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you_o kill_v another_o and_o so_o bring_v in_o death_n upon_o death_n into_o your_o family_n and_o invite_v and_o call_v it_o in_o to_o make_v freach_n upon_o breach_n do_v you_o complain_v of_o death_n do_n and_o will_v you_o do_v as_o death_n have_v do_v do_v you_o grieve_v and_o sorrow_n for_o the_o death_n of_o another_o and_o by_o your_o grief_n and_o sorrow_n will_v you_o be_v your_o own_o death_n and_o yet_o not_o yield_v your_o sorrow_n be_v too_o much_o do_v you_o sorrow_n because_o you_o be_v lodge_v in_o the_o grave_a and_o do_v you_o thus_o hasten_v to_o go_v to_o they_o though_o god_n have_v put_v a_o end_n to_o their_o life_n yet_o have_v not_o he_o bind_v you_o by_o all_o lawful_a mean_n to_o preserve_v your_o own_o and_o to_o avoid_v whatsoever_o have_v so_o great_a a_o tendency_n to_o cut_v it_o short_a or_o do_v not_o you_o know_v that_o excessive_a grief_n often_o be_v the_o cause_n of_o death_n do_v you_o never_o read_v in_o the_o bill_n of_o mortality_n that_o 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yet_o not_o say_v it_o be_v too_o much_o when_o your_o spirit_n be_v break_v your_o heart_n be_v break_v how_o can_v you_o live_v and_o what_o will_v break_v it_o prov._n 15.13_o by_o sorrow_n of_o the_o heart_n the_o spirit_n be_v break_v prov._n 17.22_o a_o break_a spirit_n dry_v the_o bone_n psal_n 6.7_o my_o eye_n be_v consume_v because_o of_o grief_n immoderate_a sorrow_n dry_v the_o bone_n break_v the_o heart_n prey_v upon_o the_o spirit_n consume_v the_o vital_a part_n and_o by_o all_o hasten_v death_n and_o therefore_o not_o to_o be_v cherish_v but_o avoid_v q._n 2._o be_v not_o that_o sorrow_n that_o must_v be_v sorrow_v for_o excessive_a sorrow_n see_v the_o strait_a you_o bring_v yourself_o into_o you_o sorrow_n too_o much_o and_o because_o you_o do_v so_o you_o must_v sorrow_n more_o and_o so_o add_v sorrow_n to_o sorrow_n '_o when_o it_o be_v and_o because_o it_o be_v too_o much_o already_o you_o have_v more_o than_o you_o ought_v and_o yet_o you_o have_v not_o so_o much_o as_o you_o shall_v you_o must_v have_v sorrow_n for_o your_o sorrow_n and_o yet_o you_o want_v sorrow_n for_o your_o sorrow_n your_o eye_n run_v down_o with_o tear_n for_o your_o dead_a more_o than_o they_o shall_v and_o when_o you_o shall_v weep_v for_o your_o excessive_a sorrow_n you_o haâ—e_v not_o a_o tear_n to_o shed_v why_o do_v you_o waste_v your_o tear_n for_o what_o and_o more_o than_o you_o shall_v and_o than_o want_v tear_n for_o what_o you_o ought_v to_o shed_v they_o for_o excessive_a sorrow_n be_v a_o sin_n because_o it_o be_v excessive_a and_o sinful_a sorrow_n must_v be_v sorrow_v for_o and_o repent_v of_o or_o how_o will_v you_o else_o get_v the_o pardon_n of_o that_o know_a sin_n what_o do_v you_o mean_v then_o by_o sorrow_n to_o draw_v on_o sorrow_n and_o so_o to_o weep_v that_o you_o must_v weep_v over_o your_o weep_n and_o to_o shed_v tear_n over_o again_o for_o the_o tear_n that_o you_o have_v shed_v if_o you_o can_v bear_v this_o sorrow_n that_o you_o be_v fill_v with_o already_o why_o by_o this_o sorrow_n do_v you_o make_v way_n for_o more_o and_o foe_fw-mi depth_n of_o sorrow_n call_v for_o depth_n of_o sorrow_n you_o at_o last_o must_v swim_v in_o tear_n where_o you_o can_v wade_v through_o q_o 3_o be_v not_o that_o sorrow_n too_o much_o that_o do_v hurt_v and_o no_o good_a be_v sorrow_n good_a in_o itself_o as_o sorrow_n then_o all_o sorrow_n will_v be_v good_a whereas_o much_o sorrow_n be_v often_o evil_a and_o too_o much_o be_v always_o evil_a because_o as_o such_o it_o do_v hurt_v and_o not_o good_a who_o do_v your_o sorrow_n do_v good_a unto_o not_o to_o your_o dead_a be_v it_o never_o so_o much_o not_o to_o your_o relation_n that_o live_v for_o you_o grieve_v they_o by_o over_o grieve_v and_o make_v your_o company_n a_o burden_n and_o unprofitable_a to_o they_o not_o to_o yourself_o neither_o to_o body_n oâ—_n to_o soul_n for_o it_o be_v prejudicial_a unto_o both_o as_o before_o be_v make_v manifest_a q._n 4._o be_v not_o that_o sorrow_n too_o much_o for_o your_o dead_a which_o will_v be_v too_o much_o for_o your_o sin_n many_o be_v defective_a in_o sorrow_v for_o sin_n few_o sorrow_n too_o much_o for_o sin_n yet_o man_n may_v be_v and_o some_o be_v excessive_a in_o their_o sorrow_n for_o sin_n insomuch_o that_o their_o sorrow_n for_o sin_n be_v turn_v into_o sinful_a sorrow_n as_o when_o they_o be_v so_o overwhelm_v with_o sorrow_n for_o sin_n as_o unsit_v they_o for_o other_o gospel_n duty_n and_o drive_v they_o from_o christ_n and_o sink_v they_o into_o despair_n which_o sorrow_n be_v excessive_a and_o god_n give_v caution_n and_o charge_n against_o such_o sorrow_n sore_o our_o sin_n 2_o cor_fw-la 2.7_o so_o that_o cantrariwise_o you_o ought_v rather_o to_o forgive_v he_o and_o comfort_v he_o lest_o perhaps_o such_o a_o one_o shall_v be_v swallow_v up_o with_o overmuch_a sorrow_n when_o sorrow_n for_o sin_n do_v more_o hurt_n than_o good_a it_o be_v overmuch_o and_o so_o be_v our_o sorrow_n for_o our_o dead_a q._n 5._o be_v not_o that_o sorrow_n too_o much_o for_o your_o dead_a which_o be_v more_o than_o you_o have_v for_o your_o sin_n be_v not_o sorrow_n upon_o the_o account_n of_o some_o present_a evil_n that_o be_v upon_o we_o as_o joy_n be_v for_o some_o present_a good_a and_o shall_v not_o the_o degree_n of_o our_o sorrow_n bear_v some_o proportion_n to_o the_o greatness_n of_o the_o evil_a that_o be_v the_o cause_n and_o reason_n of_o our_o sorrow_n be_v not_o sin_n against_o god_n a_o great_a evil_n than_o any_o beside_o sin_n do_v fall_v upon_o we_o be_v not_o your_o own_o dead_a heart_n and_o cold_a affection_n towards_o god_n a_o great_a evil_n than_o the_o dead_a corpse_n and_o cold_a flesh_n in_o the_o grave_a which_o be_v the_o cause_n of_o all_o this_o sorrow_n now_o when_o your_o sorrow_n be_v more_o for_o the_o lesser_a evil_n than_o it_o be_v for_o the_o great_a judge_v if_o your_o sorrow_n for_o the_o great_a be_v not_o too_o small_a and_o your_o sorrow_n for_o the_o lesserâ—_n overmuch_o and_o excessive_a q._n 6._o be_v not_o that_o sorrow_n overmuch_o which_o carry_v our_o thought_n down_o into_o the_o grave_a to_o think_v of_o their_o dead_a corpse_n but_o hinder_v they_o from_o ascend_v into_o heaven_n to_o meditate_v upon_o the_o the_o eternal_a everliving_a god_n what_o a_o shame_n and_o reproach_n be_v it_o to_o we_o that_o a_o dead_a wife_n or_o a_o dead_a child_n or_o a_o dead_a father_n or_o mother_n shall_v have_v more_o of_o our_o thought_n than_o god_n and_o christ_n and_o thing_n above_o and_o that_o the_o body_n of_o our_o depart_a relation_n consume_v in_o their_o grave_n shall_v have_v more_o of_o our_o thought_n than_o their_o soul_n triumph_v in_o heaven_n have_v that_o it_o be_v so_o our_o excessive_a sorrow_n do_v testify_v to_o our_o face_n for_o we_o can_v say_v nor_o do_v pretend_v to_o sorrow_n for_o the_o soul_n in_o heaven_n be_v it_o not_o then_o for_o the_o body_n in_o the_o grave_a and_o why_o shall_v not_o the_o joy_n the_o immortal_a part_n be_v fill_v with_o abate_v our_o sorrow_n for_o the_o corruptible_a part_n though_o it_o be_v consume_v if_o our_o thought_n be_v as_o much_o with_o the_o soul_n in_o heaven_n as_o they_o be_v with_o the_o body_n in_o the_o grave_a let_v these_o excessive_a mourner_n ingenuous_o confess_v if_o they_o have_v not_o twenty_o thought_n of_o the_o dead_a body_n for_o one_o serious_a heart_n affect_v thought_n they_o have_v of_o god_n and_o christ_n and_o the_o live_a triumphant_a soul_n above_o for_o will_v not_o the_o one_o cause_n joy_n as_o other_o do_v sorrow_n and_o so_o our_o joy_n mitigate_v be_v equal_a to_o or_o exceed_v our_o sorrow_n if_o it_o be_v
sorrow_n for_o their_o death_n and_o can_v you_o reconcile_v those_o desire_n with_o this_o sorrow_n if_o you_o do_v desire_v it_o when_o god_n shall_v please_v to_o bestow_v it_o why_o do_v you_o so_o sorrow_n now_o by_o death_n the_o way_n of_o all_o believer_n to_o it_o they_o have_v obtain_v what_o you_o do_v desire_v when_o without_o the_o one_o they_o be_v not_o to_o have_v the_o other_o 24_o q._n be_v not_o you_o yourself_o be_v make_v man_n for_o heaven_n near_o unto_o that_o place_n and_o state_n where_o you_o shall_v sorrow_n no_o more_o neither_o for_o any_o thing_n concern_v yourself_o nor_o any_o other_o while_o you_o mourn_v and_o say_v this_o husband_n or_o wife_n father_n or_o mother_n that_o be_v i_o now_o be_v no_o long_o i_o serious_o meditate_v and_o deep_o consider_v and_o say_v yet_o god_n be_v i_o and_o christ_n be_v i_o and_o the_o spirit_n be_v i_o the_o promise_n and_o privilege_n be_v i_o and_o heaven_n be_v i_o and_o there_o i_o shall_v short_o be_v with_o 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hope_n amen_n the_o mourner_n soliloquy_n concern_v his_o moderate_v his_o sorrow_n for_o his_o dead_a the_o mourner_n soliloquy_n chap._n xix_o contain_v the_o mourner_n soliloquy_n or_o reason_v with_o himself_o concern_v his_o sorrow_n for_o his_o dead_a for_o the_o moderate_n of_o it_o dead_a alas_o wo_n be_v i_o my_o father_n mother_n dead_a my_o wife_n or_o husband_n or_o child_n dead_a can_v i_o with_o comfort_n live_v be_v not_o my_o comfortable_a day_n past_a and_o go_v when_o he_o or_o she_o be_v dead_a and_o go_v go_v no_o more_o to_o return_v to_o live_v with_o i_o on_o earth_n let_v i_o look_v upon_o the_o body_n in_o the_o coffin_n before_o it_o be_v lodge_v in_o the_o grave_a for_o after_o that_o i_o shall_v look_v upon_o it_o no_o more_o my_o eye_n shall_v see_v it_o no_o more_o look_v behold_v it_o be_v pale_a face_n its_o close_a eye_n its_o jaw_n tie_v and_o muffle_v up_o these_o eye_n do_v see_v i_o but_o now_o death_n bathe_v shut_v they_o that_o they_o can_v 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despair_v keep_v off_o the_o soul_n from_o christ_n and_o from_o hope_v in_o his_o merit_n or_o god_n mercy_n and_o be_v it_o not_o too_o much_o when_o it_o be_v more_o for_o thy_o dead_a than_o for_o thy_o sin_n for_o when_o thy_o sorrow_n shall_v bear_v its_o proportion_n to_o the_o evil_n thou_o sorrow_v for_o and_o sin_n be_v a_o great_a evil_n than_o the_o death_n of_o thy_o near_a relation_n be_v thou_o thyself_o the_o judge_n if_o sorrow_n for_o the_o lesser_a evil_a be_v not_o too_o much_o when_o it_o be_v more_o than_o that_o which_o thou_o have_v for_o the_o great_a evil_n
the_o almighty_a 15._o those_o that_o remain_v of_o he_o shall_v be_v bury_v in_o death_n and_o his_o widow_n shall_v not_o weep_v that_o husband_n be_v unkind_a while_o he_o live_v or_o his_o widow_n unnatural_a that_o can_v weep_v when_o he_o be_v dead_a psalm_n 78.64_o their_o priest_n fall_v by_o the_o sword_n and_o their_o widow_n make_v no_o lamentation_n when_o god_n take_v away_o his_o lovingkindness_n and_o mercy_n from_o man_n for_o their_o great_a wickedness_n while_o they_o live_v as_o a_o token_n of_o his_o wrath_n he_o will_v not_o have_v they_o lament_v when_o they_o die_v jer._n 16.3_o thus_o say_v the_o lord_n concern_v the_o son_n and_o concern_v the_o daughter_n that_o be_v bear_v in_o this_o place_n and_o concern_v their_o mother_n that_o bear_v they_o and_o concern_v their_o father_n that_o beget_v they_o in_o this_o land_n 4._o they_o shall_v die_v of_o grievous_a death_n they_o shall_v not_o be_v lament_v neither_o shall_v they_o be_v bury_v but_o they_o shall_v be_v as_o dung_n upon_o the_o face_n of_o the_o earth_n and_o they_o shall_v be_v consume_v by_o the_o sword_n and_o by_o the_o famine_n and_o their_o carcase_n shall_v be_v meat_n for_o the_o fowl_n of_o heaven_n and_o for_o the_o beast_n of_o the_o earth_n 5._o for_o thus_o say_v the_o lord_n enter_v not_o into_o the_o house_n of_o mourning_n neither_o go_v to_o lament_v nor_o bemoan_v they_o for_o i_o have_v take_v away_o my_o peace_n from_o this_o people_n say_v the_o lord_n even_o lovingkindness_n and_o mercy_n 6._o both_o the_o great_a and_o the_o small_a shall_v die_v in_o this_o land_n they_o shall_v not_o be_v bury_v neither_o shall_v man_n lament_v for_o they_o nor_o cut_v themselves_o nor_o make_v themselves_o bald_a for_o they_o 7._o neither_o shall_v man_n tear_v themselves_o for_o they_o in_o mourning_n to_o comfort_v they_o for_o the_o dead_a neither_o shall_v man_n give_v the_o cup_n of_o consolation_n to_o drink_v for_o their_o father_n or_o their_o mother_n die_v by_o sword_n and_o famine_n denial_n of_o burial_n the_o flesh_n of_o the_o dead_a lie_v as_o dung_n upon_o the_o earth_n devour_v by_o the_o beast_n consume_v by_o the_o fowl_n and_o no_o sorrow_n no_o lamentation_n for_o they_o be_v judgement_n of_o god_n upon_o wicked_a man_n and_o shall_v those_o that_o dye_n in_o the_o lord_n be_v no_o more_o lament_v than_o those_o that_o die_v in_o their_o sin_n and_o for_o their_o sin_n deserve_v no_o lamentation_n though_o the_o name_n and_o carcase_n of_o the_o wicked_a rot_n in_o the_o grave_a together_o yet_o shall_v not_o the_o name_n of_o the_o righteous_a be_v have_v in_o remembrance_n and_o can_v we_o remember_v their_o name_n without_o sorrow_n that_o we_o have_v not_o their_o presence_n and_o company_n and_o opportunity_n of_o get_v good_a by_o their_o counsel_n and_o example_n form_n usual_a in_o mourn_v for_o the_o dead_a as_o ah_o my_o brother_n or_o ah_o my_o sister_n my_o wife_n ah_o my_o husband_n be_v foretell_v by_o god_n shall_v not_o be_v use_v concern_v person_n by_o name_n as_o a_o judgement_n upon_o they_o for_o the_o wickedness_n of_o their_o life_n as_o concern_v jehojakim_n jer._n 22.17_o thy_o eye_n and_o thy_o heart_n be_v not_o but_o for_o thy_o covetousness_n and_o for_o to_o shed_v innocent_a blood_n and_o for_o oppression_n and_o for_o violence_n to_o do_v it_o 18._o therefore_o thus_o say_v the_o lord_n concern_v jehojakim_n the_o son_n of_o josiah_n king_n of_o judah_n they_o shall_v not_o lament_v for_o he_o say_v ah_o my_o brother_n or_o ah_o my_o sister_n they_o shall_v not_o lament_v for_o he_o say_v ah_o lord_n or_o ah_o his_o glory_n or_o majesty_n 19_o he_o shall_v be_v bury_v with_o the_o burial_n of_o a_o ass_n draw_v and_o cast_v forth_o beyond_o the_o gate_n of_o jerusalem_n jehoram_fw-la for_o his_o wickedness_n be_v punish_v by_o god_n in_o his_o life_n his_o person_n with_o a_o incurable_a disease_n in_o his_o bowel_n pain_v therewith_o for_o the_o space_n of_o two_o year_n at_o the_o end_n of_o which_o time_n his_o bowel_n fall_v out_o by_o reason_n of_o his_o sickness_n at_o his_o death_n in_o his_o name_n and_o reputation_n in_o that_o the_o people_n make_v no_o burn_n for_o he_o like_o the_o burn_n of_o his_o father_n that_o be_v do_v not_o honour_v he_o at_o his_o burial_n by_o burn_v of_o precious_a and_o sweet-smelling_a spice_n as_o they_o do_v for_o asa_n 2_o chron._n 16.14_o but_o jehoran_n depart_v without_o be_v desire_v 2_o chron._n 21.18_o 19_o 20._o and_o shall_v those_o that_o live_v to_o the_o lord_n and_o die_v in_o the_o lord_n be_v no_o more_o sorrow_v for_o than_o those_o that_o live_v and_o die_v in_o their_o sin_n shall_v not_o leave_v be_v allow_v that_o such_o that_o be_v desire_v in_o life_n may_v be_v lament_v at_o their_o death_n oh_o let_v not_o that_o say_n be_v use_v of_o any_o that_o sell_v asleep_a in_o jesus_n he_o or_o she_o live_v undesired_a and_o die_v unlamented_a five_o sorrow_v and_o lamentation_n for_o the_o death_n of_o other_o have_v be_v appoint_v and_o command_v by_o god_n in_o honour_n to_o they_o in_o who_o real_a good_a and_o worth_n be_v find_v while_o they_o live_v jeroboam_n his_o child_n be_v sick_a send_v his_o wife_n in_o a_o disguise_n to_o the_o prophet_n to_o know_v what_o shall_v become_v of_o the_o child_n who_o bid_v her_o return_n to_o her_o house_n and_o when_o her_o foot_n enter_v into_o the_o the_o city_n say_v her_o child_n shall_v die_v and_o that_o all_o israel_n shall_v mourn_v for_o he_o and_o bury_v he_o for_o he_o only_o of_o jeroboam_n shall_v come_v to_o the_o grave_n because_o in_o he_o be_v find_v some_o good_a thing_n towards_o the_o lord_n god_n of_o israel_n in_o the_o house_n of_o jeroboam_n the_o child_n die_v and_o they_o bury_v he_o and_o all_o israel_n mourn_v for_o he_o according_a to_o the_o word_n of_o the_o lord_n which_o he_o speak_v by_o the_o hand_n of_o his_o servant_n ahijah_n the_o prophet_n 1_o king_n 14.12_o 13_o 17_o 18._o josiah_n be_v bury_v 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a_o evil_a that_o righteous_a person_n shall_v be_v take_v away_o by_o death_n and_o those_o that_o live_v do_v not_o lay_v it_o to_o heart_n isa_n 57.1_o and_o can_v it_o be_v lay_v to_o heart_n without_o any_o sorrow_n in_o the_o heart_n some_o may_v sorrow_n without_o tear_n but_o most_o show_v the_o sorrow_n abide_v in_o their_o heart_n by_o the_o tear_n run_v from_o their_o eye_n shall_v a_o godly_a man_n a_o holy_a woman_n be_v remove_v by_o death_n and_o lament_v by_o none_o not_o by_o those_o of_o the_o family_n from_o whence_o they_o be_v take_v lord_n let_v not_o this_o complaint_n be_v make_v by_o thou_o nor_o this_o charge_n bring_v against_o any_o of_o the_o family_n more_o immediate_o concern_v in_o thy_o late_a afflict_a providence_n that_o do_v befall_v all_o of_o they_o chap._n iii_o want_v of_o sorrow_n unblamable_a conclusion_n premise_v it_o be_v make_v manifest_a that_o the_o apostle_n allow_v and_o take_v it_o for_o grant_v that_o sorrow_n for_o those_o that_o 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delightful_a grief_n and_o when_o i_o feel_v sorrow_n add_v to_o sorrow_n at_o the_o remembrance_n of_o they_o i_o must_v see_v no_o more_o methinks_v it_o please_v i_o to_o remember_v they_o though_o it_o grieve_v i_o that_o i_o can_v not_o must_v not_o see_v they_o nor_o enjoy_v their_o company_n nor_o my_o comfort_n in_o their_o company_n any_o more_o for_o ever_o be_v this_o your_o sorrow_n and_o have_v you_o nothing_o else_o to_o do_v than_o to_o feed_v your_o sorrow_n and_o please_v yourself_o with_o this_o kind_n of_o sorrow_n
deep_o how_o great_a it_o be_v rule_n 5._o a_o wicked_a husband_n that_o be_v a_o constant_a curse_n and_o a_o daily_a cross_n unto_o his_o whole_a family_n who_o wife_n be_v in_o a_o worse_a condition_n for_o body_n and_o soul_n than_o if_o she_o be_v a_o widow_n and_o who_o child_n by_o reason_n of_o his_o want_n of_o affection_n to_o they_o and_o care_n for_o they_o be_v more_o expose_v to_o ruin_n than_o if_o they_o be_v fatherless_a leave_v little_a reason_n behind_o he_o why_o they_o shall_v grieve_v and_o sorrow_n for_o his_o death_n upon_o their_o own_o account_n for_o who_o can_v sorrow_n for_o a_o deliverance_n from_o a_o daily_a cross_n who_o can_v grieve_v for_o be_v ease_v of_o a_o burden_n under_o which_o they_o so_o long_o do_v groan_v who_o can_v sorrow_n upon_o their_o own_o account_n that_o one_o be_v go_v that_o do_v rather_o hate_v than_o love_v they_o and_o fill_v their_o heart_n with_o daily_a sorrow_n their_o eye_n with_o flow_a tear_n and_o their_o mouth_n with_o heart-piercing_a complaint_n and_o why_o shall_v any_o dissemble_v sorrow_n for_o such_o by_o who_o wickedness_n and_o sin_n against_o god_n and_o the_o family_n god_n be_v dishonour_v and_o the_o family_n ruin_v when_o by_o death_n he_o be_v take_v off_o from_o do_v so_o upon_o earth_n any_o more_o do_v you_o ask_v who_o ever_o teach_v this_o doctrine_n before_o job_n do_v job_n 27.13_o this_o be_v the_o portion_n of_o a_o wicked_a man_n with_o god_n and_o the_o heritage_n of_o oppressor_n which_o they_o shall_v receive_v of_o the_o almighty_a 15._o those_o that_o remain_v of_o he_o shall_v be_v bury_v in_o death_n and_o his_o widow_n shall_v not_o weep_v be_v there_o â—ver_o any_o such_o widow_n yes_o psal_n 78.64_o their_o priest_n fall_v by_o the_o sword_n and_o their_o widow_n make_v no_o lamentation_n rule_n 6._o in_o mourning_n for_o such_o relation_n that_o neither_o do_v their_o duty_n to_o god_n nor_o to_o their_o family_n but_o live_v to_o god_n dishonour_n and_o their_o daily_a grief_n and_o die_v without_o repentance_n for_o both_o our_o sorrow_n must_v be_v for_o their_o sake_n and_o not_o our_o own_o for_o the_o ungodly_a and_o unnatural_a as_o die_v impenitent_o in_o their_o sin_n and_o for_o the_o loss_n of_o their_o soul_n and_o misery_n in_o the_o other_o world_n as_o david_n do_v for_o absolom_n for_o though_o our_o grief_n for_o they_o can_v mitigate_v their_o torment_n nor_o our_o tear_n quench_v their_o fire_n yet_o it_o can_v but_o be_v a_o grief_n to_o we_o that_o our_o relation_n shall_v live_v and_o die_v in_o their_o rebellion_n against_o god_n and_o neglect_v of_o their_o duty_n towards_o we_o but_o do_v dishonour_n god_n who_o they_o shall_v have_v glorify_v and_o overthrow_v the_o family_n by_o their_o sin_n and_o wicked_a life_n which_o they_o shall_v have_v build_v up_o and_o maintain_v and_o as_o for_o their_o sin_n while_o they_o live_v so_o die_v impenitent_a for_o their_o misery_n after_o death_n the_o death_n of_o 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or_o wife_n or_o son_n or_o daughter_n that_o live_v wicked_o and_o die_v impenitent_o and_o the_o soul_n of_o one_o so_o near_o be_v lose_v be_v for_o ever_o lose_v and_o religion_n teach_v we_o that_o the_o soul_n of_o such_o be_v miserable_a nature_n will_v be_v work_v in_o we_o to_o lament_v their_o misery_n and_o this_o be_v sorrow_n for_o their_o sake_n rule_n 7._o in_o mourning_n for_o those_o that_o live_v holy_o towards_o god_n and_o conscientious_o in_o their_o relative_n duty_n towards_o we_o our_o sorrow_n be_v for_o our_o own_o sake_n more_o than_o for_o they_o the_o common_a say_v our_o loss_n be_v their_o gain_n teach_v that_o the_o sorrow_n be_v for_o the_o loser_n and_o not_o for_o the_o gainer_n and_o indeed_o if_o we_o search_v to_o the_o bottom_n of_o our_o sorrow_n to_o find_v the_o reason_n of_o our_o sorrow_n for_o those_o that_o live_v to_o the_o lord_n and_o die_v in_o the_o lord_n and_o after_o death_n do_v live_v glorious_o and_o happy_o with_o the_o lord_n it_o will_v appear_v we_o be_v sorrow_v more_o for_o ourselves_o than_o for_o they_o we_o call_v it_o mourning_n for_o the_o dead_a when_o it_o be_v indeed_o mourn_v for_o ourselves_o yet_o live_v for_o let_v we_o inquire_v 1._o do_v we_o mourn_v because_o their_o soul_n be_v perfect_o holy_a and_o happy_a with_o god_n and_o christ_n above_o no_o this_o be_v matter_n of_o our_o comfort_n delight_n and_o joy_n do_v not_o we_o earnest_o pray_v for_o they_o sick_a and_o well_o that_o when_o they_o leave_v earth_n they_o may_v be_v receive_v up_o to_o heaven_n and_o do_v we_o sorrow_n that_o god_n hear_v our_o prayer_n and_o have_v save_v their_o soul_n do_v we_o thus_o take_v on_o for_o this_o be_v our_o tear_n shed_v because_o god_n have_v crown_v their_o grace_n with_o glory_n be_v we_o grieve_v on_o earth_n because_o they_o be_v rejoice_v in_o heaven_n be_v we_o groan_v here_o because_o they_o be_v triumph_v there_o for_o shame_n we_o can_v say_v this_o be_v the_o reason_n and_o ground_n of_o our_o sorrow_n and_o that_o in_o this_o respect_n it_o be_v plain_a we_o do_v not_o sorrow_n for_o their_o sake_n 2._o do_v we_o mourn_v because_o they_o be_v fall_v asleep_a in_o jesus_n because_o they_o be_v go_v to_o rest_n in_o their_o bed_n because_o their_o body_n in_o that_o state_n in_o which_o they_o be_v remain_z unite_z to_o christ_n be_v these_o ground_n of_o sorrow_n shall_v we_o weep_v and_o waste_v our_o tear_n because_o these_o thing_n be_v say_v of_o they_o or_o be_v it_o not_o matter_n of_o comfort_n and_o joy_n unto_o we_o that_o it_o be_v so_o well_o with_o their_o very_a body_n as_o these_o thing_n declare_v by_o god_n himself_o do_v import_v unto_o we_o be_v it_o not_o better_a to_o die_v in_o christ_n than_o to_o live_v in_o sin_n be_v it_o not_o better_a to_o sleep_v in_o jesus_n than_o to_o be_v natural_o awake_a and_o spiritual_o asleep_a in_o sin_n be_v it_o not_o better_o for_o the_o body_n to_o lie_v still_o and_o rest_v free_a from_o act_n 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have_v none_o in_o that_o day_n though_o other_o be_v condemn_v do_v you_o think_v this_o self-tormenting_a sorrow_n for_o the_o damn_a proceed_v from_o such_o mercy_n in_o you_o to_o they_o in_o your_o imperfect_a state_n on_o earth_n when_o you_o shall_v have_v no_o mercy_n to_o they_o nor_o sorrow_n foâ—_n they_o in_o your_o perfect_a state_n in_o heaven_n q._n 8._o shall_v not_o your_o zeal_n for_o love_n to_o desire_v after_o delight_n in_o the_o glory_n of_o god_n overpower_v and_o overcome_v all_o your_o passionate_a sorrow_n at_o the_o concernment_n of_o the_o creature_n be_v your_o own_o salvation_n to_o be_v seek_v in_o subordination_n to_o the_o gloâ—y_n of_o god_n and_o will_v you_o have_v the_o salvation_n of_o you_o stand_v in_o competition_n with_o it_o or_o be_v prefer_v before_o it_o will_v you_o have_v god_n lose_v his_o glory_n in_o give_v â—â—ing_n to_o your_o relation_n if_o they_o do_v not_o anâ—_n indeed_o will_v not_o glorify_v he_o by_o pâ—â—â—â—ent_n confess_v of_o their_o sin_n by_o serious_a tuâ—ning_n to_o he_o by_o thankful_a consent_n to_o a_o saviour_n freeâ—y_a and_o frequent_o offer_v to_o they_o but_o go_v on_o in_o sin_n despise_v his_o grace_n and_o slight_v his_o mercy_n and_o abuse_v his_o patience_n and_o final_o refuse_v the_o only_a saviour_n and_o all_o this_o to_o his_o dishonour_n in_o this_o world_n while_o they_o live_v will_v you_o have_v god_n also_o to_o lose_v the_o glory_n of_o his_o justice_n holiness_n power_n and_o truth_n in_o not_o punish_v they_o for_o their_o sin_n thus_o persi_v in_o when_o they_o die_v in_o the_o other_o world_n shall_v you_o so_o sorrow_n beyond_o all_o bound_n when_o you_o mourn_v for_o their_o death_n to_o mourn_v so_o much_o for_o their_o damnation_n when_o god_n most_o righteous_o glorifi_v himself_o in_o most_o just_a punish_v they_o for_o their_o sin_n who_o by_o their_o sin_n do_v so_o wicked_o dishonour_v he_o as_o for_o the_o eternal_a state_n of_o infant_n who_o the_o sorrowful_a 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general_n and_o particular_a call_v be_v useful_a and_o serviceable_a in_o his_o respective_a circumstance_n have_v fight_v a_o good_a fight_n have_v keep_v the_o faith_n and_o finish_v his_o course_n when_o the_o lease_n of_o man_n life_n seventy_o year_n be_v almost_o out_o be_v ripe_a for_o heaven_n and_o nature_n be_v wear_v part_n of_o the_o body_n decay_v with_o age_n and_o with_o such_o a_o constitution_n in_o a_o course_n of_o nature_n can_v not_o live_v much_o long_o but_o with_o grief_n and_o pain_n with_o ache_n and_o groan_n like_o ripe_a and_o mellow_a fruit_n without_o violent_a shake_a fall_n to_o the_o ground_n we_o have_v more_o cause_n to_o give_v thanks_o to_o god_n they_o live_v so_o long_o serve_v he_o so_o much_o be_v useful_a so_o many_o year_n and_o such_o a_o long-standing_a comfort_n to_o relation_n than_o to_o be_v bow_v down_o with_o sorrow_n to_o be_v fill_v straighten_a and_o load_v with_o grief_n that_o they_o die_v at_o last_o wherefore_o the_o survivor_n of_o such_o shall_v reckon_v up_o their_o mercy_n take_v a_o account_n of_o their_o many_o comfort_n and_o remember_v blessing_n old_a and_o new_a have_v and_o receive_v in_o the_o long_a enjoyment_n of_o such_o a_o relation_n in_o life_n and_o then_o let_v thankfulness_n and_o sorrow_n joy_n and_o grief_n contend_v for_o victory_n and_o strive_v which_o shall_v exceed_v the_o other_o and_o when_o all_o be_v lay_v together_o and_o due_o weigh_v by_o a_o soul_n that_o be_v desirous_a that_o god_n shall_v have_v the_o praise_n of_o his_o manifold_a mercy_n in_o a_o relative_n state_n almost_o for_o forty_o year_n as_o well_o as_o himself_o have_v a_o sense_n of_o his_o loss_n if_o nature_n prompt_v he_o to_o be_v sorrowful_a grace_n will_v provoke_v he_o to_o be_v thankful_a but_o yet_o if_o the_o contest_v remain_v as_o his_o condition_n be_v mix_v with_o mercy_n and_o affliction_n so_o let_v his_o frame_n of_o heart_n be_v mix_v with_o a_o tincture_n of_o both_o and_o let_v 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