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A02806 The line of liberalitie dulie directinge the wel bestowing of benefites and reprehending the comonly vsed vice of ingratitude. Anno. 1569.; De beneficiis. Book 1-3. English Seneca, Lucius Annaeus, ca. 4 B.C.-65 A.D.; Haward, Nicholas. 1569 (1569) STC 12939; ESTC S103875 92,810 272

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commendacion of the fact were gone And this I say was the cause that made men so charye from passing any Law for redresse of this vyce Chap. 14. VErelye if it were possible that there might a Law be made for the punishement of this vice of ingratitude we should haue lesse nomber of plesours done but then they that were done would then be better done And assuredly they that heretofore wold neuer make Lawe against it yet for all that they themselues very aduisedly and with great héed and warines did bestow such benefites and plesours as they shewed to any meanyng therby as it should séeme that their suche example of charines myght also direct vs to take dewe regard and respect whom we admitted and allowed woorthie on whome wee woulde dispose and bestowe our beneficence In whiche behalf if you stande fullie assured and perswaded before you bestow your benefites that he that is to receiue them is worthie to haue them I dare then warraunt you from hauynge cause iustlye of desier to vse anye accion for the recoueryng it again When thou art to bestow anye benef●ts regard onelye the honestie of the Receiuer In soo doing thye benefites are done as they shoulde be and become famous But if thou shouldest make pleadyng matters of them thou shouldest digrace thē quite It is I graunt a conscionable sayeng and most agreing with Lawe to saye Paye that thou owest And yet touchyng benefites it is the fowlest and moste vnséemely sayeng and fullest of discourtesie to saye Paye For what shoulde he paye Sometime he oweth his lyfe hys helthe hys welthe and sometime suche weighty thinges can not be paide themselues nor any things els that may coūteruayle the same This is it that I saye The worthines of so precious a thynge as a Benefit is shalbe quite loste if wée make marchaundise of it We should not enforce nor willingly apply our mindes to couetousnes sekyng of quarells and discension it is to prone of it selfe to suche matters if haplye any suche cause begin to grow let vs cut it of rather thē encrease it Chap. 15. WHat will some say shall the Ingrate and vnthankefull person escape quite go vnpunished Then pardon also the wicked man the ●awghtipacke the couetous niggard the skornefull and disdainfull man and the Tyraunt Whye thynke you that those factes that are hated and despited maye be sayde to escape vnpunished What more greuouse punishement can there be layde vppon anye manne then to bee hated dedlye of all menne He maye thynke it punyshment enough that he dare not desyer anye thynge of anye manne for feare to bee noted marked and pointed at of euerye manne or at least to thynke that he is soo and to knowe that he hathe loste the estimacion of the beaste and chefest Iewelles of the woorl●e to wytte hys honestie credit and estimacion Doe you not count hym vnfortunate that hath loste the vse of hys eyes or whose hearynge is quitte stopt vppe Then iudge him a verye wretched man that hath altogether lost the vnderstanding of suche plesours as haue bene shewed vnto him Suche one ought to think with himself that he allwayes standeth in the daunger and displesour of the goddes who are Recorde bearers and wil be Reuengers of his sayd Ingratitude Besides his owne gylty conscience cesseth not continually to molest accuse him And thinke you it not punishment sufficient the continual remembraunce of the losse of so many woorthie thinges as he therby doth lose Loke who taketh pleasour and delectacion aright at the receiuing of a Benefyt retayneth still and reuiueth it and maketh a continuall pleasour of it by oft remembring the same● reioycing not alone in the thing why●he he hath but also in the fréendly minde of him at whose handes he receiued the same But the vnthankfull man reioyceth but onely ones if he do that namely at that instant whē he receiueth the Benefit There is moreouer great diuersitie betwene their two liues For the one of them is allwayes sad and sorowefull to wyt thunthankfull man who honoureth neyther his Parents nor his scolemaster nor his bringars vp dewely as he shold do And contrariwise the thankfull bodye is allwayes mery and pleasaunt allwayes séekyng occasion to requite the benefits which he hath receyued and is gretlye delighted if he find it not sekyng howe he may fully digest it but studieng after what sorte he maye fully and thoroughly aunswere the same and that not to his parentes alone but to hys frinde allso and eche simple wyght that hath anye maner of wayes benefyted him And if his bondman happen to doo him a plesour streight waye he weigheth not of whome but what it was that he receyued Chap. 16. HOwbeit some ther are as Hecaton for one which dout whether a bondman or seruaunt may doo any thing that maye deserue y e name of a benefit to his master therefore they make this diuision that there are Benefites deuties or good endeuours seruices Benefits they cal those plesours which any straungers doo to vs. A straūger they cal in this respect such one as may when him listeth cess● and desist from so benefityng vs. Good endeuours or deuties those plesours or frēdly tournes which y e Children doo to their parēts wyues to their husbādes or cōtrarywise or any one of them to an other whom affinitie allyaunce of bloud doth wil cōmaund to help socour eche other mutually Seruices they call suche as the seruaunt doth to his master whō fortune hath placed in suche degrée that whatsoeuer he do in his maisters behalf he moste thynke it all but his dutye Whosoeuer for all that doth denye that the seruaunt maye benefyt his mayster declareth himself not to knowe what is ryght For onely it is to be regarded of what mind he was that did the benefit and not of what degrée Uertew penneth her self vp from no body she sheweth offreth herself to euery bodye to be had She admitteth all that wilbe sewters And those that haply passe by her without regard she calleth back of her owne accord Fréeborn frée made bondslaues banished men and Princes all a lyke She choseth neyther the house nor the degrée She contenteth herself aswell w t the naked man despoiled frō al giftes of fortune as with him that hath thē all in most abundaunce For though Fortune beare great sway in y e world yet vertew triumpheth ouer her If you will saye that a seruaunt can not doo a benefitte to hys mayster then will I auerre that it is not possible for a Subiect too doo it to his king or a Souldiour to his Capitain For though there are diuers respectes and sondrye tytles of the king the Capitaine and the mayster yet in thys point they are al one touching y e dewty of them that are vnder them and at theyr commaundement For as the kyng hath his subiectes and the captaine his souldiours
degenerat that vnneth saf sauinge line of bloude and lineall discent wee sauour nowhytte of them Asfor their welthe honours dignities and pre●errementes to whiche they were aduaunced for their noblenes namely their vert●wes were but only signes and shews and rewardes of noblenes Which who that hath by succession of inheritaunce enioyeth as in the Romaine weale publique he that had saued a Citizens lyfe and had merited y ● reward therof a garlande called Corona ciuica might leaue the same to his posteritie Who myght glory therin not for their owne factes but for the actes of an other who therby left to them an example of encouragement of attempting the lyke Contemne noman be he neuer so base and vnnoble of fame and simply preferd by fortunes giftes whether they haue bene bond heretofore or now presentlye are bond or people of farre and straunge contr●y●s of what estate or degre soeuer they be of lette them fortifie themselues and be of good cowrage Attaine vertewes shew them selues worthie and thinke not but as perfit nobility attendeth them as any other Why shoulde wee be so puffed vp with pryde that we shoulde take scorne to accept benefits and acknowledge the recept of the same at our seruauntes hādes Onely regarding their estate and forgetting their desertes Chap. 27. THis thought I good and necessary to be sayde both for the repressing of the wanton pryde and folly of those men who alltogether hang on fortunes sléeue and also for the mainteinyng the right acceptaunce and trewe vnderstandynge of suche plesour and benefites as seruauntes maye doo to their maisters defendinge the same shewed by Children to their parents For it hath bene dowted by som whether Children can doo to their parentes any gretter benefits then they haue receiued of them Towching whiche matter this I know wilbe graunted that possible it is that Children may attaine to gretter welth aspire to higher promocions then euer their parents did that which is more to be better also which being so it maye be that they may also geue far better thīges for that their fortune is better and perhaps their well meaning hart also But some may happen to say Well let the Child geue what he is able to his parentes it is yet lesse then dutie may duly demaund at his hands for that he oweth to them euen all that abilitie of geuyng as which without them he could not haue had So that it is not possible for hym to be ouercome with an other mans benefit wose precedent benefit was y e causer of that that was subsequent But see how greatly they are deceiued that are of this opinion At the first you know well a nomber of thinges take their originall and beginning of other thinges whyche notwithstanding in processe of time out-growe their sayde beginninges farre We sée that séedes are the ca●ses of many thinges and yet are they the smallest of those thinges which by thē take their beginninges Behold Rhine Euphrates what are they and all the other notable and famouse Riuers that are ells where if we regarde the heddes onely from whense they ●irste breake out if there be any cause whye they are regarded they take it a great waye of from the head The great churches and Cyties walles stande not without their foundacions and yet that which is the groūd woorke and staye of all lyeth hyd vnder the ground and is not séene So fareth it in euerye other thynge For the subsequent encrease and groweth shadoweth quite and ouerwhelmeth as it were oftentimes the beginninges of the same I coulde not you saye haue had my being without which I had neuer attained to these thinges if my Father had not begot me nomore could I if after my Fathers begetting and time of my birth my Nurse had not fostred me vp Chap. 28. BUt let vs goe roundly too worke and proue y t though the sonne haue bene benefited by his Father verye muche yet he may rendre asmuche againe and more to Admitte my Father as ●e begatte me wherby he gaue me my beginning so he fostred me vp whereby I tooke encrease also If I render the lyke of the last part I render more then I receiued For in this case he shal haue to reioyce not onely that he is nourished but also that he is nowrished of his sōne taking more comforth in my naturall minde then delectacion or pleasour in the thing it self whiche he receyueth Again what and if any man should so vse himself that eyther for his eloquēce his woorthie knowledge in Ciuill or Martial pollicie he becommeth famous and by the noblenes of his said vertewes shaketh of the darkenes and obscuritye of his base parentage and by meane of hys woorthines causeth the report of his fathers name to be crowned with perpetuall fame might not he worthely be said to haue done an inestimable bene●it to his parents Ariston and Grillus doutles long sith had bene raked vp in the duste and bene as if they had neuer bene with out all report if Xenophon and Plato their worthie sonnes had not by their noble memory caused thē also to be still remembred And wher had the famouse name of Sophroniscus bene now become if Socrates his sonne had not as it were made him liue a new It were ouer tedious and to long to goo about to recount here the names of al those whose names certeinlye hadde neuer continewed vnto these dayes had it not bene that thexcellent vertewes of their sonnes made thē famouse to their posteritie and as it wer immortalized them An infinite nomber of them assuredly had bene shut vp in the depe dungeon of obliuion if the famous memory of their sōnes had not deliuered thē frō that dime darkenes And though perhapps eche benefit y ● the childrē may doo to their parents seuerally considered and apart by himself be not able to coūteruaile the desertes of their said parentes yet a multitude of them conioyned may be able to matche them passe them also Chap. 29. IT was Scipioes chaūce to saue his Father in a great and sharp battel which to do he was forst being asyet but a very child to put spurs to his horse and abandone himself into y e thickest of his enemyes before he coulde come to the place wher his Father was And setting light by any neuer so perillouse aduenture that might befal stucke no whit to take to task any y e most beten and practised souldiours of his enemies far vnfit matches for his age or experience of dealing in wars as who that neuer before that time hadde bene in war fare The same Scipio also an other time pleaded his Fathers case at what time he was accused and by his well handeling of the matter discharged him from a great conspiracie of some that pretended his deth He also procured his father to be chosen Consull thrise arowe and aduaunced him to other honours Besydes all
this he enriched his father passingly beynge otherwayes but a verye poore man Chap. 30. BUt all this while haue I recited for profe of my saiengs exāples don by others Now let me assay if those examples were not how I were yet able by good and probable argumentes to fortifie and maintaine that whiche I haue sayde And that I can so doo you shall lightlye sée by this Whosoeuer hath geuen suche a benefit as may be bettred it maye also be sayde he maye be excell●d but the Father geueth such a benefit as may be bettred therfore it may also be sayde he maye be excelled To proue he maye be excelled I saye thus who that receyueth a gretter benefit then he gaue may welbe sayd to be excelled I proue that againe thus The often sauing of a mans life is a gretter benefit then the only ones geuing of lyfe But the father maye haue his lyfe often saued by his sonne which is a gretter benefitte then he gaue therfore c. Or thus who of twaine receiueth the benefit he most néedeth of receyueth the gretter benefit But the father who is now liuing receiuing lyfe receiueth the benefit he most néedeth of in respect of the sonnes néede who is not yet liuing and so had lesse néed therfore the father receiueth the gretter benefit But some that will be sati●fied neyther with Reason nor owght ells will still exclaime saieng It is impossible that the benefites of the father maye be excelled by the giftes of the sōne For except the father hadde begot him and made him a liuing creature how coulde he haue gotten any thing to geue I praye you then what doth the father more herein or deserue better then he in whose hande it lieth to saue the lyfe of the sonne or lette him dye and yet doth saue his lyfe Hath not any suche in respect of the life of the sonne merited asmuche as his father Yet verely For if any such had dispatcht him before he had attained any of those thinges whiche he gaue to his Father what could the lyfe he had at his fathers handes aduantage him to the getting of such things But the benefit of any that geueth me a seconde lyfe as it were by not berefting me the lyfe I now haue in vse alredye may be by me well enowgh requited and so maye that also of my fathers which was again more weke and vnperfecter thē y t that y e other gaue me as néeding a nomber of other necessarye concurrentes without which it could not be conserued Chap. 31. HOwbeit I woulde not that any man should cōceiue that opinion that I speake these thinges to thend to diminish in any one point the dew reuerence and obedience that ought in all places and times to be acknowledged done to our Parents For vertew by nature counteth to seke and purchace praise by wel doīg and contendeth in the pursute thereof to excel those chiefly that are most forward lye Pietie which is properly the dewtie which eche man is most streightly boūden to owe of dutie to God first and next to his parentes children kinsfolkes and contrey natiue shoulde be the ioyfuller when it is with an ernest desier done contending to passe and excell all others therein whiche if it happen so to hytte what gretter cause of reioycinge maye there be What maner contention can yéeld a more commendable victorie then that the parent maye haue iust cause to saye that his sonne hath ouermatcht him farre in requiting his benefites For if the parentes should shewe themselues after such sort to accompt of their benefites as though they could neuer be sufficientlye requited by their Children then certeinlye they shoulde make them so slacke that they woulde neuer vndertake to geue thattempt to it as perswaded afore hand that if they should it were but labour lost and not woorthe the whyle where as they shoulde rather encowrage them forwarde themselues and saye Well come on my deare Children it is an honest emulacion and kynd of contencion that is proposed betwene the parentes and their children namelye to assaye without cessyng who should be able to vanquishe others in bestowinge of benefittes I for my parte and you for yours assaye whyche of vs shall winne the best and deserue most at others handes To dispose and order this féeld there ●éedes no skill of captains nor sound of Drūme or other instrument to encourage men to marche on stowtly not dowting but they may get that victory whiche hath bene often hadde by the children against their parentes Chap. 32. THe yong men of Sicily passed far the benefits of their parentes For when on a time Etna hill whiche allway burneth ouer thaccustomed maner cast forth flames and in suche sort that the moste part of that Iland was sette on fyer thereby the yong menne that were inhabiting those fyred Townes seyng the daunger was past all recouerie and that there was no safe garde of themselues but to make theyr waye amyd the burning flames whyche had altogether enuirōned them as with a pale escape if they could takyng vpon their backes their olde and impotent parentes of whyche somme for wantte of sight some for lacke of their limmes could not shift any way for themselues chose rather so to hasard their liues then standing still in their houses or streates to be burned so cowardly Who when they wer thus armed with hardines and in sekinge their owne safetie neglected not the dewtie they owed to their parentes the crewell and raginge flames a straunge thing to tel deuidyng themselues as it were to reuerence the pyetie of the fact gaue thē free passage a midde them without any whit hurting them Antigonus also was no whyt inferiour to his Father in requiting his benefits For when he had in a wouderfull great battell disconfited his enemy and wōne the kingdome of Ciprus he gaue wholly both the spoyle of the battell and the kindome also vnto his father Manlius in lyke maner who though he happed to haue to his Father a verye seuere and hawtye stomackt man yet in requiting his benefites shewed himself no whit inferiour to him For when hys Father on a time for his rio●ous and vnbrideled youth hadde b●nished him from hys presence sone after he that was then Tribune of the people in Rome hadde pretended a conspiracie againste Manlius Father and the daye appointed when he shoulde be brought to hys aunswere Whereof Manlius hauynge intelligence came with spéed to the Tribune desiring to knowe the daye when his Fathers araynement shoulde bée makyng semblaunce of reioycing at it for that his father hadde delt so roughly with him The Tribune beyng preuie howe rigourouslie he hadde bene vsed by hys Father at firste moued hys case and accused greatly the discourtesie and vnnaturallnes of hys Father and hopyng that for reuenge thereof Manlius woulde what in him laye be a forthere● of his deuised pretence declared to him when the daye shoulde
that off●●th it A notable exāple of refusing profit offred That we ought ioyfully receiue the plesours that are done too vs. A reprehēsion of thē that well r●ce●ue bene●ites in ●●net onelye Diuers sortes of vnthākefull men Waies to shew our selues thākfull A notable thā●ful saieng of Furius to Augustus Causes of Ingr●ti●ude The sayeng of thūthākfull man Lentulus great co●et●●e and a●●ryce Co●etousnes burneth thākfulnes Ambiciō bredeth Ingrati●●de Enuy● causer of vnthākfulnes After what ●ort we shold perceyue of benefites do●● to vs. Misconsterers of gods ordinance the trew thought that christian men ought to hau● of gods ordinance A certein argument of goddes assured loue An argument a fortiori that they that sett ly●ht by goddes benefites no meruel though they neglect mēs A paradoxe of y e stoiques It is not to be said a benefit for whiche y e doer therof loketh for profet or recōpense That it behoueth to requite a benefit that is done An example of a cōmynge painter Thre maner profi●●● that growe by benefit●s The poītes wher vpō benefits cōsist The sayeng of the thankfull man qui nō est hodie ●ras minꝰ aptus erit Thākfull rec●iuing the firste poīt of re-repay●ng a bene●it Ingratefulmen cōplain vpō Ingratefull Forgetfulnes of a benefit y ● ch●fest cause of Ingratitude Who is to be sayd most Ingrate That to requite a benefit at ●ull what are requisite Exc●ss yf coue●yse causeth in gratitude Th● Epicures cōplaynt Multa c●dūt intercalicē supremaque Labra A cōparison of certein sciences benefites Note The macedoni●ns prouyded by order of Lawe agaynst vntha●●ull men 〈◊〉 re●son● 〈◊〉 Ing●a●●tud● s●uld not n●t be remedyd by Lawe B●ne●●●● of lyke quontity f●r diffe●rent in qualitie● The qualit●e of the benefites bredeth their estimacion A benefit may be repayed at any time Benefits of parētes Diuersitie of benefites of the persons to whō they are done That benefites should be bestow●d with circoūspectnes and discrecion To p●ye that a mā oweth is a Lawe g●ounded on n●tural reasō What pena●t●es ●rderly followe vn●hanfull People who that hath no perceuerēce of the pleasour that is done to hī is woorse then he that is depriued of his sēces diuersitie be●wene the thākfull the ingrate persō and their two lyues The d●uisiō of such ples●urs as may be done Benefits Dewties or endeuou●s Seruices The way to vertew opē to euery persō That a bound mā may benefitte his Maister The mīd is always fre and is exēpt ●rō slauish bōdage The bōdman maye refuse doing the cōmaūdemēt of his maister in som thīgs Wherein y ● boūdmā may benefit his master Wherin the maister may b●nefyt his bo●̄dman The be●●f●t of y ● seruaūt to his maister The discripsion of ● boūdmā● A notable history of two boūdmen ●n other notable Historie an other worthye Hystorie of a boūdman ● par●yt trewe ●art a fam●u●e act of a boundman an other exāple of a pollitik bondmā An history greate pr●yese woorthy of y e sober wyt and aduise of boūdmen Only one Originall of al men No parfyt glory 〈◊〉 boaste of our aūcetours No man ought to be cōtemned Uertew pr●ferred of ●l persons Whether children are able to do gretter bene●ites to their parents thē they receiued Many thin●es excel● their beginnings The Father that is nourisht of his some receiueth more the he gaue Immortall memory geuē by the childrē to their parentes ●altātnes of ●ōg Scipio to sane his fathers life Pro●e by resonable arg●mēt that the son may rendre gretter benefits thē he receyued Uertewe allwayes counteth to excell The encouragemēt that y e parēts shold geue to their childrē to apply thē selues to goodnes A famouse acte of the yong menne of Cicilye Worthy fact of Antigonus A stout facte of Ma●lius where●● he allso shewed his assured l●ue and deu●y acknowledged to his father