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The house-holders helpe, for domesticall discipline: or A familiar conference of household instruction and correction fit for the godly gouernment of Christian families. Dedicated to all religious house-holders by R.R. minister of Gods Word.
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R. R., minister of Gods Word.
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the_o householder_n help_v for_o domestical_a discipline_n or_o a_o familiar_a conference_n of_o household_n instruction_n and_o correction_n fit_a for_o the_o godly_a government_n of_o christian_a family_n dedicate_v to_o all_o religious_a householder_n by_o r._n r._n minister_n of_o god_n word_n revel_v 3._o 19_o as_o many_o as_o i_o love_v i_o rebuke_v and_o chasten_v be_v zealous_a therefore_o and_o repent_v print_a at_o london_n by_o george_n purslowe_n for_o john_n budge_n and_o be_v to_o be_v sell_v at_o the_o great_a south_n door_n of_o paul_n and_o at_o britain_n burse_n 1615._o to_o all_o religious_a householders_n their_o child_n and_o servant_n the_o save_a knowledge_n of_o god_n holy_a word_n most_o hearty_o wish_v in_o the_o first_o chapter_n of_o the_o proverb_n of_o solomon_n it_o be_v write_v thus_o in_o the_o eight_o and_o nine_o verse_n my_o son_n hear_v the_o instruction_n of_o thy_o father_n and_o forget_v not_o the_o law_n of_o thy_o mother_n for_o they_o shall_v be_v a_o ornament_n of_o grace_n unto_o thy_o head_n and_o chain_n about_o thy_o neck_n from_o which_o word_n may_v be_v draw_v a_o double_a doctrine_n first_o that_o all_o godly_a parent_n shall_v teach_v and_o instruct_v their_o child_n in_o the_o law_n of_o the_o lord_n second_o that_o their_o child_n shall_v learn_v &_o obey_v their_o wholesome_a instruction_n for_o the_o first_o we_o have_v both_o practice_n and_o precept_n thereof_o in_o the_o sacred_a scripture_n the_o practice_n in_o david_n who_o child_n 1_o the_o practice_n of_o godly_a parent_n in_o teach_v their_o child_n teach_v solomon_n his_o son_n say_v and_o thou_o solomon_n my_o son_n know_v thou_o the_o god_n of_o thy_o father_n and_o serve_v he_o with_o a_o perfect_a heart_n and_o with_o a_o willing_a mind_n 1._o chron._n 28._o 9_o solomon_n also_o say_v that_o his_o father_n david_n teach_v he_o and_o say_v unto_o he_o keep_v my_o commandment_n and_o live_v get_v wisdom_n get_v understanding_n etc._n etc._n prou._n 4._o 4._o this_o be_v the_o practice_n always_o not_o only_o of_o godly_a father_n but_o also_o of_o godly_a mother_n so_o do_v king_n lemuel_n mother_n she_o teach_v her_o son_n lesson_n of_o chastity_n of_o temperance_n of_o defend_v the_o afflict_a of_o choose_v use_v and_o commend_v a_o virtuous_a wife_n as_o appeareth_z throughout_o the_o 31._o chapter_n of_o the_o proverbe_n and_o in_o this_o first_o chapter_n thereof_o in_o the_o eight_o and_o nine_o verse_n solomon_n presuppose_v that_o all_o godly_a mother_n will_v be_v helper_n to_o their_o husband_n in_o the_o religious_a and_o godly_a instruction_n parent_n 2_o precept_n of_o this_o duty_n require_v it_o of_o parent_n of_o their_o child_n second_o we_o have_v in_o the_o scripture_n plentiful_a store_n of_o precept_n require_v this_o duty_n of_o all_o godly_a parent_n as_o deut._n 4._o 10._o deut._n 6._o 6._o 7._o deut._n 11._o 19_o psalm_n 78._o 5._o 6._o prou._n 22._o 6._o in_o which_o place_n last_o mention_v solomon_n say_v teach_v a_o child_n in_o the_o way_n that_o he_o shall_v go_v and_o when_o he_o be_v old_a he_o will_v not_o depart_v from_o it_o and_o ephes_n 6._o 4._o father_n provoke_v not_o your_o child_n unto_o wrath_n but_o bring_v they_o up_o in_o nurture_n and_o information_n of_o the_o lord_n three_o there_o be_v many_o reason_n and_o duty_n 3_o reason_n to_o persuade_v parent_n to_o perform_v the_o foresay_a duty_n motive_n in_o the_o sacred_a scripture_n to_o persuade_v all_o godly_a parent_n to_o the_o performance_n of_o this_o duty_n which_o i_o will_v hereafter_o in_o another_o place_n more_o large_o relate_v mean_v time_n remember_v o_o christian_n parent_n and_o look_v back_o to_o salomon_n motive_n they_o 1_o by_o the_o practice_n thereof_o they_o shall_v make_v they_o virtuous_a and_o gracious_a adorn_v they_o and_o dignify_v they_o yea_o enrich_v they_o and_o advance_v they_o in_o this_o text_n prou._n 1._o 8._o 9_o to_o wit_n that_o parent_n shall_v by_o the_o blessing_n of_o god_n upon_o their_o good_a instruction_n make_v their_o child_n religious_a and_o virtuous_a as_o god_n promise_v prou._n 22._o 6._o yea_o they_o shall_v thereby_o adorn_v they_o and_o dignify_v they_o enrich_v they_o and_o make_v they_o honourable_a and_o gracious_a both_o with_o god_n and_o man_n which_o solomon_n also_o mean_v when_o he_o say_v that_o their_o instruction_n shall_v be_v a_o ornament_n of_o grace_n about_o their_o head_n and_o chain_n about_o their_o neck_n contrariwise_o do_v thou_o neglect_v this_o man_n 2_o by_o neglect_n of_o it_o they_o make_v they_o most_o miserable_a poor_a naked_a loathsome_a and_o odious_a both_o to_o god_n and_o man_n duty_n of_o instruct_v they_o then_o do_v thou_o make_v they_o most_o miserable_a poor_a filthy_a naked_a and_o deform_a yea_o most_o loathsome_a and_o odious_a both_o to_o god_n and_o man_n as_o be_v the_o laodicean_n by_o their_o blindness_n revel_v 3._o 17._o &_o 18._o and_o elye_v his_o son_n by_o their_o profaneness_n 1._o sam._n 2._o 12._o &_o 17._o yea_o assure_o it_o may_v be_v say_v of_o thou_o that_o through_o thy_o negligence_n thou_o make_v thy_o child_n as_o aaron_n do_v the_o people_n even_o naked_a unto_o their_o shame_n exod._n 32._o 25._o yea_o and_o unto_o thy_o own_o shame_n and_o ruin_n for_o ever_o without_o repentance_n remember_v elyes_n downfall_n and_o his_o son_n though_o ely_n be_v a_o elect_a because_o he_o do_v not_o continual_o admonish_v they_o and_o due_o correct_v they_o he_o admonish_v they_o earnest_o for_o a_o fit_a 1._o sam._n 2._o 23._o but_o not_o constant_o say_v some_o neither_o do_v he_o correct_v and_o chastise_v they_o according_o 1._o sam._n 3._o 13._o but_o hereof_o we_o have_v near_a example_n even_o at_o home_n for_o if_o we_o cast_v our_o eye_n upon_o the_o world_n we_o may_v by_o daily_a experience_n see_v that_o such_o child_n as_o be_v leave_v unto_o themselves_o without_o discipline_n they_o shame_v themselves_o and_o their_o parent_n and_o live_v in_o all_o outrageous_a evil_n in_o swear_v bessel_v whore_v mock_v lie_v murmur_a sabbath-breaking_a steal_v etc._n etc._n till_o at_o length_n they_o come_v to_o fearful_a end_n accuse_v then_o their_o parent_n neglect_v of_o discipline_n who_o draw_v they_o to_o destruction_n as_o the_o dragon_n draw_v down_o the_o star_n with_o his_o tail_n revel_v 12._o 4._o remember_v o_o parent_n that_o your_o parent_n 3_o the_o necessity_n and_o equity_n of_o this_o duty_n to_o be_v perform_v by_o parent_n child_n have_v receive_v corruption_n from_o you_o by_o natural_a birth_n and_o by_o conception_n have_v therefore_o pollute_v they_o you_o shall_v be_v careful_a to_o purge_v they_o they_o be_v conceive_v you_o know_v in_o sin_n and_o shape_a in_o iniquity_n psal_n 51._o 5._o they_o be_v by_o natural_a birth_n as_o all_o other_o be_v the_o child_n of_o wrath_n and_o condemnation_n ephe._n 2._o 3._o o_o therefore_o let_v christian_a equity_n and_o pity_n move_v you_o to_o use_v all_o good_a mean_n that_o they_o may_v be_v get_v again_o by_o the_o seed_n of_o regeneration_n 1._o pet._n 1._o 23._o to_o which_o purpose_n prepare_v they_o for_o the_o spiritual_a seed_n by_o catechise_n they_o and_o when_o it_o be_v sow_o in_o they_o endeavour_n by_o daily_a admonition_n and_o good_a instruction_n to_o harrow_v it_o and_o to_o root_v it_o into_o their_o heart_n in_o so_o do_v it_o 4_o a_o far_o enlarge_n of_o the_o utility_n and_o benefit_n of_o good_a instruction_n by_o specifi_a some_o particular_n of_o it_o whereas_o they_o be_v by_o natural_a birth_n only_o carnal_a joh._n 3._o 6._o and_o fleshly_a have_v not_o the_o spirit_n jude_n 5._o 19_o and_o so_o do_v resemble_v satan_n and_o be_v his_o image_n you_o shall_v cause_v they_o to_o become_v spiritual_a and_o so_o to_o resemble_v god_n himself_o john_n 4._o 24._o and_o to_o become_v the_o image_n of_o god_n colos_n 3._o 8._o 9_o ephe._n 4._o 23._o 24._o that_o seed_n of_o regeneration_n sow_v in_o their_o soul_n will_v keep_v and_o preserve_v they_o from_o the_o dominion_n and_o power_n of_o sin_n so_o that_o they_o shall_v not_o sin_n as_o do_v other_o 1._o thes_n 5._o 6._o and_o cant._n 5._o 2._o nor_o as_o satan_n and_o his_o son_n do_v sin_n in_o a_o constant_a course_n nor_o to_o condemnation_n rom._n 8._o 1._o because_o god_n seed_n remain_v in_o they_o and_o because_o they_o be_v bear_v of_o god_n 1._o john_n 3._o 8._o 9_o last_o by_o that_o seed_n of_o regeneration_n once_o receive_v they_o be_v make_v immortal_a as_o the_o seed_n itself_o be_v which_o be_v therefore_o call_v immortal_a seed_n 1._o pet._n 1._o 23._o 24._o 25._o because_o it_o make_v they_o immortal_a and_o to_o live_v for_o ever_o which_o do_v receive_v it_o john_n 5._o 24._o marcus_n aurelius_n speak_v sometime_o to_o such_o as_o be_v to_o teach_v his_o
willing_a for_o their_o own_o credit_n and_o profit_n to_o hear_v and_o obey_v their_o parent_n instruction_n three_o let_v master_n for_o the_o like_a respect_n of_o god_n commandment_n and_o their_o own_o commodity_n in_o make_v they_o to_o serve_v themselves_o in_o the_o lord_n be_v diligent_a to_o catechise_v instruct_v and_o admonish_v they_o according_o the_o householder_n help_v for_o domestical_a discipline_n or_o a_o familiar_a conference_n concern_v christian_n instruction_n and_o correction_n fit_a for_o godly_a family_n the_o first_o conference_n betwixt_o a_o gracious_a gentleman_n and_o his_o elder_a son_n and_o heir_n concern_v household_n instruction_n omit_v father_z son_n i_o have_v send_v for_o you_o as_o job_n send_v for_o his_o son_n who_o though_o his_o son_n dwell_v apart_o from_o he_o and_o have_v house_n and_o family_n of_o their_o own_o yet_o he_o send_v and_o call_v they_o home_o to_o his_o house_n to_o give_v they_o needful_a own_o needful_a father_n be_v to_o admonish_v their_o child_n though_o they_o dwell_v apart_o from_o they_o and_o have_v family_n of_o their_o own_o admonition_n job._n 1._o 4._o &_o 5._o verse_n son_n good_a father_n i_o thank_v god_n for_o that_o your_o christian_a care_n of_o i_o and_o according_a to_o my_o duty_n i_o will_v be_v willing_a and_o glad_a to_o receive_v any_o good_a instruction_n from_o you_o father_z i_o desire_v to_o have_v some_o religious_a conference_n with_o you_o and_o to_o admonish_v you_o concern_v discipline_n concern_v the_o subject_n or_o matter_n of_o the_o whole_a conference_n concern_v domestical_a discipline_n domestical_a discipline_n for_o i_o have_v hear_v that_o your_o family_n be_v not_o conference_n not_o the_o occasion_n of_o this_o first_o conference_n catechize_v admonish_v nor_o correct_v according_a as_o former_o it_o be_v wont_a to_o be_v by_o your_o wife_n when_o you_o be_v from_o home_n and_o which_o more_o be_v i_o hear_v that_o yourself_o do_v ofttimes_o fail_v in_o the_o foresay_a duty_n when_o you_o be_v at_o home_n be_v it_o so_o my_o son_n be_v it_o so_o son_n good_a father_n with_o shame_n and_o sorrow_n for_o it_o i_o do_v confess_v it_o to_o be_v so_o we_o be_v much_o subject_n to_o spiritual_a idleness_n and_o to_o worldly_a carefulness_n i_o pray_v god_n give_v we_o pardon_v of_o and_o power_n against_o these_o sin_n father_z i_o be_o sort_n my_o son_n i_o be_o very_o sorry_a for_o reformation_n for_o parent_n shall_v be_v greeve_v at_o their_o child_n ungodliness_n and_o pray_v for_o their_o reformation_n you_o i_o pray_v god_n forgive_v you_o and_o amend_v these_o evil_a manner_n in_o you_o i_o perceive_v by_o your_o tear_n and_o speech_n that_o you_o be_v humble-minded_n and_o you_o do_v well_o to_o confess_v your_o sin_n and_o to_o crave_v pardon_n of_o they_o and_o power_n against_o they_o sin_n they_o we_o shall_v prayas_n earnest_o for_o power_n against_o sin_n as_o for_o pardon_v of_o sin_n as_o david_n do_v psal_n 19_o 13._o and_o as_o christ_n direct_v we_o all_o to_o do_v mat._n 6._o 12._o 13._o consider_v also_o my_o son_n that_o unless_o you_o do_v as_o well_o forsake_v your_o sin_n as_o confess_v your_o sin_n you_o have_v no_o promise_n of_o the_o pardon_n of_o they_o pro._n 28._o 13._o 14._o esay_n 55._o 7._o nay_o pardon_n be_v deny_v to_o they_o that_o go_v on_o in_o their_o sin_n denounce_v sin_n pardom_n of_o sin_n be_v deny_v to_o they_o which_o continue_v in_o sin_n and_o their_o destruction_n be_v denounce_v deut._n 29._o 20._o psal_n 68_o 21._o in_o which_o place_n you_o may_v also_o see_v that_o unavoidable_a destruction_n shall_v seize_v upon_o all_o such_o son_n o_o my_o father_n my_o heart_n desire_n be_v not_o to_o love_v sin_n nor_o to_o live_v in_o sin_n but_o to_o loath_a and_o to_o leave_v all_o sin_n show_v i_o i_o beseech_v you_o by_o what_o mean_v i_o may_v subdue_v and_o overmaster_v these_o my_o predominant_a sin_n these_o so_o strong_a and_o mighty_a giant_n father_z if_o you_o desire_v to_o overcome_v these_o strong_a corruption_n these_o mighty_a champion_n sin_n champion_n the_o mean_n to_o overcome_v our_o strong_a corruption_n and_o our_o predominant_a sin_n you_o must_v be_v strong_a in_o the_o lord_n and_o in_o the_o power_n of_o his_o might_n wrestle_v stout_o and_o constant_o encounter_v with_o they_o ephe._n 6._o 10._o you_o have_v hitherto_o let_v the_o spiritual_a sword_n too_o much_o rust_n in_o the_o sheath_n if_o you_o have_v often_o draw_v that_o spiritual_a sword_n and_o skilful_o with_o courage_n and_o constancy_n resist_v satan_n with_o it_o as_o you_o be_v will_v ephe._n 6._o 10._o etc._n etc._n &_o verse_n 16._o 17._o 18._o satan_n will_v have_v flee_v as_o god_n have_v promise_v james_n 4._o 8._o ephe._n 6._o 16._o and_o as_o christ_n for_o our_o consolation_n and_o direction_n have_v show_v matthew_n 4._o 11._o now_o therefore_o you_o must_v be_v better_o arm_v with_o more_o courage_n and_o constancy_n against_o the_o next_o encounter_n mean_v time_n you_o must_v judge_v yourself_o that_o you_o may_v come_v may_v the_o mean_n to_o prevent_v future_a judgement_n be_v to_o judge_v ourselves_o before_o they_o come_v prevent_v future_a judgment_n 1._o cor._n 11._o 31._o son_n what_o i_o pray_v you_o be_v it_o and_o how_o be_v we_o to_o endeavour_n it_o to_o judge_v ourselves_o aright_o father_z as_o a_o temporal_a judge_n do_v first_o examine_v the_o malefactor_n and_o their_o evil_n do_v what_o how_o many_o how_o great_a etc._n etc._n and_o then_o proceed_v to_o punish_v so_o must_v we_o in_o judge_v ourselves_o aright_o ourselves_o the_o degree_n of_o judge_v aright_o first_o examine_v ourselves_o what_o how_o many_o and_o how_o great_a evil_n we_o have_v commit_v next_o we_o must_v proceed_v to_o a_o spiritual_a judgement_n censure_n &_o punishment_n by_o arraign_v our_o soul_n and_o spirit_n with_o indignation_n indite_v they_o of_o high_a treason_n and_o rebellion_n against_o god_n at_o the_o tribunal_n seat_n of_o god_n three_o we_o must_v put_v up_o supplication_n with_o strong_a cry_n in_o the_o name_n of_o christ_n for_o pardon_n of_o sin_n past_a and_o power_n against_o sin_n to_o come_v four_o we_o must_v curb_v and_o correct_v ourselves_o even_o corporal_o and_o external_o take_v revenge_n of_o ourselves_o for_o our_o former_a fault_n 2._o cor._n 7._o 12._o by_o watch_n fasting_n and_o by_o restrain_v ourselves_o from_o many_o lawful_a delight_n joel_n 2._o 16._o five_o we_o must_v cross_v our_o corrupt_a course_n by_o contrary_a course_n opposite_a to_o our_o former_a vice_n dan._n 4._o 24._o for_o as_o the_o rule_n be_v contraria_fw-la contrarijs_fw-la curantur_fw-la contrary_n be_v cure_v by_o their_o contrary_n and_o last_o if_o afterward_o all_o these_o mean_n be_v use_v you_o be_v again_o and_o again_o overcome_v with_o these_o corruption_n yet_o cease_v not_o to_o encounter_v bid_v battle_n always_o unto_o they_o and_o with_o great_a force_n afresh_o resist_v they_o consider_v that_o true_a christian_n have_v always_o crucify_v the_o flesh_n gal._n 5._o 24._o and_o do_v daily_o mortify_v their_o earthly_a member_n in_o regard_n of_o that_o glorious_a life_n that_o they_o look_v for_o col._n invitet_fw-la bernard_n si_fw-mi labour_n teterret_n merces_fw-la invitet_fw-la 3._o 4._o 5._o job._n 31._o 2._o son_n dear_a father_n this_o your_o counsel_n and_o comfort_n be_v as_o sweetness_n to_o my_o soul_n and_o as_o heal_n to_o the_o bone_n that_o be_v break_v pro._n 16._o 24._o father_z give_v ear_n then_o again_o and_o i_o will_v yet_o go_v on_o in_o this_o argument_n of_o judge_v punish_v and_o correct_v yourself_o upon_o often_o relapse_n and_o fall_v into_o one_o and_o the_o same_o offence_n which_o if_o you_o do_v you_o shall_v prevent_v both_o temporal_a and_o eternal_a judgement_n of_o sin_n and_o in_o time_n overcome_v the_o sin_n itself_o of_o what_o sort_n or_o how_o great_a soever_o the_o sin_n be_v with_o which_o you_o be_v ourselves_o be_v the_o utility_n of_o judge_v ourselves_o in_o war_n son_n o_o but_o yet_o some_o sin_n be_v much_o more_o strong_a then_o that_o i_o can_v weak_a wretch_n that_o i_o be_o ever_o be_v able_a to_o overcome_v they_o of_o which_o sort_n be_v those_o i_o fear_v i_o aforementioned_a father_z o_o nay_o say_v not_o so_o my_o son_n have_v you_o ever_o aforetime_o overcome_v lesser_a sin_n yea_o i_o do_v know_v you_o have_v you_o say_v you_o have_v overcome_v rash_a anger_n swear_v etc._n etc._n why_o then_o mark_v what_o comfort_n from_o thence_o you_o may_v conceive_v unto_o your_o soul_n corruption_n soul_n comfort_n to_o encounter_v with_o our_o strong_a corruption_n he_o that_o can_v over-uercome_a rash_a anger_n wrath_n pride_n lust_n or_o any_o other_o like_a be_v strong_a than_o he_o that_o overcome_v a_o city_n pro._n 16._o 23._o saint_n james_n do_v affirm_v that_o the_o tongue_n be_v a_o