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yourselves_o in_o what_o condition_n soever_o chap._n xii_o instruction_n for_o a_o gentlewoman_n marry_a how_o she_o ought_v to_o carry_v herself_o towards_o her_o servant_n and_o in_o the_o order_n her_o household_n affair_n etc._n etc._n as_o a_o gentlewoman_n care_n next_o to_o thaâ—_n of_o her_o husband_n and_o child_n aught_o to_o be_v in_o the_o well-government_n of_o her_o domestic_a affair_n that_o can_v consequent_o be_v do_v without_o a_o due_a regard_n in_o her_o proper_a person_n the_o ill_a conveniency_n of_o too_o much_o confidence_n in_o second_o management_n be_v too_o frequent_o apparent_a and_o this_o must_v be_v do_v beside_o what_o you_o set_v your_o helping-hand_n to_o by_o inspect_v the_o action_n of_o your_o servant_n and_o by_o behave_v yourself_o towards_o they_o as_o you_o ought_v that_o your_o good_a example_n may_v be_v their_o guide_n if_o you_o find_v by_o experience_n you_o have_v a_o serâ—ant_v faithful_a and_o ingenious_a in_o her_o station_n â—ve_v her_o encouragement_n by_o let_v she_o know_v â—ou_fw-mi be_v not_o unsensible_a of_o her_o industry_n by_o which_o if_o she_o be_v of_o a_o sweet_a disposition_n you_o â—ill_v animate_v she_o to_o proceed_v with_o alacrity_n â—ough_o some_o there_o be_v that_o find_v themâ—lves_n well_o accept_v will_v grow_v proud_a and_o conceited_a and_o imagine_v they_o by_o their_o service_n â—y_a such_o obligation_n on_o those_o they_o serve_v that_o â—ey_n can_v convenient_o be_v without_o they_o â—nd_v in_o this_o case_n too_o much_o familiarity_n will_v beâ—et_v contempt_n though_o encouragement_n where_o be_v deserve_v even_o on_o this_o occasion_n ought_v â—ot_n altogether_o to_o be_v want_v but_o be_v proportion_v to_o a_o degree_n of_o advantage_n not_o by_o â—ny_n mean_v disheartening_a a_o good_a servant_n in_o â—he_n performance_n of_o her_o duty_n by_o often_o findâ—g_v fault_n or_o be_v continual_o over_o they_o â—ut_v rather_o bear_v with_o light_a fault_n if_o they_o be_v â—ot_n a_o mean_n to_o create_v great_a if_o it_o be_v your_o misfortune_n to_o have_v a_o bad_a serâ—ant_n who_o negligence_n turn_v to_o your_o displeasure_n or_o disadvantage_n and_o no_o gentle_a admoâ—itions_n and_o convince_a argument_n be_v of_o â—orce_n to_o reform_v she_o fret_v not_o yourself_o nor_o â—e_n hear_v unseemly_a to_o exclaim_v but_o rather_o let_v â—er_o upon_o fair_a warning_n and_o such_o as_o will_v stand_v with_o your_o conveniency_n take_v her_o lot_n in_o another_o place_n not_o disparage_v yourself_o to_o retain_v â—rom_fw-mi she_o what_o be_v her_o due_a nor_o give_v a_o ill_a character_n of_o she_o when_o she_o be_v go_v by_o whicâ—_n she_o be_v reject_v as_o a_o unfit_a servant_n may_v through_o necessity_n be_v oblige_v to_o take_v eviâ—_n course_n and_o thereby_o be_v bring_v to_o shamâ—_n and_o disgrace_n in_o this_o case_n and_o any_o other_o avoid_v passion_n and_o be_v not_o rixarius_n for_o either_o of_o these_o ill_a become_v a_o gentlewoman_n your_o main_a business_n with_o your_o servant_n be_v to_o see_v they_o do_v whaâ—_n be_v fit_v and_o that_o they_o lavish_a not_o out_o noâ—_n waste_n that_o wherewith_o you_o intrust_v they_o foâ—_n this_o be_v neglect_v the_o fault_n will_v be_v charge_n upon_o yourself_o it_o be_v a_o unbecoming_a thing_n in_o servant_n tâ—_n be_v affect_v with_o flaunt_a fashion_n and_o gaudy_a attire_n above_o their_o degree_n and_o indeed_o no_o suitable_a to_o their_o station_n and_o to_o restrain_v thiâ—_n a_o mistress_n ought_v to_o concern_v herself_o yet_o eveâ—_n allow_v and_o encourage_v they_o to_o go_v neaâ—_n which_o will_v redound_v to_o both_o their_o credit_n foâ—_n a_o maid_n that_o go_v careless_a and_o sluttern_o iâ—_n her_o attire_n can_v be_v clean_o in_o her_o office_n of_o employment_n nor_o must_v a_o mistress_n by_o anâ—_n mean_v confine_v or_o restrain_v her_o servant_n from_o serve_v god_n but_o rather_o dispense_v with_o business_n to_o give_v they_o opportunity_n nay_o exhort_v theâ—_n to_o return_v tribute_n of_o praise_n and_o thanksgiving_n to_o their_o maker_n for_o all_o the_o benefit_n they_o hauâ—_n receive_v at_o his_o hand_n and_o see_v that_o gooâ—_n hour_n be_v keep_v upon_o all_o occasion_n other_o thing_n necessary_a to_o be_v observe_v anâ—_n â—hat_n your_o cattle_n and_o poultry_n be_v feed_v in_o due_a â—eason_n and_o that_o your_o stable_n and_o all_o other_o â—ut-places_n be_v keep_v clean_o especial_o your_o brewhouse_n and_o bakehouse_n and_o that_o nothing_o â—herein_o be_v waste_v or_o squander_v away_o by_o the_o â—esort_n of_o idle_a people_n that_o too_o frequent_o flatter_v and_o wheedle_n your_o servant_n to_o your_o disadvantage_n in_o the_o kitchen_n it_o be_v requisite_a that_o you_o see_v no_o necessary_n be_v want_v nor_o the_o season_n of_o meat_n and_o other_o thing_n in_o due_a time_n neglect_v lest_o by_o that_o defect_n you_o happen_v to_o be_v disgrace_v at_o your_o own_o table_n and_o â—arther_o that_o the_o cloth_n be_v lay_v in_o due_a season_n whereby_o there_o may_v be_v no_o excuse_n for_o those_o that_o spoil_n what_o be_v provide_v by_o over_n the_o chamber_n above_o all_o thing_n must_v be_v keep_v neat_a and_o the_o furniture_n regard_v that_o 〈◊〉_d be_v not_o injure_v by_o dampness_n dust_n or_o moth_n consider_v as_o occasion_n require_v to_o air_n they_o â—oth_v by_o the_o fire_n within_o and_o the_o sun_n without_o and_o cleanse_v they_o from_o dust_n by_o beat_v the_o cellar_n and_o pantry_n too_o must_v be_v regard_v that_o in_o frolic_v and_o extravagant_a merriment_n great_a spoil_n and_o waste_n be_v not_o make_v by_o servant_n and_o their_o visitant_n and_o weekly_a or_o monthly_o take_v a_o exact_a account_n of_o what_o be_v expend_v that_o so_o your_o expense_n may_v be_v proportion_v to_o your_o estate_n or_o income_n and_o in_o all_o thing_n carry_v yourself_o prudent_o as_o become_v the_o character_n of_o a_o gentlewoman_n and_o a_o good_a housewife_n finis_fw-la
be_v lay_v open_a lie_v abouâ—_o all_o thing_n must_v be_v abhor_v and_o the_o namâ—_n of_o god_n never_o mention_v but_o upon_o pious_a anâ—_n lawful_a occasion_n and_o then_o too_o with_o thâ—_n profound_a reverence_n the_o company_n oâ—_n naughty_a child_n who_o word_n and_o manner_n may_v offend_v or_o tend_v to_o corrupt_a youth_n though_o your_o near_a relation_n must_v not_o only_o be_v reprove_v by_o you_o but_o grow_v incorrigible_a or_o in_o reclamable_a shun_v and_o avoid_v and_o as_o often_o as_o stand_v with_o your_o conveniency_n especial_o every_o day_n between_o the_o morning_n anâ—_n evening_n duty_n of_o prayer_n read_v little_a or_o morâ—_n some_o portion_n of_o scripture_n with_o heed_n reverence_n and_o a_o comely_a gesture_n as_o consider_v it_o be_v the_o word_n of_o god_n write_v by_o holy_a man_n inspire_v for_o our_o learning_n and_o if_o it_o be_v in_o private_a you_o read_v where_o none_o but_o yourself_o iâ—_n present_a pause_n and_o meditate_v on_o those_o sacred_a truth_n as_o your_o heart_n be_v most_o inclinable_a as_o for_o the_o sabbath-day_n a_o day_n holy_a set_v apart_o by_o god_n as_o more_o peculiar_o design_v foâ—_n his_o worship_n though_o it_o ought_v on_o no_o day_n to_o be_v omit_v observe_v to_o keep_v it_o with_o the_o great_a strictness_n keep_v not_o only_a youâ—_n action_n and_o word_n but_o if_o possible_a your_o very_a thought_n within_o compass_n and_o spend_v thaâ—_n day_n especial_o in_o praise_n and_o thanksgiving_n both_o in_o private_a and_o public_a devotion_n with_o a_o firm_a faith_n and_o full_a reliance_n on_o god_n mercy_n and_o goodness_n for_o your_o protection_n and_o preservation_n in_o this_o life_n and_o for_o his_o promise_n of_o a_o â—etter_a life_n in_o the_o world_n to_o come_v when_o you_o be_v at_o church_n let_v not_o your_o â—yes_n by_o any_o mean_n wander_v nor_o your_o body_n â—ove_n in_o a_o unseemly_a gesture_n but_o in_o all_o thing_n 〈◊〉_d behave_v yourself_o that_o you_o may_v be_v a_o exâ—mple_n to_o other_o if_o at_o any_o time_n you_o be_v expose_v to_o melancholy_a or_o discontent_n pray_v to_o â—od_a to_o remove_v it_o if_o to_o mirth_n let_v it_o be_v harmless_a and_o innocent_a avoid_v lewd_a sight_n or_o â—aring_v song_n that_o may_v tend_v to_o corruption_n use_v debauchery_n but_o rather_o follow_v on_o this_o 〈◊〉_d well_o as_o the_o former_a occasion_n st._n james_n erection_n or_o advice_n viz._n if_o any_o be_v afflict_v 〈◊〉_d he_o pray_v if_o merry_a let_v he_o sing_v psalm_n c._n 5.13_o and_o in_o thus_o do_v you_o will_v treasure_n up_o blessing_n to_o yourself_o for_o if_o you_o careful_o perform_v your_o duty_n in_o serve_v god_n as_o you_o ought_v â—e_n will_v not_o withhold_v from_o you_o any_o thing_n â—â—at_o be_v necessary_a for_o to_o those_o that_o seek_v first_o â—â—e_z kingdom_n of_o heaven_n and_o its_o righteousness_n all_o â—â—her_a thing_n shall_v be_v add_v and_o thus_o much_o may_v brief_o suffice_v to_o instruct_v you_o how_o you_o ought_v in_o duty_n to_o behave_v â—our_n self_n towards_o your_o maker_n from_o which_o shall_v proceed_v to_o the_o next_o incumbent_n which_o your_o duty_n towards_o your_o parent_n etc._n etc._n chap._n ii_o instruction_n for_o young_a gentlewoman_n 〈◊〉_d behave_v themselves_o dutiful_o toward_o their_o parent_n as_o our_o parent_n be_v those_o from_o whoâ—_n next_o god_n we_o have_v our_o be_v and_o bâ—_n who_o tender_a care_n and_o inseparable_a love_n wâ—_n be_v nourish_v and_o preserve_v from_o innumerable_a danger_n and_o hazard_n therefore_o ougâ—â—_n we_o to_o render_v they_o suitable_a return_n as_o far_o we_o be_v able_a and_o more_o express_o in_o a_o grateful_a acknowledgement_n by_o our_o duty_n and_o observance_n therefore_o young_a gentlewoman_n take_v notice_n that_o you_o shall_v no_o soon_o arriâ—_n at_o moderate_a year_n of_o understanding_n but_o yoâ—_n ought_v to_o understand_v your_o duty_n toward_o your_o parent_n and_o that_o you_o may_v not_o pleaâ—_n ignorance_n i_o will_v brief_o lay_v down_o such_o rulâ—_n as_o may_v inform_v you_o what_o be_v necessary_a to_o observe_v in_o the_o first_o place_n your_o reverence_n louâ—_n and_o obedience_n be_v strict_o require_v not_o oâ—ly_o by_o the_o tie_n of_o nature_n but_o by_o god_n hoâ—_n word_n as_o sundry_a place_n in_o scripture_n manife_a nor_o can_v their_o infirmity_n in_o any-wise_a aâ—_n solve_v you_o or_o dispense_v with_o your_o non-performance_a but_o in_o such_o a_o case_n you_o ought_v to_o double_a your_o observance_n that_o thereby_o as_o much_o â—s_n in_o you_o lie_v with_o shem_n and_o japhet_n you_o may_v hide_v their_o weakness_n and_o defect_n from_o â—he_n eye_n of_o other_o lest_o the_o curse_n that_o befall_v cham_n the_o unnatural_a discoverer_n of_o his_o father_n nakedness_n fall_v upon_o you_o or_o the_o more_o dreadful_a threat_n of_o the_o wiseman_n in_o prov._n 30._o â—7_n the_o eye_n that_o mock_v his_o father_n or_o despise_v to_o obey_v his_o mother_n the_o raven_n of_o the_o valley_n â—hall_v pluck_v it_o out_o and_o the_o young_a eagle_n shall_v eat_v 〈◊〉_d up_o that_o be_v the_o very_a fowl_n of_o the_o air_n who_o be_v mindful_a of_o those_o that_o give_v they_o beâ—â—g_v shall_v testify_v against_o the_o disobedient_a and_o become_v their_o enemy_n but_o near_a to_o the_o purpose_n you_o must_v observe_v at_o all_o time_n to_o obey_v the_o will_n of_o your_o parent_n if_o it_o be_v in_o your_o power_n â—nd_v not_o contrary_a to_o god_n command_n without_o repine_v seem_a unwilling_a or_o enter_v â—nto_o dispute_n perform_v what_o you_o do_v with_o cheerfulness_n show_v by_o your_o willing_a mind_n your_o ready_a obedience_n and_o by_o your_o quick_a dispatch_n demonstrate_v the_o pleasure_n you_o take_v â—n_v the_o performance_n shun_v all_o occasion_n of_o give_v they_o any_o disquiet_n pacify_v their_o â—nger_n if_o it_o at_o any_o time_n arise_v with_o submission_n either_o in_o word_n or_o by_o behaviour_n temper_v â—our_n action_n with_o a_o moderate_a sweetness_n of_o disposition_n and_o silence_n for_o too_o much_o ostentation_n or_o loquicity_n be_v displease_v when_o your_o parent_n grieve_v be_v you_o sad_a when_o they_o rejoice_v be_v you_o pleasant_a as_o sympathize_v witâ—_n they_o in_o heaviness_n and_o joy_n yet_o be_v not_o over_o inquisitive_a into_o the_o cause_n but_o if_o you_o be_v desirous_a to_o know_v it_o wait_v their_o leisure_n to_o reveal_v it_o or_o learn_v it_o from_o some_o other_o hand_n forget_v not_o to_o pray_v for_o your_o parent_n as_o often_o as_o you_o put_v up_o your_o vow_n to_o heaven_n beseech_v the_o almighty_a to_o shower_v his_o blessing_n upon_o they_o that_o in_o multiply_v they_o may_v redound_v to_o their_o advantage_n and_o youâ—_n comfort_n which_o be_v one_o great_a advance_v by_o which_o a_o child_n endeavour_n to_o make_v his_o parent_n restitutien_n for_o their_o care_n and_o tenderness_n for_o nothing_o without_o calling_n god_n to_o youâ—_n assistance_n can_v in_o that_o nature_n be_v effectual_a the_o difference_n be_v otherwise_o so_o vast_a between_o what_o have_v be_v do_v for_o you_o and_o what_o you_o can_v do_v to_o deserve_v it_o let_v not_o the_o hope_n of_o riches_n no_o nor_o the_o severity_n of_o your_o parent_n imprint_v in_o youâ—_n mind_n a_o desire_n of_o their_o death_n lest_o the_o almighty_a be_v offend_v and_o shorten_v your_o day_n frustrate_v you_o not_o only_o of_o what_o you_o so_o earnest_o desire_v but_o of_o that_o which_o without_o those_o unlawful_a desire_n you_o may_v in_o his_o good_a time_n have_v enjoy_v shun_v those_o that_o speak_v ill_a of_o your_o parent_n and_o will_v make_v they_o seem_v contemptible_a in_o your_o eye_n nor_o let_v their_o poverty_n shall_v you_o be_v advance_v by_o any_o mean_n to_o riches_n or_o honour_n render_v your_o duty_n and_o obedience_n â—ess_n for_o they_o can_v be_v but_o the_o same_o in_o all_o â—_z if_o they_o be_v poor_a you_o ought_v to_o â—elieve_v 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unshaken_a loyalty_n a_o fellowship_n not_o of_o unruly_a and_o distemper_a love_n but_o of_o entire_a and_o endear_a affection_n the_o one_o be_v as_o different_a from_o the_o other_o aâ—_n heat_n from_o cold_a dryness_n from_o moisture_n aâ—_n the_o inflame_a disorder_n of_o a_o fever_n to_o the_o temperate_a and_o natural_a heat_n of_o a_o healthful_a body_n wherefore_o i_o pronounce_v those_o that_o marry_v to_o their_o content_n and_o be_v unite_v in_o the_o chasâ—_n endearment_n of_o reciprocal_a love_n to_o be_v true_o happy_a the_o wife_n be_v the_o joy_n of_o the_o husband_n and_o the_o husband_n the_o consolation_n oâ—_n the_o wife_n who_o take_v care_n to_o protect_v she_o from_o violence_n and_o reproach_n on_o all_o occasion_n and_o be_v as_o tender_v of_o her_o fame_n as_o his_o life_n and_o beside_o these_o this_o happy_a state_n produce_v a_o happy_a offspring_n the_o pledge_n of_o chaste_a connubial_a love_n not_o only_o as_o a_o present_a blessing_n but_o a_o 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