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A01632 The ornament of women. Or, A description of the true excellency of women Delivered in a sermon at the funerall of M. Elizabeth Machell, on Easter Munday being the 15. of April 1639. By Stephen Geree, minister of Gods Word at Wonnersh, neare Guildford in Surrey. Geree, Stephen, 1594-1656? 1639 (1639) STC 11763; ESTC S118756 25,207 138

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instructions and example in frequenting the house of God c. were a maine motive no doubt to make her in love with that good Word of GOD which wrought so effectually and in a manner miraculously in her therfore you have much more cause of joy and gladnesse than of griefe and heavinesse If all Parents would but give such example as you have done both at home and in Gods house ô what holy and happy houses and congregations should we have what thronging and crowding would there bee in most Churches which now are almost empty oftentimes But when most Parents provide rather for their Childrens bodies than soules making much of the Carkas neglecting the Conscience no mervaile that there is so little hope in most of their Posteritie Goe on therfore with good successe as you have begun and still doe more and more worthily in Israel GOD hath given you an heart not only to be a Favourer which is easie but a Follower yea and a Furtherer of those that hee hath sent into his Vineyard the same Lord multiply his mercy grace and spirit upon you and yours that you may still prove Noble patternes unto others And now good Madam to returne to your Ladiship I know you bare no small share of sorrow with your beloved Sister in this businesse because you have a long time loved your deceased Kinswoman as if shee had beene your owne daughter witnesse those affectionate words of salutation which you usually inserted into the Letters your Ladyship sent to her Mother which ever had a speciall accent and emphasis when you came to her Insomuch as I dare boldly say you desire nothing more to your dearest daughters than such a dowry of grace and goodnesse as her heavenly Father had bestowed on her For you knew her farre different from the disposition of other Gentlewomen who make their soules slaves to their bodyes and both soule and body drudges to the world and the Devill Because whereas other women trouble themselves with many things like Martha shee set her soule upon that one thing necessary chusing with Mary that better part which could not be taken from her Luk. 10. last ver Shee was never more diligent than when shee was to deale with GOD in his holy Ordinances and in nothing so negligent as in the world and things of the world and yet shee complained on her death bed that she had beene too worldly Alas what cause then have wee to complaine of others who dote so much upon the drosse and dung of the world and make it no better than an Idoll That precious time which other Gentlevvomen vvickedly wast in tricking and trimming the body she specially spent in decking and adorning the soule for vvhatsoever was to bee done the soule should not be forgotten And vvhereas others are taken up with faire buildings and stately houses c. shee mainely minded to beautifie her house not only vvith the Forme of godlinesse vvhich many families have 2 Tim. 3.4 but most of all with the Power of godlinesse vvhich few regard And hence vvas it that she so much desired to have the speciall care of Families commended unto others at her Funerall For she set up her resolution with worthy Ioshuah Let others doe what they would Iosh 24.15 follow the world or serve their lusts and the times She and her house would serve the Lord. Neither was shee afraid to owne Christ as many are who think it more generous to set up sports and pastimes and follow pleasures c. than set up Christ and his ordinances in their houses Moreover her charity did notably second her Piety for not only the loynes of the poore but their bellyes Iob 31.20 Shee was willing to heale their sores and helpe their souls giving them good instructions as well as plasters and backes did blesse her as Job speakes yea their legges and hands their eyes and cares did pronounce her blessed So that we have great cause to give God thanks for her work of faith and labour of love as the Apostle speaks 1 Thes 1.3 There be some that have Piety but want Charity such are but as sounding brasse and tinckling Cymbals 1 Cor. 13.1 And some againe have a kinde of Charity but care not for Pietie they give much Almes but doe not give themselves to God nor give over their sinnes Such Saint Ambrose saith Multi sunt qui faciunt eleemosynā tamen peccare non cessant tisti quasi sua● offerunt Deo seipsos Diabolo Amb. Ser. 12. give their goods to God and themselves to the devill But your worthy Kinswoman was none such for first she gave her selfe to God as the Macedonians did and then to Gods Messengers and to the Saints 2 Cor. 8.1 2 3 4 5. What then though shee dyed a distastfull death by reason of her disease Yet she left a most sweet smell and savour behinde her even the precious oyntment of a good Name so that the day of her death was much better than the day of her birth as Solomon saith in the same place Eccles 7.1 Whereas many others that die of faire discases leave a noysome and unsavoury sent behinde them going out like the snuffe of a Candle This was that which made her so ready to resigne her will to Gods in greatest extremities and towards her latter end so much to long to goe home as her words were for shee made no more of death than a departing home so that we saw her something troubled when those that were about her laboured to preserve her life saying Why will you not let me goe as if they did hinder her happines Thus with my singular respect to you both and those that bee most neare unto you commending you and all yours to the grace of our God Ephes 3.20 who is able to doe exceeding abundantly above all wee can aske or thinke I rest Your Honours much obliged Stephen Geree THE ORNAMENT of Women PRO. 31.29 30. Many daughters have done vertuously but thou excellest them all VER 30. Favour is deceitfull and beauty is vaine but a Woman that feareth the Lord she shall be praised THis last Chapter of the Proverbs containes certaine singular lessons which Lemuel or Solomon learn't of his loving and religious mother Bathsheba as is gathered from the first and second verses Whereby we may justly confute the folly or rather blasphemy of those Papists and Atheists that cannot endure Women should meddle with the Scriptures or Word of God For if the words of a Woman were thought fit to bee made the word of God not only by wise Solomon but also by the Holy Ghost then surely Women may very well meddle with Gods holy word that following this holy and royall example of Solomons Mother they may instruct at least their child in the old good way according to GODS Word Ier. 6.16 The truth is many women doe shame a great many men that are ignorant idle or prophane
say something because she gave me as it were a charge intreating me to speake that which I shall briefly declare unto you The first day that she fell ill I went unexpectedly to see her wherin she acknowledged Gods speciall providence I found her indeed somthing sad yea more than ordinary not for feare of Death but because that her disease was likely to be such as would deprive her of her friends hence those teares To wit the small Poxe I told her shee was in the hands of a wise and tender Father who knew best what was fit for us and therefore shee needed not so much to be troubled at that After we had commended her case unto God in Prayer She desired to be buryed before the Sermon because of the disease she intreated me that after her buryall for she made full account to die I would make a Sermon and therein perswade the hearers to these two things The first was Her first desire that you would hearken to the Word of God better than she had done To which I presently replyed as well as I could for teares being much affected with her words I would they would heare but so well as she did Yet beloved my desire is as hers was that you would hearken better then she did which if I could perswade you all unto I should thinke my selfe the happiest man in the world For herein she did excell as I said before howsoever in her humility and zeale to Gods word she thus spake Therefore let me intreat you to grant this her holy desire If it bee possble hearken to Gods holy Word better than shee did But if this be impossble as almost it is yet hearken so as shee did and you shall undoubtedly be blessed For as she had a very good memory for good things especially so had she a most artentive eare and heart even like Mary that chose that good part which should not bee taken from her Luk. 10.42 And like those Noble Bereans Acts 17.11 12. Who were said to bee 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 more generous than those of Thessalonica first in that they received the Word with all readinesse of mind and secondly in that they searched the Scriptures daily whether those things were so therefore many of them beleeved also of honourable women and of men not a few Yea so hungry was she after Gods holy Word that shee feared no famine but that threatned by the Prophet Amos. Not a famine of bread but of hearing the Word of the Lord Amos 8.11 Oh therefore that you could but equall if not exceed her in this Then might you find that most ravishing comfort in hearing The last Lords day save one as she told us at that time The second request which she confessed she found a little before she fell sicke The other thing she desired to be commended unto you was this That you would have a speciall care to looke to your Families She meant in regard of religious orders which are so much neglected in most places men living athome more like heathens and Infidels than true Christians For though she did more than most in this kind yet was it a great griefe unto her that she could not doe better Oh that you would let her have her desire in this also you would find the blessing above measure if you did but once set up the power of godlinesse in your families that you might be said to feare God with all your house as Cornelius did Acts 10.2 For by this meanes this good Gentlewoman was truly said to be a prop or pillar in the house So that her Husband and Children if they were of yeares might joyne in her praises as they before the Text. Her Children might arise and call her blessed Some referre these words of the Text to the Husband her Husband also might praise her saying Many daughters have done vertuously or valiantly but thou excellest and goest above them all c. Indeed her wayes so pleased Pro. 16.7 the Lord that her enemies were at peace with her as Salomon saith And what I speake a cloud of witnesses will testifie Therefore I need the lesse feare to bee accused either of False hood or Flattery which I have alwayes abhorred in every place especially in the Pulpit and so did she which made her somtime say that shee would desire nothing might be said of her at her death because she had with sorrow heard some sainted at their death who were little better than devils in their life Let none therefore take that with the left hand which I have reached out with the right as Saul did the due and deserved commendations given to David For I speak that truth in Christ I lie not my conscience also bearing me witnesse Rom. 9.1 Nay if I should reckon all the rarities of this right religious Gentlewoman that I have beene an eye and eare-witnesse of from her first to her last Dies me desiceret The day would faile me my spirits would bee spent and I should tire your patience and it might make most of us blush and be ashamed to see how farre we come short and all of us admire and stand amazed and astonished at the goodnesse and grace of GOD so plentifully powred upon her Therefore to conclude Happy was yea and still is the Mother of such a Daughter Happy the Husband in such a Wife and happy children of such a Mother who hath laid up many prayers better than portions for them And happie were all her acquaintance in such a friend And yet more happie they and wee in following her heavenly steps But most happy she that led so holy and heavenly a life Because blessed are the dead which die in the Lord even so saith the spirit that they may rest from their labors and their works follow them Rev. 14 13. 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God in prayer how would she flye to the throne of grace as it were upon the wings of faith And how often hath she bin observed to rise from prayer with teares in her eyes on her cheekes and dropped down before her and that without any ostentation which she was as free from as any that ever I observed I speake by experience As much may be said for her diligent and dutifull hearing to adde an instance or two more And hearing Gods Word For she delighted not in houses of play and pleasure as most young Gentlewomen doe but the houses of praying and preaching were her chiefe joy Psalm 137.5 6. So that whatsoever paines shee was able to take she was willing to undergoe to come to those places where shee might heare God most lively speaking unto her and she againe most powerfully like Hannah powre out her soule unto the Lord. Mourning for nothing more in time of her sicknesse than the want of Gods house and ordinances for nothing but Necessitie could keepe her from them which is far otherwise with a great many especially of her ranck who are but too easily intreated to keep from the Church even when God himselfe their own and the Churches necessities call upon them And while shee was hearing how marvellous attentive even as was said of the people that heard our Saviour Luk. 19.48 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 they were attentive to him or rather hanged upon him as the margent hath it in the last translation So she hanged upon the mouth of his messengers as Chickens hang upon the mouth of the Hen as some open the phrase that are ready to catch whatsoever shee shall breake for them or let fall unto them Even so her comming to the Sacrament was admirable And receiving the holy Sacrament How solemne and serious would shee be in preparing for that holy Supper setting apart sometimes dayes of fasting and humiliation which were dayes of Iubilee to her sanctified spirit that shee might come the more hungry and thirsty and so bee more fully satisfied with the fat and sweet of this most heavenly Table Seldome did shee receive this blesse Sacrament with dry eyes as I have bin often an eye witnesse though she carryed it covertly and yet how often did she frequent this holy Feast never missing the monthly Communions if shee were able to come to the Church and that I think for 7. yeares together after once it had pleased the Lord to let the light of his countenance shine upon her wherein she followed a good patterne given her at home These are strange things you will think but I can assure you not so strange as true for I do not speak as we must do many times by hear-say but I speak what I have seen and knowne And now for her words and speeches she had learn'd the language of Canaan Her words Jsa 19.8 Neh. 13.24 and did not mingle it with the speech of Ashdod she was not double-tongued but spake the words of sobernesse and truth She loved that pure language Zeph. 3.9 and hated lying and swearing yea she abhorred all rotten speech and corrupt communication as filthy vomit labouring to have her speeches alwaies with grace Col. 4.6 seasoned with salt as the Apostle commandes And for the end of her Actions The end of her actions She exceedingly aymed at Gods glory preferring that before all so that she would often say If she could but glorifie God shee cared not For she had learnt by heart that hard lesson of Selfe deny all for Gods sake Now in the last place to come to those relations and adjuncts of excellency First She was a most lively member of Christs mysticall body Honourable in her Head 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 She had conquest upon conquest one victory after another and therefore most honourable in Her head Witnesse those worthy workes before related She was in Christ her head more than a Conquerour Rom. 8.37 she did over-overcome as one well renders the words For she conquered the corruptions of youth of her place of the times and places wherein she lived and therefore now no doubt is gone to weare the crown of righteousnes having fought so good a fight of faith 2 Tim. 4.7 8. 2. She was no lesse excellent in her Husband than in her head In her husband which are the same for she was espoused unto Christ her heavenly husband with whose beams of grace she did shine brightlie while she was here and therefore now she glisters gloriously as the Sun with his most orient beames of blisse and happinesse 3. For her Portion that was no corruptible thing In her Portion as silver or gold but even the Lord of heaven whose mercy endures for ever in comparison of whom shee esteemed al earthly treasure but drosse and dunge And therefore now she is gone to take possession of that goodly joynture the kingdom of glory being joynt-heire with Christ Iesus Rom. 8.17 For on earth women doe not enjoy their joynture but the time of life after their Husbands death but 't is otherwise in heaven for they go to take a fuller possession of their spirituall joynture by death which is the dore of eternall life to them that die in the Lord. Lastly for her Apparell it was of the choycest and best In her Apparell even the Royal Robes of Christs righteousnes which she had put on by faith Phil. 3 9. renouncing her own righteousnes as rotten ragges in comparison often complaining of her owne unrighteousnesse And yet wheras other Gentlewomen are much taken up with providing for the body tricking and trimming that painted sheath for it is no better oftentimes See Dan. 7.15 in the Chaldee Vestite vos serico probitatis byssino sanctitatis purpura pudicitia Taliter pigmentatae Deum habebitu amatorem Ter. de cul foeminarum shee mainely minded the trimming and decking of her soule by her daily devotion wherein she excelled hating the fond and flaring phantasticall and new fangled fashions of the world as fit for none but idle braines vaine and wanton women that want eyes to look into their precious soule and see how needy and naked tattered deformed they are within Shee therefore now no doubt is arrayed like those in the Revelation that had long white Robes and Palmes in their hands in signe of victory Rev. 7.9 For she came out of great tribulation and had washed her Robe and made it white in the bloud of the Lamb v. Ver. 16.17 14. So that now shee shall hunger no more nor thirst any more all teares being wiped from her eyes See Isaiah 57.1 2. though not from ours For wee have great cause to weepe and mourne not for her but for our selves The greater her gaine is the greater is our losse and not ours only but the whole Church of God Thus much for her life Of Her death Now concerning her death I must