of Gods deliuerance 2. Sam. 16.12 It may be the Lord will looke on mine affliction and doe me good this day not making doubt for neither did Dauid in generall but constantly cleauing to the promise call vpon me in the day of trouble and I will deliuer thee Prayer for deliuerance must be ioyned with this expectation of our deliuerance not prescribing time nor meanes nor manner much lesse vsing vnlawfull meanes but reserue vnto the Lord the glory of his wisedome in ordering the whole matter and circumstances of our deliuerance The fifth fruit is a totall resignation of a mans selfe to the will of God and a voluntarie subiection vnto his good pleasure who knoweth out of his wisedome what is the best and out of his loue maketh euery present estate worke to the best to his children example hereof we haue in Dauid 2. Sam. 15.26 Behold here am I let him doe as seemeth good in his eyes yea euen if he should say I haue no delight in thee The third point wherein the soundnes of patience consisteth is in the found durance and lasting of it And indeed not euery patience and tollerance of euill is here meant but such as implieth a delaie and continuance vnder some weight or burthen nay the very word importeth so much signifying as well perseuerance as patience neither is this sound patience a suffering only but a long suffering nor a patience but a long patience such as the husbandman waiteth withall vnto the haruest such as the Prophets endured all hard measure by such as our selues must possesse our soules by and euery possession is of continuance such as maketh not hast yea such as must waite vntill the comming of the Lord. Iames in the place alleadged exhorteth to be patient till the comming of the Lord which is not meant of his last comming to iudgement but of his particular executions beforehand for the deliuerie of his chosen the reuenge of their wrongs vpon their enemies Vse All these notes let vs see the crazines of this grace in vs. It is no patience when men beare out crosses by stoutnes and stomacke neither by a nature not so subiect to impatience for here is not silence vnto God disposing the crosse vnto them So when men can buckle well enough with and swimme out of one kind of crosse which pincheth them not so much but sinke in some other when they must choose their rods and tâ—ialls or else they are heartles and dead in the neast here is a crannie in their patience which will sinke their soules Some againe beare out their crosses because they are yoked and coupled to them like two spaniels which must goe together because they cannot goe asunder but without all willingnes or chearefulnes but this is farre from Christian patience and is as we say patience perforce And lastly when we cannot entertaine afflictions thankefully as finding some goodnes and sweetnes in them when deliuerance is not expected from God as by such who haue title in his promise when we desire to be at our owne hands and will not stay his leisure but hastily like infidels runne vnto indirect meanes and sometime to Sathan himselfe in sorcerers witches when we are so tugged with afflictions as we hold not out but are readie to giue vp all here is all vnsound here men may not onely suspect but conclude from vnsound patience vnsoundnes of loue of faith and consequently the want of the truth in all their profession of religion Vers. 3. The elder women likewise that they be in such behauiour as becommeth holynesse not false accusers not giuen to much wine but teachers of holy things Our Apostle hauing taught how and what doctrine should be applyed to old men he proceedeth now to make olde women matchable vnto them and therefore he beginneth with the word likewise which sheweth that the same vertues as formerly haue beene mentioned are to be vrged vpon old age of both sexes and who can denie sobrietie wisdome grauitie soundnesse in faith loue and patience to be as necessarie for auncient women as men whether we consider the same inconueniences of the same olde age lying vpon them or the impotencie of their sexe in vndergoing them which yet maketh the want of these vertues farre more miserable then in the other And then he addeth some further duties fitted to their estate which he doth 1. by prescribing such vertues as are seemely for their yeares and 2. by prohibiting such vices as in all ages are wicked but in theirs most vnseemely and scandalous The duties are two 1. an holy behauiour in themselues in the first words of the verse 2. a drawing on of others vnto holinesse and honestie in the latter part of the verse and forward The vices prohibited are two 1. of slaundring or false accusing 2. of intemperate desire or drinking of wine or strong drinkes both which are contained in the middle of the verse But we will speake of the words as they lie in the verse But before we come vnto them we may learne this lesson Doctr. In that wholesome doctrine must be taught and applyed vnto women as well as men note that no woman cannot without danger of damnation despise or neglect the ministerie of the word they beeing as straightly bound vnto the meanes of saluation and the Apostle taketh double paines to teach them their duties Reas. 1. As saluation is one to all so is there but one way to all for as women must haue their names written in the booke of life as well as men that is in the booke of Gods election to life so must they be also added vnto the Church as well as men seeing none are saued who are not added vnto the Church Now this addition to the Church standeth not onely in an outward profession of the Gospel by which they are added to the visible Church for the foolish virgins made a great shewe for a time but in vnfained conuersion and sanctification whereby they are added vnto the invisible Church True it is that women must be ioyned vnto the people of God and therefore must participate 1. in the word which must be preached to euerie creature Paul preached to a company of women among whom Lydia was conuerted 2. in the Sacraments and be both admitted into the Church by baptisme as Cornelius the Iaylor and all their housholds as also strengthned in the Church by the Lords Supper in which they must remember the Lords death vntill he come But all this is not inough yea nothing at all vnlesse they be first knit vnto God himselfe the bond of which coniunction is faith wrought in the heart by meanes of the word and working in heart and life by loue to God and men If then women must beleeue to saluation aswell as men the Iaylor and all his houshold beleeued in God nay if women must continue in faith to which saluation is tyed and not
in the mudde of some one of them But because it is a shame to speake in publike of the things they shame not to doe in secret I will forbeare further to mooue and stirre in this sinke which sufficiently stinketh in the nostrills of God and men and conclude the point with Epiphanius his speach They haue refused marriage but not lust no trueâ— of the Originians then of all the Popish orders Doctr. Polygamie was euer a thing blameworthy and euill in it selfe notwithstanding much vsed of Iew and Gentile Reasons 1. The first matrimonie was instituted betweene two persons onely of whom the Lord said expressely they two not they three or more shall be one flesh In which first institution are two grounds ouerturning this sinne 1. Gods action of creating one man and one woman and no moe 2. His iniunction and strait charge to all posteritie that one man should cleaue to one wife who must be his wife and no stranger and not to many wiues at once so as it is against the law of nature and the first institution 2. The Lord by Moses forbiddeth it Leu. 18.18 Thou shalt not take one woman to her sister that is thou shalt not take one woman to another to make them as sisters for in the 16. verse the marriage of the wiues sister is forbidden by proportion euen in monogamie no not after the sisters death seeing consanguinitie and affinitie agree in duration alike Besides that the phrase in Hebrew is commonly so vsed as Gen. 26.31 Exod. 26.3 and the reason of the precept is that such a one must not be taken to greeue the other and seemeth properly to be meant of wiues in polygamie who in the Scriptures are called aduersaries 3. The Prophets themselues reprooue it vpon the ground of the first institution Mal. 2.15 God made but one woman at first and why but one not that he wanted spirit for he had abundance but because he sought a godly seede wherefore keepe your selues in your spirit and let no man transgresse against the wife of his youth where the Prophet proueth it to be not onely against the first institution but wisheth all posteritie carefully to avoide it 4. Christ himselfe taxeth it as a violencing of the first institution Mat. 19.4.5 Haue ye not read that God made them at the beginning male and female and for this cause shall a man leaue father and mother and cleaue to his wife not wiues and they twaine shall be one flesh 5. Christs Apostles condemned it Eph. 5.31 the same speach of our Sauiour Christ repeated 1. Cor. 7. Let euerie man haue his owne wife not wiues and here the Apostle accounteth it such a blot as hindreth the admission of any such into the ministerie And thus polygamie beeing condemned by the first institution of marriage before the Law and also in the Lawe after the Lawe by the Prophets after them by Christ himselfe and by his Apostles it followeth that it was euer an euill condemned euen from the beginning Obiect But the example of the most of the Patriarkes is alleadged for the lawfulnesse of it for else all they would not haue vsed it beeing the best men that euer liued Answ. The canon lawe saith that a common error may not preiudice the least truth true it is that after that most sauage tyrant Lamech had first depraued Gods ordinance it greatly preuailed by example and especially then when there was no King in Israel yet notwithstanding the Prophets and Christ call men not to example but to the rule of the first institution 2. We neuer reade of any of them no not the best well caried it but what fruit had it betweene Hadah and Sillah at first it still retained For what molestation brought it euen to good men what a stirre had Abraham to compose Sarah and Hagar to peace and in their children Isaac and Ismael what a number of sparkles of contention were kindled what heart-griefe was it to Iacob to see such daily emulation betweene Leah and Rahel and what other was the fruit of their enuie but an occasion further to draw him into sinne in taking first one of their maids and then anothers and all to please both to say nothing of the doe he had doubtlesse about their children When Moses speaketh of Esaus 2. wiues he added they were an heart griefe to Isaac and Rebecca Gen. 26.35 when the Scripture speaketh of Gideons 70. sonnes begotten of his owne bodie with the reason for he had many wiues Iud. 8.30 the very next chapter sheweth how Abimelech slewe all these 70. sonnes on one stone saue Iotham How was Elcanah troubled to satisfie and recompence his wife Hannah for the reproach wherewith Peninnah her aduersarie vexed her sore In the inclining of Salomons prosperitie the first exception the Lord tooke against him was that he loued many outlandish women which sinne brought him to all the wickednesse that was found in his hands 3. Whereas it is said that the Patriarks were carried hereunto not by fleshly lust but in desire of increase of that holy seede which was in that one people I answer we may so religiously and charitably conceiue of them and in that regard of the Lords more speciall indulgence and connivence yet can it not prooue lawfull it may make it in them a lesse euill but not no fault for if it had beene lawfull for the fathers in regard of multiplying the Church and filling the earth it had beene much more lawfull and fit for our first Parents for to them was said encrease and multiplie and fill the earth and yet God permitted it not to them but it crept into the world against that first institution Obiect 2. Sam. 12.8 He gaue thy Lords wiues into thy bosome therefore Dauid had many wiues both of his owne and Sauls the Lord beeing the author Ans. Those words into thy bosome indeede often signifie the neere coniunction of marriage yet here as in some other places it signifieth onely that they were giuen vnder Dauids power and hand namely into his subiection and so it signifieth sometime nothing else but to haue something with a man as elsewhere Dauid saith he bore the reproaches of the mightie in his bosome so here Dauid had with him his Master Sauls wiues 2. If the phrase should not so be here taken incest would be defended in Dauid seeing the consanguinitie of the wife is in the same degree to the husband as to the wife and therefore Dauid could no more marrie the stepmothers of his wife Mical then if they had beene his own 3. We neuer read that Dauid tooke any of them that were Sauls to become wife vnto himselfe Obiect Deut. 21.10.15 there are two laws which seeme to fauour it If a man cast his affection vpon a woman c. And if a man haue two wiues the sonne of the hated if first borne shall inherit and therefore the Lord at least permitteth polygamie Ans.
to bearing of children then surely for women to despise the ministerie which is the meanes of beginning and continuing in faith loue and holinesse is fearefully to despise fellowship with God and life euerlasting Secondly women must walke in as straight waies to heauen as men sinne is as odious in Eue as in Adam vnder the same lawe are they borne by the same lawe are they to be ruled in this life and iudged in the life to come the same pretious promises of life are made vnto them the same pretious faith must lay hold vpon them the same spirit must inhabitat them the same graces which accompanie saluation must beautifie them Women must worship God as well as men Lydia Act. 16.14 must feare God Act. 17.4 the chiefe women not a fewe must be disciples full of good works and almes to the Saints as Dorcas all or any of which graces if elsewhere they can attaine or performe then by the direction and institution of the word we will giue them leaue to contemne it with the whole ministerie of it but if this be the word of faith which we preach the word of the kingdome and if we haue the words of eternall life let them goe elsewhere or by any other direction saue this whether of naturall reason fleshly wisedome lewd custome or what euer may perswade it they shall surely faile of faith of the kingdome and of life eternall in the ende Obiect But how often haue we heard Popish or profane men alleadge to the contrarie What should women minde the Scripture or meddle with religion what haue they not huswiferie at home haue they not children seruants and a calling to tend and how often doth our religion heare it selfe disgraced in that it is embraced by women who they say are simple and easily seduced Answ. To all which I answer that if these wretches had prooued that women had no soules to loose or to saue such gracelesse discourses were more easily to be admitted 2. Might not a man haue come vpon Marie with the like interrogatories why haue you nothing to doe but to sit downe at Christs feete to heare words which concerne you not haue you no huswiferie to set your selfe about doe not you see you haue a great Prophet to giue entertainment vnto doe you see your sister Martha medling with such matters But if any had thus rebuked her would Christ haue recanted that which he had affirmed of her that she had chosen the better part and if Martha had done so too would Christ haue said that she had failed in the due regard of one thing which was more necessarie then all that busines which shee encombred her selfe withall 3. Salomons mother requireth two things in a vertuous woman one the ouerseeing of the wayes of her familie the other to open her mouth with wisedome and haue the lawe of grace sitting vnder her lippes without which latter should a woman excell the life and death of some bruit beasts assuredly if the former were all shee should liue and die a little more ciuilly but neuer a whit more religiously then they 4. It is so farre from being a iust reproach to the Gospel that women professe it that it is rather a note of the truth of it God chooseth the weake and simple of the world to confound and prouoke the wise and mightie Christ himselfe prouoked Simon the Pharisie by an example of loue which a poore woman had shewed vpon him farre beyond him and thought it no disgrace that Marie out of whom he had cast 7. deuills nor the noted harlot the woman at the well should follow him and entertaine his profession neither did his wisedome thinke it preiudiciall or not beseeming the simplicitie of the Gospel to shew himselfe after his resurrection first to simple women and to make them preachers of it euen to the Disciples themselues Obiect But women are to rest in their husbands instruction and need not depend vpon the Ministers mouth 1. Cor. 14.35 Let them aske their husbands at home Ans. The Apostle there forbiddeth open and publike speach in the congregation where if in the exercise of prophesiyng they had any doubts rising concerning the things handled they were not permitted to stand vp as the men were either to teach or aske questions but keepe silence for the time and consult with their husbands at home for the resolution of their doubts but this place taketh it for granted that they must resort to the Church and heare in the congregation ver 34. And pittifully should most women be taught if they should content themselues with their husbands instruction Vse 1. We see hence what to thinke of the Popish doctrine who will neither admit women nor men but their learned Licentiats to meddle with the Scriptures and least they should so doe they shut them vp in an vnknowne tongue an high wickednes against the commandement of Christ to Laiks and common men Ioh. 5.39 Search the Scriptures and the practise of the Church and beleeuers in the old and new Testament Deut. 31.11 Nehem. 8.3.4 Act. 17.11 2. Let no woman please her selfe that her husband goeth to Church and neglect the meanes her selfe for an vnbeleeuing wife may be sanctified by a beleeuing husband but she shall neuer be saued but by her owne faith he sanctifieth her mariage but not her person 3. The husband may not suffer his wife to incurre such danger but if he loue her he must extend his loue to her soule and better part seasonably giuing gentle admonitions and reproofes if with Martha they grow heauy or careles of this dutie 4. Let no woman be discouraged but incouraged rather in the powerfull profession of religion and frequenting the exercises of it of hearing and reading it reuerent speaking and carefull practise of it imitating herein those good women who followed Christ and ministred vnto him of their substance It is the modestie of women neuer to be ashamed to professe Christ and godly women haue many times become more zealous then men and their sanctified affections haue vsually exceeded mens in strength and tendernes And although the darknes of the world endure no manifest light in men much lesse in women yet Christ and his word highly esteemeth the least appearance of grace in men and much more in women how carefull was Christ to instruct comfort and reueale himselfe to the women that followed him honouring their profession of him in some things aboue his dearest Disciples what a great and worthy praise was it that Priscilla as well as Aquilla her husband should take such a man as Apollos home to instruct him in the waies of God and of how many women doth the Apostle in his salutations giue more then common report of their loue and faithfulnes in the truth As goe no further then the Romans Priscilla was ready for his life to laie downe her owne necke Marie bestowed much labour on the Apostles