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or_o any_o thing_n do_v unadvised_o and_o through_o indiscretion_n which_o the_o party_n offend_v do_v acknowledge_v that_o do_v rage_n for_o a_o trifle_n or_o thing_n not_o worth_a take_v notice_n of_o that_o be_v not_o at_o all_o offensive_a to_o god_n but_o only_o not_o correspondent_a to_o he_o or_o her_o corrupt_a and_o imperious_a will_n that_o party_n that_o do_v this_o be_v the_o sole_a cause_n of_o all_o contention_n that_o do_v arise_v between_o they_o 6._o that_o party_n be_v guilty_a of_o sinful_a anger_n that_o when_o contention_n do_v arise_v at_o any_o time_n between_o husband_n and_o wife_n that_o do_v first_o of_o all_o give_v rail_v revile_v filthy_a and_o reproachful_a language_n for_o no_o person_n anger_n can_v be_v lawful_a and_o holy_a that_o do_v not_o observe_v christian_a modesty_n in_o abstain_v from_o malicious_a and_o wicked_a speech_n and_o unjust_a and_o spiteful_a action_n in_o express_v his_o or_o her_o anger_n for_o such_o as_o justify_v themselves_o with_o spiteful_a and_o bitter_a speech_n be_v not_o at_o all_o guide_v by_o the_o spirit_n of_o god_n it_o be_v usual_a when_o a_o husband_n or_o wife_n be_v causeless_o angry_a and_o can_v convince_v the_o other_o of_o any_o particular_a offence_n against_o god_n to_o rail_v at_o the_o other_o for_o some_o contempt_n that_o he_o or_o she_o apprehend_v to_o have_v receive_v from_o the_o other_o and_o indeed_o none_o be_v more_o injurious_a to_o other_o than_o those_o who_o rail_v at_o other_o in_o reproachful_a speech_n for_o pretend_a injury_n to_o have_v receive_v from_o other_o that_o reviler_n pride_n have_v occasion_v he_o or_o her_o own_o anger_n and_o promote_v the_o discord_n between_o they_o 7._o that_o party_n that_o do_v most_o justify_v he_o or_o her_o anger_n that_o like_o jonah_n say_v i_o do_v well_o to_o be_v angry_a and_o will_v not_o be_v convince_v of_o the_o evil_a of_o he_o or_o her_o anger_n but_o will_v make_v vain_a and_o frivolous_a pretence_n to_o excuse_v it_o be_v principal_o guilty_a of_o sinful_a anger_n and_o be_v principal_a causer_n of_o the_o difference_n that_o happen_v between_o they_o as_o husband_n and_o wife_n 8._o that_o person_n either_o husband_n or_o wife_n that_o after_o some_o heat_n and_o difference_n between_o they_o be_v most_o backward_o to_o the_o performance_n of_o family-worship_n and_o will_v order_v or_o set_v about_o any_o unnecessary_a business_n or_o lawful_a employment_n to_o interrupt_v it_o be_v guilty_a of_o sinful_a anger_n and_o the_o only_a occasion_n of_o difference_n between_o they_o for_o whatever_o a_o person_n have_v do_v that_o indispose_v he_o or_o she_o or_o make_v he_o or_o her_o averse_a to_o the_o service_n of_o god_n be_v sinful_a when_o the_o rage_n of_o one_o be_v grow_v so_o high_a as_o not_o to_o pray_v with_o the_o other_o or_o join_v in_o sacrament_n together_o at_o least_o not_o willing_o or_o with_o complacency_n but_o after_o have_v join_v in_o prayer_n will_v quarrel_v at_o the_o matter_n of_o prayer_n carp_n at_o expression_n use_v in_o prayer_n and_o censure_v the_o party_n pray_v guilty_a of_o hypocrisy_n or_o if_o the_o party_n pray_v vent_n his_o own_o passion_n in_o prayer_n that_o party_n that_o be_v guilty_a in_o any_o of_o these_o respect_n be_v guilty_a of_o sinful_a and_o causeless_a anger_n and_o be_v the_o only_a cause_n of_o the_o difference_n that_o happen_v between_o they_o 9_o that_o person_n be_v the_o most_o faulty_a person_n and_o most_o guilty_a to_o sinful_a anger_n which_o be_v not_o willing_a to_o be_v reconcile_v again_o when_o once_o displease_v but_o will_v retain_v anger_n a_o great_a while_n that_o person_n do_v manifest_v much_o stoutness_n and_o proudness_n of_o spirit_n when_o vain_a trifle_n have_v stir_v up_o a_o husband_n or_o wife_n to_o wrath_n his_o or_o her_o perseverance_n in_o it_o do_v evidence_n that_o it_o do_v seem_v to_o begin_v without_o a_o cause_n and_o so_o against_o all_o reason_n the_o injustice_n of_o he_o or_o her_o anger_n make_v he_o or_o she_o to_o persist_v in_o it_o with_o the_o great_a obstinacy_n and_o therefore_o thou_o do_v retain_v it_o yea_o increase_v it_o because_o thou_o may_v not_o seem_v to_o other_o to_o be_v angry_a without_o a_o cause_n and_o that_o the_o greatness_n of_o thy_o anger_n may_v make_v other_o believe_v that_o it_o can_v not_o choose_v but_o arise_v from_o a_o weighty_a occasion_n and_o just_a cause_n and_o so_o thou_o do_v choose_v rather_o to_o seem_v just_a than_o be_v just_a but_o the_o continuance_n of_o anger_n must_v needs_o be_v sinful_a because_o the_o apostle_n injunction_n be_v that_o we_o must_v not_o let_v the_o sun_n go_v down_o upon_o our_o wrath_n ephes_n 4.26_o that_o person_n that_o can_v lie_v down_o and_o sleep_v and_o awake_v in_o a_o angry_a fit_n be_v very_o faulty_a in_o be_v angry_a and_o be_v the_o principal_a cause_n of_o the_o difference_n that_o be_v continue_v between_o he_o and_o his_o wife_n or_o she_o and_o her_o husband_n that_o party_n either_o husband_n or_o wife_n in_o who_o bosom_n anger_n be_v permit_v to_o rest_n be_v guilty_a of_o the_o great_a folly_n eccles_n 7.9_o that_o woman_n that_o be_v in_o a_o burn_a feverish_a fit_n of_o anger_n for_o a_o long_a time_n be_v certain_o sinful_o angry_a because_o there_o be_v a_o great_a evil_n in_o this_o abide_n of_o anger_n indeed_o the_o long_a anger_n continue_v the_o more_o it_o grow_v and_o the_o long_a time_n anger_n be_v draw_v out_o the_o great_a distance_n thou_o will_v be_v at_o from_o thy_o husband_n with_o who_o thou_o be_v angry_a and_o thou_o be_v one_o that_o delight_v to_o drink_v of_o no_o other_o water_n but_o of_o massah_n meribah_n of_o the_o water_n of_o strife_n and_o anger_n long_o retain_v be_v in_o danger_n of_o receive_v some_o sourness_n of_o malice_n from_o the_o dregs_o of_o thy_o corruption_n the_o continuance_n of_o this_o inhuman_a fury_n have_v dissolve_v even_o the_o most_o sacred_a friendship_n upon_o very_o frivolous_a occasion_n i_o come_v now_o to_o give_v some_o direction_n for_o the_o prevent_n moderate_a and_o suppress_v angry_a fit_n that_o usual_o arise_v between_o husband_n and_o wife_n 1._o endeavour_v in_o the_o way_n of_o god_n the_o mortification_n of_o that_o prevail_a principle_n of_o flesh_n that_o be_v in_o thou_o if_o thou_o will_v be_v restrain_v from_o thy_o violent_a passion_n so_o long_o as_o the_o flesh_n be_v deep_o root_v in_o thou_o it_o will_v bring_v forth_o its_o fruit_n and_o anger_n wrath_n malice_n and_o contention_n be_v the_o fruit_n of_o the_o flesh_n if_o thou_o will_v not_o have_v such_o ill_a fruit_n come_v forth_o from_o thy_o flesh_n endeavour_v always_o to_o destroy_v the_o root_n of_o thy_o corruption_n for_o the_o weak_a thy_o fleshly_a principle_n be_v the_o seldomer_n will_v thou_o be_v move_v to_o anger_v the_o mortification_n of_o indwelling_a sin_n remain_v in_o our_o mortal_a body_n that_o it_o may_v not_o have_v life_n and_o power_n to_o 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