him to his own Mother to be his Nurse and she pays his own Mother for him And so the Lord he will deal with you that are parents that act in faith and perform your duties in faith the Lord will reward you for your love to your own children for taking care of your own children all your labour is taken notice of by the Lord and you shall be rewarded Oh! what an encourageis here to all Parents to look after faith in Christ that so your service may be accepted of the Lord One thing more and so I conclude and that is a word to children is it so that there is so much love in the hearts of Parents to their children is there so much that Parents do from love to children oh that children would labour to know what is their duty that they owe to Parents it cannot be told it cannot be exprest how much it is that children owe unto parents Children it is impossible that ever you should requite the love of your parents oh the pains the travel and sorrow of bringing forth and bringing up oh that children might know that there is a great engagement lies upon them to love their parents to respect their parents to take heed that they do not grieve their parents to pass by all in firmities of parents to shew all respect to them and when grown up to take care of them And this is a duty that Christ lays upon you though a Moral duty see what is said in 1 Tim. where children may see what Christ injoyns them 1 Tim. 5. 4. But if any widow have children or Nephews let them learn first to shew piety at home and to requite their parents for that is good and acceptable before God God lays this duty upon children you should labour to requite your parents to remember their love their care their sorrow their pains and travel and you are bound by the Law of Christ to requite your parents this is good this is piety and this is acceptable to God And so that place Levit. 19. 3. Ye shall fear every man his Mother and his Father and keep my Sabbaths I am the Lord your God Here is a duty that God lays upon children to fear every man his Mother and Father Children are most apt to despise their Mothers therefore the Lord begins there and lays that duty first that children should fear every man his Mother And take notice of it that this is a duty that the Lord sets before the keeping of his Sabbath as if the Lord should say in vain shall they pretend to be Religious if they do not fear and reverence every man his Mother and his Father I will not accept of your service It was a brand that was set upon Esau to all generations that he did that which was a grief to his Father and Mother Now children see your duty and remember your duty which the Lord Jesus lays upon you And oh that children would labour for faith that they may perform their duties Parents cannot love their children aright till they have faith and truly children cannot reverence their parents nor perform the duties they owe unto parents unless they have faith Oh then that Parents and children would look up to Christ for faith and then shall both be able through faith in Christ to perform that mutual duty that God requires from parents and children And to shut up all let this that hath been spoken strengthen the faith of all Gods people in Gods love to them Oh that by this we might ascend to the love of God! O that they that think they have not been concerned in what hath been spoken hitherto would know they are concerned in this The Lord would have you to ascend by the consideration of the bowels that are in parents to their children to a consideration of those infinite bowels that are in him towards you that are his children As the Father pitieth his children so the Lord pitieth them that fear him what ever workings of love are in the hearts of parents towards their children oh know that there is larger workings of love in the heart of God towards his children there are infinite bowels in the everlasting Father and if there be so much pity in the hearts of parents that they are willing and ready to give out good things to their children and willing to pass by and to pardon the miscarriages of their children oh how much more willing is our God to pass by and to pardon the failings of you that are his children oh that this might encourage prodigal children to return to the Lord If the father receive his child that hath been a prodigal why the Lord is ready to receive you though a prodigal if the Lord give you an heart to return though you have spent all and abused all your mercies yet the Lord is ready to pardon and to receive you And let it strengthen your faith and hope in Christ you that cleave to Christ for righteousness you that are the children of that everlasting Father oh know that Christ will plead for you Christ will cry to his Father for you Was the woman of Candan so affected with the misery of her daughter that she cries Lord have mercy on me my daughter is grievously vexed with a devil 〈◊〉 I say this found in this woman towards her daughter and shall not this be found in Christ towards his children oh then let this comfort you when you scarce dare go to God and cry your selves such and such a corruption doth annoy you such and such an unclean spirit is in you Oh! the Lord Jesus pities you under every spiritual burden when as you are troubled with unclean spirits he hath bowels of compassion towards you and know that he will go to his Father and cry to his Father and if he cry he cannot deny the son of his love but an answer shall be given to all those requests that Christ puts up for you or for any of his people Matth. 15. 23. But he answered her not a word SERMON VIII I Come now to speak of the trial of this womans faith and here is the first tryal of her faith he answered her not a word A very great trial a sore trial that this poor woman should in her great strait and under such a burden and pressure of spirit come to Jesus Christ and cry so earnestly unto him and believe so stedfastly upon him and yet Jesus Christ give her not one word of answer to her prayer this was a sore trial for this carriage of Christ it seems to be contrary to what she had heard of Christ and to what she believed was in Jesus Christ for Christ seemed now either to be without compassion to her he seems to take no notice not to be affected she complained and cried out of her great burden and Christ speaks not a word the Lord Jesus Christ seems either not to be affected with her
towards him And when the Captains went forth to battel David gave this charge that they should deal gently with him for my sake Thus you see how the hearts of parents works towards their children Fourthly That natural affection that God hath planted in the hearts of parents towards their children doth teach them to accept willingly any service that is done by their children though it be never so weakly done yet if the Father sees that the child hath done its good will in obedience and in love O! how acceptable is the least piece of service done by such a child And therefore the Lord taketh an argument from this to strengthen his peoples faith I will spare them as a man spareth his own son that serveth him Mal. 3. 17. Fifthly Natural affection will teach the parents to supply all the wants of the children O! what care doth parents take to supply their childrens wants that they may want nothing that is good for them They shall have that which is sutable to them Ye that are evil know how to give good gifts to your children What care do parents take of their children while young to supply their wants And what care do they take to make provision for their children when they are dead and gone Nay do not many a poor parent undoe himself to make provision for his children that he may make them great in this world and leave them something when he be dead and gone Sixthly and lastly to name no more The love that is in parents makes them exceeding unwilling to part with their children it is the greatest affliction in the world they had rather loose all their estates then loose their children Nay though parents many times be so poor as they cannot keep their children yet how loath are they to part with their children The poor Widdow we readâ—â— 2 King 4. 1. all her estate was gone nothing left her but her two sons the creditor came to take unto him her two sons from her but how loth was she to part with her two sons Nay how hard is it for parents to part with their children when God takes away their children by death You know that Instance of Job Job 1. he did bear very well all the afflictions and losses that he met withall till he came to loose his children the messengers came and told him that all his estate was taken away and you read of nothing that Job said but when they come and told him his children were slain then Job rent his mantle and fell down upon the ground and worshipped To loose his estate was nothing but to hear that all his children were slain he rent his mantle and fell down upon the ground a token of his great sorrow And you know how David was affected when they brought him word that Absolom was killed he went up to the chamber over the gate and he wept as he went saying O my son Absolom would God I had died for thee A most pathetical complaint that this poor man makes when his child was taken away though he was a wicked child and one that sought his fathers life Thus you see the first part of the Doctrine that God hath planted natural affection in the hearts of parents to their children But secondly I shall shewe you that where there is faith natural affection cannot work alone but faith will rectifie natural affection faith will teach Parents to love their children aright Natural affection will teach them to love their children ah but spiritual love that springs from faith will teach them to love their children aright Quest But you will say to me when may Parents be said to love their children aright or how shall we know that the love of Parents to their children is not only the working of Natural affection Answ First where there is faith it will teach Parents to love the souls of their children Nature will teach to provide for the body but the Spirit of the Lord that teaches Parents to look after the souls of their children now when the soul is loved and respected more then the body then do Parents love their children aright In Gen. 17. 18. you may see what a request Abraham doth make for his son Ishmael Oh! that Ishmael might live before thee God hath been making many gracious promises to Abraham concerning another Seed but Abraham did not forget his son Ishmael neither could he beg that he might have a great estate but that he might live in the sight of the Lord When Parents take care of the souls of their children then Parents love their children aright Secondly Parents love their children aright when as they do love them in obedience to the Lord when they love them and when they take pains and act for them and perform all offices of love to them in obedience to the Lord when Parents do bring up their children and perform every duty to them in obedience to the Lord these are the children that the Lord hath graciously given his servant and so he love them and perform duties to them that he may obey the Lord and be found working the work of his station and relation in bringing up these children to the Lord this is that love that is not only natural but spiritual Thirdly Again Parents love their children aright when as they have an eye to the Covenant of God concerning their children when they have an eye to the promises of God that he hath made to the children of Believers He hath said that they that come of thee shall build the old waste places When as Parents thus eye the Covenant of God in looking upon their children as the Lords and these are they that the Lord hath said he will own and so love their children more because they are the Lords then theirs because the Lord hath promised that he will own them and make use of them And so I conceive Moseâ—'s Mother had respect to this in her love to her child Hebr. 11. 23. By faith Moses when he was born was hid three Months of his Parents because they saw he was a proper child and they not afraid of the Kings commandment Her love sprung from faith when she hid her child Moses three months it was not from Natural affection but from faith By faith Moses when he was born was hid three months because they saw he was a proper child and they not afraid of the Kings commandment The Kings commandment was that all the Male-children should be drowned and to disobey his commandment it did endanger their own lives ah but by faith she ventured she looked upon her child as one that God would make use of she was perswaded that God would make use of this child Moses to do something for the future she knew that there was a promise that God would deliver his people and she knew not but that this might be the Man and so was not afraid but by faith hid him
Fourthly Parents love their children aright when as they are much praying for their children presenting their children to the Lord and praying for them crying to the Lord in their behalf for the blessing of the Lord upon them when they are very instant with God that he would take away the guilt of original sin that is upon their children and the guilt of actual transgressions that are found upon their children Job every day took a sacrifice and sacrificed for his Sons and Daughters he prayed for them he was careful that sin might not lie upon them Oh that was spiritual love that was found in Job it was of a right stamp he was careful that the guilt of sin might not lie upon them and therefore he every day offered a sacrifice to the Lord. And the woman of Canaan she cries in the behalf of her child she comes to Christ and cries to him for her child And so when Parents go to Christ for their children when under bodily Infirmities go to Christ for them and when under spiritual Infirmities go to Christ for them pleading with Christ for them then do Parents love their children aright Fifthly when Parents are careful to educate their children for God when they are careful that God may be honoured by their children that their children may be instructed so as to honour God when they desire and endeavour to prevent all dishonour that may be done to God by their children to reprove them and to rebuke them and not to be so indulgent as old Eli was which proved to be the ruine of the whole family I say when Parents are careful that God may not be dishonoured but labour that their children may be instrumental for God and they do seek the Lord for this thing and do deal with them upon this account and are careful to instruct them and to lay before them the mind of God and careful so to dispose of them as God may be served by them when this is the care of Parents this is a discovery that their love is not only natural affection but spiritual grace and their natural affection is set right by their faith which the Lord is pleased to bestow upon them For the Application First Take notice what a mercy it is that God hath planted such Natural affections in the hearts of Parents it is a great mercy it is that which is little taken notice of but it is that which we and all in the world have cause to bless God for that parents yea those that are evil can do so much good for their children give out of the good things which they have to their children there is much of the wisdom and goodness of God in it that Parents should do so much for their children when they doe not deserve it it is long before it can deserve any thing nay when grown up there are many times contrary deserts and that yet the hearts of arents should be kept up towards their children as I said before there is a great deal of the wisdom and goodness of God in it for there is a great deal of evil thereby prevented a great deal of sin and cruelty that is prevented by the Lords giving of natural affection Oh admire the wisdom goodness of God in this Secondly Let Parents know that this is not enough to have natural affection and love to their children but oh that Parents would labour to love their children aright It is not enough to love them much to have great natural affections but let Parents labour to love their children aright labour so to love them as to love their souls to take care of their souls which is a thousand times more worth then the body labour to love them in obedience to God labour to eye the Covenant of God in loving your children be more in seeking the face of God in the behalf of your children Oh that Parents would look upon it as their duty to pray more for their children Oh look upon Abraham and let him be your pattern how did he cry to the Lord in the behalf of Ishmael it lies upon all Parents to go to God for their children yea for every one in particular Oh that such an one might live in thy sight Look upon the woman of Canaan how did she cry to Christ for her daughter oh Lord have mercy upon me Now let Parents go to Christ for their children oh go and cry for the souls of thy children as this woman did for the body of her daughter oh Lord I see such a corruption in such a child and such a lust in such a child oh that the Son of David would have mercy on them We should go to Christ for the souls of our children that Christ would cast out those corruptions that we see sprouting in our children Thirdly Oh that this might provoke us all to look after faith what need have Parents to labour for faith in Jesus Christ if it be but upon this account that you may love your children aright oh look to Christ for faith cry unto Christ to give you faith that so you may love your children aright There may be a great deal of natural affection in parents they may dote upon their children and undo their children and yet not love them aright for it is impossible that a man or woman that hath not faith to love children aright they cannot love their children aright till they have faith And to provoke all parents to look after faith upon this account of their children let me say this to you that faith will teach you to love your children impartially There is a great deal of partiality in natural affection and it runs out much to one child and neglects another ah but with spiritual love it is not so When Parents love their children aright it will teach to love their children more equally not to love one more then another unless they see more of God in one then another Again let me tell you that faith will make your work to your children easie there is a great deal of labour travel and pains as you have heard to bring forth children and a hard work to bring up children when brought forth but faith will make your work more easie when as God is eyed in it and so you are bringing up children for God when as you are loving and caring for children in obedience to God Oh this will make your work more easie And further let me tell you that faith will make your work more acceptable to God That work you are doing for children when it is done in faith is accepted if you love your children in faith the Lord will take it well at your hand and the Lord will reward all the labour service travel and pains that Fathers and Mothers do undergo for their children That instance you find in Scripture of Moses his Mother when Pharoahs daughter found Moses by providence she commits
them they know not what they do We should pray that the Lord would open their eyes that the Lord would turn their hearts to himself first and then to us Brethren such a prayer is very welcome to the Lord as welcome as most prayers that his people can make when you shall from the heart pray to the Lord for those that injured you and done you wrong such a prayer seldom goes unrequited Sometimes the Lord gives in the soul of an enemy at the request of his people and oh what a choice mercy will that be if thou mayst gain the soul of an enemy if a soul may be delivered from going down to the pit why the Lord many times gives in the soul of an enemy but if the Lord should not give in the soul of an enemy that prayer shall not go unrewarded it may be sometimes the Lord will give in the soul of a friend thou goest to God and thou prayest for such an enemy Lord forgive such an enemy Lord open his eyes and turn his heart and forgive his transgression if the Lord does not grant that request it may be the Lord will give in the soul of a child or some of thy relations because thou hast found in thy heart to pray for an enemy or else the Lord will reward that prayer by giving out more of himself thou beggest for an enemy if the Lord do not that the Lord will give thee more grace more of his Spirit the Lord it may be will cause his face to slaine more upon thee while thou at his commandment and for his sake canst find in thy heart to pray for them that are thy enemies and have done thee wrong thou hast prayed for an enemy and I will be a friend to thee saith the Lord I will shew thee more friendship more of my face this is the first thing Oh that the Lord would teach us to practise it it is our duty to pray for those that have done us wrong Secondly if it be our duty to pray for those that have done us wrong then it is our duty to pray for such as the Lord hath made instruments to do us good Creatures they are but instruments and all the glory is due to God alone ah but God is to be sought to for the instrument hath the Lord done us good by such an instrument in respect of our souls in a word of counsel and direction we are to pray for them When God made use of Abigail in giving a word of counsel to David how did he bless the Lord and pray to God for her 1 Sam. 25. 32 33. And David sad to Abigail blessed be the Lord God of which sent thee this day to meet me and blessed be thy advice and blessed be thou c. And so hath the Lord made any instrumental any way to do us good in the outward man to give any refreshment we are bound to remember them before the Lord thus did Paul 2 Tim. 1. 16. The Lord give mercy unto the house of Onesiphorus for he oft refreshed me and was not ashamed of my chains Onesiphorus was a means of refreshing Paul in his bonds and Paul looked upon it as his duty to remember him before the Lord he begs a blessing for him and his houshold The Lord grant mercy to the house of Onesiphorus it is our duty to remember those before the Lord that have been used as instruments to do us good Thirdly it is our duty to remember before the Lord even those that are strangers to us those that we have not known if we know their conditions If the Lord hath brought the condition of strangers to us if the condition of strangers be a sad condition we are bound to remember them and to present their condition before the Lord and thus did the Disciples here in the Text this woman she was a stranger to them they never saw her face before she was of a strange Nation one of the Cananites and yet when the sad condition of this woman was brought before them and they heard her cry their hearts were moved with compassion and they besought Christ for her Lord send her away Lord grant her requestâ— And the Lord layd a great charge upon his people Israel that they should remember strangers and not oppress strangers but shew kindness to them and this is one part of the duty we owe to them to remember them and if in any sad condition we are bound to present them and their condition before the Lord. Fourthly If it be a duty to remember Strangers then much more to remember our own Relations and to present them before the Lord. All our Relations what ever they be as we stand related to others in Political Societies there is an engagement to remember them before the Lord a mutual tye betwixt the Magistrate and the people and they are bound to pray one for another godly Magistrateâ— and godly people are bound to remember one another You know King Solomon he was one that feared the Lord and he was very much in praying for the people 1 Kings 8. 22. he spent much time in prayer And so back again it is the peoples duty to remember their Governours The Apostle lays it upon Christians as their duty 1 Tim. 2. 1. I exhort therefore that first of all supplications prayers intercessions and giving of thanks be made for all men ver 2. for Kings and for all that are in Authority that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and honesty In this relation there is a mutual tie to remember one another before the Lord. And if we come to Family-societies there we shall see relations are bound to remember one another before the Lord the relation of Husband and Wife Parents and Children Masters and Servants the Scripture holds it forth as a duty incumbent upon all Christians to remember their relations mutually before the Lord. Husbands are bound to remember their wives to present their condition before the Lord Isaac prayed for Rebeckah Gen. 25. 21. and at his request the Lord was entreated and so back again the wife is bound to remember the husband And so in the relation of parents parents are bound often to present their children before the Lord the example of Job is given for our imitation Job 1. 5. And it was so when the dayes of their feasting were gone about that Job sent and sanctified them and rose up early in the morning and offered burnt-offerings according to the number of them all for Job said it may be that my sons have sinned and cursed God in their hearts thus did Job continually See Job presented them all one by one before the Lord and begged mercy for them and that the Lord would take away the guilt of sin which they might contract while they were feasting in one anothers house And so good old Jacob performed this duty for his children even then when he lay a dying
he called for all his children Gen. 49. he called them one by one and prayed for a special blessing to be upon their heads Parents are bound to remember their children and children many times miscarry because parents are no more in doing their duty no more crying to the Lord in the behalf of their children and so back again children are bound to remember their parents And so in the relation of Masters and servants Masters are bound to pray for their servants you know that instance of the Centurion he came to Jesus in the behalf of his servant and was very earnest with Christ that Christ would be pleased to heal his servant this is a duty that is little performed by many Masters they think if they can have their servants to work for them it is all that they have to look after but let such Masters know that God will require an account of servants souls have you instructed them and have you presented them often in your prayers before the Lord the Centurion came for the body of his servant and it is our duty to come often to the Lord for the souls of our servants and so back again it is the duty of servants to pray for their Masters And thus you see the fourth particular That it is our duty to remember all our relations before the Lord. There is one relation more and that is our Spiritual relation which I shall touch before I end that particular such as stand in relation one to another in Church-society they are bound often to remember one anothers conditions before the Lord James 5. 14 15 16. Confess your faults one to another and pray one for another yea in Church-societies it is especially the duty of Pastors and Elders to remember their flock and it is the duty of the people to remember their Elders and to pray often to the Lord in their behalf Faithful Ministers are bound often to pray for their people remember what is said of Paul Rom. 1. 9. For God is my witness whom I serve with my spirit in the Gospel of his son that without ceasing I make mention of you alwayes in my prayers When ever he came to God he was mindful of the Church I am alwayes mindfull of you without ceasing and indeed the profiting of a people and the stedfastness of a people in the faith and in the truth and in the wayes of God it is the glory and the crown and the joy and rejoycing of a faithful Teacher and therefore surely it is their duty often to remember their people before the Lord and so it is the peoples duty to remember their Pastor and Teacher The Apostle lays it upon them as their duty Ephes 6. 18 19. Praying alwayes with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all Saints and for me that utterance may be given unto me that I may open my mouth boldly to make known the mysterie of the Gospel It is your duty saith he to pray for all Saints and for me in particular that I may open my mouth boldly to make known the mysterie of the Gospel for many times Satans great design is to overthrow them that the Lord hath set to go before his people Satans great design is to hinder the work of God in their hand to make such to fall and therefore the Lords people had need to pray the more earnestly for even the best of the Teachers and Preachers of the Gospel they are but empty pipes in themselves and can afford no more then the Lord is pleased to drop in from above and therefore there is need that the Lord should be dropping in continually or else they cannot bring forth bread in due season and make provision for the people if the Lord do not fill them from heaven yea the best of Teachers have need of teaching though they know never so much they have need of more knowledge they have need of more strength and therefore it is the duty of the people to remember them before the Lord that the Lords Vrim and Thummim may be with them Thus in all relations it is our duty mutually to remember one another before the Lord. Fifthly it is our duty to remember those that for the present are strangers to Christ You will say what are we to pray for such as have not the knowledge of God yea it is our duty to remember them if the Lord hath been pleased to make us to differ and called us out from the number of those Gentiles who know not God oh we are bound to pity them and to pray for them whose condition is such as never was rained upon as the heath in the desert their condition is sad and we should remember them before the Lord that God would send forth his light and truth to them that they that deny Christ in word in profession and conversation that they may be brought home to the knowledge of the Son of God Psal 67. 1 2. God be merciful unto us and bless us and cause his face to shine upon us That thy way may be known upon earth thy saving health among all Nations There are many Nations and great Nations that to this day know not God and Christ that sit in darkness and perish for want of vision and truly they who through free-grace do know any thing of God they are bound to pity them that sit in darkness and to pray that the Nations may know the saving truth and the way of the Lord. Sixthly if it be a duty to pray for those that are strangers to Christ then it is a duty to pray for those that are Christs friends for all that know the Lord and love the Lord in sincerity Ephes 6. 18. Praying alwayes with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all Saints It is our duty to remember all Saints to remember them that are scattered to remember them that are gathered all Saints we should remember them in our prayer before the Lord and especially Jerusalem Sions Assemblies they should be remembred Psal 122. 6 7. Pray for the peace of Jerusalem they shall prosper that love thee Peace be within thy wals and prosperity within thy palaces You see Jerusalem Sions Assemblies in a special manner should be remembred by us in our addresses to the Lord. And so Psalm 14. you may see how the Psalmist doth express himself in the behalf of Sion Oh that the salvation of Israel were come out of Sion oh that the Lord would hasten the time that he will save his people and Sion be remembred and built up Oh that the time were come And in Psal 51. he doth express that when he had been praying for himself yet he did not forget Sion Psal 51. 18. Do good in thy good pleasure unto Sion build thou the walls of Jerusalem So that you see that hath been spoken
stroke upon us our affliction is so heavy as we know not how to bear it our selves truly it is wisdom then and a duty to call in help in great afflictions we are to request the prayers of others The Apostle gives this direction that such as were members of Churches that when they were afflicted they should send for the Elders of the Church and that they should pray for them James 5. 14 15. And the Lord he promiseth that he would give out healing in great afflictions we are to call in the help of others members of the Churches they ought to send for the Elders of the Church that in time of affliction they may pray for them Fourthly when we are nigh some great danger liable to danger either in the outward or inward man or to walk in some dangerous wayes or when we are by providence put upon such wayes as we may meet with shares and temptations where there is any danger then it lies upon us to call in the help of others So Esther 4. 16 17. she was in great danger there was a Law that whosoever went into the King and was not called must be put to death and the cause was so that she must go in to speak with the King though it should cost her her life and therefore she sendeth to Mordecai to gather the Jews that are present in Shushan and fast ye for me pray for me for it may cost me my life therefore I desire you to fast and pray for me Fifthly when the Lord calls his people to some great service some work that may be for his honour and glory So Esther when she was about some great work fast for me fast and pray and I will speak to the King Sixthly when the Lord doth seem to shut us up that we cannot pray our selves our condition may be so Sometimes through weakness we are not able and sometimes when the Lord withdraws his Spirit we are not able to pray our selves that our prayers are but like Hezekiahs like the chattering of a Crane or Swallow then in such cases it is a duty to send to others and call upon others when we cannot pray our selves Seventhly and lastly when the Lord seems to be angry with any people when the displeasure of the Lord waxes hot and heavy and we do not know how to bear it it is hard then to go to God as to a Father our selves and therefore then we had need call in others to our help When the wrath of the Lord was kindled against the children of Israel then Moses stept it then he cryed to God for them for they could not look to the Lord as to their Father the wrath of the Lord was hot and at that time it is our wisdom and a duty for poor souls to call in others that they may cry to the Lord in their behalf Matth. 15. 24. But he answered and said I am not sent but unto the lost sheep of the house of Israel SERMON X. YOU have heard of this womans faith and the first tryal of it Christ tries her faith by being silent and giving no answer unto her request it was a sore temptation that the son of David the merciful King should not open his mouth nor speak one word for the refreshment of a poor distressed creature When she poured out her complaint he answer'd her not a word that is a great temptation You have heard also how the Disciples stept in and besought Christ in her behalf they came and besought him that he would send her away with an answer with an answer of peace certainly that was their request But behold here is a second temptation here is a second trial of this womans faith Christ first tries her by being silent and now he tries her by speaking a hard word as it seems I am not sent but to the lost sheep of the house of Israel I am not sent Christ intimates that he had nothing to do with this woman it was besides his Commission I cannot do it saith Christ I must walk by rule I must observe my Fathers Commission I must do that work and that work only which I was sent for but now I was not sent but to the lost sheep of the house of Israel my work is to do good to a certain number of persons to shew mercy to a certain number of persons that are given me of my Father He calls them here sheep Christs sheep I am sent for their sakes and to do good to them though termed sheep Now the Scripture holds them forth to be such as were given him of his Father from Eternity all that are given to Christ are Christs sheep though they may not for the present have Christs mark upon them though Christ does not own them before the world yet he owns them before his Father all that belong to the election of grace they are Christs sheep and Christ saith he was sent to such I am not sent but to the lost sheep they are in a lost condition even that number of persons that are given to Christ they are lost in Adam and they have lost themselves by going on in the wayes of actual transgression they are in a miserable lost condition Christs sheep but Christ was sent to do good to them Christ was sent to save them The Son of man came to seek and to save them which were lost The lost sheep of the house of Israel The house of Israel may here be taken literally for the people of the Jews which are called the house of Israel Christ tells the Disciples and this woman that his Commission was to do good only to them I am not sent to others I am only sent to the lost sheep of the house of Israel my work is with the Jews I have nothing to do with the Gentiles No my work is to gather in the lost sheep of the house of Israel Quest But you will say how doth this agree with other Scriptures with those prophesies that concern the Messias our Lord Jesus Christ that when he came he should preach to the Gentiles and that God would give him to be a Covenant to the Gentiles Isaiah 42. 1 2 6. And in divers places there are prophesies that concern the Gentiles that when Christ came God would give him to be a light to the Gentiles as well as to the Jews why then doth Christ say he was not sent but to the lost sheep of the house of Israel Answ Christ spake first of all of his personal Ministry as he preacht himself in person and wrought miracles himself so he was sent unto the Jews his word was to them he was their Apostle their Minister so the Apostle to the Romans speaks Rom. 15. 8. Now I say that Jesus Christ was a Minister of the Circumcision for the truth of God to confirm the promise made unto the Fathers Christ was to preach in his own person to the Jews he was their
himself That 's the third piece of childrens bread Sealing Ordinances I should have added a fourth but shall pass it by because of the time it should have been this Holy counsels and reproofs they are childrens bread and I should have shewn you in what cases we ought not to cast them before dogs When we have no call to speak or when we have spoken often again and again and they turn again and tread it under foot when it appears that they sin obstinately do not sin for want of light but sin against light when you have born a sufficient testimony unto the Truth or unto the wayes of God in such cases and the like that part of childrens bread must not be cast to dogs To shut up all with a word or two of Application First of all It lets us see Brethren that way of the Churches of Christ is justifiable by Christ that way of making distinction and separation betwixt person and person betwixt the precious and the vile it is justifiable by the word of the Lord it is one of the hard things for the world to digest this separation this putting a difference between man and man but I pray know that if any Church do act according to the rule to the word of Christ which they may not transgress no not for a house full of gold and silver they must not give that which is holy to dogs cast not pearls before swine saith Christ Matth. 7. 6. And it is to take the childrens bread and cast it to dogs The Church do but walk according to rule let not men condemn it I know what is objected Ah! They are a censorious people they would be Judges they would judge all the world but themselves they only are children and all the world are dogs No we say not so God forbid We say there are seven thousand souls besides those we know that have not bowed their knee to Baal Yeâ— surely there are many thousands I am perswaded of the people of God that are children who are not for the present in any visible House of God But this I say that so long as they are so they are not in the right place they are where the dogs should be till they be in some visible House of Christ they are not in the children place they set themselves among the dogs the Lord would have them among children and there is a time a coming when all that are children shall come in and without shall be none buâ— dogs And let me say to such as are the children of the Lord and not in some visible House of God they cannot have their portion they cannot enjoy childrens bread while out of Christ's house they deprive themselves of that bread which is their right Christ will not have bread given but in his House some Ordinances of Christ cannot be dispenced but in a Communion of Saints and if children will not come into a communion of Saints they must not they cannot enjoy those Ordinances and let it be no offence if the Church according to their duty do labour to keep the Ordinances of God from pollution Quest But you will say What can it hurt me Or What can it hurt another though there be many wicked men in a Communion of Saints that come and partake of the Lord's Supper What is that to me if I be prepared to wait upon the Lord What detriment shall I receive Answ It is to thee A little leaven leaveneth the whole lump If a wicked person be in the Church it is to thee and to the whole company and if thou dost not that which is thy duty thou art defiled by that wicked man It is true if thou hast done thy duty brought it to the Church then thou art not defiled but if thou hast not done thy duty thou art defiled and it is to thee I know what is urged Did not Judas receive the Supper And were there not many wicked men in the Church of Corinth And doth not Christ say the Tares and the wheat must grow together But these may easily be answered As for Judas it is hardly made out that he received the Supper of the Lord but if he did he was a close hypocrite not known to the Church Hypocrites there may be but that is no plea for the admitting of those that are openly scandalous As for those wicked persons in the Church of Corinth it was defective but of right it should not have been so Possibly the best Church may be corrupt and may tollerate wicked persons but by rule it ought not to be so When ye are met together and there be a wicked person amongst you deliver such a one unto Sathan for the destruction of the flesh that the spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus Know ye not that a little leaven leaveneth the whole lump 1 Cor. 5. 4 5 6. But to pass by that Secondly In a word What matter of comfort is here to you that are the Lord's people The Lord looks upon you as children all you that fear the Lord and believe in the name of his Son you are the Lord's children cared for and provided for by the Lord. Provision is made by God himself he will take care that you shall have bread Christ takes care for his children O! This is childrens bread and I must not give the childrens bread unto dogs O! That this might refresh your souls that Christ looketh upon you as children and that he takes care to provide bread for you He will not suffer the soul of the righteous to famish Prov. 10. 3. Children you shall have bread you shall have Ordinances Promises they belong to you they are your bread the Lord will in due time give out that which your souls wait for for the children shall have their bread O that the Lord would raise up our hearts to expect this when we come before him in the Lords Supper Let children look for their bread wait for bread from heaven to be given out there is never an hired servant in Christ's House but shall have bread enough so the Prodigal did acknowledge and if the hired servants shall have bread the children shall not famish O! Wait upon the Lord who will give his children bread and give it in due season Again thirdly What cause have you to admire at the goodness of the Lord thus to you that are his children Children so provided for O! The free grace of God to us poor out-casts of the Gentiles Time was when we were dogs and that the Lord should make them to be children that were dogs set them at his Table that were cast out and give them childrens bread that had not right no not to the crumbs O the free grace of God let us admire it and let us debase our selves and lie low before the Lord and say O! What am I poor dead dog that I should sit at Table with the King and that
the heart established in the knowledge of the love and free grace of God it is a great work and a long time before the heart be established upon Christ and the Promises and till that be done little work or service is done for God But when men begin betimes they have time to get their hearts established upon Christ and the Promises and upon the free grace and righteousness of Christ and then they have time also to act for God and the Lord makes use of them to do him much service in their generation And O what a great advantage is that So that you have seen the Point handled First What it is to Remember God Secondly What Cause the Sons of men have to Remember God Thirdly What Advantage it is for the Sons of men to Remember God in youth Now by way of Application First of all It discovers and reproves the folly and madness that is bound up in the heart of the children of men If this be the duty of all the sons of men and a point of great wisdome to remember God betimes then this discovers the folly and madness that is in mens hearts to forget God How many in this Congregation I fear may fall under this reproof that have not yet emembred God How many in their youth and how many past youth that have not yet remembred God that have all their dayes forgotten the Holy One of Israel O that the Lord would convince poor creatures of this evil not Remembring God Shall I shew you the evil of it and O that God would shew you the evil of forgetting God First of all It is the Mother and cause of all other sins whatsoever for it were not possible that many should sin against God as they do if they did not forget God all sin grows upon this root of Forgetting God The Psalmist maketh it the cause of all evil that is committed because men do forget God Psal 50. 19 20 21 22. Verse 18. When thou sawest a thief then thou consentedst with him and hast been partaker with Adulterers Verse 19. Thou givest thy mouth to evil and thy tongue frameth deceit Verse 20. Thou sittest and speakest against thy brother thou slanderest thine own mothers son Verse 21. These things hast thou done and I kept silence thou thoughtest that I was altogether such an one as thy self but I will reprove thee and set them in order before thine eyes Verse 22. Now consider this YE THAT FORGET GOD lest I tear you in pieces and there be none to deliver you As much as if he should say here is the cause of this evil that is committed by you your Forgetting God It were not possible that men should dare to sin in the face of God if they did not forget God And it were not possible that men should sin in secret against God if they did not forget God they forget that God is an all-seeing God and that for all these things he will bring them to judgement It is not possible that children and servants should lye and steal and be unfaithful if they did not forget God if they did but remember that he would bring them to judgement and that no lyar shall come into the New Jerusalem if men did remember God they would not sin against God But this is the cause of all the sin in the world Mens forgetting God Secondly There is this Evil It makes a man spend all his time in vanity he comes up and goes down to the grave in a momen and hath lost all the time that he hath lived The truth is he hath not yet begun to live that hath not remembred God he hath not lived to the end of his life what is the end of his life but that he may remember God But man forgetting God his life is a fruitless life a vain life he comes up and sins and lives in vanity and goes down to the pit and never lives to the end of life because man remembers not God Thirdly There is this evil in it It makes men altogether unwilling and unable to dye as it makes their lives unprofitable so it makes their deaths dreadful what is the cause that men fear death Because they did not remember God in life if they had remembred God if they had known God and trusted in God and walked with God they would not have been so fearful of death but when men come to be made sensible that they have spent no thoughts upon God but upon their lusts and sin and so brought their dayes to an end they must needs fear to go to God see then how much evil there is in this great sin of not remembring God But you will say We hope that we do remember God God forbid that we should forget him What Forget God We hope we shall never do that while we live O my friends It is a harder matter to remember God then the world dream of how many thousands in the world are there that forget God that would be loth to be told that they are forgetters of God And yet I fear will be found so another day They that walk contrary in wayes of sin they are forgetters of God let them say what they will though they may have a way of worship and prayer to God and hear of God and read of God yet if they be found walking contrary to God such men will be interpreted by God to be forgetters of him Consider this all ye that forgâ—â— God Psal 50. 22. speaking of the Hypocrites â— Why they had many prayers and did many good works are they forgetters of God Yes their hearts were never upright with God they never trusted in the Name of God they were never found serving of God so as they might pleasâ—â— him and therefore the Lord calls them Forgetters of God O that the Lord would convince you of this great evil of forgetting God Secondly By way of Exhortation I beseechâ— you in the Name of the Lord to Remember God This day Remember God Remember him and Remember him in youth I shall speak a little to each of these First I beseech you Remember God to know God to trust in him to love him to obey him and to spend your thoughts upon him let the endeavours of your heart be after the Lord This is to Remember God And O that God would call upon you all and call you up to such a remembrance of him O remember how worthy God is to be remembred and remember what God hath done that so the sons of men might remember him and if after all this that God hath done after all the remembrance that God hath written of himself in his Word and upon his Works and upon his Ordinances and Providences men shall be found Forgetters of God as all sinners are how sad will their condition be another day You have a memory for the world and what No remembrance of God! God only worthy to be
to David Doctrine How true faith closeth with Christ as Lord. The necessity of believing in Christ as Lord. What the Socmians object against this truth The second part of the Doctrine that true faith comes to Christ as he is the son of David A grosse mistake concerning the body of Christ The necessity that every man and woman believe in Christ as man Something to be read in that name thou son of David First fruit of this womans faith Doctrine The Point confirmed by Instances from Scripture The grounds of the Point Application How to know whether we keep our eye upon God Doctrine The cry of the flesh what it is The first cry of the flesh The second cry of the flesh How to know whether the cry of the flesh be sinful Grounds why there are sinful cries in Gods own people What the cry of the Spirit is Application Tryals to know whether our cry be the cry of the flesh or the cry of the spirit Doctrine The second part of the Doctrine Application Doctrine Gracious ends why the Lord defers an answer to the prayers of his people Application How to know when God hath heard our prayer The duty of such souls to whose prayers God is silent and gives no answer First to mind their duty Secondly to justifie God Thirdly to maintain good thoughts of God Fourthly be looking to God thorow the Mediator Fifthly wait patiently Doctrine Who Gods people are bound to pray for What are the special times in which we are bound to remember others before the Lord. Application What those times are that we are bound more especially to call upon others to seek the Lord for us Doctr. 1. Doctr. 2. Satans design Gods design Historical Proposition Vse 1. Vse 2. Vse 3. Vse 4. Application Vse 1. Vse 2. Vse 3. Vse 4. The Duty of souls whom Christ hath found Duty 1. Duty 3. Duty 4. Duty 5. Doctrine Election described Arguments proving Election to be an act of Gods good pleasure Quest. Answ Our Election known to others Our Election may be known to our selves Third part of the Doctrine How the Doctrine of Election is a comforting Doctrine Second ground of comfort Third ground of comfort The fourth ground of comfort The fifth ground of comfort The sixth ground of comfort The seventh ground of comfort Eigth ground of comfort Ninth ground of comfort Tenth ground of comfort Fourth part of the Doctrine Gods people may meet with many temptations concerning others election 1. Remedy 2 Remedy 3 Remedy Rom. 11. 33. 2. Temptation 1. Remedy 2. Remedy 3. Remedy 4. Remedy 3. Temptation Luke 17. 34 35 36. 4 Temptation How to silence the fourth temptation Gods people meet with many Temptations concerning their own election 2. Temptation 3. Temptation 4. Temptation 5. Temptation 6. Temptatiod 7. Temptation Rules to silence those Temptations Gods people may meet withall concerning their Election Rule 1. Rom. 9. 20. Rule 2. Rule 3. Rule 4. How to worship God Rule 5. Vse 1. To those that have not attained to the knowledge of Gods love It 's of concernment to make our Election sure The adversary seeks to hinder souls in making their Election sure Our comfort doth depend upon the making Election sure Our holiness depends upon the making Election sure How to make our Election sure What Duties electing love engages Christians unto The priviledges of the house of Christ Priv. 2. Priv. 3. Priv. 4. Priv. 5. Priv. 6. Priv. 7. Vse 1. Vse 2. Vse 3. Vse 4. Duties of Church-Members Duty 1. Duty 2. Duty 3. Duty 4. Doctr. What worship it is that God requires of his people when afflicted and tempted Wherein spiritual Worship consists External Worship what and wherein it consists Instance 1. of Job Instance 2. of David Instance 3. of Jonah Instance 4. of Christ Grounds of the point why it is the duty of Gods people to worship in time of affliction Ground 2. Ground 3. Ground 4. Ground 5. Ground 6. Vse 1. Vse 2. Vse 3. What Gods people should beg for in time of affliction Doctr. This was a temptation to Moses To Isaiah To Jeremy To the woman that had the Issue of blood To the Centurion The particular discoveries of unworthiness that prove matter of temptation to Gods people Gods ends in suffering his people to be tempted about their unworthiness End 2. End 3. End 4. Vse 1. Vse 2. How to know when God presents unworthiness and when Sathan presents it What to do when tempted about our unworthiness Doctr. Who are the children that have right to the bread How persons may be said to be under an outward Administration of the Covenant Who are Dogs wicked men dogs Vse 1. Vse 2. Vse 3. Vse 4. Vse 1. Motives to perswade us to the duty of Justifying the Lord. How a young man may be delivered from his folly Doctr. What it is to remember God The Causes why we should remember our Creator The Advantages of remembring God in youth Vse 1â— The evil of not remembring God Isa 49. 15. Helps to remember God aright Every believer is as a ship upon the Sea of this World Vse 1. Vse 2. Vse 3. Vse 4. Vse 5. Vse 6. Vse 7. Vse 8. Doctr. 2. The efficient cause of true hope is God The formal cause of hope What is the object of hope The Concomitant of hope The anchor of a believing soul is sure and stedfast The ground that a believers hope is fastned upon Vse 1. Vse 2. Vse 3. How to obtain true hope