approue of their deferring off to marry but that being yong they should not refuse to marry againe when God should send them fit husbands A godly and wise mother in law like Naomi cannot onely be willing but also will perswade her children in law should marry againe For they know this liberty is graunted them of God and in their owne conscience they know it reasonable and perhaps in others of necessity Shee was not like those mothers in law which after the death of their owne children cannot endure to heare of the second marriage of their children in law whether sonnes or daughters For it grieueth me much Here is the reason giuen why she willeth them to returne and to take husbands againe euen for the griefe of her heart for that seeing them as poore widdowes as her selfe and remembring her sonnes and how little she could doe for them she heauily sustained the griefe and therefore perswaded them to take husbands againe in whom they might haue comfort Note here how the most godly sometime do take their afflictions very heauily as Naomi here so Iob Chap. 3. Ieremy Chap. 20. 9 12. which commeth through weakenesse of faith want of patience want of humility through also the strength of corruption and the aggrauating of the affliction euer looking vpon it but not weighing the will of God the necessity of the crosse and the good which might come thereby Well yet if the best may be much cast downe then let not such as be free not vnder the crosse not knowing how they can beare it censure others for their weakenesse vnder the burthen but rather take notice thereof and be a staffe of comfort vnto them helpe to beare the burthen with them and pray for their patience For your sakes Afflictions are the more grieuous for friends wrapped therein so as one cannot well helpe another Naomi was greatly afflicted but the more shee saith for her daughters miserie with her who losing her sonnes made also them poore widowes Abimelechs destruction encreased Dauids Psalme 52. 1. King 17. 20 21. sorrowes and troubles Eliah not a little grieued for the widowes sorrow with whom he soiourned Acts and Mon. pag. 77 5. a. and so was Luther for the Duke of Saxonie and the reason hereof is true loue which taketh to heart a friends affliction in their owne troubles as Dauid did Abiathars 1. Sam. 22. 22. This grace of true friendship is much to be wished for men now a dayes care not much for their friends miserie if they be in prosperity or if in aduersity with them how they themselues may get out though they leaue their friends as a pawne for themselues yea such villanie is in some men that they will purposely bring their friends into misery to doe themselues a pleasure coozen them to inrich themselues ouerthrow them to set vp themselues That the hand of the Lord. Thus she calleth her affliction the hand of the Lord because all afflictions come by the power and prouidence of God as by an hand vpon vs Iob 1. 21. and 16. 12. Lam. 1. 12 17. Amos. 3. 6. and 4. 6 7 11. 2. Chro. 15. 6. Esay 45 6 7. For afflictions come not out of the dust neither do troubles spring out of the ground Iob 5. 6. Let then all afflictions bee acknowledged to be Gods hand not as chance with the Philistims not of the Deuill witches and ill instruments If we acknowledge them with Iob from God we will goe to him humble our selues before him pray for pardon and deliuerance by him as who onely can deliuer vs yea this will make vs patient vnder the crosse this will worke some contentment and say It is the Lord let him do what seemeth him good This will make vs quiet towards the ill instruments as Dauid was towards Saul and towards Shemei This will comfort vs vnder the affliction when we know it to be Gods hand and that out of his fatherly mercy he will lay no more vpon vs then we shall be able to beare Is gone out against mee This good woman applieth the whole crosse to her selfe The godly in cōmon calamities take themselues to be especially chastised they put not off the cause to others but take it to themselues as Dauid did 1. Chr. 21. 17. 2. Sam. 24. 27. They thinke vpon their own sinnes and not on other mens misdeeds This is that which humbleth them and this is it which would humble vs which grace we must labour for Verse 14. And they lift vp their voice and wept againe and Orpha kissed her mother in law but Ruth claue vnto her HEre is the euent and effect of Naomies speech againe first ioyntly in both which was againe their passion and then distinctly shewed in contraries in Orphaes valediction and Ruth remaining still with her mother in law And they lift vp their voice and wept againe Againe their passion of teares is recorded both alike in passion of affection but farre differing in the truth of the action the best demonstration of the heart for in both was a like shew of loue in their weeping yet not the like cōstant coniunction of heart towards Naomi for the one forsooke her and the other abode and went on with her Whence we may see that all outward sorrow giueth not certaine witnesse of the soundnesse of the heart this is plaine by this example and by Sauls weeping to Dauid As this is true in men so more in women who haue teares at command Doe we not reade how the Israelites would weepe on one day and be in rebellion another Was not Ishmael in his very weeping a very deepe disembler the like neuer heard of We are not easily therefore to be perswaded of inward hearty affection from weeping and sheading of teares This deceiued the fourescore men which met Ishmael and were most of them slain by him Some can shead teares at will and all weeping doth not come from the like cause though many weepe together and in appearance haue the same reason there be that will weep for company because they see others to weepe neuer inwardly moued from the cause but most from the outward passion of the parties yet though there be a weeping not commendable as that which is counterfeit that which is vpon euery light occasion or which is vpon iust cause but in excesse yet it is sometime a matter praise-worthy when it is from a naturall affection as in Ioseph to his brethren and father from sound loue to a friend as Ionathans and Dauids weeping and when it is from a gracious heart for a mans owne sinnes as Peters weeping was or for the sinnes of others as Dauids Psal 1 19. Ieremies Chap. 13. And Iesus Christ his weeping ouer Ierusalem Luke 19. 41. Blessed are these mourners for they shall be comforted these teares are put into the Lords bottle Psal 56. 8. And such as be so doggedly hard-hearted and want naturall affection and sound loue so as neither for
and at length vvill be abhorred of all And here let the rich learne vpon whom to bestow freely their kindnesse and whom to loue and respect euen the godly poore such as bee Gal. 6. 10. Mat. 25. 10. of the houshold of faith for in them Christ is relieued and such shall not lose their reward If you aske Who are these godly poore I answer Euen such as Ruth which get a good name by their vertuous liues their duty done to their betters their painefulnesse in labour their conscience of Religion These be the godly poore and not the stubborne the idle the irreligious swearing fighting railing drunken poore who are more worthy of punishment than reliefe Vnto thy mother in law since the death of thine husband Thus Boaz beginneth to particularize her vertues and the first here is her louing carriage and praise-worthy behauiour vnto her mother in law not onely while her husband liued but euer after not ceasing to loue because he was dead for whose sake shee first was occasioned to loue her Due prayses can be shewed in particular vertues See it in the praises of Iob Cornelius the Iob. 1. Act. 10. 2. Reu. 2. 1 2. Angell of Ephesus And therefore in praising any wee must bee able to instance in those things which deserue such praises else it is sottish ignorance or grosse flatterie or both Againe note That whom we loue for our friends sake being aliue if loue be vnfaigned it will appeare when they be dead This is Ruths loue vnto Naomi Dauids to Mephibosheth for Ionathans sake True loue is a fountaine that neuer can be drawne drie This reproueth the loose loue of many who can loue and lightly turne it into hatred of the same person vpon small occasions such also as can loue their friend for his time but when he is dead will neglect all respect to euery one of his whom in his dayes they pretended to loue And how thou hast left thy father and thy mother and the land of thy natiuity and art come vnto a people which thou knewest not heretofore This was rare loue and a very great measure of grace for Religon sake to forsake naturall parents for a mother in Law her owne country for a strange nation and people shee must needs bee endued with a strong faith and an extraordinary measure of loue to Religion and the worship of the true God By which wee see that faith and feruent loue ouercome all difficulties euen nature it selfe as here in her so in Abraham when leauing his Heb. 11. Gen. 12. Gen. 22. 21. Gal. 1. 10. countrey he trauelled hee knew not whither and did offer vp Isaac at Gods bidding and put away Ismael and al three without gainsaying cherefully These ouercame carnall reason and this desire of pleasing God made Saint Paul a zealous Professor Faith made Gideon to leaue thousands Iud. 7. 7 12. 8. 10. 13 5000. Iosh 6. behind him and to bee content to enter the battaile whith 300. against many thousands so did Ioshua by Gods direction command seuen Priests to goe seuen times about the walls of Iericho to beate them downe with sound of Rammes hornes This faith loue made many proselytes and Heathen to become Christians and Christians in the time of bloody persecutions to forsake all for Christs sake and his Gospell as the Apostles spake of themselues vnto Christ This faith and loue of God will vanquish the world 1. Ioh. 5. 4 5. and will make 〈◊〉 leaue the Court of Pharaoh to bee with Gods people in affliction and will make Amaziah to separate himselfe from the 2. Chro. 25. 6 9 10. wicked and make light of an 100. talents of siluer Yea so powerfull is faith and loue of God as they will ouercome our selues euen to make light of our selues and our liues for the Lords sake as we see in the blessed Martyrs suffering cruell torments for the truth sake for the power of faith and spirituall loue is supernaturall and is wrought and so assisted by Gods Spirit as no worldly or fleshly impediments can hinder them in the way to eternall life Therefore must we labour for these graces aboue all things if wee would be masters ouer our selues if wee would preuaile against all hinderances of our saluation These will bridle lusts contemne vaine honours resist Satan and his temptations and seeing they are so powerfull hence may we see whether wee haue this faith and true loue if we can ouercome our corrupt nature carnall reason and this euill world but if these ouermaster vs then want wee this faith and loue from which those be farre off who are led like beasts by nature like sensuall men by lusts corrupt reason and by this vnconstant world and the vanities thereof Though they doe beare the name of Christians yet Christs power is farre from them Note further hence why hee speaketh thus to Ruth euen to giue her to know the true cause of his kindnesse and good respect towards her euen her godlinesse and grace which may teach That vertue and grace are the greatest motiues to incite great men which be also good men vnto the workes of mercy and bounty to the poore as we here see by Boaz speeches for vertue is louely to them which are vertuous though the parties be neuer so poore Let thē the poore labour for grace and godlinesse that they may find mercy at the hands of the wealthy for if they feare God he wil be their spokes-man hee will moue the hearts of others to doe them good Though this bee the way to procure fauour yet commonly we see the poore idle and too lewd of life and yet they murmure curse and rage if they be not relieued for they thinke they ought to be relieued euen because they bee poore though neuer so wicked though they will hardly labour to take any paines to liue when of such the Apostle speaketh that they should not be relieued Hee that will not labour let him not eate 2. Thes 3. saith the Apostle As this is for instruction to the poore so the rich from Boaz may learne on whom to bestow their fauours and workes of mercy euen vpon the godly the houshold of Gal. 6. 10. Mat. 25 10. Pro. 19. 17. Psal 41. 1 2 3. faith for in them Christ is relieued in them they doe lend vnto the Lord who vvill repay them to the full and greatly reward them But of this a little before in the beginning of this verse Verse 12. The Lord recompence thy worke and a full reward be giuen thee of the Lord God of Israel vnder whose wings thou art come to trust THese words are a prayer and blessing pronounced out of the mouth of Boaz vpon poore Ruth which doth maruailously set out the pietie of this man Here may be noted who makes this request to whom for what for whom and why The Lord recompence thy worke This rich Boaz prayeth for
would be content to marry with them which is a commendation to them that would thus welcome such as came among them for succour It is a matter praise-worthy to be harbersome to strangers for this were the Barbarians commended Act. 28. 2 7 10. who receiued the Apostle and the rest into their houses made them fires because of the cold and raine in Winter courteously lodged them and when they departed being such as had suffered shipwracke and were thereby in want those Barbarians helped them with necessaries This was humanity and mercy For this Abraham and Lot and Iob are commended and this goodnesse wee must learne to practise for so are wee exhorted Heb. 13. 2 and these former examples lead vs to it This qutie is to be done not onely to our kindred to our friends to our knowne countreymen but to strangers Heb. 13. 2. yea and to our enemies in their neede 2. Kings 6. 23. Romanes 12. 20. Vers 3. And Elimelech Naomies husband dyed and shee was left and her two sonnes THis telleth vs of the heauie crosse which befell Naomi which was in the death of her husband and that as it may seeme very shortly after they were come into Moab before the sonnes did marry so she was left a widdow with two fatherlesse children to take care for them in a strange countrey This verse is a narration of an euent what it was and vpon whom it fell to the great heauinesse of Naomi the euent was death and here is shewed whom it tooke and whom it left And Elimelech dyed His age is not reckoned he could not bee very old if wee may gasse his yeeres by his sonnes marrying so young women after his death yet he dyeth yea and there also wither he went for food to preserue life He went first from Israel the Land of the liuing and led them thence and so he now goeth out of the world before them from whence note I. That death is the end of all and it spareth none Iosh 23. 14. Iob 21. 33. Eccles 7. 2. and 6. 6. 1. Cor. 15. 51. Heb. 9. 27. for all haue sinned Rom. 5. and death is the reward of sinne Rom. 6. And therefore let all prepare to die II. That a full supplie of bodily wants cannot preuent death The man must die in Moab where was food enough the rich Glutton must die also and the Rich man with his barne full for the sentence of death is irreuocable and mans life dependeth not vpon the outward meanes of life for then the rich and mighty would neuer die Let not men in their abundance thinke to escape death let them therefore not set their hearts on their wealth for they must leaue it It is follie to trust in riches for they cannot deliuer from death either ordinary or extraordinary lingering or suddaine naturall or violent as examples and experience it selfe teacheth III. That where men think to preserue life there they may lose it as Elimelech doth here fleeing from the famine in Israel yet dyed where plenty was in Moab for no place is free from death and when the appointed time is come man cannot passe it Iob 14. 5. we cannot thinke therefore our selues safe any where from death nay many times where we may think our selues secure there death may take vs away Naomies husband It is not said her husband which might well haue beene spoken by way of relation to her without her name because shee was named before and no other woman but this woman was a very vertuous woman and this was a great crosse to her and therefore both to expresse her excellency and her begun misery it is said Naomies husband dyed the husband of so rare a wife died Note hence I. That it is a grace for some to be called the husbands of some women their name is a grace to them if they be vertuous for such a one is a crowne to her husband Pro. 12. 4. Now a crowne is high glory to a man and her husband is knowne in the gates Pro. 31. 23. Such wiues are to bee made much of as rare Birdes for too many may sit downe with shame and blush to bee named the husbands of some wiues Foolish though faire faire but perhaps filthy rich but withal retchlesse wiues but without gouernement husbands named the head but they must bee masters sometime painefull but Peacok-like proud often more mad or fullen sad than merrie if merrie it keepes not in with modesty if she speake it is lowd often heard farther then seene and yet oftener seene by a quiet husband then well liked of In a word a wicked foolish woman is shame to his person and rottennesse to his bones Pro. 12. 4. II. That grace in one preuents not death in another Naomies husband must die so Abrahams wife also Iacob must bid his Rachel adieu and Ezech. 24. 16. Ezechiel the desire of eyes for no mans grace can free himselfe much lesse another from death Psal 49. 7 9. and married persons are not appointed the same length of daies No we come not together and wee goe not together Let none hope for life by the grace of another let the neerest and dearest looke to part by death Ruth loued Naomi most dearely and saith that nothing should separate them but onely death verse 17. because shee knew that that must needes be yelded vnto III. That it is a great crosse for a woman to lose a good husband This is implied as I said in naming her by name for in him the wife loseth her head her guide her stay and comfort if hee be a vertuous man and a good husband I neede not intreat good and louing wiues to mourne for such sure enough they haue cause and wiues cannot but mourne except they conceit a new comfort very quickly as some doe for feare the old griefe should lye too long at the heart for him that is dead and cannot be recalled so with them the liuing is better to be liked of than the dead for they know their husbands would perhaps haue so dealt with them And shee was left and her two sonnes Death seazed onely vpon Elimelech and left Naomi and also her sonnes that she might not be vtterly comfortlesse in a strange countrey From this may we note these two things I. That albeit death is due to all in as much as all haue sinned yet it seazeth not vpon all at once but one dyeth now and another hereafter as we see in all ages which cōmeth not to passe for any good in one more than in another but God will haue mankind vpon earth till the last day hee forbeareth some and repriueth them for their amendment for the lengthning of life is for our further repentance if wee bee the Lords or for the greater condemnation of such as shall perish For this mercy God is to bee praised for we deserue death and it might seaze vpon euery one at once and take vs away because wee are borne
grace before goods and wisedome before the world though where grace is if goods may come with it it is a blessing and the better to be liked of for helpe to vphold the burthen of marriage And they dwelt there about tenne yeeres Whether this time beginneth at their first cōming or after this marriage is not certaine but it is ten yeeres before Naomi heares of the Lords visiting of Israel with plenty It is a long time for a godly woman to bee kept from Gods people and publike seruice of his name Dauid lamented it much Psal 120. 5. and desired the presence of God and his Tabernacle Psal 84. 1 4. In Moab was corporall plenty but not spirituall for the one the other was neglected Such is our corruption a comon sinne now I wish it had not taken possession of the best But besides this we may further note how a heauy calamity may long rest vpon Gods people we may reade of a famine three yeres and a halfe in Achabs daies three yeeres in Dauids time 2. Sam. 21. 1. 1. King 17. 1. Luke 4. 25. and seuen yeeres at another time 2. King 1. and here also for a great many of yeeres And this commeth through mens obstinacie in sinne and for that such things are not reformed as God commandeth or for that some euils are not punished as they ought to bee as for innocent blood-shed 1. Sam. 21. 1. for open idolatrie and murthering of the Saints as in Achabs dayes We are in such continuing iudgements to looke to our waies and bewaile our sinnes also seeing thus Gods hand against his people so long wee may learne patience in the yeres of scarcity and blesse God that neuer thus afflicted vs in any of our remembrances for such a famine would in these Northerne parts be most intolerable farre more vnsufferable than in hot countreyes where people could humble themselues with fasting many dayes together Verse 5. And Mahlon and Chilion dyed also both of them and the woman was left of her two sonnes and of her husband THis verse sheweth a further griefe which befell good Naomi which was the death of both her sonnes and so to be left a heauie soule in solitarinesse in a strange countrey where she could haue no spirituall comfort and where now she had lost her chiefest corporall comfort And Mahlon and Chilion dyed also both of them These inioyed their yong wiues for some space and had time to haue returned home to the Lords people but they for bodily maintenance new friends gotten by their marriages would not the Lord therefore tooke them away in this strange Land Many things may be noted I. That the Lord gaue them time to marry and to enioy their marriage for some space though they made no better vse of their fathers death thus good and patient is God vnto men for their bettering if it would be for which praise him II. That when God hath proued men in patience and they will not make right vse thereof then will he take them away for he will not alwaies striue in mercie here the abusers of Gods goodnesse may learne to take heed III. That God can and will cut off sometime yong men in the flowre of their youth Thus he tooke away Nadab and Abihu Hophni and Phinees Amnon Absalom two gallant yong Princes so here these two though some by violent death and other by naturall death And this is sometime a punishment for sinne Psalme 55. 23. 1. Sa. 2. 31. but not euer for God in mercie will take some from the euils of the world as he did Iosias Let none because of youth put farre off the day of death Death respecteth no age no strength no beauty Remember thy Creatour in the dayes of thy youth Ecclesiastes 12. 1. Thy owne sinne may cut thee off in youth as it did Absalom and so the rest or thy fathers sinne as Dauids child was taken away 2. Sam. 12. 14. and the tenne 1. King 11. 12. and 21. 6. Tribes from Rehoboam and the sonnes of Saul And the woman was left of her two sons her husband This is added to aggrauate the affliction of Naomi and doth teach that neither few nor light afflictions sometime befall the godly Naomi lost her husband then not one but both her sonnes and left their widowes without children so as Naomi had none of his bloud remaining in Moab And as shee was thus afflicted so was Dauid who had proud and scornefull brethren a bloudily-minded father in law a mocking Michal to his wife lewd and vnnaturall children besides many other great trialls What shall I speake of Iobs trialls Ieremies troubles and Pauls persecutions Yet God thus suffers his to be tried to make them know themselues to shew them their graces and their imperfections which in affliction they will manifest to weane them from the world to the loue of a better life to whip them from their sinnes and to make our vile natures tame to submit to his yoke Let vs looke therefore for them let vs be contented and patient vnder them and consider the troubles of others of old and in the primitiue Church and of later times Let vs not thinke our condition the worse before God but rather the better if instruction be with correction for God loueth vs then It is a fault to murmure at him it is an error to thinke our estate to be euill before God because of sundry and great crosses for many are the afflictions of the righteous he saith not of the wicked yet then righteous when they be afflicted this is comfort against despaire Note againe that he saith the woman was left he saith not now Naomi as before after to expresse her deiected condition for a widow poore alone without friends and in a strange country is in an afflicted estate contemptible it is the not Naomi but the woman in distresse and miserie And lastly obserue that when death calleth friends must part and one leaue another husbands their wiues children their parents parents their children as here no band of loue can keepe them then together death must be welcome and vnto dearest friends we must bid farewell Verse 6. Then she arose with her daughters in law that shee might returne from the Countrey of Moab for shee had heard in the Countrey of Moab how that the Lord had visited his people in giuing them bread HEre is at the length the returne of Naomi with whom from whence and the reason drawing her minde homeward Then shee arose Shee had long abode in Moab now after such crosses shee ariseth to goe thence vnto the Church and people of God when the Lord thus afflicted her when shee saw her selfe destitute of her husband and children and had none to goe vnto and to conuerse with but Idolaters the Moabites then she arose to leaue those coasts Note how affliction shall follow affliction to bring home such as be the Lords if one crosse will not
good reason is there why they should doe their Parents all good nature bindes them also the commandement Exod. 20. of God to honour them which comprehendeth loue reuerence obedience and reliefe and the example of godly children yea of Christ himself vnto his mother moueth them There be Ioh. 19. 26 27. also rare examples for this among the Heathen See Val. Max. lib. 5. cap. 4. the rather to perswade Christians hereunto lest they rise vp in iudgement against them Let children therefore learne to be kind and mercifull to their poore Parents and not be like the vnnaturall Impes whereof there bee these sorts such as care not to prouide for them but to get all they can from them they are not willing to do them good but grudge to relieue them and are sicke of their liues wishing their death to be eased of the burthen Other there be which will rob their Parents and steale from them what they can get yea and thinke it no sinne as Salomon telleth Prou. 28. 24. vs yet are they the companions of a destroyer The third sort are those hellish monsters who rise vp to murder their Parents but the Lord reuengeth it as we see in the example of Absalom That shee had reserued after shee was sufficed It is meet to eate to suffice nature for the preseruation of life and the better inabling of vs to walke painefully in our calling of which before in verse 14. Note farther hence I. That such as haue true loue will spare from themselues to relieue others yea though they themselues be but poore and haue nothing but from hand to mouth as we say Of this we haue here an example and in the poore Luk. 21. 2. widdow which gaue her two mites yea our Sauiour who was relieued by others yet kept a bag for the poore he spared of his gifts to giue vnto others For true loue cannot but pittie the want of others and such as so loue will not hoard vp for themselues and let their poore brethren remaine in want when for the present they haue sufficient they liue in hope of supply and doubt not of Gods prouidence for the time to come when they giue charitably what they may spare for the present This condemneth the cursed couetousnesse of such as haue laid vp in store for many yeeres and yet will not bestow any thing vpon such as doe need and also it checketh such as excuse and exempt themselues wholy and alwayes for giuing any thing because they be poore If this plea had stucke in the heart of the poore widdow which cast her mites into the treasurie shee would haue reserued them to her selfe but so should shee haue lost her eternall praises II. Such as would thriue spend not all at once but reserue somewhat both for themselues and for others Ruth ate shee was sufficed and reserued some for afterwards for her mother and her selfe she was not ryotous wastfull because she had more then did suffice for the present For such as be painfull know how they come by that which they haue they also know it to be a vertue to spare and keep what necessitie causeth not to be layd out neither charitie nor pietie to be spent they know that what they haue is so their owne before men as yet before God they are but Stewards thereof Therefore from this and Ruths example we must learne frugality to vse Gods blessings to doe our selues good but we must beware of waste and not let any thing be lost as our Sauiour commanded when he had fed so Iohn 6. 12 13. many thousands They then here are worthy of iust reprehension who wastfully consume Gods blessings some on their bellie as doe Drunkards and Gluttons some on their fleshly delights bringing themselues to a morsell of bread others vpon play and gaming idle and prodigall vnthrifts such as this our nation now is too much burthened with others vpon too costly and often fantasticke attyre the ensigne of pride and vanitie to whom if any speake for their reformation they reply with words of contempt of others and carelesse neglect of their owne estate saying They spend but their own what haue any to doe with it But these must remember that they must giue an account vnto God whose blessings they waste they must also know that Gods gifts are not giuen them to consume wholely vpon themselues after their lusts but to be Stewards thereof for God and in his stead to doe good to others as need shall require This prodigality the Lord often punisheth with pouertie Luk. 15. and sometime with imprisonment yea with shamefull deaths in some whom God giueth ouer to fall into the hand of the Magistrate for some euill committed and deseruing death Verse 19. And her mother in law said vnto her Where hast thou gleaned to day and where wroughtest thou Blessed be he that did take knowledge of thee And shee shewed her mother in law with whom shee had wrought and said The mans name with whom I wrought to day is Boaz. HEre is Naomi her question to Ruth with her heartie prayer to God for him that had so mercifully dealt with Ruth and Ruths answer to her againe shewing with whom shee had gleaned and naming the name euen Boaz her kinsman And her mother in law said Where hast thou gleaned to day and where wroughtest thou When Ruth went out in the morning shee asked leaue of Naomi to goe to gleane but whither shee knew not therefore now being returned with so much corne and such food shee asketh Ruth where she had beene not doubting of Ruths honest dealing but in admiration of Gods mercy and in desire to know who was the instrument of that hand of God vpon her For fauours bestowed doe win affections and cause a longing after the partie to know who he is if we know not his person as here and also what his name is and of what kindred though we looke vpon the man as Saul did that 1. Sam. 17. 55 56 57 58. so we might see the reason thereof and might shew particularly our loue vnto such a one praise God and pray also for him Now if this be the force of benefits from man how much more from God from whom we receiue so many and daily blessings These should win our affections to him worke in vs a desire to know him who he is and why we should receiue such kindnesse that so we might loue him praise him and in all thankefulnesse yeeld him all obedience But alas vpon whom doe his blessings thus worke I wish that his mercies made vs not forget him and to forsake him when we haue knowne him In this that Naomi suspecteth not Ruth but rather admireth Gods mercy towards her wee may also note that the godly are not vncharitably suspicious of them that be poore when they know them to bee godly Naomi did not thinke of any vniust dealing of Ruth as if
heereby that it is there chiefely required for a man to doe worthily where he oweth that duety as where he hath beene brought vp where he hath his estate to liue by and where God hath seated him So did our Sauiour worthily Luke 4. 16 17 18. in Nazareth Iephte among the Gileadites for their good and the well-fare of all Israel if Ephraim had so taken it This is a memorandum to Ministers there to doe worthily where God placeth them and were they haue their liuing and not bee like some that can doe worthily abroad sometimes but at home will take little or no paines to teach their people This also should put Gentlemen and men of place in mind to doe worthily in the countrey in good house-keeping among their Tenants from whence they haue their reuenues and not get vp to Cities there to keepe a priuate table to encrease their estate or else to vphold their pride Neither yet is it enough for men to dwell in the country as diuers doe but doe not worthily their Neighbours being neuer a whit the better for them but are either so niggardly as they benefit none liuing onely to themselues or else so prodigall as they rob their Tenants with borrowing and diuers other wayes both sorts ouercharging them Verse 12. And let thy house bee like the house of Pharez whom Tamar bare vnto Iudah of the seed which the Lord shall giue thee of this young woman THese words be the third part of their prayer They did first pray for the woman as the builder of the house as before it is said of Rachel and Leah Next for the man because hee is the glory of the house now for the posterity because they doe continue it Heere note what is prayed for for an honourable posterity set out by the house of Pharez whose father and mother are mentioned then of whom it must come and by whose gift and goodnesse And let thy house That is thy children and posterity so as they praying before for the parents and now for the children doe teach this that they which truely wish well in loue to the parents 1. Ioh. 5. 1. cannot but be well-minded to their children and posterity so did Dauid to Mephibosheth the sonne of 2. SaÌ„ 19. 10. Ionathan to Chimham the sonne of Barzillai and to Hanun the sonne of the King of Ammon for how can wee loue the fountaine and not the streame the roote and not that which springeth from it Let vs trie hereby true loue to parents by the loue we beare to their children Be like the house of Pharez Pharez signifieth a breach because in the wombe he stroue for the birth-right and brake out before his brother Zarah who had put out his hand to come first forth to bee the first borne but pluckt backe his hand againe Zarah may set out the Iewes who were the first of Gods people but by apostasie lost their birth-right Pharez may set out the Gentiles who made a breach vpon them and got the birth-right and the honour to be called now the people of God There bee two sorts of Pharez one heauenly which striue for to be of the first borne of God this is a blessed striuing which few contend for There is another earthly when brethren contend for to get the elder brothers inheritance from him and doe labour to get him disinherited the neglect of the former is vnholinesse and the pursuing of the latter is too great worldlinesse These words To be like the house of Pharez giue vs to know that he was greatly blessed and honorable in his posteritie seeing they desire that Boaz house might bee like his Now men wish not such a thing to great persons but where there is an estate answerable to their greatnesse and may well befit them and be held a blessing vnto them and yet this Pharez was base gotten and that in incest also Whence wee may see that basely begotten may become very honorable so as it may bee happy with others to be blessed like them for worldly respects Thus also was Iephte honorable a man of valor made Iud. 11. the head ouer all the inhabitants of Gilead and yet the sonne of an Harlot Thus it pleaseth God to shew mercy on whom hee will shew mercy which may comfort such as be base borne that if they bewaile their birth and repent and beleeue the Lord will haue mercy likewise on them and register them in the beadroll of the Saints as Iephtah is Againe this may teach from these Elders Heb. 11. and people that they are to be esteemed honorable whom God doth make honorable for these speake highly of Pharez for all his birth and the Gileadites thought worthily of Iephoah and did him honor yea the holy Ghost hath vouchsafed to honor him and to put him among the faithfull though hee was by birth a bastard They therefore doe amisse who despise men for their birth when otherwise they be worthily qualified and better conditioned then those perhaps which be more lawfully begotten True it is that a Bastard was not to come into the congregation for ten generations but God can dispense with his Law and where he so doth let vs doe them honor and not debase whom the Lord exalteth Whom Tamar bare vnto Iudah Iudah was one of Iacobs sonnes and one of the twelue Patriarks and begot this Pharez on this woman Tamar who was his daughter in law the history is in Gen. 38. Whence we may note briefly That great were the falls of many of the holy Patriarks as nine of them in the conspiracy against innocent taseph GeÌ„ 37. 2 3 11. whose death they intended because he told his father their ill report for that also Iacob loued him more then all of them and because he told them his dreame for which they the more eniued him and were the more bent against him But more particularly Ruben fell into that foule sinne to lie with his Fathers Concubine Simeon and Leur brethren in euill who vnder colour of religion sought to reuenge themselues and abused the seale of Gods couenaÌ„t to shead much blood and Iudah here committeth incest with Tamar Thus they we see that men 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 〈◊〉 of godly parents and pillars of the Church may falâ—â—ery fearefully as may also appeare besides these in Aaron in Samson Ahtathar Dauid Satâ—â—â—â— and many others Such iâ— the strength of corruption when we are left of God and therefore are we to feare and to looke to our standing watch and pray continually lest vve fall into temptation 〈◊〉 and bee ouercome And also vvee may obiserue how Iesus Christ was conâ—eiâ—ed to come of such as were tainted with foule vices as of men stained and polluted with incest as Iudah with adultery and murther as Dauid with idolatry as 〈◊〉 with witchcarft and sorceâ—â— as Man 〈◊〉 so of women defiled as of this Tamar of Râ—hâ—â— the harlot and of Bathsheba which sinned in
in sinne brought vp therein and none so free euer but in his highest pitch of well-doing he may be tainted of sinne 1. Ioh. 1. II. That the Lord in afflicting his children sweeteneth the same with some comforts he wholly leaueth not them without some taste of his mercy and goodnesse as we may see in his dealing with Naomi he tooke away her husband and left two sonnes and after tooke them away but gaue her an excellent daughter in Law Elisha had an 2. King 6. 10. earthly power comming against him but he then saw a great help from heauen It was a bitter affliction for Ioseph to be sold of his brethren but it was sweetened with Potiphars fauour This at length imprisoned him vniusty but the Lord gaue him fauour in the eyes of the Keeper of the Prison to sugar this bitter pill with And this the Lord doth in mercy that his children might not be ouerwhelmed with griefe and swallowed vp of sorrow therefore by one meanes he casts them downe but by another sustaineth them Let not therefore men which feare God bee ouer-sad when afflictions come God will lay no more then they can beare he layeth on them a burthen but he putteth vnder his hand If wee looke vpon the affliction let vs also consider what cause of comfort wee haue marke when for what how long or short what it is allayed with that we bee not wholy cast downe Vers 4. And they tooke them wiues of the women of Moab the name of the one was Orpha and the name of the other Ruth and they dwelled there about tenne yeeres THis sheweth what course the sonnes tooke after their fathers death they returned not home this crosse brought them not to thinke of leauing that idolatrous Countrey but they setled themselues to marry there so as this verse telleth vs of two things the first is of a marriage and herein who they were the men Elimelechs sonnes the women who are set out by their Countrey then by their names the second is of their abode in Moab and time how long Note before I come to the words that euery crosse bringeth not men home againe their fathers death made them not resolue to goe backe vnto Gods people againe Lot was taken prisoner yet would he still abide in Sodom after his deliuerance Iehosaphats danger with Achab made him not wholy to forsake that house but he must haue more afflictions and the Prophet openly to rebuke him And this commeth for want of waighing the true cause of afflictions when they happen or desire to please other or the loue of this world or some such corruption of our heart To bewaile this our peruerse nature not easily reformed a great affliction must worke on Manasses great distresse must presse the prodigall sonne before they will come to themselues and turne to the Lord yea some are worse for afflictions as may be seene in Achaz 2. Chron. 28. 22. in Amon Chap. 33. 23. in the Antichristians Reue. 16. 11. and in the Iewes Ier. 5. 3. And they tooke them This may seeme an act of their owne as that of Lamech Genesis 4. 19. and that of the sonnes of God 6. 2. and not their mothers deed as is said of Hagar Gene. 21. 21. If they did this with her consent it was as godly children should doe to marry with consent of parents For parents haue authoritie in this case 1. Cor. 7. children owe this honour to them Examples of the godly as in Isaac and Iacob and Samson moue to it and the contrary is found fault with Gen. 6. 2. and in Esau our lawes require it godly men and learned Diuines so teach out of the Word Let children therefore herein take aduice of their parents they shall thriue the better if they doe well their parents will reioyce if otherwise then children may more boldly seeke to parents for comfort and expect helpe at their hands Wiues So women be called when they be marryed vnto men or betrothed It is as if it had beene said They tooke yong women for wiues to liue in Gods ordinance and not for wantons to liue in vncleannesse Though they were not in Israel yet they let not loose the vnbrideled lust of nature but vsed marriage the ordinance of God So men are to take women as wiues to liue together in Gods holy ordinance as the godly haue euer made conscience to doe and not to liue as bruite beasts to defile themselues as Hamor did Dinah and Zimri did Cozbi in the sinne of fornication From this must we flie as the Apostle exhorteth and from other degrees of vncleannesse as adulterie which God seuerly punished 2. Sam. 22. 10. Iob 31. 9 11. so incest Gen. 19. 36. 1 Cor. 5. 1. 2. Sam. 13. 14. and other vnnaturall pollutions not to be named Rom. 1. which God giueth reprobate mindes ouer vnto Of the women of Moab With these they were not to marry Deut. 7. 3. and 23. 3. Esdras 9. 1 2. Neh. 13. 23 25 26. Young persons in their choyce soone erre if they suffer lust to rule and follow not the Law of God Gen. 6. 2. Herein wise Salomon was ouertaken Neh. 13. 26. 1. King 11. 1. Therefore men are to bridle appetite and lust and let the Lord rule them Religion and reason guide them herein The children of God are not to marry with the daughters of men it is condemned Gen. 6. 2. the contrary commanded Deut. 7. 3 4. See there the reason and equity therof euer such marriages are not made in the Lord as they ought 1. Cor. 7. 36 and God hath punished such matches see in Salomon 1. King 11. and in Iehosaphat in marrying his sonne to Athaliah 2. Chro. 21. 6. If Rahab bee a beleeuer Salomon may take her to wife so Boaz may marry Ruth and if there were none other to match with in the world Abraham may take one out of another countrey for Isaac and Iacob may marry Labans daughter but there is no such want but that the sonnes of Abraham may match with the daughters of Abraham now The name of the one was Orpha and the name of the other Ruth This was the wife of Mahlon Cha. 4. 10. the elder brother and Orpha the wife of Chilion the younger whether sisters or no or of what parents these came is not mentioned These Heathen people refused not in those daies to match with strangers Iethro giueth his daughter to Moses which must be for his vertue and not for his wealth for hee had none hee was brought vp like a Prince but he humbled himselfe to keepe Sheepe and so obtained his wife Mens manhood vertues and painefulnesse in those dayes got them wiues Caleb will marry his daughter for the mans vertue sake and valorous spirit Saul will pretend as much towards Dauid but that was pretended in policy not in truth Laban the worldling will marry his daughters for the world and sell them for gaine but a godly man preferreth