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A41637 Christian directions, shewing how to walk with God all the day long drawn up for the use and benefit of the inhabitants of Sepulchres parish / by Tho. Gouge ... Gouge, Thomas, 1605-1681. 1661 (1661) Wing G1359; ESTC R955 152,866 176

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their_o health_n so_o sufficient_a for_o the_o increase_n of_o their_o strength_n that_o they_o may_v be_v the_o better_o enable_v with_o cheerfulness_n to_o do_v their_o master_n service_n 15_o solomon_n housewife_n among_o other_o thing_n be_v commend_v for_o her_o give_a meat_n to_o her_o household_n and_o a_o portion_n to_o her_o maiden_n whereby_o be_v mean_v a_o sufficient_a portion_n and_o quantity_n of_o meat_n to_o her_o servant_n oh_o that_o all_o huswife_n will_v imitate_v she_o herein_o and_o not_o pinch_v their_o servant_n belly_n which_o too_o many_o do_v 3_o to_o afford_v they_o physic_n when_o they_o be_v sick_a for_o master_n be_v command_v to_o give_v unto_o their_o servant_n that_o which_o be_v just_a and_o equal_a 1._o and_o be_v it_o not_o just_a and_o equal_a that_o those_o servant_n who_o labour_v for_o their_o master_n in_o the_o time_n of_o their_o health_n shall_v be_v care_v for_o by_o their_o master_n in_o the_o time_n of_o their_o sickness_n 6_o the_o 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servant_n and_o revenge_v they_o of_o their_o oppressor_n make_v all_o master_n beware_v of_o lay_v heavy_a burden_n upon_o their_o servant_n require_v more_o of_o they_o than_o they_o be_v well_o able_a to_o perform_v lest_o their_o groan_n ascend_v up_o unto_o god_n 5_o to_o pay_v they_o their_o wage_n when_o it_o be_v due_a without_o delay_v it_o or_o defraud_v they_o of_o any_o part_n thereof_o 14_o it_o be_v reckon_v in_o scripture_n as_o a_o cry_a sin_n 13_o to_o keep_v back_o and_o withhold_v the_o labourer_n or_o servant_n wage_n 4_o a_o sin_n that_o cry_v unto_o god_n for_o vengeance_n who_o be_v the_o poor_n avenger_n and_o as_o he_o take_v special_a notice_n of_o their_o wrong_n and_o oppression_n so_o will_v he_o take_v care_n to_o avenge_v the_o same_o ii_o the_o duty_n of_o master_n in_o reference_n to_o the_o soul_n of_o their_o servant_n be_v 1_o to_o instruct_v and_o catechise_v their_o servant_n in_o the_o principle_n of_o religion_n for_o if_o it_o be_v a_o duty_n 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many_o excellent_a and_o weighty_a exhortation_n 3_o act_n thy_o obedience_n by_o resign_v up_o thyself_o unto_o the_o will_n of_o god_n mori_fw-la to_o be_v at_o his_o dispose_n either_o for_o life_n or_o death_n as_o thou_o must_v not_o be_v unwilling_a to_o die_v when_o god_n call_v thou_o so_o neither_o must_v thou_o be_v over_o eager_a to_o die_v before_o he_o call_v thou_o thou_o may_v not_o desire_v death_n out_o of_o discontentment_n of_o mind_n because_o of_o some_o present_a misery_n and_o affliction_n which_o lie_v upon_o thou_o nay_o thou_o may_v not_o absolute_o wish_v to_o die_v out_o of_o a_o desire_n to_o be_v rid_v of_o thy_o sin_n and_o to_o be_v with_o christ_n but_o it_o must_v be_v with_o a_o submission_n to_o the_o will_n of_o god_n if_o he_o see_v it_o meet_v and_o convenient_a for_o thou_o though_o paul_n know_v it_o be_v far_o better_o for_o he_o to_o die_v than_o to_o live_v 23_o yet_o do_v he_o not_o desire_v death_n absolute_o but_o with_o a_o submission_n to_o the_o will_n of_o god_n vii_o be_v frequent_a in_o read_v the_o holy_a scripture_n or_o cause_v they_o to_o be_v frequent_o read_v unto_o thou_o for_o there_o thou_o shall_v find_v 1_o example_n of_o god_n mercy_n show_v to_o the_o afflict_a 2_o instruction_n how_o to_o bear_v and_o improve_v thy_o present_a visitation_n 3_o comfortable_a promise_n of_o support_n under_o the_o sore_a trial_n and_o know_v for_o certain_a that_o one_o promise_v in_o the_o book_n of_o god_n will_v be_v more_o effectual_a to_o yield_v thou_o comfort_v on_o thy_o deathbed_n than_o all_o the_o counsel_n of_o thy_o friend_n that_o shall_v be_v then_o about_o thou_o viii_o be_v often_o lift_v up_o thy_o heart_n to_o god_n in_o prayer_n and_o when_o through_o weakness_n of_o body_n and_o faintness_n of_o spirit_n thou_o be_v not_o able_a to_o pour_v our_o thy_o soul_n in_o any_o set_n and_o solemn_a prayer_n send_v up_o some_o short_a ejaculatory_a prayer_n unto_o god_n as_o that_o of_o the_o poor_a publican_n lord_n be_v merciful_a to_o i_o a_o sinner_n 13_o and_o also_o that_o of_o the_o poor_a man_n lord_n i_o believe_v 24_o help_v thou_o my_o unbelief_n and_o that_o of_o the_o apostle_n lord_n increase_v my_o faith_n 5_o and_o that_o of_o stephen_n lord_n jesus_n receive_v my_o spirit_n 59_o these_o ejaculation_n go_v from_o the_o heart_n they_o be_v acceptable_a and_o please_a unto_o god_n let_v we_o therefore_o as_o austin_n advise_v we_o endeavour_v to_o die_v pray_v precatione_n by_o a_o frequent_a breathe_n forth_o of_o these_o or_o such_o like_a ejaculatory_a prayer_n 33_o ix_o be_v often_o resign_v up_o thy_o soul_n into_o the_o hand_n of_o god_n say_v with_o our_o bless_a saviour_n father_n into_o thy_o hand_n i_o commend_v my_o spirit_n 46_o little_a child_n for_o the_o most_o part_n desire_v to_o die_v in_o their_o father_n bosom_n or_o upon_o their_o mother_n lap_n even_o so_o shall_v thou_o in_o the_o hour_n of_o death_n cast_v thy_o soul_n into_o the_o arm_n of_o thy_o heavenly_a father_n and_o rest_n in_o the_o bosom_n of_o jesus_n christ._n if_o thy_o disease_n be_v painful_a turn_v to_o those_o direction_n in_o the_o foregoing_a chapter_n how_o to_o bear_v affliction_n willing_o and_o cheerful_o chap._n xix_o direction_n to_o such_o as_o visit_v the_o sick_n visit_v the_o sick_a be_v a_o work_n of_o mercy_n it_o will_v be_v thy_o wisdom_n so_o to_o manage_v and_o improve_v the_o same_o that_o thou_o may_v both_o benefit_v thy_o own_o soul_n thereby_o and_o likewise_o do_v good_a to_o the_o sick_a party_n i._o that_o thou_o may_v benefit_v thyself_o thereby_o take_v these_o few_o direction_n 1_o in_o visit_v thy_o sick_a neighbour_n take_v occasion_n to_o think_v of_o thy_o own_o mortality_n tranq_fw-fr and_o proneness_n to_o fall_v into_o sickness_n and_o disease_n for_o that_o which_o befall_v one_o man_n may_v befall_v another_o in_o that_o we_o all_o carry_v about_o we_o as_o mortal_a so_o frayl_n body_n subject_a to_o the_o like_a 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to_o the_o husband_n yet_o the_o wife_n ought_v to_o put_v her_o husband_n in_o mind_n thereof_o if_o he_o forget_v it_o and_o to_o stir_v he_o up_o if_o he_o be_v backward_o 2_o there_o ought_v to_o be_v a_o provident_a care_n in_o husband_n and_o wife_n as_o for_o one_o another_o soul_n so_o for_o one_o another_o good_a name_n the_o husband_n good_a name_n ought_v to_o be_v as_o dear_a to_o the_o wife_n as_o her_o own_o and_o the_o wife_n good_a name_n ought_v to_o be_v as_o dear_a to_o the_o husband_n as_o his_o own_o and_o true_o great_a reason_n there_o be_v that_o party_n so_o near_o knit_v together_o shall_v be_v careful_a of_o one_o another_o good_a name_n because_o a_o name_n be_v more_o precious_a than_o all_o the_o good_n they_o enjoy_v v._o another_o mutual_a duty_n be_v hor._n to_o conceal_v and_o cover_v the_o infirmity_n of_o one_o another_o there_o be_v no_o man_n or_o woman_n without_o their_o infirmity_n it_o will_v be_v therefore_o your_o wisdom_n to_o conceal_v the_o same_o so_o far_o as_o you_o can_v with_o a_o good_a conscience_n ezek._n and_o true_o this_o be_v one_o special_a act_n and_o exercise_v of_o love_n to_o seek_v to_o cover_v and_o conceal_v the_o infirmity_n of_o those_o who_o they_o love_v how_o blame-worthy_a then_o be_v they_o who_o take_v all_o occasion_n to_o spread_v abroad_o one_o another_o infirmity_n and_o many_o time_n belie_v one_o another_o this_o fault_n be_v so_o much_o the_o great_a in_o two_o especial_a respect_n 1_o because_o the_o husband_n and_o wife_n know_v more_o of_o one_o another_o infirmity_n and_o therefore_o if_o they_o be_v so_o ill_o mind_v can_v more_o discredit_v and_o defame_v one_o another_o than_o any_o other_o 2_o because_o of_o all_o other_o party_n they_o be_v most_o bind_v to_o conceal_v one_o another_o infirmity_n by_o reason_n of_o their_o near_a union_n chap._n xxiv_o of_o husband_n duty_n to_o their_o wife_n have_v show_v the_o common-mutual_a duty_n appertain_v both_o to_o the_o husband_n and_o the_o wife_n i_o come_v now_o to_o the_o special_a and_o particular_a duty_n belong_v to_o each_o of_o they_o several_o and_o first_o of_o the_o duty_n of_o the_o husband_n all_o which_o may_v be_v comprise_v under_o this_o one_o word_n love_n 33._o for_o we_o find_v that_o often_o express_o set_v down_o and_o mention_v as_o the_o chief_a duty_n of_o the_o husband_n 19_o for_o the_o more_o profitable_a press_n whereof_o i_o shall_v show_v 1_o the_o manner_n how_o it_o ought_v to_o be_v perform_v 2_o the_o particular_n in_o which_o it_o ought_v to_o express_v i._o for_o the_o manner_n the_o apostle_n st._n paul_n set_v it_o down_o in_o two_o phrase_n 1_o as_o christ_n love_v his_o church_n husband_n love_v your_o wife_n even_o as_o christ_n love_v his_o church_n and_o give_v himself_o for_o it_o 〈◊〉_d the_o note_n of_o comparison_n even_o as_o require_v not_o a_o equality_n as_o if_o it_o be_v possible_a for_o a_o husband_n to_o love_v his_o wife_n as_o much_o as_o 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their_o wife_n as_o their_o own_o body_n though_o the_o former_a comparison_n take_v from_o christ_n example_n be_v the_o more_o excellent_a lay_v fort●_n a_o more_o perfect_a pa●tern_n yet_o this_o other_o take_v from_o a_o man_n body_n be_v more_o sensible_a and_o better_o discern_v of_o man_n for_o every_o man_n know_v how_o he_o love_v his_o own_o body_n viz._n with_o all_o tenderness_n and_o compassion_n fit●y_v therefore_o be_v it_o add_v by_o the_o apostle_n and_o it_o be_v to_o be_v take_v both_o as_o a_o motive_n to_o stir_v up_o the_o husband_n to_o love_v his_o wife_n because_o she_o be_v as_o near_o join_v to_o he_o as_o his_o body_n and_o also_o as_o a_o pattern_n to_o show_v he_o how_o he_o shall_v love_v his_o wife_n even_o as_o he_o do_v his_o body_n true_o and_o tender_o as_o the_o apostle_n in_o the_o follow_a verse_n more_o full_o express_v it_o 29._o for_o no_o man_n ever_o yet_o hate_v his_o own_o flesh_n but_o nourish_v and_o cherish_v it_o ii_o the_o particular_n in_o which_o a_o husband_n ought_v to_o express_v his_o love_n to_o his_o wife_n be_v these_o and_o such_o like_a 1_o by_o honour_v she_o as_o his_o companion_n and_o yokefellow_n 7._o which_o the_o apostle_n peter_n express_v for_o speak_v of_o the_o husband_n duty_n he_o reckon_v this_o of_o giving_z honour_n to_o the_o wife_n 18._o the_o title_n give_v to_o the_o wife_n by_o god_n himself_o a_o help_n meet_v for_o her_o husband_n imply_v a_o kind_n of_o fellowship_n with_o he_o 25._o and_o also_o the_o place_n whence_o the_o woman_n be_v take_v viz._n his_o side_n where_o his_o heart_n lay_v imply_v as_o much_o for_o she_o be_v as_o the_o heart_n in_o the_o body_n far_o more_o excellent_a than_o any_o other_o member_n under_o the_o head_n and_o almost_o equal_a to_o the_o head_n it_o be_v observable_a that_o when_o the_o woman_n be_v make_v she_o be_v not_o take_v out_o of_o the_o man_n head_n because_o she_o be_v not_o to_o rule_v over_o he_o nor_o out_o of_o his_o foot_n because_o 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for_o this_o end_n a_o husband_n must_v observe_v both_o his_o own_o present_a temper_n and_o his_o wife_n and_o forbear_v to_o reprove_v when_o himself_o or_o his_o wife_n be_v in_o passion_n for_o while_o himself_o be_v in_o passion_n he_o be_v unfit_a to_o reprove_v because_o passion_n be_v apt_a to_o blind_a reason_n so_o as_o it_o know_v not_o how_o to_o keep_v any_o mean_a or_o measure_n and_o if_o she_o be_v in_o passion_n she_o be_v unfit_a to_o be_v reprove_v because_o passion_n so_o fill_v the_o heart_n that_o it_o be_v not_o capable_a of_o any_o good_a advice_n and_o as_o a_o husband_n in_o reprove_v his_o wife_n shall_v observe_v a_o fit_a time_n so_o likewise_o a_o fit_a place_n forbearing_z to_z do_v it_o open_o before_o child_n or_o servant_n but_o private_o between_o she_o and_o himself_o for_o her_o honour_n and_o credit_n be_v to_o be_v maintain_v before_o child_n and_o servant_n as_o much_o as_o may_v be_v because_o she_o be_v a_o joynt-governour_n with_o he_o over_o they_o now_o for_o she_o to_o be_v check_v and_o control_v before_o they_o will_v make_v they_o despise_v she_o herein_o therefore_o great_a wisdom_n be_v to_o be_v observe_v qu._n whether_o a_o husband_n may_v lawful_o strike_v or_o beat_v his_o wife_n ans._n though_o the_o husband_n have_v some_o authority_n over_o his_o wife_n yet_o it_o do_v not_o appear_v that_o he_o have_v any_o power_n or_o liberty_n thereupon_o to_o beat_v she_o 1_o for_o first_o we_o find_v it_o neither_o command_v nor_o commend_v to_o we_o in_o the_o scripture_n there_o be_v neither_o precept_n nor_o precedent_n for_o the_o same_o 2_o what_o fruit_n can_v be_v expect_v from_o a_o husband_n beat_v of_o his_o wife_n but_o a_o return_n of_o blow_n and_o scratch_n to_o the_o utmost_a of_o her_o strength_n for_o this_o be_v most_o certain_a that_o if_o a_o man_n who_o have_v no_o authority_n over_o another_o strike_v he_o he_o will_v turn_v against_o he_o and_o do_v he_o all_o the_o mischief_n that_o he_o can_v now_o therefore_o there_o be_v no_o ground_n to_o persuade_v wife_n that_o their_o husband_n have_v such_o authority_n over_o they_o as_o to_o strike_v they_o for_o their_o fault_n what_o hope_n be_v there_o that_o they_o will_v patient_o bear_v it_o and_o be_v better_v by_o it_o or_o rather_o be_v it_o not_o more_o likely_a that_o they_o will_v not_o only_o rise_v against_o they_o but_o if_o they_o can_v overmaster_v their_o husband_n and_o ever_o after_o cast_v off_o all_o subjection_n to_o they_o 3_o the_o near_a conjunction_n and_o communion_n that_o be_v between_o man_n and_o wife_n will_v not_o stand_v with_o such_o base_a and_o servile_a deal_n that_o the_o husband_n shall_v beat_v and_o strike_v his_o wife_n this_o be_v the_o next_o way_n to_o have_v she_o despise_v of_o child_n and_o servant_n and_o so_o deprive_v she_o of_o all_o government_n 4_o another_o particular_a wherein_o a_o husband_n ought_v to_o express_v his_o love_n to_o his_o wife_n 7_o be_v by_o a_o diligent_a endeavour_v of_o her_o spiritual_a good_a hence_o the_o husband_n be_v command_v to_o dwell_v with_o his_o wife_n as_o a_o man_n of_o knowledge_n i._n e._n able_a and_o willing_a to_o instruct_v she_o in_o the_o knowledge_n of_o the_o truth_n 35._o wherefore_o else_o be_v she_o to_o ask_v he_o at-home_o and_o how_o otherwise_o shall_v he_o be_v the_o guide_n of_o her_o youth_n 17_o if_o he_o be_v not_o able_a and_o willing_a to_o guide_v her_o foot_n in_o the_o way_n of_o peace_n 79_o but_o of_o this_o i_o speak_v in_o the_o common_a mutual_a duty_n of_o husband_n and_o wife_n set_v down_o in_o the_o foregoing_a chapter_n chap._n xxv_o of_o the_o duty_n of_o wife_n have_v show_v the_o duty_n
of_o husband_n in_o reference_n to_o their_o wife_n i_o come_v now_o to_o show_v the_o duty_n of_o wife_n towards_o their_o husband_n as_o the_o main_a duty_n on_o the_o husband_n part_n be_v love_n so_o the_o main_a duty_n on_o the_o wife_n part_n be_v subjection_n 22_o under_o which_o many_o particular_n be_v comprise_v the_o subjection_n of_o the_o wife_n to_o the_o husband_n imply_v two_o thing_n 1_o that_o she_o acknowledge_v a_o superiority_n in_o her_o husband_n 2_o that_o she_o put_v in_o practice_v such_o duty_n as_o do_v issue_n and_o flow_v from_o the_o acknowledgement_n of_o that_o superiority_n i._o the_o former_a be_v not_o only_o a_o duty_n but_o the_o ground_n of_o all_o other_o duty_n whatsoever_o for_o till_o the_o wife_n be_v full_o satisfy_v about_o the_o superiority_n of_o her_o husband_n no_o duty_n will_v be_v perform_v by_o she_o as_o it_o ought_v therefore_o wife_n ought_v to_o learn_v this_o point_n in_o the_o first_o place_n viz._n that_o their_o husband_n be_v their_o superior_n which_o clear_o appear_v 1_o by_o the_o order_n of_o creation_n the_o man_n be_v first_o create_v and_o thereupon_o have_v the_o birthright_n primog●●●turae_fw-la 2_o by_o the_o institution_n of_o god_n who_o say_v to_o the_o woman_n 16_o thy_o desire_n shall_v be_v subject_a to_o he_o and_o he_o shall_v rule_v ●ver_o thou_o 3_o by_o the_o name_n and_o title_n give_v in_o scripture_n to_o the_o husband_n 6_o which_o do_v imply_v a_o superiority_n in_o he_o 17_o as_o lord_n guide_n head_n etc._n etc._n 3_o i_o grant_v indeed_o there_o be_v but_o a_o very_a little_a disparity_n and_o small_a inequality_n between_o husband_n and_o wife_n be_v both_o governor_n of_o the_o same_o family_n parent_n of_o the_o same_o child_n 7_o and_o heir_n together_o of_o the_o grace_n of_o life_n yet_o god_n have_v so_o express_o appoint_v subjection_n on_o the_o wife_n part_n it_o ought_v to_o be_v acknowledge_v ii_o as_o the_o wife_n ought_v to_o acknowledge_v and_o yield_v a_o superiority_n in_o her_o husband_n so_o she_o ought_v to_o put_v in_o practice_n such_o duty_n as_o do_v issue_n and_o flow_v from_o the_o acknowledgement_n thereof_o which_o may_v be_v branch_v into_o three_o particular_n 1_o honour_n this_o god_n require_v of_o all_o inferior_n towards_o their_o superior_n 12_o in_o the_o five_o commandment_n and_o therefore_o be_v a_o duty_n incubent_fw-la upon_o all_o wife_n in_o reference_n to_o their_o husband_n who_o be_v their_o superior_n as_o be_v their_o lord_n guide_n and_o head_n this_o honour_n wife_n ought_v to_o express_v 1_o by_o their_o inward_a esteem_n of_o their_o husband_n account_v they_o worthy_a of_o honour_n for_o their_o place_n sake_n because_o they_o be_v their_o husband_n whether_o they_o be_v rich_a or_o poor_a elder_a or_o young_a than_o self_n 2_o by_o their_o outward_a respect_n which_o they_o shall_v manifest_v both_o by_o their_o reverend_a carriage_n and_o speech_n give_v they_o such_o title_n as_o signify_v superiority_n and_o savour_n of_o respect_n 2_o another_o branch_n of_o the_o wife_n subjection_n be_v meekness_n which_o she_o ought_v to_o show_v 1_o in_o a_o quiet_a take_n of_o reproof_n from_o her_o husband_n as_o it_o be_v the_o husband_n duty_n to_o reprove_v his_o wife_n upon_o just_a occasion_n so_o it_o be_v her_o duty_n to_o take_v it_o with_o all_o meekness_n and_o mildness_n and_o to_o endeavour_v to_o amend_v and_o reform_v what_o be_v just_o reprove_v yea_o though_o the_o husband_n shall_v chance_v to_o reprove_v his_o wife_n wrongful_o as_o even_o the_o best_a and_o wise_a sometime_o may_v do_v it_o will_v be_v a_o part_n of_o wisdom_n in_o the_o wife_n rather_o to_o take_v it_o meek_o and_o patient_o than_o to_o break_v forth_o into_o passionate_a expression_n yet_o in_o such_o a_o case_n she_o may_v clear_v she_o own_o innocency_n and_o show_v her_o husband_n mistake_v but_o if_o he_o will_v not_o believe_v she_o or_o turn_v away_o from_o she_o she_o ought_v to_o bear_v it_o with_o meekness_n and_o mildness_n 2_o in_o be_v willing_a to_o be_v advise_v by_o her_o husband_n and_o ready_a to_o follow_v his_o good_a advice_n yet_o 〈◊〉_d the_o wife_n have_v a_o clear_a sight_n and_o see_v better_a than_o her_o husband_n what_o god_n have_v command_v though_o she_o may_v not_o usurp_v authority_n over_o her_o husband_n 12_o yet_o she_o may_v and_o must_v in_o all_o humility_n persuade_v and_o advise_v he_o to_o that_o which_o be_v good_a and_o happy_a be_v that_o husband_n if_o he_o can_v see_v his_o own_o happiness_n in_o who_o bosom_n the_o lord_n have_v lay_v so_o good_a a_o counsellor_n 3_o another_o branch_n of_o the_o wife_n subjection_n be_v obedience_n and_o indeed_o this_o be_v the_o principal_a part_n of_o that_o subjection_n which_o the_o apostle_n require_v of_o wife_n to_o their_o husband_n 22._o wife_n submit_v yourselves_o unto_o your_o own_o husband_n and_o the_o apostle_n peter_n command_v this_o duty_n unto_o wife_n 6_o by_o the_o example_n of_o sarah_n who_o obey_v abraham_n now_o sarahs_n obedience_n to_o abraham_n be_v eminent_a in_o two_o thing_n especial_o 1_o in_o do_v what_o he_o require_v of_o she_o for_o when_o on_o a_o sudden_a there_o come_v three_o man_n to_o abraham_n 6_o and_o he_o be_v desirous_a to_o entertain_v they_o he_o bid_v his_o wife_n make_v such_o and_o such_o provision_n with_o all_o possible_a speed_n and_o according_o she_o do_v 2_o in_o forbear_v to_o do_v any_o thing_n without_o his_o consent_n though_o sarah_n be_v high_o provoke_v by_o hagar_n who_o despise_v her_o mistress_n yet_o will_v she_o not_o deal_v rough_o with_o she_o much_o less_o turn_v she_o out_o of_o door_n till_o she_o have_v her_o husband_n consent_n who_o say_v unto_o his_o wife_n do_v to_o thy_o maid_n as_o it_o please_v thou_o 6_o in_o like_a manner_n shall_v wife_n manifest_v their_o obedience_n to_o their_o husband_n 1_o in_o a_o ready_a and_o willing_a do_v of_o what_o their_o husband_n require_v of_o they_o 2_o in_o a_o forbear_n to_o do_v thing_n which_o appertain_v to_o their_o husband_n authority_n without_o their_o particular_a or_o at_o least_o general_a consent_n when_o a_o husband_n from_o the_o experience_n he_o have_v of_o his_o wife_n wisdom_n and_o faithfulness_n give_v liberty_n unto_o she_o to_o do_v what_o she_o please_v in_o the_o household_n affair_n than_o the_o wife_n may_v do_v much_o without_o a_o particular_a consent_n from_o her_o husband_n but_o otherwise_o she_o shall_v do_v well_o to_o forbear_v unless_o upon_o good_a ground_n she_o be_v confident_a her_o husband_n will_v not_o dislike_v the_o do_v of_o such_o a_o thing_n for_o the_o kind_n of_o obedience_n which_o the_o wife_n be_v to_o yield_v to_o the_o husband_n 22_o the_o apostle_n set_v it_o down_o in_o two_o expression_n as_o unto_o the_o lord_n 18_o and_o in_o the_o lord_n the_o former_a hint_n unto_o we_o 〈◊〉_d that_o the_o wife_n obedience_n must_v be_v a_o conscientious_a obedience_n that_o be_v in_o obedience_n to_o god_n to_o his_o ordinance_n and_o commandment_n who_o require_v it_o of_o they_o so_o that_o it_o must_v be_v in_o conscience_n of_o the_o ordinance_n of_o god_n and_o in_o obedience_n to_o his_o command_n and_o thus_o will_v their_o obedience_n to_o their_o husband_n be_v a_o acceptable_a service_n unto_o god_n for_o as_o they_o relieve_v christ_n in_o the_o poor_a 40_o who_o relieve_v they_o for_o christ_n sake_n so_o those_o wife_n obey_v god_n in_o their_o husband_n who_o obey_v they_o for_o god_n sake_n i_o mean_v out_o of_o conscience_n to_o the_o ordinance_n and_o command_n of_o god_n the_o latter_a expression_n 〈◊〉_d in_o the_o lord_n hint_n unto_o we_o that_o the_o wife_n obedience_n must_v be_v in_o all_o lawful_a command_n not_o extend_v to_o any_o thing_n against_o the_o will_n of_o god_n so_o that_o if_o husband_n command_v any_o thing_n against_o the_o reveal_v will_n of_o god_n their_o wife_n be_v not_o bind_v to_o obey_v they_o for_o their_o husband_n power_n be_v subordinate_a to_o the_o power_n of_o god_n and_o the_o subordinate_a power_n must_v ever_o yield_v to_o the_o supreme_a power_n and_o therefore_o if_o wife_n shall_v out_o of_o respect_n to_o or_o fear_v of_o their_o husband_n yield_v obedience_n to_o any_o unlawful_a command_n do_v that_o which_o be_v evil_a their_o husband_n command_n will_v be_v no_o good_a plea_n much_o less_o sufficient_a excuse_n for_o they_o chap._n xxvi_o of_o the_o duty_n of_o parent_n have_v show_v the_o duty_n of_o husband_n and_o wife_n i_o come_v now_o to_o show_v the_o duty_n of_o parent_n and_o child_n the_o duty_n of_o parent_n in_o reference_n to_o their_o child_n be_v these_o i._o to_o see_v that_o they_o be_v admit_v into_o the_o church_n by_o baptism_n in_o conven●_n 〈…〉_z i._n e._n within_o some_o few_o day_n after_o
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