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A00658 A forme of Christian pollicie drawne out of French by Geffray Fenton. A worke very necessary to al sorts of people generally, as wherein is contayned doctrine, both vniuersall, and special touching the institution of al Christian profession: and also conuenient perticularly for all magistrates and gouernours of common weales, for their more happy regiment according to God; Police chrestienne. English Talpin, Jean.; Fenton, Geoffrey, Sir, 1539?-1608. 1574 (1574) STC 10793A; ESTC S101953 277,133 426

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maried according to Jgnatius caried with them their wyues and nourished them togyther with their parentes and poore of the Apostolicall reuenue For as who holdes no accompte of his houshold and domestical familiars is as an apostate and more wicked then if he were an infidell so wee ought not wickedly and wrongfully thinke that the Gospell takes away any humanitie naturall pietie but rather nourisheth susteyneth and confirmes it making it spirituall in true loue and duetie and so much the more perfect as the doctrine is more excellent then the doctrine of nature and Moyses It is a question of many whether a man is more boūd to nourishe and succour his father mother or his proper wife whereunto may bée aunswered that in the case of obedience and subuention there is more bounde of dutie to parents but not touching cohabitation And to proue the bonde of dutie to parentes it is certayn by treble right naturall diuine and humane which including an immutable and inuiolable bonde can not bée weakened or abolished by mariage aswell for that it is the first most autentike and hath a t●eble bonde for euery law hath his proper obligacion and subiection where this hath but one touching corporall cohabitacion as also for that it bindes mariage with a new subiectiō that the wife with her husband ought to straine all their power and meanes to reléeue suche as by mariage are made their father and mother and to helpe their grand parentes by whom both they and their fathers haue being in the worlde There bée yet these causes consequent and as it were accidentes to the former reasons which ought greatly to stirre vp children to honor their parentes that is to saye the inexplicable loue of fathers and mothers to their children their care in their first nouriture or nurssage their continual trauelles and perplexities to preserue and prefer them lastly this iust consideration that as they behaue them selues to their parentes so to expecte the lyke recompence of disposition and experience in their children towardes them The loue of parents is so great to their children that they sticke not to take to them selues the greeues and displeasures of their children not refusing sometyme the hazard of death to preserue their little-ones from perill And the scripture neuer commaūdes them to loue their children to nourish nor prefer them because by nature parentes haue that forward inclination but they are enioyned in many places of the scripture to discipline instructe them in the loue of God as therein prescribing to them the manner how to rule and moderate their affections not louing their childrē otherwaies then God loueth them neyther to let their zeale be so vehement fleshly and partiall as with the shée Apes to destroye their children nor yet with extremitie of affection to holde them in seueritie feare and so make them at vnwares towards or weake sprited wherein albeit thei are forbidden for that they are alwayes restrayned to moderation in discipline yet in holding ouer a hard hand vpō thē thei expresse the best and truest affectiō and leade them in the readiest waye to the estate and reputacion of honest men Great then is the bond of dutie obedience and affection of the child to his father and mother if with his vnthankfulnes he be not altogither out of the sense and iudgement of nature yea he shall aunswere to that so perfect loue for God in this case challengeth that he ought to bée beloued of vs by reason If I be a father sayeth he where is the zeale wherwith you loue me as children do their Fathers Here if any will obiect certain mothers procuring vntimely birth to their children or others that kill them after their deliuerie to auoyde dishonoure I aunswer that to such mordering mothers expressing worse nature then the most fell or fierce beastes who cherish lick their litle ones oftē times fight for their safetie ther can not be deuised lawes seuere inough for their punishmēt yea Moyses as after him Licurgus Solon erected no prescript lawe for such morders nor againste children likewise that killed their fathers as estéeming it an offēce to which man coulde not ascribe sufficient seuere worthy punishment Touching the cares labor and industrie in bringing them vp ther is no estate subiect to so many perplexities the mother specially bearing the infant in hir belly what care hath she to preserue so precious a frute and in hir trauell is there greater panges or more perill of present death how long remaines she in weake estat and sicknes what paines takes she to norish it what be hir sorowes if it wéepe if it miscarie if it falle sicke she fasteth to féede it and being hongrie restraines foode from hir selfe to appease the vnruely appetite of hir childe she with hir husband offer their bodies to pasion of colde and heat yea somtimes go naked to cloath wrap and entertaine their children What recompence of affection and dutie do these cares and perplexities of parents deserue of the children where in if they be necligent how can they a voyde the crime of ingratitude or be innocent in the vices proper to the reprobate yea let them assuredly trust that the displeasures wronges and disobedience which they do to their parents by the iust measure of Gods iudgment shal be retorned in more heauie greuous qualitie vppon themselues by their proper children for so we finde hapened to a contemtuous and disobedient childe who trailing his father by the haire of his head out of his owne house This is but a iust recompence my sonne sayth the father seing that euen the like behauior I shewed to thy grandfather in this house which now thou vsest to me But of the contrarie we read that many weare the benifites and graces doubled vppon the obedient children of the patriarkes as is expressed in the example of Joseph to whom his father Jacob gaue double blessing aboue his other brethern because he honored him with more seruice then they for ende let children in all thinges discharge the right and law of pietie to their parents with this consideration that because Fathers represent God on earth he will take the disobedience done to them as an iniurie ment to him selfe moreouer in the consideration of their dutie and ayde to their parents let them remember that in succouring their necessities they offer acceptable seruice to God for the which as we haue said their recompence is layd vp both in earthe in heauen which with suertye to finde at the hands of their owne children the like measure of relife in their necessities together with the same rate of comfort if they fall into impotencie of age But if they fayle of this dutie they stande in hazard of treble condemnation of death as they are bound to that office by treble lawes hauing interest in all such acts of humanitie euen towardes all olde straungers according to the reuerent
satisfied with exact and actuall punishment where to theyr proper iniuries or wronges done priuatelye against them selues their humilitye ouercame the moode of reuenge and they felt no inclination to furious indignitie But God being iniuried they helde them vnworthy seruaunts officers if they gaue not iustice to his wronges wherein they thought their life a swéete sacrifice being offred to death in his behalfe For this cause Moyses séeing the Idolatrye of the people after the Calfe made a maruailous Butcherye If hée knewe any blasphemer to bee in his Campe who was more readye to drawe him into iudgement yea he that had prophaned the Sabboth in fetching onely certayne wood to make a fire did not Moises forthwith cause him to be stoned But when Mary his sister and Aaron his Brother murmured against him despiting him with iniuries was hée not patient did hee not praye to God to pardon them What miserye happened to Ophine and Phineas for prophaning the sacrifices of God and to theyr father as hath béene sayde because hée did not iustice what slaughter did God to the blasphemye which Sennacherib by his Herraldes of Armes pronounced against him in the presence of Ezechias Did not God by his Aungell ouerthrow of them in one night a hundreth foure score and fiue thousand was not also Benadab because he sayed the God of Israel was a God of mountaines and not of valleyes ouerthrowen togeather with all the Kinges which hée led with him and fel into the hands of Achab Elias put to the edge of the sworde foure hundred false Prophetes of Baal so muche reuerenced in Israell and honoured of the Quéene Iezabel Surelye God so abhorreth the sinnes committed against the first table for so they are committed directlye against him that Hely iudged them irremysible saying If one man sinne against another God maye bée appeased But if the sinne stretche to the offence of God so farre forth as it concerneth his maiestie honour and holye ordinaunce what is hée that will praye to God for him as if hée should saye it is a sinne so greate that wée must confesse that if God will pardon it hée must vse a singular mercye muche lesse then is there power in men to pardon such crimes committed against the deuine maiestie Certaine holde opinion that the crimes against humane maiestie cannot haue remission of the Kinges against whome they are cōmitted as wel for that they bring intent of malice as for that they are done against him whom they represent in earth which is the liuing God and also against a whole nation or people whose heades they are Wée sée when the head is hurt all the members haue interest in the gréefe with him and demaunde altogeather reuenge against him that hath offended them neyther can the head heale the rest if first hée haue not full cure of his owne gréefe Howe is it then that crimes done against God should lightlye bée pardoned of men it was not without cause that in the first Churche hée that was guiltie in any such disordered Crime notwithstanding his penaunce of fiftye yéeres if hée liued so long after his sinne yet was hée not receyued into the holy Communion vntill the ende of his dayes which yet was holden an acte of great grace to the offendour whiche as I wishe might warne the gouernours of our pollecye not to suffer God to bée vnreuerentlye offended with such damnable crimes So for suche as haue prophaned holye places pilled and abused the sacred vesselles and yet thinke to eschewe the terrible iudgement of God let them resorte to the testimony of those miseries which happened to Balthasar Antiochus and Heliodorus ¶ Sinnes committed against the seconde table are worthy of death euen so deserue they eternall damnation Yet must vvee vnderstand vvhen they are done vvillingly and more vvhen they are done by pride and malice and the more that the obiect is noble and excellent so much are they more greeuous The .7 Chapter HAuing declared that in a common weale the transgressions of the commaundements of the first table deserue pains irremisible it is méete wée shewe wherin and how farre ought to stretche the punishmentes for the transgressors of the preceptes ordeined for instruction of due and honest conuersation of life in societye tranquilitye and mutuall loue to our neighbors Those commaundementes are seuen in number and written by Moyses in the second table which God gaue him with the other béeing both two of stone for the better obseruation of them and theyr perpetuall memory Like as also in the due kéeping of those statutes was eternall life comprehending faith in Iesus Christ and in transgressing them was condemnation to euerlasting death Séeing then that transgressours stande in suche estate of condemnacion by God in his iudgementes let it bée a rule to leade the magistrates pollitike to the conformetye of that iustice the rather for that they are as hath béene sayde before called in the scripture the commissionours of God to exercise his iudgements By the first commaundement of this table wée are bidden to honor our father and mother and so haue long life on earth And as this honor consistes not onely in reuerence but in loue feare obedience seruice office of nature so in the persons of Fathers mothers this precept is exhibited also to al Lordes Ladyes vniuersal Magistrates Pastours Doctours Maisters and al olde people yea al superiours being as publike and polletike fathers the one ouer the body and goodes the other ouer the soules If suche as onelye disobeye and vse conuersacion of rebellion speaking euill of theyr Fathers and Mothers are without remission condemned of God to bée stoned What punishment deserue others who pleade against them abandon them strike them suffer them to dye for hunger or laye violent handes vpon them And if there bée any dutye of reuerence to the Fathers of the bodye by greater reason doeth there belong a more higher estate of power to the Spirituall Parentes such as dispose norriture to the soules amongst whome as suche as are fierce and disobedient are subiecte to present punishment So euen they are within the power of the same sentence whiche gainesaye Magistrates being the Fathers of the common weale In this vice togeather with all others the causes and mouers of the same ought to bée punished as a proude hearte a hautye Spirite a malicious wyll and natures enclyning to arrogancye furye and disobedience Heare let Fathers also bée warned not to prouoke theyr children to wrath and by theyr straitenesse dryue them into contempt Touching the Seconde forbidding murder euen from the Lawe of nature GOD hath ordayned that not onelye man but euen the Beast that takes away the lyfe of a man shoulde suffer death wherein God him selfe séeming to geue the reason why hée dyd institute that payne sayeth That man being made to the Image of him selfe what other thing coulde it bée to kyll man then to rent the Image of
teacheth and naturall iudgement that we ought to bee instructed euen from our youth For as the mind as Aristotle saieth is as a table wherevpon nothing is written nor painted and so of our owne nature we can doe nothing but thinke euill speake and doe euill so reason is none other thing in vs then a little sparke of light yet so darkned in our obscure nature that it cā no more guide vs to marche in the darknes of this worlde then a little snoffe of a candell showing darkly in a lanterne dymmed with durt or other filthines is able to giue vs light to passe in suretie through darke and daungerous places it may be aptly resembled to a flashe of lightening in the night which when it showeth vppon the earth gyues a certayne glymse of light but very short leauing afterward the traueling man in greater darknesse not knowing which way to take euen so when our reason hath aduertised vs of that which is good being presently occupied with the affections and dark passions in vs striues not valiauntly to repulse and dissolue them by her naturall light being of her selfe of too great infirmities but yéeldes to them as soone as shée is surprised leauing vs in greater perplexities of oure obscure mynd then we felt afore Whereupon as wée may cōclude that reason without doctrine is as a spark quickly quenched hauing no more power in a man to do well then a body hath meane to trauell without a minde So to the end we stomble not vppon error and vice it is necessary we haue a perpetuall cleare burning lighte of mynde which is doctrine and holy erudition For the same difference that we finde betwéene light and darknes doth Salomon set betwéene the wiseman and the foole or the ignorant Chryste calles the ignorant blind who if they vndertake to leade others fall altogither in the ditch wherein is signified the extremitie of errors whereunto do runne headlong all such as haue not true science It is sayd in the law that for the infirmitie of this reason and naturall deprauation men ought not to do what séemed good to their iudgement and mind but must raise their regarde to that which God commaundeth specially in matters concerning Religion for in things naturall and ciuill there was more libertie Then seeing children are corrupte as Quintilianus saith before they can goe being norisshed in delites rather then vnderstand them and loue the vices which they learne in the pallaices of their parents afore they haue ability to iudge of them such is their infection euen from their first education and norture thei stand need of rate and measure and to be corrected euen from their cradle We sayed before that doctrine chaungeth the mind and makes it fructifie for which cause the scripture compares it to the good séede which as with good tylthe bringes foorth good fruite so without it the best groundes would rather yéelde thistles and thornes then graine of profit as happeneth in often experience by the best kinde of corne which diligently sowne but in common grounde tournes oftentymes into poppel and light graine either by the fault of the ground the tyme or the laborer So there is great néede that with the doctrine and good institution of youth there be suffered no corruption of manners We sée the grounde without tilling and séede bringes forth of it selfe naturally and without art ill hearbes wéedes much more would our nature produce vices and néedeth no instructor to doe euill where vertues come by force of instruction and labor aswell of the maisters as disciples For hauing in our selues but certain seminaries or as litle matches which we must kindle by force of blowing applying matter to entertayne the fire if we will make any So we must suffer this nature of ours to be qualified and fashioned by doctrine and labor as we sée fyer striken out of the flinte by the instrument of stéele ¶ Continuance of the said comparisons Chapter vij THE Philosophers estéemed a man without learning as a slaue that doth all his actions by force where the learned hath a liberall agilitie to all vertuous doings they compared the man without Science to a beast accompting him not worthy to be called a man reasonable of whom one of the greatest glories is to vse reason which he can not do if he haue not Science For which cause Solō the Law reader of Athens iudged not the naturall father worthy of honour and obedience of his child if he instructed not his youth in learning and exercised his tender yeares in vertuous conuersation which opinion albeit is condemned of the Scripture which enioynes to children straite charge of dutie loue reuerence and seruice to their parents Yet so great faultes of Fathers and Mothers by the iust iudgement of God deserue no dutie at all in their children hauing onely receiued of them generation fleshly noriture without goo● struction for which end God specially blessed them with children And often doth it happen that such children without discipline dishonour their houses destroy great families and by displeasure procure death to their parents to hasten their succession yea they are troublous sedicious and ruines of good cōmon weales And when they come to the scaffolde the last pause to the gibbot they dissemble not but crie with mayne voyce that if their Fathers had made them familiar with correction and discipline they had ben farre from those miseries Truth and dicipline sayth Salomon bee two thinges that giue correction to a young man and the child that is left to his will bringes his Mother to shame and confusion meaning that a yoūg man without instruction can giue no delite nor honour to his parents and to his friendes he cannot but bring rebuke and infamie So that if hée be not reformed by good doctrine and induced to good by the spirite of God with a true faith and charitie he can not by his owne nature but dreame vppon all euill no more thē the thornie brier can of himselfe shake of his prickes or the wild trée bring forth swéete fruit if he be not oftsones gryffed And therfore it can not be iustified to say that it were better to leaue a child to liue at his owne nature wherein as S. Paule sayth is found nothing but deprauation No let him tast of good doctrine which wil be to him as a regeneration and reformation of nature And because it may be asked in what age is best to put children to learning it may be aunswered euen so soone as in the childe is expressed a minde capable of doctrine as to some at fiue yeres to some rather and toothers later beginning with them easely or as it were by pleasure without threates the rod feare or constraint For as science of it selfe is liberall so it requires in such as séeke it libertie and fréedome of wit But if there be cause or place of correction let it be for euill doing and wicked
statutes by all the Courtes of their prouince in inuiolable stabilitie For as the lawes diuine and humaine are as it were the strength and walles of common weales euen so are the statutes of a Colledge the fortresse and bulwarke of the same without the which it can not bée long kept from disorder and vtter ruine Let the benefactors and Citizens honour their Colledge with often visitacion and contemplation of the principall and Regentes to whom for their learning sake belonges that merit of honor but specially if they be come farre off to doe seruice to their Citie leauing their proper Countreis and priuat commodities By this visitacion it will come to passe that the principall and Regents shall be better obeyed and feared of their schollers and they which with their tutors and altogyther better moued with common readinesse to doe the duetie of their Colledge and in cases of wrong iniurie and vexation offered by any let them ioyne with them in ayde and councell to aduaunce exemplarie iustice wherein in applying fauor and protection to those that represent them all aswell Magistrates as general parentes of a whole prouince in the institution of their youth to whom then if iniurie be offered the Magistrate and whole cōmon weale haue interest therein and therefore with common affection ought to pursue the offender to publike iustice they doe honor to their cōmon weales in those learned men who resorting to Vniuersities or other publike or priuat places will giue honorable opinion rapport touching the pollicie and order of that Citie To be short there can not be to great honor reuerence and affection borne to those persones by whose industrie in the institution and education of youth so many benefites grow as by them whole common weales become happie so that if men loue and honor vertue science honor dignities ritches reste and publike felicitie much more ought they to honor and cherishe those men by whom all those benefites are brought to whole countreys If Fathers and mothers beare so deare loue to their children with desire to sée them rise into manners and qualities of ciuill men ought they not with great affection to embrace and cherishe suche by whom in their places and with no lesse Fatherly zeale their children are instructed taught corrected and trained euen to their desires yea if their Disciples were their proper children by kind and bloud they could vse no more affectiō to make them learned and vertuouse In déed suche deserue not the name of maisters who bearing no frank care and loue to their schollers séeme as marcenary men and but to regarde the present gayne holding their Schollers in negligence and their parentes in hipocrisie touching their paines diligēce Touching the principal he ought to loue his regents as his bretherne who as he is the auncient and first in authoritie ouer them so by the scripture to the eldest is ascribed the preheminence and supreame rule in a familie and acknowledging him selfe as a brother in the aduauncement and protection of his bretherne giuing them aide and fauour to his vttermost power and credit in an other consideration he is called the head of the regents and schollers the regents being the chiefe and principall members of the body vnder the head and the schollers the inferior So that as he being a brother must behaue himselfe to his brothers in brotherly office and as the head gouerne his most principall and excellent members with a chiefest care and dutie and so sée the rest beare mutuall amitie one to another In like sort ought the Regents to acknowledge all loue feare and franke obedience as they are warned by the law of God to their eldest and most auncient brother forbearing as neare as they can to grieue their head or giue him any occasion of offence the same being altogether against the law of nature God and man as in a naturall bodie by how much the members are neare to the head by so much doo they trauell to giue aide and pleasure to their naturall head as retayning of it more prouidence or influxion euen so schollers according to all law and reason ought to beare loue reuerence feare and obedience in all subiection to their head and principall first and next to their Regents yea the same loue honour feare and obedience which they owe to their parents and duties to the Magistrates ought they to performe substancially to their principall and Regents being as Lieftenants to their Fathers Mothers and Magistrate and whom the Principall Regents loue with the affection of Fathers no lesse then if they were their proper children For recompēce therfore let them honour them with equall loue and dutie and with reuerence as to the formers of their wittes and Fathers of their learning alwayes considering that if their had not ben instructed their ignorāce and vice had taken from them all dignitie and honour in their life and as blind men they had walked in perpetuall darknes falling into errors and neuer confessed God and in the end had ben perpetually wretched In which respects as they well deserue to be loued and honoured as their Masters so yet they are bound to it most of all when they are risen into knowledge by which they receiue the honorable fruit of their studies how often so euer they sée themselues honored for their learning how often they gaine by it when they take most pleasure in their Science and sée themselues raised into dignitie and felicitie aboue others bycause of their learning and vertue euen so often let them honour the remembrance of their Masters and embrace them with perfect loue as who were their originall happy meanes to raise them to those estates and without whom they had ben contemnible to the world with out any honorable ornament of nature forbearinge the rudenes of some vnthankfull disciples who being once highly mounted make no more reckoning of the stirop that raised them to their high seat wherin much lesse that they deserue that they haue but with vnthākfull children not acknowledging to their parents their due honour nor the aide and dutie which they owe thē are not worthy of common life Let such and all other vnthankfull people remember that it is a sinne which S. Paule findes condemned of Christ to eternall perdicion and a signe of reprobation with God. Refutation of the false iudgements of some proude worldlings touching the profession of schoolemasters with a praise of that profession Chapter xiij MAny there be of too fleshly and reprobate iudgement who eyther ignorant in the dignitie of learning or sworne enemies against it despise the state of schoolemasters calling them by many scornefull and ridiculous names But according to my former opinion I hold it afore God a calling most honorable and acceptable and in a common weale the most profitable and necessary profession For if knowledge be commendable vertue deserue honour much more merite of reuerence belonges to such as teach
cause helping to the excuse and they by vnrulie disobedience abuse her in their dutie or that by some collaterall match shée may eyther bring encrease to hir reuenue or helpe the porcion of her daughters shée is iustified in her second mariage wherein aboue all other cares let her beware that no moode of incontinencie lead hir for that in our Christian religion it is accompted a vice moste slaunderous Touching such as are contented with the state of widowhed let them with S. Paules councel exercise their times in prayers take their delites in holy and godly things and trauell with all their harte to cleaue to God and to please and serue him in al puritie of will and spirituall affection and for their better meane to those holy actions let them eschew conuersation with men and prepare their flesh by fastinges and great sobrietie for as S. Paule sayeth the widowe that liues in delites is dead as whose wanton conuersation wallowing in ease and belly cheare hath corrupted hir mind with affections of mortall sinne wherein shée is readie to ioyne effect to hir fleshly wil as opportunitie shall consent But holy widowes liue spiritually and kéepe their bodies in necessities and their myndes in deuoute exercise as fasting prayer and other deuoute meditations of the spirit séeking after the perfection of the vertuouse widowes in the scripture as Iudith and Anne the prophetisse who from their youthes béeinge widowes receiued great graces from God as the one in the execution of Gods enemies and the other in prophesying of the comming of Christe publishing openly in the temple when the Lord was brought thither that hée was the true Messias ¶ The office of Fathers and Mothers towardes their children and the dutie of children to their parentes Chapter iiij TOuching the office of the second societie in nature pertaining parents towardes their children and of them reciprocallie to their fathers and mothers we will discourse according to the scripture Leauing the doctrine of the Pagan Philosophers as opinions doubtfull in themselues and vncertaine to Christians fathers and mothers haue in comen to bring vp and institute their children where of the mother is tied to a speciall care whilest they are young as growing into state of years and bignes thei belong chiefly to the fathers aswel for their authoritie as their greater and more wise prouidence Touching administration of noriture to their bodies with all other prouisions which the necessitie of nature requiers the mother most cōmonly takes vppon hir that special care as in whom the zeale of nature doeth most abounde some times sparing foode from hir selfe to féed hir children and restraining hir owne body to colde and hunger stickes not to cloathe hir naked tender impes to whome she bears more compassion then to hir proper wantes But for the féeding of the soule being the principall part of man and by the which wee are men and regenerated in to the children of God the body being none other thing then the vessell or mantiō of this sowle the prouision and care is equall to the father and mother both streightly enioyned without distinction to prouide such spirituall féeding clothing as may be worthy for this soule formed to the Image of God which is holly doctrine of saluation and correction instruction in good maners the same as it is the principall cause why God hath blessed them with children So with out those institutions children would fall into degeneration with natures and actions of brute and hurtefull beastes they would be come children accurssed whose dispsiscion would bring forth nothing but pride couetousnes glottony whoredome malice dissolute maners yea they wold become instruments altogither obedient to the wil of Sathan Prince of the world some what to qualifie the grieues of mothers bringing forth their childrē in great paine sorow often times in hard mortal peril of life lulling cherishing them with cares and watching day night with many other perplexities belonging to the institution of their litle youth S. Paule giues them this great consolation that the woman shall be saued by the generation of hir children if with hir instruction she conioyne this care to kepe them by exhortation and hir example in the constancie of faith charitie and sanctification which they receiue by baptisme enclining alwayes to do holy déedes with sobrietye which to young people is the mother noresse of all good doctrines and vertue as of the contrarie children dissolute folowing their foule will neuer attaine to scence and lesse folowe studie and least of all exercise verteous actions and because the mother ought thus to teatch hir children Salomon giues them commaundement to heare and receiue hir lawe aswell as to harken to the doctrine of their father And for example he resites that his mother Bersaba taught him from his infancie in the feare and wisdom of God wher by euen in his youth he became so wise as the scripture reporteth And albeit S. Paule restraines a mother of a family to preache in the church yet he takes no libertie from hir to instruct hir houshold and children in their dutie and office of life with out offending god which then is best performed when she makes the doctrine of God familier with them The daughter of Pithagoras well instructed by hir father in vertue and loue to virginitie kepte a schoole for mayds whō she made so singulerly wise and learned that they confounded the ignorance of many men and with hir resolued to perseuer in the state of perpetuall virgins Cornelia mother to both the Gracchus read to hir children the arte of retoricke whearein she raised them to such knowledg of excelency and eloquence that she was estemed for the most happie lady of Rome yea one day when a gallant or vaine dame of the cittie bragging of hir Iewels shewed hir much stately worke of embrodery and stones she aunswered hir I neuer was careful to make my selfe shine with so false lights as Iewels and stones nor to embosi my house with florishing hangings of goldworke but here sayth shée shewing hir eloquent and learned children is the sunne wherin I shine and the tapistrie Iewels and treasure of my house which in déede as they brought hir more honour then if she had ben Lady and owner of all the riches in Rome So yet she had aspired to more great supreame felicitie if according to hir trauell to distill knowledge into them they had expressed their excellēt learning in actes of modestie vertue in the discourse of their life But because it is a common question at these dayes whither the dugge of a mother is more proper to féede the tender infancie of the childe then the milke of a straunger as also what sortes of meates afterwardes are fit for their noriture it can not bée impertinent to declare our opinion as it were in passing Touching the first noriture if there be no lawfull excuses in the
the prosperitie of life but to suffer all miseries since he is offensiue to these by whome hee liues in the worlde yea he is worthy to be throwne in a hollowe ditche without burial where carion vermine may de●ower his carcase as they do other dead beastes For which consideration the child is bound to this dutie to his parentes and not to refuse death to sustayne them in what so euer concerneth them in honour health and life For hauing receiued all his wealth and benefites of them what more worthy or iust recompense can he retorne then a frank and thankfull prostitution of all that he hath to their vses if he take pleasure to liue doubts not that of all other things of the world life is most excellent if he thinke that the pleasure of life is one of the moste singuler benefites that maye bee demaunded if lastly commodities riches or common goods and honours do please him What reuerence loue honour and obedience is hee bound to beare to his Father and mother by whom or at the least without whom he had not enioyed them but if he make no recompence to his power and lesse thankefull at all to his parents is not his ingratitude intollerable and by iust right him selfe deserue to be depriued of all the same goods The same also being the cause why God by his law takes away without appeale the life of him that offendes his father and mother But if the vnthankfull and disobedient child be flattered with some prosperitie let him thinke it hath no long continuaunce no more then the itch of an olde man is pleasaunt longer then it is clawed but being scratched it falles of smarting For it is written that who curseth or doth euill to his Father and mother his light shal be put out in the middest of darknes that is hée shall loose his prosperitie good hap in the middest of aduersities and darke miseries which shall fall vppon him euen when hee thinkes to sléepe most soundly in the delites pleasures and eases of this world Besides the better to drawe children to obedience God promiseth them long life honour saith he thy father and Mother so shalt thou liue long vpon the earth to which promise aboue all other Saint Paule sayth is added suretie of recompence as in the promise of long life is ment commoditie rest and necessary furnitures of life as plentie of wealth and humane felicities For which cause it is sayd in another place that the blessing of fathers and mothers giuē to their children confirmeth and continueth in happy succession the houses and families of their children as of the contrary their curse helpeth much to the ruine subuersion of the same Touching the honour they get by obeying their father and mother it is written listen my sonne to the discipline of thy father and let not the law of thy mother be forgotten of thée to the end grace might be ioyned to thy head and collers about thy necke if thou do thy dutie of a good sonne to them God wil giue thée this fauour and credite to be honored of all men raise thée into that estate where thou shalt beare the honorable enseignes of thy high dignitie euen as wée sée kynges beare their diademes vppon their heads and Knights of the order their precious collers of golde about their neckes in signe of their dignitie honour and authority due to them for their vertues by which they haue worthely aspired to such estates Seing then God reserueth for childrē such ample promises of long life such worldly prosperities and such high honours which thrée béeing the very effect of all that may bee desired to make this life happye in earth comprehend also what else may be attributed to worldly felicitie How much are they bound besids the reasons earst rehearsed to beare humilitie obedience reuerent dutie to their parents whom if they disobey they haue their condemnation to miseries dishononours and to death yea and by their sinne of disobedience they stand in hazerd of the eternall curse The oblation of this duty of children to their parents is indispensible to all purposes but in cases of infidelitie as if the father being an Idolater séekes to seduce his sonne to that impietie in which this straite bond of dutie ceaseth For God is to be preferred and man abuseth his authoritie according to the vnderstanding of the gospell Who hateth not father mother brother sister and leaueth them with all that he hath can not haue the kyngdome of God yea they must leaue the dead to bury the dead to follow the Euangelicall vocation For touching the Apostolicall profession which may be alledged for that they forsooke father mother to follow Iesus Christ and to preach the Gospel it is a vocation perticuler priuileged as when Helizeus abādoned father mother to go with Helias as for this purpose may be disputed touching the life monasticall But that vocation ought not to bée alleadged to the execution of this commaundement for hée that calles such as he pleaseth reserueth such prouidence ouer the necessities of their parentes that they stande no néed of the peculiar seruice of their children whom their parentes of their proper will ought to exempt from that office of personall and temporal seruice since God calleth them to him selfe to doe to him a seruice spirituall and of more greater perfection and fruite then any function wherein they could employe them yet touching the vocation Monasticall Saint Augustin holdes good that in necessitie of the parentes the child being a Monke is bound to leaue his Monasterie to succoure them for as the law of God derogates not the right of nature but rather confirmes then restraines it so by greater reason in the humane and positiue statutes specially such as be in Monasteries there cā be no preiudice Therefore did the Scribes and Phariseis vnder colour of religion ordeyne that the childe giuinge all his goods to the temple was not bound to ayde hys father and mother yea by that meane he held him self no more bound to serue them according to that constitution by the which they expressed that such honour to God grounded vpon that deuotion abrogated all honor and naturall dutie which the childe ought to showe to his father But Iesus Christe gyueth them to vnderstand that by such tradicions they commit great impietie resisting the first ordinance of God natural and diuine also and inuiolable by his Scripture We sée that euen the most perfect and Apostolike life was not exempted from this subiection as Christe him selfe was subiect to Joseph and the virgin Marie and exercisinge xxx yeares after his diuine vocation he reiected not frō his trayne his mother his Auntes and cousines but called them and entertayned them with him I meane the poore of the reuenues which men presented him withall no lesse did the Apostles to their parentes and kinred of whom the greatest part which were
185 ¶ Still touchinge the recommendation of hospitalitie and almes Chap. 6. fo 187 ¶ Generall and speciall recommendation for prisoners and that for debtes we ought not lightly to emprison one an other fo 189 The fifth Booke OF the institution of youth with a prayse of free schooles c. Chap. 1. fol. 191 ¶ What Principall and Regents ought to bee called to institute a Colledge c. Chap. 2 fol. 190 ¶ A continuance of the discourse of Colledges by other comparisons Chap. 3. fol. 193 ¶ Wisedom science vertue diligence and feruent zeale to their disciples are very necessary for scholemaisters Chap. 4. fol. 197 ¶ Instructions to know by the way of contrary oppositions by the comparisons of the other chapters the miseries hapning by lewde scholemaisters Chap. 5. fol. 202 ¶ Amplifications of the said comparisons touching wicked maisters c. Chap. 6. fol 206 ¶ Continuance of the sayd comparisons Chap. 7. fol. 211 ¶ Maisters ought to instruct their disciples c. Chap. 8. 214 ¶ A continuance of the prayse of science c. Chap. 9. fo 219 ¶ Examples of commodities which science bringeth to the learned c. Chap. 10. fol. 223 ¶ It is necessarie for many reasons that all schollers remayne in one Colledge Chap. 11. folio 227 ¶ In a Colledge or schoole there ought to be statutes authorised by the Vniuersities c. Chap. 12. fo 215 ¶ Refutation of the false iudgements of some proude worldlings touching the profession of schoole maisters Chap. 13. fol. 235 ¶ An exhortation to young children to studie Chap. 14. fol. 241 The sixt Booke OF the office of euery estate and first of the dutie of the husband to his wife Chap. 1. 247 ¶ A continuance of the matter of mariage and the dutie of c. Chap. 2. fo 255 ¶ Still touching the dutie of the wife Chap. 3. fol. 263 ¶ The office of fathers and mothers and the dutie of children Chapter 4 folio 273 Still touching the education of young children Chap. 5. fo 280 ¶ In what dutie children are bound to their fathers and mothers Chap. 6. fol. 289 ¶ The dutie of maisters towardes their seruaunts Cha. 7. 398 ¶ How men haue ben made noble and of their dutie towardes their subieetes or tenantes Chap. 8. fol. 307 ¶ The dutie of Aduocates or Councellors at law Cha. 9. 315 ¶ The dutie of Marchants Chap. 10. fo 321 ¶ How the Marchant may performe his lawfull trades gayne iustly his estate Chap. 11. fol. 328 The seuenth Booke AL other estates are comprehended in those that haue bene alreadie debated the explication of the qualities of personnes Chap. 1. fo 339 ¶ Still touching the qualities of persons Chap. 2. fol. 345 ¶ Of Christian amitie and how many sortes of friendship there be Chap. fo 350 ¶ How a common weale is gouerned and wherein it erreth Chap. 4. fol. 359 ¶ Councell of the remedies to cure and preserue common weales from miserie Chap. 5. fol. 366 ¶ How God some times punisheth a whole people for a secret sin c. Chapter 6. fol. 375 ¶ To remedie all euils the causes must be taken away the discretion and wisedome requisite thereunto Chapter 8. fol 440 ¶ Confutation of humaine philosophie touchinge the affaires of faith wherein and in things serious men ought not to decyde but according to the scripture Chap. 9. folio 345 FINIS ¶ What is first requisite in the well gouerning of a common weale howe Cyuil pollicie ought to be conformable to the celestiall gouernement what good commeth of good pollicie what maner of gouernours and Iudges ought to be chosen to direct publique states ❧ The first Chapter TO dyrect a true and Christian pollicie it is necessarie in the first consyderation that suche as are chéefe disposers of the same bée chosen accordyng to the wil and ordinaunce of God of whom in respect of their institution they are to bée fauoured assisted in their Counsels actions and gouernements as also for that all power rule belonging to him the administration therof dependeth likewise vpō him wherein he hath ordayned for vs in earth a forme to rule guide and gouerne this inferiour Hierarchie by the example of that supreme and celestiall estate of Angels and happy soules aboue in all good order and perfect pollecie So that by thimitation of the same it is requisite that we be directed by wise Magistrates who hauing power to commaunde may vse simplicitie in the measure and rate of their Aucthoritie and wée in our common life expressing an immoueable zeale to obedience may concurre with them and agrée altogether in one lawe and doctrine one wyll and iudgement And to be short the better to exercise one vniuersall and holy conuersation standing vppon puretie of affection and wyll with one true religion in God we must obserue one vnitie in Iustice one integritie of life and maners fulfillyng alwayes our duetie to our neighbour the better to prepare vs with communitie of heart voyce and example to loue and feare God and with one mouth to praise honour and serue him with redie obedience and humilitie to his commaundements together with sincere and mutuall Loue one to another expressed in Actes of perfect charitie And this as it is the marke and ende of the Lawe the Magistrate and Christian gouernement being directed according to the forme celestiall and example aboue So in it wée declare our selues to bee common members of one bodye for a common Weale is a bodye Ciuil so knit together with indissoluble vnitye in friendship that wée suffer one selfe zeale and affection and geue one common ayde and succour to all our affayres reléeuing euery perticular necessitye with one constant and perpetuall rate and measure of compassion in this sorte are wée reduced into one body pollitike and by this pollicie drawne into one Spirite as being but one in God led and guided by his Spirite inwardly and outwardly by wise gouernours euen as God hath planted in our naturall body members more soueraigne and perfect in nature to gouerne the others more inferiour the same being more deuinelye resembled in the celestiall Hierarchy where the Spirites indued with more grace and greater perfection haue by heauenly election power ouer the others To this ought to bée referred the example of electing gouernours to publike states as both cōcurring with the order of nature with whom things of most perfection beare most rule and also resembling the Supreame gouernement from whence Moyses had commaundement to drawe the plot of his terrestriall pollecie calling vnto him such as were most wise and perfect aboue others wherein God geueth him aduertisement by Iethro his Father in-law to prouide such gouernours by the counsell which hée giueth him in this sort Prouide saieth hée to bée Iudges ouer others wise men whom thou shalt chose amongst the people fearing God true and louers of trueth and such as hate Couetousnes of them make some Tribunes who may stand as generall Iudges ouer
them If to men vsing great estates and offices be reserued an vniuersall reuerence What lesse honour is due to him that makes them worthy of it and by his industry brings them into the merit of such high calling If wise and learned men be famous through the world for the benefites that growe by their counsell commaūdement and authoritie is there lesse dutie of renoume and immortall praise to such as are the authors of those benefites by their learning If men learned in the lawes profite so much common weales If Phisitions be so necessary for that in them resteth the cure of bodies If lastly by the deuines wée finde comfort to our heauie soules how much are we bound to such as are the first causes of these deuine fruites who are the schoolemasters without whom and the foundation by them layed in those doctrines they had neuer ascended to those seates of honour when we sée a goodly building so excellent in beautie that the worlde giues it singuler estimation what can we ascribe lesse to him who laied the foundation and raised the worke to that excellencie then the principall praise For if faire delitefull and profitable workes be so generally praysed nothing lesse is due to the hand that fashioned them Who delites to behold a goodly picture doth great wrong to the painter if he ascribe not much to the commendation of his skill yea if there were layd on but the first coollers yet the beholder ought to be thankfull to his industrie and labour But if such as nourish our mortall bodies deserue great affection memorable renoume much more are we bound both in loue and perpetuall dutie to them that minister foode to the immortall spirites of little children if so great reuerence be reserued to Phisitions for helping the health of bodies which one day must die notwithstanding Is there not more merit of honour to such as cure our soules of immortal diseases The scripture pronounceth many textes to the shame of those which despise scholemasters of which profession Christ séemed to make his Apostles when he spake to Peter if thou louest mée féede my Lambes What other thing is it to féede then to nourish teach in good doctrine and the Lambes of the flocke of Iesus Christ according to the natural propertie of speaking are young children whom he holdes no lesse deare then his proper fleshe I saye not that vnder that name are ment all sortes of people and yet it can not be denied but that those littleones deserue chief instruction For S. John after he had taught in diuers countreys being compelled to leaue them for a time and go elswhether by speciall writing sayd to the little ones comfort your selues O ye young ones in that you are by the grace word of God strong and vertuous for that the woord of God remaynes in you and that you haue vanquished the wicked spirit through the grace and merit of Iesus Christ Yea Christ him selfe caused the little children to come into his schoole blaming the Apostles being yet of the flesh by cause they let those littleones for comming to him as though he would not haue taught and holpen them aswell as euen the greatest but he commaunded to bring them to him and pronounced them in that instruction and imposition of hands which hée gaue them worthy of the kyngdome of GOD saying that to those and such like the euerlasting worlde belongeth Then such as receiue little children into discipline exercise the office of Iesus Church the same sturring vp the Bishops in old time to take into charge of discipline and teaching little children as also did both the one and the other S. Iohn and the Prophets had many disciples who otherwayes were called the children of the Prophets it is written that many holy men went thorough the world to teach schollers with this intention that with the rules of learning they should also instruct them in the principles of faith and by that meane winne the Fathers mothers to Iesus christ amongest these Origen was not the least zealous and S. Gregorie the Pope refused not this vocation for certaine houres of the day For which considerations a certaine learned doctor of our time and chauncellor of a famous vniuersitie had no shame to go thorow the Colleadges of the vniuersities at certaine conuenient houres and teach little children in familiar doctrines which he did for the loue zeale of God And being oftentimes reproched by other doctors that he shewed an example vnworthy his place specially for that there were sufficient tuters to that purpose he aunswered that they were as fleshly doctors resembling the Apostles not yet in full libertie of the spirite who by glorious opinion forbad little children to approche neare to Iesus Christ alleadging that there was no dutie of accesse to him but by those that were graue I aske of those fleshly doctors whether the shepeheard that kéeps the Lambes of a Father of houshold do not as good and agréeable seruice to his Master as if he had in charge greater shéepe If a Father shew more deare loue to his little children then to those that haue riper age foloweth it not by congruent reason that such as giue succoures to those little ones and kéepe them from daunger deserue better recompence of the Father then if they had done seruice to his greater sonnes If the little plant in the garden of any Farmer be so much cherished that the eye of the owner is seldome from it hée then that watreth it prunes it and defends it from the cropping of beastes and other iniuries what seruice doth he to the owner Yea what greater pleasure can he do to the Farmer whose young plant without this industrie were subiect to spoyle without hope to yéeld any fruite euen as if the little Lambes of the flocke were lost and the young children corrupt there were no exspectation of restitution of that losse and corruption The schoolemaster then hauing in charge these little lambes of Iesus Christ and the preparing of this tender plant of his gardeine which is the Church and lastly the leading of these little children being the delites of the Lord how acceptable is his loyall and diligent seruice to his Lorde and to God And if such as sclaunder these little ones through wicked doctrine example deserue to haue fastened to their necke a milstone and drowned in the bottome of the déepest Sea What recompence or reward is due to those tutors scholemasters by whome those littleones are instructed and led in example of all holines Are they not worthy as Daniell sayeth to shine as the firmament and starres of heauen in euerlasting glory and to be called the greatest of the kyngdome of God Yea according to Iesus Christ euen the most happie of all And if euerie one ought to receiue the reward of his trauels as there is no estate of more hard laboures more great paines more perpetuall perplexeties and
poore for want of capacitie and industrie herein the iudgements of the Lacedemonians were righteous against certaine rich Lordes demaunding the daughters of their Kyng Lyander in hope of great credite by that alliance But the king being dead they would haue refused the contractes if they had not bene constrained by publike authoritie of the Court such also deserue like condemnation who by fearefull distrust dare not enter mariadge without great porcions fearing in chusing poore maydes to suffer continuall necessitie which of all other ought least to be feared for that if to their trade or industrie to liue be ioyned a will to trauell calling vppon God fearing him the Lord will so blesse their laboures that in the end they shal be rich aboue their hope At the least if they liue iustly and in the conuersation of honest men they haue promises not to be abandoned in their necessities nor their children to liue by almes for that god wil prouide for their necessary wantes which promises are confirmed by many miracles in the old and new testament as of the Israelites whom he nourished in the desert fortie yeres and of Helias and Eliseus Likewise such as followed Iesus Christ in the mountaines and desertes wée read what prouidence hée raised to féede them Besides in this we are confounded euen by the birdes of the aire in whom being no reason of care God prouides foode for them by his prouidence Much more then is his care ouer vs if we trauell in our vocation with feare prayer seruice and thankesgiuing we read how Iesus Christ approued the societie of such poore when with the virgin Mary and his disciples he assisted the mariadges of such people For as when the wine failed and no more to be had there it is to be concluded that their want was great so if enough had remayned the virgin Mary had not prayed for them and Christ had not done his miracle if it had not bene in time of necessitie if then Iesus Christ beare such fauour to mariadges of the poore that he turnes their water into wine in signe that he will aide them Let those of little faith whose disposition of mariadge is drawne by a desire of wealth and being afrayed to suffer hunger refuse to enter wedlocke Let such be assured that God will defend his poore from famine and want whē they shall fall into actes of infamous life And let not good Christians albeit they haue not such plentie of wealth make difficultie to marry in sort as I haue prescribed and much lesse distrust the increase of goods séeing as labour and time make men ritche so where Iesus Christ is called to the mariadge although the wine fayle at the length he will turne all those malencholly waters into comfortable wines and euen so all their small necessities into great aboundance of wealth Where I spake of the poore sort I meane such as are industrious as for others that wyll not trauell nor learne a trade to liue by ought to be constrayned to labour rather then suffred to marry séeing God assistes not the assembly of such people but from pouertie suffreth them to fall into extréeme miserie wherein is wrought a common burden to common weales ¶ A continuance of the matter of marriage and the dutie of the husband to his wife as also of hir office to her good man Chapter ij A Man hauing determined in himself with the iudgement and good will of his néerest Parentes to ioyne to a wife such one as he hath long knowen to be worthie of him and shée also with the consent of such to whō she appertaines agéeeth with liberall will to such marriage ought afore all other things to obserue the publique Banes for auoyding of slaunder and after to procéede to the rest by the hande of the minister in the word of God and that faith one to another which publikely he shal minister to them addinge the blissing which he shall giue and the prayer whiche he makes with all the assistantes for them to GOD to knit them togither in holy vnitie inuiolable loue and societie and giue them happie dayes in their marriage with plentifull multiplication of children such as they may institute bring vp to his seruice without which obseruations the auncient fathers iudged such societie of man and wife no lawfull marriage but rather a bed of concubines and pagan coniunction This man béeing thus married ought first with the consideration of his perfection of nature and common graces of GOD which he hath more then the woman to employe them all chiefly to the instruction guyde and gouernement of his wyfe and then to the direction of his affaires he is bound to communicate such lawes as he would haue his wyfe to kéepe with louing instruction exhortinge her to the partes of her dutie friendly without anye force protesting also to performe what belonges to his office being both bound thereunto by the expresse statutes of god Touching his parte besides the first consideration of his more perfect creation he ought to consider that as he is the head of his wife so in that he resembleth the purtreite of Iesus Christe so to leade hys wife as our Lord gouerneth his church The head gouernes his body by the vnderstanding mouing sense euen so Iesus Christ inspireth his church and infuseth his graces into her the better to knowe and doe that which concernes God and her owne sauetie The head hath the eye to sée the eare to heare the tong to speake and taste and all to the profit and benefit of the whole bodye taking perpetuall care of it féeling the gréeues of euery member as his own euen the like doth Iesus Christ for his Church spiritually séeing and foreséeing what so euer is necessary for it he heareth her plaintes and necessities and gyues her succour with perpetuall ayde what then ought the man to doe to his wife to what care and prouidence is he bound ouer her yea to what rate of ayde and succour is he tyed if he will worthely expresse the example of his patron if he do it not what greater wrong can he offer to God or manifest iniurie to the holy institution of mariage makes hée not solemne profession to follow that diuine Spouse of the Church by his mariage as also the womā protestes for her parte to follow the church Besides as the head naturally loues the body as vnited with it by nature in indiuisible vnitie he workes for it he takes thought for it and defendes it so Iesus Christ conioyned to his church loueth it dearely watcheth for it kepes and protectes it against the assaultes of all visible and inuisible enemies What belonges then to the husbande the image of this spirituall spouse of Iesus Christ who redéemed his church with his bloud when shée was thrall to sathan washed her with his proper bloud when shée was vncleane dyed to reuiue her being dead iustifieth her and blisseth her afterwardes
benefices Prebendes Prelatesship estates are purchased wherein may bee gessed how well they will behaue themselues séeing they were neuer touched with the thought to become worthy of them and so are raised to priestes afore they deserue to be clerks Abbots not being méete to be Monkes Iudges afore they haue pleaded in causes of right and Masters afore they were disciples No greater disorder or confusion in a common weale When Fathers shall finde their children enclined to learning let thē applie their purse to their disposition so shall they make them most seruiceable to their countreyes honorable to themselues and most happy as touching their proper saluation if they haue no sufficient meane to continue entertaine their studie let them praye to God and rather then to discōtinue their booke bestow thē in colledges to serue some Doctors Regents or learned schollers and so leade them by long and painefull wayes to the estimacion and conquest of learning foreséeing in any wise not to discourage or dispaire the liuely will and spirite of a young child taking pleasure to studie For as it is a signe certaine of the calling of God so ther is no lesse hope and suertie but that to that inclination and vehement affection the almightie Lord being earnestly prayed vnto wil ioyne cōuenient oportunities to come to that whereunto he calleth him by the which wée read of many prouing so excellent in all liberall sciences that by their doctrine they haue bene chosen Bishops Presidents yea and made more great then in their youth they were meane poore and simple some of them hauing no other beginning then trained in the function euen of the meanest seruant wherein is fulfilled the sentence of Salomon that there be poore seruants who in the end by their wisedome will beare rule ouer the riche children in whom is no habilitie to gouerne themselues discréetely There resteth to a young man but a strong desire and feruent mind to studie to make him at last wise and learned and such one sayth Aristotle though he knoweth nothing yet he is more then halfe learned if he begin well Touching the election of Masters to institute children I haue spoken at large in the last booke only I aduertise rich parēts that to entertaine good Masters it is better to bestowe crownes then shillings For by them money time honour knowledge vertue are gained foure fold which all are lost where the instructor is either ignoraunt negligent or corrupt In this the consideration of couetousnes doth much blind vndiscréete parents more fearefull of the wast of their money then fauoring the benefite of their children according to the example of the man in Plutarch who suing to a Philosopher to teach his sonne and he requiring compotent hier what saith this couetous father with so much money can I buy a slaue by whō I can raise yerely great reuenue so saith the Philosopher may you haue two for one if you leaue your childe ignorant and without discipline meaning that by his couetousnes he should haue a sonne a slaue to his desires and affections who liuing alwayes in dishonour and subiection would neuer bring forth any good actions but by force or feare where hauing institution as hée might by doctrine and vertue leade his lyfe in right honorable libertie so if for want of discipline he became prodigall and spent his wealth he should be driuen to serue to supplie the necessitie of hys miserable life Touching the subiection wherein a Father ought to leade his childe he hath prescription in the scripture that he must minister Discipline to his childe that is not wise and by the rod chastise his malice to the end to deliuer his soule from hell The wise man in an other text giues this councell if thou hast childrē teache and discipline them and leade them in humble subiection euen from their youth hold them shorte by sharp correction hyde in thy hart the loue thou bearest them and giue them no indulgence libertie to pleasure since as by thy good correction thou shalt receyue of them great ioye and comfort vppon the ende of thy dayes so how much thou doest enlarge their youth to libertie euen so farre doest thou leade them in the pathe of their owne destruction to thy right worthy displeasure and dishonor The childe sayeth Salomon that is left to liue at his will giues confusion to his mother We haue an example in our great and heauenly Father who the more he loueth the straiter discipline subiection doth he holde ouer those whō he best loueth as we reade by his hard dealing with the Jsraelites and leauing the Pagans without correction saying In thy lyfe time giue not thy children power ouer thee as if he had sayde dispossesse not thy selfe of thy goods to thy children yea make not thy selfe familiar with them put thée not into their mercie but being maister so long as thou liuest retayne thy authoritie ouer them to correct them to disinherite them and punishe them if they offende Who spareth the rod from his child saieth Salomon hateth him and loues not his saluacion therefore ●o long as thy power remaynes ouer them if thou punish not their offences thou standest in the same estate of blame and damnation with them as witnesseth Hely whereof we haue spoken before It happeneth ordinarely by the iust course of Gods iudgement that as the father forgettes in his office and authoritie to minister instruction and discipline to his childe so in hys ryper yeares that negligēce efts●ones turnes his sonne frō the dutie of a child becomming disobedient disordered and dissolute and giues no reuerence eyther to father or mother yea sometimes he robbeth them dooth them wrong outrage and iniurie and setting his feete euen vpon their throate is the cause oftentymes that thei dye afore the ende of their dayes Saule is commended for that finding his sonne Ionathas by chaunce in transgression of the law he condemned him to death as if he had ben another which also he had suffered if the people had not deliuered him Dauid was somewhat to deare ouer his children which in the ende tourned to his rebuke and hurt Iacob depriued his eldest Sonne Ruben of his right of inheritaunce because hée was an inceste Abraham chased Jsmael because he had plaied with Jsaac which some interprete that hee had beaten him and others that he would haue committed Idolatrie and induced Jsaac to that impietie which thoughe it be vnderstand simplie to playe and loose time in importunat and vnlawfull sportes séeking also to seduce his younger brother and that Abraham could not bée ignorant but that Jsmael was corrupte yet hée expulsed him iustly yea euen by the commaundement of God. Noe punished with cursse ouer the familie of Cham the mocking that he made of him wherein is no great cause of maruell for that the father being the Lieuetenant of god here in earth ouer the regiment of his
children ought to execute his authoritie and suffer in them no impunitie of vice such commission was giuen to fathers and mothers by the law that if they vnderstoode their sonne to be disobedient or rebellious they ought to produce him into iudgement prosecute him to sentence to be stoned where the father and mother ought to cast the first stone against him But as the father is bound to seueritie towardes his children that are arrogant disobedient and corrupt so to such as are humble obedient and of most seruice to him Christianitie and natural office bind him to more franke curtesie and cōsideration So did Noe reknowledge Sem and Japhet by blissings because they had bene his good and faithefull children Abraham for the obedience of his sonne Jsaac made him his heire giuing but legacies to his other children And Iacob recompensed Ioseph with porcion double aboue the others Touching Maydes the scripture enioineth parentes to kéepe them short to haue their eye continually vpon them and neuer to accustome them to familiaritie for that sexe without subiection in youth beares a nature easie to slyde and is frayle aboue all other creatures more daungerous to be preserued thē any other brickle vessell Dyna went but to visit the maydes of the Citie of Sichem and was forthwith rauished by the prince of the countrey Thamar Dauids daughter going onely to comfort her brother Ammon whom they sayd was sick fell into violacion of hir bodie many there are of whō nothing is more required then opportunitie to expresse their corrupt willes for which cause it belonges specially to the mother to giue them no libertie out of her companie nor licence to speake to men without testimonie For there néedeth but one woorde to infecte a mayd as one word of the serpent was sufficient to seduce Eue notwithstanding hir wisedome A mayd is as a brickle glasse which as if you touche but with your least finger it is enough to make it fall and breake so the very type of a wicked toung suffiseth to entyce to euill a young maid being not instructed in the feare knowledge of God so daungerous saith the scripture is the virginitie of a maid therfore according to Salomon that father doth a great work when hée marieth his daughter And in the mean let him kepe hir in extreme subiection feed hir in sobrietie kepe hir in expresse exercise of some worke of the hand the better to restraine hir from thought of euill if they be pore let the parents prouid some occupation which with diligence and chastitie is a rich dowrie in mariage And to the riche science and labor are occupations necessarie to draw the mind from foolish and vaine thoughts for end as ther be sixe things to kepe maids from corruption doctrine shame feare subiection sobrietie and perpetual trauell So in the consideration of the charge of parents to their children let fathers remember that séeing they know by faith that they are ordeyned of God to serue him in propagation noriture and aduancement of the children which he giues them for they are as his ministers and lieftenaunts in that behalfe let them raise themselues to him in faith and hope that he will neuer abandone them seing the children do more aperteine to him then to them as hauing endewed them with a soule the figure of his deuinitie forming their bodies of wonderfull composition created infinit sortes of creaturs for their sakes let fathers confesse that they are but as nurses to God norishing his proper children and administring his seruice in those acts so deare to him they haue to receiue of him perpetuall rewardes if ther be honorable recompence in a king or prince of the earth to a comon nourse ministring noriture to the kings childe according to the will and prescript of his father Much more suretie haue fathers by their Faith ioyned with prayer that the heauenly King touching the necessities of common life will neuer for sake them if they norishe and féede his children according to his will and to his honour for that he neuer sendes children without Fatherly prouidence for their aduauncemēt By the same reason let fathers take héede that they suffer no vice or deformety of manners in them séeing that as God is pure holy and vndefiled so hee hath giuen children to fathers to fashion them such one 's for him wherein if they faile he will repute them as principall authors of their faults and with their children hold them guiltie in his terrible iustice Therfore let them not pamper nor corrupt them with wanton libertie let thē not make Idoles of them in the intrales of their hearts nor damne them selues to raise their children to riches and estates which they haue not deserued whereby perhaps for recompence they wyll procure perill to their liues But let them only obserue the will and prescript of God present them to him in the institution which he demaundes at their hands hauing no commaundement of him to make their children great Lords but rather men of honestie then possessers of great wealth which being duly obserued of fathers in the institucion of their children encreaseth the honor of their houses and bringes a recompence of eternall glorye to their whole posteritie ¶ In what dutie children are bound to their Fathers and Mothers Chapter vj. THE Scripture by many commaundements bindes children to honour and obey their fathers and mothers And by all right of nature and lawes humaine Ciuill and barbarous they are enioyned to disobey them in nothing I meane concerning humane honestie naturall dutie and diuine ordenance For if the commaundements of Fathers and mothers stretch to other things they abuse their authoritie séeing as I haue sayd they represent God in earth in the procreation and noriture of their children as the ministers of his prouidence and will and therefore their commaundements ought to agrée with the prescript rule of Gods will. And touching the disobedience of the child to the Father mother it is well expressed in the lawe of GOD giuen to Moyses how grieuous that disobedience was béeing commaunded to stoning euen a like punishment as if the disobedience had ben don against God as in déede the transgression and faulte retorned against the same Lord who being the great soueraigne Father hath ordeined this father fleshly in nature as his Liefetenant and executor of his will he cursed likewise the child that was guiltie in disobedience as in the lawe naturall Noe punished his sonne Cham with curses for that he mocked him which God ratefied Jacob depriued his sonne Ruben of his discent bycause he did outrage against him The Scripture afordes many curses to the child that either in act or word disobeyeth his Father and Mother and the Sonne that scorneth or disdaineth either of them is iudged worthy that the Rauens and crowes picke out his eyes meaning that in no sort such one deserues the vse of common light nor
obseruatiō amongst the Lacedemonians who vsed not only the lawe of perfect pietie to their proper and fleshly parents but also euen to all old people whome they honored as their fathers and gaue succor to all their affaiers as if they had bene their naturall children They estemed them happie if they were called to do seruice to olde men tacking it for the greatest prayse that coulde be ascribed to the actions of their life to pushe forward the affires of auncient men wherby it was sayde in comon prouerbe that happie was he that became olde in Lacedemonia as hauing so many childrē readily disposed to honor serue and support him as there was young people in the towne ¶ The dutie of Maisters towards their Seruauntes Chapter vij THe third ground of a cōmon weale and order of pollecie conteineth the authoritie of Maisters ouer Seruauntes and obedience of seruants to maisters wherein the maister mai be considered in two manners either as Lord buying with his money his seruaunt which they call bondman or slaue or conquering him in warre by victorie as his enemie or else he is maister not as Lord proper or owner but as trying and vsing the seruaunt only for a time as in England we haue no others So that this second sorte of seruaunt is no bond man but rather in the nature of a hyreling or marcenarie reteyned for a season when the scripture speakes in the Hebrew woorde of this name aued and the auncient Latines of seruus as also the Gréekes of their Donlos thei meane no other commonly then the perpetuall bondman This maister called Lord hath borne afore time supreme power ouer hys seruauntes putting them to death by his discretion without lawe of reprehension For so we reade Metellus a Citizen of Rome handled so many bond men as brake him cuppes of Crystall and was not called to punishement for it which comming to the knowledge of Augustus an Emperour pitifull he entred the house of the said Romane and to take away the occasion of a second crueltie to his poore bond men passhed in péeces al the vesselles of Crystall and glasses that hée founde in the house Olde Cato otherwayes reputed very wise was so tyrannous ouer his bondmen that whē by extréeme age they had no further abilitie to serue hym hée caused some to be committed to slaughter and suffered others to dye of hūger which cōmō humanitie denieth euen to a dogge or horse that had ben long vsed in seruice but that libertie or rather imperious and vnnatural authoritie of Maisters was afterwardes bridled and limited by many lawes as is written in Exodus who strikes his bond man or bond woman with a rod and they dye presently vppon the blow is guiltie of capitall crime but if they liue a daye or two after he shal not be punished for he hath bought them with his money as if the law had saied he thought not to kil them and so loose the money which they had cost him And albeit God often times recommendes vnto maisters to handle their bond men gentlie wherein to drawe them to more pitie hée puttes them in remembrance of the miserable seruitude which they endured in Egypte yet the hautie couetous and malicious nature of manye maisters draw them often tymes into actes of great tyrannie towardes their bond men vsinge them more cruelly then their necessary and trauelling cattell yea in no other estimacion nor vse then as brute beastes For the which God by his prophete declares howe angrie he is and sending ruine spoyle to their townes he suffereth some of them to be murdered and others made slaues to straunge and barbarous nations The Jewes had commaundement to giue libertie to the bond men of their nation the vii yeare which was as a sabboth sanctified to god But because aboue their prescript limite thei retayned their poore bondmen in hard subiection and if they complayned redoubled the straynesse of their bondage eyther not suffered them to appeare in the court to demaund iustice or else corrupted the Iudges and so choak the way of their remedie the Lord partly for this transgression sent desolation vpon Juda and transmigration into Babylon Let vs nowe sée the office of a maister to his bonde seruauntes wherein we shall finde that by reason hée ought with much more lenitie to behaue him selfe towards those which are not to him but as temporall seruauntes First séeing their slaues are men as well as they they ought to loue them as their neighbours for all men are our neighbours and if he were a Pagan or ennemie should a man doe wrong to him whom he loueth would hée enioyne him to thinges vnrighteous hurtfull hard and too full of labour If euery one by the law of nature be bounde to doe to an other as hee would be done vnto him selfe would he in the state of such subiection be commaunded to things aboue his abilitie to execute Secondly if the bond men or slaues be Christians religion much more then the law of nature ought to draw vs to affection towardes them If they be young we ought to hold them in the reputacion of our brethren if they be auncient let vs giue them reuerence as to Fathers I meane touchinge loue for concerning the bond ciuill and seruile it is not cancelled by the law of the gospell why should wée then with so arrogant proud and angrie hart commaund such rigorously whom we ought to loue and cherish with Christian humanitie If we be al vnited by one IESVS Christe as are the members of one bodye vnder this Lord which is made our head should it bée possible that the maister who in this body is as the eye or hand and the bond seruaunt to him is as the foote or least toa of his foote to obey and serue him should commaund or enioyne to this bond man any thing which should not bée reasonable honest and profitable the same agréeinge with the commaundement of Saint Paule not to doe any displeasure damage or wrong to that low part being so conioyned to him by naturall harmonie no rather if it suffer necessitie grief or anguish the superior parte is bound to trauell for it and yéeld compassion to his sorrow The Maister not touched with this spirituall iudgement and lesse féeling of this inwarde sence touching his office to his seruaunt doth not rightly acknowledge him selfe to be a man but much lesse a true Christian and faithfull member of the mysticall body of this Lord The same being the cause why many Christian nations in the consideration of suche loue according to nature and grace will not vse that imperious authoritie in their house ouer any bond man But taking certayne infidelles prisoners in lawfull warres as soone as they become Christians they giue them libertie and receyue them into their houses with wages and hyers for their labours obseruinge the vertues of the auncient Nations who after long proofe of their bond mē in
the dutie of the seruant to his master as he is not only bound to feare and honoure him as his lord but loue him as his head as in déede he is according to God so it is chieflie his office to ioyne to his seruice an effectioned francke and readye will euen as the member should serue his naturall head and as the sonne with a good hart should do seruice to his father his seruice must not be for the eye only or for manners sake as the saying is but with the consent of the hart vsing his absence and presence with one loyaltie in seruice as if he should serue God and that with out hipocresie or wicked affection for that God seing into the meaning of the hart abhoreth all corrupt will malice hipocrisie and sutteltie so that if he serue with these vertues fidelitie diligence hartie zeale or true loue with humilitie or obedience with out resistance or countermaund with consideration that what seruice he doth for his master ought to be profitable agreable and honest he serueth God for so doeth God lay out the estat and rate of his seruice which he ought to accomplish according to the vocation whervnto he hath called him referring the end of all to Gods honoure by faith and hope to please him and to obtaine in the end his last and eternal reward Therefor being thus instructed as S Paule teacheth him hée néed not care to be saued remayning still a bondman for in such estate he may pertake with the grace of saluation aswell as his master for that God as was euen nowe sayd regardes more the vertue then the persone Besides he is made fre by Iesus Christ from the seruitude of sinn and sathan which only seruitude is to be feared of the Christian and not the other which often times helpes to saluation where licentious libertie giues occasion to many of perpetual sentence here some philosopher might saye further for the bondman who seruing still not hauing where with to redéeme his libertie for that he ought to do to the end to serue God with more fréedome of mind liues a martir taking and suffering patiently his seruile condicion and praysing his creator in all trauel when he dieth in Iesus Christ they will folowe him for eternall rest and perpetuall recompence in heauen And so he shall so much the more glorifie God for that bondestate by how much he knoweth that by the prouidence and goodnes of heauen he hath béene preserued in it from infinit sinnes which with many others he had committed in fleshly libertie and receiued damnacion where now he hath hope to be saued in this estate Thus his seruile condition is made happie which with worldly men was holden wretched desperate here also we haue to vnderstand that God doeth a great grace to such as of their natures are seruants that is borne to serue and hauing neither iudgment nor authoritie nor meane to get power knowledge yet acknowleging themselues do follow their humble vocation in honest seruice and dutie But if they take it against their naturall inclination being a secrett motion of God touching the vocation their vsurped ambiciō and ouerwéening leades them into manie offences being causing to their damnation Touching hireling or yeare seruants their condicion is all one for the time they serue and dayly laborers for the dayes and space of their couenant are no lesse bound to serue then the slaue condemned to perpetuall seruice during his life And being subiect to the same lawes of discipline with the bond seruants they are also bound to the same fidelitie and simplicitie of heart in working by this generall commaundement of nature authorised by the scripture thou shalt not do to an other that thou wouldest not haue done to thy selfe and by consequent thou shalt do to another as thou wouldest be done vnto and as thou wouldest doe for thy selfe louing an other as thy self and his goods as theine owne And as God hath cōmaunded the master to pay well his seruant and workman yea not to detaine the hier of the day laborer till the morning for it is the sweat of his bodie his life So seruants and workemen are enioyned by the same commaundement to trauell in simplicitie honestie and truth euen as they should trauell for them selues in their owne busines ¶ How men haue ben made noble and of their dutie towards their subiects or tenants Chapter viij WE haue discoursed vppon the authoritie of Magistrates touching their rule ouer common weales as Fathers Maisters and Lordes polletike hauing a lesson in the Scripture to entertaine their authoritie by true fatherly loue and care vnder the rule or Lordship of these may bee comprehended the regiment of gentlemen ouer their tenants hauing gotten their noblenes prorogatiues of honour iurisdiction in their landes by their vertues valiantnes and high enterprises euen as gouernours and Magistrates for the merit of their doctrine and knowledge haue worthely aspired to the regiment and gouernment of others Noble men and gentlemen are as speciall gouernours and Magistrates in their proper landes wherein they haue double office as both to gouerne by the lawe being perticuler iudges of their tenants and defend them by armes from the inuation of oppressors And as to gouernours and Magistrates belongeth vnder the Prince generall authoritie ouer all so these haue speciall iurisdiction vnder the same Prince for their perticuler gouernement And therefore are bound to gouerne their tenaunts not onely as masters vse their seruants but as fathers cherish their children with singuler loue and as the head with louing direction guides his members and being also as pastors and heards men ouer their peculiar people they are bound to no lesse affection care prouidence dutie then the shepheard to his flocke the head to his members and the Father to his deare children But if they fayle in their regiment or misleade their priuate charge as we haue shewed these for the vices of their generall gouernement to deserue a horrible sentence of God without grace fo gentlemen abusing their perticuler estate stand in hazerd of a terrible iudgement séeing as the mightie saith the wise man shall suffer cruell torments so stand they accomptable afore God for euery their perticular tenaunt touching ciuill gouernement and defence of them as the curate must answere for euery soule within his parishe And so the temporall Lord for temporall pollecie hath speciall gouernement ouer his landes so to guide his tenants as their conuersation be honest farre from quarrelles discordes do no mutuall wrong one to another nor iniurie to straungers to kéepe them from sutes or at least to accord their diffrences and cut of waye to processes and giuing no scope to controuersies to kéepe thē all in modestie and office and suffer no idlenes nor vagabondrie Lastly let him prosecute the obseruation of Gods commaundements and establish and follow the instructions and doctrine which the Curat or spiritual pastor
Augustin let me releeue him whose necessitie is first offred to me drawing by my example rich men to reléeue others In this case the rich man refusing to ayde the poore is a tyrant and vniust possessor of the goods of others for that the superfluitie is a due portion of the poore according in the wordes of Saint Basill The money saith he that thou kéepest in thy coffers the apparel not seruing thée to vse and the vittailes that thou hast in aboundance are the goods of the poore ouer whose right thou dost vsurpe In this he séemes to holde conformitie with S. James that the rich men ought to sighe and wéepe for the miseries that will happen to them whereof he alleadgeth thrée causes the first for that they kéepe their gold and siluer till it ruste and haue no néede where many poore bodies perish of hunger and that their garments are gnawne with moathes where infinite poore creatures stand naked subiect to the iniury of the weather The second is that they paye not reasonably suche as serue them whose crye pearceth the very eares of the lord of hostes demaūding vengeance of their iniquitie The third is that they make great cheare and anoynt their throats with the liccorous sirops of swéet meats suffer the téeth of their poore brother to bite no bread nor his stomacke to be refreshed with whole some liccour Many other néedy people remaine in a Citie who notwithstanding their trade and occupation are driuen by some ouercharge of children or casualitie to sel their necessary implements and sometime the very instruments of their occupation not being hable to borowe and hauing shame to aske Of Christian amitie and how many sortes of friendships there be Chapter iij. HAuing not yet spoken of the dutie of a friend but in generall sort nor of Christian charitie wherein consists the perfection of a Christian and of moste deare commendacion in the Scripture it cannot be impertinēt to inferre some discourse therof the necessitie of our purpose so requiring Amitie is of foure kindes as naturall ciuill carnall such as was amongst the Pagans and Christian or spirituall The two first haue their approbation euen by the scripture the third which is carnall hath ben by the iudgemēt of good men reputed corrupt as in déede it is and much reproued according to the doctrine of god Naturall friendship is as the loue of parents towards their children and one kinsman or countrey man to an other Ciuill amitie is got either by conuersation and society of men together or in respect of profites eyther receiued or hoped for this friendship is called of the Philosophers humane and as it were due of common office But better is it expressed whereby it is called a vertue morall when it vnites mutually heartes and willes together sometimes it is but of the one part which is the cause of Tullies opinion that such is the force and propertie of vertue that it constraynes men to loue such on whom there goeth but an opinion and reputatiō of honestie though they neuer saw nor knew the persons But notwithstanding the reasons and iudgements of the Philosophers touching that kind of amitie the Scripture will neuer repute it a vertue if it haue not a purpose and end to the honour and loue of God without which end much lesse that all vertuous actions haue any recompence or glory afore God but with Saint Ambrose that kind of amitie is accompted corrupt as not done to that end which the Scripture cōmaundes by which we are cōmaunded to do al things for the honour of god Fleshly amitie or friendship is contracted vnder a hope or present enioying of goods honours and carnall pleasures And sometimes the naturall and ciuill amitie degenerate into this damnable loue being most often the very loue wée beare to our selues deliting more in our owne glory and pleasures then in GOD or that concernes our saluation Where vppon it is sayd that men vppon the end of the world shal be so worldly and fleshly a signe of reprobation that they shal be more feruēt followers of their proper delites then of God This loue Saint Augustine with good reason sayth is the foundation of the Citie of the Deuil as the loue to God is the ground worke of the holy citie of the soueraigne Lord Christian loue is that charitie which so often God recommends to vs comprehending an entier loue with all our power to him and a sincere amitie without fiction to our neighbour euen by the same measure that naturally we loue our selues with this intēdement alwayes that all be for the loue honor of God as the cause end of al amitie al our actions to the end to receiue for it eternal retribuciō This amitie leads directs makes perfect the natural ciuil moral friendship euen so corrects altogether that the is carnall as being corrupt by wicked affections makes it turne into spiritual by spiritual conuersation as if a man louing his wife onely for that she is faire and riche and for his beastly pleasure a Pagan loue and little differing from the affection of a whoremonger to his concubine and being afterwardes instructed by Christian doctrine with what zeale he ought to embrase his wife in mariage loueth her not for the reasons of the flesh aforesayd but as his companion of grace coenheritrice of the glory of heauen louing hir with that spirituall and true loue wher with Iesus Christ loued his Church And as a Father louing his sonne not simplie nor naturally but with a worldly affection as making him his Idoll falleth to loue him afterwards in God by Christian institution that is according to the prescript of the Scripture kéeping him in discipline and vertuous exercise Thus the whoremonger is conuerted and forbearing his fleshly affection to his troll will hate in him selfe and hir all damnable lightnes and neuer looke on hir but with a displeasure and remorse of his sinne which after their conuersion she is also bound to do And if there bée daunger eftsones to fall they are bound to restraine sight and mutuall company and stand vpon their gard no lesse then such as hauing ben once enuenimed with a swéete poyson by an antidot preserued from death will beware eftsones of charmes or swéete liccours neyther is penaunce of any force if the sinne bée not altogether abandoned and all carnaletie abhorred And if in déede amitie to speake more properlye bée a vertue more then morrall and not affection onely according to the error of some Philosophers it can not be ioyned with vice for so théeues other of vice albeit they vaunt of frendship in susteyning one an other can not truly be called frends but confederats in league conspiring by common consent to do euill Amitie is perpetuall as is all vertue of his liuely and proper nature So that such as loue richmen by reason of the proffites they receiue by them are not
direct commaūd gouerne lead all wherein as may be feared the effect of that ill signe and common prouerbe when the henne crowes afore the cocke and the cart put before the horse so it can not but bring malediction to the whole house for want that the wife is not well instructed and gouerned by hir husband I say not but the wise woman may and ought to commaund in the house and as Aristotle sayth haue the passage and superintendence of the houshold busines as to the husband belonges the care of outward things of greater grauetie and importance and where he can not attend the priuate affaires of the house as vnworthy of him shée maye take vppon hir to bée the faythfull storer and kéeper of the houshold reuenue fulfilling the prouerbe in Salomon That a wise wyfe buildes and edifieth the house where the fond woman with her handes subuertes it onely it is necessarie to the good man the better to drawe his wife to diligence to call her oftentymes to reckoninge for the reuenues and benefites of the house to the ende shee abuse him not seeing there be some that are hoarders or giuen to laye vp eyther for them selues fearing to become widdow or by stealth to amend the porcion of some one of their daughters more deare then the rest sometymes to gratifie a friend of secret reserue which of all others shall be least made knowne to the good man Wise husbandes ought some tymes to support in their wyues without present correction some light and easie infirmities as we sée the Phisiciō giues suffrance sometimes to a small feuer in a sick man to auoyde a greater disease determining with tyme to applie conuenient cure Tobie and Job endured with pacience the reproches of their wyues without beatinge them but with gentle declaration they corrected them and had them afterwardes very obedient yet I wishe no husband in this case to be so much a Philosopher in patience as was Socrates to his wife Xantippa who reuersing the table vpon her husband and other Philosophers disputing longer then she looked for he sayed only to the assistantes who hath hennes flying vppon the table though they turne downe the dishes and breake glasses yet the owner will not kill them for that they be profitable to laye egges euen so my wife bringes me forth children An other tyme when his wife had wearied him with great outrage violence of wordes and after whelmed a bason of vrine vpon his heade hée gaue her no worse recompence then that hee alwayes thought that after thonder rayne would fall wherein albeit his patience is more praise worthie in him then put in practise by the successors of these daies yit séeing a wife is giuen in discipline and correction to her husband and that she is neyther meare sauage nor desperate intractable which though she were yet men make tame both Lions and Tygers it were good first to vse doctrine aswell by him selfe as others hir parentes and nearest kinred and bringing her to the conference of sermons to leaue vnproued no gentle easie or friendly meane that may further her conuersion but if there be no limite to her frowardnesse then with the councell of S. Iohn Chrysostome let him minister suche discipline as may make her a good and obedient disciple for to refuse her or bring in separacion there is no sufferance by law nor conscience there is but onely adulterie which hath power ouer the deuorse yet that hath no force but where is no hope of reformatiō or for heresie which is a spirituall adulterie in which the lawe forbiddes all rigor for that if there be no breach of chastetie and that she hath desire to liue in dutie and obedience ciuill with her husband hée ought not rashly to refuse hir and if he doe yet hée standes restrained from remarying séeing mariage faith and sacrament of cōstancie are immutable In sicknes there is required in them both a mutuall care as if they were but one flesh as in all other accidentes yea if one of them should fall into leprosie there is no excuse to the other séeing faith is giuen betwéene them wherein if there were but that faith betwéene such as by extremitie of age haue no hope of liguage yet it draweth sufficient cause of mutuall succours and faithfull ayde and comfort euen vntill death whereof if eyther of them be reduced to widdow age there is one lawe general and equall to them both not to diminish the loue which they bare one to an other as in déed which of them dyeth lesseneth nothing the loue but rather encreaseth it in heauen towardes the other remayning here in life so that touchinge the reuerence of his funerall the remembrances leaft to hir by him that is dead here I speake of the woman meaning no lesse to the man as to cherish his poore parentes and friends whom he loued with any other charge committed to her faithfull and honest loue she is bound to execute them with no lesse obedience then if hee yet liued if he left her children shée is enioyned to double care as both for father mother if they haue smal age she is bound to leade them in good instruction exāple hauing rypenesse of yeres her office is to pushe them forwarde according to their faculties to the vocation whereunto their late father had prepared them if shée be a young woman S. Paule will not restrayne hir to perpetuall continency but councelleth hir onely to remayne in the estate of widowhead which for the liberall seruice of God is most acceptable and after virginitie an estate of most high perfection but if shée resolue to marie agayn let hir ioyne to her affection this ciuill consideration that firste her children be brought vp and aduaunced according to the example of the most brutish and sauage beastes on the earth who will neuer enter into the action of new procreation afore they haue nourished and giuen abilitie to their yong ones No the birdes wil not eftsoones couple with new makes afore their young ones haue winges to flie for their owne reliefe and sauetie let them not obserue the infidelitie of certaine right Pagan stepmothers who being eftsoones maried much lesse that they are beneficial to their first children but of the contrarie they refuse to take knowledge of them which happeneth moste in such as haue issue by their second husband who raking all from the house of their first husband to enriche the second issue leaue some tyme the poore children sent by God as a singular blessing and first fruites of worldly felicities naked and perplexed with many iniuries resembling in those vnnaturall moodes the shée mastyf who will not once looke vpon her first dogge but snatch and byte him after shée haue accōpanied with a second Widowes as I haue saide haue but one principall cause to marie againe which is if they bée younge and haue no children or if they haue which is a