none_o but_o death_n can_v untie_v this_o union_n none_o but_o death_n can_v dissolve_v god_n that_o have_v give_v a_o charge_n that_o no_o man_n shall_v part_v asunder_o such_o as_o he_o have_v join_v together_o have_v give_v a_o commission_n alas_o he_o have_v give_v a_o commission_n to_o death_n to_o part_v they_o as_o to_o that_o relation_n for_o ever_o in_o one_o instant_a i_o can_v say_v this_o woman_n be_v my_o wife_n in_o the_o next_o thou_o even_o thou_o o_o powerful_a death_n do_v both_o stop_n her_o breath_n and_o tie_v my_o tongue_n that_o i_o can_v no_o long_o call_v she_o i_o i_o and_o not_o i_o in_o that_o instant_n and_o not_o in_o this_o that_o be_v join_v to_o the_o former_a lord_n give_v i_o leave_v to_o sorrow_n that_o that_o which_o be_v most_o mine_n be_v no_o long_o i_o 2._o when_o death_n snatch_v away_o child_n out_o of_o their_o parent_n arm_n and_o bosom_n which_o before_o be_v in_o their_o loin_n the_o parent_n have_v sorrow_v and_o lament_v death_n do_n jacob_n when_o he_o do_v but_o suppose_v his_o son_n josâ—ph_n be_v dead_a do_v grieve_v and_o sorrow_n as_o though_o his_o heart_n will_v break_v and_o refuse_v to_o be_v comfort_v comfort_v i_o be_v joseph_n dead_a and_o do_v you_o speak_v of_o comfort_n my_o son_n dead_a and_o i_o admit_v of_o comfort_n no_o i_o will_v give_v place_n to_o sorrow_n my_o son_n be_v dead_a and_o my_o sorrow_n shall_v live_v as_o long_o as_o i_o live_v and_o i_o will_v go_v sorrow_v to_o my_o grave_n to_o he_o gen._n 37.32_o and_o they_o send_v the_o coat_n of_o many_o colour_n and_o they_o bring_v it_o to_o their_o father_n and_o say_v this_o have_v we_o find_v know_v now_o whether_o it_o be_v thy_o son_n coat_n or_o no._n 33._o and_o he_o know_v it_o and_o say_v it_o be_v my_o son_n coat_n a_o evil_a beast_n have_v devour_v he_o joseph_n be_v without_o doubt_n rend_v in_o piece_n 34._o and_o jacob_n rend_v his_o clothes_n and_o put_v sackcloth_n upon_o his_o loin_n and_o mourn_v for_o his_o son_n many_o day_n 35._o and_o all_o his_o son_n and_o all_o his_o daughter_n rise_v up_o to_o comfort_v he_o and_o he_o refuse_v to_o be_v comfort_v and_o he_o say_v for_o i_o will_v go_v down_o into_o the_o grave_n unto_o my_o son_n mourning_n thus_o his_o father_n weep_v for_o he_o david_n grieve_v for_o the_o death_n of_o his_o son_n amnon_n 2_o sam._n 13.37_o david_n mourn_v for_o his_o son_n every_o day_n and_o for_o his_o son_n absalon_n 2_o sam._n 18.33_o and_o 19_o 1._o it_o be_v tell_v joab_n behold_v the_o king_n weep_v and_o mourn_v for_o absolom_n 2._o the_o people_n hear_v say_v that_o day_n how_o the_o king_n be_v grieve_v for_o his_o son_n 4._o the_o king_n cover_v his_o face_n and_o the_o king_n cry_v with_o a_o loud_a voice_n o_o my_o son_n absalon_n o_o absalon_n my_o son_n my_o son_n 1._o this_o sorrow_n be_v use_v to_o express_v degree_n of_o sorrow_n for_o the_o afflict_a church_n shall_v not_o we_o mourn_v for_o the_o misery_n of_o the_o church_n for_o the_o calamity_n of_o the_o best_a man_n shall_v we_o not_o grieve_v and_o sorrow_n when_o the_o sword_n of_o a_o enemy_n and_o fear_n be_v round_o about_o we_o when_o the_o spoiler_n come_v upon_o we_o and_o shall_v not_o the_o degree_n of_o our_o sorrow_n be_v equal_a to_o the_o degree_n of_o the_o evil_a that_o befall_v we_o what_o be_v those_o degree_n such_o as_o be_v equal_a to_o the_o degree_n of_o sorrow_n of_o parent_n for_o the_o death_n of_o a_o only_a son_n when_o the_o spirit_n of_o god_n choose_v out_o such_o sorrow_n for_o a_o pattern_n of_o sorrow_n for_o the_o church_n in_o great_a distress_n do_v it_o not_o import_v that_o such_o sorrow_n for_o child_n remove_v by_o death_n be_v great_a sorrow_n jer._n 6.25_o the_o sword_n of_o the_o enemy_n and_o fear_n be_v on_o every_o side_n 26._o o_o daughter_n of_o my_o people_n gird_v thou_o with_o sackcloth_n and_o wallow_v thyself_o in_o ash_n make_v thou_o mourn_v as_o for_o a_o only_a son_n most_o bitter_a lamentation_n for_o the_o spoiler_n shall_v sudden_o come_v upon_o thou_o let_v parent_n that_o be_v little_o affect_v with_o the_o death_n of_o a_o child_n inquire_v where_o be_v their_o natural_a affection_n their_o sense_n and_o feel_n of_o the_o hand_n of_o god_n in_o so_o severe_a a_o blow_n when_o god_n himself_o rank_n gird_v with_o sackcloth_n wallow_v in_o ash_n bitter_a lamentation_n and_o mourn_v for_o a_o only_a son_n as_o equalize_v each_o other_o in_o degree_n of_o sorrow_n 2._o to_o set_v forth_o the_o degree_n of_o sorrow_n under_o sore_n and_o heavy_a judgement_n when_o god_n threaten_v to_o bring_v such_o sore_a and_o heavy_a judgement_n that_o shall_v cause_v man_n mirth_n to_o cease_v their_o joy_n to_o be_v banish_v their_o sorrow_n to_o be_v multiply_v he_o compare_v it_o to_o the_o mourning_n for_o a_o only_a son_n as_o what_o use_v to_o be_v in_o high_a degree_n amos_n 8.10_o and_o i_o will_v turn_v your_o feast_n into_o mourning_n and_o all_o your_o song_n into_o lamentation_n and_o i_o will_v bring_v up_o sackcloth_n upon_o all_o loin_n and_o baldness_n upon_o every_o head_n and_o i_o will_v make_v it_o as_o the_o mourning_n of_o a_o only_a son_n and_o the_o end_n thereof_o as_o a_o bitter_a day_n 3._o the_o degree_n of_o sorrow_n of_o convince_a repent_v sinner_n this_o manner_n of_o mourning_n be_v use_v to_o set_v forth_o the_o great_a degree_n of_o sorrow_n that_o the_o repent_a jew_n shall_v have_v when_o they_o shall_v be_v convince_v of_o their_o barbarous_a and_o bloody_a fact_n in_o murder_v of_o the_o son_n of_o god_n zech._n 12.10_o and_o i_o will_v pour_v upon_o the_o house_n of_o david_n and_o upon_o the_o inhabitant_n of_o jerusalem_n the_o spirit_n of_o grace_n and_o of_o supplication_n and_o they_o shall_v look_v upon_o i_o who_o they_o have_v pierce_v and_o they_o shall_v mourn_v for_o he_o how_o much_o as_o one_o mourn_v for_o his_o only_a son_n and_o shall_v be_v in_o bitterness_n for_o he_o as_o one_o that_o be_v in_o bitterness_n for_o his_o first-born_a all_o these_o show_v not_o only_o what_o sorrow_n be_v allow_v but_o what_o degree_n also_o be_v require_v and_o have_v be_v in_o parent_n for_o the_o death_n of_o child_n that_o have_v have_v a_o due_a sense_n of_o god_n afflict_a hand_n in_o take_v their_o child_n from_o they_o by_o death_n even_o sorrow_n set_v forth_o 1._o the_o sorrow_n for_o the_o calamity_n of_o the_o church_n 2._o the_o greatness_n of_o the_o sorrow_n man_n be_v fill_v with_o when_o god_n heavy_a judgement_n be_v upon_o they_o 3._o the_o sorrow_n of_o true_a penitent_n for_o their_o sinful_a carriage_n to_o god_n own_o son_n though_o the_o parallel_n will_v not_o hold_v in_o all_o respect_n yet_o the_o greatness_n of_o the_o sorrow_n of_o the_o one_o be_v make_v use_n of_o to_o declare_v the_o greatness_n of_o the_o other_o which_o be_v sufficient_a evidence_n that_o such_o sorrow_n be_v great_a in_o itself_o though_o love_n do_v descend_v from_o parent_n to_o child_n more_o than_o it_o do_v 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seven_o day_n 11._o the_o inhabitant_n of_o the_o place_n when_o they_o see_v the_o mourning_n say_v this_o be_v a_o very_a grievous_a mourning_n 2._o the_o death_n of_o mother_n have_v be_v no_o less_o lament_v by_o their_o child_n isaac_n mourn_v for_o his_o mother_n gen._n 24.67_o when_o david_n will_v express_v the_o greatness_n of_o his_o sorrow_n for_o other_o he_o aggravate_v it_o by_o this_o i_o be_v bow_v down_o as_o one_o that_o mourn_v for_o his_o mother_n psal_n 35.14_o 3._o when_o breach_n have_v be_v make_v by_o death_n betwixt_o brethren_n and_o sister_n the_o surviving_n have_v great_o sorrow_v for_o those_o that_o be_v
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the_o almighty_a 15._o those_o that_o remain_v of_o he_o shall_v be_v bury_v in_o death_n and_o his_o widow_n shall_v not_o weep_v that_o husband_n be_v unkind_a while_o he_o live_v or_o his_o widow_n unnatural_a that_o can_v weep_v when_o he_o be_v dead_a psalm_n 78.64_o their_o priest_n fall_v by_o the_o sword_n and_o their_o widow_n make_v no_o lamentation_n when_o god_n take_v away_o his_o lovingkindness_n and_o mercy_n from_o man_n for_o their_o great_a wickedness_n while_o they_o live_v as_o a_o token_n of_o his_o wrath_n he_o will_v not_o have_v they_o lament_v when_o they_o die_v jer._n 16.3_o thus_o say_v the_o lord_n concern_v the_o son_n and_o concern_v the_o daughter_n that_o be_v bear_v in_o this_o place_n and_o concern_v their_o mother_n that_o bear_v they_o and_o concern_v their_o father_n that_o beget_v they_o in_o this_o land_n 4._o they_o shall_v die_v of_o grievous_a death_n they_o shall_v not_o be_v lament_v neither_o shall_v they_o be_v bury_v but_o they_o shall_v 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