Selected quad for the lemma: duty_n

Word A	Word B	Word C	Word D	Occurrence	Frequency Band	MI	MI Band	Prominent
duty_n	child_n	good_a	life_n	1,137	5	4.3858	4	false

Text snippets containing the quad

ID	Title	Author	Corrected Date of Publication (TCP Date of Publication)	STC	Words	Pages
A34775	A treatise of jealousie, or, Means to preserve peace in marriage wherein is treated of I. The nature and effects of jealousie, which for the most part is the fatal cause of discontents between man and wife, II. And because jealousy is a passion, it's therefore occasionally discoursed of passions in general ... III. The reciprocal duties of man and wife ... / written in French, and faithfully translated.; Traité de la jalousie. English	Courtin, Antoine de, 1622-1685.	1684 (1684)	Wing C6606; ESTC R40897	75,205	185

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marry_v london_n print_v for_o w._n freeman_n over_o against_o the_o devil_n tavern_n by_o temple-bar_n in_o fleetstreet_n 1684._o to_o the_o reader_n of_o all_o the_o disease_n of_o the_o mind_n jealousy_n be_v without_o doubt_n the_o most_o dangerous_a and_o of_o most_o difficult_a cure_n for_o those_o that_o be_v torment_v therewith_o be_v not_o only_o ashamed_a to_o confess_v it_o but_o even_o their_o most_o familiar_a friend_n from_o who_o if_o any_o by_o their_o advice_n they_o may_v expect_v relief_n be_v ashamed_a to_o be_v partaker_n with_o they_o in_o such_o conversation_n nevertheless_o there_o be_v person_n too_o too_o obvious_a to_o be_v find_v that_o though_o they_o have_v live_v in_o a_o conjugal_a estate_n perhaps_o forty_o year_n yet_o be_v not_o verse_v in_o the_o obligation_n of_o matrimony_n but_o live_v in_o a_o continual_a warfare_n without_o ever_o penetrate_v the_o cause_n of_o their_o evil_n or_o be_v able_a to_o perceive_v the_o mean_n to_o establish_v peace_n 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on_o which_o in_o some_o manner_n all_o other_o depend_v for_o as_o marriage_n be_v the_o foundation_n of_o all_o civil_a policy_n it_o be_v very_o apparent_a that_o he_o can_v be_v a_o good_a citizen_n who_o be_v a_o vuworthy_a husband_n nor_o can_v he_o be_v expect_v to_o live_v competent_o in_o a_o political_a society_n that_o be_v not_o capable_a of_o domestic_a converse_n which_o be_v the_o principle_n and_o abridgement_n of_o it_o this_o be_v therefore_o the_o consummation_n of_o the_o duty_n of_o person_n in_o this_o world_n and_o at_o the_o same_o time_n the_o accomplishment_n of_o the_o design_n the_o author_n have_v herein_o propose_v to_o himself_o for_o consider_v that_o all_o the_o action_n of_o person_n whatsoever_o as_o secular_a may_v be_v reduce_v to_o three_o estate_n the_o first_o when_o a_o man_n enter_v into_o converse_n with_o the_o world_n the_o second_o when_o he_o enter_v upon_o any_o profession_n and_o the_o three_o when_o he_o enter_v into_o marriage_n he_o have_v endeavour_v to_o show_v the_o various_a duty_n of_o these_o three_o different_a condition_n in_o three_o distinct_a tract_n the_o first_o be_v that_o of_o the_o rule_n of_o civility_n which_o he_o have_v divide_v into_o two_o part_n of_o which_o the_o first_o give_v the_o maxim_n of_o converse_n with_o person_n of_o civil_a deportment_n the_o second_o treat_v of_o the_o point_n of_o honour_n or_o the_o method_n of_o demeaning_a one_o self_n with_o uncivil_a person_n viz._n how_o far_o a_o man_n must_v support_v injury_n without_o derogate_a from_o his_o honour_n and_o in_o the_o mean_a time_n give_v no_o offence_n himself_o the_o second_o be_v that_o which_o treat_v of_o idleness_n or_o the_o art_n of_o employ_v the_o time_n well_o every_o one_o according_a to_o his_o vocation_n in_o this_o world_n and_o the_o three_o be_v this_o treatise_n of_o jealousy_n or_o the_o mean_n to_o preserve_v peace_n in_o the_o state_n of_o marriage_n all_o three_o very_o succinct_o direct_v we_o in_o what_o obligation_n or_o duty_n soever_o may_v attend_v a_o secular_a life_n and_o which_o by_o consequence_n have_v such_o a_o mutual_a relation_n among_o themselves_o that_o one_o can_v well_o be_v without_o the_o other_o to_o return_v to_o that_o of_o jealousy_n we_o think_v good_a to_o give_v this_o proemonition_n that_o it_o be_v a_o passion_n we_o be_v oblige_v in_o this_o treatise_n as_o it_o be_v in_o the_o second_o chapter_n to_o give_v some_o notion_n of_o the_o passion_n of_o the_o mind_n in_o general_n but_o brief_o and_o in_o abridgement_n not_o only_o because_o the_o handle_n this_o subject_a will_v procure_v a_o curious_a and_o distinct_a idea_n of_o the_o internal_a part_n of_o man_n but_o also_o because_o there_o be_v a_o indispensable_a necessity_n of_o establish_v such_o principle_n as_o may_v serve_v for_o proof_n to_o the_o consequence_n deduce_v in_o the_o prosecution_n but_o since_o it_o be_v not_o always_o sufficient_a to_o perform_v simple_o that_o which_o be_v a_o man_n task_n without_o have_v a_o super_n add_v respect_n to_o the_o humour_n of_o those_o for_o who_o his_o work_n be_v intend_v we_o have_v take_v care_n to_o dispose_v the_o work_n so_o that_o those_o that_o have_v already_o gain_v a_o sufficient_a knowledge_n of_o or_o those_o that_o be_v not_o curious_a or_o care_v not_o for_o the_o study_n of_o the_o passion_n may_v omit_v the_o second_o chapter_n in_o which_o it_o be_v almost_o only_o treat_v of_o they_o and_o pass_v direct_o from_o the_o first_o to_o the_o three_o without_o break_v the_o series_n of_o the_o discourse_n this_o be_v only_o a_o diverticulum_n or_o a_o necessary_a adjunct_n a_o table_n chap._n i._n the_o subject_n of_o the_o ensue_a treatise_n fol._n 1_o feign_a jealousy_n of_o marry_a people_n 2_o feign_a jealousy_n of_o lover_n 4_o correction_n from_o a_o husband_n be_v no_o effect_n of_o jealousy_n 5_o jealousy_n in_o its_o self_n be_v innocent_a ibid._n what_o real_a or_o naughty_a jealousy_n be_v 6_o that_o christian_a religion_n must_v be_v the_o rule_n of_o passion_n 8_o chap._n ii_o the_o original_a of_o jealousy_n and_o what_o it_o be_v 9_o that_o passion_n be_v good_a and_o the_o principle_n of_o our_o action_n ibid._n the_o structure_n of_o the_o body_n 10_o the_o external_n organ_n 11_o the_o internal_a organ_n ibid._n the_o use_n of_o the_o internal_a organ_n ibid._n the_o animal_n spirit_n 13_o how_o sensation_n be_v make_v 14_o where_o and_o how_o the_o passion_n be_v form_v 17_o that_o the_o blood_n be_v the_o soul_n of_o beast_n 22_o that_o beast_n have_v not_o passion_n but_o only_o certain_a impulse_n resembr_v they_o ibid._n the_o excellency_n of_o the_o soul_n of_o man._n 24_o the_o faculty_n of_o the_o soul_n 25_o the_o memory_n ib._n the_o imagination_n ib._n the_o judgement_n and_o discourse_n 26_o the_o principal_a seat_n of_o the_o soul_n ib._n the_o power_n of_o passion_n over_o the_o soul_n 27_o the_o warfare_n between_o the_o spirit_n and_o flesh_n 28_o the_o empire_n of_o the_o soul_n over_o the_o body_n 30_o the_o mutual_a correspondency_n between_o the_o soul_n and_o the_o body_n 32_o what_o it_o be_v we_o call_v passion_n of_o the_o soul_n 33_o of_o the_o number_n of_o the_o passion_n of_o the_o soul_n 34_o how_o the_o passion_n be_v produce_v 35_o what_o fear_n be_v ib._n what_o jealousy_n be_v 36_o chap._n iii_o of_o marriage_n according_a to_o the_o law_n of_o nature_n 37_o jealousy_n be_v only_o between_o marry_a people_n ib._n that_o man_n do_v natural_o desire_v society_n and_o why_o 38_o from_o whence_o love_n proceed_v 39_o what_o marriage_n be_v 40_o that_o marriage_n as_o all_o other_o society_n subsist_v by_o the_o subordination_n of_o its_o part_n 41_o all_o nation_n give_v the_o pre-eminence_n to_o the_o husband_n 43_o rule_n for_o person_n that_o be_v marry_v 45_o that_o love_n be_v the_o foundation_n of_o marriage_n

thou_o shall_v to_o her_o a_o father_n be_v and_o as_o a_o brother_n love_o shall_v cherish_v she_o a_o mother_n love_n from_o thou_o in_o she_o shall_v reverence_n move_v so_o the_o husband_n ought_v to_o supply_v to_o his_o wife_n the_o place_n of_o father_n mother_n brother_n and_o all_o other_o relation_n yea_o much_o more_o two_o person_n must_v make_v up_o but_o one_o behold_v then_o the_o high_a pitch_n that_o love_n be_v capable_a of_o reach_v too_o behold_v the_o height_n of_o the_o most_o ardent_a amity_n that_o can_v be_v conceive_v to_o be_v so_o conjoin_v with_o the_o thing_n love_v as_o to_o become_v one_o and_o the_o same_o thing_n with_o it_o mar_v this_o love_n be_v a_o symbol_n of_o that_o celestial_a love_n that_o shall_v be_v perfect_v in_o the_o elect_n when_o have_v put_v off_o this_o sinful_a flesh_n and_o be_v renew_v by_o christ_n they_o shall_v be_v make_v one_o with_o he_o can_v that_o union_n then_o between_o the_o very_a soul_n and_o body_n be_v more_o perfect_a than_o be_v that_o of_o person_n join_v in_o marriage_n can_v there_o be_v any_o thing_n more_o admirable_a since_o to_o comprehend_v it_o we_o must_v conceive_v a_o kind_n of_o miracle_n imagine_v two_o person_n be_v not_o two_o but_o simple_o one_o that_o be_v to_o say_v the_o one_o ought_v to_o be_v so_o near_o unite_v to_o the_o other_o by_o love_n that_o whatever_o touch_v the_o one_o be_v it_o good_a or_o be_v it_o evil_n it_o also_o affect_v the_o other_o so_o lively_a that_o there_o be_v no_o difference_n in_o their_o resentment_n it_o be_v this_o miraculous_a love_n that_o make_v the_o union_n of_o marriage_n which_o union_n be_v undissolu●ble_a according_a to_o our_o divine_a lawgiver_n so_o long_o as_o this_o love_n subsist_v and_o be_v not_o banish_v by_o infidelity_n to_o that_o bed_n which_o god_n have_v make_v sacred_a to_o marriage_n 32._o if_o then_o it_o be_v this_o love_n that_o according_a sistant_fw-la to_o the_o intention_n of_o the_o word_n of_o our_o saviour_n be_v the_o sacred_a tie_n of_o the_o marriage_n of_o christian_n there_o can_v be_v nothing_o christians_n more_o opposite_a to_o it_o than_o jealousy_n since_o be_v the_o pernicious_a bud_n of_o luxury_n the_o most_o unbridled_a of_o all_o our_o passion_n it_o be_v impossible_a that_o it_o can_v consist_v with_o the_o tenderness_n and_o holy_a peace_n of_o that_o love_n that_o conjoyn_v man_n and_o wife_n now_o this_o love_n be_v a_o command_n of_o god_n which_o we_o violate_v by_o these_o motion_n of_o self-love_n it_o necessary_o follow_v that_o we_o commit_v a_o manifest_a sin_n every_o time_n we_o give_v way_n to_o this_o passion_n of_o jealousy_n and_o therefore_o to_o say_v that_o a_o man_n or_o woman_n love_n be_v commendable_a for_o their_o be_v jealous_a be_v the_o same_o thing_n as_o to_o say_v it_o be_v commendable_a to_o offend_v god_n but_o that_o we_o may_v be_v yet_o further_o convince_v wife_n st._n paul_n do_v not_o only_o give_v we_o the_o command_n of_o god_n on_o this_o subject_a but_o on_o his_o own_o part_n he_o give_v we_o the_o condition_n of_o marriage_n between_o man_n and_o wife_n in_o as_o much_o as_o on_o the_o one_o side_n he_o recommend_v to_o christian_a husband_n to_o love_v their_o wife_n and_o on_o the_o other_o he_o recommend_v to_o the_o wife_n to_o be_v submissive_a to_o their_o husband_n in_o love_v they_o husband_n love_v your_o wife_n say_v he_o even_o as_o christ_n love_v his_o church_n and_o give_v himself_o to_o die_v for_o it_o 25._o so_o let_v husband_n love_v their_o wife_n even_o as_o their_o own_o body_n 28._o indeed_o say_v a_o learned_a doctor_n 22._o in_o explain_v this_o passage_n as_o jesus_n christ_n be_v over_o and_o rule_v his_o church_n and_o which_o he_o govern_v and_o protect_v for_o its_o own_o good_a even_o so_o a_o husband_n ought_v to_o command_v and_o govern_v his_o wife_n both_o for_o she_o own_o and_o whole_a family_n good_a but_o we_o must_v here_o observe_v that_o since_o st._n paul_n 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