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A41637 Christian directions, shewing how to walk with God all the day long drawn up for the use and benefit of the inhabitants of Sepulchres parish / by Tho. Gouge ... Gouge, Thomas, 1605-1681. 1661 (1661) Wing G1359; ESTC R955 152,866 176

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the_o same_o so_o far_o as_o you_o can_v with_o a_o good_a conscience_n ezek._n and_o true_o this_o be_v one_o special_a act_n and_o exercise_v of_o love_n to_o seek_v to_o cover_v and_o conceal_v the_o infirmity_n of_o those_o who_o they_o love_v how_o blame-worthy_a then_o be_v they_o who_o take_v all_o occasion_n to_o spread_v abroad_o one_o another_o infirmity_n and_o many_o time_n belie_v one_o another_o this_o fault_n be_v so_o much_o the_o great_a in_o two_o especial_a respect_n 1_o because_o the_o husband_n and_o wife_n know_v more_o of_o one_o another_o infirmity_n and_o therefore_o if_o they_o be_v so_o ill_o mind_v can_v more_o discredit_v and_o defame_v one_o another_o than_o any_o other_o 2_o because_o of_o all_o other_o party_n they_o be_v most_o bind_v to_o conceal_v one_o another_o infirmity_n by_o reason_n of_o their_o near_a union_n chap._n xxiv_o of_o husband_n duty_n to_o their_o wife_n have_v show_v the_o common-mutual_a duty_n appertain_v both_o to_o the_o 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