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image_n how_o repair_v of_o baptism_n and_o the_o solemnity_n thereof_o the_o mother_n the_o nurse_n to_o pag._n 4._o the_o mother_n be_v most_o employ_v about_o the_o head_n of_o the_o child_n my_o head_n my_o head_n say_v the_o child_n carry_v he_o to_o the_o mother_n say_v the_o father_n 2_o king_n 4._o 19_o the_o mother_n be_v charge_v with_o the_o head_n father_n and_o mother_n both_o with_o the_o heart_n and_o this_o work_n be_v for_o the_o closlet_n pag._n 4._o what_o infancy_n be_v call_v a_o innocent_a age_n but_o miscall_v something_o may_v be_v do_v even_o then_o for_o the_o rectify_v the_o child_n body_n and_o his_o heart_n too_o grave_a consideration_n press_v to_o that_o duty_n from_o pag._n 5._o to_o pag._n 9_o chap._n ii_o childhood_n and_o youth_n how_o they_o differ_v wherein_o they_o agree_v unhappy_a age_n both_o the_o period_n of_o this_o age_n not_o easy_o define_v the_o parent_n make_v it_o long_o or_o short_a as_o their_o care_n be_v more_o or_o less_o pag._n 10._o parent_n not_o discharge_v in_o point_n of_o care_n when_o they_o have_v charge_v the_o school_n with_o their_o child_n how_o vain_a that_o thought_n pag._n 12._o how_o preposterous_a the_o parent_n care_v how_o much_o father_n and_o mother_n both_o do_v cross_v their_o own_o end_n what_o a_o point_n of_o wisdom_n it_o be_v well_o to_o time_n our_o beginning_n when_o the_o seedtime_n what_o their_o employment_n there_o to_o pag._n 15._o chap._n iii_o a_o twofold_n employment_n which_o lie_v in_o the_o order_n of_o nature_n and_o right_a reason_n let_v hinder_v this_o twofold_a duty_n two_o fondness_n fierceness_n extreme_n yet_o ordinary_o in_o one_o and_o the_o same_o parent_n i._o of_o fondness_n what_o cause_v it_o youth_n more_o profitable_a childhood_n more_o delightful_a 9_o delightful_a fructuosioâ—_n est_fw-la adolescentia_fw-la liberorum_fw-la sed_fw-la infantia_fw-la dulcior_fw-la sen._n epist_n 9_o what_o hurt_n fondness_n do_v the_o devil_n murder_a engine_n to_o pag._n 18._o four_o mighty_a consideration_n to_o fortify_v we_o against_o it_o from_o pag._n 19_o to_o pag._n 22._o three_o example_n evidence_v how_o destroy_v it_o be_v to_o pag._n 24._o repeat_v conclude_v in_o mr._n boltons_n word_n with_o some_o use_n of_o the_o whole_a to_o all_o parent_n to_o page_n 26._o ii_o fierceness_n who_o fruit_n it_o be_v and_o how_o much_o it_o hinder_v to_o pag._n 27._o it_o help_v not_o to_o unroot_v evil_a but_o rather_o root_n it_o more_o in_o to_o pag._n 29._o it_o hinder_v much_o the_o implant_n of_o good_a to_o pag._n 30._o consideration_n which_o may_v help_v to_o calm_v a_o parent_n when_o in_o heat_n of_o spirit_n he_o be_v about_o to_o unroot_v evil_a be_v three_o very_o worth_a his_o consideration_n to_o pag._n 33._o consideration_n which_o may_v arrest_v a_o parent_n hand_n when_o he_o be_v about_o the_o implant_n of_o good_a be_v four_o which_o be_v consider_v will_v command_v a_o answerable_a practice_n to_o pag._n 35._o chap._n four_o our_o nature_n like_o a_o soil_n fruitful_a of_o weed_n what_o they_o be_v and_o how_o unroot_v 1._o pride_n the_o heartstring_n of_o corruption_n chrysostom_n note_n upon_o it_o how_o cherish_v how_o the_o contrary_a grace_n may_v and_o aught_o to_o be_v instill_v to_o pag._n 38._o 2._o frowardness_n a_o spice_n of_o the_o former_a the_o parent_n duty_n here_o how_o the_o contrary_a grace_n may_v be_v enforce_v to_o pag._n 40._o 3._o the_o way_n of_o lie_v and_o the_o way_n the_o parent_n must_v take_v to_o prevent_v the_o course_n of_o it_o a_o great_a work_n if_o it_o may_v be_v do_v if_o not_o the_o child_n be_v fit_a for_o no_o society_n to_o pag._n 41._o 4._o idleness_n how_o corrupt_a and_o provoke_v labour_n how_o natural_a to_o a_o man_n how_o he_o be_v provoke_v thereunto_o to_o pag._n 43._o 5._o a_o bad_a 7._o malignus_fw-la comes_fw-la quamvis_fw-la candido_fw-la &_o simplici_fw-la rubiginem_fw-la svam_fw-la svam_fw-la affricuit_fw-la sen._n epist_n 7._o companion_n how_o infectious_a and_o corrupt_a he_o will_v defile_v the_o best_a and_o most_o candid_a nature_n with_o his_o foul_a example_n pag._n 44._o 6._o the_o evil_a of_o the_o tongue_n prevent_v by_o teach_v the_o child_n silence_n and_o this_o the_o parent_n must_v teach_v himself_o and_o his_o child_n under_o five_o notion_n the_o brief_a of_o that_o which_o concern_v the_o child_n instruction_n be_v while_o it_o be_v a_o child_n let_v its_o word_n be_v answer_n nature_n teach_v much_o at_o this_o point_n and_o they_o more_o who_o walk_v by_o a_o high_a light_n pag._n 47._o 7._o a_o oath_n a_o word_n clothe_v with_o death_n in_o a_o child_n mouth_n the_o parent_n as_o in_o all_o so_o here_o very_o exemplary_a yea_o yea_o nay_o nay_o the_o friar_n note_n upon_o those_o word_n no_o more_o must_v be_v hear_v from_o a_o child_n pag._n 48._o 8._o the_o child_n must_v be_v teach_v what_o weight_n there_o be_v in_o those_o word_n yea_o yea_o etc._n etc._n a_o good_a hint_n therefrom_o to_o teach_v 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delectat_fw-la pulchritudo_fw-la etc._n etc._n calv_v ep_v 16._o religion_n 236._o religion_n mâ—_n bolton_n direct_v p._n 236._o and_o the_o fear_n of_o god_n as_o it_o it_o be_v general_o the_o foundation_n of_o all_o humane_a felicity_n so_o must_v it_o in_o special_a be_v account_v the_o ground_n of_o all_o comfort_n and_o bliss_n which_o man_n and_o wife_n desire_v to_o find_v in_o the_o enjoy_n each_o of_o other_o there_o be_v never_o any_o gold_n or_o great_a friend_n any_o beauty_n or_o outward_a bravery_n which_o tie_v true_o fast_o and_o comfortable_o any_o marriage_n knot_n it_o be_v only_o the_o golden_a link_n and_o noble_a tie_n of_o christianity_n and_o grace_n which_o have_v the_o power_n and_o privilege_n to_o make_v so_o dear_a a_o bond_n lovely_a and_o everlasting_a tantum_fw-la everlasting_a mendax_fw-la est_fw-la omnis_fw-la secularis_fw-la amicitia_fw-la quae_fw-la divini_fw-la timoris_fw-la vinculo_fw-la non_fw-la est_fw-la ligata_fw-la chrys_n hom._n 24._o in_o 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but_o lose_v the_o ornament_n of_o the_o woman_n say_v the_o same_o father_n in_o another_o place_n indeed_o there_o be_v not_o a_o more_o unseemly_a and_o unworthy_a sight_n then_o to_o see_v a_o wife_n usurp_v the_o authority_n over_o the_o man_n it_o be_v like_o a_o body_n i_o have_v sometime_o see_v who_o head_n be_v bow_v down_o so_o close_o to_o the_o breast_n that_o behind_o you_o can_v scarce_o discern_v any_o thing_n but_o the_o shoulder_n certain_o it_o be_v a_o seemly_a sight_n to_o sâ—e_v â—_o t_o there_o be_v much_o in_o the_o example_n of_o a_o good_a master_n to_o make_v all_o follow_v his_o step_n though_o he_o say_v nothing_o yet_o child_n and_o servant_n may_v see_v enough_o whereby_o they_o may_v be_v teach_v chryso_v in_o cap._n 17._o gen._n bom_n 40._o â—_o the_o head_n stand_v out_o in_o sight_n and_o the_o contrary_a as_o unseemly_a and_o as_o unseemly_a every_o whit_n if_o the_o man_n demean_v himself_o unworthy_a of_o his_o place_n if_o he_o be_v not_o answerable_a to_o his_o honour_n and_o headship_n it_o will_v but_o disgrace_v he_o the_o more_o be_v like_o a_o pearl_n set_v in_o lead_n or_o a_o jewel_n in_o a_o swine_n snout_n a_o skull_n without_o brain_n or_o a_o head_n without_o wit_n it_o be_v not_o to_o be_v doubt_v but_o the_o prime_a duty_n and_o the_o very_a weight_n of_o the_o burden_n lie_v upon_o the_o man_n it_o be_v much_o how_o he_o lead_v the_o way_n and_o draw_v here_o for_o the_o head_n be_v the_o glory_n and_o crown_n of_o the_o body_n and_o to_o be_v a_o head_n import_v a_o pre-eminence_n and_o sovereignty_n it_o imply_v also_o a_o derivation_n of_o the_o spirit_n thence_o to_o the_o member_n which_o be_v intercept_v the_o body_n will_v quick_o fall_v into_o a_o dead_a palsy_n 234._o palsy_n ut_fw-la in_o corporibus_fw-la siâ—_n in_o imperio_fw-la gravissimus_fw-la est_fw-la morbus_fw-la qui_fw-fr â—_o capite_fw-la dâ—ssâ—â—ditur_fw-la plâ—n_fw-fr l._n 4._o cp_n 22._o â—_o morbido_fw-la capite_fw-la nil_fw-la sanum_fw-la est_fw-la aeque_fw-la ullum_fw-la 〈◊〉_d membrum_fw-la efficio_fw-la svo_fw-la 〈◊〉_d ubi_fw-la quod_fw-la est_fw-la principale_v non_fw-la constat_fw-la de_fw-fr 〈◊〉_d d._n gaber_n l._n 7._o pag._n 234._o all_o which_o strong_o argue_v the_o man_n principal_a charge_n and_o duty_n to_o who_o belong_v the_o headship_n and_o therefore_o be_v the_o principal_a and_o lead_a example_n i_o he_o man_n by_o his_o example_n must_v lead_v on_o the_o wife_n to_o faith_n else_o what_o be_v one_o in_o the_o flesh_n will_v be_v two_o in_o the_o spirit_n that_o be_v diviâ—ed_v say_v chrysologus_fw-la servant_n chrysologus_fw-la vir_fw-la conjugem_fw-la deducat_fw-la ad_fw-la fidem_fw-la ne_fw-la quod_fw-la unâ—m_fw-la est_fw-la â—_o carâ—â—_n 〈◊〉_d â—â—â—_o d_o â—_o sum_fw-la ser._n 10._o as_o it_o be_v in_o print_v when_o on_o sheet_n be_v set_v a_o thousand_o 〈◊〉_d press_v after_o it_o so_o when_o the_o master_n have_v a_o good_a impression_n upon_o he_o â—is_n 〈◊〉_d be_v â—â—sily_o 〈◊〉_d to_o prâ—ty_n if_o grace_n that_o precious_a ointment_n be_v plentiful_o â—â—â—â—e_a head_n and_o heart_n of_o the_o master_n it_o will_v quick_o distil_v to_o his_o skirt_n child_n and_o servant_n the_o man_n be_v in_o his_o place_n though_o of_o the_o low_a rank_n yet_o in_o his_o place_n as_o the_o great_a parson_n in_o their_o great_a sea_n as_o the_o admiral_n ship_n that_o bear_v the_o lantern_n all_o steer_n after_o it_o and_o indeed_o this_o man_n though_o in_o a_o low_a estate_n of_o life_n yet_o be_v out_o of_o order_n can_v blow_v as_o big_a and_o raise_v as_o great_a storm_n proportionable_o in_o his_o little_a pond_n as_o the_o other_o do_v in_o their_o great_a sea_n so_o lipsius_n phrase_v it_o 1569._o it_o de_fw-fr const_n lib._n 2._o chap_n 25._o see_v part_n first_o p._n 93._o the_o lightness_n of_o
my_o family_n shall_v be_v lay_v to_o my_o charge_n so_o my_o conscience_n make_v i_o fear_n for_o laâ—ke_v of_o more_o earnest_n and_o deligent_fw-la instruction_n which_o shall_v have_v be_v do_v bishop_n ridly_n to_o master_n weâ—_n martyr_n p._n 1569._o therefore_o whether_o the_o man_n be_v in_o high_a place_n or_o low_a it_o be_v very_o much_o how_o he_o lead_v the_o way_n for_o he_o be_v as_o one_o that_o carry_v the_o lantern_n if_o the_o husband_n have_v receive_v the_o stamp_n of_o holiness_n as_o be_v say_v part_n say_v epistle_n to_o the_o first_o part_n he_o will_v quick_o press_v his_o household_n with_o the_o same_o impression_n if_o grace_n that_o precious_a ointment_n be_v in_o the_o head_n of_o the_o head_n in_o a_o house_n it_o will_v quick_o destill_n to_o his_o skirt_n child_n and_o servant_n a_o husband_n shall_v know_v that_o he_o be_v not_o more_o above_o his_o wife_n in_o place_n then_o in_o example_n therefore_o what_o be_v do_v amiss_o in_o the_o house_n will_v return_v upon_o the_o man_n as_o most_o blame-worthy_a my_o conscience_n make_v i_o fear_n that_o the_o lightness_n of_o my_o family_n shall_v be_v lay_v upon_o my_o charge_n for_o lack_v of_o more_o earnest_n and_o diligent_a instruction_n which_o shall_v have_v be_v do_v say_v bishop_n ridly_n to_o master_n west_n woe_n and_o woe_n again_o if_o we_o by_o our_o example_n shall_v make_v other_o to_o stumble_v at_o the_o truth_n so_o john_n bradford_n to_o john_n careless_n 1494._o careless_n martyr_n pag._n 1569._o pag._n 1494._o it_o be_v a_o tradition_n that_o mathias_n the_o apostle_n be_v use_v to_o say_v if_o a_o goodman_n neighbour_n do_v fall_v into_o any_o great_a sin_n the_o goodman_n be_v to_o be_v blame_v for_o if_o that_o goodman_n life_n have_v be_v suitable_a to_o his_o rule_n the_o word_n of_o god_n then_o have_v his_o example_n according_a to_o rule_v so_o awe_v that_o neighbour_n that_o he_o have_v not_o so_o fall_v say_v clemens_n of_o alexandria_n 541._o alexandria_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d strom._n l._n 7._o pag._n 541._o much_o more_o may_v the_o same_o be_v say_v touch_v the_o husband_n and_o the_o wife_n the_o father_n and_o the_o child_n the_o master_n and_o the_o servant_n if_o any_o thing_n be_v amiss_o if_o thing_n go_v not_o straight_o in_o the_o family_n it_o be_v very_o likely_a the_o husband_n the_o father_n the_o master_n walk_v not_o according_a to_o rule_v but_o some_o cross_n or_o crooked_a way_n for_o he_o be_v the_o head_n the_o lead_a hand_n the_o star_n be_v eclipse_v often_o than_o the_o great_a light_n but_o their_o eclipse_n we_o observe_v not_o but_o if_o the_o sun_n or_o moon_n be_v eclipse_v our_o eye_n be_v upon_o they_o for_o the_o one_o rule_n the_o day_n the_o other_o the_o night_n inferior_n fail_v often_o in_o their_o duty_n but_o the_o observation_n be_v what_o their_o superior_n what_o their_o governor_n do_v they_o be_v in_o their_o little_a house_n as_o the_o sun_n and_o moon_n be_v in_o the_o great_a world_n the_o little_a great_a ruler_n therein_o therefore_o it_o require_v our_o mark_n that_o it_o be_v the_o man_n for_o who_o faithfulness_n the_o lord_n do_v undertake_v i_o know_v that_o abraham_n will_v command_v his_o child_n and_o his_o household_n etc._n etc._n 19_o etc._n gen._n 18._o 19_o command_v mark_v that_o command_v not_o so_o much_o by_o his_o word_n though_o that_o be_v a_o command_n too_o but_o by_o example_n that_o have_v more_o force_n in_o it_o more_o of_o that_o we_o call_v compulson_n abraham_n will_v command_v and_o it_o be_v the_o man_n that_o promise_v for_o himself_o i_o and_o my_o house_n will_v serve_v the_o lord_n joshua_n last_v 15._o it_o be_v the_o man_n and_o a_o man_n after_o god_n own_o heart_n that_o say_v i_o will_v walk_v within_o my_o house_n with_o a_o perfect_a heart_n psal_n 101._o and_o much_o reformation_n must_v follow_v for_o the_o remove_n of_o the_o wicked_a from_o his_o seat_n and_o sight_n and_o for_o the_o encouragement_n of_o the_o godly_a as_o it_o be_v plain_a in_o that_o place_n and_o which_o be_v more_o this_o be_v a_o great_a house_n a_o kingdom_n it_o be_v a_o man_n and_o one_o under_o authority_n though_o he_o have_v soldier_n under_o he_o and_o they_o be_v none_o of_o the_o tame_a creature_n who_o do_v say_v to_o this_o man_n go_v and_o he_o go_v and_o to_o another_o come_v and_o he_o come_v and_o to_o his_o servant_n do_v this_o and_o he_o do_v it_o and_o to_o put_v the_o low_a last_n for_o indeed_o he_o be_v much_o below_o a_o christian_a but_o quite_o shame_v he_o it_o be_v a_o old_a man_n and_o a_o darkman_n that_o have_v four_o son_n stout_a young_a man_n five_o daughter_n many_o servant_n a_o great_a retinue_n over_o all_o this_o man_n carry_v himself_o with_o such_o authority_n with_o such_o a_o lord_n like_o command_n but_o so_o well_o temper_v as_o his_o servant_n fear_v he_o his_o child_n reverence_v he_o all_o honour_a and_o love_v he_o in_o the_o house_n you_o may_v see_v say_v the_o author_n send_v author_n cic._n the_o send_v the_o old_a paternal_a authority_n and_o discipline_n revive_v again_o all_o these_o example_n charge_v the_o man_n still_o and_o good_a reason_n that_o he_o shall_v be_v accountable_a be_v principal_a and_o the_o head_n of_o the_o family_n the_o chief_a pillar_n in_o it_o that_o hold_v up_o all_o and_o though_o the_o wife_n be_v as_o she_o shall_v be_v more_o faithful_a in_o her_o place_n than_o bibulus_n in_o his_o office_n yet_o the_o husband_n carry_v the_o chief_a name_n of_o all_o be_v the_o more_o worthy_a person_n and_o lord_n in_o the_o house_n and_o the_o wife_n be_v well_o content_a with_o it_o she_o count_v the_o husband_n honour_n here_o and_o so_o it_o be_v and_o be_v always_o as_o the_o moon_n be_v sometime_o with_o the_o sun_n in_o a_o full_a aspect_n with_o her_o husband_n than_o she_o cast_v the_o great_a lustre_n than_o she_o be_v most_o bright_a simile_n must_v not_o be_v strain_v parabolam_fw-la angâ—riari_n parabolam_fw-la too_o far_o wife_n must_v not_o shine_v then_o the_o bright_a when_o the_o husband_n be_v far_a off_o though_o then_o also_o though_o not_o her_o clothes_n yet_o her_o virtue_n may_v shine_v the_o clear_a for_o than_o her_o wisdom_n in_o govern_v and_o command_v do_v full_o appear_v when_o the_o husband_n be_v far_o off_o and_o her_o husband_n be_v know_v thereby_o he_o sit_v among_o the_o elder_n and_o her_o own_o work_n shall_v praise_v she_o in_o the_o gate_n a_o good_a wife_n be_v still_o in_o full_a aspect_n with_o her_o husband_n certain_o it_o be_v the_o comely_a sight_n in_o the_o world_n to_o see_v man_n and_o wife_n go_v in_o all_o thing_n as_o peter_n and_o john_n go_v to_o the_o temple_n together_o 1._o together_o act_n 3_o 1._o it_o be_v speak_v of_o before_o part_n before_o epist_n to_o the_o first_o part_n where_o there_o be_v cleave_v heart_n and_o divide_a tongue_n there_o be_v no_o edify_n in_o that_o house_n but_o a_o babel_n of_o confusion_n rather_o but_o now_o suppose_v the_o case_n as_o it_o be_v too_o ordinary_a that_o the_o man_n be_v the_o weak_a vessel_n the_o head_n go_v the_o contrary_a way_n it_o be_v so_o surcharge_v or_o the_o heart_n be_v so_o like_o a_o stone_n suppose_v the_o case_n so_o that_o the_o head_n be_v so_o distemper_a and_o nabal-like_a that_o it_o can_v lead_v the_o way_n how_o then_o this_o be_v a_o cross_n in_o the_o way_n and_o a_o great_a one_o but_o it_o must_v be_v take_v up_o and_o bear_v and_o the_o wife_n must_v as_o be_v say_v 104._o say_v pag._n 104._o speak_v good_a of_o it_o we_o must_v not_o choose_v every_o day_n if_o the_o choice_n be_v make_v and_o the_o two_o be_v yoke_v they_o must_v draw_v as_o well_o as_o they_o can_v and_o be_v content_a they_o must_v use_v all_o the_o skill_n they_o have_v to_o fit_v the_o yoke_n to_o their_o neck_n else_o it_o will_v prove_v a_o yron-yoake_n before_o i_o have_v choose_v i_o may_v fit_v my_o choice_n to_o my_o mind_n when_o i_o have_v choose_v i_o must_v fit_v my_o mind_n to_o my_o choice_n before_o thing_n may_v have_v be_v otherwise_o now_o they_o can_v i_o must_v not_o now_o go_v cross_n to_o my_o cross_n for_o that_o be_v to_o make_v it_o a_o double_a cross_n patience_n and_o meekness_n in_o bear_v and_o forbear_v notable_a forbear_v prov._n 25._o 12._o and_o 15._o very_a notable_a win_v much_o upon_o a_o contrary_a disposition_n and_o at_o length_n may_v overcome_v it_o but_o if_o not_o and_o the_o labour_n be_v lose_v yet_o as_o say_v the_o 1._o the_o chrysost_n tom._n 5._o de_fw-fr lazcon_n 1._o greek_a father_n apply_v it_o to_o minister_n wait_v when_o god_n will_v give_v repentance_n the_o reward_n will_v not_o
accountable_a too_o how_o patient_a he_o have_v be_v under_o want_n how_o he_o have_v humble_v himself_o under_o the_o almighty_a hand_n and_o how_o dependent_a upon_o that_o hand_n if_o there_o be_v a_o strait_n and_o the_o meal_n be_v at_o the_o bottom_n here_o be_v a_o hint_n of_o a_o glorious_a dependence_n upon_o he_o that_o multiply_v the_o oil_n and_o the_o meal_n and_o the_o loaf_n and_o with_o the_o few_o loaf_n though_o the_o power_n be_v the_o same_o feed_v the_o more_o and_o the_o more_o be_v remain_v upon_o he_o that_o do_v clothe_v the_o lily_n feed_v the_o raven_n make_v a_o path_n in_o a_o wilderness_n cause_v water_n to_o flow_v out_o of_o a_o rock_n or_o in_o a_o parch_a ground_n fill_v the_o valley_n with_o water_n when_o they_o see_v neither_o wind_n nor_o rain_n 17._o rain_n 2_o king_n 3._o 17._o it_o be_v good_a and_o safe_a to_o depend_v here_o infinite_a power_n and_o goodness_n can_v never_o be_v at_o a_o loss_n nor_o faith_n which_o look_v thereunto_o can_v be_v at_o stand_v faith_n make_v up_o a_o life_n without_o the_o creature_n it_o cheer_v the_o countenance_n without_o oil_n 221._o oil_n famem_fw-la vera_fw-la fides_fw-la non_fw-la timel_fw-la hier._n lib._n 2._o ep_n 18._o p._n 221._o refresh_v the_o spirit_n without_o wine_n glad_v the_o heart_n &_o strengthen_v it_o without_o the_o bread_n of_o man_n it_o be_v certain_a a_o soul_n that_o have_v such_o a_o dependence_n be_v never_o fat_a &_o better_a like_n then_o when_o his_o pasture_n be_v short_a like_o a_o wilderness_n it_o be_v fat_a in_o the_o winter_n as_o some_o creature_n be_v when_o there_o be_v no_o green_a thing_n but_o ground_n tree_n and_o all_o be_v all_o cover_v then_o this_o soul_n can_v pick_v meat_n when_o the_o heaven_n be_v brass_n and_o the_o earth_n iron_n then_o even_o in_o such_o a_o time_n the_o soul_n can_v live_v rejoice_v and_o joy_n in_o the_o lord_n the_o god_n of_o salvation_n habb_n 3._o 18._o this_o be_v the_o only_a way_n which_o will_v lead_v thou_o through_o the_o snare_n which_o be_v in_o want_n that_o thou_o shall_v not_o be_v entangle_v with_o they_o not_o put_v forth_o thy_o hand_n unto_o wickedness_n if_o thou_o can_v find_v no_o way_n god_n can_v make_v a_o way_n only_o thy_o part_n be_v if_o mean_n be_v short_a to_o trust_v the_o more_o and_o to_o lengthen_v thy_o hope_n hope_v we_o say_v be_v a_o inheritance_n for_o a_o king_n and_o this_o god_n will_v provide_v make_v god_n child_n confident_a it_o be_v good_a to_o be_v in_o a_o depend_v condition_n than_o we_o roll_n ourselves_o upon_o god_n the_o depend_v soul_n can_v best_a tract_n the_o way_n of_o god_n providence_n and_o see_v how_o wise_a and_o admirable_a they_o be_v whereas_o the_o fullness_n of_o outward_a mean_n obscure_v the_o lustre_n of_o that_o tract_n and_o draw_v the_o heart_n unto_o they_o from_o a_o providence_n and_o now_o i_o need_v not_o bid_v thou_o use_v all_o lawful_a mean_n for_o dependence_n on_o a_o providence_n do_v establish_v the_o mean_n and_o we_o in_o the_o use_n of_o they_o it_o be_v unreasonable_a to_o think_v that_o god_n will_v feed_v we_o from_o heaven_n when_o we_o may_v gather_v our_o meat_n from_o the_o earth_n he_o work_v not_o extraordinary_a in_o a_o fruitful_a land_n where_o the_o plough_n can_v go_v i_o mean_v in_o that_o place_n and_o time_n when_o our_o hand_n can_v work_v as_o we_o must_v not_o trouble_v ourselves_o about_o god_n charge_n as_o it_o be_v usual_a so_o to_o do_v so_o we_o must_v not_o neither_o neglect_n our_o own_o charge_n which_o be_v to_o give_v all_o faithful_a endeavour_n and_o have_v do_v it_o then_o stand_v still_o rest_n and_o wait_v for_o his_o blessing_n who_o have_v say_v i_o will_v not_o leave_v thou_o nor_o forsake_v thou_o and_o now_o we_o be_v upon_o thy_o duty_n and_o charge_n hear_v some_o lesson_n which_o may_v be_v of_o use_n for_o thy_o better_a discharge_n thereof_o therefore_o the_o chief_a lesson_n follow_v for_o it_o make_v all_o easy_a let_v the_o law_n of_o the_o lord_n be_v never_o out_o of_o thy_o mind_n nor_o his_o word_n when_o household_n employment_n admit_v vacation_n for_o she_o that_o be_v marry_v care_v for_o the_o thing_n of_o the_o world_n how_o she_o may_v please_v her_o husband_n be_v out_o of_o thy_o hand_n that_o be_v a_o holy_a word_n say_v clemens_n 41._o clemens_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d proâ—rept_v p._n 41._o which_o make_v holy_a as_o he_o be_v and_o like_o he_o tongue_n there_o be_v but_o one_o be_v enough_o for_o a_o woman_n and_o work_n enough_o to_o use_v that_o one_o well_o other_o learning_n there_o be_v too_o but_o like_o nut_n 199._o nut_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d clem._n alex._n strom._n 1._o 199._o i_o refer_v to_o thy_o sex_n it_o nourish_v not_o this_o word_n make_v 25_o make_v 2_o tim._n 3_o â—_o lactan._n lib._n 3._o cap._n 25_o perfect_a and_o thorough_o furnish_v all_o necessary_a truth_n be_v plain_a there_o and_o nothing_o dark_a 42_o dark_a 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d protrept_v p._n 42_o to_o he_o or_o she_o that_o will_v come_v to_o the_o light_n by_o earnest_a 25._o earnest_a 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d chrys_n in_o matt._n hom._n 25._o prayer_n ask_v of_o he_o who_o be_v the_o father_n of_o light_n who_o lead_v into_o all_o truth_n and_o if_o he_o join_v himself_o to_o our_o chariot_n we_o shall_v go_v on_o and_o increase_v mighty_o for_o it_o be_v in_o the_o strength_n and_o with_o the_o increase_n of_o god_n i_o can_v but_o point_v at_o what_o i_o will_v say_v for_o thy_o instruction_n this_o be_v the_o chief_a take_v counsel_n from_o this_o word_n and_o from_o this_o great_a counsellor_n than_o thou_o shall_v be_v teach_v indeed_o to_o answer_v thy_o worthy_a name_n worthy_o and_o all_o those_o relation_n thou_o stand_v in_o as_o become_v first_o to_o child_n the_o chief_a burden_n of_o our_o charge_n as_o they_o be_v the_o chief_a of_o our_o possession_n the_o rule_n be_v what_o be_v mention_v before_o i_o shall_v not_o recall_v 1._o thou_o must_v not_o set_v thy_o heart_n upon_o they_o as_o be_v say_v but_o keep_v a_o watchful_a eye_n over_o they_o thereby_o keep_v they_o in_o awe_n and_o begin_v betimes_o sit_v close_o here_o child_n be_v like_o a_o wild_a ass_n colt_n if_o thou_o do_v not_o over-rule_v they_o they_o will_v overthrow_v thou_o and_o themselves_o it_o be_v a_o pretty_a observation_n i_o know_v not_o how_o true_a that_o great_a man_n child_n learn_v nothing_o by_o order_n and_o rule_v but_o to_o manage_v their_o horse_n well_o and_o the_o reason_n why_o they_o be_v so_o careful_a therein_o be_v because_o they_o know_v their_o horse_n be_v neither_o flatterer_n nor_o courtier_n he_o will_v not_o stick_v to_o cast_v 253._o first_o part_n p._n 253._o they_o as_o soon_o as_o a_o mean_a person_n if_o they_o hold_v he_o not_o straight_o in_o and_o themselves_o close_o to_o his_o back_n it_o be_v so_o here_o if_o thou_o do_v not_o sit_v close_o upon_o they_o upon_o servant_n also_o hold_v a_o strait_a hand_n neither_o slack_v nor_o strain_v if_o not_o they_o will_v run_v headlong_o what_o ever_o honour_n be_v due_a none_o will_v be_v pay_v unless_o it_o be_v honourable_o command_v i_o mean_v with_o authority_n and_o with_o a_o countenance_n command_v a_o respect_n and_o a_o reverence_n let_v this_o bridle_n loose_v once_o and_o they_o will_v let_v loose_a the_o bridle_n before_o thou_o part_n thou_o job_n 30._o 11._o essrenatè_fw-fr in_o i_o inuâ—cti_fw-la sunt_fw-la quâ—si_fw-la immissis_fw-la vel_fw-la excussis_fw-la habenis_fw-la trem._n first_o part_n that_o be_v they_o will_v speak_v unreverent_o and_o scornful_o as_o if_o they_o be_v not_o child_n nor_o thou_o their_o mother_n and_o the_o order_n will_v be_v invert_v the_o child_n will_v be_v above_o and_o the_o parent_n shall_v be_v below_o and_o therefore_o hold_v fast_o here_o thus_o much_o or_o this_o little_a rather_o for_o i_o have_v speak_v to_o it_o before_o that_o thou_o may_v maintain_v thy_o authority_n over_o they_o if_o thou_o lose_v that_o thou_o will_v adventure_v thy_o comfort_n in_o they_o covet_v after_o the_o best_a calling_n but_o be_v not_o ambitious_a to_o make_v they_o great_a here_o below_o it_o have_v be_v a_o good_a ambition_n in_o the_o mother_n if_o it_o have_v be_v spiritual_a to_o be_v a_o earnest_a suitor_n for_o the_o preferment_n of_o her_o child_n to_o christs_n kingdom_n 101._o kingdom_n hoc_fw-la praecipuum_fw-la est_fw-la uti_fw-la piè_fw-la sanclâ—que_fw-la vivre_fw-fr dixit_fw-la uxor_fw-la calv._n epist_n 101._o no_o preferment_n in_o the_o world_n comparable_a do_v thy_o best_a here_o grace_n be_v a_o sure_a commodity_n and_o however_o the_o world_n go_v the_o trade_n of_o godliness_n can_v fail_v make_v sure_a of_o that_o for_o thyself_o