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of_o subjection_n and_o resignation_n thereunto_o finis_fw-la 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d 〈◊〉_d graec_fw-la comic_a comic_a in_o adolescentia_fw-la defunctus_fw-la fuit_fw-la ideo_fw-la plus_fw-la dolendum_fw-la fuerat_fw-la quia_fw-la in_o flore_fw-la aetatis_fw-la suae_fw-la fuit_fw-la et_fw-la cum_fw-la grandi_fw-la labour_v ac_fw-la solicitudine_fw-la parentum_fw-la ad_fw-la istam_fw-la aetatem_fw-la perductus_fw-la dion_n cath._n in_o loc_n mortem_fw-la levin_n toleraret_fw-la si_fw-la non_fw-la unicus_fw-la fuisset_fw-la si_fw-la alter_fw-la qui_fw-la parentis_fw-la dolorem_fw-la leniret_fw-la superfuisset_fw-la ambros._n virgil._n nibil_n charius_fw-la unico_fw-la filio_fw-la sic_fw-la dolour_n de_fw-la morte_fw-la ipsius_fw-la intenfissimus_fw-la existit_fw-la carthus_n in_o loc._n duplici_fw-la nomine_fw-la charissimus_fw-la fuit_fw-la tum_fw-la quod_fw-la esset_fw-la unigenitus_fw-la tum_fw-la quod_fw-la esset_fw-la solatium_fw-la &_o quasi_fw-la bacunlus_fw-la viduitatis_fw-la 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