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A92885	The whole duty of a Christian containing all things necessary, both as to what he is to know, and do, for the obtaining a happy eternity ; to which is added, More particular directions, how to prepare for a comfortable death ...	Seller, Abednego, 1646?-1705.; Hove, Frederick Hendrick van, 1628?-1698.	1699 (1699)	Wing S2461A; ESTC R42613	99,994	253

so much our Deliverance exceeds the which was a Type and faint shadow of th● And therefore we being delivered ut of Hands of our Enemies must serve him w●● out fear in Holiness and Righteousness be●● him all the Days of our Life Commandment I. THE First Commandment require● That we have the only true God a none other for our God and that 〈◊〉 worship and glorifie hima ccordingly T●● we acquaint our selves with him th● frequently of him love and highly Este●● him delight rest satisfied in him o●mit all unto him trust and depend u● him place our whole Happiness in 〈◊〉 looking upon all things as nothing w● out him honour and adore fear and verence him yield all Praises and Tha● Obedience and Submission unto him 〈◊〉 and acnoweldge him be zealous for h●● walk humbly with him be carefull in things to please him and sorrowfull w●● in any thing he is by our selves or oth●● offended II. The Second forbids us worshipping or giving any Religious Adoration to any Creature in Heaven Earth or Water which particular Places are named besides which there are none other or the true God In or before or by any Representation Likeness or Image who being infinite and invisible is not to be represented by any visible thing (w) Deut. 4.12 15 c. Isa 44.10 c. Rom. 1.23 and enjoyns the serving him by such means and in such a manner as is agreeable to his Nature and Word And this because he is our Soveraign and Proprietor tender of his own Worship will severely punish Ido●aters and their Posterity as those that hate him and be mercifull to true Worshippers as those that love him to many Generations III. The Third forbids us thinking or speaking prophanely vainly slightly of him careless irreverent Attendance upon him in his Worship unadvisedly crying O Lord or O God! c. without a due sence of him Cursing our selves or others Swearing by any Creature or by himself except before a Magistrate in weighty and true Cases which cannot otherwise be determined And requires of us a Holy and Reverent Respect unto and Use of his Name Attributes Ordinances Word Works all things whereby he makes himself known And this because the great Soveraign is most highly provoked by Prophaneness and Contempt of him and will deal with those that are guilty of it accordingly IV. The Fourth requires us with those under our Charge to consecrate keep Holy the Sabbath-Day That we bear it in mind to fit our selves for it Rest from those Works which are properly called Ours Set our selves apart for the Duties of it Spend it not in Idleness Worldly Recreations or Imployments except of necessity and mercy but in the publick and private Worship and Service of God in Prayer Hearing Reading the Word Religious Meditation and Discourse accounting the Sabbath the holy of the Lord honourable and honouring him therein (x) Isa 58.13 And this from 1. the Equity of it God's allowing us s●● days of seven for our own warrantable Imployments and reserving but one for Himself 2. His challenging a special Propriety in it setting it apart from common to holy Uses so it 's Theft and Sacriledge to alienate it to any others than he allows 3. His own Example resting on it not from doing good or preserving what he had made but from creating any more diversities or kinds of Creatures And 4. from that Blessing he hath put upon it in advancing preferring inriching that Day above the rest in choosing ordaining setting it apart sanctifying it to be a Time for his Service and a means of Blessing to us in sanctifying it Which is not upon the Seventh but First Day of the Week from the Resurrection of Christ on that Day the Practice of the Apostles Primitive Christians and Church of God in all Ages since together with the Command of our Rulers in Church and State V. The Fifth requireth under the sweet Relation between Parents and Children the preserving the Honour and performing the Duties belonging to every one in their several Places Stations and Relations That Inferiors reverence and obey their Superiors that Superiors carry themselves worthily towards and be carefull of those under them that Equals render due Respect towards each other More particularly as to our Superiors in Family Church and State that we pray for them honour and reverence them chearfully submit to and obey them not envy or grudge the Preheminence God hath given them that we do not neglect or despise them for their wants or weaknesses but rather support assist them cast a covering of love over them stand up and plead for them against those that abuse disparage or speak evil of them To which obedience prosperity and length of days as God sees good is promis'd in the Old Testament and not reversed but rather confirmed in the New (y) Ep. 6.2 3. VI. The Sixth condemneth any hurt done threatned or intended to our own or other's Soul or Body Forbiddeth our being actually guilty of or of whatsoever tendeth to our own or others death Together with all sinfull Anger Strife Malice Hatred Revenge denying necessary means for preservation of life but not lawfull War necessary Defence or the Execution of publick Justice And requireth our Endeavours to ●ender all men's lives as safe and comfortable as we can VII The Seventh forbiddeth all Impurities and fleshly Pollutions in Thought Word and Deed unchastity in Mind Speech Behaviour And withall enjoyneth the shunning and avoiding all Occasions Provocations Temptations thereunto as to our selves or others VIII The Eighth forbiddeth all defrauding over-reaching dishonest Actions or whatsoever Abuses unjustly lessens or hinders our own or others Estate and requireth the lawfull procuring and furthering of the same IX The Ninth forbiddeth all false or evil speaking or surmising lying slandering back-biting dissembling reviling tale-bearing detracting from or prejudicing another's Esteem or good Name And requireth our defending preserving promoting advancing the same X. The Tenth forbiddeth dissatisfaction with our own Estate envying repining at desiring of any thing that is another's And requireth a full Contentment with our Enjoyments furthering of and rejoycing in our Neighbours The Lord's Prayer SO called from the Author our Lord Jesus Christ It 's a compleat Directory and Summary of all Prayer And contains 1 A Preface of Compellation the Person we pray to not Saints or Angels but God described by our common Interest in him our Relation to him his Habitation 2 Six Petitions The three first more especially respect God's Glory Advancement of his Kingdom Obedience to his Will which must be first sought The three last our own and others Temporal and Spiritual good 3 A Doxology or Conclusion for Confirmation containing Praise and Thanksgiving and Arguments for our Petitions for Thine is the King dom which we desire to come thy Power alone can effect these things the grant of them tends unto and will end in thy Glory Our Father Implies We ought to call

increased or inflamed that thy self and others may see our Chast Conversation coupled with Fear Let us keep up the Honour and Ends of Marriage Be linked together in one common Care and live together in one Spirit to thy Glory the Edification and Benefit of others the real Comfort Advantage and Contentment of each other the Promoting and Advancing thy Kingdom that we may together enjoy thee Eternally through Jesus Christ Amen The Husband's Duty TO be the Head bespeaks not only your Dignity but Duty to study and design your Wife's Comfort and Welfare to be the Seat and Fountain of Reason Understanding and Discretion to her to excel her in Knowledge Patience Christian Courage and Resolution Chief in bearing Trials and Infirmities with all privacy love and mildness guiding directing reproving her Let love sweeten your Speech Carriage Actions and Advices to her Let not your Commands be unreasonable or imperious but lawfull managed with Meekness Gentleness Familiarity and Discretion that she may see as well Love and Reason as Relation binding her to Obedience Avoid all bitter Language or such as may argue disaffection which sinks deep into the Mind and is hardly obliterated with any after-excuse giving Cause to suspect 't was the Issue of a festered Heart and that a precipitated Passion did not produce but discover it In her Houshold-affairs if you interpose let it be rather by Advice and Assistance than Superiority Avoid Passion Frowardness Austerity and Reservedness towards her Stand by and for her on all Occasions Keep up her due Authority and Honour in the Family Chearfully and willingly not grudgingly or by constraint allow her Necessaries and Conveniences according to your Place and Ability Render her life as comfortable as may be She is thine own flesh so is to be nourished and cherished hath forsaken all for thy Love and is come under thy Roof for Protection Love and respect her as your Yoke-fellow not as a Slave or Servant The Woman was taken out of the Side near the Heart The Wife of thy Bosome to be valued as far more excellent than any other Member under the Head and almost equal to it Husbands love your Wives and be not bitter against them (r) Col. 3.19 Let her be as the loving Hind and pleasant Roe let her Breasts satisfie thee at all Times and be thou Ravished always with her Love (s) Pr. 5.18 19 His Prayer MOst gracious and merciful Father who hast been my God and Guide from my Birth and by thy disposing Providence brought me into this state Forgive whatsoever I have done or thought displeasing unto thee before and since my entrance into it Mortifie in me every Inordinate Affection and Desire Give me Grace still to Remember that those that have Wives should be as if they had none Let not my love unto her swallow up greater unto thy self Let me not prize the Spouse of my Bosom above the Bridegroom of my Soul Now I have Married a Wife let me give a Bill of Divorce to all other Lovers but true Goodness and make it appear thou hast given me a Help-meet not a hinderer therein now I have most need of it As her faithful head Indeed let me guide and instruct her see and speak to and for her nourish and cherish her love her not only as my self but as Christ the Church Bear her Burdens defend her in Danger cover her Infirmities sympathize with and Comfort her under Crosses that I may be better to her than Ten Sons that she may find all those Relations and far more she hath left to cleave unto me in me That when I am as I trust I shall e'er long be happy in Heaven my other part may not through my sin unworthiness or neglect be miserable on Earth But after we have enjoy'd the Comfort of a sweet Society here and been a Blessing to each other and all near unto us we may be translated to a place of perfect Love and Joy to all Eternity Through Jesus Christ our Lord Amen Another ALmighty God who of thy great Goodness hast given Man dominion over the Works of thine hands putting all things in Subjection under his feet and Man to be the Head of the Woman Furnish me with suitable Abilities for the place thou hast set me in Make me a Teacher and an Example of well doing Give me a right Judgment in all Things and a perfect Command over my Passions and Affections that I may not be amazed at Trifles nor discompos'd at every Contrariety of Accidents and Disappointments nor passionate for the things of this world nor discontented if thou should'st smite me in any part nor suffer any Undecency or violent Transport But may pass through all the Accidents of my life with meekness and a sober Spirit Patience and Charity Prudence and Holiness and with an even mind do my Duty in all things Comply with every variety of thy Providence be useful to and careful of mine ever approving my self to thee in a holy hearty obedient Piety and Devotion Wisdom and Humility Chastity Purity and a Holy Conversation Preserve me and mine from all Danger accept of us in and through our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ to whom with thy Blessed Majesty and Holy Spirit be all Glory Honour and Praise now and ever Amen The Wife's Duty GIve to your Husband due Honour sweetned with Love and Familiarity and expressed by an inward Esteem and outward Reverent Respect Speech and Carriage towards him in regard of his Superiority by Creation and God's Institution thy desire shall be to thy Husband and he shall Rule over thee (t) Gen. 3.16 Be voluntarily subject to his Will in all lawfull things as unto the Lord (v) Ep. 5.22 Col. 3.18 From which Nobleness of Birth Greatness of Portion Excellency of Parts cannot exempt A Son may have more wit than his Father and a Subject than his Prince yet both must obey They may advise perswade intreat not be sullen scornfull disdainfull scold reproach taunt or disobey The Place if not the Person is to be regarded Live in a chearfull Contentedness with your Condition Avoid tedious curious gaudy Dressing all lightness and immodesty in your Behaviour and Attire Affect not Vanity in Apparel or Curiosity in any thing about you Be willing and diligent in your proper part of the Care and Labour of the Family Be a constant meet Help both as to his Person Estate Houshold and Holy Education of Children Dispose not of his Estate without his Consent Consider not only whether the Work be good you lay it out upon but what power you have to do it Avoid an impatient murmuring unquiet Disposition and maintain a holy peaceable meek and quiet Temper which is in the sight of God of great Price Her Prayer IN all Humility of Soul and Body I Prostrate my self before thy Divine Majesty most gracious and merciful Father It 's of thy great goodness for which I render unto thee all

Thee Reform my life that I may serve Thee and be saved by thee Cleanse me from my secret Sins and let no Presumptuous Sins have Dominion over me Wean me from the world let my Heart my Treasure my Conversation be in Heaven Turn away mine Eyes from beholding Vanity Set a watch O Lord before my Mouth and keep the Door of my Lips that I offend not with my Tongue Let me delight in that which is Good eschew and abhor that which is Evil set thee always before me that I may not dare to Sin against Thee Make me peaceable and contented in my self useful and beneficial to others well-pleasing and acceptable unto Thee Mind me frequently of my latter end while I live let me live unto thee when I die let me die unto thee living and dying let me be thine Be very merciful to all Mankind especially those that are called Christians Inlarge and Bless thy Holy Catholick Church with more abundant Peace Purity and Concord Pardon the Crying Sins of these three Nations let us search and try our ways and turn unto thee our God make us a People peculiar to thy self zealous of good works Bless our Soveraign with all our Magistrates and Ministers let them discharge their Duty as those that must give an account Be with me this Day and all my Days where-ever I am and whatsoever I am doing let me awefully Remember God made me God preserves me God redeemed me God sees me and God will Judge me Never leave me nor forsake me Guide and direct me by thy Counsel Assist me by thy Holy Spirit Prosper me in all my ways and at last Receive me unto Glory through Jesus Christ in whose Holy Name and Words I further Pray Our Father c. Evening Prayer MOst Holy and ever Blessed Lord God Thou hast Commanded me to Pray and so it is my great Duty and hast stiled thy self a God hearing Prayers and so it is my great Privilege In Obedience to thy Command and in Confidence of thy Promises I desire in all Humility and holy Confidence to wait upon thee at this Time in and through my Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ for his sake beseeching thee for Mercy and Grace Mercy for the Pardon of my Sins without which I am of all Creatures most miserable and Grace for the sanctifying of my Nature and amendment of my life Search me O Lord and Try me and whatsoever is displeasing in me unto thee remove it thence and lead me in the way everlasting Let me value and mind the things that are not seen more than the things that are seen because the things that are seen are Temporal and those that are not seen are Eternal Incline my Heart unto thy Testimonies and not to any Evil way Let not the Pleasures nor Troubles of this world allure or hinder me from serving thee with Chearfulness and Delight Prepare me for every Condition for every Change especially for my great and last Change give me Grace so to live that I may be neither asham'd to live nor afraid nor unfit to die that when thou shalt Call me hence thou may'st Receive me unto the Eternal Enjoyment of thy self in Heaven Be very Gracious and Merciful to all Mankind to all Jews Turks Pagans and Infidels bring them to the Knowledge and Obedience of the Truth Bless Prosper and Protect thy Church and every Member of it be with it unto the End of the World and let not the Gates of Hell prevail against it Reform whatsoever thou seest amiss in the Belief and Lives of Christians especially in these Three Nations Continue unto us Peace with the Gospel of Peace for thy Name sake Bless our Soveraign and all in Authority with Holiness here and Happiness hereafter Let all his Subjects live under him quiet and peaceable Lives in all Godliness and Honesty I et the Ministers of thy Gospel Preach both by their Lives and Doctrine and daily turn many unto Righteousness Let none of my Relations be Strangers unto thy self nor any of thine Afflicted Servants be forgotten by Thee Relieve them according to their several Necessities and the Riches of thy Grace in thy Son I Praise Thee for what thou hast afforded me Thy good Creatures thy Blessing with them thy Provision for me and preservation of me this Day and all my Days Let me lie me down and take my Rest and Sleep because thou Lord makest me to dwell in safety Whether I sleep or wake live or die let me be found thine own to thine Eternal Glory and my Everlasting Salvation through Jesus Christ who hath taught me when I pray to say Our Father which art in Heaven c. Grace before Meat BLess and Sanctifie most Merciful Father These thy good Creatures to my use and me unto thy Service give them strength to nourish me and me grace to serve Thee through Jesus Christ our Lord Amen Grace after Meat BLessed be thy Holy Name O Lord for all thy Mercies for these thy good Creatures make them healthful for my nourishment and me thankful for all thy Mercies Inable me by them to live to thy praise through Jesus Christ our Lord Amen How to spend the Lord's Day REmember the Lord's Day before it come so as to prepare for it by suitable Meditations Go seasonably to your Rest to prevent heaviness or drowziness Prudently dispose and dispatch your Earthly Affairs that they may be off your hands and out of your mind as much as possible on that Day that so your Heart may be more free and fit for the Duties of it Seek Remission for the Miscarriages of the Week past that you may not come with guilt or trouble upon your Consciences before the Lord. Think not your worldly Business more worthy of your Early Rising than your spiritual Imployment Let your first Thoughts be not only Holy but suitable to the Day With gladness consider how Early your Redeemer arose what a Day of Mercy you are awoke to to wait upon God for Receiving and Exercising of Grace in order to Glory to Cast off the Distracting Thoughts and Businesses of the World and what a Happy opportunity of Good is put into your Hands to get more in one Day than this World can afford you in all your lives Spend it as a Day of Thanksgiving for the greatest Mercies Therefore let the manner of it and the frame of your Hearts be holy Joy Gratitude and Love stirred up by the exercise of Faith and Hope Inlarge your Personal Devotions on this Day and let not Secret Prayer be slubbered over slightly but performed with Seriousness Reverence Alacrity and sutable to the nature and end of the Day Go to the solemn Assembly with Joy and Gladness as to the receiving of a great Blessing with desires after and hope to speed not with unwillingness as to an unpleasant Task and Burden as Carnal Hearts that love not God his Grace or Service are weary of all they do and glad when it

will be unto us we being delivered out of the hands of our Enemies let us serve thee without fear in Holiness and Righteousness all our Days through Jesus Christ our Lord in whose Holy Name and Words I further pray Our Father c. How to Prepare for a Comfortable Death I. BE sure your State and Condition your Nature Disposition and Inclinations are changed That you have an Interest in Christ the only Ark that can carry us safe to shore after that General Shipwrack made in Adam An inward principle of Piety and Holiness a renewed Soul a reconciled mind to God and True goodness which is nothing else but an Harmony or Right order of Heart and Life That you are possessed of the Sanctifying Spirit made partaker of the Divine Nature and Image Temper and Dispositions resembling Him in his Imitable Perfections of Justice Truth Goodness Kindness Clemency Bounty Benevolence c. Absolutely and Intirely resigned and devoted to him without Reserve or Exception to be govern'd wholly by his Laws You are then reconciled to God you have the Judge for your Friend and Advocate and the Earnest of your Future Inheritance He deserves not the Name of a Christian saith St. Jerom who lives in such a state in which he would not die Good men neglecting clearing up their Evidences and Hopes Their Claim and Title to Heaven hath made them live Comfortless and die Heartless 'T is dreadful entering Eternity upon loose Hopes and fluid Peradventures To die and not to know how we shall speed in another world To fall into the Hands of Death as the Lepers into the Syrians not knowing whether we shall meet with Kindness or Cruelty like that dying Philosopher Dibius vixi Anxius morior nescio quo vado But what is it to be put into the Bill of Mortality when our Names are written in the Book of Life where Guilt is Removed Death is disarmed We may well desire to be dissolved when we know our Redeemer liveth That He shall be our Judge who hath taken upon Him our Flesh who hath given us his Spirit upon whom we have fixed our Expectations of Happiness for whom we have suffered from this vile world whom we always looked on as our Treasure and Portion whose coming we have so long looked for and desired who hath the Keys of Heaven Hell and Death our Friend our Brother our Husband our Head He will not endure to have his own Members cast off He will never disown those that shall be found in Him He will vindicate his own Claim and Title to us He will not lose his own Purchase not deny his own work not condemn us for that Debt himself hath undertaken to pay for whom He came to be Surety was Sentenced Condemned and Suffered There is no Condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus who walk not after the flesh but after the Spirit (d) Rom. 8.1 If upon Gospel grounds our Hearts Condemn us not but Testifie we are reconciled to Him we may be sure He is reconciled to us and may have Confidence in the Day of Judgment II. In your several places and stations Imploy well your Talents your Trust your Stewardship your Time fill up every space of it by well spending it Do all the good you can while you are Here not only by a daily Exercise of Publick and Private Devotion but by being in any kind useful and beneficial to others which is a great part of our Business in this world by a Charitable helping the necessitous and distressed allaying their Sorrows removing their Burdens supporting them under their Calamities by all Offices of Kindness and Friendship hindering Injurious Contentions promoting Love Peace good will amongst Men by furthering their welfare by being Courteous and Affable long-suffering mild easie to be intreated and reconciled of a Benign Compassionate Sympathizing Temper assisting and standing up for the injured and oppressed Contributing as much as we can that every one may live as Happily by us and be as good as may be More especially doing good to Mens Souls by seasonable frequent Reproofs and Admonitions good Advice and Example to bring them into love with Goodness and Virtue and Rescue them from the Dominion of Sin and Satan and an Intollerable Damnation A good and generous man is Ambitious and heartily glad of an Opportunity to save a Man's Life or Estate when in Danger but He that 's an Instrument of Anomer's Eternal Salvation saves the most precious thing in the world and furthers his own (e) Dan. 12.3 Jam. 5.19 We may do a great deal of good in a little Time Husbanded well and suffering none of it to be swallowed up without endeavouring to do some real good to our selves or others We account Him Happy that 's taken hence whilest He 's well Imploy'd and every man wishes to Die so we cannot choose the Circumstances of our own Death but may certainly make it Comfortable by imploying our selves so that when God shall call us we cannot be accused of any gross mis-spence of our Time or the neglecting any Opportunity of doing or receiving good the Providence of God hath put into our Hands One of the most principal Rules of solid Devotion saith St. Cyprian is that we let not pass the least occasion of serving God III. Exercise Charity and Mercy according to your Opportunities and Abilities Alms delivers from Death (f) Isa 1.17 Dan. 4.27 Ecl. 3.9 Tob. 4.10 Come up for a Memorial before God (g) Act. 10.4 Charity covers the multitude of Sins (h) 1 Pet. 4.8 Forgiving others Intitles us to the Pardon of our Offences (i) Mat. 6.14.15 We can challenge no Reward from God for our Duty because the Service of our whole Lives is Antecedently due to him and we Receive all from him but a good life qualifies and disposes us for that Happiness He hath promised to Holy and pure Souls and no Grace or Virtue more immediately prepares and fits us for it than works of Mercy which are like to have a greater Influence on the last Day 's Proceedings than most are aware of (k) Lu. 12.33 and 16.9 1 Tim. 6.17 c. All the Actions of Men shall be brought to account but Christ Representing to us the process of the last Judgment and instancing only in Works of Mercy (l) Mat. 25.32 c. signifies at least thus much to us that he hath a peculiar Regard to those in acquitting or condemning men at that Day He looks upon the Performance or Neglect as Redounding upon himself and Intimates there 's something peculiar in the Exercise or Neglect of this Grace to intitle us to his favour or expose us to his wrath The marble-hearted Cruelty of wicked men is the only thing mentioned that makes the Bill be found against them whilst the Righteous are strangely surpriz'd when told they had shewed savour to their Judge to him that sat on the Throne whom they had never seen in