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will_v soon_o be_v most_o severe_a and_o violent_a in_o their_o correction_n as_o if_o they_o have_v that_o absolute_a and_o universal_a power_n over_o their_o child_n which_o once_o the_o parent_n have_v and_o much_o power_n yet_o they_o have_v all_o the_o craft_n be_v in_o the_o wise_a use_v of_o it_o but_o they_o do_v not_o use_v it_o well_o now_o in_o their_o passion_n they_o will_v miscall_v the_o child_n strange_o and_o strike_v they_o know_v not_o where_o and_o kick_v too_o i_o set_v down_o what_o my_o own_o eye_n and_o ear_n have_v tell_v i_o they_o do_v punish_v perhaps_o not_o modo_fw-la laudabaâ—_n se_fw-la non_fw-la sine_fw-la causa_fw-la sed_fw-la sine_fw-la modo_fw-la without_o cause_n as_o be_v say_v of_o one_o in_o another_o case_n but_o without_o all_o measure_n as_o if_o they_o be_v not_o child_n but_o slave_n and_o then_o as_o be_v say_v in_o the_o other_o extreme_a we_o may_v read_v without_o book_n that_o no_o good_a can_v be_v do_v but_o much_o hurt_v rather_o 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less_o sometime_o can_v the_o young_a and_o if_o so_o than_o the_o child_n must_v be_v draw_v on_o by_o all_o fair_a mean_n and_o the_o plain_a argument_n such_o as_o true_a wisdom_n and_o discretion_n can_v suggest_v whereby_o to_o win_v upon_o it_o and_o sweet_o to_o incline_v the_o will_n and_o if_o after_o some_o time_n of_o trial_n they_o can_v by_o such_o fair_a mean_n prevail_v than_o the_o worl_z be_v wide_a enough_o they_o must_v make_v another_o choice_n they_o must_v not_o use_v force_n oh_o by_o no_o mean_n i_o think_v now_o of_o the_o sad_a and_o heavy_a consequence_n herefrom_o so_o long_o as_o my_o child_n have_v a_o principle_n of_o life_n to_o carry_v she_o to_o church_n let_v she_o not_o be_v bear_v thither_o as_o upon_o other_o shoulder_n for_o she_o match_n for_o herself_o principal_o
indeed_o there_o be_v not_o a_o more_o unseemly_a and_o unworthy_a sight_n then_o to_o see_v a_o wife_n usurp_v the_o authority_n over_o the_o man_n it_o be_v like_o a_o body_n i_o have_v sometime_o see_v who_o head_n be_v bow_v down_o so_o close_o to_o the_o breast_n that_o behind_o you_o can_v scarce_o discern_v any_o thing_n but_o the_o shoulder_n certain_o it_o be_v a_o seemly_a sight_n to_o see_v â—_o see_v there_o be_v much_o in_o the_o example_n of_o a_o good_a master_n to_o make_v all_o follow_v his_o step_n though_o he_o say_v nothing_o yet_o child_n and_o servant_n may_v see_v enough_o whereby_o they_o may_v be_v teach_v chryso_v in_o cap._n 17._o gen._n bom_n 40._o â—_o the_o head_n stand_v out_o in_o sight_n and_o the_o contrary_a as_o unseemly_a and_o as_o unseemly_a every_o whit_n if_o the_o man_n demean_v himself_o unworthy_a of_o his_o place_n if_o he_o be_v not_o answerable_a to_o his_o honour_n and_o headship_n it_o will_v but_o disgrace_v he_o the_o more_o be_v like_o a_o pearl_n set_v in_o lead_n or_o a_o jewel_n in_o a_o swine_n snout_n a_o skull_n without_o brain_n or_o a_o head_n without_o wit_n it_o be_v not_o to_o be_v doubt_v but_o the_o prime_a duty_n and_o the_o very_a weight_n of_o the_o burden_n lie_v upon_o the_o man_n it_o be_v much_o how_o he_o lead_v the_o way_n and_o draw_v here_o for_o the_o head_n be_v the_o glory_n and_o crown_n of_o the_o body_n and_o to_o be_v a_o head_n import_v a_o pre-eminence_n and_o sovereignty_n it_o imply_v also_o a_o derivation_n of_o the_o spirit_n thence_o to_o the_o member_n which_o be_v intercept_v the_o body_n will_v quick_o fall_v into_o a_o dead_a palsy_n 234._o ut_fw-la in_o corporibus_fw-la siâ—_n in_o imperio_fw-la gravissimus_fw-la est_fw-la morbus_fw-la qui_fw-fr â—_o capite_fw-la dâ—ssâ—â—ditur_fw-la plâ—n_fw-fr l._n 4._o cp_n 22._o â—_o morbido_fw-la capite_fw-la nil_fw-la sanum_fw-la est_fw-la aeque_fw-la ullum_fw-la 〈◊〉_d membrum_fw-la efficio_fw-la svo_fw-la 〈◊〉_d ubi_fw-la quod_fw-la est_fw-la principale_v non_fw-la constat_fw-la de_fw-fr 〈◊〉_d d._n gaber_n l._n 7._o pag._n 234._o all_o which_o strong_o argue_v the_o man_n principal_a charge_n and_o duty_n to_o who_o belong_v the_o headship_n and_o therefore_o be_v the_o principal_a and_o lead_a example_n the_o man_n by_o his_o example_n must_v lead_v on_o the_o wife_n to_o faith_n else_o what_o be_v one_o in_o the_o flesh_n will_v be_v two_o in_o the_o spirit_n that_o be_v diviâ—ed_v say_v chrysologus_fw-la servant_n vir_fw-la conjugem_fw-la deducat_fw-la ad_fw-la fidem_fw-la ne_fw-la quod_fw-la unâ—m_fw-la est_fw-la â—_o carâ—â—_n 〈◊〉_d â—â—â—_o d_o â—_o sum_fw-la ser._n 10._o as_o it_o be_v in_o print_v when_o on_o sheet_n be_v set_v a_o thousand_o 〈◊〉_d press_v after_o it_o so_o when_o the_o master_n have_v a_o good_a impression_n upon_o he_o â—is_n 〈◊〉_d be_v â—â—sily_o 〈◊〉_d to_o prâ—ty_n if_o grace_n that_o precious_a ointment_n be_v plentiful_o â—â—â—â—e_a head_n and_o heart_n of_o the_o master_n it_o will_v quick_o distil_v to_o his_o skirt_n child_n and_o servant_n the_o man_n be_v in_o his_o place_n though_o of_o the_o low_a rank_n yet_o in_o his_o place_n as_o the_o great_a parson_n in_o their_o great_a sea_n as_o the_o admiral_n ship_n that_o bear_v the_o lantern_n all_o steer_n after_o it_o and_o indeed_o this_o man_n though_o in_o a_o low_a estate_n of_o life_n yet_o be_v out_o of_o order_n can_v blow_v as_o big_a and_o raise_v as_o great_a storm_n proportionable_o in_o his_o little_a pond_n as_o the_o other_o do_v in_o their_o great_a sea_n so_o lipsius_n phrase_v it_o 1569._o it_o de_fw-fr const_n lib._n 2._o chap_n 25._o see_v part_n first_o p._n 93._o the_o lightness_n of_o my_o family_n shall_v be_v lay_v to_o my_o charge_n so_o my_o conscience_n make_v i_o fear_n for_o lack_v of_o more_o earnest_n and_o deligent_fw-la instruction_n which_o shall_v have_v be_v do_v bishop_n ridly_n to_o master_n weâ—_n martyr_n p._n 1569._o therefore_o whether_o the_o man_n be_v 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ridly_n to_o master_n west_n woe_n and_o woe_n again_o if_o we_o by_o our_o example_n shall_v make_v other_o to_o stumble_v at_o the_o truth_n so_o john_n bradford_n to_o john_n careless_n 1494._o careless_n martyr_n pag._n 1569._o pag._n 1494._o it_o be_v a_o tradition_n that_o mathias_n the_o apostle_n be_v use_v to_o say_v if_o a_o goodman_n neighbour_n do_v fall_v into_o any_o great_a sin_n the_o goodman_n be_v to_o be_v blame_v for_o if_o that_o goodman_n life_n have_v be_v suitable_a to_o his_o rule_n the_o word_n of_o god_n then_o have_v his_o example_n according_a to_o rule_v so_o awe_v that_o neighbour_n that_o he_o have_v not_o so_o fall_v say_v clemens_n of_o alexandria_n 541._o alexandria_n 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d strom._n l._n 7._o pag._n 541._o much_o more_o may_v the_o same_o be_v say_v touch_v the_o husband_n and_o the_o wife_n the_o father_n and_o the_o child_n the_o master_n and_o the_o servant_n if_o any_o thing_n be_v amiss_o if_o thing_n go_v not_o straight_o in_o the_o family_n it_o be_v very_o likely_a the_o husband_n the_o father_n the_o master_n walk_v not_o according_a to_o rule_v but_o some_o cross_n or_o crooked_a way_n for_o he_o be_v the_o head_n the_o lead_a hand_n the_o star_n be_v eclipse_v often_o than_o the_o great_a light_n but_o their_o eclipse_n we_o observe_v not_o but_o if_o the_o sun_n or_o moon_n be_v eclipse_v our_o eye_n be_v upon_o they_o for_o the_o one_o rule_n the_o day_n the_o other_o the_o night_n inferior_n fail_v often_o in_o their_o duty_n but_o the_o observation_n be_v what_o their_o superior_n what_o their_o governor_n do_v they_o be_v in_o their_o little_a house_n as_o the_o sun_n and_o moon_n be_v in_o the_o great_a world_n the_o little_a great_a ruler_n therein_o therefore_o it_o require_v our_o mark_n that_o it_o be_v the_o man_n for_o who_o faithfulness_n the_o lord_n do_v undertake_v i_o know_v that_o abraham_n will_v command_v his_o child_n and_o his_o household_n etc._n etc._n 19_o etc._n gen._n 18._o 19_o command_v mark_v that_o command_v not_o so_o much_o by_o his_o word_n though_o that_o be_v a_o command_n too_o but_o by_o example_n that_o have_v more_o force_n in_o it_o more_o of_o that_o we_o call_v compulson_n abraham_n will_v command_v and_o it_o be_v the_o man_n that_o promise_v for_o himself_o i_o and_o my_o house_n will_v serve_v the_o lord_n joshua_n last_v 15._o it_o be_v the_o man_n and_o a_o man_n after_o god_n own_o heart_n that_o say_v i_o will_v walk_v within_o my_o house_n with_o a_o perfect_a heart_n psal_n 101._o and_o much_o reformation_n must_v follow_v for_o the_o remove_n of_o the_o wicked_a from_o his_o seat_n and_o sight_n and_o for_o the_o encouragement_n of_o the_o godly_a as_o it_o be_v plain_a in_o that_o place_n and_o which_o be_v more_o this_o be_v a_o great_a house_n a_o kingdom_n it_o be_v a_o man_n and_o one_o under_o authority_n though_o he_o have_v soldier_n under_o he_o and_o they_o be_v none_o of_o the_o tame_a creature_n who_o do_v say_v to_o this_o man_n go_v and_o he_o go_v and_o to_o another_o come_v and_o he_o come_v and_o to_o his_o servant_n do_v this_o and_o he_o do_v it_o and_o to_o put_v the_o low_a last_n for_o indeed_o he_o be_v much_o below_o a_o christian_a but_o quite_o shame_v he_o it_o be_v a_o old_a man_n and_o a_o darkman_n that_o have_v four_o son_n stout_a young_a man_n five_o daughter_n many_o servant_n a_o great_a retinue_n over_o all_o this_o man_n carry_v himself_o with_o such_o authority_n with_o such_o a_o lord_n like_o command_n but_o so_o well_o temper_v as_o his_o servant_n fear_v he_o his_o child_n reverence_v he_o all_o honour_a and_o love_v he_o in_o the_o house_n you_o may_v see_v say_v the_o author_n send_v author_n cic._n the_o send_v the_o old_a paternal_a authority_n and_o
wife_n out_o of_o chrysostome_n page_n 149._o grievance_n rank_v under_o two_o head_n what_o be_v only_o evil_a and_o to_o be_v fear_v page_n 152._o evil_n imaginary_a real_a the_o former_a how_o prevent_v page_n 154._o the_o bear_v the_o latter_a silent_o and_o like_o a_o christian_n suppose_v two_o thing_n great_o to_o be_v study_v to_o page_n 158._o snare_n they_o spring_v from_o two_o root_n how_o snare_n from_o plenty_n be_v prevent_v that_o our_o foot_n be_v not_o take_v with_o they_o fear_v a_o catholic_a remedy_n page_n 163._o snare_v from_o scarcenesse_n how_o to_o break_v through_o they_o and_o how_o to_o carry_v and_o quiet_v our_o spirit_n in_o they_o 165._o the_o housewife_n charge_v how_o it_o may_v be_v discharge_v to_o ward_n child_n what_o the_o parent_n ambition_n touch_v they_o and_o servant_n our_o charge_n over_o they_o how_o neglect_v the_o housewife_n duty_n engage_v the_o tongue_n that_o it_o be_v apt_a to_o teach_v the_o eye_n for_o over_o sight_n the_o hand_n 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