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A37135 The Dying man's assistant, or, Short instructions for those who are concern'd in the preparing of sick persons for death being also no less worthy the consideration of all good Christians in time of health, as shewing the importance of an early preparation for their latter end, with regard as well to their temporal, as eternal state ... 1697 (1697) Wing D2954; ESTC R17100 52,686 145

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a Sick Person is by Words or Sentences taken out of the Holy Scripture and adapted into a Form of Prayer which the Minister shall first devoutly pronounce and the Patient if able repeat after him saying both with Heart and Mouth O Almighty God and my Eternal Creator I shall ever be troubled in my Mind until I am perfectly united to Thee The Number of my Transgressions I confess should set me far from that happy Union But Thine infinite Mercy will draw me to Thy self Remember Lord that I am the Work of Thine own Hands and that through the means of Thy Blessed Son Jesus Christ Thou hast call'd me to the Participation of Thy Kingdom I acknowledg my unfaithfulness to be such as renders me wholly unworthy so great a Favour But by the Merits of Thine only Son vouchsafe I beseech Thee to admit me into that Place of Rest and Bliss where I shall to all Eternity celebrate the Glory of Thy Name Be Thou pleased O Father of Mercies to look upon me as a miserable Slave whom Thou hast redeem'd with the Sacred Blood of Thy Dear Son and whose Sins Thou hast punish'd and taken satisfaction for by causing Him to die upon the Cross O have pity on my Soul and suffer not that so much Merit be cast away upon me In Thee O Lord do I put my trust let me never be confounded But deliver me for the sake of Thy dearly beloved Son Jesus Christ who by the Merits of his Death and Passion is become my Righteousness my Sanctification and my Redemption Why art thou so full of heaviness O my Soul and why art thou so disquieted within me O put thy trust in God for I will yet give him thanks who is the help of my Countenance and my God Blessed are they O Lord that dwell in Thy House they shall be always praising Thee O lead Thou me into that Sacred Place where I may return Thee perpetual Thanks for the great Benefits Thou hast bestow'd upon me And Thou O my Saviour Jesus Christ who didst undergo the heavy Punishment due to my Sins that I might be capable of Eternal Happiness hast said that Thou art the Resurrection and the Life that he who does believe in Thee shall never die nay though he was even dead shall live O my God! I believe in Thee and hope e're long to enjoy and possess Thee in the Land of the Living I will come into Thy House I will worship in Thy Temple and confess Thy Name For Thou art the Way the Life and the Truth I have set God before mine Eyes and He is on my right hand so that I shall not fall Wherefore my heart is glad and does rejoyce My Flesh also shall rest in hope Thou shalt shew me the Path of Life In Thy Presence is the fulness of Joy and at Thy right Hand there is Pleasure for evermore The Minister shall also cause the Sick Person to mix Contrition with his Hope crying-out with David Have mercy upon me O God after Thy great goodness according to the multitude of Thy Mercies do away mine Offences Wash me throughly from my Wickedness and cleanse me from my Sin For I acknowledge my faults and my Sin is ever before me Against Thee only have I sinned and done ill in Thy sight Turn Thy Face from my Sins and put out my my Misdeeds Make me a clean heart O God and renew a right spirit within me Cast me not away from thy presence and take not thy Holy Spirit from me In a word let not his Hope of Pardon be any ways confin'd but let it be extended to all his past Sins whether Sins of Commission or Sins of Omission whether actual Offences against God and his Neighbour or neglect of his Duty towards both To which purpose the following Ejaculations may be us'd O Blessed JESU my only Helper and Amender repair that good which I have so unworthily destroy'd in my self by the abuse I have made of thy Graces to me as well as the scandal I have given my Neighbour by my ill Example Words and Actions Supply the imperfections and unprofitableness of my Life which with grief I confess to have spent in coldness towards Thee and indifference for my own Salvation Thou canst O Lord if Thou wilt even in the little time that I have now remaining restore to me all that I have lost Supply my wants and strengthen the weakness and infirmitys of my Soul Of all the Actions of my Life there is not one how pure soever it may appear but has been attended with many defects nor have I the least merit of my own But I fly to Thee O my Saviour beseeching Thee to support me with the abundance of Thy Grace to apply the Merits of Thy Sufferings to my Soul and present her to thy Father all covered with that most precious Blood Thou hast shed for her so as she may find Mercy with Him and be admitted into his Kingdom of Glory The Minister having thus established him in the Hope he ought to have of obtaining the forgiveness of all his Sins he may if he finds him able to bear it still continue the exercising of him in pious Thoughts and Ejaculations requiring him to say after him with an attentive mind O Father of Mercy and God of all Comfort be favorable to me and pardon the numberless Errors and Wickednesses and extravagancies of my Life who like the Prodigal Son whom Thou hast propos'd to me as an Instance of Thy Fatherly Goodness have wasted and abus'd not only the Temporal but Spiritual Talents which Thou hadst committed to my improvement O my gracious God I humbly beseech Thee for the Lord Jesus Christ ' s sake and by the Merits of his Death and Passion forgive me all my Sins and remit the Punishment due to me for them O Lord JESU to whom all Power and Authority belongs Thou hast promis'd that those who forgive the injuries done to them Thou wilt also forgive I do heartily forgive every one that has offended me Vouchsafe therefore to forgive me all my Wickednesses Ingratitudes and Infirmities and let thy Death make atonement for whatever I have done amiss to the end that when my Soul shall be separated from this Earthly Body she may presently be united to Thee and made Partaker of Thy Glory The Minister may also if he judges it convenient express himself in other words remembring especially to put the Sick Person often in mind of the great Love of Christ towards him and of the unspeakable Sufferings He has undergone to make Satisfaction for his Sins that the remembrance thereof may encrease his Hope and excite him to Acts of Faith Charity and Contrition CHAP. VII The Means for exciting Charity in a Sick Person AS Charity is of all Virtues the most excellent and the greatest of all Spiritual Gifts so the Minister ought as much as in him lies to entertain the Sick Person in this Divine Love and
Merits of Jesus Christ our Lord. Then he shall rehearse the Apostles Creed or if he cannot himself do it endeavour to follow in heart and mind the Minister that shall pronounce it for him who at the same time may encrease his Hopes of Salvation by remembring him of Christ's great Love to him by whose Sufferings it is that the Gates of Heaven do now stand open ready to receive him by whose Wounds and Torments he is heal'd and by whose Death he shall obtain Everlasting Life and Happiness The Minister shall also represent to him the precious Blood which ran from his Saviour's Feet Hands and Head and from all his Sacred Body even from his Side that was so barbarously and inhumanly pierced with a Spear He shall likewise put him in mind of the Crown of Thorns that was set on his Head out of derision and contempt of the Scourges that cruelly tore his Flesh as if He had been a Slave of the Blows He received upon His Sacred Face which were not only painful and dolorous but full of ignominy and confusion All which he shall lay before him in order to the raising his Confidence and perswading him that Jesus Christ did thus suffer and humble Himself for no other end but his Redemption making him sensible that God who has done so much for him surely will not now abandon him at a time when he has the greatest need of his Assistance and telling him therefore that if the Devil inwardly reproaches him and endeavours to affright him with the heinousness of his Sins he must boldly answer him My God in whom I believe and repose my trust has by his Blood shed on the Cross wash'd them away and is now at the Right Hand of his Father making intercession for me and shewing Him His Body still cover'd as it were with that most precious Blood by which He made full Satisfaction and Atonement for all my Transgressions And then go on in these Words My God I put my trust in Thee O shut not up the Bowels of Thy tender Mercies from me Arise O God of my Salvation and scatter abroad all my Enemies Let them that hate Thee flee before Thee Even as the smoke let them vanish away and melt at Thy Presence as Wax melteth before the Fire But let Thy Servant rejoyce In short the Minister shall again and again exhort him to Charity and a Love of God by the several Motives before propos'd and above all the rest by that of the exceeding great Love which the Son of God has shewn in dying for us Whereupon he shall cry-out with David What reward shall I give to the Lord for all the benefits that he has done unto me I cannot better express my love to Him than by receiving this his Visitation with patience and humility Most ready I am O Lord to embrace Death it self to the end my Soul may be united to Thee for evermore In like manner ought he to resign himself into the Hands of God and commend his Spirit to His Mercy To Thee O Lord I give up my Soul for Thou hast both created and redeemed it Thine I am yea Thine alone Therefore Thy Holy Will be done in me and by me Be Thou only pleased to inlighten mine Eyes that they may readily discover the Snares which the Enemy is laying for me and never suffer them to be surpris'd by the slumber of Death If he languishes by slow degrees and remains sensible in his last Agony the History of Christ's Passion shall be read to him out of the Gospel together with some Chapters of St. Paul's Epistles as the 1st and 2d to the Corinthians the 2d to Timothy and the two last Chapters of the Revelation of St. John choosing the Places in those Chapters that are proper for a Dying Person and passing over the rest Some Psalms may be also recited to him suitable to the occasion In a Word let not the Minister abandon him one Minute whilst he appears to have the least remainder of Sense For at this last Moment it is as St. Gregory tells us upon the Nineteenth Chapter of St. Luke that the Devil redoubles his Endeavours to destroy us So that the Minister continuing his Exhortation to him may if he finds him capable thereof desire him to pursue his Applications to God after this manner Lord I believe that Thou art my God and my Redeemer I humbly beg of Thee the pardon and forgiveness of all my Sins I am exceedingly sorry for the Commission of them and wish my Sorrow were still greater If I have omitted any thing that Thou requirest for my Repentance Lord I pray Thee give me a due sense thereof and fit me for Thy Self Supply all my imperfections and make me such as Thou would'st have me to be Lord I do for Thy sake freely forgive whatever wrongs and injuries I have received and heartily ask forgiveness of them whom I have any ways offended If I have ought that is another's due I desire to restore it as far as my Abilities will permit In Thee O Lord I place all my Hope though I know my self unworthy of the least of Thy Mercies Thy Sufferings and Thy Blood assure me of my Salvation Both my Life and my Death are in Thy Hands Do Thou with me as it shall seem good to Thee 'T is sufficient for me to love and bless Thee to all Eternity If the Sick Person be in a condition of bearing with any more Discourse the Minister shall go on in the same Method of assisting him to lift up his Soul to God and to that end make use of the Words mention'd in the 5th 6th and 7th Chapters of this Book not omitting to admonish him to beg of God to accept the Prayers whether publick or private put up by the Church or his Friends for him As to the Third Head Which respects the Minister's solemn Recommendation of the Dying Person 's Soul to God the proper time to go about it is when he perceives him to be struggling with the Pangs of Death and just upon the point of his Departure The Form thereof is prescribed by the Church To which if he finds the Patient to continue longer than he expected and possest of any remains of his Senses he may add such further Sentences of Scripture as he shall judge convenient like these O Son of David have mercy upon me Haste Thee to deliver me make haste to help me O Lord. With how much Sincerity Zeal and Attention this last Office ought to be performed I hope no good Christian much less those of the Sacred Function whose more particular Province it is need to be admonish'd As to the Fourth Head Which concerns the Edification of those that are present we shall treat thereof in the last Chapter of this Book CHAP. IX What means are to be us'd when the Patient does not resign himself as he ought to the Will of God and is afraid of Death through a
too great Love of this Life SOME there are who afflict themselves too much at the approach of Death through an over-great fondness of this Life the grief they conceive of parting with it being such that they cannot submit themselves to the Pleasure of God but die much against their Wills Which ill disposition produces in the Heart of a Sick Person these three dismal Effects I. That by how much the greater his reluctance is so much the more he is troubled and confounded with the apprehension of Death according to the Son of Sirach's Saying O Death how bitter is the remembrance of thee to a man that liveth at rest in his possessions II. That by this Reluctance of his he not only deprives himself of the Comfort he would receive from his voluntary Resignation to Death but runs a great risque of offending God III. That he does not prepare himself as he ought for Death nor can resolve to think of his Eternal State And the Condition of such a One is so much the more deplorable in regard no body dares speak to him of Dying But on the contrary they are apt to turn their Discourse upon the hopes of his Recovery for the sake of entertaining him in an agreeable idea though in the end most pernicious to him by reason of its diverting him from the thoughts of his Salvation As therefore they tender his Eternal Welfare let both the Minister and his Friends take heed that he be not thus dallied with when his Condition is become dangerous but that he be in a prudent manner apprised of the same to the end he may examine the State of his Soul making him sensible that his Preparation for Death will be no impediment to his Recovery if it pleases God to spare him longer in this Life But if he cannot resolve to die let the Minister endeavour to bring his mind over by Arguments Examples and Words in Form of Ejuculatory Prayers First By Arguments which the Minister is to ground as much as he can on the Holy Scripture to the end they may be not only in themselves the stronger but of more Authority and Force with the Patient For Example he shall with St. Paul tell him That it is appointed for all Men once to die That on this condition it is we are born and wherein no distinction is made between Princes and Subjects That we all die soon or late and flow like the Waters into the Bowels of the Earth yea we are like Water that is spilt on the ground from whence it cannot be gathered up He shall also represent to him that though he should recover his Health he may in a little time relapse again and not have the means he now has for his Preparation That he ought to look upon himself as a Pilgrim travelling through this World as through strange Regions in his Way to Heaven which is his Native Country That he should consider the many Tokens God has given him of his Love and that which he at present gives him in assisting him with his Grace That God now calls him to Himself in order to the making him happy and that a longer Life here might be ruinous to him by the snares and inticements of this Sinful World That Death is not terrible to the Righteous but meerly a Passage to Eternal Glory And better is the day of our Death than that of our Birth forasmuch as we are born to die and do only die to live forever In short That Christ assures us in his Gospel that whosoever believes in him shall have Everlasting Life and that his Death shall be but the beginning of his Eternal Happiness Moreover let the Patient be induced to reflect on the Miseries of this present Life Let him as much as he is able call to mind the whole Course of his Life from his Infancy to this very moment and consider before God whether he has pass'd one day of it without affliction That we are to expect here nothing but Sufferrings God having set us in this World as in a Valley of Tears to live in a constant State of Penitence That therefore we ought not to be grieved when God is pleased to remove us from the Place of our Exile into our own Country and far from wishing our selves Citizens of this World we should with St. Paul remember that here we have no continuing City but are to look for one that is to come which will abide for ever Let him further consider that being now under the Gospel we should be so much the more desirous to die because Jesus Christ has by his Merits open'd Heaven to us That Death is both the End of a false and perishable Life and the Entrance into a Happy and Eternal State That God is not the God of the Dead but of the Living That a Christian ought to raise himself above the things of this World and solely to fix his Thoughts and Hopes upon his Saviour That this Life is a continual Warfare with our Lusts and Passions and Death the welcome End of this War and Beginning of our Rest That the Spirit of God declares those and those only to be happy that die in his Grace because they are going to enjoy an Everlasting Peace In a word let the Minister omit nothing that may conduce to the perswading him to receive his Death with Submission making him sensible that how averse soever he be to it yet die he must and that since neither Life nor Death are within his power or disposal he can never be at rest till he submits himself with all humility and resignation to the Will and Pleasure of Almighty God Secondly The Minister may perswade the Sick Person to a willingness to die by laying before him several Examples of this kind carrying force and authority with them and in the first place that of Christ himself who in the Garden of Olives foreseeing the Torments that were waiting for Him at Jerusalem was seized with fear and pray'd to the Father to deliver Him therefrom but immediately after submitting himself to Him added these Words Not as I will but as Thou wilt That he ought to imitate this Sacred Model of Self-resignation by a free Offering of his Life to God notwithstanding the terror he has of Death and all the reluctances of Nature thereto Let him also be put in mind of David who finding himself over-whelm'd with the Miseries of this present Life us'd frequently to cry out to God in terms like these Wo is me that I am constrained to dwell with Mesech and to have my Habitation among the Tents of Kedar My soul has long dwelt with them that hate peace Many are my Persecutors and mine Enemies Consider my affliction and deliver me I long for thy Salvation O Lord Whereto he may add the words of St. Paul O wretched Man that I am Who shall delive me from this body of Death I ardently desire to be dissolved that I may
the Days of Salvation pass away apace and when once gone it being for ever out of our power to recall them again we ought to employ them with the Care and Circumspection becoming good Christians by weaning our selves without delay from the Things of this World and dispossessing our Hearts of all other Thoughts but what relate to God alone Nor need we any other Arguments than the sight of this very Dead Body to convince us how vain and transistory how deceitful and perishable all those false Enjoyments are which the Devil makes use of to dazzle our Eyes and allure us to Sin Neither Riches nor Honours are able to procure one Minute's Respit from the Stroke of Death When she summons we must immediately obey and quit them all nay and our very Bodies too as straightly as we are ty'd to them and resign them to unavoidable Corruption In a word That the Goods of this World are so far only to be desired as may serve for the necessary support of our selves and enable us to be assisting to others From whence he may take occasion of saying something to them about the Settlement of their Temporal Concerns advising them to make their Wills and Testaments whilst in a state of perfect Health and Understanding that so they may be able to deliberate the more maturely thereon and dispose of their Estates with the greater satisfaction to themselves as well as Justice and Equality to others by a due regard to Relation Friendship and Deserts it often happening where this Caution is not us'd that a Feaver or some other violent Distemper surprises a Man and puts it out of his power to do the Good he intended to have done Or some of his greedy Friends and Relations finding him in a helpless condition do by their tiresome importunities oblige him to make an unequal Testament Or lastly not to mention more of the many inconveniencies arising from this neglect he dies Intestate and leaves his Estate for a Prey to the Lawyers and a standing occasion of Discord in his Family But when by a prudent timely and just disposal of his Earthly Possessions he has convey'd the Blessings of Peace Plenty and Prosperity to his Family When by an upright and unspotted Life he has preserved himself fit to enter into the Holy of Holies the Sacred Mansions of the Most High And last of all when by his Merciful Deeds he has secur'd to himself Mercy from his Blessed Saviour Oh! with what unspeakable Comfort may he end his days and with what Confidence and Alacrity appear before the Tribunal of God to receive his Everlasting Reward applying to himself the Words of the Revelation I heard a Voice from Heaven saying to me Write From henceforth blessed are the Dead which die in the Lord even so saith the Spirit for they rest from their Labours and their Works follow them Thus much in case the Patient shall die IF it shall please God to restore him to his health again The Minister is to visit and congratulate him thereon and with so much the more fervency by how much the more dangerous his Sickness has been Which will give him the fairer Opportunity of inlarging upon and rendring him sensible of God's transcendent Mercies to him and the Gratitude on his part due for the same A Debt he may tell him no other ways to be discharg'd than by his making such good use of this Visitation as may tend to the Glory of God the Edification of his Neighbour and the Amendment of his own Life for the future In order whereto the Minister shall remind him of what pass'd between them during his Illness upon the Subject of his Spiritual Welfare Of the Difficulties met with in his Preparation for Death for want of a timely regard thereto Of the Defects in his Repentance still remaining to be supply'd Of the particular Frailties against which he is chiefly to arm himself for the time to come And Lastly Of his Pious Vows and Resolutions concerning these or any other Points founded upon the Condition of his Recovery and requiring to be now confirm'd and made good Adding thereto to conclude all That as when Sick he desired and had the Publick Prayers of the Church as well as those of his Private Friends so is it meet and his bounden Duty that having received the Benefit of them in his Redemption from the Grave and the Gates of Death he should now Give Thanks unto the Lord with his whole heart not only secretly but among the Faithful and in the Congregation Where he ought also with the first Opportunity to Offer his Vows unto the Most High by receiving the Cup of Salvation and calling upon the Name of the Lord with humblest Supplications for the Assistance of his Holy Spirit towards enabling him duely to perform the same In the mean time and ever continuing fervent in his Private Devotions and sering himself in some measure therein with the Prayer and Thanksgiving hereto annext Which God of his Infinite Mercy accept Amen A PRAYER and THANKSGIVING to be offer'd to GOD by One newly Recover'd from a dangerous SICKNESS O MOST GRACIOUS GOD and MERCIFUL FATHER Who art a Physician to the Sick Strength to the Weak Comfort to the Afflicted Relief to the Needy and Succour to the Helpless I Thy poor Wretched Creature having so deeply tasted of Thy Mercies do with a profound sense of Thine Infinite Goodness and of my own unworthiness yeild Thee most humble and hearty Thanks and Praise for Thy manifold Benefits and Favours towards me and particularly for that Thou hast been pleased in so fatherly a manner to visit me and to bring me back from the Grave and from the Gates of Death restoring me to my former Health and Strength LORD What shall I render unto Thee as for all other so more especially for this tender Mercy of thine in thus sparing me longer in the Land of the Living and affording me still a larger space for my Repentance Thou hast chasten'd and corrected me but hast not given me over unto Death Thou hiddest not Thy Face from me when I was in trouble Thou hast not made my Life like them that go down into the pit nor cast Thy Servant away in Displeasure O sanctifie this Thy Fatherly Correction to me that it may prove an effectual Means for my Thorough-amendment And grant I humbly beseech Thee that through the Assistance of Thy Divine Spirit I may be enabled hereafter to make such good use of the Time which Thy unspeakable Goodness hath now inlarged to me and so husband and improve the same to Thy Service as that it may not repent Thee to have lent it me Grant that I may seriously ponder and admire Thy transcendent Favours to me and my just Obligations of Gratitude to Thee as well as Encouragement continually to depend upon Thee and may without further delay set about the Business Thou hast appointed for me here even the 〈◊〉 Business of my Eternal Salvation 〈◊〉 I may spend the precious Remainder of my ●ife in a constant practice of my Duty towards Thee O MY GOD and towards my Neighbour and my self That I may redeem the time which alas I have so unworthily mispent by living in ignorance and after the Corruptions and Vanities of the World And that considering how short this my time is which is but a Vapour that vanishes away I may never imploy it in making provision for the Flesh to fulfil the lusts thereof but live in Righteousness Purity and Holiness all my days That I may apply my Heart to that true Wisdom which is to know and serve Thee That I may begin even here on Earth that blessed Work I shall continue in Heaven to all Eternity namely to love and adore Thee and to walk before Thee with all humility and uprightness to Praise Laud and Magnifie Thy Holy Name for Thy great Glory and for Thy Goodness-sake Inlighten my mind that I may have a more perfect Knowledge of Thee and inflame my heart with a greater Love towards Thee Teach me to do the thing that pleases Thee for Thou art my God Let Thy loving Spirit lead me forth into the Land of Righteousness O give me grace to do Thy Will in all Things and to delight in nothing more than in obeying Thy Laws and Commandments wherein there is Great Pleasure and Great Reward And to all the Favours I have already received at Thy Merciful Hand LORD Vouchsafe to add this one more That I may never depart from Thee or be abandoned by Thee but that I may in my whole Life please Thee and in my Death praise Thee That when ever Thou shalt see fit to call me out of this World I may be ready to obey Thy Heavenly Summons and to follow Thee and be admitted into Thine Everlasting Kingdom of Bliss and Glory with this most sweet and comfortable Invitation of my BLESSED SAVIOUR's Well done Good and Faithful Servant Enter thou into the Joy of thy Master Grant this O MERCIFUL FATHER for Thine own sake and for the sake of this Dear Son of Thy Love for whom I and all that is within me give Praise and Adoration to Thee and in whose most prevailing Name I further implore Thy Divine Majesty humbly and earnestly praying as He Himself has taught me in his Holy Gospel Our Father c. 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by him and causing those that are present to join with him therein In short let his whole Discourse be plain tender and affectionate particularly with Persons of Piety and Understanding who are not to be spoke to by way of Instruction but as it were only to refresh their Minds with those Virtues they have already known and practis'd But if the Minister has no knowledge of or acquaintance with the Sick Person the first thing he is to do when he goes to his House is to get information concerning him with respect to the Qualities and Circumstances above mention'd Viz. Whether he be a Man of Learning or not Whether of a meek and sweet Nature whether he has still his Senses good and the use of his Reason Whether he is at the point of Death Whether he has been already visited by any other Minister and has receiv'd the Sacred Viaticum What Course of Life he has led Whether there be any particular thing of which he ought to be put in mind necessary to his Salvation Whether he lies under any secret trouble or affliction and whether he has his Hearing so good as to be able to hear what may be spoken softly to him As soon as the Minister is come into the Sick Person 's Chamber let him begin his Exhortation with greeting him in an affectionate manner that so by his Civility he may render himself the more agreeable and welcome to him Then if he finds it convenient he may ask him some Questions about the State of his Conscience but this he must do gently and with a modest liberty And when the Sick Person shall give him Answers he ought to hear him patiently taking care not to disturb him with any Discourse forrein to the purpose or with vain repetitions And thus having made himself acquainted with his Temper and Disposition of Mind let him not omit any thing of Gentleness Tenderness or the like that may win the Sick Person to a Confidence in him whereby he may the more easily perswade him of what he shall say and in case he be oblig'd to come again the Patient may receive him with pleasure and delight CHAP. II. What things are requisite for the disposing a Sick Person to die well THEY are two-fold Some absolutely necessary which are such as may put him into a State of Grace Others only useful to the comforting him and strengthening his Hope To which is to be added the Disposal of his Body and of his Estate for the benefit of his Relations And though there are different ways of effecting this according to the Condition he is in and the time he has for it yet we shall hereafter treat thereof as if he had all the leisure he could desire for the same and from thence shall proceed to speak of what he ought to do when he wants time and his Understanding grows weaker What therefore the Minister is principally to take care of is to put the Patient into a State of Grace To which end he ought to dispose him to the receiving of the Blessed Sacrament of the Lord's Supper which is the Channel whereby the Holy Ghost descends into our hearts He must also read to him some proper Places in the Gospel and the Service for the Sick And that done he may go on to the asking him Questions and let his Discourse fall upon his Distemper insinuating to him that the Physicians are apprehensive of his Life and therefore he should not rely too much upon Human Means or what Help his Friends and Relations can give him but put his whole Trust and Confidence in God Who loving him with an unbounded Love and being able to do all things will if it be for the good of his Soul restore him to his Health again or else afford him those means whereby he may attain to Everlasting Bliss That he ought with all his heart to turn himself towards Jesus Christ his most true Friend whose Love to him extended so far as to the shedding even his Blood for him as himself expresseth it in his Holy Gospel Who is the only Faithful Friend that never abandons us at the point of Death whereas our other Friends either will not or cannot in that last moment be of any avail to us Who is also a Wise Physician that is able not only to cure the Body so as to continue it still in life for many Years but even to heal the Soul too and make it happy for evermore Having thus spoken to him and hereon inlarg'd according to his discretion the Minister should in the next place ask him whether he has any thing which troubles his Conscience and ought to be reveal'd so that if he finds his Distemper to be violent and dangerous he may admonish him forthwith to disburthen himself by Confession But if he be in no present danger of Death he may be allow'd more time for it to the end he may the better recollect himself of all he has done amiss and heartily beg God's pardon for the same the Minister putting him in mind of the Words of the Prophet to this purpose In the bitterness of my Soul O Lord will I call to remembrance before Thee all the Years that I have spent in Sin But in case the Patient desires no time to examine himself and the Minister knows that this is only to avoid the trouble of searching his Conscience perhaps out of fear that in reflecting upon his sinful Life past he may unhappily meet with some new Temptation or at the best not reap much fruit there-from he ought to perswade him that to be re-established in Grace he must without delay make an humble Confession of all his Sins to Almighty God and according to the Advice of the Son of Sirach in his Ecclesiasticus not defer his Conversion from day to day Forasmuch as we cannot promise to our selves one hour longer and that according to our Repentance or Obdurateness of Heart we shall be for ever happy or miserable On which occasion let the Minister remember him of what the Wiseman saith That delay of Conversion has been the Destruction of many Sinners who flattering themselves with the hopes of long life often fall into a Delirium and lose their Senses or else are surpris'd by a sudden Death and so being prevented of time and opportunity to repent are irrecoverably lost adding that he who is not ready to be converted to day will be less so to morrow In short the Minister ought to stir him up to a true Contrition of heart by representing to him the heinousness of his Sins yet with such moderation as not to affright him and cast him into Despair It will be sufficient that he make him sensible of the Majesty of that God he has offended before whom the Angels themselves tremble of his inflexible Justice which severely punishes the Devils and all Reprobates and no less of his Holiness that bears so great a hatred to Sin that whoever
forever live with Christ who is my Life And these of the Wise Son of Sirach Fear not the Sentence of Death Remember them that have been before thee and that come after For this is the Sentence of the Lord over all flesh And why art thou against the pleasure of the most High There is no inquisition in the grave whether thou hast liv'd ten or an hundred or a thousand years Let him represent to him St. Hilarion surpris'd by Thieves who with Sword in Hand are just going to murther him when astonish'd to see him so unconcern'd and asking him why he fear'd not Death 'T is answered he because I have been a long time preparing my self for it He may also observe to him the Words of St. Cyprian who says that such only ought to fear Death as lack Faith and have no Hope of reigning with Christ To all which the Minister may superad divers Examples and Sayings of other Saints and Martyrs who have wish'd and long'd for their Dissolution whereby to pacifie and calm the trouble with which the Sick Person 's mind is disturbed Thirdly The last means we propos'd for removing the Patient's Fear of Death is by Ejaculatory Prayers the Minister teaching and assisting him to say after this manner O my God! I feel the horrors of Death upon me but as much as in me lies I sacrifice them to Thee and am ready to die if it be thy Pleasure I humbly submit my will to Thine O Lord who hast created me preserved me and by a special Grace caused me to be born within thy Church to the end I might be saved What reward shall I give unto Thee for all these Benefits I will receive at Thy Hand this Cup of my Death which Thou presentest to me I take it O my God with all my heart in testimony of my Love and Submission to Thee If Thou O Lord hast so decreed it notwithstanding my natural reluctance thereto I am most ready and willing to die hoping my Death will through thine infinite Goodness be follow'd by Eternal Rest O Father of Mercy and God of all Comfort I thank Thee that I am now come to my last hour which will put an end to all my Sins I thank Thee especially that Thou hast been pleas'd to afford me time to prepare my self for Death O help Thou me in my troubles and anguishes Strengthen my Soul that stands surrounded with the dangers of Hell Support my weakness and be my strong Defence against Satan that so I may die in Thy Favour and Love I know that my Redeemer lives and that he shall stand at the latter day upon the Earth And though after my Skin Worms destroy this Body yet in my flesh will I see God Whom I shall see for my self and mine Eyes shall behold and not another Lord I beseech Thee encrease my Faith and Confidence in Thee and comfort thou me in all my Afflictions Thus may the Minister entertain the Sick Person in devout Meditations and Prayers making use also of such other Words and Sentences as he shall judge proper for the raising his Soul and fixing his Thoughts and Desires upon God CHAP. X. What is to be said to a Sick Person whose unwillingness to die proceeds from an excessive Love for the Things of this World OThers there are who are very loath to think of Death not so much like those mentioned in the preceding Chapter from an over-fondness of Life it self as a difficulty of quitting some particular Things and Circumstances attending it such as Riches and Honours and Pleasures and above all the Persons they most dearly love their Wives and Children c. On which last account the Poor Man's Case claims our greatest pity and attention For whilst his heart is fill'd with grief and anxious thoughts what will become of his distressed Family the Devil ne're fails to lay hold on this Occasion to divert his Mind from the Business of his Salvation If therefore the Minister find this to be the Condition of the Patient having first exhorted those that are present humbly to implore Almighty God to allay his Disquiets and render his Mind free and composed to the end he may think of nothing but Eternity let him make use of the following Means for comforting him And in the First place let him cause all such Persons to withdraw whether Wife or Children or others whose presence may attract the Patient's Affection to this World and keep up those melancholy thoughts he is in taking care to prevent as much as possible his being spoken to about them further than he shall think of absolute necessity with regard to their future Settlement After which he may proceed to inform him that this Disquiet of his is not only useless both to himself and Family but most prejudicial to his Soul in that it obstructs its due Preparation for Death That the Poverty under which he leaves his Family is an Evil that soon or late will have an end but the Torments of the other World have none and that therefore in these last moments of his Life he ought to entertain no other thoughts but how to avoid his own Eternal Misery That his Family is under the Conduct of the Divine Providence that loves them and will watch over them and bestow on them Temporal Goods sufficient perhaps too great a measure thereof so that instead of afflicting himself with the Consideration of the sad Condition he leaves them in he ought on the contrary to rejoyce in God and to lift up his Heart and Mind to Him and to beg his Grace to forget and reject whatever respects not his Everlasting Salvation with full perswasion that God to whom he is to recommend his Wife and Children as Christ when ready to die did his Disciples will be their Protector and Helper and Defender who being also more their Father than he himself is of his own Children and governing all things both in Heaven and on Earth by his Almighty Providence will supply them with whatsoever is necessary as well for their Bodies as their Souls This Trust and Confidence the Minister shall say to him will be more available to the good of your Family then all the disquieting thoughts you can entertain about them For God is Merciful and will grant us every thing we ask according to his Will Moreover remember that he who undertakes a long Journey should not carry ought about him that is combersom You are setting-out upon your Journey to Eternity and may within a little time appear before the Tribunal of God Take upon you therefore no such unnecessary Burden as that of the care of your Wife and Children Peradventure they have been the cause of your committing many Sins in the course of your Life Beware they be not that of your undoing now Disburthen your heart of this heavy Load that so it may be able to raise it self up to God and savour nothing but things Eternal Consider
Paul that God's Children have no abiding and continuing City upon Earth but ought to long for the New Jerusalem which is above Let him cry out with David O how amiable are thy Tabernacles Thou Lord of Hosts My Soul longeth yea even fainteth for Thy Courts O Lord For there to dwell but one day or be a Door-keeper in Thy House is far better and more pleasant to me than were I to live Thousands and ten Thousands of Years in the Palaces of Worldly Men. Let him possess his mind with the unspeakable Joy he will feel in the Company of so many Saints and Blessed Spirits that do and shall ever love each other with a most perfect Love that resemble so many glorious Kings who reign not as the Kings of the Earth for a little while and that too in continual troubles and disquiets but in the Kingdom of the Living where there are none but the Children of God and where Sorrow and Death shall never come Let care be used to remove from his Soul all sort of reluctance or difficulty he may conceive of parting with his Body by making him sensible that at present 't is nothing but Filth and Corruption and Weakness and Infirmity and in lieu thereof will rise again all Glorious Spiritual and Immortal Let him be put in mind of what is intimated to us in Exodus That Man shall never see God so long as he lives in the Flesh For as the Apostle saith God inhabits an inaccessible Light That therefore out of this World we must get before we can enjoy that Glory so sull of Beauty and Sweetness the sole fruition whereof makes up the Felicity of the Blessed For which reason it is that Life Eternal is said in the Gospel to consist only in the full Knowledg and Love of God A Bliss so great as no Eye ever saw no Ear ever heard nor has it enter'd into the heart of Man to conceive Such is to be the Felicity of the Elect Who as David saith shall be satisfied and refreshed with those Rivers of Pleasure that continually flow from God as the Well of Life Let him be exhorted to say with the same Royal Prophet Like as the Hart desires the Water-brooks so longeth my Soul after Thee O God! My Soul is a-thirst for God yea even for the Living God O when shall I come to appear before the presence of God Must my Confinement continue yet longer And shall my Soul never be dissolv'd from this Body that she may for ever abide with Christ my Saviour These or the like Sentences according to his discretion the Minister shall make use of uttering them in such a manner as the Patient may distinctly hear them and if he can repeat them after him in order to their making the greater impression upon his mind Thus far of the Means for raising his Hope Now for the exciting his Confidence and Assurance of obtaining the Happiness he is labouring after the Minister may use these three several ways First By moving him to the Exercise and Performance of those good Works and Virtues his Condition shall leave him capable of such as Alms and pious Legacies Wherein he must yet be very cautious how he prompts his Zeal so far as to give any just occasion of murmur or dissatisfaction to his Friends and Relations But let him not spare exercising him in all the inward Acts of Faith Hope Charity and Contrition which no Doubt will give him great Confidence especially if he be fervent and continue in the practice thereof Secondly By Consideration that is fixing his Thoughts upon those things he shall say to him in order to his obtaining this Confidence And here he may entertain him after this manner Though the Glory of God infinitely exceeds your poor Merits yet fear you not God in his Mercy will supply your Defects and support your Weakness and comfort your Heart Be fully perswaded that he to whom Grace and Glory belong will bestow them on you inasmuch as he is infinitely Good and is pleased to make you and all sincere Believers happy You are his Son and He your Father and a Father full of Love and Tenderness who is far more desirous to receive you into Heaven than your self can be to obtain it Why should you therefore at all doubt of your being now going to possess Eternal Joy and Felicity For that alone it was He created you Nor came Jesus Christ to die upon the Cross for any other End than to open to us the Gates of Heaven which the Disobedience of our First Parents had shut upon us He has also wash'd in his Precious Blood the Sins you have committed He has given you his Sacraments and preventing Grace that hath wrought Contrition in your heart so as to make you Heir of his Kingdom Consider that He who so often sought for you during the whole Course of your Life even whilst you despised and highly provoked him will shew so much the more Mercy and Favour to you now that you humbly prostrate your self before Him with a truly broken and contrite heart Again The Minister may comfort the Sick Person and more and more establish his Trust and Confidence in God's Mercy by continuing to speak to him in this sort Dear Brother look-up chearfully towards Jesus Christ and never grow weary of thinking of what he did and suffer'd for your sake for the space of Three and Thirty Years He lived here upon Earth Who though very God and King of Glory was willing to subject himself to pains and contempt and at last to a shameful Death upon the Cross for your Salvation Be you perswaded that so many Sufferings will not be lost but will certainly procure you Everlasting Rest and Glory This All-merciful God who for your sake was pleas'd to take Human Flesh upon Him and hath left a sensible Memomorial of that his infinite Love to you in the Blessed Eucharist In a word who has adopted you to be Partaker of his Kingdom How can he now deny or reject you seeing you so well dispos'd to receive the Impressions of his Holy Spirit and so patiently submitting to all the Afflictions wherewith He thinks fit to try your Fidelity Consider that He is your Advocate and Intercessor with the Father and is prevailing with Him at this very time I am speaking to you for the Pardon of your Sins Apply your self to Him and say O Holy JESU my Redeemer accept I beseech Thee my Love and my Repentance Wash all my Sins in thy most precious Blood Cover my Unrighteousnesses and Imperfections with thy Merits and Righteousness and thus adorned present me unto God the Father that so I may be acceptable to Him for Thy sake and through Thy Dear Self O my Sweet Saviour All these things may be useful likewise to raise a true Christian Confidence in them who are afraid of Death Of whom we have promised to speak by and by Another Means to excite Hope in