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B03556 The mischiefes and danger of the sin of ignorance, or, Ignorance arraigned, with the causes, kinds, and cure thereof. As also, the excellency, profit, and benefit of heavenly knowledge. / By W. Geering, minister of the word at Lymington, in the county of Southampton. Gearing, William. 1659 (1659) Wing G436A; ESTC R177550 110,322 239

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whereunto thou turnest thee and 1 Chron. 28.9 And thou Solomon my Sonne know thou the God of thy Fathers and serve him with a perfect heart and a willing mind in both which places he first gives him charge of the service of God before any matter of his Kingdome Philo the Jew reporteth to the commendation of the Jewes that they were liberorum cultores cultrices and it is Chrysostomes simile that as men will patch up their own buildings and piece up ruinous and rotten houses so they should be more carefull of the Lords house and if he punish the neglect of repairing his materiall Temple then will he be more offended and displeased for the neglect of his spiritual as our selves and our children be 1 Cor. 6.19 How justly then are those carelesse Parents to be reproved who as if their children consisted altogether of body and had no soules take care onely to scratch and scrape a little goods together for them Dum esset diserius non curabat licet esset Dei cul●urâ deserius Aug. lib. 2. confess cap. 3. Majori follicitudine me parturiebat Spiritu quàm peperat carne parturivit carne ut in hanc temporalem nascerer corde ut in aeternam lucem renascerer August but never care for having them taught how to use it Austin confesseth that his Father was not much better for thus he saith of him that he spared no cost that he might be learned but he cared not much though he were lewd and wicked But for Monica his mother in whose heart he saith the Lord had begun to build his Temple she ceased not to do her uttermost endeavours every way that he might be truly religious and as well Gods child by grace as hers by nature And surely where this duty is neglected children neither know their duty towards God their Parents or any body else as appeareth in the History of a certain old man of Athens that came before Solon a Judge at that time and in that place where he lived and complained that his son was undutiful and disobedient which he knowing to be a foul fault caused the young fellow to be called in to see what he could say for himself and my Author saith he was not able to deny it whereupon he decreed that because he had shewed no duty while he lived therefore he should enjoy nothing by his Father when he died and so deprived the young man of his inheritance for his disobedience sentence being past the young man answered for himself that howbeit he could not altogether deny the fact yet it was not altogether his fault but partly his Fathers because he never afforded him any education instruction or good bringing up whereby he might learn to do his duty either to him or others which being likewise affirmed by the Son and not disproved by the Father he punished him also and deprived him of the solemnity of his Funeral It is not enough for Parents to excuse themselves from this work of instructing their children saying they will do it hereafter but they must take the soonest time they have opportunity We know it is a practise among Husbandmen and Gardeners Quo semel est imbuta recens servabit odorem Testa diu to set and sow both trees plants and seeds in the spring of the year so we are to sow the seed of the true knowledge of God and of Religion in children in the spring of their age Teach a child in the trade of his way and when he is old he will not depart from it Prov. 22.6 That a child is capable of instruction may appear in that he is apt to learn rude rhymes immodest songs dances and the like as children are capable to mock and scoffe 2 Reg. 2. as the children that mockt Elisha so also to cry Hosannah as those did to Christ Math. 21.15 and though children do not so readily encline to good as to evil yet childhood is not so corrupt as a riper age and for any man to say it is not good to set an old mans head upon a young pair of shoulders I say that it is never too soon to learn good things they that neglect it when they be young are uncertain where they shall live to learn being old Eccles 11.6 therefore it is good to make use of the present time In the morning sow thy seed Remember thy Creator in the dayes of thy youth Eccles 12.1 1. It will be easie and familiar to them Lam. 3.27 it is easie for a man to bear the yoke from his youth for thus by use and custome which is another nature grave jugum will become suave jugum as our Saviour tells us Math. 11.29 Tender twigs are easily bowed but old trees sooner break than bend The Lord commandeth a Parent not to withhold correction from his child Prov. 23.13 for if thou smite him with the rod he shall not die Now if they are to be corrected betimes for vices then also are they capable of instruction and ought betimes to be instructed So God requireth that they should be taught concerning the Passeover It shall come to pass Exod. 12.26 27. that when your children shall say unto you What mean you by this service that you shall say It is the sacrifice of the Lords Passeover who passed over the houses of the children of Israel in Egypt when he smote the Egyptians and delivered our houses And Exod. 13.14 It shall be when thy son asketh thee in time to come saying What is this that thou shalt say unto him By strength of hand the Lord brought us out from Egypt from the house of bondage 2. All men are to provide for their Families and he that provideth not for his family 1 Tim. 5.8 is worse than an Infidel Now good nurture is as necessary to children as nourishment and even as they cannot live without meat so they cannot do well without the knowledge of God and his Word which is Cibus mentis their spiritual food as Gregory calls it that Common-wealth neither cannot well stand where the good education of children is neglected 1. How justly are those Parents to be condemned that let their children grow old in years but still be young in knowledge like Rehoboam and season them not at first with good things but cocker them whereby they have as little comfort of them as Eli had of his sons who were sons of Belial and knew not the Lord and were destroyed Negligent Parents onely desire to have children and then no matter whether they be instructed in the knowledge of God or no and so good or bad heirs of heaven or hell whereas they should desire to have a holy seed to furnish the Earth with Saints and Heaven with Citizens carelesse Parents that onely desire to have children and no more are like ill husbands that cast their corn into the ground and then never care what becomes of it whether the birds
rent that happened in Israel when ten of the twelve Tribes revolted from Rehoboam the Sonne of Solomon because he refused the grave and wise Counsell of the Ancient Nobles that had attended on his Father and harkned to the rash advice of the green-headed youths brought up with himself and of his own standing when young men therefore doe excedere ex Ephebis as the Poet speaks or be adulti as they say at the Universities they should remember what Plutarch saith in his book de liberis educandis of bringing up of children that they do not abjicere imperium sed tantùm mutare imperatorem i. e. being freed from the Ferula and discharged from subjection to a Tutour that even they be left to the guidance of their own discretion 2 Tim. 2.22 whereby they must follow Pauls counsell to his Schollar Timothy to fly all youthfull lusts and labour being well instructed in the grounds of true Religion as they grow in yeares to grow in wisdome and knowledge then shall no man have cause to despise their youth as the same Apostle speaketh 1 Tim. 4.12 But the wisdome of their young yeares shall be their Crowne and Glory As Virgil said of Aeneas his Sonne Sequitur Patrem non passibus aequis he followeth his Father not with even and equall steppes so it may be said of most of the children of faithfull Parents Let me presse this upon you that are old to teach the young do you not read that the Psalmist speaks often that the praises of the Lord should he declared from generation to generation Psal 22.31 Psal 79.13 And so the very Heathen understood that it was the duty of the old to teach the young Jura senes norint Praecipere mitem convenit pueris senem Seneca quid liceátque nefasque Fásque sit inquirant legémque exanima servant Ovid. Old men are or should be very knowing it belongeth to them to teach and to youth to learne of them this is chiefly to be observed among Christians hence it appeareth how grossely old men sinne if they who ought to informe others do themselves know little or nothing of those things that appertain to everlasting salvation and if they have neglected the meanes of knowledge and in their old age are so rude and ignorant that they had need to bee taught by children the heads of Catechisme which sometime happeneth what will they be able to answer to the righteous Judge of all the world when he shall aske them how they have done their duty upon the earth Let every christian now be conscientious in this duty to exhort and instruct one another to edify one another and provoke to love and to good works to stirre up one another to the wayes and work of godlinesse And to move you all hereunto I desire you to confider 1. The great benefit that will come to such as truly performe this duty the Lord hath made a gracious promise to it Jer. 23.22 if we stand in his counsell and cause his people to heare his words i. e. if we faithfully instruct them in the knowledge and feare of the Lord then we shall turne them from their evill way and from the evill of their doings Happy is that man that can turne a sinner from evill wayes and evill doings to the wayes of godlinesse This is the Reason why the Apostle will not have the believing husband or wife to separate one from another because by dwelling together they may instruct and do good one to another 1 Cor. 7.16 for what knowest thou O wife whether thou shalt save thy husband or how knowest thou O man whether thou shalt save thy wife 2. If thou canst winne but one soule to Christ Isa a. 28. thou shalt bring much glory to God Solomon saith that in the multitude of poople is the Kings honour So herein is the great King of heaven honoured when many people shall go and say Come ye and let us goe up to the mountaine of the Lord to the house of the God of Jacob and he will teach us of his wayes and we will walke in his pathes he that converteth a sinner shall save a soule from death and cover a multitude of sins Jac. 5.20 3. It will bring in great peace and comfort to your own soules what greater comfort in the world then to see those that sate in darknesse to have the eyes of their understandings opened to see those that were dead translated from death to lise to be new borne to be converted unto God Oh what abundance of comfort will this consideration work upon thy heart However let Ministers do their duty Parents their duty Husbands their duty Christians their duty in their respective places and then let the successe be what it will we shall have comfort therein Ezek. 2.5 Ezek. 2. God commands the Prophet to speak to the people whether they would hear or whether they would forbear and thus saith the Prophet Isaiah though I have laboured in vain and spent my strength for nought Isa 49 4 5. yet surely my judgement is with the Lord and my work or my reward with my God though Israel be not gathered yet shall I be glorious in the eyes of the Lord and my God shall be my strength Thanks be to God saith Paul which alwayes causeth us to triumph in Christ and maketh manifest by us the savour of his knowledge in every place for we are unto God a sweet savour of Christ 2 Cor. 2.14 15. Heb. 3.13 in them that are saved and in them that perish Therefore exhort one another daily while it is called to day Do not think it a duty onely belonging to the Minister to instruct and stir up others in the wayes of Religion it is his duty principally Per hoc nal aliud est scientia nostra quam culp●● Salvian but it is thy duty also Do not say with wicked Cain Am I my brothers Keeper If thou seest thy neighbour lying in the pit of ignorance and thou hast that which might help him out and doest it not thou art guilty of his perishing by this our knowledge is no thing else but a fault saith Salvian Labour with all thy might to help thy Wife and Children Servants and friends and neighbours out of this dark dungeon Direct 7 Hath God enlightened you with saving knowledge Eph. 5.8 See that you walk as children of the light If a man have never so much knowledge if he walk not answerable to it it is but a glow-worm light if thy head be full of light and thy workes be full of darknesse it is an evidence that the light that is in thee is no better than darknesse The night is farre spent saith the Apostle the day is at hand let us therefore cast off the workes of darknesse Rom. 13.12 Pareus in loc and let us put on the Armour of light Pareus by night understandeth our estate of ignorance
beast among men If thou readest the Scriptures and canst not understand without an interpreter go to Ministers or experienced Christians to any that are learned in Gods Word to know the meaning of it as men do to Lawyers in difficult Law-cases to be resolved by them God gives more knowledge to some than to others that they might as Conduit pipes pour out to others It was the practise of the Disciples in many things wherein they were ignorant to come to Christ and desire to be instructed by him as Math. 13.36 they say unto him Declare to us the Parable of the tares and Marke 9.11 Why say the Scribes that Elias must first come So likewise Nicodemus saith How can these things be Joh. 3.9 So the Eunuch to Philip Of whom speaks the Prophet this of himself or of another Act. 8.34 When you read and hear the word and study and meditate upon it and yet remain ignorant in many points have recourse then to your Minister and Gods Messenger whose mouth the Prophet tells you must preserve knowledge you must seek the Law at his mouth This Austin tells us was one cause Vt diligentiam praestemus inquirendi potiùs quam temeritatem affirmandi August why some things in the Scriptures were so hard that we may rather shew diligence of enquiring than rashnesse of affirming Pythagoras saith that those were the best of his Schollers and the greatest Proficients in knowledge that were the most inquisitive and askt the most questions Yet such is the sottishnesse of many people that they will remain grossely ignorant in many things rather than they will ask questions to betray their ignorance 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 Heracl Sick persons are not ashamed to tell the Physitian what their Disease is neither is it good to hide ignorance but to bring it forth that it may be healed saith Heraclitus when John Baptist's disciples were infected with envy and repined at Christ that he should out-strip and excell their Master with the people as is evident by the complaint they make Joh. 3.26 where they come unto him saying Rabbi or Master He that was with thee beyond Jordan to whom thou barest witness and baptizedst behold now he baptizeth more than thou and all men come unto him Hereby the holy Baptist perceiving them to be infected with ignorance and infidelity he sends them to school to Christ to correct their ignorance that they might hear the words of his wisdom to correct their incredulity they might see his Works of wonder therefore two of his disciples are sent to Christ with this question Art thou he that should come Luk. 7.19 or shall we waite for another Some think that John Baptist moveth this doubt on the behalf of himself but this could not be for first John Baptist could not be so incredulous but believe what was testified by God the Father from Heaven at his Baptism Mat. 3.17 This is my well beloved son in whom I am well pleased Yea he testified of him before he baptized him and had born this testimony That he was not worthy to carry his shooes after him Mat. 3.11 Joh. 1.29 and again Behold the Lamb of God which taketh away the sins of the world Now John Baptist could not doubt of Christ and give such large testimony of him nor was John inconstant and unsetled like a reed shaken with the wind as our Saviour testifieth of him Thus Elisha knew and was assured that his Master Elias was taken up into Heaven and yet for the satisfaction of the children of the Prophets in that point he is at last contented 2 Kings 2.17 that they shall send fifty men to seek him by the space of three dayes in the mountains So John Baptist knowing his disciples to be too much infected with the leaven of the Scribes and Pharisees by reason of their too much familiarity and correspondency that they had one with the other he sendeth them therefore to Christ to be better instructed and that they might be satisfied both concerning his person that he was true man their eyes telling them that he had the dimensions and natural properties of a true humane body and true God too working such wonders as could not be done without the finger of God and also for his office that he was a most absolute Physitian both of body and soul yea the very Messiah and Saviour of the World Thus the Publicans the Souldiers and the People come to John Baptist and say to him Master what shall we do Luk. 3.10 12 14. being ignorant they come with a desire to learn of him and here they ask a profitable question they ask not what God did before he made the World what Pharaohs Daughter or the Queen of Sheba's names were whether Solomon was saved or not whether Jonas were ever at Nineveh before he went thither to preach whether ever the Virgin Mary had any more children than Christ but they go plainly to the point to enquire about a matter needful for them to know What shall we do to avoid the wrath and enjoy the favour of God Thus you see it is our duty not to conceale Etiamsi senes magis decet docere quam discere magis tamen decet discere quam ignorare Gregor but to discover our ignorance To this purpose one of the Ancients hath a good saying Albeit it becometh old men rather to be teachers than learners yet it is more comely for them to learn than to be ignorant If a Minister be well seen in Physick or in the Law his house shall be frequented and made oraculum civitatis but for Divinity few will trouble him which sheweth that men have more care of their bodies and goods than of their souls Let me entreate you to frequent much the company of those that are godly-wise such as have the true knowledge of God and Christ in them Prov. 13.20 he that walketh with wise men shall be wise saith Solomon but a companion of fools shall be destroyed The Queen of Sheba pronounced Solomons servants happy which continually stood before him to hear his wisdom though wisdom be condemned by the foolish world for madnesse Math. 11 19. yet wisdom is justified or commended of her children Associate thy self with the godly-wise and thou also shalt become more wise Direct 8 If thou hast any small measure of knowledge be thankful for that little I will blesse the Lord who hath given me counsel Psal 16.7 saith David if thou hast received any glimpse of the saving knowledge of God in Christ then blesse the Lord who hath given thee counsell and made thee to understand aright he that is thankful for a little shall have more It is just with God to suffer their understandings to be darkened who are not thankful for the light It is charged upon the Heathens that when they knew God Rom. 1.21 they glorified him not as God neither were thankful but
to bring others unto Christ now with the very reversion of this Feast not only the needy on earth but the very Angels in heaven were made merry Luke 15.7 But I dare not strain it thus farre with Stella It was a great Feast saith Calvin not so much for the multitude of guests as for the variety of cheer which doubtlesse he being of ability would provide to manifest his love and duty by way of thankfulnesse to Christ that had entertained him into his service as the manner is of servants inviting their Masters to this Feast he inviteth many of his old companions labouring to draw them also unto Christ So David first professeth that he will praise the Lord himself saying I will alwayes give thanks unto the Lord his praise shall be in my mouth continually Psal 34.1.3 Cant. 1.3 and then presently he addeth praise ye the Lord with me let us magnify his name together So the Spouse in the Canticles promiseth that if Christ would draw her she would procure company to go with her True Christians are not like Rayles but like Partriges that fly in companies together This was prophesied that it should be the disposition of those that should be brought in by the Gospel into the Christian Church one should provoke and call upon another come let us go up to the mountain of the Lord Isa 2.3 Zech. 8.21 and they that dwell in one City shall go to another saying up let us go and pray before the Lord of Hosts Joh. 7.38 These are the rivers of water that flow out from the belly of a true believer Psal 66.16 Come ye hearken to me saith David and I will tell you what God hath done for my soule Therefore let everyone that hath knowledg communicate it to others labour thou according to thy calling according to the measure of knowledg which thou hast received to work upon others by advice and counsel by entreaty and perswasion to bring them to the saving knowledge of God and his ways Art thou a Magistrate thou must labour to reclaim men from the works of darknesse Art thou a Minister thou must feed the flock 1 Pet 5.1 2 taking the oversight thereof thou must feed them with the bread of knowledg and of understanding thou must make it thy work to winne soules and to turn the people from the wayes of folly and ignorance Art thou a husband thou must dwell with thy wife as a man of knowledge husbands must instruct their wives with the knowledge of God Art thou a Master of a family thou art to instruct thy children and servants at home and bring them out to wisdomes gates to Gods Ordinances abroad that so if it may be thou mayest bring them to the knowledge of God that they may be saved The Apostle exhorts Parents to bring up their children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. Fathers Eph. 6.4 provoke not your children too much by tyrannizing over them Inutilis est animadversio ubi silent verba saeviunt verbera Marlorat and immoderately exercising your authority over them using all correction and no instruction being silent in words yet being more sharp and severe many times then there is just cause whereby the discipline is spoyled but bring them up in the instruction and admonition of the Lord teach them how to carry themselves towards God in the duties of his service and in civility and courtesie towards men in the common affaires and dealings of the world so shall they keep a good conscience before God and get themselves credit before men Now as Parents must not use too much severity and austerity so neither must they use too much lenity whereupon as many mischiefs and inconveniences ensue as upon the former for as it is said of the Ape that she having but two young ones kills one of them with over-much kindnesse so some fond and foolish parents if they do not kill yet they spill their children by too much cockering them where of we have an example in old Eli towards his sonnes 1 Sam. 2.23 24 25. 1 Reg. 1.6 and in David who was to blame too both towards Adonijah and Absalom He that desireth a good crop of corn must not only sow good seed but also weed it and use other good husbandry about it and he that desireth his son may prove a good man and a profitable member in the Church and Common-wealth must procure him a good Tutour and must himself be continually dropping good and wholesome instructions and directions upon him for the soul of a child is as Aristotle saith tanquàm abrasa tabula as a smooth table or like a piece of wax apt and fit for any impression Thus have the godly done from time to time and so it seemeth Adam instructed his sonnes concerning the worship of God else what should move them to offer sacrifice Genes 4. Thus did Abraham God himself giving this testimony of him I know Abraham Gen. 18.19 that he will command his children and his houshold after him and they shall keep the way of the Lord to do judgement and justice that the Lord may bring upon A braham that which he hath spoken of him thus also Isaack Jacob and the rest of the godly Patriarchs and we may very well suppose that they would never have suffered themselves to be circumcised had they not been formerly instructed in the law of the Lord and made acquainted that it was the Lords will and pleasure So Joshua I and my house saith he will serve the Lord. Solomon was taught by his Father David Prov. 4.4 and by his Mother Prov. 31. 2 Tim. 1.5 2 Tim. 3.15 Timothies Faith was derived from his Grandmother and Mother and it is said of him that from a child he knew the holy Scriptures Every Master of a Family hath charge over the soules of his children and servants this God commanded the old Israelites these words which I command thee this day Deut. 6.6 7. shall be in thy heart and thou shalt teach them diligently to thy children and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thy house and when theu walkest by the way when thou liest down and when thou risest up thus doth King David charge his sonne Solomon telling him that he was going the way of all flesh take heed to the charge of the Lord thy God and walk in his wayes and keep his Statutes and Commandements and Judgements and Testimonies pressing him with many words of the same signification that he might the rather remember the substance of his charge 1 Reg. 2.2 he addeth a reason that thou mayest prosper in all thou doest Josephus saith that the children of the Jews knew how many letters were in the Old Testament and that they could recite them as readily as their owne names Joseph lib. 2. cont Appian Chrysoft Homil. de Anna Samueli tducationi and in every thing