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A18965 A godlie forme of householde gouernment for the ordering of priuate families, according to the direction of Gods word. Whereunto is adioyned in a more particular manner, the seuerall duties of the husband towards his wife: and the wifes dutie towards her husband. The parents dutie towards their children: and the childrens towards their parents. The masters dutie towards his seruants: and also the seruants dutie towards their masters. Gathered by R.C. Cleaver, Robert, 1561 or 2-ca. 1625, attributed name.; Deacon, John, 17th cent, attributed name.; Carr, Roger, d. 1612, attributed name.; Cawdry, Robert, attributed name. 1598 (1598) STC 5383; ESTC S108061 199,347 392

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prou._n 14.1_o because_o that_o all_o be_v not_o wise_a as_o she_o that_o solomon_n speak_v of_o this_o wise_a woman_n be_v elsewhere_o call_v a_o gracious_a woman_n proverb_n 11.16_o and_o a_o virtuous_a w●man_n prou._n 12.4_o because_o many_o grace_n and_o virtue_n meet_v together_o in_o she_o for_o she_o be_v to_o her_o husband_n dutiful_a duty_n dutifulnesse_n or_o dutiful_a will_n be_v that_o which_o do_v shine_v in_o the_o declaration_n and_o performance_n of_o duty_n faithful_a and_o love_v those_o of_o her_o family_n wise_a and_o prudent_a in_o her_o business_n diligent_a and_o painful_a to_o her_o neighbour_n modest_a humble_a kind_a and_o quiet_a first_o if_o she_o be_v not_o subject_a to_o her_o husband_n to_o let_v he_o rule_v all_o household_n especial_o outward_a affair_n if_o she_o will_v make_v head_n against_o he_o and_o seek_v to_o have_v she_o own_o way_n there_o will_v b●_n do_v and_o undo_n thing_n will_v go_v backward_o the_o house_n will_v come_v to_o ruin_v 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in_o his_o duty_n but_o hold_v her_o place_n and_o labour_n for_o her_o part_n to_o uphold_v all_o and_o so_o god_n will_v either_o bless_v the_o work_n of_o her_o hand_n to_o the_o maintenance_n of_o the_o house_n or_o give_v her_o husband_n more_o wisdom_n and_o care_n or_o else_o give_v she_o a_o content_a mind_n with_o a_o low_a estate_n which_o be_v great_a riches_n one_o point_n of_o subjection_n be_v to_o be_v content_a with_o such_o apparel_n and_o outward_a port_n as_o her_o husband_n estate_n can_v allow_v she_o they_o fail_v in_o this_o who_o by_o importunity_n and_o disquietness_n wring_v from_o their_o husband_n more_o than_o he_o can_v well_o cut_v out_o of_o his_o revenue_n or_o get_n it_o be_v a_o part_n of_o unfaithfulnesse_n faithful_n 2._o faithful_n secret_o to_o purloin_v and_o poll_v from_o he_o for_o to_o prank_n up_o her_o child_n or_o herself_o her_o house_n and_o chamber_n in_o bravery_n and_o beside_o it_o be_v a_o close_o undermine_v of_o her_o house_n love_n and_o peaceablenesse_n in_o the_o wife_n towards_o the_o husband_n belove_a 3._o love_v love_n be_v a_o natural_a affection_n of_o the_o mind_n inflame_v all_o the_o power_n of_o the_o lover_n with_o willing_a duty_n towards_o the_o belove_a be_v available_a for_o the_o weal_n of_o the_o family_n for_o where_o they_o agree_v love_o there_o they_o count_v the_o good_a of_o the_o one_o the_o benefit_n of_o the_o other_o do_v joint_o watch_v against_o all_o such_o thing_n in_o their_o family_n as_o may_v endammage_n it_o there_o the_o servant_n know_v that_o in_o please_a one_o they_o shall_v please_v both_o and_o contrariwise_o be_v careful_a in_o all_o thing_n to_o
be_v true_o to_o be_v term_v man_n and_o wife_n only_o in_o regard_n of_o the_o precedent_a espousal_n we_o may_v then_o plain_o see_v how_o high_o the_o lord_n do_v esteem_v and_o honour_v they_o the_o breach_n whereof_o he_o punish_v with_o the_o punishment_n of_o adultery_n &_o the_o person_n betroth_v he_o honour_v with_o the_o name_n of_o man_n and_o wife_n if_o indeed_o he_o have_v not_o ordain_v and_o allow_v they_o but_o that_o they_o have_v be_v of_o humane_a institution_n alone_o he_o will_v not_o have_v honour_v they_o with_o such_o title_n or_o have_v impose_v death_n by_o stone_n for_o the_o breach_n of_o man_n ordinance_n again_o if_o a_o man_n abuse_v a_o betroth_a maid_n in_o the_o field_n he_o say_v that_o the_o man_n shall_v die_v but_o unto_o the_o maid_n thou_o shall_v do_v nothing_o because_o there_o be_v in_o the_o maid_n no_o cause_n of_o death_n now_o impose_v death_n upon_o this_o man_n and_o not_o upon_o he_o that_o abuse_v a_o maid_n not_o betroth_v the_o lord_n do_v hereby_o evident_o teach_v that_o espousal_n be_v a_o principal_a degree_n in_o marriage_n and_o therefore_o the_o unlawful_a breach_n thereof_o deserve_v death_n for_o what_o else_o shall_v the_o lord_n grace_v they_o with_o such_o great_a privilege_n and_o punish_v the_o breach_n thereof_o with_o severe_a punishment_n further_o the_o faithful_a in_o all_o age_n instruct_v by_o these_o and_o such_o commandment_n approve_a and_o practise_v these_o espousal_n not_o only_o by_o themselves_o etc._n judg._n 14.1_o etc._n etc._n but_o also_o by_o their_o child_n samson_n like_v and_o love_v a_o woman_n of_o the_o philistine_n in_o timnah_n desire_v his_o father_n and_o mother_n to_o give_v she_o to_o he_o to_o wife_n and_o so_o they_o do_v at_o which_o time_n samson_n make_v a_o feast_n according_a to_o the_o custom_n of_o the_o young_a man_n albeit_o her_o father_n afterward_o will_v not_o suffer_v he_o to_o marry_v she_o but_o give_v she_o to_o another_o for_o which_o injury_n samson_n revenge_v himself_o of_o the_o philistine_n by_o burn_v up_o the_o rick_n of_o stand_a corn_n vineyard_n and_o olive_n for_o which_o the_o philistine_n burn_v both_o the_o father_n and_o the_o daughter_n 3.14.15.16_o 1._o sam._n 18.15.26.27_o 2._o sam._n 3.14.15.16_o so_o david_n beg_v micholl_n of_o her_o father_n saul_n who_o give_v she_o to_o he_o to_o wife_n with_o condition_n that_o he_o will_v bring_v he_o a_o hundred_o foreskinne_n of_o the_o philistine_n and_o therefore_o when_o saul_n be_v dead_a he_o require_v she_o of_o ishbosheth_n saules_n son_n who_o send_v she_o unto_o he_o also_o joseph_n and_o marie_n the_o mother_n of_o christ_n be_v betroth_v which_o god_n will_v never_o have_v permit_v if_o it_o have_v not_o be_v of_o his_o own_o ordinance_n and_o agreeable_a to_o his_o own_o will_n or_o if_o he_o may_v any_o manner_n of_o way_n have_v stain_v either_o joseph_n honesty_n or_o mary_n virginity_n nay_o if_o he_o have_v not_o much_o more_o grace_v and_o adorn_v both_o than_o the_o want_n of_o espousal_n can_v have_v do_v and_o to_o avoid_v tediousness_n in_o so_o plain_a a_o truth_n 7.36.37.38_o 1._o cor._n 7.36.37.38_o see_v the_o scripture_n give_v power_n and_o authority_n to_o parent_n to_o give_v and_o not_o to_o give_v their_o child_n in_o marriage_n say_v let_v he_o do_v what_o he_o will_n again_o he_o that_o give_v she_o in_o marriage_n do_v well_o and_o he_o that_o give_v she_o not_o to_o marriage_n do_v better_a whereof_o we_o shall_v speak_v more_o at_o large_a anon_o there_o must_v needs_o be_v before_o the_o public_a act_n of_o marriage_n some_o special_a time_n appoint_v wherein_o both_o parent_n and_o party_n may_v testify_v and_o signify_v their_o mutual_a like_n and_o consent_n unless_o they_o despise_v to_o marry_v in_o the_o lord_n wherefore_o if_o the_o law_n of_o nature_n the_o law_n of_o god_n the_o practice_n of_o the_o heathen_a the_o custom_n of_o faithful_a especial_o of_o the_o parent_n of_o christ_n if_o the_o punishment_n of_o the_o espowsall-breaker_n and_o the_o reward_n and_o privilege_n of_o the_o espouse_v and_o final_o if_o the_o fatherly_a authority_n over_o child_n do_v approve_v and_o require_v the_o continual_a use_n of_o this_o ordinance_n of_o god_n it_o must_v needs_o be_v confess_v to_o be_v both_o lawful_a and_o necessary_a yea_o being_n the_o first_o principal_a part_n of_o marriage_n itself_o it_o must_v needs_o be_v honourable_a in_o his_o kind_n as_o well_o as_o marriage_n itself_o be_v now_o then_o in_o the_o next_o place_n let_v we_o see_v &_o learn_v what_o a_o contract_n be_v to_o the_o end_n that_o upon_o sound_a knowledge_n and_o right_a judgement_n we_o may_v always_o use_v it_o well_o and_o never_o ill_a for_o want_v of_o good_a understanding_n a_o contract_n be_v a_o voluntary_a promise_n of_o marriage_n mutual_o make_v between_o one_o man_n and_o one_o woman_n both_o be_v meet_a and_o free_a to_o marry_v one_o another_o and_o therefore_o allow_v so_o to_o do_v by_o their_o parent_n this_o short_a sentence_n show_v the_o whole_a nature_n quality_n property_n use_n and_o abuse_v with_o all_o other_o thing_n that_o be_v to_o be_v observe_v or_o eschew_v in_o a_o right_a contract_n as_o shall_v appear_v by_o the_o unfolding_n of_o every_o word_n contain_v therein_o for_o as_o there_o be_v none_o vain_a and_o idle_a void_a of_o his_o proper_a signification_n so_o every_o one_o have_v his_o proper_a weight_n serve_v for_o special_a and_o necessary_a use_n 1._o first_o we_o call_v a_o contract_n a_o promise_n and_o so_o it_o be_v indeed_o for_o what_o be_v a_o promise_n but_o a_o speech_n which_o affirm_v or_o deni_v to_o do_v this_o or_o that_o with_o pupose_v and_o word_n of_o testimony_n to_o perform_v and_o accomplish_v that_o which_o be_v affirm_v or_o not_o to_o do_v that_o which_o be_v deny_v and_o what_o other_o thing_n be_v indeed_o a_o marriage_n contract_n but_o this_o so_o that_o it_o must_v be_v in_o nature_n a_o true_a and_o right_a promise_n not_o the_o vow_n of_o a_o promise_n in_o time_n to_o come_v but_o a_o present_a promise_n in_o deed_n for_o if_o one_o party_n do_v say_v i_o will_v promise_v to_o marry_v thou_o this_o be_v no_o promise_n in_o deed_n but_o a_o promise_n of_o a_o promise_n and_o consequent_o no_o contract_n but_o a_o promise_n of_o a_o contract_n and_o therefore_o ti_v nor_o bind_v neither_o party_n nor_o parent_n to_o keep_v the_o same_o for_o it_o be_v not_o in_o nature_n any_o contract_n at_o al._n again_o if_o a_o contract_n be_v a_o promise_n it_o be_v not_o only_o a_o purpose_n of_o the_o heart_n nor_o a_o dumb_a show_n or_o doubtful_a signification_n of_o promise_n but_o a_o plain_a promise_n utter_v &_o pronounce_v in_o a_o right_a form_n of_o speech_n as_o when_o one_o say_v i_o do_v promise_n to_o marry_v thou_o or_o i_o do_v espouse_v affiance_n or_o betrothe_v myself_o to_o thou_o in_o marriage_n or_o such_o like_a wherein_o all_o ambiguity_n and_o doubtfulness_n of_o speech_n be_v to_o be_v eschew_v that_o as_o the_o meaning_n of_o the_o hart_n be_v simple_a and_o plain_a so_o likewise_o the_o word_n of_o the_o tongue_n may_v be_v simple_a and_o plain_a void_a of_o all_o deceit_n 2._o second_o we_o call_v a_o contract_n a_o promise_n of_o marriage_n because_o it_o be_v not_o a_o promise_n of_o every_o thing_n neither_o of_o honour_n of_o inheritance_n of_o riches_n or_o of_o any_o other_o thing_n else_o save_v only_o of_o marriage_n now_o we_o mean_v by_o marriage_n not_o only_o the_o party_n marry_v but_o all_o conjugal_a and_o marriage_n duty_n and_o office_n that_o peculiar_o belong_v to_o this_o honourable_a estate_n and_o be_v necessary_o to_o be_v perform_v mutual_o of_o both_o for_o this_o promise_n touch_v person_n themselves_o be_v of_o such_o force_n &_o weight_n that_o it_o tend_v to_o the_o alienation_n of_o the_o property_n of_o body_n for_o so_o it_o be_v write_v the_o wife_n have_v not_o the_o power_n of_o she_o own_o body_n but_o the_o husband_n 4._o 1._o cor._n 7_o 4._o and_o likewise_o also_o the_o husband_n have_v not_o the_o power_n over_o his_o own_o body_n but_o the_o wife_n for_o although_o this_o be_v not_o perfect_o do_v till_o the_o act_n of_o marriage_n be_v end_v yet_o this_o promise_n be_v the_o principal_a beginner_n and_o worker_n thereof_o because_o they_o that_o promise_v marriage_n do_v necessary_o thereby_o promise_v that_o two_o shall_v become_v one_o flesh_n and_o that_o they_o will_v always_o give_v mutual_a benevolence_n one_o to_o another_o touch_v the_o peculiar_a duty_n of_o husband_n and_o wife_n which_o likewise_o be_v promise_v by_o this_o contract_n we_o will_v here_o only_o recite_v they_o leave_v the_o doctrine_n thereof_o to_o another_o place_n and_o time_n 1._o the_o husband_n his_o duty_n be_v first_o
know_v more_o particular_o what_o sort_n of_o person_n they_o be_v the_o holy_a ghost_n describe_v they_o to_o be_v such_o as_o to_o who_o the_o gift_n of_o continency_n be_v deny_v yet_o the_o gift_n of_o procreation_n be_v vouchsafe_v and_o grant_v for_o if_o marriage_n as_o the_o apostle_n say_v hebrew_n 13._o vers_fw-la 4._o be_v honourable_a among_o all_o sort_n of_o person_n 7.8.9_o 1._o cor._n 7.8.9_o then_o among_o those_o that_o be_v strong_a again_o it_o be_v write_v i_o say_v to_o the_o unmarried_a and_o to_o widow_n it_o be_v good_a for_o they_o if_o they_o abide_v even_o as_o i_o do_v but_o if_o they_o can_v abstain_v let_v they_o marry_v for_o it_o be_v better_a to_o marry_v then_o to_o burn_v in_o which_o word_n we_o may_v plain_o see_v that_o he_o point_v out_o as_o with_o his_o finger_n those_o that_o be_v call_v and_o command_v by_o god_n to_o marry_v namely_o such_o as_o have_v not_o receive_v the_o gift_n of_o abstinence_n and_o continency_n which_o call_v and_o commandment_n be_v so_o much_o the_o straight_a and_o the_o more_o to_o be_v regard_v and_o follow_v because_o the_o apostle_n give_v it_o to_o those_o person_n that_o be_v molest_v and_o press_v with_o many_o and_o grievous_a persecution_n a_o season_n of_o all_o other_o most_o unfit_a for_o any_o to_o marry_v in_o in_o as_o much_o as_o beside_o the_o ordinary_a incommodity_n of_o marriage_n estate_n it_o can_v but_o bring_v with_o it_o many_o extraordinary_a grievance_n and_o trouble_n notwithstanding_o if_o such_o person_n be_v call_v and_o command_v then_o to_o marry_v when_o as_o there_o be_v most_o grievous_a persecution_n much_o more_o in_o the_o time_n of_o peace_n and_o prosperity_n by_o this_o than_o we_o see_v that_o all_o person_n which_o have_v not_o receive_v the_o gift_n of_o abstinence_n but_o of_o procreation_n be_v call_v and_o command_v to_o marry_v and_o therefore_o meet_v for_o marriage_n and_o also_o may_v lawful_o enter_v a_o contract_n of_o the_o same_o but_o be_v none_o else_o meet_v for_o marriage_n we_o answer_v that_o no_o other_o be_v call_v command_v or_o warrant_v by_o god_n to_o make_v contract_n with_o any_o of_o these_o meet_a one_o because_o they_o be_v unable_a to_o perform_v the_o principal_a duty_n of_o marriage_n as_o for_o child_n under_o age_n they_o be_v altogether_o unfit_a to_o take_v upon_o they_o this_o honourable_a estate_n and_o therefore_o debar_v by_o god_n commandment_n from_o make_v any_o promise_n or_o contract_n if_o they_o have_v it_o be_v but_o a_o mere_a profanation_n of_o this_o holy_a ordinance_n worthy_a great_a punishment_n and_o also_o to_o be_v break_v if_o that_o be_v come_v to_o year_n of_o discretion_n and_o state_n of_o marriage_n they_o do_v not_o by_o wisdom_n and_o religion_n supply_v all_o that_o be_v want_v in_o their_o former_a rash_a attempt_n to_o the_o full_a contentation_n of_o all_o that_o have_v interest_n in_o they_o as_o for_o those_o that_o have_v receive_v the_o gift_n of_o continency_n they_o be_v call_v and_o counsel_v to_o chastity_n during_o the_o whole_a time_n of_o that_o gift_n for_o so_o say_v our_o saviour_n christ_n all_o man_n can_v receive_v this_o thing_n save_v they_o to_o who_o it_o be_v give_v matth._n 19.12_o and_o again_o he_o that_o be_v able_a to_o receive_v this_o let_v he_o receive_v it_o so_o the_o apostle_n say_v it_o be_v good_a for_o they_o if_o they_o abide_v even_o as_o i_o do_v 1._o cor._n 7.7_o again_o be_v thou_o loose_v from_o a_o wife_n seek_v not_o a_o wife_n so_o likewise_o be_v those_o that_o be_v bear_v chaste_a or_o make_v chaste_a by_o man_n or_o by_o themselves_o for_o the_o kingdom_n of_o heaven_n but_o you_o will_v say_v what_o if_o any_o of_o these_o do_v make_v a_o contract_n and_o marry_v we_o answer_v first_o if_o they_o be_v utter_o unfit_a for_o marriage_n with_o one_o that_o be_v meet_v their_o contract_n be_v of_o no_o validity_n and_o may_v be_v break_v by_o superior_a authority_n 7.27_o 1._o cor._n 7.27_o but_o if_o they_o both_o be_v fit_a for_o marriage_n we_o say_v with_o the_o apostle_n be_v thou_o loose_v from_o a_o wife_n seek_v not_o a_o wife_n but_o if_o thou_o take_v a_o wife_n thou_o sin_v not_o and_o if_o a_o virgin_n marry_v she_o sin_v not_o etc._n etc._n last_o of_o all_o as_o consanguinity_n and_o affinity_n do_v restrain_v and_o bind_v from_o this_o former_a contract_n and_o marriage_n so_o likewise_o do_v natural_a frigidity_n and_o coldness_n infancy_n incurable_a disease_n that_o deprive_v man_n of_o all_o fitness_n for_o the_o use_n of_o marriage_n so_o as_o if_o any_o such_o by_o fraud_n ignorance_n or_o any_o other_o sinister_a mean_n be_v contract_v it_o be_v nothing_o and_o the_o party_n may_v be_v lawful_o separate_v because_o they_o be_v never_o join_v together_o in_o the_o lord_n but_o against_o the_o lord_n and_o here_o when_o we_o say_v meet_v and_o free_a to_o marry_v one_o with_o a_o other_o there_o will_v be_v a_o wise_a and_o holy_a regard_n have_v of_o the_o quality_n in_o year_n of_o agreement_n in_o religion_n of_o similitude_n in_o nature_n and_o manner_n in_o outward_a estate_n condition_n and_o quality_n of_o person_n and_o such_o like_a necessary_a circumstance_n for_o what_o be_v more_o unmeete_a then_o for_o a_o old_a person_n to_o promise_v to_o be_v contract_v to_o a_o young_a one_o for_o a_o infidel_n to_o contract_n with_o a_o believer_n for_o a_o good_a nature_n and_o well_o manner_v with_o a_o crooked_a and_o froward_a person_n for_o a_o prince_n with_o a_o beggar_n for_o although_o all_o these_o do_v not_o annihilate_v and_o make_v void_a the_o contract_n altogether_o yet_o such_o contract_n can_v be_v in_o the_o lord_n and_o thus_o much_o shall_v suffice_v to_o have_v teach_v touch_v the_o fitness_n of_o marriage_n now_o concern_v the_o freedom_n and_o liberty_n it_o be_v clear_a that_o those_o alone_o have_v liberty_n and_o freedom_n to_o contract_n who_o have_v liberty_n to_o marry_v now_o if_o we_o 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householder_n be_v to_o their_o servant_n and_o apprentice_n in_o place_n of_o father_n they_o be_v hereby_o admonish_v that_o they_o ought_v not_o to_o withhold_v and_o keep_v back_o their_o due_a wage_n to_o exact_v of_o they_o to_o oppress_v they_o or_o to_o reward_v their_o well_o do_v 24.14.15_o jam._n 5.4_o col._n 4.1_o job._n 31.13.14.15_o deut._n 24.14.15_o &_o good_a deserve_v slender_o but_o to_o be_v careful_a of_o their_o servant_n good_a estate_n as_o of_o their_o own_o not_o only_o in_o provide_v for_o they_o wholesome_a meat_n drink_n &_o lodging_n and_o otherwise_o to_o help_v they_o comfort_v they_o and_o relieve_v and_o cherish_v they_o as_o well_o in_o sickness_n as_o in_o health_n 7.2_o mat._n 8.5.6_o luke_n 7.2_o liberal_o to_o reward_v their_o good_a deserve_n as_o far_o as_o christianity_n liberality_n and_o equality_n shall_v
be_v straight_o charge_v reverent_o and_o faithful_o to_o obey_v their_o bodily_a master_n mistress_n and_o dame_n in_o all_o thing_n which_o maybe_o do_v without_o offence_n to_o god_n and_o this_o obedience_n and_o service_n must_v be_v do_v with_o fear_n and_o tremble_a in_o singleness_n of_o heart_n as_o unto_o christ_n 17.7.8.9_o 1._o tim._n 6.1.2_o luk._n 17.7.8.9_o be_v move_v with_o a_o reverence_n to_o god_n ward_n as_o though_o they_o serve_v god_n himself_o and_o that_o as_o well_o in_o the_o absence_n of_o their_o master_n mistress_n or_o dame_n as_o in_o their_o presence_n not_o constrain_o as_o it_o be_v force_v or_o compel_v thereto_o but_o hearty_o and_o with_o good_a will_n as_o the_o will_n of_o god_n and_o as_o they_o that_o serve_v the_o lord_n and_o not_o man_n not_o only_o in_o respect_n of_o the_o earthly_a reward_n but_o because_o they_o know_v and_o be_v assure_v that_o of_o the_o lord_n they_o shall_v receive_v the_o reward_n of_o inheritance_n in_o as_o much_o as_o they_o serve_v the_o lord_n christ_n so_o that_o hereby_o all_o godly_a servant_n may_v in_o few_o word_n learn_v what_o duty_n they_o owe_v to_o their_o master_n mistress_n and_o dame_n namely_o to_o love_v they_o and_o to_o be_v affection_a towards_o they_o servant_n 2._o king_n 5.13_o the_o property_n of_o a_o good_a servant_n as_o a_o dutiful_a child_n be_v to_o his_o father_n to_o be_v reverend_a and_o lowly_a to_o they_o in_o all_o their_o word_n and_o gesture_n to_o suffer_v and_o forbear_v they_o to_o obey_v with_o ready_a and_o willing_a mind_n all_o their_o lawful_a and_o reasonable_a commandment_n to_o fear_v they_o and_o to_o be_v loath_a to_o displease_v they_o to_o be_v faithful_a and_o trusty_a to_o they_o and_o they_o in_o deed_n and_o promise_n to_o be_v diligent_a and_o serviceable_a to_o speak_v cheerful_o to_o answer_v discreet_o not_o over_o bold_o to_o dally_v with_o their_o master_n wife_n daughter_n or_o maiden_n to_o be_v loyal_a and_o dutiful_a to_o their_o master_n mistress_n and_o dame_n as_o jacob_n be_v towards_o laban_n etc._n gen._n 30.27.28.29.30_o and_o 39.5_o etc._n etc._n and_o joseph_n towards_o potipher_n and_o they_o must_v careful_o endeavour_v to_o do_v and_o procure_v to_o the_o uttermost_a of_o their_o ability_n that_o which_o may_v be_v to_o their_o master_n mistress_n and_o dame_n honesty_n credit_n and_o profit_n and_o that_o as_o well_o when_o they_o be_v absent_a and_o out_o of_o sight_n as_o when_o they_o be_v present_a and_o look_v on_o this_o be_v a_o quality_n and_o property_n belong_v to_o every_o good_a servant_n both_o man_n and_o maid_n to_o wit_n that_o whatsoever_o good_n or_o necessary_n of_o their_o master_n mistress_n or_o dame_n they_o shall_v have_v charge_n of_o and_o be_v commit_v to_o their_o trust_n and_o keep_n that_o they_o careful_o see_v such_o thing_n so_o well_o and_o orderly_o place_v &_o lay_v up_o that_o if_o there_o shall_v be_v at_o any_o time_n any_o just_a occasion_n to_o use_v any_o necessary_a in_o their_o custody_n yea_o if_o it_o be_v in_o the_o night_n season_n and_o that_o without_o a_o light_n they_o than_o not_o only_o can_v say_v in_o such_o a_o place_n it_o lie_v but_o also_o if_o they_o be_v require_v they_o can_v present_o fetch_v the_o same_o servant_n must_v take_v heed_n that_o they_o do_v not_o witting_o and_o willing_o anger_n or_o displease_v their_o master_n mistress_n or_o dame_n which_o if_o they_o do_v than_o they_o ought_v incontinent_a and_o forthwith_o to_o reconcile_v themselves_o unto_o they_o and_o to_o ask_v they_o forgiveness_n they_o must_v also_o forbear_v they_o and_o suffer_v their_o angry_a and_o hasty_a word_n and_o in_o no_o wise_a to_o answer_v again_o spiteful_o or_o scornful_o neither_o yet_o upon_o any_o such_o occasion_n to_o run_v away_o for_o the_o angel_n teach_v and_o will_v hagar_n the_o servant_n of_o sarah_n when_o she_o flee_v from_o he●_n mistress_n 16.7.8.9_o gen._n 16.7.8.9_o that_o she_o shall_v return_v and_o humble_v herself_o under_o the_o hand_n of_o her_o mistress_n so_o do_v saint_n paul_n make_v agreement_n betwixt_o onesimus_n a_o vagabond_n and_o thievish_a servant_n etc._n phil._n 10._o etc._n etc._n and_o send_v he_o again_o to_o his_o master_n philemon_n from_o who_o he_o be_v sle_z away_o servant_n and_o apprentice_n therefore_o according_a to_o the_o rule_n of_o god_n word_n must_v patient_o bea●e_v and_o forbear_v their_o master_n mistress_n and_o dame_n and_o do_v whatsoever_o lawful_a thing_n they_o shall_v command_v they_o not_o be_v against_o a_o good_a conscience_n master_n how_o far_o forth_o servant_n ought_v to_o obey_v their_o master_n and_o therefore_o they_o must_v remember_v how_o far_o forth_o they_o be_v bind_v to_o obey_v their_o master_n that_o be_v usque_fw-la ad_fw-la arras_n that_o be_v so_o far_o as_o a_o christian_a religion_n suffer_v and_o so_o far_o forth_o as_o they_o may_v do_v it_o with_o a_o upright_o conscience_n for_o otherwise_o if_o their_o master_n shall_v command_v they_o to_o do_v any_o thing_n that_o be_v unhonest_a unlawful_a wicked_a unjust_a or_o ungodly_a than_o they_o must_v in_o no_o wise_n obey_v it_o 1._o sam._n 20.28_o etc._n etc._n and_o 22.17_o dan._n 3.18_o act._n 4.19_o and_o 5.29_o the_o condition_n of_o a_o good_a maid-servant_n be_v that_o she_o ought_v to_o be_v careful_a faithful_a patient_a neat_a and_o pleasant_a that_o she_o be_v cleanly_a quick_a and_o handsome_a and_o of_o few_o word_n honest_a in_o her_o word_n deed_n and_o attire_n diligent_a in_o a_o household_n and_o have_v skill_n in_o wash_v bake_v brew_v sow_v and_o spin_v but_o chief_o in_o hold_v her_o peace_n servant_n must_v lay_v apart_o all_o evil_a condition_n pride_n unfaithfulnesse_n brawl_v murmur_a 4.25.29_o ephe._n 4.25.29_o lie_a swear_v and_o filthy_a communication_n pick_v steal_v and_o tale_n tell_v if_o servant_n will_v careful_o mark_v and_o learn_v and_o so_o diligent_o practice_v these_o three_o short_a lesson_n follow_v so_o do_v not_o doubt_n they_o may_v both_o procure_v and_o purchase_v much_o quietness_n to_o themselves_o and_o also_o win_v and_o get_v the_o great_a good_a will_n and_o like_n of_o their_o master_n 8.9_o matth._n 8.9_o mistress_n and_o dame_n thereby_o first_o that_o they_o will_v cheerful_o go_v when_o they_o be_v bid_v second_o that_o they_o will_v come_v willing_o and_o ready_o when_o they_o be_v call_v and_o last_o that_o they_o will_v remember_v to_o shut_v and_o sparre_v the_o door_n after_o they_o the_o neglect_n and_o omit_v of_o this_o last_o duty_n if_o such_o as_o be_v housekeeper_n will_v careful_o observe_v it_o they_o shall_v then_o find_v that_o they_o sustain_v both_o loss_n and_o hindrance_n by_o it_o necessary_a aid_v among_o servant_n for_o help_n and_o case_n of_o one_o another_o necessary_a and_o because_o it_o sometime_o happen_v that_o one_o servant_n be_v too_o much_o charge_v with_o labour_n and_o work_v and_o another_o of_o his_o fellow_n have_v more_o ease_n than_o work_n one_o therefore_o shall_v so_o help_v another_o as_o we_o see_v by_o use_n in_o our_o own_o body_n when_o one_o leg_n be_v weary_a we_o can_v rest_v it_o on_o the_o other_o or_o when_o the_o right_a hand_n be_v over_o labour_v we_o can_v ease_v it_o with_o the_o left_a and_o when_o intercourse_n of_o love_n and_o courtesy_n entreat_v and_o persuade_v not_o this_o favour_n and_o kindness_n among_o they_o than_o shall_v the_o master_n himself_o command_v the_o negligent_a and_o loiter_a servant_n to_o help_v and_o ease_v the_o weary_a and_o he_o that_o be_v well_o employ_v and_o overcharge_v master_n servant_n must_v to_o the_o uttermost_a of_o their_o power_n seek_v the_o commodity_n and_o benefit_n of_o their_o master_n again_o servant_n be_v to_o be_v admonish_v and_o put_v in_o mind_n that_o they_o do_v not_o as_o some_o do_v without_o all_o conscience_n make_v spoil_n and_o havoc_n of_o their_o master_n good_n witting_o and_o willing_o neither_o yet_o that_o they_o suffer_v any_o of_o those_o thing_n that_o they_o be_v put_v in_o trust_n with_o through_o their_o heedlessness_n and_o retchlesnesse_n to_o be_v mar_v and_o lose_v but_o special_o that_o they_o do_v not_o make_v spoil_n and_o waste_v of_o such_o break_a meat_n as_o remain_v after_o their_o meal_n or_o at_o other_o time_n which_o do_v be_v not_o only_o a_o hindrance_n to_o their_o master_n profit_n but_o also_o a_o great_a offence_n to_o god_n who_o command_v that_o such_o break_a meat_n as_o remain_v to_o be_v gather_v up_o and_o save_v that_o so_o nothing_o be_v lose_v john_n 6.12_o therefore_o to_o conclude_v let_v servant_n and_o apprentice_n both_o man_n and_o maid_n assure_v themselves_o that_o as_o they_o deal_v and_o behave_v themselves_o to_o their_o master_n mistress_n or_o dame_n and_o their_o good_n whilst_o they_o be_v servant_n so_o likewise_o the_o lord_n in_o justice_n will_v cause_v their_o servant_n to_o deal_v and_o behave_v themselves_o to_o they_o when_o they_o shall_v come_v to_o be_v master_n or_o dame_n themselves_o so_o punish_v sin_n with_o sin_n 7.2_o matth._n 7.2_o and_o as_o religious_a and_o godly_a master_n be_v very_o wary_a and_o circumspect_a when_o they_o hire_v &_o entertain_v any_o servant_n into_o their_o service_n that_o they_o be_v such_o as_o be_v godly_a honest_a and_o religious_a or_o at_o least_o such_o as_o will_v be_v tractable_a and_o obedient_a to_o such_o good_a order_n and_o godly_a government_n as_o be_v and_o shall_v be_v use_v &_o exercise_v daily_o in_o their_o house_n but_o contrariwise_o such_o master_n as_o be_v profane_a &_o irreligious_a have_v no_o care_n or_o regard_n who_o they_o hire_v or_o receive_v into_o their_o house_n so_o they_o will_v fit_v and_o serve_v their_o turn_n for_o gain_n and_o profit_n though_o they_o be_v never_o so_o lewd_a vicious_a or_o ungodly_a in_o word_n or_o deed_n so_o likewise_o such_o as_o be_v christian_n and_o religious_a servant_n ought_v also_o to_o be_v very_o wary_a and_o careful_a that_o they_o do_v not_o place_v themselves_o with_o any_o such_o master_n as_o be_v profane_a and_o wicked_a or_o in_o such_o town_n and_o parish_n where_o there_o want_v good_a mean_n and_o exercise_n both_o of_o preach_v and_o catechise_n that_o so_o they_o may_v daily_o profit_v and_o go_v forward_o in_o that_o good_a course_n which_o they_o have_v begin_v whereas_o on_o the_o other_o side_n such_o servant_n as_o be_v without_o god_n irreligious_a and_o ignorant_a of_o the_o mean_n of_o their_o salvation_n care_v not_o where_o or_o with_o who_o they_o dwell_v nay_o they_o will_v not_o with_o their_o good_a will_n come_v to_o dwell_v either_o in_o that_o town_n or_o with_o those_o master_n where_o they_o shall_v be_v restrain_v and_o keep_v from_o swear_v dice_a card_v table_a profane_v of_o the_o lord_n day_n and_o other_o such_o wickedness_n who_o in_o thus_o do_v do_v fly_v from_o god_n and_o the_o mean_n of_o their_o salvation_n and_o so_o seek_v and_o follow_v after_o their_o own_o destruction_n finis_fw-la