifying preparing or enabling men for the practise and performance of this duty is commanded likewise The reason of this Rule also is not far off For men being generally indisposed unto vertuous actions and such which are their duty to do he that enjoyneth them such actions must be conceived to injoin them as it were of course the use of such means which are proper and likely to remove that indisposition and in the stead thereof to introduce or raise an inclination or willingnesse in the Soul unto these actions or duties Yea the neglect of the use of means that are proper to prepare and sanctifie men for the performance of a duty is in reason a greater sin and for the most part more burdening the conscience yea and more provoking in the sight of God then the non-performance of the duty it self The meaning of this Rule is obvious and plain enough and needeth no further explication Quest 21. What is your Fifth Rule Answ Where any thing vicious or sinful is forbidden there all things directly tending towards the perpetration of the sin are forbidden also yea though this perpetration doth not alwaies follow upon them As for Example Where stealing is forbidden Idlenesse Slothfulnesse Prodigality Pride of Life Affectaion of costlinesse in a mans House-furniture Table Apparel c. above his standing-Revenues acquaintance and familiarity with persons addicted to these evill practises with many the like are forbidden also because though all that be Idle Prodigal c. do not actually steal yet these evill demeanours Idlenesse Prodigality c. have an expresse tendency to bring men to poverty and want of things needful in which condition they are under a sore Temptation to put forth their hand unto this Wickednesse Pro. 30.9 6.30 The reason of this Rule also is easie to be conceived For men being of themselves more generally prone more then enough unto that which is evil he that commandeth them to refrain from it notwithstanding doth vertually and by evident consequence
towards the other Superiours mentioned with the like who stand in the relation of Inferiours unto them The reason of this Rule is because the same duty or duties cannot but well become all such Relations which resemble one the other and are of a like nature and consideration at least as farr as the resemblance between them doth extend God likewise judging it meet to provide for the compendiousness of his Law as much as with conveniency might be and so not to multiply Commandements where one with a little interposure of Reason and Conscience to interpret would serve as well as many Quest 28. What is a Twelfth Rule Answ Where the duty or duties of Inferiours towards their Superiours are charged upon them the reciprocal duties of Superiours towards their Inferiours are implicitly charged upon them also Thus where the duty of the Wife towards her Husband is imposed upon her the duty of the Husband towards the Wife is consequentially and interpretatively charged upon him likewise So where the duties of Subjects of Children of Servants of the particular members of a Christian Congregation c. which they owe unto their respective Superiours all comprehended under the word honour are charged by God upon them the corresponding duties which these Superiours respectively owe unto them again are required by the same authority and upon like encouragements and penalties at their hand The reason of this Rule is because as that saying of Christ in the Gospel is founded upon plain equity Vnto whomsoever much is given of him much will be required Luk. 12.48 So when Superiours hear that the tribute of Honour Subjection Reverence Obedience Service c. from their Inferiours is awarded unto them by God their Consciences cannot lightly but tell them aloud that God whose wayes are equal Ezek. 18.25 29. demands of them in and by the same award on the behalf of their Inferiours all such reciprocations of duties which are proper for them to afford unto them as countenance protection nurture education maintenance incouragements unto well-doing and for well-doing c. as the respective natures and qualities of their places and relations of Superiority require of them and give them means and opportunities with all to perform and exhibit unto them Quest 29. What is the Thirteenth Rule Answ Where the duties of Inferiours towards their superiors and again of superiours towards their inferiours are injoyned the duties of equals towards equals are included and injoyned also The reason of this Rule is because the duties of equals towards equals may by the light and impartial debates of Reason and Conscience intervening be estimated by the nature of the reciprocal duties which mutually intercede between inferiours and superiours And God as hath been formerly hinted is not wont to multiply Precepts when any one of those few which he hath given is sufficient to shew Conscience her work by the help and improvement of her own light Now the duties between equals the duties between superiours and inferiours being well known may be estimated or computed thus My equal being in relation unto me next or neer unto him that is my superiour on the one hand and on the other next or neer likewise unto him that is my inferiour it is reasonable and meet that I allow and give unto him somewhat a certain proportion though lesse of that honour which I owe to my superiours and also a like proportion of that protection care moderation and other duties which I owe to my inferiours Quest 30. What is the Fourteenth Rule Answ Where any duty one or more which I owe unto another man as a man or unto my Neighbour is enjoyned me here I am charged with the performance of the same or like duties towards my self only with such exceptions interpretations or provisoes which the Scriptures themselves that are the best Expounders of the Law as well as the common light of Reason inform me ought to be made in the case Thus where I am commanded not to wrong my Neighbour either in his repute estate relations limbs or life and the like I stand charged not to injure or prejudice my self in any of these So where I am commanded to love my Neighbour to be helpfull unto him in his need to counsel and advise him the best I can as well in his spiritual as temporal affairs to bear his burthens to cover his infirmities to uphold his reputation as farre as with truth and a good Conscience I am able c. all these with several others of like nature I stand bound by the same Commandement to perform unto my self Only as the saying is There is no general Rule without its exceptions So in the case of the Rule before us there are some things of which I am a debtor unto my Neighbour by vertue of the Commandement of God of which I am not hereby made a debtor unto my self It is my duty upon occasion to give as large a testimony unto my Neighbour and to speak as much good of him as with truth and knowledge I can but it is not proper for me to do the like by my self So if my Neighbour be overtaken with a fault I stand bound in duty to restore that is to endeavour to restore him in the spirit of meeknesse Gal. 6.1 but I am not bound to shew the like tenderness to my self in the like case Some other particulars there may be though I presume they are not many which the Commandements of God that oblige me to my Neighbour do not impose upon me to perform at least in the letter of them or othervvise then in a way of proportion or equipollency unto my self And these variations vvhich are but interpretations of the said Commandements respectively are prescribed and taught as was even now hinted in the Scriptures But the reason of the Rule may be this All those things which God judgeth meet to be performed and done by every man unto other being in their natures beneficial and good unto all those to whom they ought to be and are performed by whomsoever they are performed and consequently being such unto every man though performed unto him by himself therefore to salve the brevity intended in his Law he enjoyns every mans duty to himself in the same Commandement with his duty to other men Quest 31. What is the Fifteenth Rule Answ When two Commandements meet in opposition the one unto the other so that they cannot both be obeyed the greater ought to have the homage of obedience performed unto it the binding force of the lesser ceasing in such a case so that if the greater be performed there is no transgression of the lesse Our Saviour giveth testimony to the truth and usefulness of this Rule in two or three Instances First where the Levitical Law allowing the eating of the Shew-bread unto the Priests only meeting with the Morall Law which enjoyneth the use of means for the preservation of life upon such terms that obedience could not