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honour_v they_o in_o their_o heart_n speech_n and_o behaviour_n from_o a_o honest_a desire_n to_o please_v and_o filial_a fear_n to_o offend_v they_o who_o child_n they_o be_v of_o what_o rank_n soever_o they_o now_o appear_v in_o the_o world_n and_o therefore_o to_o comport_v themselves_o so_o in_o all_o the_o action_n of_o their_o life_n before_o god_n and_o man_n that_o they_o render_v themselves_o acceptable_a to_o their_o parent_n yea_o to_o both_o of_o they_o the_o law_n require_v reverence_n to_o the_o mother_n as_o well_o as_o the_o father_n 30._o father_n levit._fw-la 19.3_o with_o 30._o the_o word_n which_o be_v in_o one_o verse_n fear_n be_v in_o another_o translate_a reverence_n to_o the_o claim_n of_o which_o the_o mother_n there_o seem_v to_o be_v favour_v with_o some_o kind_n of_o priority_n because_o child_n who_o have_v most_o need_v their_o mother_n in_o their_o tender_a
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what_o child_n owe_v to_o their_o parent_n both_o with_o reference_n to_o their_o speech_n and_o behaviour_n 1_o with_o respect_n to_o their_o speech_n that_o it_o be_v seasonable_a and_o agreeable_a to_o the_o relation_n grace_v with_o humility_n 5.5_o humility_n 1_o pet._n 5.5_o and_o modesty_n in_o all_o converse_n with_o they_o in_o presence_n and_o discourse_n of_o they_o in_o absence_n they_o shall_v give_v they_o honourable_a title_n as_o that_o of_o father_n and_o mother_n do_v connote_v dignity_n 4.6_o dignity_n jer._n 31.9_o gal._n 4.6_o and_o so_o sir_n or_o lord_n 〈◊〉_d lord_n mat._n 21.30_o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d thus_o we_o have_v good_a child_n in_o the_o book_n of_o god_n salute_v their_o parent_n as_o isaac_n his_o father_n abraham_n 22.11_o abraham_n gen._n 22.11_o jacob_n isaac_n 17.18_o isaac_n 17.18_o david_n saul_n his_o father_n in_o law_n 24.28_o law_n 1_o sam._n 24.28_o solomon_n bathsheba_n my_o mother_n 21._o mother_n 1_o king_n 2.20_o 21._o rachel_n 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eph._n 6.4_o 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d provoke_v not_o your_o child_n to_o wrath_n this_o in_o my_o text_n seem_v to_o deny_v more_o general_o so_o that_o he_o allow_v not_o of_o any_o kind_n of_o abuse_n of_o the_o paternal_a authority_n which_o may_v just_o irritate_fw-la or_o provoke_v the_o passion_n of_o child_n a_o ill_a effect_n produce_v in_o their_o heart_n and_o proceed_v from_o any_o maladministration_n of_o the_o father_n power_n which_o in_o rigour_n be_v more_o apt_a to_o exceed_v its_o bound_n than_o the_o mother_n either_o in_o substract_v a_o fit_a allowance_n for_o nourishment_n and_o nurture_n not_o a_o usual_a fault_n which_o yet_o the_o apostle_n tax_v 5.8_o tax_v 1_o tim._n 5.8_o and_o quintilian_n complain_v of_o 2._o of_o lib._n 1._o c._n 2._o or_o load_v they_o with_o impious_a 8._o impious_a mat._n 14_o 8._o and_o inhuman_a command_n 20.31_o command_n 1_o sam_n 20.31_o without_o necessity_n compel_v to_o sordid_a and_o servile_a work_v not_o fit_a for_o 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and_o go_v not_o 30._o not_o mat._n 21.28_o 30._o his_o obedience_n end_v in_o a_o compliment_n and_o no_o more_o but_o if_o servant_n be_v to_o do_v their_o duty_n hearty_o in_o absence_n and_o presence_n as_o unto_o the_o lord_n and_o not_o unto_o man_n in_o the_o verse_n follow_v my_o text_n then_o much_o more_o be_v child_n who_o likewise_o be_v great_o concern_v to_o behave_v themselves_o impartial_o with_o equal_a respect_n to_o both_o parent_n as_o well_o as_o cordial_o 2.22_o cordial_o phil._n 2.22_o the_o law_n mention_n father_n and_o mother_n express_o which_o may_v have_v be_v include_v in_o one_o word_n parent_n and_o jacob_n be_v commend_v upon_o record_n for_o his_o obedience_n to_o his_o father_n and_o mother_n 28.7_o mother_n gen._n 28.7_o solomon_n many_o time_n in_o the_o proverb_n call_v for_o obedience_n to_o both_o whatever_o inequality_n may_v be_v betwixt_o a_o man_n and_o his_o wife_n who_o be_v oblige_v to_o be_v subject_a to_o her_o husband_n yet_o in_o 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4_o 6._o mat._n 17.12_o he_o shall_v turn_v the_o heart_n of_o the_o father_n to_o the_o child_n and_o the_o heart_n of_o the_o child_n to_o their_o father_n lest_o i_o come_v and_o strike_v the_o earth_n with_o a_o curse_n of_o so_o great_a advantage_n be_v the_o right_a and_o hearty_a discharge_n of_o these_o relative_a duty_n i_o have_v be_v treat_v on_o for_o the_o save_n of_o nation_n and_o particular_a church_n from_o ruin_n and_o desolation_n yea_o and_o so_o great_o instrumental_a be_v the_o minister_n of_o christ_n for_o help_v they_o in_o their_o duty_n that_o it_o concern_v honest_a parent_n as_o to_o consult_v those_o who_o be_v holy_a and_o able_a in_o the_o ministry_n for_o their_o child_n good_n so_o to_o commend_v such_o faithful_a minister_n to_o they_o as_o be_v worthy_a of_o their_o respect_n and_o to_o warn_v their_o child_n to_o avoid_v such_o person_n as_o be_v likely_a to_o draw_v they_o off_o from_o goodness_n yea_o and_o particular_o in_o dispose_v of_o their_o 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servant_n 102.28_o servant_n 102.28_o viz._n their_o child_n shall_v continue_v and_o their_o seed_n shall_v be_v establish_v before_o he_o duty_n of_o master_n and_o servant_n serm._n xviii_o ephes_n vi_o 5_o 6_o 7_o 8_o 9_o servant_n be_v obedient_a to_o they_o that_o be_v your_o master_n according_a to_o the_o flesh_n with_o fear_n and_o tremble_a in_o singleness_n of_o your_o heart_n as_o unto_o christ_n not_o with_o eye-service_n as_o man_n pleaser_n but_o as_o the_o servant_n of_o christ_n do_v the_o will_n of_o god_n from_o the_o heart_n with_o good_a will_n do_v service_n as_o to_o the_o lord_n and_o not_o to_o man_n know_v that_o whatsoever_o good_a thing_n any_o man_n do_v the_o same_o shall_v he_o receive_v of_o the_o lord_n whether_o he_o be_v bond_n or_o free_a and_o you_o master_n do_v the_o same_o thing_n unto_o they_o forbear_v threaten_a know_v that_o your_o master_n also_o be_v in_o heaven_n neither_o be_v there_o respect_n of_o person_n with_o he_o the_o
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