shall_v be_v 〈◊〉_d thy_o heart_n and_o thou_o shall_v teach_v they_o unto_o thâ—_n child_n etc._n etc._n and_o in_o cap._n 32.46_o he_o say_v sâ—â—_n your_o heart_n unto_o all_o the_o word_n which_o i_o testify_v among_o you_o this_o day_n which_o you_o shall_v command_v your_o child_n to_o observe_v to_o do_v let_v your_o deportment_n towards_o they_o be_v such_o as_o may_v procure_v they_o to_o fear_n respect_n and_o love_v you_o and_o so_o soon_o as_o they_o comâ—_n to_o the_o year_n of_o any_o understanding_n mind_n you_o engagement_n at_o their_o be_v baptize_v and_o in_o discharge_n thereof_o hold_v forth_o to_o they_o the_o obligation_n you_o do_v then_o come_v under_o and_o take_v theâ—_n solemn_o and_o express_o bind_v to_o the_o performance_n of_o their_o part_n and_o as_o their_o capacity_n wâ—â—_n admit_v instruct_v they_o so_o far_o as_o you_o can_v in_o every_o part_n of_o their_o duty_n god-ward_o curb_v in_o they_o every_o tendency_n to_o evil_n such_o as_o lie_v 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without_o now_o in_o the_o street_n etc._n etc._n and_o in_o tit._n 2.4_o 5._o the_o apostle_n press_v woman_n may_v be_v sober_a love_v their_o husband_n love_v their_o child_n and_o that_o they_o be_v discreet_a keeper_n at_o home_n good_a obedient_a to_o their_o own_o husband_n etc._n etc._n and_o as_o there_o be_v business_n that_o do_v more_o proper_o belong_v to_o a_o husband_n so_o there_o be_v that_o the_o wife_n be_v almost_o only_o concern_v 〈◊〉_d such_o as_o the_o care_n and_o oversight_n of_o almost_o all_o within_o door_n and_o particular_o of_o the_o education_n and_o up-bringing_a of_o child_n whilst_o young_a when_o they_o come_v to_o the_o world_n it_o be_v apparent_a that_o nature_n by_o give_v to_o mother_n breast_n and_o milk_n fit_v for_o their_o nourishment_n have_v intend_v their_o discharge_n that_o duty_n i_o be_o indeed_o sensible_a that_o sometime_o the_o want_n of_o ability_n or_o necessary_a diversion_n in_o other_o affair_n and_o other_o accident_n occur_v may_v hinder_v in_o which_o case_n it_o be_v duty_n to_o forbear_v but_o it_o be_v much_o to_o be_v fear_v that_o too_o many_o without_o just_a ground_n put_v off_o the_o nurse_n of_o their_o child_n to_o their_o great_a inconvenience_n it_o may_v be_v argue_v that_o the_o nature_n of_o that_o nourishment_n may_v influence_n the_o humour_n and_o temper_v of_o the_o child_n and_o it_o be_v uncontraverted_o true_a that_o it_o be_v a_o real_a cause_n for_o a_o more_o firm_a bond_n of_o affection_n betwixt_o child_n and_o parent_n and_o sure_o it_o be_v very_o pleasant_a to_o see_v mother_n of_o whatever_o quality_n when_o there_o be_v fitness_n and_o ability_n for_o that_o duty_n discharge_v it_o and_o when_o child_n come_v to_o any_o year_n of_o discretion_n the_o wife_n be_v joint_o concern_v with_o the_o husband_n in_o their_o instruction_n 70._o what_o servant_n you_o need_v and_o be_v fit_v for_o you_o in_o your_o station_n make_v choice_n of_o they_o have_v in_o the_o first_o place_n a_o respect_n to_o god_n be_v serve_v by_o they_o in_o your_o family_n and_o what_o ever_o be_v the_o qualification_n and_o fitness_n of_o any_o servant_n for_o any_o worldly_a concern_v if_o they_o be_v notorious_o wicked_a or_o you_o be_v satisfy_v that_o they_o will_v not_o concur_v to_o worship_n god_n in_o your_o family_n let_v no_o worldly_a consideration_n procure_v your_o entertain_v they_o i_o shall_v not_o say_v that_o you_o admit_v of_o none_o but_o such_o as_o be_v gracious_a but_o be_v sure_a they_o be_v such_o as_o be_v not_o know_v to_o be_v wicked_a and_o when_o they_o come_v into_o your_o society_n let_v it_o be_v your_o care_n that_o they_o know_v their_o duty_n god-ward_o and_o practice_v it_o as_o their_o master_n you_o be_v not_o only_o to_o provide_v for_o their_o suitable_a maintenance_n and_o to_o give_v they_o what_o be_v
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in_o a_o fair_a way_n to_o happiness_n if_o thou_o have_v attain_v it_o thou_o be_v at_o thy_o way_n end_v he_o be_v not_o happy_a who_o have_v all_o if_o it_o be_v possible_a that_o he_o desire_v but_o that_o desire_v nothing_o but_o what_o be_v good_a 48._o have_v any_o wrong_v thou_o be_v brave_o revenge_v slight_a it_o and_o the_o work_n be_v begin_v for_o give_v it_o and_o it_o be_v finish_v he_o be_v below_o himself_o that_o be_v not_o above_o a_o injury_n 49._o deride_v not_o he_o who_o the_o loose_a worlâ—_n call_v puritan_n lest_o thou_o offend_v a_o little_a one_o 〈◊〉_d he_o be_v a_o hypocrite_n god_n that_o know_v he_o will_v reward_v he_o if_o zealous_a god_n that_o love_v he_o wâ—â—â—_n revenge_v he_o if_o he_o be_v good_a he_o be_v good_a to_o god_n glory_n if_o he_o be_v evil_a let_v he_o be_v evil_a at_o his_o oâ—â—_n charge_n he_o that_o judge_n shall_v be_v judge_v 50._o as_o thou_o desire_v the_o love_n of_o god_n and_o man_n beware_v of_o pride_n it_o be_v a_o tumour_n in_o thy_o mind_n that_o break_v and_o poison_v all_o thy_o action_n be_v be_v a_o worm_n in_o thy_o treasure_n which_o eat_v and_o ruin_v thy_o estate_n it_o love_v no_o man_n be_v belove_v of_o no_o man_n it_o be_v the_o friend_n of_o the_o flatterer_n the_o mother_n of_o envy_n the_o nurse_n of_o fury_n the_o bawd_n of_o luxury_n the_o sin_n of_o devil_n and_o the_o devil_n in_o mankind_n it_o hate_v superior_n it_o scorn_v inferior_n it_o own_v no_o equal_n in_o short_a till_o thou_o hate_v it_o god_n hate_v thou_o 51._o beware_v of_o drunkenness_n lest_o all_o good_a man_n beware_v of_o thou_o where_o drunkenness_n reign_v there_o reason_n be_v a_o exul_fw-la virtue_n a_o stranger_n and_o god_n a_o enemy_n 52._o take_v no_o pleasure_n in_o the_o folly_n of_o a_o idiot_n nor_o in_o the_o frenzy_n of_o a_o lunatic_n nor_o in_o the_o extravagancy_n of_o a_o drunkard_n make_v they_o the_o object_n of_o thâ—_n pity_n not_o of_o thy_o pastime_n when_o thou_o behold_v they_o behold_v how_o thou_o be_v behold_v to_o he_o that_o suffer_v thou_o not_o to_o be_v like_o they_o there_o be_v no_o difference_n between_o thou_o and_o they_o but_o god_n favour_n 53._o use_v law_n and_o physic_n only_o for_o necessity_n they_o that_o use_v they_o otherways_o abuse_v themselves_o into_o weak_a body_n and_o light_a purse_n they_o be_v good_a remedy_n bad_a business_n and_o worse_a recreation_n 54._o in_o every_o relative_a action_n change_v condition_n with_o thy_o brother_n then_o ask_v thy_o conscience_n what_o thou_o will_v have_v do_v to_o the_o be_v true_o resolve_v exchange_v again_o and_o do_v thou_o the_o like_a to_o he_o and_o thy_o charity_n shall_v seldom_o or_o never_o err_v it_o be_v injustice_n to_o do_v what_o without_o impatience_n thou_o can_v not_o 〈◊〉_d 55._o thing_n temporal_a be_v sweet_a in_o the_o expectation_n thing_n 〈◊〉_d be_v sweet_a in_o the_o fruition_n the_o first_o shame_v thy_o hope_n the_o second_o crown_v it_o it_o be_v a_o vain_a journey_n who_o end_n afford_v less_o pleasure_n than_o the_o way_n 56._o if_o thy_o word_n be_v luxuriant_a confine_v they_o lest_o they_o confine_v the_o he_o that_o think_v he_o can_v never_o speak_v enough_o may_v easy_o speak_v too_o muchâ—_n a_o full_a tongue_n and_o a_o empty_a brain_n be_v seldom_o part_v 57_o of_o all_o vice_n take_v heed_n of_o drunkenness_n other_o vice_n make_v their_o own_o way_n this_o make_v way_n for_o all_o vice_n he_o that_o be_v a_o drunkard_n be_v qualify_v for_o every_o evil_a 58._o let_v the_o word_n of_o a_o virgin_n though_o inâ—_n good_a cause_n and_o to_o as_o good_a purpose_n be_v neither_o violent_a many_o nor_o first_o nor_o last_v it_o be_v less_o shamâ—â—_n for_o a_o virgin_n to_o be_v lose_v in_o a_o blush_a silence_n theâ—â—_n to_o be_v find_v in_o a_o bold_a eloquence_n 59_o if_o thou_o have_v but_o little_a make_v it_o not_o leâ—â—_n by_o murmur_a if_o thou_o have_v enough_o make_v 〈◊〉_d not_o too_o much_o by_o unthankfulness_n he_o 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